Girl in China reasons with dad for more play time
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- čas přidán 1. 11. 2022
- A video of a schoolgirl in China pleading with her father for more play time outside of studying has gone viral.
In tears, she lamented about her plight, saying “even a robot” couldn’t handle what is expected of her. Many Chinese social media users praised the girl for speaking eloquently
Here's an excerpt of what transpired between the girl and her father.
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If she continues this way, she will raise good parents.
lol
You sir made me laugh like crazy in office 😂
where is the laugh button?
@@rishabhsrivastava1241 stop watching yt in the office!
lmaoo
Good lord, that is one aware, intelligent, assertive, wise, articulate, tactful, creative little girl!
How amazing!!!
U too
Idk why the focus is on her smartness rather than the situation of hers and majority of the children
She’s that intelligent because of how her parents raised her: always learning and talking to adults such as teachers. That’s why many Asians use this technique to raise their children, even if it seems abusive to western people. But that’s how you create well taught children. The father in this clip probably wanted her to do something else than gaming such as playing outside, a hobby or sports etc. Or he was a jerk and wanted her to study 24/7… which is abusive
@@truehappiness4Uhe wanted to give her extra homework
“Please treasure our childhood days” what a very mature girl for her age.
This is absolutely not a genuine dialogue. The attention seeking is getting out of hand for parents to be making their kids act like this.
As a 42 year old that hit hard
@@platinumdynamiteat first I was gonna say you were misinformed. But these are exactly the type of contents Chinese consume regularly in their own country. There's some truth to your statement; they may be faking these interactions. Since the younger generation is very capable of expressing their words and actions, and talented (as the little girl we saw here in this video)
I almost cried when her dad said "you've been good lately" and she said "lately?". She was so hurt by that.
Burnout after burnout after burnout with no relief. Mental illness in the end
This is most Chinese parents do to kids .shame!
I can't even argue like that at 32,what a talented kid
True! Same here.
Said the same thing lol. When i do my brain farts then i say forget it. 😂
@@yolpie20 lol bro you made my day 🤣
For real though. With my 'short term memory loss' combined with my fear of confrontation AND lack of argumenting skills, I could never pull off what she just did. Not to mention the fact that she was lecturing her own father! The balls this kid must have. She's totally in the right though.
😂
Bruh, as an Indian, I UNDERSTAND THIS GIRL...we have all gone through this. You can't bring your childhood back...let the kid play
Did you notice the chair she's sitting in?
@@davidm9618 girlie's into e sports. That's normal for a child
@@valley-girl You are from the Valley. You're an Americanized Indian.
Pressure is how success is created.
@@farzana6676not really
@@farzana6676no, it's not. I am from India only and not from any other country like America but I can assure u, if u think pressure always brings success, then I feel sorry to say that your parents are either illiterate or mildly abusive. Even a smart person can be illiterate if they don't understand what someone else feels and have old time thinking. Yes I kind of agree with you too because my cousin have been very very pressurised and beaten or scolded for small things and that is why they achieved excellence in things and now one of them is doing engineering and constantly is traveling foreign and other one is still in studying but is genius and doing something like IIT or maybe IIT only(I don't remember correctly but he is doing that or something like that) but still my mom doesn't pressurise us because she also is against this pressuring type of system and she is a govt working officer who lives away from us because of her job transfer
I teared up watching this. Don’t push your child too hard please. She sounds like a really good kid and so sad. Treasure her and let her be a kid
This is asian style.But this dude still consider good compared to some who won't even allowed the children to speak.
@@beetledune9264 i can approve this from personal experience
Yes she’s speaking facts! Let her be a child when she is one.
The sad reality of many Chinese children
@@ankitasahoo6524 then she will not have an opportunity to be a “person” when she grows up. It's China and her parents wants all best for her.
Honestly I started crying with her. Father is so blessed to have such an articulate child. Let her play .
Father is toxic. Its obvious from the things he tells her
When a child starts talking like adults, you know something is fucked up.
@@SoiSomething If you think that, it's because like the average adult you think kids have no feelings nor they don't think. Also, if it is as she said, that strict routine of studying, doing chores and sleeping at a fixed time and being given little time to play, it could also make her mature faster, plus, it's related to her intelligence.
If rehearsed, then she can have a good acting career. If rehearsed, it's not the only case when a kid expressed themselves this way.
@@SoiSomething if that was acted, the kid would've long been known as a world famous child actor.
😐
@@SoiSomething it isn't rehearsed. This child is crying. Youncant fake that.
@@DAWITTLESKITTLE congrats, you realized that there is nothing funny here, just as intended.
Woah. This child is more self aware than even most of the adults. She knows when she has put good amount efforts and when it's time to say no and take a break. Something most of us need but lack.
She's awesome!
how do you know anything about the effort she has done, and how long has she been already playing?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her or anything... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247no way you just called a child crying “emotional manipulation”
@@deathtunessthe girl in the video aside, you don't believe children do this? I've watched one of my best friend's young son manipulate his parents into letting him take a bath in their bathroom after they moved into a nice house where he and his sister had their own to share. They tried reasoning and he did the scream cry tantrum resist stubborn thing until they finally let him have his way, and then all was peaceful. Some children will do that crap if you let them. Totally.
