Lovely Video! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a smashing one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my work buddy finally got amazing success with it.
Do not watch porn, either u or with your spouse. That means you are inviting outsiders in your marriage and that your heart is not focus to your spouse.
And porn turns a man into a wild beast. Men are supposed to give pleasure to their wife and not hurt her. What we see in porn is a man going down hard on the woman while she suffer in pain.
My wife doesn’t care😞. We’ve been to countless seminars and pastors and read books, listened to podcasts, marriage counseling that have all said the exact same things. Our marriage counselor says my wife and father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies. Her dad has made her his surrogate wife and tells me flat out “she’s MY daughter” and “she’s my best friend” and tells me this isn’t how marriage works (he’s divorced and 3 times at that). I recorded one of his verbal beat downs when I confronted him about a boundary he crossed and let our pastor hear it. He shook his head say it that’s not acceptable, but then said he isn’t a marriage counselor and walked away. My father in law does everything he can to remain her provider and make sure she constantly looks to him for her needs. It’s so bad I’ve actually had people ask if they could be having sex. Because of this relationship dynamic she can’t leave and cleave and has intimacy issues. Getting close to me makes her feel guilty for not giving that to her daddy. So we have no intimacy on any level. I’m here to meet her needs only. She says sex isn’t important and flirting is only for young couples. She tells me her daddy will always be her number one man. I live in a marriage with a one sided covenant. When I look in the mirror all I see is a tool for her needs. We don’t have sex for many months at a time. There is no kissing or hugging or holding hands or saying I love you, but I watch her do those things with everyone else. I don’t remember what it feels like to place my lips on hers. The second I let her know that this is hurting me she starts bullying me down (counselor’s words). Everything is fine with her as long as I don’t say anything. We haven’t had sex in almost a year this go around and the lack of Intimacy and oneness in our marriage with her dad as a third wheel is wrecking our family on all levels. It’s been 14 years of this so far. Where is the end of the tunnel? I can’t take much more, but she’s my wife. She’s done listening to everyone else so she stopped going to counseling, but whatever her dad says trumps everyone else anyway.
Hey Buddy, I'm in a very similar scenario. Except, next week, it'll be our 24th anniversary. I have just succumb to accepting that I'm just a putz,loser,or something. Awaiting an answer/ update.......
Have you prayed and sought God on what you should do? I'm still saying this even if you've done it before. Really listen He will lead you. Remind Him of His word and speak it over your marriage. But really pray. These are came to mind after reading your comment. Don't give up you can overcome this. You are more than a conquerer.
Please Watch emmanuel.tv some times we just need prayers and delivrance to get out of some situations. Do this and watch God restore your marriage and every aspect of your life. Stay blessed brother.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
This whole message just made me want to cry.
Lovely Video! Sorry for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a smashing one of a kind product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my work buddy finally got amazing success with it.
Thank you for sharing biblical truths & being transparent.
Do not watch porn, either u or with your spouse. That means you are inviting outsiders in your marriage and that your heart is not focus to your spouse.
That was eye opening.
And porn turns a man into a wild beast. Men are supposed to give pleasure to their wife and not hurt her. What we see in porn is a man going down hard on the woman while she suffer in pain.
That was powerful and very informational. THANK YOU
This is a great teaching. Thank you Pastor!
Thank you for you wisdom 👏🏿👏🏿love your teaching
Wonderful Godly wisdom.
My wife doesn’t care😞. We’ve been to countless seminars and pastors and read books, listened to podcasts, marriage counseling that have all said the exact same things. Our marriage counselor says my wife and father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies. Her dad has made her his surrogate wife and tells me flat out “she’s MY daughter” and “she’s my best friend” and tells me this isn’t how marriage works (he’s divorced and 3 times at that). I recorded one of his verbal beat downs when I confronted him about a boundary he crossed and let our pastor hear it. He shook his head say it that’s not acceptable, but then said he isn’t a marriage counselor and walked away. My father in law does everything he can to remain her provider and make sure she constantly looks to him for her needs. It’s so bad I’ve actually had people ask if they could be having sex. Because of this relationship dynamic she can’t leave and cleave and has intimacy issues. Getting close to me makes her feel guilty for not giving that to her daddy. So we have no intimacy on any level. I’m here to meet her needs only. She says sex isn’t important and flirting is only for young couples. She tells me her daddy will always be her number one man. I live in a marriage with a one sided covenant. When I look in the mirror all I see is a tool for her needs. We don’t have sex for many months at a time. There is no kissing or hugging or holding hands or saying I love you, but I watch her do those things with everyone else. I don’t remember what it feels like to place my lips on hers. The second I let her know that this is hurting me she starts bullying me down (counselor’s words). Everything is fine with her as long as I don’t say anything. We haven’t had sex in almost a year this go around and the lack of Intimacy and oneness in our marriage with her dad as a third wheel is wrecking our family on all levels. It’s been 14 years of this so far. Where is the end of the tunnel? I can’t take much more, but she’s my wife. She’s done listening to everyone else so she stopped going to counseling, but whatever her dad says trumps everyone else anyway.
Hey Buddy, I'm in a very similar scenario. Except, next week, it'll be our 24th anniversary.
I have just succumb to accepting that I'm just a putz,loser,or something.
Awaiting an answer/ update.......
Casey Burnett it you’re in the same situation I wouldn’t call you any of those. I would call them dysfunctional.
Have you prayed and sought God on what you should do? I'm still saying this even if you've done it before. Really listen He will lead you. Remind Him of His word and speak it over your marriage. But really pray. These are came to mind after reading your comment. Don't give up you can overcome this. You are more than a conquerer.
Please Watch emmanuel.tv some times we just need prayers and delivrance to get out of some situations. Do this and watch God restore your marriage and every aspect of your life. Stay blessed brother.
@@Me73636 thank you. I’ll take a look.
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
Thank you🙏🏼
Amazing message thank you Pastor for speaking the truth!
How can this get a thumbs down ?
great
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I determined to preach Christ Crucified.. St. Paul.⬆️✝️⬆️✅
laws, laws, laws,...🤑🤑🤑