An Adoption Story (S1): Marina's Adoption Journey from Crimea to Italy

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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
  • S1 EP11 (2023 Series) An Adoption Story: Marina was born in Staryi Krym, Crimea to then being adopted out from an orphanage in Simferopol by her Italian parents.
    With her life in Italy, she has grown up learning more about her roots within Crimea but it wasn't until later on when she started to connect more with her birth family links.
    She shares her entire journey from the very beginning.
    This is her story.
    Where you can learn more about Marina:
    Instagram: / mache.razza.diproblemihai
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    // Watch more an Adoption story Episodes //
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    EP 9 - Nina: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 8 - Zachary-Victor: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 7 - Katya Reach: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 6 - Alexei D’Ath: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 5 - Vanya: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 4 - Alex Kuch: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 3 - Anya: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 2 - Vika: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    EP 1 - Alexei: • An Adoption Story (S1)...
    This 2023 series of an Adoption story is proudly supported by MyHeritage.
    www.myheritage.com
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    Welcome to My Journey, My Life and My Story!
    Here I share my journey, topics for adoptees, my vlogs, my help for others adopted (their stories and journeys) and of course, my travels. 🌎
    I share about my life as a Russian - New Zealand adoptee. I was adopted at the age of two, into my New Zealand family, from an orphanage in Arkhangelsk, Russia. I share my cultural upbringings, history, my life now and how I have connected with my own birth family. I am also trying to find those missing links of mine in Ukraine and Kazakhstan.
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    00:00 Introduction
    04:08 Adoption Process with her Brother
    06:32 Childhood Friends
    11:17 Learning About Her Past
    14:24 The Right Time to Search
    20:07 Searching Online in Groups
    23:07 Finding Her Brother and Talking with her Birth Mother
    27:28 Questions About The Past
    31:25 Life in Italy
    33:30 Important for Our Roots
    34:30 Outro

Komentáře • 32

  • @1958RBS
    @1958RBS Před 11 měsíci +18

    Another touching story brought to us by Alex,(who is a truly sensitive and patient interviewer). Marina is a credit to all her parents; such a gentle and intelligent person.

  • @eseeayen
    @eseeayen Před 11 měsíci +11

    Thank you for sharing these beautiful stories. I was adopted from Moscow, Russia. My birth name was Артём. Unfortunately I had a closed adoption and I only know my birth Mom's name. On 23andMe my only relatives share less than one percent of my DNA. Sometimes it is sad to think about that. My adoptive mother told me I had two brothers... I wish I could find them one day, it would be so cool! While I am happy and grateful for the family I have now, I still wish I knew my birth family.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  Před 11 měsíci +4

      Thank you for sharing this with me! I know it’s hard when it comes to little information. Of course - I welcome you to visit our community and you can always reach out to me through my website if you need any advice too! Thank you Sean / Артём. Your birth name is also the same name as my half brother!

    • @eseeayen
      @eseeayen Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@alexgilbertThat is amazing! I could technically figure out my birth father's name from my former middle name. My middle name was Александрович so his name was probably Александр. I know my birth Mom was an alcoholic so I fear if anything happened to her and I may never get to talk to her, even if it is online through VK, OK, or Facebook or something. I will reach out to you!

    • @eseeayen
      @eseeayen Před 11 měsíci

      @alexgilbert I just sent you a message through your website 😊

  • @nobillclinton
    @nobillclinton Před 11 měsíci +10

    Amazing young woman. She speaks 3 languages. She speaks English better than most English speakers. Great content, Alex. Godspeed.

  • @cal205
    @cal205 Před měsícem

    What a pleasant, thoughtful young lady.
    Marina, quanta lei è dolce e brava. Anche il suo inglese e formidable !

  • @sallyr4057
    @sallyr4057 Před 11 měsíci +8

    What a beautifully eloquent, intelligent young lady. She is wise beyond her years. Thank you for bringing us this adoption story Alex 👍

    • @marinagiuliarazza6628
      @marinagiuliarazza6628 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thank you so much for this kind words! 🙏🏽😌

    • @lenaannis8787
      @lenaannis8787 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@marinagiuliarazza6628 Hello fm Greece Marina. I also think you are a very eloquent young lady and your English is perfect. Your vocabulary is better then most Americans,trust me. lol I wish you all the best!!!

