BODY COUNT MATTERS? | Rubeauti's PODCAST | Behind the Scenes
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Here you can see traditional and modern opinions of Filipino women on body count. What are your thoughts about it?
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Most Filipinas don’t date Western men, but it’s important for them to remember how we think. What we may put up with for a short term girlfriend is not the same as what we want long term.
Based off of personal experience, if i were still in the market for a wife, I would NOT go anywhere near a woman with a high body count. Nor would a reccomend a woman go anywhere near a man with one.
The reason for this is that it's very much true that a person's past behavior is very predictable of what their future behavior will be.
So if you want a husband or wife that is very likely to screw around on you... go ahead and ignore their body count.
...but don't be too suprised when the fall back on old habits if they get unhappy with you, rather than trying to fix whatever is wrong in the relationship.
What if the high body count man had 6 mansions and 3 Bugattis? Good luck recommending women stay away.
@Water Bug - The women going after that type are very unlikely to be terribly worried about a relationship, and probably won't care, so long as they get their cut of the cash.
@Water Bug - The women going after that type are very unlikely to be terribly worried about a relationship, and probably won't care, so long as they get their cut of the cash.
High body count translates to "For recreational use only". In reality a woman's opinion on body count is irrelevant. It is men's opinion that is important. The ladies can defend a high body count all they want. Women control access to sex while men control access to relationships. This interview is Gold for men thinking of going to the RP. Translation: There are plenty of women who will sleep around in the cities (and the provinces) because this is how they are vetting men for the future. "I need to find out if we are sexually compatible". This is modern Western feminism. It is poison. Time is short if you want to find a wife in the RP gentlemen ......... use your big head only.
In general.... A woman's inability to pair bond with a high body count falls right in line with that divorce statistic. I wonder how much higher that statistic would be if you included Long term relationships in it. As men are boarding the plane for the Philippines they can hear in the distance "I don't need no man"
Pair bonding is the issue. More failed partners less likely to bond.
For me, someone that has a really high body count is probably not able to maintain a stable relationship. I do know a guy who is married to a prior escort however, and they've done really well for over 5 years. She was from an impoverished country and trying to survive.
It is really important to be compatible and enjoy the physical part of your relationship.
This is not just an opinion. It's a verifiable biological fact. A high body count inevitably comes with emotional trauma.
There's a difference between an escort and someone who sleeps around looking for love. I's easier to detach from emotion when it's for money so I'm not surprised you know someone whose dated an escort for 5 years and like you say people have to be compatible:-)
Old habits are hard to brake.(unhappy in a relationship and decide to "explore" to see if something better is out there...).
@@JCJW101 Women never detach from emotion with sex. The reason she is loyal to that man is because he saved her from poverty and gave her a good life. Her loyalty is not because she's a good woman.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 You're wrong, they can detach in certain circumstances like getting paid for sex or having a fling in a foreign country. If they're interested in you and want you then yes there is normally an emotional attachment.
If body counts don't matter to many Filipinas then why do they lie about it. When a foreigner finds out the truth because she is lying he should break up with her. I did exactly this.
Yes, so many Filipinas lie about it! I caught a few lying when trying to get to know them by asking certain questions. They know that it's important, all women know it's important. They act like it isn't because they have slept around a TON. Very disgusting.
No guy will be 100% honest !! That coming from a 99% honest guy 😀
I was with my response to original video 💯%
No woman either!
Ha hahaha ☺️
That was an interesting vid on the subject. As for the study, I'm thinking the virgins are probably also more religious, making them less likely to divorce, period.
It's the paradox of choice, exclamation point.
No matter how good they sound/look; someone, somewhere, is tired of their *stuff*.
When starting a relationship, past matters when it comes to a pattern of personality. If they aren’t bringing it up… don’t dig too deep. Give the person a chance to grow/start-over. Body counts plateau. Is your body count 30 in a life time, or in a week?
Men of value who wants to wife you up ..will care about your past... lower the number ,the better💪🏿👍🏿
That's Bull And Really Quite Sexist.
It's ok For men to Rack up the Numbers But Not Women?
Sexist. What Matters Far More Than The Numer of People They Have Slept With Is Were They Practicing Safe Sex. You Don't Want To be Getting Sexually Transmitted Diseases or Passing Them on.
Ideally, Sleeping only with Those You Truly Love, But Seriously, Numbers Really Aren't The Big Picture Here.
@@dustbusterz It sexist if they don't have low numbers. The man did not say he has high numbers. Many women with low numbers do not want men with high numbers.
@@5050TM
Seems You Have No Concept of What Sexist even is.
High Numbers Is Not Automatically Sexist.
Who cares if it's sexist. People want what they want. Men want virgin women, nothing you can do to stop that. Either adapt, or get over it.@@dustbusterz
Ever notice that in discussions like this you will never hear words like morality or virtue. It almost sounds like they are talking about buying the best used car.
I have never been with a virgin. When I lost my virginity, it was with a woman with a high body count. It was easier for her to let me go than it was for me to let her go. Virginity is pretty rare in most mature older women. I tend to count relationships more than I do the number of bodies. People can get tested to see if they are disease free.
