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No matter how you classify it for a man or woman, cheating is a betrayal at the most intimate level. It shatters trust. If the partner who was cheated on takes back the cheating partner, is the relationship ever the same? No. Good relationships don't just happen, they are created by two people who want one, and work on it everyday with open and honest communication.
Well said
It’s always worse if a woman cheats. Men can have sex with someone who they don’t even like and have no emotional connection. Women who cheat on their man have lost respect for him. It’s always bad but one is worse.
100% agree, it doesn't matter who does it, it's a betrayal and equally bad no matter how people try to rationalize it in their favor.
It is not as black and white as I think you're suggesting here, because cheating can be done at various levels of the strength of a relationship. For example, when one partner has suggested they break up, the other possibly agreed, but didn't confirm and then doesn't see her for 2 weeks, and then sees someone else - is that cheating?
There are many shades of grey in what you might label as cheating because of the situation. Especially when one partner ignores or treats the other partner badly for a long time, but then labels it "cheating" when that partner resorts to a deeply desired affection from someone else (humans need to be loved, it's not something you can dismiss)
A relative of mine split after 20 plus years together. She was surfing the net for dates. A year later she wanted things to be “like it was before”. He told her he couldn’t do it because every time she was late or gone awhile he’d wonder if she was with someone else. It totally blows away any trust. Remember, there’s a woman or a man on the other side with the cheater.
If anyone cheats out of boredom, it is a sign of immaturity, plus also a sign of disrespect for their partner.
A woman cheats on me it's over..no second chances. I can no longer think of her in the same way. Instant end of the relationship. Otherwise it will just be years of me despising her..
Myself, I never cheat. I would end the relationship before I did that to a person.
You are absolutely right about that
There is a difference between promiscuity and adultery.
I've known about 12 single moms. Every one of them said as soon as they told him she was pregnant he left her and hasn't seen him since.
exactly
Yes, in the U.S. it s not cheating unless you are steady or married.
I think in the UK, the rate of divorce increased as people got married much sooner. Long relationships before marriage used to be the average but people marry very quickly these days. Could be that the rimes are more uncertain so people look for stability? Really interesting topic, thank you Rubeauti! ❤😘
Loving your videos and I also like your beautiful co-star your both gorgeous
Rubeauti i remember you had exercise short videos , that is the content that really got me to begin watching your channel,
When will there be more like that?
@@Rubeauti I am having a tantrum here ! 😭.
Man & woman need to spend time going out together, to get to know each other, don’t rush into living together and maybe after a few years then live together. Trust is paramount in a relationship
Some points yall hit in the video are echoed in a lot of podcasts and shows. Specifically about how when men cheat its just for pleasure but when a woman cheats its because she fell out of love with the husband. One thing I have noticed over the years is that women have fickle feelings and end up naturally falling out of love with their boyfriends/husbands after the honeymoon phase has worn off. Another good reason for most men to not rush into marriage.
Whilst infidelity definitely happens in the UK, I wouldn't say it was "normal". Personally, I think it's a pretty vile thing to do and have no time for people that lie/cheat.
So insightful in many ways. Thanks for covering this topic. The 9 minutes, felt like 2 minutes; I looked up and couldn't believe the video was over.
Wow, your sister is Red Pilled 🔥🔥🔥 She’s not giving these women any slack and is keeping it real about the 2 sexes…
Bruh ... are u color blind? She is still blue pill
I think it's a good law, as long as it doesn't become an income stream for the courts or government like it is in the USA
It will become an income stream for the judges an the courts. And it will destroy and family.
A lot depends on their situation at hand too! I love you sweetheart and everything you stand for!! Bless u always 💓
Older men flirt to see if they still have it, meaning is the ability to hook up with an attractive lady still a option. They want to know if they are still attractive.
It takes 2 to tango the Filipino men I've met in the Phillipines and in Australia seem to be honourable men. Look at the the guys these girls go for the bad boys the players thinking that they will stay with them 😊 !
