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    00:00 Teaser
    01:18 Modest Dress of the Day | www.themodestfitting.com/
    00:41 Self Control, An Overview
    08:00 Accomplish Much or Very Little - Confidence in the Lord
    11:50 IDENTITY & Self Worth
    16:00 Fasting & Prayer: Food & Sexual Self Control
    21:14 DISCIPLINE - Training the Will
    26:14 RESOLVE - Determination
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Komentáře • 808

  • @melissaconroy2804
    @melissaconroy2804 Před 2 lety +386

    I had a thought in church the idea. My seven year old was struggling to stay quiet and still and I thought, " The task of childhood is self control over your body. The task of adulthood is self control over the mind."

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 Před rokem +12

      Even as adults, control our body is a challenge.

    • @Mosh-p5f
      @Mosh-p5f Před rokem +14

      @@kilodeltawhisky1504 control your mind first and the body will follow

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Před rokem +5

      @@kilodeltawhisky1504 done by FASTING !
      Killing addictions as we seek GOD

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n Před rokem +3

      @@Mosh-p5f by FASTING !

    • @angelagregory2810
      @angelagregory2810 Před rokem +5

      My husband and I trained our daughters to be still in church by practicing in 20 minute increments at home. We also appealed to their hearts by explaining people come to church to worship God and be fed by the word of God and we don’t want to disrupt or distract that ❤️

  • @fearlizz_wandress
    @fearlizz_wandress Před 2 lety +432

    I’m struggling with everything that has to do with self mastery. Over eating, laziness with prayers, homemaking and responsibilities, sticking to a schedule, being distracted by my phone or spending time with friends. I needed to hear all of this and thank you for this video! You’re inspiring me to be better!

    • @EarzOnTunz
      @EarzOnTunz Před 2 lety +52

      I would caution you not to say it's laziness but dig more deeply. It may be a lack of self-confidence, a lack of feeling worthy of achieving what you can, deep self-doubt from social or family conditioning or simply exhaustion or burnout. Ask the Lord to help you find the cause. I'm struggling with the same things and I KNOW for a fact I'm not lazy but disheartened. That is likely still a condition with spiritual roots but I don't want you to feel you're lazy when you're really suffering. Find the cause of the suffering and you can start healing.

    • @NeverAloneNeverAfraid
      @NeverAloneNeverAfraid Před 2 lety +15

      Have you asked God if there’s something you need to obey in the Gospel? God showed me that I didn’t understand baptism and that it’s more than a symbol. When I saw it as a death and a new start, I got baptized (the other times were just a ritual). I went under one way, and came out another. A dead man, theoretically, can’t sin, meaning that the sin nature is no longer our first nature. We put on Christ. Then we walk by faith remembering that He’s washed away our sin through the waters of baptism and put away the sinful flesh. And then we need to be filled with His Holy Spirit with evidence (speaking in tongues, prophecy). Baptism of the Holy Spirit is a game changer, He helps to be holy and He changes is as we continue in the Word and prayer. Then He commissions us to tell others and disciple them - but it all starts with repentance (turning from sin and turning to God, crying out for Him to give us soft hearts again so we’re convicted by sin). Let us not treat these foundational things as casual, I often find that skipping these foundational things can cause a lot of lack of victory and faith in who the Lord is as well as striving and eventually falling away. A lot of these things are talked about in Romans, Galatians, and other verses in the New Testament. The book of acts helps us understand what our foremost role is as priests and messengers for Christ and gives us this amazing foundation.
      Hebrews 2:3 - how shall we escape if we ignore so great a salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.

    • @BLJackson
      @BLJackson Před rokem +8

      Don't be so hard on yourself love. Take one day at a time and breathe through it.

    • @EbonyJon
      @EbonyJon Před rokem +2

      Same!!

    • @Shasta31487
      @Shasta31487 Před rokem +14

      What I find helps a TON is doing something, anything, one little thing towards the right direction. Something is better than nothing. It's okay to wash one dish. It is okay to text one friend to let them you know care. It is okay to make one meal.
      Then do it again.

  • @lizbave5426
    @lizbave5426 Před 2 lety +621

    I struggle with controlling my eating, de-cluttering, making & sticking to schedule.

    • @Bindi_Marc
      @Bindi_Marc  Před 2 lety +279

      I recommend reading the book "Atomic Habits" (shoot, I may do a video series on it). It can help unpack the basic principles that run most human beings with habit setting and ultimately self-control. I would also recommend you pray to God and ask Him to give control over yourself. Ask Him to gift you with resolve, know-how, and skill. Ask Him to help you to better understand how YOU tick. I'm an early bird and have discovered that if I really need something done, I need to make it happen before noon, because after 12p my energy starts slowing down. Others are the opposite in that they get major portions of their load done at night. It helps to know how He designed you so you can with your general tendencies as opposed to against them.

