How to Control Anger - YouTube's Most Popular Rabbi
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"If you see something wrong, fix it!" Thank you!
Anger levels are soaring in our world today.thank you rabbi for your wisdom and understanding.
Demanding Justice is vindication of knowing right from wrong, which may also show that one has a Moral Compass, as Dr Martin Luther King Junior stated " Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere". Thank you.
Shalom aleichem Rabbi
Thank you very much 🌸
Hashem bless you .
This is a wonderful message may God 🙏 bless you 🙏🙏
Ah Magnificent. The Lord works through you in magnificent ways. 8~)
We all must learn how to manage our anger. Because anger levels can even scare animals as well as people.
How to deal with self anger? When I go through a hard lesson a second or third time - I feel incompetent to get better and I fall into despair like there is something inherently wrong with me. This is what happens to me when I stop being angry at others. I find it hard to find peace.
We can minimize anger but we can't avoid it, cause, it's part of life.
Such a wise man, thank you so much Rabbi
thank you Rabbi!
Thank you
thank you Rabbi
Always on time rabbi!
Please call me when you can please. I are. Someone.👀👂
I have been listening to your lectures for about a month now and really enjoy them. Now on the subject of anger you have not dealt with situations like mine here, so please enlighten me. When you live with a partner for years who does not hear you, not your words, not your pain as a result of being ignored, and his response to your requests is 1. you are making drama, 2. it is not important, 3 you are bothering me etc etc and of course the number one lie.. you do not mean what you say, I know better than you. Now you have a partner who is handicapped and needs constant attention and is old and grumpy all the time. He resents being in the wheelchair and not being independant as he used to be. The wheelchair causes endless problems, every meal time it is in the way because he refuses to move it closer to the table to give me space to move around, which results in me being physically injured as well. He will not leave a space for me to put down his meals, now if you think that every single time you want to put down a plate of food and there is no space does not cause great anger, then you would be wrong. I warn him constantly when we are in public which is every day not to move backwards in the chair because he does not look and can cause great damage, so he backed into me the other day and refuses to apologise because he did not mean to do it so that is that. Now I would love some answers because I am not coping, I know anger is destructive and not justified but that does not help me with constant daily irritations now does it????
Rabbi is the lord blessing to the believers falsely in saying he who believes in though he were dead shall have everlasting life
Are they true to the believers or not? I have to have the understanding. Help me please!
Great man very special 👍💞
Psalm 37:8
New King James Version
Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret- only harm.
Pleace, can someone tell me where to find the Noahide Laws for Gentiles?
I would highly appreciate it.
Thanks!
Do you want a piece of me! Do you want a piece of me! (Like George Kanstaza said when he got angry!
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Anger
I need more
Is there such thing as pop-up anger, like on of those pop-up windows of the past?
Thanks for sharing such life inspiring ideas and insights.
I would like to ask on your taglines
Do I need to be born , well may be may be not but if I ask do you want to be born again once you are born or do you want to die
2 - I hear you saying someone need us to be born well how dose you reach conclusion so immediately that it's one not ones.
Will appreciate if you answer.
B"H Stopping someone from doing something bad, and giving consequences, without feeling angry, like the optimal policeman described herein... sounds like Brahma... a state in which one feels neither anger nor pleasure re. another's actions... like the state Yudhishthrarasthra gets to after he dies - his enemies offer him wine, peacefully, in Heav-n, whereupon he feels lonely and begs Vyasa, his guide, to take him from the Heav-n to a place where he won't be alone from his own family, whereupon he's taken to a dark and stinky place in which he hears all of their voices close by, and eventually he cries out, 'I don't care about 'Dharma' (duty), nor about my family, nor about Heav'n, just get me out of this stinking place', and Vyasa invites him to the next level of accomplishment in the afterworld, a state beyond Heav-n and Hell, of enlightenment.
A co-worker once told me, 'I always leave my emotions at home.' I wanted to reply but could not find the words. Later I wrote something like, 'you have to have emotions at work, you are working with people, with clients and co-workers, and if you leave your emotions at home, you won't respond like a human, you won't have compassion for their situations', some such thing. It wasn't apt. One can have compassion and empathy for others' feelings without getting carried away by imappropriately strong emotions that others' emotional expressions evoke in oneself. The only emotions one should have at work are those that enhance the work, namely the talent for empathy. Stronger ones should stay, not just at home, but in personal-only space at home. Eventually I recommended that when they can afford it, they should replace me with a robot that speaks and read English, Hebrew, and Yiddish and can be trained for my duties. It would just be easier for them. My organic characteristics are not useful.
