I started listening to this guy today and have watched 3 of his podcasts already. I'm from Nigeria, lives in UK and now a very big fan. He should move on to an international stage. He's that good.
I am guilty of not having wisdom & the foresight to not be too "open". I'll say this much I stumbled upon this message & have gone on to watch many more. Thank you @Joyce & @switchtv for this show & @Benjamin Zulu for the lessons.Such Wisdom. Application.
I respect how you feel now,,youve been too much of an open book,,,but i feel being frank with your close friend is very good,,,if you peee in bed,,,is you go crazy during cold weather,,,or any other that may come back after you,,,,,foolishness is relative.....just ask God for wisdom what to share...He is not a treakster....
Mr. Zulu, Thank you so much one needs to be wise indeed of being foolish. I pray for that and I've been reading the book of Psalms just to ask for Wisdom from God.
Benjamin is echoing what a married lady friend once told me. She said don't make your partner your therapist. Ladies are notorious of this. He is not your dumping basket, have confidantes outside marriage or the relationship. Joyce ..you killed it today with your attire. That blouse looks regale
Sarcasm can be really painful I agree with Benjamin. I cut off friendship with my sister in law because she was too sarcastic that I began to consider it disrespect
It's true that you don't have to tell your husband about your past he's not there to know about your past neither you to know about his past. If you want to keep your marriage only discuss about the future
Hey I love the show a great deal. However, as I am not a Swahili speaker some words escape me. Could the show please have on screen subtitles as CZcams subs really just don't do it. International audiences like I would really appreciate it.
I’m so impressed and inspired by watching your show. Mr Zulu is so articulate and very humorous in his discussion. Congrats to you Joyce and wishing you continued success. I will surely continuing viewing. Christina Duplessis from the beautiful island of St Lucia 🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨in the Caribbean
I commend your efforts Ben Zulu, u are so exceptional in your analysis and your delivery, I enjoyed every part of this show thanks for educating and imparting knowledge in the area of relationships Thumbs up Ben 👍
so true be careful with what you say and how you say it cause once something said you can not take it back...used to date a guy who brought up all my past mistakes I had confided in him with to hurt me and get back at me....also his parents did not like me so each time I wanted to talk about serious stuff on anything he would tell me be grateful am with you my parents don't even like you...and each time he would tell me go back to your ex because what you are looking for is not in me maybe you are used to those kind of man..hhahahah glad he left me though it hurt but I know my worth now say anything to break me down boi bye I cant my emotional being and the person am building will not let anyone just come trash my yard.....the problem was me so ladies do not be desperate to overlook words especially when they are angry...
Wanted to tell my partiner about my past full of unfaithfullness felt guilty about it but nooo i wont say anymore..will just keep it in my heart!! Thank you Zulu for the advice!!
The danger of the untold is that it resurphases when you least expecting and destroys the trust you've been working on for ages It's very difficult to convince the other person then because they be thinking .,..how many other things have you been hiding from them
Shalom Themby Donga true , better lay your story and let them decide whether to stay or leave. Knowing that you’re hiding something from your partner must be haunting on its own, the curiosity of how he’d take it the day he knows. If it’s true love, he’ll love and accept you as you are.
Please, don’t tell your partner to ease the burden on yourself. Let wisdom be your guide in this instance. That was your past. Just do better moving forward.
@@crissoa if u are thinking of staying with your partner/ husband till death do you apart, my dear, you better air everything out. The longer u live with someone, conversation about different things creep out when you don’t expect them to. Like someone said , if it’s true love, no matter what you say about your past relationship/ relationships, they will still stay with you. Talking from experience. Been with my husband for 15yrs met him when I was 20yrs.We talk about our ex’s and how lucky we are to have each other.
God servant is really at work, thank you for your obedience. He said trust and mistrust are the same thing, faith and fear are the same, you have to believe in something you can't see, when you believe in cheating you are believing it without seeing it, when you believe I'm faithful you are believing it without seeing, that's how trust works.'
My former girlfriend was xhosa she looked very much like you she stayed in kenya for a few years then left in 2018 i learnt afew xhosa words molo, njani, ndiyakukumbula, ndiyakuthanda, nunuza etc but she learnt alot of swahili words too, still miss her
I jt started to watch this show jt recently, and I found myself watching all the previous posts, I particularly like this guy Zulu, he's so talented and informed.. He inspires me in every show.
