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- Why do some #Narcissist get worst after the relationship ends? Post separation abusive and toxic behavior
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Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
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Thank you so much
It’s very true! They get worse and seek revenge because you leave. Stay strong!💪
That’s so true
Yes! ❤
It intensifies because the one that everyone thought was the top dog..ego driven one is that when it’s never true…So, When the abused leaves…They’re taking their power…bullies need a audience…That rush..like a fix EVERYTIME they knew they effected others…
"Go off the grid on their asses."😂😂That's what I did. SUCCESS!😎
True story my ex would act like he wanted to be friends but still with the girl he was cheating on me with and still lying about. I blocked him he came over my house and beat me up in front of my grandkids. I got a restraining order no contact for 2 mos. My life has not been better.
I meant to say it has been better. I sleep at night. I'm happier. Living myself an totally unbothered her problem now she swore she won have fun walking on eggshells boo boo
stay safe!! you didn’t deserve that. please do what you can to stay safe. stay with family and make sure you’re not alone. i hope everything gets better. that’s horrible what he did to you.
WOW. This is so true. I moved to a different state from Cleveland to NYC and moved on. The Narcissis had the Audacity to asked if I can order something for him and have it shipped to his address or give him my Credit Card#. The stated "If It's not done in a few days, then don't worry about it." I had to tell him no need to wait a few days to see because I was not doing either. Then the " what I did for you" speech. When I hung up he then text me what I didn't allow him to say. I had to block him on social media and my phone...WTF...bruh..🤦♀️
They have more entitlement than common sense, smh that's for sure
man, fu3k him.
Yep, yep, yep, all this is 100% and my x has already moved on, and still trying to be petty! I blocked him!
Your analogies are brilliant! Earthquake and the aftershock!! So darn true they will not give up. The narc I was dealing with asked me to leave through a text message and I never responded to his text and was set free! Yaaay!!
Now I’m dealing with the Hoover! 🙄 I’m staying No Contact and blocking everything. I don’t do social media other than commenting on Lees excellent videos. I could care less what he does and who he’s seeing. I’m moving on up and at peace.
Another great video Lee thanks for continuing to educate us.❤😊💪
THE ABUSE GOT WORSE FOR 10 years and custody court
I'm going through this right now. It's been almost a year since I left him and he is acting out more than ever before. He is trying to hurt me in every way he can except physically. The fun thing is the amount of evidence I have to prove how many lies he told in court to the judge
Yep. The last text I received from my ex was him repeating "I want you to die" 10 or 12 times. Then he started texting the YOUNG children that I was cheating on him. (I wasn't. Never did.)
I would've saved all of that and took it to court and got a protective order against him
@@empressb444 And got a fire arm
I was aware my ex-husband was toxic, that's why I left but I was not ready for the ammoint of abuse he would try to infoict on me. I came t9 understand he stops at nothing to see me suffer and mostly uses our kids as leverage....
@@empressb444 I did. For 4 years he was banned from contacting me. That's why it was the LAST text I recieved from him.
@yugen knows good stay alert, these lunatics never completely go away. The moment u feel signs of him report him immediately and juice up your story so the court can take it seriously to keep him away longer. Great job!
Any advice? He's obsessed with hurting me emotionally he doesn't even realize he's hurting his own son.
I have experienced this. He is STILL trying to turn my family against me.
Yesssss I’m still here!!!! Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
IT GETS WORSE.! IT HAS BEEN 9 YEARS SINCE HE CHEATED , TOOK EVERYTHING INCLUDING OUR SON, HE HAD TAKE ME TO COURT SEVERAL TIMES , LIE IN COURT AND IS CONSTANTLY ON MY TOES. MY SON FEAR HIM. IT SEMEED IMPOSSIBLE TO DEAL WITH THIS.
Trying to punish you for leaving and it getting worse after is real smh
CEO Gail Boudreaux's envious attacks on me got worse after I left the company.
I have BPD and I was with a malignant narcissist. I caught his dad spying on me
Oh my goodness..currently going through this..flying monkeys emotionally and psychologically abusing now..I have to run away faster now..
I’ve had a man who won in court and it’s almost ruined me.
Leaving physically is just the beginning... then comes their wrath... and it does not matter what or sadly, who they use to try to inflict this.
Ironically, it helps to fortify your decision to run... ! You come face-to-face with the hole that is really them.
I still feel a bit sorry for him and have a desire to help .. but, I know my energy will be redirected to other matters soon, too.
I wish there was something 'in' him to realise the real truth...
The more they take, the less they have.
But.. everyone gets to choose their path though, who am I to even think or try to help.. (this is a narcissistic thought in and off itself!).
I wish peace for his soul
But, at the same time... I recognise this is not my business...
It never was!
💯💯💯
Ive seen the police drive by my house quite a bit
I have a random serious question: there was one point in time I had no sense of emotions as a child (couldn't feel empathy or cry unless the pain was physical) - is this a red flag ?
Please could you do a video on post abuse after being set free (discarded) rather than from the angle of leaving them feeling discarded.
I’m sure they are very different situations and reactions especially if they have a new supply (yes he cheated and fell in love and discarded me and my 2 children)
🙏🏻❤️
Geez 😂 its like how can it get anyworse then BAM
Back to court 😞😞😒😞😞😒
Thank we didn't have baby. He caused me so much PTSD... Lord
OK I have a question so I cut off the cause she was calling the cops on me well came to my door to serve me a restraining order. I haven’t seen nor dealt with her. I believe in five weeks I completely cut her off. What is the reason for the restraining order? I’m completely blown away she even did that but I cut her off completely and my own kids it wasn’t healthy her calling the cops when they are with me scaring them
It's to try to make them feel like they rejected you, instead of feeling rejected and abandoned by you.
@@MakeAnnaGreatAgain what do you mean
@@ChevyC-jo9pw I see you edited your comment providing more information. I was trying to offer a possible reason for a narcissist or toxic person to obtain a restraining order without demonstrated need.
@@MakeAnnaGreatAgain well, my ex-wife and I were trying to figure out why she put a restraining order on me, I cut her off over a month ago and completely last contact. I change my phone number everything so we just can’t figure out why she’s doing this.
@@MakeAnnaGreatAgain I think you are absolutely on point with your comment.
Mines left me
But it's OK how treat you.
Is there anything on this planet that's not about them and how they feel? Glad my narc is a sibling, although that's not much better than the other types of narc relationships.
This gets confusing sometimes... some of what you say the narc does I have done. So does that make me a narcissist?
For example: I've taken him to court for custody (to have 50/50 instead of me having majority custody) and for child support after he threatened to reduce the amount he was paying (that was already 160$ a month less than the State formula for calculating such). We are about to go back to court for both of those AND paternity becuz I was pregnant when he left. Hasn't shown any interest in the baby and I haven't asked anything of him either. He said he wanted nothing to do with it until it was born, which I respected. I've asked many times for mediation and to have something in writing so we both are accountable to an agreement without having to police the other. He has refused. Even told me to go to court! Then got mad when I did. Refuses to talk to me at all and said we are doing everything his way. I've asked a lawyer for advice so I didn't make things worse with poor choices. They suggested I file for full custody, even tho I don't want it, so I can request court ordered mediation.
I never wanted to go to court in the first place. It feels like I have no choice...
He discarded me got married and still keep using me abusing me so i cut the umbilical cord and moving out of is old rented apartment and is trying to make me stay in the apartment i said no and he is big mad
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@@MentalHealness moving out today he blocked me finally he said he will never going to contact me again🥳
I wonder what would happen if you were to act like you actually did love and care for them but then disappear off the grid and go MIA😂
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Why do they want u idle