How to Have a Conversation | Jordan B Peterson
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- Listening to the other person is the most powerful thing you can do in a conversation.
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I’m praying for his full recovery, few people ever encounter such succinct analysis of ideas. Our world needs his inspiration.
218philip what’s he sick with
218philip 🙏🏽
Whats up with him?
218philip I absolutely agree, he has opened my eyes to so much, and it's always easy to take people like him for granted. We all need to be grateful for his unbiased wisdom. I wish him a speedy recovery 🙏
Peter A sever reaction to medication, he very nearly died. He is in a difficult recovery process.
JP always looks like he's really paying attention when people speak to him.
I love how Jordan B Peterson records his lectures. That way, his students don't have to furiously scribble down every single word or detail that they think will be a question on a test. They can just listen to him and focus on absorbing the knowledge that he is imparting. So different from many professors these days.
I truly love and respect this man... I truly hope he recovers fast.
Finally he is healing, though not fully recovered
he is back😈
@@vLoneXThuG haha yesssss :)
We don’t understand the value of what we have until it’s gone. Missing new Jordan Peterson experiences... May his best be yet to come. This angry world needs his explanations and experience to light up our social darkness.
Be well, Professor. Godspeed to your health.
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Yes. Be well, Dr. P.
I feel like I have a phycology degree just listening to him
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looks like you need a spelling degree
For real !
I try to do this in friendships, but finding the right audience is key. I don’t blame them for finding real conversations disconcerting. Depth is challenge, and quite scary. It’s thrilling for me. It’s not a brag. Painful truths help me grow. Not saying it’s easy or fun. I find myself alone in this goal though. I’m not afraid of a solo journey. I’m looking forward to finding others who are on the same path. I’m hopeful I can find others who want the same discourse.
I wish I'd had him as a prof. One of the most influential people of our time.
You ain't need to type your notes so fast you can watch it later on CZcams😎🔥 one of the best profs out there🙌🤴
get well soon jordan. waiting for you to slay the dragon.
Protect this guy at all costs.
I keep coming back to this video to remember how to have a proper conversation (learning how to stfu and listen). Good to know that hes doing well after what happened to him and can't thank him enough
“We’re having a conversation, im deciding I’m going to listen to you. That’s different than how people generally communicate, because usually when they communicate they’re doing something like. Ok we’re going to have a conversation and I’m going to tell you why I’m right and I’ll win if you agree, or maybe your having a conversation where your, I don’t know what your trying to do, maybe your trying to impress the person your talking too so your not listening to them at all, your trying to think of what you’re going to say next. Ok, so That’s not this, “we’re having a conversation” this is, you might have something to tell me and I’m going to listen on the off chance you’ll tell me something that’s really useful for me to know. - Dr.Jordan Peterson”
This is about having constructive conversations. Listening to the other party. Expressing truth to learn about what you don't know - so as to become better. It's not so much about who is right or wrong, it's more about listening to improve and learn how the conversation can make us better
Thanks lots Dr. Peterson, my prayers for your complete recovery and your whole family serenity. Greetings from Morocco!
Love this man's movements when he speaks. it's fascinating in itself.
Brilliant insights! Thank you JP!
he always says the right thing at the right time
Thank you. Sending love to Peterson family and supporting friends
JP: how to have a conversation
Me, an introvert: taking notes
I truly believe that the people who criticize him have never actually listened to what he’s saying. They dislike him just bc he is a conservative and assume he’s speaking hate
He may not be conservative. My view is that 'truth' ascends ideology, or any way of being that is has a degree of rigidity in the face of what is really happening in the present moment. Being 'conservative' is like being vegan. It's a pattern of behaviour that simplifies life for that individual, at the cost of a degree of truth. Peterson is not aiming for that and neither are his teachings.
In principle I agree with your sentiment, however - and it will apply to anyone who he rubs up the wrong way. Which is everyone who is not yet at his level, if you think about it. He will at some point say something that makes you and I uncomfortable when it illuminates a part of us that is not living in our truth.
I know this is a big claim, but I think this is Peterson's greatest moment on CZcams so far.
Peterson is a brilliant philosopher and psychologist. I've long recognized his need to quiet his mind, as I and so many others are in need of the same. Letting go of great ideas and interesting thought is a 'skill' that our society would immensely benefit from. When we become too attached to anything there are repercussions awaiting.