@@panda4247Kids are terrible liars. You could tell a mile away when they lie. I doubt this is "emotional manipulation"
She's absolutely right, from every children's perspective. Wish she could get her time of her own to enjoy her childhood.
This young lady is the leader that China needs. I wish her the best!
Nah if Xi the emperor is in the way!
If she led the country, China would collapse in one day, so of course you want her as the leader.
"Lately? I've been a good girl every day". That sums up her rightful, rational argument, presented respectfully. BRAVO ❤
But one day she has been a bad girl for sure, I can tell because my “angle” sister has been terrible but only ever so rarely
My 小妹妹 came with FACTS! I felt her indignation!
I thought her best argument was "How about you try it"
@@rhys1564好可爱😂
That part had me clapping for her, don't let the tears fool you....She'll make a great litigator TODAY🫶🏾🥰🫶🏾
What a mature kid. More articulate than most adults.
That's what happens when you are online most of the time and learning internet shit.
@@user-zg3nl4jf2n calm down lol it's a comment the top comment has a point though
@@user-zg3nl4jf2nnahhh
@@user-zg3nl4jf2ni have been doing that and i assure you most of us will go to degenerate path (for entertainment purpose) which will bring us deeper into the rabbit hole
@@user-zg3nl4jf2nif you are below 30 you will understand what i mean
She found life awareness already
She is on path to enlightenment
no she is just an abused little child, who has been treated like a robot from early age and u are not fit for that
@@rolandghiran3476 dont make baseless accusations simply from this video. you dont know her, and their strangers. stop making people look bad without evidence. to me, it looks like a father that unintentionally pushed his daughter too far and she just had a breakdown about it. china has always been strict about studying, so it makes sense.
@@rolandghiran3476 People like you will never succeed in life. Keep living in ur mother's basement
Bravo !!!! New generation , speak up for your own freedom and right . Salute to the little girl
😢 what a pity new generation 😮 . In my childhood even I could not speak like that. Because I already know only eat play and sleep. Study sometimes 😮 and I am still alive today 😮
She’s so self-aware and polite. I wish grown adults were like this
Don't you mean american kids ??
@@user-tm2uc1pf4iboth
Chinese kids sound so annoying like adult
@@user-tm2uc1pf4i I mean, I’m not familiar with American kids but sure. Not just adults yk. I specifically said adults cuz heck, nowadays very few of them know how to communicate.
Few can communicate because their heads are always down texting to someone. They don’t have conversations using their mouths anymore and many have penmanship of a small child.
"In order to study at all, I also need my rest." the girl has a point there
Girl has a point everywhere.
You want to rest? then turn off the pc and go to bed. Or I will cut the house electricity until morning. Playing on a pc is not resting. LoL.
@@ShadowlordDiodepends on which kinda games too, don't be so stiff.
@@Zeratsu that's what a gamer would say and I am a gamer. I finished Skyrim. Cyberpunk. GtaV. I know what iam talking about. The eye strain and brain that has no sleep is not a joke. This kids need someone to stop them. You know it. Don't deny truth
@@ShadowlordDioshe isn’t being treated well at all. No girl that young should be able to sound that mature. That’s a kid being pushed way too hard
Wow, very wise young lady intelligent and respectful.... she is 100% correct
It's nice to see good parents letting their children have a chance to learn how to defend themselves and listen in a healthy manner. No insults or put-downs, just honest and respectful communication.
A child telling her parent to treasure her childhood has got to be so messed up.
It's warning that I hope they heed. 😂
It's only messed up if the parent doesn't listen and understand. I'm sure the father recorded this being impressed by his own daughter. We need our kids to correct us at times but they can only do it if they can speak freely and know that we will listen in fairness. Mine have taught me many things
AGREE. IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE BY THE PARENTS!!! THIS IS VERY SAD...IS NOT FUNNY!
Bro is huffing Reagan red scare propagandium too hard 🤡
This is literally a child throwing a tantrum over videogames. Not evidence of china being a 1984 dystopia ☠️. Your kids and teens shoot up schools and churches because they couldn't get laid so don't talk
I mean.....it's China.....they are at the top because they look pass just being a child
Damn. How profoundly and eloquently she can express herself while in such an emotional state is something to aspire to even for an adult.
Because it's scripted, her parents film and release many of such scripted videos of her and her brother that will resonate with people and get the most views.
@@KoalaChinguOddI don't think this looks scripted at all.
@@EYESEEYOURN Chinese tiktoks are notorious for being fake, and this girl and her brother have other such videos filmed by their parents. The gaming chair is a giveaway, in some other videos you can see she has a pretty fancy gaming setup and her family's home is pretty affluent.
Probably from all the studying.
@@KoalaChinguOddso are others, not just chinese, just sayin
What an incredibly intelligent girl - she will go far ! Broke my heart to hear her tearful yet articulate argument- suicide rates for teens are very high in these countries, this dad needs to be careful - she is amazing YOU GO GIRL !! he should be glowing with pride how she handles herself not on her back …
不好意思，肯定比你的国家自杀率低。
it broke my heart to see this girl pleading for some playtime when she did everything she should
This broke my heart. Glad she stood up for herself. Kids need to play. You're only a child once.