I am watching from America...I am going through a horrible divorce after 24 years with 2 adult daughters and an 8 yr old son. I am a victim of narcissist abuse and I filed for this divorce over a year now. My family is harshly fractured.
An ex told me one day he has already slept with around 15 girls, trying to impress me or bragging.while it was pure lie. But I knew i should immediately keep off him!!
Sorry girl, missed out on your notification, please let me know what you're flexible with, we can do it casually until you learn all the basics you need. Any ideas how we can start?
I have had 3 miscarriages for my ex and out of sadness, emptiness I said you to him it look like you might have to go outside. Believe it or not. He did. And the funny thing is my last miscarriage, and the child outside would have shared the same age. Go figure.
I always believe that if you are not a virgin any other man you will have a relationship with is always the second man. So another man is always the second man even if he is the tenth one
I started listening to this guy today and have watched 3 of his podcasts already. I'm from Nigeria, lives in UK and now a very big fan. He should move on to an international stage. He's that good.
Fellow Nigerian here. :-) I completely agree my sister!
Wow bitter but the truth
You don't have to be 'international' to the good.
Where did you get his podcasts?
He is absolutely good. I am Nigerian too and I watch him here in USA. He should collaborate with Phrankleen etc........he is that good.
Dont rush in to marriage. Better to be late and do things right. I Loved that!
Watching from Botswana
Exactly
Or do bad by your self.
Great advice
I've just watching this show today and I can't get enough of the previous posts too
I love the show and I'm really learning alot
He is saying the truth, I thought i was being truthful only to be always being reminded every time we fight.thanks lesson learned 👍🏾
I'm fighting the same too
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Don't attack a fool from any direction
This show is one of the best. Thank you for imparting us with knowledge. God bless. Love from Zimbabwe
My new favourite show I have listened to you my man and am getting tips we've had fears of the unknown insecurities and etc
Some truth, you hide them, and they come to resurface in the future unknowingly, then it breaks everything apart.
Exerctly
This a a great message especially to ladies. Thanks much
I just love the way he laughs😂😂😂😂
Me too😀😀😀😀😀
Benjamin is so real.keep inspiring me Benjamin.
Never approach a bull from the front, a donkey from behind or an idiot from any direction.... Waaaah yawah.
Aki hii imenibamba😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
So what do we do about the idiots?, we shouldn't approach them at all haahaaaaa
@@Letusprayforourcountry l
There's a lot of other nationalities watching this show...Please add subtitles...We love the advice from here!... #from Zimbabwe
I love the show, Zulu you're really a blessing and thanks Joyce.
Am learning much....am happy with Benjamin coz he is relating the current issues with the bible,,,thumbs up Zulu and Joyce,,,
This is an eye-opener! I hope they did this video 4 years ago, the time before I entered a relationship.
It's such 🔥🔥🔥🔥 thanks for honestly opening your heart to pour wisdom
Benjamin ur ablessing live looooong 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Wow! Love the show Joyce and Benjamin
I am guilty of not having wisdom & the foresight to not be too "open". I'll say this much I stumbled upon this message & have gone on to watch many more. Thank you @Joyce & @switchtv for this show & @Benjamin Zulu for the lessons.Such Wisdom. Application.
Am guilty of been too open minded and out spoken sasa sijui what is best
I respect how you feel now,,youve been too much of an open book,,,but i feel being frank with your close friend is very good,,,if you peee in bed,,,is you go crazy during cold weather,,,or any other that may come back after you,,,,,foolishness is relative.....just ask God for wisdom what to share...He is not a treakster....
I love the presenter she is so calm.
Better be late and right!that hit home!💯💯💯😊👏
Botswana 🇧🇼 woman watching from Namibia 🇳🇦. I totally love this channel. Woow. Honestly we will never stop learning
Am watching from Windhoek Namibia too
Zulu Zulu Zulu...you nailed it..I love this show especially when Benjamin is there I laugh and laugh
Mr. Zulu, Thank you so much one needs to be wise indeed of being foolish. I pray for that and I've been reading the book of Psalms just to ask for Wisdom from God.
Who's watching in 2024?
Much love from Ghana
Thanks sana Zulu. You always open a new phase of thinking in my Brain whenever I watch the show.