It's always a balance, how far we can let emotions take us. I am so glad this speaker says, here, that anger is useful to flag situations that we need to go out and change, instead of fuming, yelling, nnd going ballistic about them in the presence of others... and then going back to whatever we were doing, having let off steam. Those poor other people do not have fun, and the problem never gets solved. If it makes ME angry, I would be the only one who knows why, so no else even CAN fix the problem. 'Getting Angry' is like the steamboat that is being shown off, and the tourguide demonstrates how the foghorn works so the tourists will say 'ooh' and 'aah', but when it comes time for the cruise, they can't even fire up the engine to start moving up the river, because the engine had whistled out all its steam. Maybe he will put up his talk about that story.
Thank you and let's get this message out... we have, today, burning cities, children and teens that shoot, policemen that shoot because they haven't been able to determine if the teen has a weapon, when he does not (the one in Brooklyn Center, I saw as error, but there were two other incidents soon after, one with a youngster who had an airgun, not a real gun, and another youngster who threw his weapon behind his back to show the police his empty hands, and was shot anyhow - all three deaths) and we have threats that all cities will be burned, we have loud and angry marches in totally unrelated neighborhoods just because the neighborhoods are more expensive to live in, and federal lawmakers who visit places of unrest to clearly incite more violence if justice should, according to facts and law, allow some rights to the class that is not demonstrating but simply doing their job.
Facts are falsified and anyone who even takes and post a photo that indicates that the promoted version of the story is false, can be arrested and imprisoned (case in point, Sam Montoya, a reporter who caught a photo of what REALLY happened to Ashi Babbitt, and how those aseembled were invited inside the Capitol) because even if the photo was taken down, it was up long enough for those who warched his employers' news station saw what actually happened and have not forgotten.
They say schizophrenics express anger when afraid, and fear when angry. We can't always appear calm when we see that the Devil has arrived at our own door and we can't escape the news by merely shutting down the computer. It will arrive. Anger will not solve the problems.
The energy provided by the feeling has to be channeled immediately into discerning the danger and acting to avert it, not into outward emotional expression.
The time a semi backed into my Honda 3-seat CVCC, while I was learning to use a stick shift and thought I was backing up but actually went into 'forward', and yelled 'HELP', it did not really matter that I had yelled 'HELP'. I was given a verbal warning and paid $650 to fix the car, which had cost me $850. Using available energy to purse my lips and engage my brain to recall how the stick shift works would have been better.
It's not Nihilistic to have this Neutrality of emotion, when accomplishing anything at all. The emotion that enriches life is the ability to identify with others. It's not expressed by yelling or violence. It enlightens the mind and guides action that knit hearts and minds together instead of sparking nationwide feuds.
Stay well. Let's try change the conversation on this continent from armed threats between factions to a roundtable in developing solutions to those threats we ALL share in common, the ageless challenges of air, water, food, health, shelter. Most of us share similar characteristics: we have two eyes, a nose, and a mouth.
A constant multi-cultural survival fair, country wide, or some such thing... Revive the B&W Soul Club of my H.S. alma mater! Everyone has a SOUL.
My fear about national unrest erupts into what looks like anger, for the sake of personal friends I have in nearly every state and some territories. I want to honor 59 years of friendships and the preceding 3-4 years of dependency called toddlerhood by fixing the situation. This idea that anger is just a signal to DO something is helpful. If I could redeem toddlerhood by turning out to be a helpful adult, in this tinderbox situation, maybe even the 'users' of fetuses, infants, and children would decide to allow their victims to live to adulthood and fulfill their potential.
but how can i be a guest if i wasn't invited? if i just found myself at the table and maybe i don't even want to be there? i should be grateful? take what i am given? and if the host has stood by while i was repeatedly abandonned, raped, beaten as a child and young adult, i should still want to sit there and be grateful? the metaphor falls apart for me
I only hear one side of the conversation on this video.
Do you think losing two of your child justifies angry..?
(Genesis 4)Then the Lord said to Cain "why are you angry"why is your face downcast, If you do what is right ,will you not be accepted! but if you do not do what is right Sin is crouching at the door, it desires to have you but you must rule over it !Now Cain said to his brother lets go out to the field When they were in the field Cain attacked his brother and killed him. Then the Lord said to Cain where is your brother Abel I dont know he replied Am i my brothers keeper !
Just avoid to pronounce the word Gevurah you should be fine :)
This video talk makes me furious.
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