I agree
And waste your life away on doing stupid shit? Yeah no
Just asian parents yk, sometimes parents just want us to be healthy and focus more on study to get better job, they just want us to have better life in future
@@Tacooh_ yea but not when you are 10 years old, come on bro, the real important knowledge for your life begings in the high school and university, not in the elementary
To play outside with friends but not on the computer
It's heartbreaking the stress and pressure she is under at such a young age. Her life is already painful and she's just a kid.
Sucks to be forced to live up to parents desires. Knowing that true success isn't even from working.
Meanwhile in the west kids don’t know there are two genders and they are at a 2nd grade reading level in middle school.
You because of the patriarch of white men or something like that
@@williamobando9967 it doesn't have to be that extreme for a kid to be able to be a kid
@@childoftime9964 yeah okay. Good thing I homeschool because the Current educational system in America is beyond extreme.
Girls can’t be girls became we have to make space for boys that make pretend they are girls. It’s pathetic.
My husband worked at an after school Korean school. The children would arrive an hour after school let out (3:30 pm) and study debate until 8 pm. These poor children were under a tremendous amount of pressure from their parents and were on the verge of a mental breakdown. My husband gave all the students full credit just for attending class. He would schedule one day a week to just have fun but it was extremely important that neither the school nor the parents didn’t find out. These children were between the ages of 10 and 13. We decided that all we wanted of his children was to behave and be happy. Raising a happy adult was more important to us than his children getting good grades as long as they gave education their best effort.
Dad gets props too ❤
She felt safe to express her frustration and he listened
This is correct. Children are a product of their environment. Her parents are doing great job.
No he didn't, he just filmed the part where he pretended he did.
@@robertsimpson2133he's such a great parent it seems impossible for him to even once utter something positive about her without qualifying it somehow. "ok, but don't play too long", "you've been good lately". It's tragic how whole generations are getting their childhoods stolen by stupid societies. Either it's total pressure, total disinterest or total indoctrination.
Dad doesn't get any props, he's obviously pushing her too hard and not respecting her boundaries.
@@dwl3006 And no doubt you let your kids be lgbt and all those other letters.
This girl speaks her heart. The father speaks to make him look okay.
Brilliantly put!
It’s sad that she is already burnt out at such a young age. Smart, articulate and precocious, but unhappy. I hope her parents really take what she said to heart.
Very well said, you put into words what I felt while watching.
@waitingforapril nah, kids know how to send their parents on guilt trips to get what they want.
@@steve8803No, this is not the case.
Normal Asian parents or more or less chinese parents.They always get some random excuse that makes no sense to get you working or make you have no free time
dude shut up. thery arent burned out. cmon
“You’re asking me things even a robot couldn’t do, even if I had 8 hands I couldn’t do it” she’s so well spoken wow, and she articulate her feelings so well
It's what happens when one reads higher levels of reading at a young age. I was like that, but, my parents didn't really listen much, nor was I allowed to speak much, but I digress, she will absolutely do amazing things one
I was scared for her when she said that bc a lot of Chinese parents would have resorted to cursing or smacking her.
@@s0fa274if the parents don't raise her well do you think she'll be respectful despite there is something that makes her feel uncomfortable. If the parents usually use violent approach when the kid disagrees, do you think she'll even ask in the first place?
@@s0fa274 yeah right??? growing up with a strict chinese mum, my mum wouldve totally beaten my ass
She’s right though, the status quo in this country is that most of the kids are treated as study machines, they live a harsh life while not knowing why they have to go through it. A lot of the teenagers in China are depressed and the number is going up, while most of the parents think mental illness is nonexistent, most of the time they either ignore it or punish the kids for being ungrateful. This is a complete nightmare… so guys, those jokes are true.
She's doing a good job raising those parents
she is a smart and gentle girl, she deserves peace!
“Please treasure our childhood days”. That says it all.
Very profound. And as adults, we become so cynical. I wish we could keep the innocence of kids, man.
By 18, you already know she’s going no contact pronto stat
Then go out and play.
OUR .
That broke my heart
She feels like an adult who goes back in time and relives her childhood
For real, almost made me think I might be an NPC in an OI/isekai novel... 😆
@@rukiakuchiki5136 dang, i just think the same
Fr
I had the same thought!
What a nice description!
This brings me to tears. I wish her a happy life from the bottom of my heart!
😮 something wrong when a child talk like adults 😮
She’s a wise child , who needed to be supported fully. She will become a fine adult that they would be proud of.
Neglecting her emotions will negatively affect her wellbeing.
She does not deserve those tears
Poor kid. How hard as she worked to enable someone at that age to express her pain so succinctly.
She's stressed already: poor thing.
My thoughts exactly. Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is 😂 should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
Nope thats a linient asian parent, if thats typical asian family, that kid would not even continie to speak for 10 seconds.... SLAP!
@@Ranger-ly5qf no
“Treasure our childhood days”. What a great quote from a kid. Love her.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
😂
It means that when she gets the chance, she's going to leave the house...
@@condorX2 you can congratulation him, but when she's able she will leave and never talk to him again. This is abusive. Chinese parents are finding their kids immigrate and never return because of THIS behaviour
@@lifeasrini Is this your opinion or your inner predator priest opinion? I'm with ok with both 😉
@@condorX2 lol this is more .."my parents were like that and I don't speak to them ever" foreshadowing 😁😉
How amazing this kid knows what's messed up! She knows a lot and I'm proud that she's
Trying to express about the problem between them. Some parents nowadays just don't care about our boundaries 😔
my father would have started beating me up in the initial 10 seconds and by 30 seconds all i would be left with weeping at a corner. No bullshit from a child.