    • @justmeandHim
      @justmeandHim Před 2 lety +5

      Same

    • @hisbeautifultruth5931
      @hisbeautifultruth5931 Před 2 lety +6

      Wow. This☝️☝️

    • @dee4174
      @dee4174 Před 2 lety +2

      Me too.

    • @breannaphillips5761
      @breannaphillips5761 Před 2 lety +21

      I hear ya sis. I am starting my weight loss journey over. I gained 14 pounds since June 5th. So now I am eating 1 meal a day of chicken, no added salt. We got this sis💕.

  • @amberhanzy6576
    @amberhanzy6576 Před 2 lety +295

    Dang these videos are tough. I’m binging these videos because I recognize the truth in them. I’m not married and I don’t have children, but the principles are spot on. I have had such a hard time mastering my belly. Food has been a source of entertainment and comfort for me. I gained 13lbs since the pandemic and I just recently started exercising. Pray for me to adapt self control.

  • @RonishaTV
    @RonishaTV Před 2 lety +397

    I really just had to sit here and ask the Holy Spirit why in the world am I JUST discovering this channel ? Literally love this content !! 🥰

    • @ericacaines2529
      @ericacaines2529 Před 2 lety +18

      His timing is perfect. I just found it too. Been going through the old videos, and what a blessing. Been doing some serious prayer and reflecting in the last few days.

    • @lesegontsoele6678
      @lesegontsoele6678 Před 2 lety +7

      Me too

    • @Sulanboujetbeauty
      @Sulanboujetbeauty Před 2 lety +3

      Same sis, same

    • @ForYourInformation2
      @ForYourInformation2 Před 2 lety

      @TestimonyTalk SAME 💜 💙

    • @phillipsk100
      @phillipsk100 Před 2 lety +7

      OMGoodness- I just turned 72 and found this channel and SUBSCRIBED! I was a stay at home mom when my 3 children were young then used my teaching degree when they were in school. I retired to care for my grandchild(ren) and since they have been in school I am "Grammy on call". We had some extensive interior renovations done and I can't seem to get a handle on returning the house to "normal" and my eating habits, well, I've already learned about that from Bindi, so I am encouraged! Bless you, Bindi, for being a blessing to other women who seek the Lord in our life!

  • @jamesntui
    @jamesntui Před 2 lety +84

    As a man who was brought up in a traditional home but was exposed to a more liberal, Western style, and now a Christian, embracing and solidifying my traditional, conservative, Christian values, a love your videos and just subscribe.
    More women especially Christian ones should base their lives on the Word. Same for men.

    • @deirdremorris9234
      @deirdremorris9234 Před rokem +4

      Agree. And men, especially young men, need so much more support!!

  • @christine_marie_sings
    @christine_marie_sings Před 2 lety +240

    Your videos are so motivating! Your content is far better than any average “clean with me” or “how to be an it girl” or “how to exude femininity”. Every video of yours is how to carry yourself in a way that is pleasing to God in accordance to His word. To me that is how to be an “it girl”. Love this! Thank you for serving God’s people🙏🏽

    • @dominiquefelder1809
      @dominiquefelder1809 Před 2 lety +4

      Awe! Amen!

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe Před 2 lety +4

      I agree.

    • @lisebaricako474
      @lisebaricako474 Před 2 lety +3

      You are absolutely right ! 🙂

    • @marilynnfrazier1960
      @marilynnfrazier1960 Před 2 lety +3

      I appreciate you and your channel so much!! God bless you for everything you've helped me do!!I'm a right brain dominant woman, a former elementary teacher, a wife of 49 yrs., a mother. I have problems organizing but God will help me. My home is cluttered. I like what you said about cluttered mind,cluttered house. I pray I can improve and truly live the life God wants me to live.