    • @marinagiuliarazza6628
      @marinagiuliarazza6628 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@lenaannis8787 oh thank you so much for your words! Very appreciated ☺️

  • @marinat187
    @marinat187 Před 3 měsíci

    Marina! I have same name as you and also Russian. I've visited Starii Crim, when I was 17y.o. and was fascinated by it's beauty .It was in 1973. It was pleasure to listen to you. I hope everything in your life will happen how you wish. Marina--Toronto❤😊

  • @ceciliavallejos9887
    @ceciliavallejos9887 Před 3 měsíci

    I told my daughter that biological parents, though we may never know their reasons why, look(ed) to give them the best chance at life via adoption.
    Thank you Alex for the delicate way you handle the interviews that reach the core of our emotions.

  • @sasharemez7459
    @sasharemez7459 Před 11 měsíci +5

    From many videos I see a common them of the reason people put their kids for adoption. Adoption is a beautiful thing; it gives couples to be parents and it does give a better chance at life for kids.
    The common theme is economical hardship. In no form I am judging the decision of birth parents. I am only pointing out what I noticed.
    My family has 9 kids, my grandparents from both sides had 7-10 kids. My grandparents had their kids before, during and after the ww2 period. It was one of the toughest economical and social time for Soviet Union.
    My paterna grandfather was placed in an orphanage when he was kid after his mom died and his dad remarried but put the kids in the orphanage. So my grandfather was an orphan himself since age of 8 he ran from the orphanage and build his own life living with horses and taking care of them as a means to earn food. That man had 10 kids and he worked hard and didn’t give up any of his kids for orphanage though the economical condition was very bad. What helped him is having trust in God that God will provide. Bible says children are blessing from God, and it also says that even if mother forgets her child, God never will. Also Bible says that He provides for all our needs. My grandfather relied on God to help him provide for his family. I grew up in a large family in former Soviet Union with 8 siblings in a very difficult economy, but God always sent us people who helped us. Thanks the 90s after Soviet Union collapse our clothes came from a Christian mission from the US who sent us used clothing and shoes, but for us it was most beautiful stuff we saw.
    My point is, when we trust God, he comes through for us, and meets our needs. He knows what we need. I know many people don’t know about this, and because of fear give kids for adoption. It’s not their fault they didn’t know this, and they made the best decision with what they knew.

  • @ianhamilton396
    @ianhamilton396 Před 11 měsíci +4

    An amazing story and an even more amazing young woman. She is very impressive.

  • @dustinmayer1590
    @dustinmayer1590 Před 11 měsíci +3

    This is truly moving! Subscribed for more amazing videos!

  • @marveadler980
    @marveadler980 Před 11 měsíci +6

    So happy for you Marina!

  • @annabondaruk4583
    @annabondaruk4583 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you, Marina, for sharing your wonderful story! I hope political situation around that region will get better and you will be able to connect personally with your biological family. You have a lot of similarities with your biological brother, you can tell that you are related.

  • @jennypalmer331
    @jennypalmer331 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Alex for doing these stories. They are so interesting

  • @marinat187
    @marinat187 Před 3 měsíci

    Talking about connection.I've emigrated to Canada in the year 1995 with my now exhusband and our 8y,o. daughter. My daughter never wanted to hear anything about Russian culture, heritage ,etc.She speaks very plain limited R. language. We love each other, but it is some cultural disconnect, unfortunately. So, what I try to deliver to you , adopted kids, is that like one wise Jewish woman told me '' saying'', when I was young ;POD KAZHDOI KRISHEI SVOI MISHI. Translates as : There are own mice under each roof. The meaning of the saying -- We all struggle our own ways. With love to you all -- Marina❤🌺

  • @sirjemalmet849
    @sirjemalmet849 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This girl looks like Crimean Tatar

  • @estellesmith6418
    @estellesmith6418 Před 10 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤🎉

  • @Monkey_Paws
    @Monkey_Paws Před 11 měsíci +2

    ♥️

  • @LesyaAbdulzade
    @LesyaAbdulzade Před 6 měsíci

    Hello from Ukraine 🇺🇦