Am capable of expressing what is true😇
Human nature 101!! Let the harmony and mutual mental health begin.
Eagerly awaiting some news from you and a new perspective on the new situation we found ourselves in.
Get better soon Jordan....World needs you!
Listening to you talking is therapeutic. I'd pay good money to have an hour session with you.
Hey Dr. Peterson, I enjoy watching the Q and A's and I learn quite a lot from them as well. Would you mind doing more?
I am so obsessively fascinated by anything and everything Jordan has to say, he doesn't fluff up his words to make the point of his story more entertaining, he just says things as they are, in the most captivating way. I struggle to talk to people about how mind blowingly wise and sophisticated this man is. He has so much information thats vital to hear.
i take my hat off to this man, honors and respect
Miss him
awesome lesson, thanks
I feel like the difference between watching these lectures and actually attending his classes is that he gives the students homework where they study the sources he cites before attending classes… so this information is an oversimplified summary of what the students are learning.
Anyone wants to learn more about this check out Carl Rogers who JP mentions and his book On Becoming a Person. Basically the man who developed therapy and caring relationships forward from what Freud had done. A true visionary. Should be a household name imo.
this is actually difficult to do especially when you are having an argument
This is so true but also quite impossible to do in real life. Most people are not there to communicate truthfully.
Uploaded a week ago? I misread “conversation” for “coronavirus” and thought JP was talking about the pandemic. 😂😂😂
This is important. JP is so interesting.
I can’t remember which teaching it was, but he explained about unexpected situations that we sometimes find ourselves in, that if we don’t do something about it right now even if we fail, we will never now.
How it is called?
I'm so paranoid and overwhelmed by this frenzy over the coronavirus that I read the title of this video saying how to have a coronavirus.
Defeat the dragon of chaos by seeking out the virus and getting sick so you develop an immunity.
Loll so did I!!
@@blacktortoise6812 pfft all those pussies running away from the dragon of chaos!
You might have something to tell me.. but pride keeps me from being humble enufto know it!
Lifehack: make your identity based around being a chameleon. Then your pride becomes pride in the other person, and all their knowledge and skills become yours.
I can understand why people think Peterson has a bunch of drones and that he's a demagogue if you look at this comment section. But it intuitively makes a lot of sense to feel an affinity for someone who listens to you and has helped you sort yourself out. That's just basic rapport.
Narcissist have left the chat !
Great information, wonderfully stated. Get very well very soon Mr. P. or I'll be very angry & resentful, & that's not good,.. you said so!
Hahaha, me too
4:35, this reminds me of the Correspondence Theory of Truth.
Hes an machine
It’s even harder to talk to people that are stuck in the matrix, and your considered a conspiracy theorist. Even though everything I say is coming from WHO, UN, world economic forum center own words too.
What really grinds my gear is people going on about shit you already know.
Damn, true that. Thank Prof.Dr. Peterson
1:40, 1:50, 2:11, 2:27, 6:01, 6:18
truth is the only true religion, meaning knowing the truth about who WE are and how the laws reality works
is the only thing that can re-united humanity's collective behavior into accordance with natural law
to seek and understand the truth about what is happening within around us, is an essential and fundamental aspect of life
Wow this was very informative sheesh people pay for this and call it higher education I knew that when I was ten thanks brah
You must also be an expert on the Dunning-Kruger effect, then
Conversation - LISTENING - Piaget.... fundamental element of knowlege... the process how knowledge is sought.... Express as clearly as possible - ---- Roger - the exchange of truth is curative ... (TRUTH helps with integration)....... Listening, asking questions,...... EMPATHIC LISTENING.... -- can/might bring about major changes to personality !!!
I hope he gets better real soon. It sucks to know that he is going through such a troubling time. If any of you are interested in ideas, specifically the Big 5 I have a video on industriousness. I'm not JBP, but maybe I can provide something interesting for you until JBP gets better.
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How He’ll be a well soon
Maybe that's why I can't have normal conversations. Because I have nothing to say that could be useful for someone else
Do you really believe that?
@@JohnCephas I do believe that. Sometimes I think that I don't have my own thoughts and just information coming from others. It's interesting to find someone like me, maybe we can have a conversation and see how it goes?