  • @justinnequintos1521
    @justinnequintos1521 Před rokem +27

    That part about; you can leave a long lasting legacy when you’re successful in the realm of your home, really got me bc i get discouraged in the mundane everyday tasks. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @BriLoveMusic
    @BriLoveMusic Před 2 lety +36

    I want to thank you for correcting our fleshy habits without arrogance or being condescending at all. Your humility and obedience truly blesses me. God bless your beautiful family ❤️

  • @mistyjordan7147
    @mistyjordan7147 Před 2 lety +85

    It's been a year and four months of celibacy since God removed my husband from out the household; due to domestic violence of narcissistic abuse. My daughter and I seek counseling now from the trauma of mental abuse. Now, I need to get things done. Thank God I ran into your video, maybe I can get some order back into my life again. I use to be so organized, but when your mind is cluttered it shows outwardly. My son pointed that out to me. Time to get on the grind and declutter. 🙏💯🤗🥰

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 Před 2 lety +2

      God bless you. I hope you have a good church home to love and support you ✝️🙏❤️

    • @dolphinshark3202
      @dolphinshark3202 Před 2 lety +7

      God recently delivered me and my children from narcissistic and domestic violence father. I understand the pain, stress, and torture. God is so good though❤️

    • @babekglam5146
      @babekglam5146 Před 2 lety

      God bless you .It will be well with you .You are on your way to a greater love and self rediscovered.I thank God he saved you and your son.🙏

    • @mistyjordan7147
      @mistyjordan7147 Před 2 lety

      @@cherylwebb8340 unfortunately, I thought I did. Apparently, I've been Ostrichsized by church members of narcissism.

    • @zandymartin4751
      @zandymartin4751 Před 2 lety

      Praying for your strength!

  • @sincerelykayyy
    @sincerelykayyy Před 2 lety +190

    Bindi, you have no ideal how much your channel means to me. Although I don't know you, I really look up to you. A lot of attributes that I decided I wanted to develop in myself and in my relationship with Christ (before I become a wife and a mother) I see in you. Even down to having microlocs.
    I'm thankful to God that you have created a CZcams channel and are obedient to Him with what you post. Representation really does matter. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family 🥹❤️

  • @EricaLasan
    @EricaLasan Před 2 lety +164

    This video was great! The 5:30 AM wakeup time is something I'm really trying to get under control so I can spend time hearing from the Lord in silence. And so I can worship and pray and do devotions without the noise of my kids in the background. I've really been loving this faith-based content! :)

    • @jennjc800
      @jennjc800 Před 2 lety +3

      This is one of my main chains: sleep and waking up early to workout out and spend time with the Lord.

    • @LorensJ
      @LorensJ Před 2 lety +3

      Same here. Please share if you have helpful tips on how to accomplish those goals. I just want to dedicate quality time to our Father before the kids take up my time.

    • @netchix7840
      @netchix7840 Před rokem +1

      Don't feel too bad if you can't. I couldn't do this until I had a baby. I love waking up at 5:30AM now. If you can't wake up early, then go to bed late.

    • @goviralgo6418
      @goviralgo6418 Před rokem +2

      Have you ever tried praying WITH your kids?
      I started doing that and the kids learned a lot they stay quiet ? And get in agreement. We pray as I family and let me tell you I have felt the presence of the lord just as I do alone . And the best part my kids also. Don’t seek to separate prayer time. Include them. Later at night I have my alone time with God too

    • @LorensJ
      @LorensJ Před rokem

      @@goviralgo6418 I love your reply. Can you give me an idea on how you make it work for your family? We’re praying for the Lord to help us get organized at home so that we can spend more time with Him but you’re right the kids need the exposure/experience as well. Thank you!

  • @just.marysew
    @just.marysew Před 2 lety +52

    I tell you this in complete honesty and sincerity, this video is one of the most uncomfortable videos I have watched that has ever pointed the finger at my flaws and shortcomings. However, thankfully I love the nature given to me by Our Heavenly Father that once I see the truth I cannot ignore it. So thank you very much for sharing this video, I believe this was a major wake-up call for me, as well as others, and I thank you for being the vehicle for that.

  • @MrsMeganDyer
    @MrsMeganDyer Před 2 lety +38

    This content is so contrary to what our culture preachers right now. That just shows you how far gone our society is! More women need to hear these teachings and be empowered to embrace them. How life changing! How free are truly when we're ruled by our emotions, negative self talk, and things that offend us? We aren't! This is so so so good! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

  • @englandrose2366
    @englandrose2366 Před 2 lety +30

    I literally prayed the other day about Self-Control and how I need it especially when it comes to caffeine, sugar and a particular person in my life.
    I have also learnt to fast more and to not put something off that can be done today because who knows if I will see tomorrow, only God knows that 💯

  • @missmaedeut3210
    @missmaedeut3210 Před rokem +11

    Thank you sister for being so obedient to our God. I was crying out to Him last night after I had sinned (self-pleasure). Something I have been tied to for a very long time. And I want to be done with this. And you have helped me by saying start with having control over my belly. Hallelujah. God is good. I will start there. "My life is not my own, to you father I belong, I give myself, I give myself to you." Hallelujah ❤️

