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  • I Gave My Estranged Dad a Chance and Invited Him to My Wedding. But He Refused to Walk Me Down the Aisle Because His Wife and Golden Child Said It's Only for Them.
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    0:00 - Story 1
    9:26 - Story 2
    #redditrelationship #redditupdate

Komentáře • 66

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Před 2 měsíci +202

    Story 2: Oh, all the men left her? I wonder why...
    That parrot was a true hero.

    • @zachary6425
      @zachary6425 Před 2 měsíci +11

      That parrot just saved him from years of abuse and heartbreak

  • @Vikashar
    @Vikashar Před 2 měsíci +71

    When OP of story 1 finally made the right choice to uninvite her 'dad', I was able to let out a fart I couldn't get rid of all morning. I'm grateful to OP and the reddit comments that guided her

    • @user-uw6qv5mp9y
      @user-uw6qv5mp9y Před 2 měsíci +7

      🎉

    • @littlemisstink921
      @littlemisstink921 Před měsícem +6

      That’s awesome news! I’m so happy for you!

    • @Vikashar
      @Vikashar Před měsícem +3

      @@littlemisstink921 ty

    • @Owl_bee
      @Owl_bee Před měsícem +3

      I am genuinely pleased to hear this.

    • @nekorei2023
      @nekorei2023 Před měsícem +3

      Congratulations 🎉🎉 but the fart part 😂😂

  • @Deedoof
    @Deedoof Před 2 měsíci +126

    Story 2: OP was desperate not to be lonely. Careful what you wish for.

    • @zachary6425
      @zachary6425 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Especially when his ex was getting an " attitude adjustment" weekly and was probably on op's dime on-top of it all

  • @user-ue5sg9nc5g
    @user-ue5sg9nc5g Před 2 měsíci +62

    2nd story. A parrot is a more reliable family member than a cheating wife XD

  • @TOMMY716
    @TOMMY716 Před 2 měsíci +94

    Like I've heard about step parents and stepchildren who generally hate the bio children or whatever to the point of so much but these people are literally saying I will divorce you if you go to your daughter's wedding like how insecure are you

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Před 2 měsíci +12

      If I recall correctly, the step-mom.did poison her kids against OP, claiming her child support was why they couldn't have nice things (not true).

    • @littlemisstink921
      @littlemisstink921 Před měsícem +1

      Oh…you wouldn’t believe the stories I have about my own ex-stepmom and stepsister.

    • @TOMMY716
      @TOMMY716 Před měsícem +2

      @@littlemisstink921 try me my own stories with my own mother a horrible

    • @littlemisstink921
      @littlemisstink921 Před měsícem +1

      @@TOMMY716 My ex-step mom has been living in Florida for 3 years and refuses to give my dad a divorce and her daughter quit her job to become and escort and tried to get her 18 year old daughter to join her. That’s just the latest thing we’re dealing with and far from the worst…at least with my ex-stepmom. Not sure how much worse my ex-stepsister could get but don’t wanna find out.

  • @Destructor45098
    @Destructor45098 Před 2 měsíci +63

    The parrot was a chad

  • @artemislove2941
    @artemislove2941 Před 2 měsíci +30

    sorry 1: my mom had her grandpa walk her down the aisle because of a similar reason. she didn’t have a good relationship ship with her dad and decided she didn’t want to have wedding photos and videos of her with a man who would (and did) cause more drama

  • @thunderpants3500
    @thunderpants3500 Před 2 měsíci +26

    These stories are good for bg noise while crafting.

    • @littlemisstink921
      @littlemisstink921 Před měsícem +1

      I listen to them when I’m working. (I’m a dog groomer.)

    • @thunderpants3500
      @thunderpants3500 Před měsícem

      @@littlemisstink921 I do sometimes at work, usually when a new one comes out but I think I've about heard them all.

  • @mikerich3261
    @mikerich3261 Před 2 měsíci +17

    First story sucks. The new wife is so toxic and abusive that she turned siblings against siblings and has her husband on a leash.i bet he is miserable but feels trapped somehow.

    • @kimcreatesstuff
      @kimcreatesstuff Před 2 měsíci +6

      Nah. If he was miserable he would’ve found her replacement a long time ago. He loves the drama and claiming that HE is the victim of his older daughter and extended family not being patient or understanding

  • @_juju_jojo_
    @_juju_jojo_ Před 2 měsíci +5

    S1- this story was sad to just read and hear. I genuinely felt something reading that the tittle/thumbnail.
    If you guys got good and loving family members(family doesn't end in blood btw), let them know you love and appreciate them
    Glad OP isn't a doormat everything turned out just fine for her. It's good to hear she can live with the fact she didn't really have a father figure growing up
    S2- I'd much rather be lonely than be with a harpy like that bruh😭

  • @zachary6425
    @zachary6425 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Story one ntj he never cared about op only his selfish wants and his other family. And this proves he never did care but only cared about his "real" family.
    Op handled it so well. (Because in my opinion only) She should've waited till he got there and then turned him away at the door. Especially after talking dismissively about the situation behind her back.