Sadly not every parents will understand this. Some parents will always think they are right and ignore the kids feelings just cuz they are kids
-written by a kid
seriously tho it actually sucks to not have alot of fun, even with the pandemic fun still exists
I hate that this is true
I did not expect mayrushart to comment on this video, but yeah happy new year for those reading this, and may 2023 be a good one
That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
Bro stfu ? How many kids do you have ?
No voice raised, No disrespect served, She's obviously very emotional but still she manages to convey her feelings freely & eloquently, What a kid🎉
Kid raised her voice wdym other than that yea
@@2mb816 Yup but it was not like disrespectful, It was like she wanted her father to take hi seriously.
chill@@pianist-yx6ot
@@pianist-yx6ot she's still a kid
@@pianist-yx6ot And why shouldn't she talk about it when her dad is always forcing her to study not giving her some free time?
The maturity and pure honesty is just beautiful and hope Dad is really listening…
She’s on another level of maturity. Let her enjoy her childhood cause she’ll be just fine in adulthood given where she is already at today.
This girl is so articulate with her reasoning. She shows such discipline and intelligence at her age. I hope she gets her well-deserved free time. The fact that she recognises she needs free time and that she should cherish her childhood is so mature.
I just hope she feels better and stops crying.
@@tonytravels2494she needs hugs
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
You get free time when you doctor now 😂😂😂😂😂
She has already been targeted by comunist goverment
The clarity in her thought process and the articulation of the same at that age is a skill that most people can’t learn even by the time they’re 30. This girl is going places.
It's the facial expressions and passion in her voice for me 😅
It's called force maturity. Is when kids are forced to grow up to fast and mature as she has. Leaving childhood behind very early
Yeah well... If she doesn't burn out by the age of 12, that is...
What’s funny is like you guys are looking at her ask for help and laughing and saying more homework for you because you need it because it helps your bright mind
Meanwhile in the west a man can get pregnant. 🤣 🤣 🤣
This is the most adorable argument i have ever seen lol what a good kid
the fact she did this in clear emotional distress is absolutely incredible to me. I'd barely be coherent in that state.
Hahahahahahah same same
@@yeshacroe9354 hl
Same.
@@tiagomoraes1510 Don't be a clown. You can't say addition when she's done all of her chores and homework
@@tiagomoraes1510 lol bullshit, as if an abortion like you can argue like that 😂
She’s speaking like an adult that is so burnt out. More than play time, I think she wants her efforts to be acknowledged. I hope her parents praise her more. 😢
No she just needs play time lmao, her parents can't go beyond a certain limit when it comes to understanding, just letting her be herself would make her her best, understanding is not her parent's cup of tea
This is China parents are cruel
This
No, chinese believe that you should not praise your child too much because they will grow up expecting that they will get the same praise from the society
@@amitabha629 my Partner is from China and she's not like that at all
As a rule: don't ask your child do something you can't do yourself.
Unless it's crawling in somewhere that I can't reach! In this case, just be appreciative of their efforts
Im not even sure what that means. Are you under the impression the dad takes free time to play? That’s unlikely.
He’s likely making her do exactly what he had to do.
I have no self control with bad food, but I will 100% tell my kid to, so they don’t end up like me 👍🏼
@@darkopz What an ignorant comment, just a few decades ago lots of China was still extremely rural and agrarian, there are even still older generations who are illiterate. Lots of these parents certainly didn't have to do what they are making their kids do.
This "tiger mom" culture is intensifying now more than ever, to the extent that even the Chinese government started cracking down on extra-school tutors and the like to relieve pressure on children (seriously, look it up). It's always easier to make other people do stuff than putting yourself in their shoes, if you are enough of a psychopath.
👏👏
She sure has straightened matters out between her and her Dad without being disrespectful. A very successful and respectful woman she’s going to be in the future.
MEN ALWAYS LIKE TO CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF A WOMAN, IF IT WAS A GUY YOU WOULD NEVER WRITE THIS COMMENT
Only if he listens otherwise she will not survive puberty as a normal person or even with her life...
@@bshrfulwhy do you think that men like to crush spirit of a woman?
Her Dad will continue to disrespect her and she will leave home as soon as she can.
@@dharmachile999you don’t know that do u?
This child may be one of the most brilliant things I've seen in a while. She stood her point so excellently and stood her ground, she's gonna grow up to be a great parent with her headstrong attitude.
Hey Dad.
Be reasonable !!! You have a really great daughter. She deserves to be loved.
I'm almost crying watching this... Poor girl is so stressed and exhausted, it's obvious. She's not crying like a kid with tantrum, she's crying like she's in a deep mental pain. I hope her dad will listen and give her less duties and more playtime.
….China…. She probably has 3 full time jobs too
@imechko_familia: Probably not, it's not long ago that girls like her wore bandages on their feet to make their toes curl this is crippling them. Probably still do that in the mountains. Civilisation is centuries behind everything that is West of them. A masoginistic enslavement attitude prevails and if you see in her speech, she is appealing to the loved Father side of him, unfortunately it's not there.