  • @Christina4JesusChrist
    @Christina4JesusChrist Před 2 lety +43

    you are the first Christian woman I have seen who talks about Christian femininity. I have had to resort to going to groups that enjoy 50's living so I can ask about modest dress but they clearly do it as a personal interest and not for modesty and christian morality (so things slip). But thank you so much for this I will be listen to all your videos

    • @melodiemusic9956
      @melodiemusic9956 Před rokem +1

      There are actually a ton of CZcams channels about Christian Femininity you should explore those too!

  • @cspann33
    @cspann33 Před 2 lety +64

    I’m single and don’t have children; a late bloomer, but I have a strong desire to learn to be a godly, feminine woman. I came across your channel seeking knowledge on CZcams to grow and develop into that woman. Thank you for sharing. I’m gaining wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I now need to implement what I’m learning.
    I’m still struggling with self control (eating & exercising), and consistency Blessings.

    • @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168
      @jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168 Před 2 lety +3

      Seek after the kingdom of god, you’re not a late bloomer

    • @carolbierman2910
      @carolbierman2910 Před rokem

      A great channel to learn about God's wisdom & truth....
      Smyrna Christian Church, Kokomo Indiana. They got a bad rap when they stated about God's truth in the both 6th & 8th day creation. This is a place of God's truth and worship. I promise.

  • @almetrabriggs6377
    @almetrabriggs6377 Před 2 lety +22

    I love this: order, structure and discipline guided through Holy Spirit. This welcomes the peace of God into our homes and it begins with us as we yield ourselves to the will of God. We must be able to manage ourselves first!🙏🏽

  • @omoyeleR
    @omoyeleR Před 2 lety +32

    It is relaxing to see your videos. Just to see a woman with discipline and feminine ways is amazing. It is not something I see at all on a regular basis. I wish you the best. And thank you

  • @Shasta31487
    @Shasta31487 Před rokem +17

    I am morbidly obese as well and have found that water fasting is amazing! I feel so good when I don't eat for periods of time and it is really shocking.

  • @sashanoel167
    @sashanoel167 Před 2 lety +30

    I am proof that you're never too old to learn. I can't wait to pass your channel on to my daughter and granddaughter. May God bless you and your ministry!!!

    • @Lynaelary
      @Lynaelary Před 2 lety +1

      Yes, please pass this on to the next generations💯%

  • @LISLOVESTRUTH
    @LISLOVESTRUTH Před 2 lety +39

    This is a deep one. I loved it. It was extremely convicting. Ironically, I'm a designer and I work in a Project Management firm, so your example from your corporate days was targeted directly to me. I have made other people's houses dreamy and yet my house is a mess. You are right about it being a reflection of the internal climate of the soul. I will apply myself to addressing this area of my life. Blessings to you.

  • @cherylwiemann5863
    @cherylwiemann5863 Před rokem +6

    Thank you for this video.
    I gained 50 lbs after my oldest son died. I’m currently trying to lose it but I struggle w exercise.I’m praying for energy and motivation to start. I have lupus and feel quite sick and fatigued most days. So it is a struggle although I have lost 15lbs by watching my diet.

  • @laurynfrancis3161
    @laurynfrancis3161 Před 2 lety +19

    I needed this reminder. Fasting is transformative. I will need to re-watch and write down those scripture references

  • @debbieyork864
    @debbieyork864 Před rokem

    I prayed about these issues last night and this is the first video I found and watched today! Thank you for sharing and giving this information and thank God for his insight love and guidance.

  • @tonij6688
    @tonij6688 Před 2 lety +9

    Oh, I am 54 years of age, grown children with grandchildren, retired and on a new Journey and this is helping me with the new responsibilities of self employment/Author and etc. I am still learning and Thank you again.

  • @ashleyrose4220
    @ashleyrose4220 Před 2 lety +1

    I needed this video! Your words hit home very deeply. I've been struggling with certain things you've mentioned. Thank you for helping me to become more aware. 💗

  • @allthingsaremadenew236

    I appreciate the kind and genuine honesty on these topics.
    They're very good to hear!
    I use to get up at 5AM every morning but I haven't done that in 5 months. I'll be doing this again starting tomorrow. I am always so much more productive when I get up early.

  • @ninakeeler647
    @ninakeeler647 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for sharing your heart with us. It is thought provoking, challenging and loving all at the same time. I am excited to get on my journey of self control with eating and will be adding in a weekly fasting day!