Relationship count is something a women may be a little more honest about...but of course in all cases the problem is always the man. Body count is something virtually all women with more than 3 will hide. They say "it doesn't matter" and will tell their friends, but a guy she wants to marry? No freaking way. She will hide from him forever.
So yeah, no point counting bodies, because you can't learn the truth. But many clear signs.
If his count was 70 the question a girl will most probably ask is ‘If you’ve done it so many times how do you explain why you’re not very good at it by now?’
Men have sex to nut, not to please women.
Simps have sex to please women.
Women will line up to have sex with a high value man who doesn't please them in bed. She's after being pleased the other 99.9% of the time.
Unless he rocks her world
I'm 51 and have never been married, so yes, I do have a "body count", but not an extreme one. But if my Filipina was a virgin, I could very easily wait until we married. I would consider it both an honor and a duty to do so.
your hand dont count
@@pull-my-finger-1 what if it's your hand?
@@jemmrich maybe your hands
Here Here!
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Guys will see bc as a reflection of a woman's character, not as something separate to look beyond.
I love your new format for your vlog it's much more natural having conversations about topics
I am afraid the western attitude must be spreading to the Philippines which is disheartening. The correct answer for both men and women should be of course it matters, if you have respect and integrity. I am 55 and my BC is 4 including my 18.5 year marriage. I don't take intimacy lightly and high body count shows a lack of morals and integrity for the whole physical aspect of what a true relationship should be. It just seems way to casual and it shouldn't be. I hope the girls who say it doesn't matter are the exception and not the rule in the Philippines. Your other video you shared shocked me too because the answer should be yes it matters! They almost sound like western women and that's not a good thing.
Good for you. But women would be more impressed if your BC was 100. Women like men other women want. Women know men aren't affected by a high number. Sex is just sex for most men. So they don't have a negative view and only see the upside "this dude must be good". Men and women both know women are damaged by a high count.
@@MrWaterbugdesign luckily I am not here to impress those types of women. I want just one that holds their personal body to higher standards like I tried to do. Still think it matters for both men and women. Men don't get a pass, it takes two to tango.
The higher the body count the higher the rate of depression for the woman ♀️👠
Yup. So many depressed women taking antidepressants now. When I was younger, most women were happy and cheerful. But that was back when they had some dignity.
A woman's body count matters to men looking for a serious relationship!!! Women do NOT need to debate the body count topic any more, men have already said they will NOT commit to a woman with a high body count long enough for women to understand men will NOT accept it. It doesn't matter how a woman feels about this topic because women have ABSOLUTELY NO SAY in what a mans standards are, ONLY the man does, and one of those standards is LOW body count, if that's not her he will NOT commit to her, end of discussion. The PAST matters!!! Once you ring that bell it can't be unrung, just as your past can't be undone. The past is a glimpse into future behaviors, if a woman was promiscuous and having all the "fun" she wanted in her past, why would a man believe she will change and be loyal and faithful to him. How would he be able to TRUST her? She doesn't get to claim and PRETEND to be religious, because the Bible is very clear on promiscuity, or do you need a reminder of what your God did to Sodom and Gomorrah for their sexual behaviors. Both ladies said "Body count doesn't matter," then said "They would ask the person why they have that body count," very much PROVING IT DOES MATTER to them.
It shows a woman doesn't respect herself and her body, if she can't respect herself how can she respect anyone else and be seen as a respectable person. It shows she doesn't make good decisions, she isn't seen as capable of a long term STABLE relationship, she doesn't think about the consequences of HER actions and what those consequences WILL be on HER future because she has put no thought into her future. That's the same mentality western women have, and the type women foreigners are FLEEING their own countries to get away from. It is her body and her choice, but it is also HER consequences for those choices, one of those consequences of a high body count will be foreigners having no interest in her. Should she get pregnant, as a single mother her chances a foreigner will be interested go down even faster, of course there are some men willing to be with single mothers, but many aren't. EVERYTHING you do in life is a choice YOU make and WILL have consequences on your future, and NO ONE else is responsible but YOU.
The past is NOT the past!!! You learn from your mistakes that YOU made in the PAST so you don't repeat them in the future, you forget your past and you forget the hardest lessons in life. You plan for your future in your PAST, takes steps in your past and present to achieve that future. If you failed to plan in your PAST, your future will be what you planned for, NOTHING. You decide you want to be a nurse in your PAST, you take steps to achieve that in your PAST and present by going to school, then to university for nursing, and in the future you are a nurse. You don't just wake up and say I want to be a nurse and go to the hospital and get a job as one.
OUTSTANDING!!! 🤨💞🙏
Alright, what's your take on men with high body count? I believe this shit won't be double standard at all 😂💀
@@dogeprissy9850 Of course we don't need to get into the pair bonding thing, everyone's heard that argument. I think a man looking/wanting a SERIOUS relationship isn't going to have a high body count either.
For me, a high body count does define who a person was, or still is.
And will be (most likely and stats prove it).