@@hayalaln2302 We do recieve thoughts, I am not sure if we can 'create' them. I'd be glad to have a chat, do you use the app Discord?
@@JohnCephas No, I only use WhatsApp or Instagram
@@hayalaln2302 ok how about you email me your phone number? boo-master at hotmail do tcom
To speak on Whatsapp
The shallow, knee-jerk haters of JP, should watch this video. He’s describing them.
Psychonaut ...Like millions of people from grandparents, athletes, teachers, construction workers etc who suffer too? Wow. You’re a pretty callous person. You must be young and inexperienced.
Psychonaut ...Nope.And Nope. Can’t walk back your obvious inexperience with real world people and ignorance of human nature. Sucks to be you.
Psychonaut ...LOL! Oh my, how proud of yourself you are. Heads up... no one gives a shit. Here’s some advice: Your callousness and self-importance makes you come off as a real dick. You’re welcome.
Psychonaut ...”...those whose opinions actually matter...”
Haha...just listen to yourself. Priceless.
Neither of you are going to let each other win, and now you're stuck in combat mode, so... I guess you both just will have to keep looking for ways to make the other look bad ad infinitum, wasting valuable minutes of your life. Hmmmm if only you could stop and say "we're in a dumb argument" and not go out of your way to misunderstand each others' point of view lol
I like his lectures, but he and other professional educators should know the distinction between smart and knowledgable.
He definitely does. Which part of the video are you referring to?
Guarantee anyone with a laptop is only half listening and tweeting or Facebook.
Every time I have a conversation with the God squad we go round in circles and I keep having conversations with them even though to do so is a weird form of sadomasochism. They don't want to learn anything from what I say because they only listen to the bearded one in the sky and all the other fictional characters in the Bible. And then if I press them on a particular question they change the subject and start talking about something meaningless. Great conversation!
I’d be willing to have an honest conversation with you :)
I'm trying to fix a house so I can move but I'm 61 female that my energy leave has fallen more then half I'm programed to work there every day this town I live in everyone's getting a check I work driving for older people a few hours a day and everyone needs a baby sitter and constantly are calling me trying to get my attention because there's no smart people in this town to talk to I'm not very good at writing but I'm good at talking and entertaining and how do I get them all the stuff I told him don't call me during daylight hours because I don't have electricity at that house I don't know I just need to talk
I have a hunch, people who can’t listen also can’t read books.
You say "what are the socioeconomic benefits of a state funded health care system?" And away you go, simple
How come word of God i mean love in your heart is treasure of goodness? You told me we will not leave for in marriage this is God kind of love nothing wrong in this truth for i am bride of Christ i din't have this word in me i am come out from ribs so i must get word from you don't betray me for i din't know that song he tells her not to go near flowers honey bees will mess up with her some of things in Bible said you may eat from every tree fruit not that good and evil when eve ate nothing happened to her when she gave her husband came to know that have sinned you give me words nothing is wrong in this And why you he who said that he will be my husband is different i don't understand this?
Hello. If you restate your question more clearly I’ll try to help. It’s currently one big run-on sentence and I can’t understand what you’re asking.
@@andrewunthank3521 yes this what i said i could see love in Dr Jordan B Peterson i mean that doctor i said grace is found in Him i said for Him Christ when I could not find love in pastor Dr Jordan B Peterson i could not understand this so investigation was going on was in process for doctor kept on repeating words we will not leave this i could not cross boundary he had put all his afford to bring me in my sences so how he give me to another pastor was in middle so i told him to be hot or cold so he made a choice to go in Chaos and i could not leave doctor for i am his child lord Jesus is my husband Holy spirit is fruit of faithfulness i am bride of Christ i am belong to doctor i hope you got my point please pass this message to Dr Jordan B Peterson very important so that come in light thanks God bless you
I really wonder how Peterson would communicate with meat headed small minded tradesmen. From my experience all they like to do is brag and tell you why theyre right. They think every customer through the door is a "retard". The word "retard" is thrown around as often as the sun rises and falls. The minute i try to have a good conversation or i share my experience with a certain instance, i get talked down to like im some outsider and i get one or two word simple sarcastic answers.
Thats because those individuals are closed minded, not their fault they are just programmed that way watching to much television lol
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Hahaha canadians
Huh???
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Thanks bro❤
Another famous word salad by Jordi
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This is old
It’s still brilliant