  • @crownofgloryandhonour
    @crownofgloryandhonour Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the book review and demystifying some of the ideas in it. I have had a copy for a while and will now read it.

  • @janicerenderos7677
    @janicerenderos7677 Před rokem +1

    You are a blessing! Yes have thoroughly enjoyed this video. I am on the path to self mastery. As someone who has struggled with being messy and over indulging in all things this has spoken Volumes to me.

  • @AbigailCarter710
    @AbigailCarter710 Před 2 lety

    I am so happy to have found this channel. This is going to be a source of inspiration to a young woman who is needing a guideline!

  • @alantheaclarkson1679
    @alantheaclarkson1679 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your work. I have been seeking a channel like yours for years and am so grateful for what you are doing. I feel you have really touched on an authentic Christian women's character.

  • @WhitDough
    @WhitDough Před 2 lety +5

    Very blessed by your channels topics. Been watching you since your 1st set of locs. Thank you for sharing and challenging us.

  • @thelaurenanya
    @thelaurenanya Před 2 lety

    I NEEDED to see this video. I’m grateful for your openness. This video has helped me in ways I didn’t know I needed. God bless you!

  • @teatime9649
    @teatime9649 Před rokem

    I appreciate this video. I truly think this was an omen for me to start focusing on fasting and working on myself. God bless❤

  • @ailene_e
    @ailene_e Před 2 lety +2

    I just started watching you and subscribed. I love these homemaker videos because I’m an aspiring homemaker and wife. God willing, if and when he blesses me with a husband, I want to be ready and prepared for the work that entails. Your videos are so practical and biblically solid, I’m feeling really edified and grateful I found them. I recently just bought the original print of Fascinating Womanhood as well, so I gotta get on that and read it. Thank you!

  • @hawleygirl
    @hawleygirl Před rokem +2

    So good Bindi! Your message on self control is spot on.
    I love playing your videos during my morning routine of cooking and cleaning. ❤️

  • @honeylovesluxury
    @honeylovesluxury Před rokem +1

    You have been such a blessing in my life as a Christian, Wife, mother and homemaker. I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your insight, motivation and authenticity with us through CZcams. Bless you & your family

  • @pamholbrook4516
    @pamholbrook4516 Před 2 lety +3

    I just found this channel this morning as I’m sitting outside needing to be with nature because I’m struggling with some things that have upset me with work. I’ve always been a scheduled person. I’ve always been able to find a way to balance my life keep my home clean, make great meals. But I struggle with eating. I go up and down with it. I have periods where I lose weight I keep the weight down for a while and then I gain weight back. And all these years I forgot that not controlling what I eat is glutinous. I needed that message as I struggle right now with losing weight. Thank you for the channel.

  • @MMM-du4qg
    @MMM-du4qg Před 2 lety +6

    I’m really enjoying your videos. I appreciate the time you’ve taken to prepare them and bless you for your diligence in answering this call. ❤

  • @Kyndal-Kyn
    @Kyndal-Kyn Před 2 lety +40

    This was a really great video.
    I LOVED how you talked about doing something unpleasant and difficult. My pattern is to quit ot be lazy and at 35, I'm tired of living my life like this. Since rededicating my life to CHRIST he has been guiding me to videos and women like yourself to help me be ALL that he purposed me to be. Thank You For Sharing. 🙏🏾

    • @jilliandavis4495
      @jilliandavis4495 Před 2 lety

      Hi! I’m interested, what other channels have you been watching that are similar to Bindi’s? I am interested in discovering other women who echo these convictions.

    • @Kyndal-Kyn
      @Kyndal-Kyn Před 2 lety +1

      @@jilliandavis4495 You can check our Elisabeth Elliot also

  • @valeriya105
    @valeriya105 Před rokem

    Your videos are everything... thank you for these. Much needed and I shared with a few friends of mine. Thank you thank you thank you.

  • @kmsongbird
    @kmsongbird Před rokem +1

    Oh how I need to control my tongue! Thank you for your hard work preparing and delivering these so helpful videos!

  • @tonij6688
    @tonij6688 Před 2 lety +8

    This is so good with clarity. "Training my Will and self mastery" are actions I wanted to execute, but hadn't yet knew the terminology of. Thank you.

