First time (Expecting) Dad here. I just want to say, from a guy / partner perspective, I’m a huge fan of your content. It’s really important to me that I be a good birth partner and your content really makes me feel like I’ll have the right tools to help.
@@Shmyrk Congrats! We're working on another ourselves. It worked out perfectly. Our little one had a little trouble and came out 5 weeks early. This content plus the birth coaching classes I took really took the labor and delivery to the next level. Ours is 2.5 years old now and is perfect. Don't think I could have done it without the content and community.
I shared this with my husband, however, what I found in labor was that I needed peace and quiet. No one to bother me, no one to talk to me, I had to focus on breathing and I was able to remain calm and peaceful throughout labor just by simply being left alone lol The only thing that I requested my husband to do once in a while was to do the hip squeeze, but his squeeze was not the strongest and I had to squeeze on top of his hands to show him the strength....but eventually he got it. By the time he got it we had to go to the hospital, but all in all it was a great experience.
I can relate to your husband maybe he wasn't feeling exactly this way but, I think mom's forget how foreign pregnancy is to us. The last thing we want to do is cause you pain, injure/bruise something, or hurt the baby. Mom likes the hip push and belly lift but it takes a minute to get it right because we don't want to hurt her or baby.
@@3d1k3 yes, for sure, and I understand this. I was the same with my first labor, I couldn't be touched at all. For my second labor which was absolutely amazing I was the same. Even my midwife tried to press on my back by her glove was too cold and I didn't like it and she didn't try it again. Some women don't like touch in these moments, some need to be held, etc. It's all different and it's all ok 🙂
1) Help Oxytocin Flow (be intimate with her to help flow the love hormone) this will help progress delivery. 2) Set the mood. (For her to relax) Candles, bath, music, dim lights. 3) Recognize her emotions. If she’s happy, be happy with her, if she’s playful, be playful with her. If she she’s angry or concerned, reassure her. 4) Move with her (help her reposition or move from spot A to B) 5) Help find her comfort. (You know her best) get her comfortable.
Thank you so much for all your videos. I had a great labor without any anesthetics, just having my husband and positive energy and thoughts as support. I’m German but gave birth in France where 85-95% of birth are not “natural” and the mid wifes are not used to unmedicated birth. My hubby was doing everything to keep me in a great atmosphere with calm music and positive thoughts. I dilated from 2-8 cm in only 3 hrs and 1,5 h later our baby boy was born. I felt full of energy and had no pain during pushing. Your affirmations and CZcams videos were a great support during all pregnancy, especially during Covid-19 period without any direct support. Thank you for your positive spirit! :)
I’m sitting in the hospital waiting room right now watching this video while waiting to find out if my pregnant wife is about to be induced😂 Thank you so much for this video❤
Idk why but I was welling up the whole time listening to this. My husband has always been everything I need while in labor, he's so amazing and I think that's what has me emotional. I love him so much. We are 32 weeks with our 4th baby 🥰
I absolutely love your channel! You have such a relaxing, reassuring voice! I feel so much more confident going into making a birth plan thanks to you and your channel!
The hospital we went to put an IV in her right away and kept her bed bound the whole time. We couldn’t walk around or exercise or use a ball. They induced her at 6pm that day, we couldn’t eat after 12am and then the next day they gave us the epidural too early and we were forced to have a C section because things weren’t working. Just an update for everyone. Every hospital works differently
This happens to a lot of ppl. Unfortunately. Glad y’all everyone is ok tho and congrats. The induced contractions are virtually impossible to handle naturally so they will usually lead to epidural which leads to c section. But for many women the epi and pitocin works
I love this video so much!! My prior pregnancy, I tensed up and had such a scary and painful experience giving birth that it took me 7 years to courage up and have another baby. After watching this video my husband and I got extremely excited about labor and delivery this time around. We strongly believe we can make this one a much better experience! One thing I remember from my last pregnancy that I would tensed up and required absolute SILENCE along with holding my breath. This time around I strongly believe that I will breath through the contractions and would we ok with listen to songs my husband dedicated to me during our dating stage. ^__^ I love the idea of him holding me or giving me a soft touch on my shoulder or legs. I love getting goose pumps from him!