Simply, the sooner she gets out of that hell hole the better. I wonder what their mental hospitals are like? They probably douse them up with meds and send them back to the universal slave camp called "home"
There is no balance this is extreme non-civilisation which is still today thousands of years old, meaning they are thousands of years behind.
Sure, they can build stuff and are brainy but not brainy enough to have any empathy - see China? See North Korea, it's basically the same dictatorship with zero understanding or human tolerance .
That's is why they worship Chairman Mao, and are fed such icons as: "for the people" "for China" that's why they bomb (even today) Taiwan, which is the real and true Republic of China. Supposedly.
Taiwan is a successful country with consolidated production and supply of tech and white goods and their lives and children enjoy a healthy and civilised normality compared to the red Chinese. Why do you think there are so many Chinese in the West ? Because they wanted to get the f- out off there...!!🤯
They bomb Taiwan, they fire on Tibet, and nobody knows what they are doing, they just feed their Chinese people like mushrooms.
Kept in the dark and fed on bs. I feel sorry for children like this young lady and I hope she manages to get away sometime soon.
Her father is so not worthy of such an admirable daughter. .........And, his daughter does not deserve such an ao of a crapola Father, which he is. And the saddest thing of all is that she actually loves her dad and tries to reason with him with respect that he does not deserve. I hope she finds friends and happiness and manages to get the hell out of there as soon as possible.
I wonder what the suicide rate for kids of her age is in China today. I bet you a hundred quid - they would always blame the child.
It's a sick, sick society over there. Look at The Tiananmen Square protests, massive army tanks against unarmed students, who were no doubt protesting against all of this crap themselves. But, hey, that's a Dictatorship ☮️
No wonder they are backward, they stifle natural growth.
Abused kids wont talk openly like this to her/his abuser due to trauma and fear, trust me. This is just a one smart, brilliant girl trying to talk down her daddy with her smart-ass words and superb acting off course. When you got kids, who always got excuses in thier mind, you'll know 😂
@@rmzbro2766 they do, they'll just get punished later. I hope you don't have kids
@@imechko_familia only stupid abusive parent recorded their abused kids crying and posted it online. Maybe your type of parenting.😂
and she's still respectful to her dad. what a gem.
goes two ways usually
Asian ☺
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
My dad would say the way she is talking is disrespectuful just because she is talking back and arguing/argumenting.
Chinese... if she disrespect him he is gonna smack her! Absolutely common in China.
Props to the dad for being respectful and listening... a lot of parents would talk over their children in this situation
This is heartbreaking to watch. The courage and intelligence to stand up for herself with such clarity is astounding. I pray that you will have the childhood of your dreams ❤️💗💖💖💖 There is an old soul inside of you. You will be a force to be reckoned with more and more every day if you can present an argument so strongly as still a young child. I salute you!
I am saddened by the distress of this child. She is clearly & politely spoken & deserves to be heard. I hope the parents get it, or they will ultimately lose her as an adult.
The last thing she said kind of could be translated to what you ended with in your comment.
Cherish my childhood or lose me as an adult
You are legally required to take care of your parents when they're old as an adult.
It will pay off in the future when she invents something that will bring glory to mother China…😂😂😂,
Thats a good father thoigh because he’s simply listening to his daughter. I give him
Props for that.
I bet if her parents understand if freedom of speech and democracy meant , in that part of the world.
I love how she have the courage to say out her feelings, and her father listened.
Golden
Father didn't actually say he agreed with what his child said.
@@tessalister1226 still listened calmly unlike most parents
father answered but at the same time.. he dont give a shit..
@@black5029 true tho
If you know Chinese, you will be even more impressed how well this adorable girl speaks.
😮 something wrong about Chinese education and life pressure 😮. Even my country had more happiness index. The most giver Index. Low suicide. And middle income country
How can any parent argue with such an intelligent articulate little girl? I loved the part where she pointed out to cherish the years of her childhood
Pretty sure she got her extra playtime. Poor thing is exhausted lol
@@MamiTT237Not really a laughing matter... 🖕😑🖕
@@lemurianchick You need help! Grow tf up.. and while you’re telling me to fuck off.. do it yourself and your own mother, I’m sure she does it better! Maybe that’s why you’re so upset! It’s not my fault or anyone else’s that you were abused! Go to therapy and get off CZcams!
It is called reality.
Many people dont know how to be a proper parent. You dont learn that at school.
I also get blamed and punished for doing chores for 30 years, let alone childhood. And threatened being kicked out if I didnt, regardless how unreasonable.
That little girl is amazing! She put forth some great arguments. She has better communication skills than I do! Lol
She’s like a woman with years of experience and struggle pouring her heart out!
So sad, she lost her childhood mind. Always work without play it is impossible
She's not a robot. Later she will have good situation but happyness not sure
@@weshweshdogg this is one of the things i hate about china... they treat people like heartless robots...
Right??? I legit teared up a little. This girl is losing her childhood!!!
YES...INDEED.
level`s ahead of the average american kid
I appreciate her Dads gentle way with her, especially while she is expressing herself so emotionally. Her argument was sound. Her obvious efforts require a reward, & it's great that she knows that enough to negotiate for it! A beautiful interaction! 🏆🙏💐
Oh mannnnn! Give this cute and smart little girl a big hug, and let her playing longer.