To more grace Benjamin Zulu. You are an epitome of pure wisdom
Benjamin is echoing what a married lady friend once told me. She said don't make your partner your therapist. Ladies are notorious of this. He is not your dumping basket, have confidantes outside marriage or the relationship. Joyce ..you killed it today with your attire. That blouse looks regale
Wow! Enjoying the conversation
Sarcasm can be really painful I agree with Benjamin. I cut off friendship with my sister in law because she was too sarcastic that I began to consider it disrespect
09:45 The power of attraction.. You attract what you think about
This show is fantastic, it gives relaxationship tips which really help. couples
It's true that you don't have to tell your husband about your past he's not there to know about your past neither you to know about his past. If you want to keep your marriage only discuss about the future
Childhood stories🤣🤣 are but relationship status are not good to tell
I am a fan. From Nigeria 🇳🇬
Weuweee! My pick up line, better be late and be right! I love it. Whaaaa? The bull, the donkey and an idiot hahahaha. Mungu saidia.
Wouuh i am still asking myself where i was to just discover this chanel today
Be honest but with wisdom. God is the source of all wisdom, let's seek the Lord. Love this show.
I love these discussions Joyce.
Hey I love the show a great deal. However, as I am not a Swahili speaker some words escape me. Could the show please have on screen subtitles as CZcams subs really just don't do it. International audiences like I would really appreciate it.
I agree!
I love the show and Mr Zulu so much I propose that a sign language interpreter. These good info should reach all.
Please I agree
I agree!
I second you on this.
This talk is so relatable
I’m so impressed and inspired by watching your show. Mr Zulu is so articulate and very humorous in his discussion. Congrats to you Joyce and wishing you continued success. I will surely continuing viewing. Christina Duplessis from the beautiful island of St Lucia 🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨🇱🇨in the Caribbean
Zulu is a lawyer .Very educated man .I enjoy the duo,they are very funny
Watching from Fiji Island's in the South Pacific Ocean
This was so good and true. Measure your Man wengine cannot handle us(LADIES).
I commend your efforts Ben Zulu, u are so exceptional in your analysis and your delivery, I enjoyed every part of this show thanks for educating and imparting knowledge in the area of relationships
Thumbs up Ben 👍
so true be careful with what you say and how you say it cause once something said you can not take it back...used to date a guy who brought up all my past mistakes I had confided in him with to hurt me and get back at me....also his parents did not like me so each time I wanted to talk about serious stuff on anything he would tell me be grateful am with you my parents don't even like you...and each time he would tell me go back to your ex because what you are looking for is not in me maybe you are used to those kind of man..hhahahah glad he left me though it hurt but I know my worth now say anything to break me down boi bye I cant my emotional being and the person am building will not let anyone just come trash my yard.....the problem was me so ladies do not be desperate to overlook words especially when they are angry...
This man is talking truth ✊✊🤞
Zulu is literally my therapist...you really build me up with the reality and advices..
Me too
Me too
Mine too
Yessss!
Benjamin Zulu, really cracks my ribs as much as he talks the truth as he guides us!
Weeeeh “don’t let people feed on you and they don’t feed you”
Attack the problem 🤗 you're hurt but you still care🤭🤭🤭
Wanted to tell my partiner about my past full of unfaithfullness felt guilty about it but nooo i wont say anymore..will just keep it in my heart!! Thank you Zulu for the advice!!
The danger of the untold is that it resurphases when you least expecting and destroys the trust you've been working on for ages
It's very difficult to convince the other person then because they be thinking .,..how many other things have you been hiding from them
Shalom Themby Donga true , better lay your story and let them decide whether to stay or leave.
Knowing that you’re hiding something from your partner must be haunting on its own, the curiosity of how he’d take it the day he knows.
If it’s true love, he’ll love and accept you as you are.
Please, don’t tell your partner to ease the burden on yourself. Let wisdom be your guide in this instance. That was your past. Just do better moving forward.
@@crissoa if u are thinking of staying with your partner/ husband till death do you apart, my dear, you better air everything out. The longer u live with someone, conversation about different things creep out when you don’t expect them to. Like someone said , if it’s true love, no matter what you say about your past relationship/ relationships, they will still stay with you. Talking from experience. Been with my husband for 15yrs met him when I was 20yrs.We talk about our ex’s and how lucky we are to have each other.