  • @ThePawerStation
    @ThePawerStation Před 2 měsíci +18

    Parrot after the divorce: V I N D I C A T I O N!!!!

  • @bpaul1201awesome
    @bpaul1201awesome Před měsícem +1

    As someone who has owned a few parrots, they do not lie and very seldom do they pickup stuff from the TV. They repeat what they have heard from the people around them. Parrot was the MVP and saved story 2 OP!

  • @adrianflores7269
    @adrianflores7269 Před měsícem +1

    Story 2 took "a little bird told me" to the next level

  • @itsobviouslyyuta1461
    @itsobviouslyyuta1461 Před 2 měsíci +22

    W internet dad

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Same with the MiL. You know you’ve F-ed up when a conservative person’s patience is tested.

    • @itsobviouslyyuta1461
      @itsobviouslyyuta1461 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@LunaP1 fr fr

    • @maxtortarum4657
      @maxtortarum4657 Před 2 měsíci +2

      W Parrot

  • @aanshpatwa6921
    @aanshpatwa6921 Před měsícem +2

    Parrot is the best ‘wing’man in his life
    *ba-dum-tss*

  • @georgewashington4866
    @georgewashington4866 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Story 1: I wouldn't be surprised if OP was actually the product of an affair between her parents and that her father was getting married to stepmom even before he met OP's mom. I bet a prenup is involved and that if OP's dad starts being a father to OP, the stepmom would file for divorce and the prenup would make it to where the dad is penniless and every amount of money he gets goes to the stepmom unless he was paid under the table.

  • @chetlajackson9060
    @chetlajackson9060 Před měsícem +2

    Girl, I wouldn't have even bothered with reuniting with him in the first place. Your heart was in the right place but sometimes you have to know when to not listen to that. Your heart will betray you like that. Go NC.

  • @MariaEduarda-ln2ep
    @MariaEduarda-ln2ep Před měsícem

    If a person complains to me that "oh everybody leeeeaves me, oh no one stays, oh no one loves me", I'm outta there. Especially if I can see why, like OP did. If a person tells you who they are, listen to them.

  • @chemyarts
    @chemyarts Před měsícem

    Turns out the parrot was a stool pigeon lol.

  • @SungJinWu_
    @SungJinWu_ Před měsícem

    So the "dad" expects her to play the role of "daughter" but isn't ready to treat her like one...

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee168 Před měsícem

    And who says only dogs can be man's best friend

  • @cosmicrae
    @cosmicrae Před 2 měsíci +2

    Lol the parrot

  • @susioeandno1else
    @susioeandno1else Před měsícem

    2nd story- op was in an abusive marriage and didn't realise...

  • @Schodi2.
    @Schodi2. Před 2 měsíci +2

    bird is a chad a real chad

  • @littlemisstink921
    @littlemisstink921 Před měsícem +1

    Nope. I don’t give a shit if he flew in from halfway around the world or how much he woulda spent. I’d let him spend all that money, get all the way here, and show up to the venue and have him turned away.

  • @yoleveen
    @yoleveen Před 8 dny +1

    there's no hate like christian love :(

  • @beeniecat9411
    @beeniecat9411 Před 2 měsíci

    The parrot is a chad

  • @1972LittleC
    @1972LittleC Před měsícem

    Story 2: he wasn't paranoid, he was parrotnoid...
    (I'll show myself out)

  • @Burritofan
    @Burritofan Před 2 měsíci +1

    I like that first Reddit comment.

  • @Afghanisstan
    @Afghanisstan Před 2 měsíci

    Based Parrot

  • @iwanttocomment8966
    @iwanttocomment8966 Před měsícem

    Story 1, OP's fiance is the only person with a brain

  • @Kkell0x
    @Kkell0x Před 2 měsíci +1

    Dare i say
    MVParrot

  • @lttlmisslst
    @lttlmisslst Před 2 měsíci

    Why is the second story ALWAYS cheating wife

  • @Peelioka
    @Peelioka Před měsícem

    MVParrot

  • @Irondrakeshield
    @Irondrakeshield Před 2 měsíci +9

    Parrot w also kid can't say first😭😭

    • @katherinebass530
      @katherinebass530 Před 2 měsíci

      Your comment hurts my brain. What are you trying to say?

  • @Snowflakegamerchild
    @Snowflakegamerchild Před 2 měsíci

    if they dont follow their teachings then they aren't christian

  • @SwizieEatsBread
    @SwizieEatsBread Před 2 měsíci +1

    First
    👇

  • @Connorstallionsisahero
    @Connorstallionsisahero Před 2 měsíci +6

    Story 1 : Im petty as hell i wouldve shared my wedding pictures all over social media with a caption " only if my dad was alive to see this" and " this is my only family left" just to stoke the fire even more..
    Story 2 : next op is gonna jump infront of a truck then go " owww i didn't know that was gonna end me. "..when the 🦜 is the smartest one in the story..

  • @tommybell4850
    @tommybell4850 Před 2 měsíci +8

    You had no father op so why would you let him back in ur life? That's ur fault should have kept him out ur life, you allowed this to happen to urself I don't feel sorry for you because this is ur doing by wanting him back in ur life.