Her communication skills are amazing. And it also seemed like her dad was actually listening which I think is even better. Too many times kids try to stand up for themselves and are crushed right away
right. most people including me grow up with deep insecurity issues because we are always being told to shut up for being a child, incapable of thinking maturely and cannot defend ourselves and worst is that we only have to listen to the adults counting our daily mistakes... their idea of trying to discipline us is to count and slap us our mistakes and barely praised for our good deeds.. that good actions are expected but mistakes are being badly criticized. however, this girl in the video are able to express herself clearly i can tell that the dad is giving her enough confidence to be able to speak up.
@@persona5305 that's about right they think we have to deal the same things they deal with as kids is like if I suffer this as a child well you will too... I grow in a house where the oldest one not matter who is it will always be right ... My 8 year self was like .. that's down right stupid and I say it to them but I wasn't polite I have always been and angry kid. this girl is in another level.
U r right, and now I feel Iam blessed to have such parents who only encourage me to stand up for myself and even when it can be towards them once or twice..🙏🏼
Thats bcoz his dad listens and shes brave enuff to voice her mind.
And they'll tell you that you're being disrespectful 💀💀💀😭😭
This kid can go far in life. She's so polite and at her age she's so aware and knows the gap of her responsibilities
Provided her dad don’t screw her up
Has to be
@@darren1966her dad is what made her this good.
@@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451Apparently he's the one who's making her life that bad and that miserable.
@@MsSuperww there are some things we didn't like that our parents did but later in life became thankful for because we learned some skills that others didn't, just enough to get ahead in life.
Why is it that often Asians in Europe or in the West excel in different fields?
I'm so happy she got that out and did not stay silent about it. Stay strong 🤍
As a Chinese girl at the age of fourteen, I can understand the pressure that this poor child is being put through. It isn't fair for someone as small as her to be robbed of the the simplest of wishes, she shouldn't be forced to live a life that her parents have set out for her so soon, it's even sadder how maturely she speaks. Though, I can say that I respect her.
提出了一個公平且尊重的論點。做得好。
Damn... This little one is beyond her years. She articulates her feelings far better than most I know, myself included.
I truly felt her pain 🥺💔
dude what pain 💀
😢sweet girl and wise..and has tremendous stress at her age..not good
@@ninja.saywhatif thats scripted then this girl should get a job in Hollywood cause thats some convincing crying.
@@Umm_FLIPyou must have some serious issues if you saw that clip and not seeing that shes in pain 💀
It's the kind of education they receive.
That’s heartbreaking to see her cry like that. It should not get to the point that the child has a breakdown like this. This cannot be the first time that she has expressed her need for a break and time to play.
Exactly, the girl needs a hug
Heartbreaking it's to lose a childs for this crazy world, she's amazing because their parents it's amazing as well.
I grew up the same. In China you cannot play for too long. If you do, you get left behind. We are too many, the competition is too strong. If you rest and play for too long, somebody else who doesn't and has greater resilience towards studying will get ahead, while you'll be left behind. As much as I remember feeling the same like this little girl during my childhood, I would not allow my children to play for too long either if I was still living in China. There the gov doesn't help you, one doesn't have the security felt in the westen countries, you are basically on your own. It better be a well trained "your own", otherwise you don't stand a chance in chinese society. Most people in the west will not educate their children like that. I'm not doing it either since my kids are growing in the west. But if I was living in China, no matter how much my kids would cry for free time, they will only have the free time that I allow, and that will be very little by my own understanding of what constitutes success in China. I know that later on my kids will not get ahead in life because of the free time they've had, but because of the work they had to do. It's a rigged system, you can't rest for too long, if you don't play the game, work and excell, you will get nowhere in China. Outside of China there is more freedom and one can do what one wants, inside of China there is no freedom and you will do as you're told, regardless of how much you cry. This is what my dad told me when I was little. So then I reasoned I wanted no longer to live in China. Now I enjoy more freedom and my children do too! People from the west who see this clip must understand that this girl's situation is common place for almost every child educated in Chinese society. The way the gov rules the country is the same way we rule over our children. They scrictly must obey, or else... A sad system I would say, now that I know any different.
@@wangxiaoming8989it's quite sad to hear that, but at least it gives some context to the video. We don't know much about the Chinese society, after all so we can't really judge the parents for being strict when we live in a different country.
@@mynameiseden6127I’m a Chinese student. While the person above is right about the education system in China, I just want to say that the parents are still strict. But sadly it’s normalised because people are forced to be this way so their children can survive in our society. But just because we live in a different environment doesn’t mean that things always have to be this way and are right to be this way. You can have free time, what truly matters is the time management. And I believe a good mind comes with a balance between work and rest. The parents are still strict, but yes, there is a good reason to it, and I don’t see that things would change in the next few decades…
Shes adorable very wise and parents should be v proud
If my inner child could say words. This is what she would say. Wisdom comes from pain 💕. Onward, lil sis. Thank you for healing my 6 year old self.
she’s well aware of the unrealistic expectations her parents and society have on her. she’s reasoning so logically with her dad despite sobbing that not only has she completed all her work, but that she’s a good girl ALL the time. she knows her worth and the effort she puts in. i wish for her to never allow herself to get treated badly. she’s a bright one.
