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Is Jada responsible for her husband's actions? Are we responsible for our husbands' actions? No.
Did she have influence? Do we have influence? Yes.
I noticed that he thought it was funny but she didn’t laugh 😂. That really supports the point you made about the fragility of their ego. He was paying attention to how she felt about it.
If that is not throwing Jada under the bus, I don't know what is and using the Bible no doubt? Hmm...
Just subscribed to you yesterday and now unsubscribe to you right at this moment you lady need to wake up to the truth of these Hollywood demons you are supporting them here absolutely sad and I know God the father is not happy with this believe that👿👿👿👿👿🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
@@amylee-coleman7345 girl wuh? ...
@@amylee-coleman7345 ❓
“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.” Proverbs 14:1
I can listen to this woman all day. So much wisdom
Young Lady, You have been blessed with wisdom beyond your years. Thank you for this.
I made a hefty mistake with disrespecting my husband whilst we were in public in the first few months of our marriage. Seeing the way it affecting him- I knew that I'd never do that again. This can literally make or break a marriage, so I hope all who watch take this topic seriously.
I made this mistake too a few months ago😩i regret it so mucj
The power we hold in our husband’s lives has been my latest meditation. We as women must be ultra disciplined + God-lead to uphold the integrity of our home. We frame the character of our entire family! ♥️
What an honor to be a pillar of strength for my husband 🙏🏽 I promised the Father to utilize my influence righteously! All honor to the Most High!! 🙌🏽 Thank you Bindi. Bless you!
Mothers of teenage girls should require them to watch all these videos before getting married!!! She is outstanding! She has a calling to teach biblical truths to women!
Glory to God!!!!
You stated this so eloquently. I appreciate the grace that you extended to both Will & Jada.
This channel is becoming some of the best content I watch on YT. Keep it up!
So agree.
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This is the most sensible and compassionate take I've seen on this incident ❤
Love how you used this news for a way we can reflect in our own marriage!
Such wisdom for someone so young. You do a fine job of teaching God’s words for women. Thank you!
Finally!!! Someone who is speaking the ENTIRE TRUTH🙌🏽🙌🏽! Well said!
I'm a 54 year woman and you're describing my husband perfectly in terms of masculine pride. I'm learning so much from you and how I can support and respect my husband better.
It is critical to use our feminine influence to glorify God, then our husband & children benefit in many ways!
I've binged all your videos over the last few days and I was staying away from this one just because I have other views on the jada/will drama, but I'm glad I ended up watching it.
I knew the end of mine and my exes relationship was a lot of my own doing but I also blamed him for his part. But I'm now understanding how much of what I did caused the ultimate destruction of him and with that our relationship. If I had had a relationship with God at that point I would have understood and respected my exes choices.
I truly wish I could go back and do things in a better way, through God. One of my greatest regrets will always be ruining our relationship and having my children not grow up in a single home that is lead by their father and care for by their mother.
You’re a wonderful orator and I love the depth of your messages!
Well said! A lot of people can’t handle the truth but don’t ever water down or sugar coat it.
Growing up watching my mom blatantly and purposefully belittle my dad in front of me and other people, made me hurt for him in ways I’ve never felt since. He would sit there silently and take it until he would eventually explode and my mom would use his anger and hurt against him even further. I vowed to myself as a child that I would never do that to my husband. Now as a wife I try my hardest to respect my husband in every aspect, even though I fail sometimes. Even the smallest jokes that I think are harmless can hurt him and he is not an emotional person. My dad passed away in January and I was so relieved that he was finally free from her disrespect.
I'm really sorry for hear what your dad had to go through, and also wanted to say your husband is blessed to have such a thoughtful wife like you 🥺❤
I so wish your video was seen by all those who are so quick to throw Will Smith under the bus. Great video! Thank you for sharing your perspective
I agree but the man is also the head of his household. What behavior he allowed into his household is ridiculous and ungodly. You reap what you sow. Look at the fruits of his marriage, two confused children and a dominant wife that controls his emotions by playing with his heart strings. All of this, because of what he allowed to take place in his marriage. Give the enemy a inch and he will take a mile……..
True but she isn't trying to put the blame solely on Jada, it's just that we're talkin about wives and she is one so that's why she's a perfect a example on why we should be mindful as wives. When a woman has a mans heart he will try to please her even if it's something ridiculous as an open marriage he was too lenient I believe if he had God in his life he wouldn't be in this situation. Unfortunately not everyone is lucky. he was truly a man with promise and now he is reduced to a mockery I do somewhat feel bad for him in that sense but as you said you reap what you sow and you're 100% correct
@@tynasiafraser2958 not Christians for one so thas down the drain. Now a days, women do what they want without asking their husband's so that's how she is. Everything is wrong and as a woman, she is part of the world.