  • @immensebeaute5293
    @immensebeaute5293 Před rokem +1

    This by far one of the best videos I’ve watched on CZcams . Something overcame me during my watch thank you 🙏🏾

  • @1FloGlo
    @1FloGlo Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing... I needed to hear this...and help apply this to both my home and work life 🙏🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @kbere4142
    @kbere4142 Před 2 lety +2

    Your video showed up as I was thinking about how hard food addiction has been for me. I’ve had my third baby this year, and every time I have a baby it’s so hard to lose all the weight. I stress eat, and that compounds the issue. I’m praying for strength to drop the addiction and find another way to comfort myself during stress. I resent how hard my work is and that we can’t afford for me to focus solely on the children, and I use it as a cop out to overeat. Thank you for your video. It’s encouraging me to keep trying.

  • @maggiea6766
    @maggiea6766 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing these points from the book. I have never thought of fasting that way.

  • @stephaniedevine4767
    @stephaniedevine4767 Před rokem +1

    Just found your channel today and absolutely LOVE it!!! Thank you for speaking truth!!!

  • @ohkay1976
    @ohkay1976 Před 2 lety +3

    Wow sis the love covers a multitude of sins part sent me CHILLS. thank Abba for your channel. I've been working on this lately as well & this was confirmed. Thank you for being so vulnerable & trusting in YAH mwah 😽

  • @bravemac8612
    @bravemac8612 Před 2 lety +15

    These are soooo good! Thanks so much for sharing. Sometimes it’s good to hear other perspectives so you can learn and grow!❤️

  • @roseb.5367
    @roseb.5367 Před 2 lety +5

    Just landed on your video, felt at peace and dozed off for a few minutes while listening. The back ground sounds of nature are what I have yearned to hear for years. The your voice is caressing and firm- nurturing, felt convicted 😊 without being screamed at.

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist Před 2 lety +3

    I’m blessed to see your discipline and spiritual maturity to connect the word of God to your skill set into home making.

  • @Heart_LikeChrist
    @Heart_LikeChrist Před 2 lety +8

    I’m currently facing a challenge of practicing Healthier stress management , rather than turning to addictive behaviors of eating

  • @lovewins699
    @lovewins699 Před 2 lety +4

    I just ran across your channel, and I must say that this feels like therapy for me. I sure needed this word. The background nature sounds is easing my mind. I'm going through a lot right now. Today feels stressful for me, but I'm starting to feel better.....thank you!

  • @tajayatomlinson5298
    @tajayatomlinson5298 Před rokem +1

    Definitely something I’m still working on lol everything actually - even down to prayer and fasting. I’m currently on a journey to be a student of prayer of fasting ++ fast and pray more so I can understand it more and become better at mastering it! Thank you for the video!!

  • @juliannacodde8633
    @juliannacodde8633 Před 2 lety

    This was amazing, thank you so much! You are clearly a godly woman and I so appreciate your wisdom and example. I will have to pick up that book.

  • @somitom7813
    @somitom7813 Před 2 lety +5

    Just what I needed to hear. Having self control over my eating habits. 🙏🏽

  • @asiak1334
    @asiak1334 Před 2 lety +8

    I love this thank you sis! I’ve recently over a month now have picked a day in the week to fast and pray. I’ve also picked a day when I do self care and spend time journaling and spending extra time with God. I wakes up in the morning at 3am to study for my career which is hard for me as a single mom, Plus im not a morning person lol. I struggle with cooking home cooked meals though I love to cook, I’m currently de cluttering my home and praying God helps me to keep up with it🙏🏼💖

  • @martikajahnae1005
    @martikajahnae1005 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for this content! I am currently working on my health it's been a up and down battle. In my family on both sides it appears extra weight is applauded and associated with good cooking. I am a decent cook, more healthier foods than what I was raised on and mother to one. I know I do not want to battle high blood pressure, diabetes high cholesterol. At the start of this year, I joined a weight loss program with my job and I am grateful for the process. I am looking at my weight loss journey this time around as a life long journey. I love the authentic way you shared about your family weight and tips paired with the expounding of the portion of the book shared. Thank you

  • @kookiekae14
    @kookiekae14 Před rokem +4

    I struggle with self worth. I want to be better for other more than myself. I care too much about others. I’m upset with my mistakes and past and I believe I don’t deserve things I currently have. I also beat myself down & it causes me to not take care of responsibility. I’m glad I’m aware of it I just need to work on it. Thank you for this message 😢❤. On a journey to self love & worth!✨

  • @katelynb7238
    @katelynb7238 Před 2 lety

    This channel is a tremendous blessing to me. Thank you, Bindi.