Yes the grass is always greener on the other side. It all has consequences you or there actions. I do agree with your friend. Cheers
Many people cheat; men, women, Phillipino, Phillipina, American. What it boils down to is what is truly in a persons heart.
Cheating is one of the most serious offenses. It is not condoned or rationalized. No decent person would cheat
Peace, No hastling, sex and just being happy with a partner.... Stop the stress Men can not overcome some women's insecurities. you just can't.
I would argue that the reason people have bad behavior is largely universal, not cultural. So that is video is applicable to every part of the world.
In a Country of no abortions or divorces....what do you expect?
We had this conversation plenty of times so I know how you feel and it's true. That's why if you cheat it's alot. I've been through it and it changed me plenty of times. When a women is emotionally checked out it's over. It's way worser.noya true Rubeauti, sadly.
People with morality will see this problem as one of moral deficiency i.e. cheating or emotional selfishness or frivolous abandonment etc.
People without morality will see this problem as due to a lack of sex education or availability of birth control etc.
The explanation given tells you a lot about the character of the speaker.
i think it's the weather.
im kind of a lovebird. i will never cheat. i where given the choice to do it several times and i always declined. it is not fair to the one i commited to. even if things get really bad i can still remember why i fell in love with someone and i try to rekindle the flame as long as possible. should every attempt be in vein i end the relationship with great discomfort and i will not take someone else into my arms that did not respect that i was in a relationship when she was hitting one me. if she doesent respect relationship status, why would i think she take one with me serios ?
All countries have the same problems with marriage and dating Philippines 🇵🇭 doesn’t have a bigger problem than the rest of the world 🌎
@@Rubeauti we are just all humans at the end of the day and relationships are hard
Like fire & ice an alternative to the current situation.
Click bait. This the same video she uploaded 2 days ago.
@@Rubeauti understandable
Men or women who cheat several times are mostly very attractive and they are for their sex appeal faced with much more opportunities to have an affair with another attractive man or woman. Normal looking persons haven’t these opportunities to be attracted at first sight by the other male. Most relationships are love at second sight, they develope nearness and later love step by step when men and woman meet each other regulary, for example in a company making their job.
We say, cheating in a relationship is primary a question of opportunities and less of character. The attraction of the new is dangerous, when the partner is generally very attractive fot the other male.
The fact that women cheat because they fall out of love and that men cheat just for pleasure is very interesting and I would like to dig deeper into why this is the way it is. Maybe delving into the psychology of it could tell us more
So I guess the answer to the question posed in the title is yes. Is it a majority of men, a minority? Don't some women leave their husbands for that?
Personally I wouldn't cheat unless the other person gave me a reason to 🙏💋💗
Like totally neglecting there partners needs for no reason or find out there cheating themselves
Totally neglecting there partners needs for no reason for one or finding out they've been cheated on
i mean cultural ( all men )
in general
I appreciate your highly developed critical thinking. My ex-wife use to use sex as a weapon.
@@Rubeauti to manipulate me into letting our teenage daughter go somewhere do something or buy something she didn't need.🙄
@@Rubeauti Oh that is very common with american. If they dont get their way with something your cut off sleeping on the couch
My boyfriend never cheated. I cheated on him🥰💋
im very much against cheating but i do not consider it cheating no matter what the activity unless there is an exclusive relationship. to me, that's why there is the creation of an exclusive relationship. its a motivation. there's a very famous episode of the american television show "Friends" when two people were dating and they agreed to give the relationship a "break" and the man had sex with someone else. some think he cheated, others say no, they were not officially a couple at that time. its a question here too.
Whenever I turn on the dating app, most of the women who respond have a man at home. This is why I will not get married.
A women cheating usually results in a deeper emotional tie to her AP. She will grow apart from her husband/BF.
Once the honeymoon is over, most couples stop fanning the fire, eventually the burning flames burn out.
We have to keep the hot passion alive.