The words just flow , use your talent to bless many, i and my family will soon contact you
Wow thanks for sharing dat knowledge
Thanks a lot for the show....😊 Watching frm Uganda
God servant is really at work, thank you for your obedience.
He said trust and mistrust are the same thing, faith and fear are the same, you have to believe in something you can't see, when you believe in cheating you are believing it without seeing it, when you believe I'm faithful you are believing it without seeing, that's how trust works.'
I like the wisdom you are giving out
Shout out from Jamaica. I discovered this show last week. Very informative. Please can u do captions for those who don't speak Swahili ?? Thank you
Really I also feel I want to know the Swahili part coz this man is gift from God
Zulu ur so amazing. U relieve my stress
I love this show. I am xhosa but i am learning a lot, some words I do not understand but 👌👌👌👌👌
Am here to translate, feel free... 😀
We really need subtitles, this content is too good
My former girlfriend was xhosa she looked very much like you she stayed in kenya for a few years then left in 2018 i learnt afew xhosa words molo, njani, ndiyakukumbula, ndiyakuthanda, nunuza etc but she learnt alot of swahili words too, still miss her
@@normanmoriasi49 0
Nam mntase 🌸
Very informative, learning a lot.
I love this show , is reality learning
Love the advice.
Joices lough is contagious ❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Am learning thank you
Zulu and Joyce opening my eyes
I jt started to watch this show jt recently, and I found myself watching all the previous posts, I particularly like this guy Zulu, he's so talented and informed.. He inspires me in every show.
Me too I wish there was an English translation for the Kiswahili part.
same here 🤗
💯💯💯💪
@@clairethando you really do not miss much during those Swahili sessions the important points are in English.
I am watching from America...I am going through a horrible divorce after 24 years with 2 adult daughters and an 8 yr old son. I am a victim of narcissist abuse and I filed for this divorce over a year now. My family is harshly fractured.
I love the show ...benjamin is very wise
How can i subscribe to this programme and follow Joyce without following switch TV?
Benjamin you are the best!
waoh....good lesson
I love this channel
Benjamin...keep up the good work.Is better the bitter truth.
An ex told me one day he has already slept with around 15 girls, trying to impress me or bragging.while it was pure lie. But I knew i should immediately keep off him!!
Alot of us dont understand your language, please add subtitles. I could only understand the things said in English
This guy is wise
So in love with this show. Can anyone suggest sites or ways that I learn Swahili? I'm showing love all the way from South Africa🇿🇦
Shows on africa magic
Can volunteer to teach you
@@my_keygaucho2257 Okay, thank you for letting me know. I'll keep an eye out.
@@nurumaseah5873Yeyy!! When do we start?
Sorry girl, missed out on your notification, please let me know what you're flexible with, we can do it casually until you learn all the basics you need. Any ideas how we can start?
Thanks for this show
The gist is stunning! Black beauty!
I have had 3 miscarriages for my ex and out of sadness, emptiness I said you to him it look like you might have to go outside. Believe it or not. He did. And the funny thing is my last miscarriage, and the child outside would have shared the same age. Go figure.
Wauw absolutely remarkable👍he's really funny😂😂😂
But what happens when u have tried to talk things over with him and there’s no change. What do you do? Benny from California . Thanks Benjamin
Reconcile , connect,love and forgive yourself
Watching from South Africa. Where did these two beautiful came from? 🙏🏾
Thank you very much guys, to everyone, great show.
Kenyaaaa....
Super inspiring wowww😂🤣💉🔥
Very educative
Wow I love the topic
Never approach a bull from the front, a donkey from behind or an idiot from any direction
.. Benjamin 🤣wisdom is tops
Thank you for the advice 😍God bless you guys
Hi I'm Leah from south africa, I really love ur show I learn a lot bt sometimes miss some information cos of ur mother tongue,thank u.
All this wisdom
Cool TV show👌 Cheers
Eti there is differennce between lying , openess, honesty and foolishness😅😅😅😅😅aaah mr. Zulu is the best
Best adviser i ever see
And this guy is soooo wise
The wisdom 🔥🔥
I must subscribe coz I need a healthy happy relationship
I love the show I will subcribe too Learnt alot
Wow the first one to watch this
I always believe that if you are not a virgin any other man you will have a relationship with is always the second man. So another man is always the second man even if he is the tenth one
She is gorgeous 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Wooow this conversation is so overwhelming
Eti this not a rescue center 😳😳😂😂😂😂