Thank you for sharing your videos are amazing i just shared my positive birth story on my youtube channel , all moms who practice hepinobirth you have to tell you practice it because i was so relaxed and thye think am not ready they don't even see how much i was when i arrived in the hospital, just in 10 min after i was feeling my baby pushing to go out ,so that means i was probably 9 cm when i got their 😊
Due to covid I will probably be alone because the hospital is very strict, I'm watching this just in case I can give tips on what to do to my partner. I'm due in November I hope the situation calm down a little bit
Thank you for sharing your insights. Our baby girl is due any moment now. Thank you. PS. Don't be offended, but I think you should focus on less hand gestures. Was hard to focus, I Say this because I think it will help on your future videos. You have so much amazing wisdom and insight in this topic and I just say this so it's even better.
I totally noticed it! But I do weird things when I talk and I could never record a video like this without studdering terribly and having to do a million retakes.
Thank you for making these videos ❤️ do you have the links that you mentioned in the video? I didn’t see them pop up on the screen like you were saying.
Hi Bridget, thank you for your educational videos to empower us mamas and soon to be mamas like me. I feel more confident with my pregnancy and I know how to better prepare for what comes next, from the knowledge you’ve been sharing with us. Before I got pregnant, I was all about epidural and c-sec if they need to, any method to safely deliver the baby. Thought it’s a no brainer, whatever is painless is the one I’ll pick, but reality is different. Now that I’m 25 weeks pregnant, I realize that it is not easy to make a decision. I want to be able to have control over my labor, but I don’t know which method is right for me. I feel silly, but I simply can’t pick either vaginal (drug free/with epidural) or caesarean. Would you please make a pros and cons video of the available labor methods and the recovery. Hopefully from there, us new mamas would be able to see which one is more suitable for us and help us have a more positive birth experience. Thank you in advance Bridget! ❤️
Yes, Mama! I might not be able to do a youtube video about that right now since I have a lot of my content planned out for the next several weeks, but follow me on IG and I'll definitely do an IG video about it!! follow me @builttobirth
I hate to say it, I feel my husband is absolutely useless during labor. Asking irrelevant questions and everything else that could possibly annoy me, poor guy. I rather him sit by the window and say NOTHING LOL
YomeAmo lol! When I am in pain, I don’t want anyone to bother me. I just need to focus on silence so I told both my mom and husband to please just not talk and let me watch tv. Just hold my hand and keep my hair out of my face. Grab me ice or cold rag when I ask and they both listened for the most part so I was satisfied!😂😊
Hi I need ur advice in my pregnancy I feel always ill sick becoz I always feel pain at my lower abdomen and now its my 38th week I still feel pain the pain cause urine infection also but now I don't have any infection so my lower body is darker than before my hand fingers also started pain my shoulder always tired so what I can do for my labour now I mean I dont feel active and I dont have enough energy to deliver so I m very scared any help please sisters
While you are a very good and informative speaker, I think you should know, that I’ve skipped video topics you cover (even when I prefer you to other speakers on birthing topics), because you interject your videos with WAY too much self promotion. This video had multiple interruptions for only 5 tips, and you even separated the partner support topic into multiple other videos that you ALSO recommend. We only have so much time each day to prep for baby, and just getting together at the same time to watch videos to prepare is a challenge. Nearly 13minutes for only 5 simple tips and multiple self promotion interruptions is excessive.
Was really here to learn and there is nothing worse than being constantly interrupted with "watch this video and like my channel oh and watch this video" literally entire thing was self promotion and it was the MOST ANNOYING THING EVER.