I have been in search of a Filipina wife, and agree on many points. Being sexual compatible is very important. I try to be respectful when talking to a woman online but ease into that topic as respectfully as I can.
Generally speaking (not everyone), men and women look at body counts differently, but also the same, depending on what they’re looking for. If a man or a woman is just looking for sex, a date or even a casual relationship, high body counts don’t matter because there’s no expectations for a long term relationship or marriage. Now if that same man or woman is looking for a long term relationship or a wife/husband, does a high body count matter?!?… with women it varies, but ultimately they want the same thing. A man who’ll be content with her and her ONLY, no more women! Now if that same man wants a long term relationship or marriage, a high body count “does” matter, even though he wants the same thing, a woman who’s content with him and him ONLY, no other men! If a woman fully trusts you, and she loves you, you’re “golden” no matter what your body count is! A man will sleep with a woman who has a high body count, but he doesn’t look at her the same when he’s looking for a long term relationship or marriage! Can he trust her?!? Generally speaking, women with high body counts are always comparing you to other men, and relationships, never content or at least not for long. Men and women look at sex differently, although sometimes the same. BOTTOM LINE: HIGH BODY COUNTS DO MATTER if you’re looking for a high quality partner/spouse to spend your life with that’s going to remain “faithful”!! There are always exceptions to the rule!
And when you’re looking for a car to just take you from point A to point B for a short period of time, the high mileage, condition, etc. don’t matter as much, but when you’re looking for a car to last a long time, you want lower mileage or no mileage, better condition, etc., something you can DEPEND ON!! Emotions play a big part in a woman having sex, which explains a lot about her and why her body count is high or low! With men, it’s less about emotion! It’s a physical thing, visual, etc. Men and women are the same in a lot of ways, but also VERY different!! Let’s face it though, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a man or a woman, a high body count comes with a lot of baggage, issues, failed relationships, etc. Respect your body and take your body count and sex seriously if you want a better chance of having a long lasting relationship with a high quality and faithful partner!! Chances are there’ll be a lot less drama in your life and you’ll probably make better choices and learn how to be content!! 😂
Have a wonderful day, Rebeauti!! 🙂
It's easy as a woman to sleep with many men that's why it's looked down on by men.
A man has to build himself to be wanted by many women.
it's due to all the years we spent not being able to prove if a child was ours so a woman that was promiscuous is and always will be classed as "fun times only, no wife"
Women bond with who they sleep with (it's proven) so the more body count means less chance of bonding fully with their partner.
Men use sex more as recreational and stress relief
@@Rubeauti unfortunately it is. But that's why powerful men used to have many wife's.
A woman is born with her value (beauty, purity, femininity)
A man has to build himself with resources and masculinity in order to have the protector/provider traits that women seek
@@Rubeauti It is biological reality. Men and women are NOT the same.
@@martzp5535 100% accurate.
@@Rubeauti however many women use there sexuality to get what they want in most societies including a provider and or status and security!
I believe it is of the up most importance to take all the time needed to get to know each other, commonality, respect begets love,desire and passion will follow. When men and women share a purpose of sharing their life’s together that is the true spark that ignites a fire between them that will burn on , with work of course. Nonetheless, putting your hands in the cookie jar without doing the aforementioned doesn’t have any determining factor of how long a relationship might last.
Love and lust is like ether, they both can only maintain its fire if it’s being continually lit.
Don't count don't ask and don't tell ... 😘
Marriage is dying in America. Almost 50% of the people are single. Almost 40% of men have never married and the average of getting married is 30 for men and 28 for women. People don't need to get married for financial reason anymore so many never get married. With so many single people you end up with a hook up culture. If you always stay single than and your body count has to go up unless you decide to never have sex again. Good discussion Rubeauti and friends.
90% of the married people are single 😂
I see body count as a physical punch card.
You can only punch the card so many times until there's nothing left.
You can also see this with pro fighters that get KOed a lot.
Rubeauti says She has Zero Partners unless I misunderstood, whomever chooses Her, If He treats Her Right, she would be his Greatest Asset!
A person is not defined by their body count? I think it does partially define them.
Traditional ways are traditional precisely because they have been proven to work well.
Try blood letting for your next medical issue
Character is character, so a person's actions define who they are. People do change but not over night. I see nothing wrong with asking a person how many relationships within the last 5 years. This will give you an idea if they are a serial dater or not. A serial dater will never be happy for they will develop a fear that they don't want to choose the wrong person. Also dating that many people shows that they truly don't know what they want and or have the faith or patience to wait for the right one. The Bible says a good spouse is a gift from God.
A gift is something that is presented to you, you don't have to look for it. But if you're out there doing things that you shouldn't, how can God give you his best for you it you are not being the best you're supposed to be?
Blessed be .......
Yes, they do change. They get worse. Seriously. People in their 40's with a messed up life didn't start that way. It takes years to get really bad.
Very interesting. Indeed 👌 I look at personal valves stuff like that everyone has a past no one person is perfect 👌 have fun miss beautiful
Body count is very important. And virginity is the only way to be sure they are not lying about their body count. God made it that way for a reason.
Women are designed to form very strong hormonal bonds to their romantic partner and that's not something that can just happen over and over again.