For real and for sure.
Yep, kids in china have it very hard.
For the whole asian kids
Why share on the internet and not keep in privacy
She's more mature than her dad could ever be.
This little girl broke my heart with her brilliant negotiating skills, impressive respect and emotional honesty. She will be a force for good as an adult.
Not in China she won't. It's a Communist dictatorship. She's screwed, that's all they want is robots.
Not in that country.
This comment is pretty naive. I would make a pretty big bet with you she will end up emotionally broken and NOT a good person because of her overly strict upbringing. (If what she says is true)
This is not negotiating. She is pleading, begging for some time for herself. If this continues, as somebody says above, it will end up very badly for her
She knows what is important.
She is very smart Dad, keep up the great work.
She's brilliant and smart girl❤❤❤ God bless her
“Please treasure our childhood days.”
“Not even a robot could do it!”
This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. This really is so emotional is hurts. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
The internet has a lot of information for people to find quotes. It isn’t wisdom but learnt knowledge. Wisdom is something deeply developed through overcoming their own ordeals through the many steps of griefs with in the end accepting those mistakes. But the little girl is still too young to be called wise. Knowledge, intelligence, and Self Empathy is all it takes to develop her own understanding towards her needs to convince or convey.
Like intelligence, wisdom itself can vary even for geniuses. It’s unique to all people as it has their own perspectives.
@@errebusaether Well sorry, but english isn’t my mother tongue. Still, thanks for explaining.
@@nightfallnoir I felt that those were words of wisdom. You didn't say that the child was wise, what she said was wise irrespective of how she acquired the knowledge, her words were still wise. I thought that you made a fair comment. Even if English isn't your first language, you expressed yourself more clearly than so many native English speakers. Respects and blessings to you.
@@errebusaether Internet may be full of such quotes but it takes wisdom and understanding to use those quotes at the appropriate moment
She proves she has the wisdom by choosing her words at the exact time it is required. She is not just blurting stuff out. She understands those words well herself. Hence the admiration for her apparent maturity despite her young age
@@hrzn202 True, indeed. She used it at the right time. But that is based on her ability to retain knowledge and understand the situation. She truly understands the meaning of those words through gaining the information through internet sources, but wisdom is gained through experience in living with a deeper understanding. While intelligence is accumulated information through the mind. It is practically intelligence that she is displaying which is fundamental to every living organism especially when she is human.
In short, it’s intelligence that is the main factor for her knowledge whilst wisdom at a fundamental level is another factor for her understanding. In an ordinary person’s dictionary, she’s a wise child but to us she’s not too extraordinary in terms of wisdom.
She still has a lot to live for before she’s even free from those desires. The desire causes conflict to wisdom. It’s too farfetched to call a child wise when their full of desire. I wouldn’t call myself wise either way as I am still conflicted in this life. Maybe in the far future everyone will achieve that wisdom depending on how they perceive their own pain to walk forward in fulfilling their desires.
Perhaps, fulfilling your lesser desires, and your ultimate desire is the key to freeing oneself from samsara. Life is still a mystery, it doesn’t matter whether we judge others or not. In the end, we’re all the same seeking for the truth, subconsciously. My apologizes for my off topic. Hahaha.😅
This girl somehow respectfully scolded her father
his?
Sorry her*@@Byom_e
@@Byom_e english is a foreign language, give us grace
@@zinhlekheswa5237 the commentor wasn't chinese though.
@@Byom_e so?
My good God . How precious and sad. I have three kids and although none ever spoke so articulately that is what their eyes told me because as a parent I knew discipline , studies was the way to success later in life. We loaded so much on my first two kids : they had school then HW and then extra studies to do more challenging math problems And reading and weekend math and soccer . Worried about grades and science project and on and on so they could get to good colleges and university . It was such a whirlwind . I knew they were stressed but I did not know a better way because everyone was doing the same and I did not want my kids to be left behind . I am now blessed with an 8 year old now and I totally changed my approach . I let her have much more freedom and friends play time . We still do the extra study stuff but balance it out with her own freedom
And play time . Covid allowed me to have much more time with my youngest in the park teaching her to ride bicycle , and so on . School about to end and we have lots of plans for summer about which she is excited and blurted out I love my life . Finally for once I feel like I am doing something right . Truly the memories I have with her is worth more than anything else
Your so smart beautiful soul..father let her play! Shes very intelligent, she understand her right as a child. So sad 😢 let her enjoy being a child..i love you baby
I'm blown away by her maturity and heartbroken for her at the same time. She has so much potential, it's crazy.
If you feel that you are not good enough and must exhaust your emotional energy well-being, beyond a child's capacity you overwhelm the ego into despair and retreat. Childhood is short lived. Allow children their realm in freedom. Good enough is just fine.
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well.
Congrats to the father.
👍
@@condorX2 Totally agree with you but I also empathize with the girl because that was my experience. It is hard being a Chinese kid, we are not given a lot of play time. I hope I can have a childhood when I retire.
@@guguendeavours2521 😎👍
This is why staying single is the best in this difficult time.