I totally agree. Too many interruptions throughout the video to advertise more information and arrives. I prefer to put these as links next to the description and keep a CLEANER video.
Good vid. I’m here because my wife asked me to. Also made me feel like she couldn’t trust me. This should come naturally. As a husband I have always been supportive. Wtf happened to men... that we actually need a video/help to show us how to act.
Should've been around when I was born. Both my dad and grandpa either sat around, spinning in the stool that was in the room, or turned green, left the room, and didn't come back until I was born. Men being this supportive is a fairly new thing and it's been helpful for my husband to watch these videos as the birth of our first child gets closer and closer.
It's possible the birthing partner might not be the father. There are many who give birth without the father present for whatever reason. They may have their romantic partner there who isn't the baby's father, their sister, mother, friend etc. Using partner is probably a way to be more inclusive and sensitive to those situations.
I have to say I enjoyed the video but the constant ok now go watch this video is counterproductive. My husband doesn’t want to watch 5 videos he wants one video to tell him how to help me that’s it. Also less hand movements would be good LOL
I run a big youtube channel and I do the same thing. You can’t do it differently really. If she puts everything into this one video, the vid will be over 30 mins in length and will get penalized by the youtube algorithm.
What is this nonsense about emotions? I want him to go get me food and drinks when needed and take all the abuse I'm planning on screaming out at him when I'm in pain 🤣
It’s frustrating because the video and the info is so good but to consider a father as something as vague as a birth partner is off putting. Mother & Birth Partner is so ridiculous
I think birth partner is used because sometimes the person helping out the woman in labour isn’t always the father. Maybe the father is out of the picture so a sister stepped up to help out. Or maybe it’s a gay couple and so the person helping is a woman.
Many of the comments on her videos are moms or sisters who are the mama’s support in birth. Sadly, we live in a world where the father isn’t in the picture during birth.
I just wanna point out that she used the term "partner" im very triggered by that because I'm just trying to be there for my really good friend. We are not partners. Be more sedative to titles and not just lump us all into 1 category!
I love how educational and thorough your videos are, but it's quite discouraging to be constantly called she/her and being referred to in feminine terms ...... trans and non binary people give birth too!! Not just women!
@@Rae-kw4ov I like how your barely functional little brain thinks because someone disagrees with you, they’re doing it for attention. I know your people like to ruin things cause that’s like your little thing but this is a place for moms and partners to get support, not for you to push your ridiculous agenda and cause drama. For the sake of your child I hope you mature. This will be my last reply because I don’t want to feed into your negativity and help you further ruin this environment.
@@theflyingegg3557 I wasn't being negative at all, though?? simply stating that trans and non binary people give birth too and it'd be nice to be recognized. Not sure why someone would think that's a negative thing. you're right though! this is a video for moms! and that includes non binary and trans moms, because it's a Fact, not my "agenda" that they're mom's too! Please reread this interaction because if you take a step back it's plain to see that YOU are the one being negative, causing drama, and spreading my "agenda" (like, really, who seriously says that kind of thing LOL) by coming into this video, rolling your eyes passive aggressively, and then saying I have a tiny brain because I didn't like you being a jerk to me. I just I love her videos but being constantly misgendered sucks. I'm just speaking from the non binary pregnancy experience. If something about that "ruins" anything you, simply put, you're a transphobe/TERF.
Honestly Generic bullet points , thanks for wasting time telling me to watch 10 of your other videos to really find the answer I was hoping to find in this one. Remember this is men searching for these answers we don't need to be told to 'set the mood' during a childbirth. I think that is a given ...
First time (Expecting) Dad here. I just want to say, from a guy / partner perspective, I’m a huge fan of your content. It’s really important to me that I be a good birth partner and your content really makes me feel like I’ll have the right tools to help.
Hope everything went well! My daughter was born in June of 2020, so we may have been it around the same time together. Little boy due next month 🙏🏽
@@Shmyrk Congrats! We're working on another ourselves.