By the way your hair looks gorgeous in that thumbnail picture
Well i will give fast hints for the girls/women out there . If a man wants a serious relationship everything matters and especially the body count of a girl and if she has high body count its Red cart for us. If the man is not looking for serious relationship then we don't care,this is the truth. Now if the girls don't care about how the men thinking and believe whatever they want good luck with that. By the way miss Rubeauti interesting topic and opening eye for us ❤️
Let's be serious anyone who sleeps with the world, how could they ever settle down to a serious relationship. Odds would be against it. They're never satisfied and never will be. TC God bless y'all 🙏✝️ Don't ever think you can change someone,.
Does the audio sound weird to anyone else? Almost like echo?
She’s got 3 mics going at once.
I was a Chippendale dancer. I've only been in 4 relationships that I loved. I stopped counting after 2000
Realy? You counted all the way to 2000? How? In a book? Spreadsheet? I got bored with counting at 3. No clue today.
What they need to realize is that if someone has a high body count, it is usually because they get bored with their partner very easily. If they are just dating for a short while to have fun then look at the experience as a plus. But if you are wanting a long term relationship then you need to understand that this person is going to get bored with you. Not saying it's right or wrong, just the way it is.
I laughed a little when she said if you're not sexually compatible it's not going to last because you are going to be with that person for the rest of your life. That sounds like it's lasting to me. 😂
😎👍🇺🇸
It's not that hard to explain or understand.
The ladies are the gate keepers.
Men knock on as many doors as possible because most of them should be locked.
So we continue to knock on locked doors hoping someone will answer the knock.
We're looking for a special door. We'll go through the effort to get it to eventually open.
We test our key in many locks. You are the gate keeper.
A woman's low body count is appreciated and respected.
Who wants to go to a place overrun by tourists to spend time?
If everyone is there. It will surely be unpleasant and possibly dirty.
We would rather relax and enjoy the peace and tranquility in a place without a large number of people.
It's fun to party now and then.
You don't want to live in a party environment.
A highly religious country with a huge number of single mothers. I think something was missed in translation.🤨
And millions of people in that supposedly religious country are lying not only to us but to themselves as well!! And the exhorbitantly large numbers of Single Mothers is the Proof of the Real Truth of the Philippines!
Yes, there's so many single mothers there, it tells you that their is a LOT of promiscuity. Very telling!
It's a interesting subject because the things women like in a man require experience. If he's charming then he has practice talking to women for example. Also for us guy's sex isn't emotional, there's no emotional connection that's formed after sex. Plus our sex drive is super hight too, sex is always on the mind.
A womans body count matters Thats why men in the US are looking elsewhere., ie the Philippines. I would want an older woman, late 30's or older. My question, how would I know whether she is traditional or is she a {for lack of better word/s) "retired" go-go, bar girl or freelancer and is no longer marketable? What happens to them, where do they go after leaving that business?
2:56 (girls) “ don’t mind body count“… Guys DO! 🤔🤔😳
Ok if a body count doesn't make the person,, does the quality of the person make the body count different? But of course body count matters seriously doesn't everyone hate a ho ? Ya No? And for the record ,,,my personal quality is a 10!
Women with higher body count beware and as why and most women are not honest about it how many men they have had before!
It’s nice to hear young Filipinas who are intelligent, honest, and even wise for their age. But Rubeauti, where did that study come from? Who published that and what are the backgrounds of the researchers? I very much doubt the veracity of that study. I’ve been around long enough and have seen women who married their childhood sweethearts get divorced, and women who have married much later having experienced different partners settle down for the long term. Also, guys who claim that they’ve slept with 100-200 women are usually full of BS, unless they are paying for it. So I would not hold much value in such a study unless it was a long term study done by serious researchers like university Sociologists with long term grants. I would want to know the sample sizes and the standard deviations of their statistics, and the countries it was done in as these results would be skewed from culture to culture; also, was the study peer reviewed? If not, it’s worthless and can easily be invented.
Hello !!
I think that I just saw three brilliant young women discuss intelligently and very freely about a delicate but important topic.
Congratulations, this is a great video 🤗!
I saw one. Other two not so much
@@louditalian1962 I will respectfully disagree since I believe that discussing such a personal topic might be quite intimidating for young Filipinas.
By being respectful, truthfully open-minded, and solidly supportive, @Rubeauti acted exactly like a pro and well-prepared investigative journalist, and thus she was able to offer us a great and genuine picture of that delicate subject.
Her choice of witnesses is right on the dot.
I honestly never cared that much about a man’s body count because it’s not the same as a woman’s body count. I’m actually still a virgin at 23 and I would take a chance with a guy who’s a virgin but I would never look down on a guy with a high body count because whether people like it or not it increases a man’s value to be with alot of women but for women it works the exact opposite, our value drops precipitously when we sleep around while mens value increases the more experience he has. I just want a man whether or not he’s a virgin like me to be caring and considerate and gentle and not take advantage of me
Good point
Same I'm still virgin 26 yearly old from here 🇵🇭🙏
I am glad that there is still conservative countries in the world. The west has lost all conservative values, and hook up culture is ruining marriage and relationships as a whole. It makes sense that many western men are going to places like the Philippines, Vietnam, Thailand etc. The women in these countries are generally more caring, happy, more conservative, and are loyal. Hopefully western women will see what is happening and they will make a change, but in the meantime they will be very lonely when they finally finish their hook up stage and no one wants them.