  • @DoesItReallyMatter25
    @DoesItReallyMatter25 Před rokem

    Wonderful video. Thank you so much for sharing. I’m grateful to have found your channel. Love from NY 🥰☀️

  • @marciaoppong
    @marciaoppong Před 2 lety +3

    This video was excellent. Just exactly what I needed to hear. Planning to act on it asap and listen to it again later. Thanks for what you do, and also really nice and encouraging to see your progression.

  • @Imaedraw
    @Imaedraw Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for making this video. The message is very convicting of laziness in all areas of my walk with God. Especially in the area of self-discipline.

  • @sharonjohnson8423
    @sharonjohnson8423 Před rokem

    Love the lesson on fasting & prayer

  • @kidsnkittens
    @kidsnkittens Před 2 lety

    Such precious, life giving words! I wish I would have heard this 25 years ago. I’ve learned, but so many mistakes along the way.

  • @Carrisakimble
    @Carrisakimble Před rokem

    I needed this.
    Train the will. 🗝️
    Thank you. 🙏🏾💕🫂

  • @APRMinistries
    @APRMinistries Před 2 lety

    I love every video on your channel but this is my favorite. Thank you so much sister Bindi. 💗

  • @baus7
    @baus7 Před 2 lety

    How am I just now seeing this?! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this. Thank you. The birds are all that much better. 🐦

  • @SolaScriptura-n-cats
    @SolaScriptura-n-cats Před rokem +2

    Bindi, you are so wholesome in sharing the truth with us. I crave this knowledge. You remind me of my baby sister so much. She’s a mother of nine, home-schooler, household manager. Purely Biblical wife and mother, and I admire her so very much. As I do you. I, myself, am 54yo and divorced. Can you tell me, please, how can I best apply your teachings to my own life, being that I don’t have a husband and my kiddos are grown. I just work full-time as a nurse now, and have cats. 😹 Thanks. Love your ministry, sister. 💗😻

  • @TanieBaker
    @TanieBaker Před 2 lety

    This is an excellent video and touched on so many things I’m facing as a stay at home mom and wife. Thank you so much!!

  • @kaysmall1
    @kaysmall1 Před 2 lety +20

    Not sure how I came across your channel but I’m so glad I did. I’ve been struggling with finding balance and disciplining myself in certain areas and aspects of my life. Thank you for sharing and being sensitive to the things of God. This definitely puts things into perspective for me and how I will grow as a whole

  • @sherriholcombe5428
    @sherriholcombe5428 Před rokem

    I struggle with self control where food is concerned,ungodly thoughts,fasting,homemaking responsibilities(I work outside the home and have two adolescent daughters),making timefor God. This video is very helpful. Thanks for sharing,.

  • @sandracrump
    @sandracrump Před 2 lety +2

    I love this video so much this has been on my mind! Fasting and be more mindful what I consumed! Also last week I’ve have had this talk with my co worker saying the biggest goal is for me is becoming a mom and she said she wants to grow in the company become at a the top ! Family makes your rich not a title or position because that can be moved! Family can grow and blossom from a woman!

  • @nunuallen4327
    @nunuallen4327 Před 2 lety +7

    Smart, and blessed. I listened to this whole thing and I'm an older woman. This is something that my daughter does, manage her house, and head project manager, and always looking out for husband and children.

  • @kether316
    @kether316 Před 2 lety +3

    This video is reminding me of God's overwhelming and magnificent love for me and for His children and I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your ministry and reminding me of His love and inspiring me to want to minister to others ;)

  • @susangillespie4443
    @susangillespie4443 Před 2 lety +1

    💙I am grateful that keeping our home is a joy that I am honored to do… and your reading and discussion has given me the knowledge and wisdom to up the organization and completion of these tasks. Thank you, Bindi for all your time and talent in sharing your blessings with us… it has renewed my enthusiasm and helps me remember for whom 💙and why I get to do these loving things…

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker Před rokem +2

    That part about being hangry and subduing our stomachs spoke to me! I may start doing the 24 hour fasts as well x

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo Před 2 lety

    Felt called out during this whole video!! Shuu. Thank you for sharing. Took away many nuggets of wisdom.

  • @sassymango9369
    @sassymango9369 Před 2 lety

    I just found your channel and I m so glad I did. You are a lovely lady and a great teacher. I struggle with my eating and you helped me see that it is affecting my relationships and my whole life.

  • @rebeccaestrada4946
    @rebeccaestrada4946 Před 2 lety +1

    I have had so much revelation. I declare self mastery. I ha e been in a season of finger pointing and dealing with familiar spirits. I am prioritizing cleaning more because I have been so miserable with the mess but dealing with my attention bring pulled towards work, when the truth is, it has always mattered so much to me to have my home organized for my family. Loving these videos. Praise God!