It worked out perfectly. Our little one had a little trouble and came out 5 weeks early. This content plus the birth coaching classes I took really took the labor and delivery to the next level. Ours is 2.5 years old now and is perfect. Don't think I could have done it without the content and community.
@@bbrev106 so glad to hear that man! Best of luck!
I agree. She's dope. In the delivery room as I type just waiting and watching some more of her videos 😎
Guy/partner? What is the partner if not the guy?
I shared this with my husband, however, what I found in labor was that I needed peace and quiet. No one to bother me, no one to talk to me, I had to focus on breathing and I was able to remain calm and peaceful throughout labor just by simply being left alone lol
The only thing that I requested my husband to do once in a while was to do the hip squeeze, but his squeeze was not the strongest and I had to squeeze on top of his hands to show him the strength....but eventually he got it. By the time he got it we had to go to the hospital, but all in all it was a great experience.
I can relate to your husband maybe he wasn't feeling exactly this way but, I think mom's forget how foreign pregnancy is to us. The last thing we want to do is cause you pain, injure/bruise something, or hurt the baby. Mom likes the hip push and belly lift but it takes a minute to get it right because we don't want to hurt her or baby.
@@3d1k3 yes, for sure, and I understand this. I was the same with my first labor, I couldn't be touched at all. For my second labor which was absolutely amazing I was the same. Even my midwife tried to press on my back by her glove was too cold and I didn't like it and she didn't try it again. Some women don't like touch in these moments, some need to be held, etc. It's all different and it's all ok 🙂
Not a husband just a best friend thats gonna be present in place of dad during the labor and delivery trying to be as helpful as possible
1) Help Oxytocin Flow (be intimate with her to help flow the love hormone) this will help progress delivery.
2) Set the mood. (For her to relax) Candles, bath, music, dim lights.
3) Recognize her emotions. If she’s happy, be happy with her, if she’s playful, be playful with her. If she she’s angry or concerned, reassure her.
4) Move with her (help her reposition or move from spot A to B)
5) Help find her comfort. (You know her best) get her comfortable.
Thanks for this!
2:40 is the first tip… you’re welcome
Thank you so much for all your videos. I had a great labor without any anesthetics, just having my husband and positive energy and thoughts as support. I’m German but gave birth in France where 85-95% of birth are not “natural” and the mid wifes are not used to unmedicated birth. My hubby was doing everything to keep me in a great atmosphere with calm music and positive thoughts. I dilated from 2-8 cm in only 3 hrs and 1,5 h later our baby boy was born.
I felt full of energy and had no pain during pushing. Your affirmations and CZcams videos were a great support during all pregnancy, especially during Covid-19 period without any direct support. Thank you for your positive spirit! :)
First time Daddy, my wife is in labor and oxytocin is my new favorite word
Thanks for making this. There’s not enough out there for the dads. Much appreciated
Yes. I feel like we are expected to just figure it out.....and also be perfect🤷🏿♂️
I’m sitting in the hospital waiting room right now watching this video while waiting to find out if my pregnant wife is about to be induced😂 Thank you so much for this video❤
I'm literally in exact situation with my wife now
My wife is due at 3 July. Thank you for this! You deserve a million subscribers 👏
Simp
@@peytonrabideau7086 says the person with 0 subs that starting a failed trolling career I’m 2013. It’s not working. You should change your job
Congrats my wife is due This July lol
Idk why but I was welling up the whole time listening to this. My husband has always been everything I need while in labor, he's so amazing and I think that's what has me emotional. I love him so much. We are 32 weeks with our 4th baby 🥰
I’m about to get married in 2 weeks and I want my soon to be wife to have the best help from me. Thank you so much for all these tips!
My wife is due in 2 weeks!!! Thank you for this!!!👶
How was it Nick?