I have a question about sex before marriage to make sure of compatibility.Before it was common to have sexual relations before marriage, is there a comparison as to how long marriages lasted, with those who had sex before marriage and those who abstained?
It's really difficult to compare because so much has changed. Marriage up until 1960's in the US for example was primarily about creating a family. Most wives were homemakers. Women valued men for good steady jobs and men valued women to be good mothers. Financially the couple were stronger together than separate in theory. So marriages before 1960's stayed together for reasons beyond sex. For the kids, financial reasons, community reputation, etc...
For sure before 1960's sex before marriage was looked down on by both men and women because that sure wasn't a good skill for motherhood.
Divorce rate more than doubled 1960 to 1980. Has been declining since 1980 and is at a 50 year low today. But the reason divorce is less is because the marriage rate has fallen and is at its lowest in 120 years. So the few willing to risk marriage are maybe being more picky or more committed to their marriage. Financial reasons to marry are dropping too.
No data is collected on body count effects on divorce. That would be impossible as people wouldn't be truthful. But just from a psychological perspective we do have a good understanding on male and female behaviors and the effect on marriages. Men and women have sex for different reasons.
There are a lot of possible dynamics at play here, but in general, I’d say a woman under 30 with a high body count is in a position to not value her man and either cheat, have nothing but “situationships” or fall to the hypergamy trap. Specially if we’re talking about western women.
It goes for men and women.the more people you sleep with is the harder for you to have an emotional connection and that’s a fact. You don’t have have to agree.but you can’t dispute the facts.I would never be with a women who have a high body count.
Most men don't use sex as an emotional connection. It's just sex. For women it can be an emotional connection. And that's the rub today. Women trying to act like men saying "body count doesn't matter" and sleep around damaging her self-esteem. They know they're being used.
Men sleeping around do not feel used normally.
Men and women are not actually the same despite what you may have been taught.
@@MrWaterbugdesign first of all you don't know what I have been taught because you don't know me.secondly whatever you believe.you have men in relationship with family and still cheating.
Because when you sleep around it's hard to have an em emotional connection weather your a man or woman.am holding everybody accountable.sex use to be something pure and beautiful.now it's been reduce to something dirty and meaningless. where a person can have sex with you tonight and tomorrow look though you like you don't even exist.
Society has come up with they own set of rules .nobody cares about the laws and rules god has set for us to live by.because everybody is too busy following they own selfish desires and wants .so don't come to me with you bullshit like you know what I stand for or what am about
Body count matters regardless what we ( people anywhere )say. Men compare every girl to the < best cookie they ever had. Women compare partners to the best hard stick they wver had. That's why it's hard to date people when you know their past. We choose not to think about it( bcs it's uncomfortable).
Ladies, honestly I don't think most mentally stable and healthy men actually count. I stayed single until I was almost 35. Yes, there is a substantial count, but I didn't count. Also, it may be an advantage to have an experienced and open-minded partner and lover. And for women, it may not be the same in your culture. Here in NA, its rather normal. I respect your thoughts and opinions. They are important. Great subject!
If she's not a virgin then marriage is out of the question. If she wants to marry she better keep herself pure for her husband. No high value man will want a woman who has been with another man.
Hi Ruby if the man ask the lady to do a doctor visit together is it offencive???
I think maybe being concerned about previous relationships has more to do with it than the actual relationships? The obsession with virgins is an old obsession, be interesting to see where it originated? Maybe as a way to avoid disease? Fascinating subject Rubeauti! ❤️
At least in the West, it stemmed from property. You don't want to give your sheep to a child that wasn't yours, and virginity ensures that. It would be interesting to see if it is the same there. 👍
Virgin wives was the only way to ensure there would be a chance of a child being fathered by the husband. There was no DNA or blood tests before 1920's. Well off people had different tests for determining virginity. In Europe the bed on the marriage bed had a white sheet. In the morning the families came in to inspect the sheet for blood. No blood, no virgin, no marriage. After marriage a wife's movements were controlled to try and keep her from having another man's baby.
Nature pushes females to have babies with as many men as possible. Nature loves genetic diversity. And it pushes men to father babies with as many women as possible. But monogamy to some degree has helped many species do better and nature likes that too. So we get this strange mix and deceitfulness in many species of both sexes trying to get both. But generally its the female deceiving a male provider.
I'm a doctor and I can tell you that 3:22 your guest is asking the right question, "Is he clean?", though she's not understanding the ramifications of other sexually transmitted viruses that are currently not part of a standard STD testing battery. These could include HPV, CMV, and a host of other viruses that her potential partner carries. When you sleep with someone you are also sleeping with everyone they have ever slept with from the perspective of viral diversity. Our immune systems weaken as we age, thus the average life-span of a prostitute is around 50 which is when their immune system can no longer keep these viruses at bay. Unprotected sex with someone who has a "high body count" and a long and healthy reproductive life are incompatible concepts.