  • @JMarie-th8xe
    @JMarie-th8xe Před 2 lety +6

    Wow, I needed this! Thanks for sharing! Definitely need to work on being determined in my homemaking and also I've been working on moderation in eating. Gluttony is a sin that we often forget.

  • @dinascott8815
    @dinascott8815 Před 2 lety

    I have never thought like this about anything. This could be lif-changing for me. Thank you for your video!

  • @neba_heals
    @neba_heals Před 2 lety +1

    This was heavy and timely for my present space! Thank you sis💜🙏🏾

  • @ysvmd
    @ysvmd Před rokem

    Just went through a God given Glory to Glory breakthrough right at my kitchen table. Thank you for your help with this.

  • @JourneyOfFaith72
    @JourneyOfFaith72 Před rokem

    A good teaching that gets better and better as you share your personal testimonies so effectively.

  • @sarge7526
    @sarge7526 Před 9 měsíci

    I can’t help but enjoy the sound of your wind chimes❤

  • @bridgettefiphaza
    @bridgettefiphaza Před rokem +1

    Man oh man did I need to hear this! I used to be so good at being on top of things then I had my 7 month old son and since then I've just been all over the place. I gave myself grace in the beginning because ofcourse I needed to heal and recover. It's been 7 months now though and I'm still in a slump that has affected my housekeeping and work. Dishes stay in the sink for far too long. Sometimes my husband comes home to a dirty house and no supper. I've been wanting to change but no motivation and even prayed to God to help me change. This is JUST what I needed to hear!!! God is so so good all the time. The conviction is real and I pray that God helps me to follow through and be a better wife and mom. Thanks so much Bindi!!!

  • @isibaeza9135
    @isibaeza9135 Před rokem

    Amazing video, I've been guided to this channel, so excited to watch more and grow with this community. Thank you ❤️ I personally need self mastery in my relationship with food.

  • @victoriabutanu5400
    @victoriabutanu5400 Před 2 lety +5

    Great words! My thoughts on this video:
    *Indeed - we can put as much dedication into becoming a better housemaker and mother as we did (or do) in our careers.
    *Having a well thought out plan is really helpful. I personally discovered Fly lady system - the woman behind it is christian - it is a daily and weekly routine of upkeeping your home and there is an app that lists tasks grouped for areas of your house. It is so much easier having this list in front of me since some of these tasks I almost never did before on a regular basis (more detailed cleaning).
    *building character and will power is directly linked to self confidence. The more you accomplish, the stronger you feel. This is what I I working on.
    Thank you for the video

  • @elizabethchilders2604

    Thank you so much Bindi!

  • @sidhedanu
    @sidhedanu Před rokem

    This really sounds just like the principles set forth in a book I read 20 years ago called Practical Solitary Magic, which I read out of curiosity more than a need to follow any sort of particular spiritual practice. Religious rituals make me nauseous. The book advised being intentional with thoughts and just reminding yourself of your goals. The rest was silliness, except for white light energy. I believe that helped with my babies.
    My experiences in the church as a child were traumatic, and I rejected Christianity at 9 years old. But I feel strongly about Christian morality and modesty and self-control and being the best wife & mother I can be. I appreciate the place you're coming from.

  • @auroragracepalumbo7442

    Love this. I’ve been trying to figure out a way to develop a better relationship with food and I could not understand why I was so undisciplined with it. We joke around about being hangry also. My boyfriend also tells me he loves how much food makes me happy but I was starting to think that shouldn’t be healthy. I like the experience of eating food while spending time with people and it seems like it’s the only time we can get people to sit still and be present more instead of always watching tv or xyz. I do enjoy food, but this perspective has been very helpful for me in drawing the line between eating for food to bless my body and eating bc I’m abusing the ability to eat.

  • @annikavinroth2573
    @annikavinroth2573 Před rokem

    Thank you soo much for your advice and guidance in scripture as for homemaking! God bless you and your family!

  • @hnsmith11
    @hnsmith11 Před 2 lety +5

    I am so glad the Lord led me to you, this is such an encouragement for things i have been working on. Self discipline and sticking with it. Also self love and self image. Thank you for doing what you do. I already am looking forward to other videos. God bless you sister in Christ.

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 Před 2 lety +22

    This channel is a blessing

  • @bonniebond8828
    @bonniebond8828 Před 2 lety

    Excellent advice. I’m going to get busy training my will. Thank you so much