I absolutely love your channel! You have such a relaxing, reassuring voice! I feel so much more confident going into making a birth plan thanks to you and your channel!
We’re on the way to the hospital now to get Induced right now. This is super helpful thank you so much
The hospital we went to put an IV in her right away and kept her bed bound the whole time. We couldn’t walk around or exercise or use a ball. They induced her at 6pm that day, we couldn’t eat after 12am and then the next day they gave us the epidural too early and we were forced to have a C section because things weren’t working. Just an update for everyone. Every hospital works differently
Also during Covid times, the father cannot be in the same room so you wait in the hallway and can atleast hear your child being born
This happens to a lot of ppl. Unfortunately. Glad y’all everyone is ok tho and congrats. The induced contractions are virtually impossible to handle naturally so they will usually lead to epidural which leads to c section. But for many women the epi and pitocin works
I want to say thank you for helping me with a successful labor I would do it again !!
Let me know baby
I love this video so much!! My prior pregnancy, I tensed up and had such a scary and painful experience giving birth that it took me 7 years to courage up and have another baby. After watching this video my husband and I got extremely excited about labor and delivery this time around. We strongly believe we can make this one a much better experience! One thing I remember from my last pregnancy that I would tensed up and required absolute SILENCE along with holding my breath. This time around I strongly believe that I will breath through the contractions and would we ok with listen to songs my husband dedicated to me during our dating stage. ^__^ I love the idea of him holding me or giving me a soft touch on my shoulder or legs. I love getting goose pumps from him!
How did it all go for you this time? I had a hard time my first time without an epidural, but I’m hoping this time I can breathe through it too.
as a new father i have watched alot of your videos, they have informed me, enjoyed the videos very much. ty
Very helpful tips. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your videos are amazing i just shared my positive birth story on my youtube channel , all moms who practice hepinobirth you have to tell you practice it because i was so relaxed and thye think am not ready they don't even see how much i was when i arrived in the hospital, just in 10 min after i was feeling my baby pushing to go out ,so that means i was probably 9 cm when i got their 😊
Going to give birth anytime from now, your videos are so helpful. Thank you so much
Thanks for the video. My wife is being inducted tomorrow. I am nervous since this is our first child.
I love your videos Bridget! Thank you for sharing ❤️
Due to covid I will probably be alone because the hospital is very strict, I'm watching this just in case I can give tips on what to do to my partner. I'm due in November I hope the situation calm down a little bit
Most hospitals allow 1 birth partner in there with you
@@MariaSanchez-xd8dc my hospital too, but just for a set amount of hours
Great video for daddy to be 😇😊 Thanks so much
In this and all your other videos, every time you say that you will put a clickable link in the video, nothing appears. Just thought I’d mention it.
Thank you for this video! I’m feeling more ready for the big day :)
Thank you for saying momma instead of "birth person" 😂
Thank you for sharing your insights. Our baby girl is due any moment now. Thank you.
PS. Don't be offended, but I think you should focus on less hand gestures. Was hard to focus, I Say this because I think it will help on your future videos. You have so much amazing wisdom and insight in this topic and I just say this so it's even better.
I’ve never noticed that on her videos. You might be easily distracted 🤣
I totally noticed it! But I do weird things when I talk and I could never record a video like this without studdering terribly and having to do a million retakes.
This video is about other videos....
Can you please help with babies with colic ❤️
Thank you for making these videos ❤️ do you have the links that you mentioned in the video? I didn’t see them pop up on the screen like you were saying.
Hi Bridget, thank you for your educational videos to empower us mamas and soon to be mamas like me.
I feel more confident with my pregnancy and I know how to better prepare for what comes next, from the knowledge you’ve been sharing with us.
Before I got pregnant, I was all about epidural and c-sec if they need to, any method to safely deliver the baby. Thought it’s a no brainer, whatever is painless is the one I’ll pick, but reality is different.