First, I really hate to say it, but there is usually a big difference in BC for men and women. Men can absolutely have sex for no other reason than getting off, whereas women typically cannot separate the emotional attachment from the act. I think it's a credit to women, but it is definitely different between the two. Second, if it is one of these relationships with a big age gap, you cannot compare a 55 year-old western male and a 25 year-old female by simple numbers.
My body count is less than Wilt Chamberlain's 😀
Women who have high body counts should not expect monogamy from a man. I said it...💯
P.S. And they do not get lifelong marriage either. That is only for women with low body counts...
The percent of people getting a Divorce is not just because the person has had a few other partners before they married . Some divorce because they are not happy with how their love life sex life and relationship is going .Some people think over time they can change the other person well here is a secret they are the way you met them and they only change because they want to not because you want them to. many divorce because they are tired of the same thing and think they want something better. Example fall in love with a man and he is hung a full 5 inches life is great for a couple years but now the girl would like something bigger harder last longer . Or a man falls in love with a girl and things go great for a while but then its always the same thing she is on her knees then on her back and then that was nice good night .Most men just like Most women want more then just ok lets do it Tuesday and Thursday at 9:45 pm and we have to be done by 10: PM
I guess it does not matter how pretty a girl is if when it comes time to making love to the girl you have to ask her to cross her legs to feel anything because she is so open and wide you can put both hands in side and clap . To be fair and honest if the girl is so wide you can't feel it when it is in then you are no better off then if you just took you're clothes off and started humping the air .
"A few"? Not really the issue. 50, 100, 500, countless is the issue.
From a man perspective a woman that has a high body count has given away what a man values most. As well with a man with a high body count in my opinion not looking for a quality woman, but looking for sexual entertainment. The other question that should be asked, what is a high body count for men and what is a high body count for women? For me a high body count for women is 15-20 and the same for men.The reason I say that is because anything above that you are no longer searching for that quality person but just satisfying your sexual needs.
This is why westerners come to the Philippines because we don't want this high body count..
We Want women with morals and respect for themselves..
Body count matters more to men.
What I got from this video, if you are looking for a woman in Phillipines, go to the provinces.
Wrong lesson. There are messed up women in the provinces too. And there are great women in the cities. If you lead yourself to think you're safe picking a province woman you're setting yourself up for a fall. A man has to learn how to pick a woman. I've known even hookers in Thailand who could make great wives. But ya gotta know how to pick and how to lead. Not that Thai hookers are top of my wife list. They'd come with other issues.
Wrong.. They are very bored in the provinces. Life is slow and boring in the provinces. More and more province girls are getting pregnant in a country with nil sex education and birth control because bored teenagers in the provinces are fu*#ing out of curiosity and boredom!!!
Rubeauti nice clothes
What if a guy tells you that he's "had a few girlfriends" but then you find out that he's a porn star?
the cultural difference is huge.
Catholic with no legal divorce.
Yeah
High body count of men is not matter
But high body count of women here is matter.
The average American male has a "body count" of 5... 33% of men under 35 aren't even having sex at all because of all the social media apps and the focus on only the most beautiful successful people and if you are not a part of that 1% of society that is beautiful and successful you would be very lucky to find a girl at all never mind many. If you are however a 6 foot tall guy who is handsome and has lots of money than your body count could be very high like more than 100, but that is again only 1% of all men and those men are not going to the Philippines to find a girl. The body count thing is really more on the female side where all the girls are going after the same 10 men, so those 10 men have had sex with 100 girls each, and those girls have had sex with 10 men, while the other 10 million men didn't have sex at all.
Other people would probably agree that the real problem with a high "body count" is you are not the type to be committed to a single person and prefer to go from person to person. I think when it comes to people traveling to a foreign country to find a mate, with all the work involved in that and the headaches and the disappointment, I would say body count for the man really doesn't matter because he has already put so much effort into making a in person relationship happen that it is obvious they are committed, on the other hand the foreigner should be very concerned with the body count of the girl considering how much has to be invested in order to make the relationship possible and how much of a waste it would be for them to be the type that just sleeps around with anyone.
Edit: the last part about making sure you are sexually compatible, I think that is a very normal thing to expect, if you are serious about a guy who travels across the world to meet you, you have been talking for 6 months prior to him coming, you both honestly like each other and really enjoyed going out and talking and meeting in person and are thinking the next step is to make plans to make serious commitment with each other, then sex with that person while they are there is absolutely normal and a good thing to do prior to marriage.
If you are having sex with other people all the way up until they come but then refuse to have sex with the guy "you are going to marry" then that is ridiculous and if you meeting many men every month and having sex with them I would say you were never really serious about any of them.
Outstanding!! 💞🙏🤨
sex is always a complicating factor. STDs are a big problem.
If you always use condoms then it does not matter. If you want an exclusive relationship then both get tested and lose the condoms. Then the only worry is pregnancy. Take a pill.