When I was young (here in the US), in high school they had a course called Home Ec, which stands for home economics. It's a course many girls would take. Its aim was to teach a young lady things like how to budget, or even how to cook, all of which was aimed at making sure they were adequately prepared to play a necessary role as wife and mother. The problem with it was, there was no focus on teaching a girl what to look for in a husband. So, of course, girls just went for whatever guys were popular, or especially whatever guys paid them the most attention. But perhaps needless to say, only a minor percentage of young guys were persons of character, or were immature. These are the kinds of things that guarantee serious problems in a marriage. Fail rates were very high, and still are. I imagine this is bound to be true in the Philippines as well.
I like your sister Rubeauti she's very perceptive and honest. She is correct that when a women cheats its more an emotional connection and when a man cheats its usually physical. That's why when a women cheats the relationship is usually over for good. Courting is a little different than dating. I think casual dating which may or may not include sex in the West is not considered a committed relationship until the couple has the "talk" and decides it is a committed relationship. I'm not sure but I don't think it works that way in the Philippines. Really good discussion by both of you.
They knock up women and leave.
Are the single mom's sure the ex-husband is the father of the child, since the woman has cheated?
I live in the West and I can’t date more than one person at a time. I heard men people say a foreigner should have 4 filipinas at the same time. I can’t do that if I am in a relationship. Maybe I am in a minority?
i feel the same way. if i am interested in someone, i can only focus my attention on that 1 person anything else to me wouldn't feel right. it's like cheating to me. you're not alone. when i was growing up in the states i never felt the same as my other male friends either. i was always different and had more respect for women too. i was a pretty extreme opposite to my friends when it came to the opposite sex...so much so i was accused of being gay more than once haha
Would never date a single mom
@@Rubeauti Love your show by the way Really wish could retire to Davao City not really because of the women but not a day goes by In the USA with out some kind of mass shooting and even though this show showed that philipina women also cheat I think they would be an improvement of over American women
Men can’t cheat if women don’t let them
It’s like what came first the chicken or the egg?
This is biology. People cheat because of the attraction.
Cheating is the cruelest thing you can do in a relationship. If you feel the need to cheat you should be in a relationship and you are not in love and you may have never been in love. It is a deliberate act, not an accident it's a choice. If you like a flower you pick it and discard it as the bloom fades, When you love it you water it feed it nurture it to grow
A union with each other and a union in Christ
Men who cheat will also leave. It is just the first step. And anyway, would you really want to stay with a cheater? It is only a matter of time before the cheater does it again.. You also have an increased health risk with STIs.
Once the hen-pecking starts, most men are gone.
Thanks for the video.
But, why don't you introduce the woman you are interviewing? For example, does she have a name? hehe
-Nils
Had 3 relationships in the Philippines with much younger women and none of them waited while i left to work back in Europe , Social media don't help as she's being hit on constantly also younger pinays lie alot too , That's a big red flag in a relationship for me .
if you argue mutch why married the guy lady get to know eachother better, i know people can change but still
love you ❤ love your videos 💕 @Rubeauti are you planning to start a relationship consulting business?
Some from both sides in every Nation .😊✌️
Honey child, beautiful women certainly run in ur family. My Pilipina gf is a single mother. She went to friends house, drank too much, and was basically raped by her friends older brother. Once she found out she was pregnant, she spent the next 6 years trying to get him to marry her. She finally figured out he had other women and it wasn't going to happen. We met when her daughter was 12. I did not know she had a child. She was so afraid to tell me because she thought I would not want her. Just made me love her more!!
that's true love. you love unconditionally and just accept a person for who they are. but being dishonest is a red flag. there is nothing to love about being dishonest. it's a problem when me make excuses for dishonesty too. i mean we CAN view the situation as that she loved you so much that she didn't want to lose you but what that means too is she didn't trust you or the relationship yet. hopefully that trust and commitment is better now that she feels you are more accepting of her than she thought before of you....but still no good excuse to lie...
Have the women ever talked to their husband about what they're lacking in their relationship? Such as romance or sensuality?
