Do NOT Talk to Me Like That | Jimmy and Karen Evans

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • Jimmy and Karen answer your questions about how to resolve dysfunctional communication and increase the intimacy of your marriage.
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Komentáře • 31

  • @JeffreyStrader
    @JeffreyStrader Před rokem +1

    Jimmy your words bring tears to my eyes.

  • @majjr8
    @majjr8 Před 3 lety +3

    Me too. I need healing inside. I don't want to transfer negative attitude to my kids. And I don't want to spew out toxic emotions on my wife. Thanks God!

  • @betsyquiles9218
    @betsyquiles9218 Před 3 lety +5

    God bless you both. I enjoy these teachings :)

  • @azsoonersfan80
    @azsoonersfan80 Před 3 lety +3

    So very needed and nourishment to my heart

  • @CoachPaula1010
    @CoachPaula1010 Před 3 lety +3

    I really enjoy these teachings. Thank you.

  • @elizabethparker5005
    @elizabethparker5005 Před rokem

    Thank you will continue to listen.

  • @internationaltraveler1057

    teachability always precedes success ! wow that just blew my mind hearing that, so true thanks

  • @judymcadams8316
    @judymcadams8316 Před 3 lety +3

    Powerful truth! Thank you.

  • @reneemoreno3331
    @reneemoreno3331 Před 3 lety +5

    I am so grateful to have access these teachings. Jimmy and Karen so love and respect in marriage in such a way gives me a great desire to have that in my marriage. I'm so grateful for this resource words cannot express thank you both so much

  • @Nunu-_985
    @Nunu-_985 Před 3 lety +4

    Every time I pray about anything it seems to get worse. Every time I ask for help in me to change the worse I become.

    • @s731s
      @s731s Před 3 lety +8

      This is a good thing!!! Are you kidding I'm so excited for you. I'm praying for you! Why do I say all this? Because the enemy can see God moving mountains for you in the spirit realm, and he doesn't WANT THAT so he is working double speed and overtime to try to place more obstacles and challenges and barriers in order to discourage you! So you're feeling exactly what tye enemy was orchestrating for you to feel!! So don't let him win!! A random person in Canada is joining you in praying for you, your heart, your emotions, your faith, and your family and home ❤

    • @nwankaanze7018
      @nwankaanze7018 Před 3 lety +4

      it means the wheel has begun to move in your favor. Like the enemys last lap on a race course

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před rokem

      @@s731s
      What a nonsense !
      All the problems of modern marriage come from WOMEN who struggle for power with their husbands.
      Women are commanded to submit . That's it.
      You practice what is written and you see the change in your life.

    • @truthbetold7775
      @truthbetold7775 Před rokem +1

      I relate 😞

    • @danicaatchley483
      @danicaatchley483 Před rokem

      Same. Five current Bible studies , writing lists of things I love about my husband, and only gets worse. He cusses yells, makes hateful remarks to me. He also is way stressed at his job . He blew up on me Saturday about his job. The job HE chose! I need a leader and he’s not it right now

  • @davidtodd5686
    @davidtodd5686 Před 3 lety

    Shalom from Indiana! & I want to thank you!

  • @tcbfanx2
    @tcbfanx2 Před 3 lety +4

    I wish my husband would listen to this, thank you for this message

    • @MaturityMe
      @MaturityMe Před 3 lety +2

      Send to his email. He will listen. He may not mention it but he will. Pray to God to make it possible🙏🏽

    • @tcbfanx2
      @tcbfanx2 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MaturityMe thank you for the advice but he has become more distant, selfish and stubborn over the years. He will read the headline of topic and move on to something he likes more than what he needs. I will try again and I've been praying about this for some time to no avail. It just gets worst because he doesn't think he needs lessons on love. He is 50 yrs old and hangs around with 20 yr old who are single and carefree. He's brought up just a couple of weeks ago, that the best time in his life was when he was homeless in Miami instead of our marriage and births of our two boys. It's really heartbreaking because we've been together almost 18 yrs. Thanks again for the advice, it's nice to know someone cares. 4 people lives here and I feel more alone than ever