Now that I’m 25 weeks pregnant, I realize that it is not easy to make a decision. I want to be able to have control over my labor, but I don’t know which method is right for me.
I feel silly, but I simply can’t pick either vaginal (drug free/with epidural) or caesarean. Would you please make a pros and cons video of the available labor methods and the recovery.
Hopefully from there, us new mamas would be able to see which one is more suitable for us and help us have a more positive birth experience. Thank you in advance Bridget! ❤️
Yes, Mama! I might not be able to do a youtube video about that right now since I have a lot of my content planned out for the next several weeks, but follow me on IG and I'll definitely do an IG video about it!! follow me @builttobirth
Are you able to put your affirmation audio videos on Spotify? I’d love to add them to my “push playlist”
I'll look into it!
Reverse pressure ?
I hate to say it, I feel my husband is absolutely useless during labor. Asking irrelevant questions and everything else that could possibly annoy me, poor guy. I rather him sit by the window and say NOTHING LOL
YomeAmo lol! When I am in pain, I don’t want anyone to bother me. I just need to focus on silence so I told both my mom and husband to please just not talk and let me watch tv. Just hold my hand and keep my hair out of my face. Grab me ice or cold rag when I ask and they both listened for the most part so I was satisfied!😂😊
Healthy Wealthy Mother LOL !!! See! That’s what I call being proactive. You made your requests clear and they listened therefore avoiding the wrath.
if the husband would do something so terrible they should not be having a baby together and they should not be together
Trust me he would rather you go do it with trained professionals!
🤗❤️✨Wonderful✨
Omg, my son’s gf in labor and they have had no classes at all. What were they thinking. I hope he’ll watch this
Can you use music in the hospital? Are you allowed to cuddle close with your partner in the hospital?
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Hi
I need ur advice in my pregnancy I feel always ill sick becoz I always feel pain at my lower abdomen and now its my 38th week I still feel pain the pain cause urine infection also but now I don't have any infection so my lower body is darker than before my hand fingers also started pain my shoulder always tired so what I can do for my labour now I mean I dont feel active and I dont have enough energy to deliver so I m very scared any help please sisters
My honey said if I get angry and yell at him during labor then he'll have to do the same back. 🤔 So.....I'm not sure how that's going to work. 😆
While you are a very good and informative speaker, I think you should know, that I’ve skipped video topics you cover (even when I prefer you to other speakers on birthing topics), because you interject your videos with WAY too much self promotion. This video had multiple interruptions for only 5 tips, and you even separated the partner support topic into multiple other videos that you ALSO recommend. We only have so much time each day to prep for baby, and just getting together at the same time to watch videos to prepare is a challenge. Nearly 13minutes for only 5 simple tips and multiple self promotion interruptions is excessive.
Was really here to learn and there is nothing worse than being constantly interrupted with "watch this video and like my channel oh and watch this video" literally entire thing was self promotion and it was the MOST ANNOYING THING EVER.
I totally agree. Too many interruptions throughout the video to advertise more information and arrives. I prefer to put these as links next to the description and keep a CLEANER video.
Seriously this is all common sense.
🧸 ❤
Good vid. I’m here because my wife asked me to. Also made me feel like she couldn’t trust me. This should come naturally. As a husband I have always been supportive. Wtf happened to men... that we actually need a video/help to show us how to act.
men used to not even be in the delivery room
Should've been around when I was born. Both my dad and grandpa either sat around, spinning in the stool that was in the room, or turned green, left the room, and didn't come back until I was born.
Men being this supportive is a fairly new thing and it's been helpful for my husband to watch these videos as the birth of our first child gets closer and closer.
I miss the days where she would have said husbands instead of partners. At least she still says mommas instead of pregnant people.
Agreeded
i think birthing partners can be many like husband, mother, mother in law, sister, friend etc which explains the use of the term
I miss when people were more concerned for the couple and baby than if they were a heterosexual married couple, bigot.
