Roles of Husbands and Wives | Jimmy and Karen Evans

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  • Marriage the right way is two spouses who are empowered by the Holy Spirit to fulfill their roles.
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Komentáře • 61

  • @jenn39
    @jenn39 Před 2 lety +21

    I can NOT stress enough how important it is to pray for your spouse! My sweet husband and i have been married for 11 years. My husband is an over the road truck driver and has been for 16 years... He has spent the majority of those 16 years alone. Also he had a very rough childhood so he didnt have an example of how he should act he only knew things he didn't want to do! So he is not the strongest in the communication department. He tries very hard but it has not been easy. There have been countless times when i try to talk to him about certian things and its like running into a brick wall. I would pray God please show him what im trying to say please help us to understand each other.... And I cant tell you how many times He's come back to me a few weeks later and says God has really been working on me about this im sorry i undertand what you were trying to tell me now. Pray for each other! And pray together! If you've never dedicated time to hold one another and pray together out loud you are missing a depth of relationship that cant be found anywhere else! God Bless you all!

    • @bryanjones14
      @bryanjones14 Před 2 lety

      When possible pray With your spouse !! For us it gives some insight into what's on the others heart

  • @melissahirst3078
    @melissahirst3078 Před 3 lety +10

    And P. S. JIMMY: I LOVE THAT YOU GIVE KAREN CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE!! Continue to be there for each other and bless both of ya🤗❤

  • @cherylsilverthorne9635
    @cherylsilverthorne9635 Před 3 lety +24

    I have listened to Jimmy and Karen for the last 16 years. I can honestly say bcause of their teachings my marriage is intact. Our marriage has been a topic of conversation for many people in my life "purely speculation and gossip" bcause of lack of information but 1 thing I have stood on to them is MY MARRIAGE IS OFF LIMITS TO EVERYONE BUT ME AND MY HUSBAND. I ask God everyday to help me to be a Proverbs 31 wife and all I can say is bcause of the teachings of Marriage Today I believe that I have hopefully done a good job. I thank God and Marriage Today for the instructions. 💗💖

    • @kagology
      @kagology Před 3 lety +2

      This is beautiful

    • @FatimaBWriting
      @FatimaBWriting Před 3 lety +2

      @cheryl silverthorne newlywed here trying to incorporate this same boundary ❤️

    • @cherylsilverthorne9635
      @cherylsilverthorne9635 Před 3 lety +5

      @@FatimaBWriting Congratulations on being newly married. The adage is true its easy to get married but hard to stay that way. When people ask about your marriage politely let them know that good or bad I don't talk about my marriage. Believe me people are open about their marriage and I don't want to know about it. That's between themselves. It will slightly offend them but look at it like this in the long run you will be glad you made this choice. People are good at giving advice on your marriage when they can't run their own. So don't give them any kind of bone to nibble on. Good luck and I hope you pass this knowledge on. But stand firm on this. Put you and ur husband first.🥰

    • @cherylsilverthorne9635
      @cherylsilverthorne9635 Před 3 lety +2

      @@kagology Thank you🥰

    • @FatimaBWriting
      @FatimaBWriting Před 3 lety +1

      CHERYL SILVERTHORNE Thank you so much! 🥰

  • @jacquelinesteveson19
    @jacquelinesteveson19 Před 3 lety +6

    Holy Spirit teach me how to be a wife.. my youngest respectfully says " I don't want teaching from you on relationships". Help me keep my thoughts to myself and my facial expressions too when I'm in the flesh.! Lord God, thanks for listening to me where I am.

  • @melissahirst3078
    @melissahirst3078 Před 3 lety +4

    I cannot tell you how much I wish that I had been given the opportunity to listen to you before my marriage fell apart. I know now that God has other plans, a totally different direction for me to go in to help thousands of other people. But listening to you has opened my eyes to so many things that I can now see had deviated from a path of love and respect. The narcissism, physical and mental abuse and so many other things are very real and I love that you recommend praying for guidance and help in adapting to promote the love and bond instead of so many others that basically just say pray and all ur problems will go away. God is there, Jesus is with us and we NEED to rely on them for guidance and opportunity to ACT to make a difference and WE need to make that difference. THANK YOU😊

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Před rokem +1

    The Holy spirit is the Teacher. We need each other. Very helpful information thank you

  • @prettymphilembatha414
    @prettymphilembatha414 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm single and I was blessed by this. It's a wonderful confirmation as I've often thought that I want to be like the Holy Spirit to my future husband, now I see why...it's challenging but God will help all of us to love and serve like Him, amen.

    • @1.40am
      @1.40am Před 3 lety

      This is Wrong. Nobody should be anybody’s Holy Spirit

    • @nwankaanze7018
      @nwankaanze7018 Před 3 lety +1

      thanks for being a helper and a comforter in the home. Be blessed, wise wife. The Lord goes before you

  • @taylorhumphreys3579
    @taylorhumphreys3579 Před 2 lety

    The breakdown of Ephesians 5 in Jimmy's book the Four laws of love is life changing

  • @munandalumonze5488
    @munandalumonze5488 Před 3 lety +5

    God bless your ministry, powerful and Spirit-filled message

  • @jb4829
    @jb4829 Před 3 lety +4

    Wouah,great teaching! Enlightening

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +5

    Women has a wisdom that men need to seek out

  • @naomilizama4218
    @naomilizama4218 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much for this. What a beautiful message for all of ys to succeed in our marriages

  • @hoiliswu6070
    @hoiliswu6070 Před 3 lety

    Good bless him too

  • @julalainelagat8939
    @julalainelagat8939 Před 3 lety +10

    God created sex, perverted by evil. Sex is beautiful, it is a gift from God.