When a woman cheats it means the guy they really wanted already got away before they settled and married their husband. If she cheats you were never her first choice.
I think if you're going to cheat. Stay single. Why drag someone through that hell. If you can't be a responsible person and commit then don't waste someone time and feeling.
Not saying this is right or wrong. But for us guys sex isn't emotional. We can still cheat and fully love out girl, but for ladies they have to get to a mental place to cheat on their guy. Ladies have to form an emotional connection first or she's already emotionally checked out in her relationship!
How is promiscuity there are the women there having children outside of relationships? I’ve heard on more than one occasion that the Philippines leads the world in pornography consumption with women being the highest consumers. Is this an indication, that the women there a hyper sexual despite the religious persona.
There is no excuse for cheating. None what so ever. If there is a cheater the other should leave. I always did. I didn't ever cheat. I just left. They always tried to come back to me except my ex wife. She remarried so she was stuck in any case.
In America you need to date multiple people at the same time even if you like one more than any of the others because too many games are being played.
If you put all your attention on one person at a time then you are considered too needy and the person you like pulls away from you.
In my opinion, two people have to agree to date only each other before dating another person becomes cheating.
If a Filipina wants to date an American foreigner she needs to have her expectations known to him before there is a misunderstanding. To accuse someone of cheating is an insult and misunderstandings needs to be avoided when mixing cultures.
From what I’ve experienced there… if yr GF sees you even LOOKING 👀 at some gurl….. your a cheater…. And subject to Tampo…. Or worse !! 😁
The Filipina I’m talking to right now is a single mother lol
I know many Filipina and I would say most who are single with kids it's because the men cheated or just ran off...at the same time you are not painting a good picture for the modern Filipina who just quits because she "falls out of love"
I just want me some Jess! 🥰 Official or Unofficial!! 🤗😜
You and your sister are so lovely ; )
I'm surprised that these young women don't use birth control in relationship with their boyfriend even though they know of many women being left by their boyfriend. Cheating is another matter. Ex-pats are surprised how quickly Filipino women want to get into a relationship. Are these women just wired to be in a relationship? We rarely hear from Filipino men in thees channels.
I thought the infidelity rate in the Philippines was very low due to the harsh punishments and even threat of death involved with what is seen as a crime. Is this incorrect?
harsh punisment?🤔 threat of death?🤔🤨😑 their is no threat of death or what so ever this is not africa or some parts of middle east infidelity happens suddenly if a woman suddenly falls inlove or have likes on you but we most filipinos respect every filipina whos already in a relationship. me if you ask me honestly im nor good or bad if i knew her husband was bad i will make a move to make him feel the sameway he treat his women so now he knows how it feels to be cheated
I think it’s just a matter of,
1. a lack of sex education.
2. access to affordable contraceptives
Serious question...would arguing naked help?
Maybe she never really loved their husband.
I'll neva understand South East Asia women who av been treated badly by guys ov there own nationality when they get a good guy from western or a different nationality ov there own then go on to treat him bad and cheat on him 🤔🤷
The problem in the Philippines is the differential in looks between women and men. Filipino men are average: filipino women are top beauties in the world. What is really going on with the men is akin to how westerners change their car, trade it in for a new model. As their partners get older, some new fresh looking Filipina appears on the scene and the man desires her. In west, not so many good looking women
Here is where I disagree with you two. BTW, i really like your content. Your right when a women cheats its for different reasons but it still can be saved. Its easy to say you would never do that until it does happen, but if you don't fight together to fix it, nothing will save it.