    • @MaturityMe
      @MaturityMe Před 3 lety +1

      Make the topic something you KNOW he likes...😉

    • @iamdisciple9233
      @iamdisciple9233 Před 3 lety +2

      Sister in Christ, be encouraged and know that God is just and the HolySpirit is the one that will do the work of TRANSFORMATION. I've been in this emotional pain for too long.....but I have to keep my head above water. God is BIG and we need to leave everything at Jesus's feet. Sister I can imagine how much it hurts and how disappointing it is...... please seek other believers at your church and have them join you in praying for your husband's salvation.....I've been praying and I indeed am tired of the verbal abuse..... however God's great and pure love is sufficient to restore me.....His mercies for me daily are brand new......sister.... I read that your husband was homeless in Miami. I am in Miami Florida now. As I see brokenness everywhere and in many homes .....I get strengthen in Spirit to pray.....pray daily and do His will of obedience.....sister.....I wish I can hug you tight and tell you to keep racing this race will be done and we will obtain everlasting crown..... HALLELUJAH!!!!!!

    • @tcbfanx2
      @tcbfanx2 Před 3 lety

      @@iamdisciple9233 thank you so much for the encouragement, like you said, I wish I could hug you too. I will continue to pray but I'm sure as you well know, some days are better than others. God IS bigger than our little problems but some days they feel like mountains. I also will pray for you and yours. The tongue Is a crude weapon that leads to many misdeeds. Take care of yourself and thank you for your words of wisdom sister 🙏😊

  • @sarahzastrow1616
    @sarahzastrow1616 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow soooo good 😍❤

  • @presidenttrumplegitwon.8845

    I wish I could get my wife to watch every one of your videos with me...

  • @teresar6825
    @teresar6825 Před 3 lety +2

    He texting me now telling me he doesn't want to talk about it anymore
    That I need to change that family has family back I can't tell him he is wrong
    So I'm praying for myself and praying for him and our marriage

  • @JeffreyStrader
    @JeffreyStrader Před rokem

    As a receiver of years of verbal anger that I caused........Adultery tends to cause ones spouse to have a bitter, broken heart....😞......Sex ended a long time ago.

  • @teresar6825
    @teresar6825 Před 3 lety +1

    I love this
    Q . My marriage is falling apart I'm the 1 that is following the lord
    My husband is extremely prideful he hurt with his mouth today over a tailgating ticket and speeding ticket he basically wanted me to lie to the judge for him today I told him I wasn't going to do it so I'm hurting in a room with the lord just praying I don't know what else to do he is very mean really bitter:(

  • @Sam-sq1gq
    @Sam-sq1gq Před 2 lety

    Can you give me some advice on how to meet my wife’s needs? I’m also deprived of sex and feel so ashamed some days I wanna drink smoke but I know better and I know no I need to make myself better and respect myself and work on myself, after hearing this I see that I need to work on myself of my past I have trust issues which bothers my marriage I need to meet my wife’s needs and be a better communicator, I want sex and I understand that I need to stop being selfish and meet her needs she wants closeness and I feel she thinks that I can’t be close because she thinks I will minipulate her to have sex and pushes away, I just want to have a good marriage with my wife and want to learn how to be a good man for her and for our kids there is nothing more I want but to be the man she wants and needs. God help me to become that man.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před rokem

      @ Sam Flores
      You are completely controlled by your wife. You don't even care about what the BIBLE says about your RIGHT to sex and how you have power over her body and she has none.1 Co 7:5
      Marriage without sex is no marriage at all.
      God wants men to go to their wives and have sex anytime they want and neeed to.
      You are talking like a kid afraid of offending his mommy.
      It is a disgrace.
      Your wife's needs are the same as you : SEX . Because a husband is told to render his wife her DUE in bed 1 Co 7:5
      Closeness is connected to SEX. Only sex can bring a man and his wife closer !! That's GOD's way.
      Stop listening to your sinful wife who wants control and who does have control and do it GOD's way.
      Your wife does NOT own her body anymore. YOU do. That's what the Bible teaches . But that's not what Evans teaches at all.
      Evans teaches lies .
      How can you be deprived of sex if YOU have power over your wife's body ?
      " want to learn how to be a good man for her"
      The woman was made for the man. Not the man for the woman.
      Evans and co just teach FEMINISM.

  • @Rancid-Jane
    @Rancid-Jane Před 3 lety

    Wounded as a child. Obviously that is what happened to tRump.