  • @justinachantel8343
    @justinachantel8343 Před 2 lety

    Dominate leader husbands always want to be in control, wives want their husbands to be the initiative lover, don't be so aggressive, and don't bully eachother. The Holy spirit doesn't in force anything I just love you both Jimmy & Karen ❣️

  • @christineholliday4564
    @christineholliday4564 Před 3 lety +1

    The absolute truth! Thank you for sharing this message. I am praying this message got through to all who needed it...

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +6

    Quote: Truth shall outlast everyone lies

  • @FreeKentHovind
    @FreeKentHovind Před 3 lety +5

    I’m in the far distance relationship with my fiancé wife it in Nigeria, and this is really been encouraging ^_^

  • @jeremytai8998
    @jeremytai8998 Před 3 lety +8

    PS Jimmy puts things into perspective on the role of husbands and wives.

  • @judydyck4707
    @judydyck4707 Před 2 lety

    We just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary , but we are still not connected , and fear God , not to seperate . Counselors cost money , What can we do ?

  • @tntwashpro3863
    @tntwashpro3863 Před 2 lety +1

    I need work. Lord help me!!

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +2

    I live sin and evil free

  • @patriciamoronn6035
    @patriciamoronn6035 Před 3 lety +1

    All this is exactly what I feel like I don't know what to think of myself but I still try to be strong

    • @elenif.vlachou9126
      @elenif.vlachou9126 Před 2 lety

      we do and can do nothing right on our own right...We ask the Holy SPIrit..for it is not by might but by the Power of the Holy SPirit PAtricia. What we can do, we have seen. Teh results tell all. But that's not in alignment with the WOrd of God.

  • @ladykeia2708
    @ladykeia2708 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰

  • @gracebarragan8498
    @gracebarragan8498 Před 3 lety

    On one of your messages you said wife shouldn't hold your self from your husband but you you never said anything about husband what if it's your husband that holds them self from his wife

  • @kanemakasongo8185
    @kanemakasongo8185 Před 3 lety +4

    First ❤

  • @jtecheira304
    @jtecheira304 Před 3 lety +5

    First 5 minutes seems everything is catered towards the woman. Not much talk about submission and roles within relationship and how lo lead and how to be led in a harmonies respectful way

    • @Fearlessly91
      @Fearlessly91 Před 2 lety +1

      Self respecting adults aren’t submissive.

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +3

    Bible: Jesus said they hated him without a cause

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +2

    My thoughts are Satan free

  • @gritklein345
    @gritklein345 Před 3 lety

    The HSpirit CAN reach God's heart, LESS he hardens it, like Pharaoh...

  • @judysmith8735
    @judysmith8735 Před 3 lety +5

    My husband belittles me and treats my kids like dirt. He tells me I need to stay out of their lives and let them handle themselves, they come to me for advice I can't ignore them. He wants all my attention.

    • @TaylorKWH
      @TaylorKWH Před 3 lety +1

      Sounds like a spirit of jealousy. There's always a spirit at work in our lives. I'll pray for you.

    • @lawrencem.1568
      @lawrencem.1568 Před 3 lety

      Mrs.Smith first and foremost I truly hate when a man belittle his wife and treat the kids like dirt I will be praying for your marriage🙏❤

    • @raquelreyes2011
      @raquelreyes2011 Před 3 lety

      In this situation are we to still be gentle and patient. ? What if youve been patient and husband does not change? What if you pray and ask for years and nothing changes?

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 3 lety +1

      @ Judy Smith
      Are you submissive to him in every area of your life or do you just keep listening to the lies of Evans who wants wives to be in control ?

  • @driftwood5504
    @driftwood5504 Před 3 lety

    my hubby won't listen to him, he said, this guy is greedy with all his products he wants to sell online

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 Před rokem +1

    REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
    JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

  • @eboniking4860
    @eboniking4860 Před 3 lety +2

    Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true

  • @bryanjones14
    @bryanjones14 Před 2 lety

    Not biblical correct AT ALL ,

  • @jaystreet4004
    @jaystreet4004 Před 3 lety

    This isn't biblical. The man is the head of the house as christ is head of the church. What i hear isn't biblical.

    • @adamcollins8718
      @adamcollins8718 Před 2 lety +1

      Yep, alot of what he says is on point but then he says stuff like "I'm not the leader of my house" ......like come on dude, quit selling to the ladies and focus on the scripture

  • @mikewhite6643
    @mikewhite6643 Před 3 lety +1

    You said many things that weren’t true I suggest you go back and check your fax I’m hoping that you just made a mistake but women hold grudges much longer than men