No, when a woman cheats, it's over. She doesn't respect you anymore and respect is very important for men, more than being loved. You can't fix that anymore and I don't think you should make an effort to do so.
in America, adulatory isn't a crime. Our laws are less religious-based (well a bit more now due to repeal of Roe v. Wade). Polygomy is still a crime here though.
so nice looking
if a man really loves his woman he wont cheat
he wont see another woman attractive
he wont even be tempted if he is in true love and same for the girl
so he just have “ fun “ and love his girl NOPE . maybe he love her as family or care her but he doesnt REALLY LOVE HER PURE AND TRUE LOVE
I know a young filipina that had married a filipino guy a few years ago, they had 3 beautiful kids, They recently split up because the guy was screwing around with another woman and that woman ended with a child because of him, That woman also ended up committing suicide months l8r and the guy had the nerve to ask the filipina wife to take in and take care of the other woman's child. They split up and are in process of divorcing. I helped the filipina find a cheap place to live with her 3 kids. She is the sweetest little thing and feel so sorry for what she is going through. The guy is a loser anyway, drinks too much and doing drugs, has several DUIs and moved in with his Filipina mother and doesn't even work a decent job to pay for his vices so mother is supporting her son by giving him money whenever he asks for it, He isn't even paying any child support for his 3 kids. The guy's 2 younger brothers are in the military and making something of themselves while he is a total bum.
I'm still trying to figure out why the guys dance with guys only at parties? When their are so many beautiful Filipinas their to dance with. Do the men rather be with men then the women their?
@@Rubeauti hun I'm saying at family get together 😂 I see my wife village all the guys drink and Dance with each other and the woman video them and laugh 😂
And this shy stuff needs to stop 😂 it's a excuse being shy . Here in America we not shy if we like to dance or date a lady we walk up and ask that lady
If you cheat you don't have any relationship any longer. ''Just having sex'' is a lame excuse. Personally, if you don't have any feelings or/and respect for your partner, you finish the relationship before you try to find someone else. Don't defend the cheaters.
Here in the US, in my life I've known many more women who cheat than men, and it's for two reasons.
(1) just for the excitement of something new and different or getting away with it.
(2) using sex to climb the social ladder.
One women I knew was married 6 times each time the man made more money than the last, and she actually made good money here also over $100,000 a year in a area where the average single income was less than $45,000 a year.
And she would complain about being poor.
All I could do was laugh in her face and then tell her that she had no idea what poor was.
This is one of many examples of what I've seen in my lifetime of 59 years.
The men who I have known to cheat were either in a unhappy relationship, or just had no moral standards.
Just remember there's and old saying here about cheaters, (male or female) if they will cheat with they will also cheat on you.
😎👍🇺🇸
I heard this before 🤷
😁
Cheers ladies.
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My filipina wife works very hard but she very hard...I shovel snow for hours and when I finish she wants me to cook her dinner...what is that?
And I can see she has no clue...is this why filipino men cheat?
Hi
Rubi u have boyfriend
California USA 🇺🇸
Not that I do it , but I imagine "swinging " is unheard of in Philippines ?
@@Rubeauti swinging is where couples meet and swop partners for a few hours. A bit too liberating for me personally. But curious to find out your and other Philipina's thoughts ?
Women will fall out of love with a man if they know their husband is sleeping around with the chic in the next barangay
Filipino men cheat cause there's no actual penalty. No matter how many women they impregnate no filipino court will ever assign child support on them. If they are married the wife is trapped and really can't get a divorce. The courts favor the men every time.
Otherwise the relationships you described are just like over here. But a lot of Filipinos, millions, are trapped in marriages they'd dissolve if divorce wasn't so impossible to get there. All these marriages are already over except the people are trapped by them. Which again favors the men. Filipinas just don't get how abusive their relationships are until they're trapped in one. Then they get it.
🙏❤️
Why did you finish the vlog so abruptly? For me it seems to be a bit impolite.
If women cheat more then why are they leaving because of infidelity?
Are these men getting regular sex and still cheating of are the refusing sex?
I think people cheat because they are selfish people.
Communicate your need with your partner, so they can adjust or leave the relationship if you don’t want to be in the relationship.
When a woman cheats, it's over.
She was never your woman ..... it was just your turn.
True👍
Takes two to tangle. So both cheat.
🌹❤️❤️ stunning