No nagging, no cheating, no domestic violence, no baby cries, no diaper changes, no sleepless night, no working 3 jobs, no STD, no migraines, no upkeeps, no arguments, no child support, no custody battle, no court battle, no divorce, & no expensive one day wedding.
Just get yourself a sex toy and focus on your career.
🐨
@@condorX2 The life choices you recommend are so sterile and lonely. I hope that isn’t the road you take. Family and children will bring you much joy.
If I had a daughter like her, I'd feel I have fulfilled my life.
💯%
me too!
Then you need to bring up your child like her to even stand a chance. Its all not by luck of personality/intelligence, a huge part is upbringing as well.
@@joesr31 And how old are you? 70?
True
even my daughter will put same arguments / expressions... we should honour their lines
This is actually really sad, no matter how much she does it's never enough for the father.... Unhealthy stress filled
She spoke for billions of kids around the world.
Chinese/Japanese kids*
🫡
For every human
Lmao not American kids 🤣
Its chinese @@staYcooL478
This extremely smart kid will go places
This is a human being not a machine!
Bro you don’t deserve to have such an amazing child in your life!
I am AWESTRUCK by this little girl's profound understanding of her situation and her ability to articulate her ordeal so well. Kids should be allowed MORE PLAYTIME, let them enjoy their childhood!
Her story is a reminder that even the youngest voices can spark change and inspire greatness.
No not really, she is just copying her mother. Its a chinese family after all.
@Linogewillkillallofy lmao she clearly knows what she's going through wtf are you talking about and she's very articulate as well. I doubt her mom asks for more time to play instead of doing homework. No clue what them being Chinese has to do with her talking to her dad about this, you don't know what you're talking about
@@Linogewillkillallofy Ok whitey....
@@Linogewillkillallofywhy would articulating her ordeal well have to do with copying her mom, and what does a chinese family have to do with that..?
@@Linogewillkillallofy Lol, actually you do not even know if she has a mother and just assume, retards.
I just love how this girl is talking like an adult, and respectfully tryna sort the situation🤌😭
She does not talk like an adult, because adults who talk like that are rare, very rare.
It's so convenient! Like you don't even have to raise her! Just focus on work, study, and discipline. If she jumps off a roof or something just make another one! So convenient!
although she can only talk and reason like that because of how she was raised (ironically). the issue is the father went overboard. the detriment is stress/overwork.
@@JuliaBl chill no need to get mad over a comment😭
This girl is our hope:
she will save all the world from stress
She has a very good argumentation and motivation.
The stress this beautiful girl is under isn't fair and she made very valid points. Completely heartbreaking 💔
Hard times make strong people
how do you know how much stress she is under?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@@panda4247she’s not crying to get her way. I can understand her frustration, that’s what made her cry. She isn’t complaining about going to bed at 9, she wants to have more play time and a little less work time and I think that’s totally okay!
@@I_YELL_ALOTShe was not asking for less work, but the ability to spend more of her free time playing. Her father wanted to control the number of hours she spent playing.
Even her father admitted that she has been a good girl. Her father wanted her to be the perfect girl.
This girl would make me a very proud father.
@@panda4247 1 answer: she is ASIAN
She’s better than most adults at self awareness and communication 😅
She is extremely intelligent and lovely child. I completely understand what she is saying. When I was teaching in China, unfortunately many kids told me the same. They have insane amount of study and duty. Barely any time to be a child.
Being an only child is tough, you have to raise both parents by yourself
Cherish this child, to have that kind of determination and to question authority with respect is a gift
Agree! 😊
Not there lol
@@skullfucker6064sad but true. Maybe she'll make it out. A lot of them seem to be able to.
She is so stressed. As a teacher myself I think you should take it easy on her. All work and no play makes her dull. She’s so brave for speaking boldly and sternly.
Females are born great at complaining, nothing surprising. If she was a boy, this video wouldn't have been made, the father wouldn't risk evidence being found of his abuse.
@@robertnoble7554 Females might be as you believe but not all females would speak up about how they feel so give this little girl some attention she did greatly.
@@zizi-yo Majority of women would or girls or children to be accurate, I wish it wasn't so but it's nature (Self defense mechanism), only a few would wouldn't so why would I want to praise them when they are the outliers?
If there's someone I'm praising here is the teacher/parents they trained her well, she learned logic really well.
Ngl I need u in my school
@@robertnoble7554 where I come from.. majority of these girls won’t speak up because of fear of being scolded. They suffer in silence and build hate towards the parent in return. It goes two ways. So allow me to shower this girl with praises for her bravery.
Oh dear what a sensible girl she is totally right she needs playtime
Very smart young girl , all the best to her in future
It's so heartbreaking to see little children being forced to do things beyond their capabilities. I'm so glad she was able to voice her concerns, and how she was feeling to her dad.
The father ain’t gonna care
the thing is it's precisely the parents and their pressure that made it possible for her to be so articulate. It's like children of single parents, they often tend to be more mature, not because they are so, but they just kinda have to be so because of the situation. I am assuming her parents probably often use this reasonings to when telling her she couldn't do this or that, so she picked up that you have to have a good reason to be able to do what you want.
Looool, this is Asian parenting. Now when you're finished crying, get back to studying.
how do you know how much stress she is under?
how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
Bro is annoyed 💀💀💀