I'm surprised to see so much attention to "Body Count", I never heard this term before seeing your videos. As an M.D. by training, graduated from a well known filipino University (but work in another profession), perhaps we need to say "sexual partners" instead, and use the word promiscuity. This is a pretty serious subject. While I don't think most regular people have the numbers of sexual partners you have mentioned many times - if you were to get an answer with a high number 1) It may in fact be higher and 2) It should tell you to look elsewhere, and that this person doesn't have the stable mentality you are looking for in a future mate. Like birth control, contraception and STD awareness - this is just another area ignored by FIlipino public health authorities. Lastly, don't expect an honest answer on this question from someone who is looking at you for a casual sexual moment. And most importantly, you should ASSUME that if you are using TINDER (NOT a dating app, but a casual sex app), that the person you meet WILL indeed likely have a high "body count"! Your health, dignity and life demand that you be smarter socially. Good luck.
Is it common for Filipino Doctors to not practice medicine?
It's been proven that for women, a body count of 10 or more makes pair bonding impossible
For me the woman said that they dont care about high body count are no respect to their self and morals...nkkhya nmn
I think most women, especially Filipina do not want a high body count honesty from their lovers. Clean is clean, good hygiene. Clean can also mean no STD,s. Most Pinay do not need practice celibacy. Look at all the pregnant and single mothers. The only way to be clean and stay clean from std's is pick your partners carefully and both of you get tested before intimacy. I'm 61 last month, single, and and have never had an STD. Yes I practice what I preach, always have gotten both of us tested before sex.
You didn't ask if it was in love body count or just sex let's say if you were a paid professional. It's 2 different numbers. In love it's been 4. Sex it's over 2000 protected sex.
Her body count matters when choosing a Filipina wife !!!
One night stands are normal for men who have high body count, and they are a stupid addiction like drugs, smoking and excessive drinking. Avoid sex unless you are in a relationship with one woman you have very strong feelings for. If it doesn't last find another serious long term partner. For an old man nearing the end of his life, a body count of less than ten would be realistic. I once knew a young man under 20 who already had a body count over 200, which is ridiculous. He was in bars every night buying drinks for groups of girls and would take one to bed every time. Many were older married women and one night he almost got shot by the husband of one of them who came home unexpected.
Men with high count are unable to experience high level emotional connection, high level emotional connection is a product of high intelligence as all high level motions. They have a high level of survival instinct yet low level of brain development. This is quantity over quality, such men's offspring is dumb. IDK, if someone does not care then fine. If I would be a woman, I would care and aspire my kid to reach highest level in social structures, and not being a puppet.
If you paid to play is that counted as body count too?
🤦♂️ why do you need to even ask
@@martzp5535 Well for a man would it count? For the Woman that was being paid would it be the same? Or a count is a count?
@@MrBill2U it all counts pal, but it's easy for a woman to get sex.
A man has to have value and build himself to be wanted by many women.
That's why a man is normally called a stud and cheered on, where as a woman is classed as used.
It's pretty simple men have two categories for women.....ones they want to sleep with and ones that could be a relationship, they do not get treat the same.
Women generally need a emotional connection to sleep with a bloke, once they sleep with a few that emotional connection fades.
Which is why after say 5 men the woman's chance of a successful marriage is massively diminished.
All I see is the western culture is now high in the Philippines. The internet has changed everything.
How could you say?
High body count of men is not matter
But high body count of women here is matter.
I don't think the "sexually compatible" argument is a good one. If you plan on having a future with someone, you can communicate and work on sexual intimacy. We have become lazy as a society. Nobody wants to work on building up their partner. Everyone just wants a perfectly refined product right out of the box.
Sorry, but a women's body count does matter for a man with self respect. A man of value brings a lot to the table. A women with a high body has less sexual market value. And the statistics regarding women with high body counts, regarding bonding, are not good. I stick to the facts.
Why body count matters for men looking for a wife. When women have intercourse their brain releases the love hormone. After a non set amount of partners the brain will stop releasing the hormone, which affects her ability to bond to her mate. She won't be happy with a partner she can't pair bond with
5:10 wom3n around the world have the right to sleep around and rack up a high BC if they choose to do so in my opinion.
However, they are NOT free from the consequences of such actions. There is high a price to pay for such reckless life.
Also, I have the right to dismiss her as my potential partner for such actions. I will not provide, protect, love and care for someone with such past. Your body your choice, my wallet my choice.
For an average man, is hard to sleep around. You need to have a lot of things on your side to use as leverage for women to agree.
For any woman is super easy to sleep around if she chooses to do so. She just have to be alive and willing. What is hard for women is NOT to engage in such behavior.
The girl with pink pillow talks to much.