Super informative, thank you!
#stopsayingmama
No
all 5 things seem to be the same thing
To many add
Why do u say partner and not father?
It's possible the birthing partner might not be the father. There are many who give birth without the father present for whatever reason. They may have their romantic partner there who isn't the baby's father, their sister, mother, friend etc. Using partner is probably a way to be more inclusive and sensitive to those situations.
@@matejapenava4098 did u say romantic partner who isn't the father?
🤦♂️
I have to say I enjoyed the video but the constant ok now go watch this video is counterproductive. My husband doesn’t want to watch 5 videos he wants one video to tell him how to help me that’s it.
Also less hand movements would be good LOL
I run a big youtube channel and I do the same thing. You can’t do it differently really. If she puts everything into this one video, the vid will be over 30 mins in length and will get penalized by the youtube algorithm.
😂😂😂
What is this nonsense about emotions? I want him to go get me food and drinks when needed and take all the abuse I'm planning on screaming out at him when I'm in pain 🤣
“Birth Partner”… Father isn’t a bad word
It’s frustrating because the video and the info is so good but to consider a father as something as vague as a birth partner is off putting. Mother & Birth Partner is so ridiculous
I think birth partner is used because sometimes the person helping out the woman in labour isn’t always the father. Maybe the father is out of the picture so a sister stepped up to help out. Or maybe it’s a gay couple and so the person helping is a woman.
Many of the comments on her videos are moms or sisters who are the mama’s support in birth. Sadly, we live in a world where the father isn’t in the picture during birth.
Many women birth without a father around unfortunately
Husband***
Bruh.
Too much talking without substance
Welp, here we go! My wife is being induced today. Covid rules say I can’t come in until true labour! 😡
This is nonsense
I need some tips and tricks from actual partners. This isn't much helpful :(
Too much talking..
Lol do you need pictures with descriptions, perhaps?
@@sallygomez1044 no, description with some illustrations.!!!
I just wanna point out that she used the term "partner" im very triggered by that because I'm just trying to be there for my really good friend. We are not partners. Be more sedative to titles and not just lump us all into 1 category!
You talk too much just show us the way.
I love how educational and thorough your videos are, but it's quite discouraging to be constantly called she/her and being referred to in feminine terms ......
trans and non binary people give birth too!! Not just women!
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@@theflyingegg3557 being intolerant to other peoples gender and pronouns isn't as cool and funny as you think it is
@@Rae-kw4ov I like how your barely functional little brain thinks because someone disagrees with you, they’re doing it for attention. I know your people like to ruin things cause that’s like your little thing but this is a place for moms and partners to get support, not for you to push your ridiculous agenda and cause drama. For the sake of your child I hope you mature. This will be my last reply because I don’t want to feed into your negativity and help you further ruin this environment.
@@theflyingegg3557 I wasn't being negative at all, though?? simply stating that trans and non binary people give birth too and it'd be nice to be recognized. Not sure why someone would think that's a negative thing.
you're right though! this is a video for moms! and that includes non binary and trans moms, because it's a Fact, not my "agenda" that they're mom's too!
Please reread this interaction because if you take a step back it's plain to see that YOU are the one being negative, causing drama, and spreading my "agenda" (like, really, who seriously says that kind of thing LOL) by coming into this video, rolling your eyes passive aggressively, and then saying I have a tiny brain because I didn't like you being a jerk to me.
I just I love her videos but being constantly misgendered sucks. I'm just speaking from the non binary pregnancy experience. If something about that "ruins" anything you, simply put, you're a transphobe/TERF.
Changing language to cater to a SMALL minority of people is a really ridiculous expectation in a video like this.
Honestly Generic bullet points , thanks for wasting time telling me to watch 10 of your other videos to really find the answer I was hoping to find in this one. Remember this is men searching for these answers we don't need to be told to 'set the mood' during a childbirth. I think that is a given ...