Rubeauty I'm going to help you, your guests and all the women in the world understand how the body count thing is. I see that you are intelligent and I believe that you share the same opinion as me, but you claim to be neutral. Men by their animal nature (subconsciously) tend to mate with as many females as possible to spread their genes around the world. So it's not his fault but nature's. So the man looks in a woman for: beauty, purity and fertility. A woman who has had many intimate relationships has most likely used birth control pills or had an abortion, so there are chances that she will no longer be fertile. So the woman's value decreases. Men don't care how many degrees a woman has hanging on her wall, or how high a position she holds in a corporation, or how much money a woman has in her bank account. Her purity remained. If she still has it... Females only mate with powerful males which nowadays means they have financial resources, status, power, life experience, including sexual experience (imagine two virgins) so men who can provide a comfortable life for her and their children. You have to admit that a woman who has a high body count will not want a virgin man as her husband because he will be curious of how is with other women. Instead, most men regardless of their body count would prefer to marry a virgin even if that virgin has no money, fame or degrees. Your guest needs to understand that if her body is all she can bring to a relationship, and she has offered her body to multiple men, why would a man who has value as a man choose her? She says she has to experiment with several until she finds one she's compatible with. The problem again will be hers because she will eventually find sexual compatibility, but that man probably won't have the other 3 or 5 qualities that women look for in a man. The virgin girl will only know what she will experience with the first and only man in her life and thus she will be happy with what she has. The man is easy to please. He does not have many demands from the woman. P.S. Remember: When it comes to body count women lie down, men lie up. WHY IS THAT?? And one more thing: all men including western men and especially successful ones want traditional women. Traditional women are on the verge of extinction. Be one
These days if you can find a woman that is not tainted, she is very rare. Even in the PI there are so many women who have at least one child and have slept around. If she hasn't slept around. child free, and is very gorgeous, she can pick the top 1% of men easy. She is of extreme high value. But she has to be mindful of players too. Reserve herself only until marriage.
@@Rubeauti it is. But women make the playing field, men just play the field. If more women would not have this huge checklists and actually get with a guy for his character and value, more men would try harder to be a good man. If women only sought after men who dressed in business attire, more men would dress this way. Hip hop culture has drastically changed the dating game. Followed by feminine movement, then woke. Now the Chads are the only ones who get game since the majority of women want the same guy. A guy who just uses the women, gets her pregnant, then leaves. While she could've just went a guy that wasn't showy or model material and would've treated her well and fathered their children.
Western women try to call out a man's body count in reaction to their body counts. Most women view men that have a lot of bodies as being great in bed and will also wonder why he is so popular and want to try him for herself. I personally think how she got those bodies matters more than the count. You have some women who pass themselves around as part of their 304 phase. Others who practice safe sex are on a different level. They select their partners based on being responsible sexually. Changes things completely. I personally prefer a woman with experience. However I would be more willing to be with the woman that practices safe sex over a 304.
I have slept with 100s of women. I am 60.... been having sex since I was 12. Not an unexpected number. I don't care at all what the other person has done. I would never ask... not important.
Don't be fooled, not all westerners participate in hook up culture. The silent majority feels the same way as the Filipinas....
So in other words you're going to end up being 71
It's too bad feminism is going to overtake completely Manila, Cebu and other places really soon. Not good mothers, not good mothers. They just fail to see this. This is how much feminism has polluted thinking. Long term bonding goes down dramatically with higher body counts. It's true and I have seen this first hand in my own family. Filipina women, there are going to be more western men coming there and a number of us will completely not take you seriously at all if you have this thinking. Good moral men of character care about your sexual attitudes.
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If a girl has more than zero it’s a high body count for me.
I do not want to come across as preaching but you have some really crazy preconceived notions. First off someone's body count (be it man or woman) has nothing to do with their value. I waited until the night I was married and dated my ex for 4-1/2 years before we got married. Our marriage and especially our sex life was a disaster. I understand that certain people will judge immediately on that one question but that tells me they are arrogant and not in tune with Christ. They may be neither but for sure they are immature if nothing else. I have a past that included a faithful 19-year marriage ending and me spending a year going crazy while working in Singapore. I think what you don't want is to marry a man or a woman who has not brought their sexual desires under control. The basic point of marriage is that you have a mate that you can live out your desires with. Personally, I will never marry someone I can not live with for a year. I am speaking from personal experience that being in a marriage with someone you are sexually incompatible with is one of the most miserable unions in the world. Then again I will not sleep with someone on a first date or even the first month especially if I already know in my heart there is no future there. I have been on 3 dates in the last 8 years because I raised my daughter alone. I have a high body count from 2008 but that is not the life I live anymore. I have frequent offers, especially in America but I want something deeper. Even if a woman has a past as a prostitute I don't really care so long as she has overcome those things. You can't condemn someone for their past without bringing yours up. Everyone has a past whether it is sexual or not. The Bible says no one sin is greater than the other so judging someone for their body count is just as big of a sin as having the body count. The great thing is in the eyes of Christ I am pure and whole. That is the only person I worry about pleasing and in his time he will send the woman I desire. Lastly the rest of the world knows that the Philippines is one of only 2 countries in Asia that is Christian based. A lot of the world knows the Philippines is where you find a good Catholic girl that will most of the time move in with you before marriage ad build a good relationship to show faithfulness and that the desire is the same.
It doesnt matter how many women a man has slept with, but it DOES matter how many men a woman has slept with!
Lol, sad.
Men ain’t women.