I agree. I see it that way too
Truth
It's the Ahab and Jezebel dynamic....Ahab was the King, he had authority and position of husband but at the end of it he succumbed to his wife's rulings....Will has the embodiment of Ahab but when it comes to his wife he succumbs to her wiles.
Apart from your connection to the Smith drama, your points are excellent and right on. We have so much influence in our marriages, and many of us do not wield it well.
The drama with "the slap" is just that--theatrics. Something else for the public to talk about instead of the important things that are happening in the world. "What profit a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul." These "celebrities" gave up all kinds of things--purity, integrity, decency--to gain the wealth and same they appear to have. Watch out, church. 👀
Amazing amazing video. I literally caught myself covering my mouth in repentance for my conduct and words thus far being a wife. Thank you for your obedience!
Its weird hearing your instinct, mindset and insecurities being explained so concisely. I think you are spot on about Will Smith and men in general.
Soooo powerful!!!! Wow, thank you for this video! I got chills when you talked about impacting generations to come.
I really appreciated this video. You mentioned finances/ wealth as the buffer for a broken ego, and brought the example back to regular income earners. It looks like you have a nice house and simple life in comparison to some women who are say living in poverty or living on the streets, whose characters are being tested with immense adversity as they relate to their husband's. So, I really do appreciate your wisdom to be inclusive of women who are poorer than wealthy couples, by explaining how finances can affect a pooeer man's ability to regain a sense of himself and how it affects the woman.
You're one of the first women I have come across on CZcams who lives in a nice house and thinks wholistically about the interaction of people and money as far as spiritual principles goes. In this case, reflecting on the challenges that women living in less than comparitive wealth, face when dealing with their spouses ego. God bless you.
You are very wise young woman. I'm new to your channel, I am loving it! So glad I found this.
So helpful, the best therapy for a Christian wife comes from biblical woman… I’ve never been so refreshed and well educated.
Thank you so much for this content! I am a follower of Jesus and a Black woman who values modesty and homemaking. There is only one other channel I have found is on modesty and homemaking from a Black woman is the feminine fancy. No disrespect to her but I don't believe the content creator of the feminine fancy is a Christian so it's great to find your content!
Habits of a Homemaker is another Christian black woman homemaker on CZcams, but it’s the only one I know. They are both amazing!
Yeah you’re right She’s not a Christian. Also ebony Nikita is a Christian homemaker
@@LGJiG I love Habits of a Home Maker. She seems so sweet
There are more?! Wow, funny how you search YT and find nothing but then a year later...it spontaneously appears in your feed....then I learn from others there are two more!!!
@@garlicgirl3149 CZcams was playing with the black content creators 😂
your videos are so peaceful but edifying at the same time. so glad i found your channel!
Don't come into public space when you aren't discipline. When you disrespect yourself in private it will show off in a matter of time publicly for ridicule. Every division we take good or bad has repercussions.
Wow. You really hit the 🎯 on this topic.
That's a pretty spot on assessment of Will & Jada. Great lesson.
Thanks for your refreshing perspective on this topic. Many don’t give the grace that you’ve extended them, it shows the fruits of the Spirit. Yah bless and guide you and your family!
Thanks for the deep insight. I pray Christian women will realize their influence and use it positively to build and protect their husbands' masculinity.
Pure wisdom from the HOLY SPIRIT 🙂🙂. GOD bless you
Love this message! 💖So much truth in it. As females and wives we must be more responsible with the influence we have with our husband's. Even in a dating relationship, we must not use our influence to tear down the men in our lives. If we continue to emasculated our sons or the men in our lives we will answer to God for that. I have been guilty of this in my life and have had to repent of it. Now I'm committed to teaching my daughters from my mistakes.
I absolutely love your channel! What a beautiful person you are inside and out. Your family and friends are certainly blessed. I wish I had a friend like you.
Your channel is so needed for women and marriages. Some women are getting out of hand.
I do see the point of this video but at the same time I find it confusing to hear you speak so positively about a couple committing adultery as a Christian wife, I’m not sure I’m not understanding or missing something.
This was so powerful!! You really hit the nail on the head here!! I watched this with my husband. It was truly eye opening. Thank you again for sharing. 😊
I didn't carry myself with discretion and dignity. I was so angry and going to sleep on that anger grew deep and rooted and produced such bitterness. Hurt from my husband I chose unrighteous behavior over comfort from Christ. My behavior brought such suspect upon my faithfulness and shame on my husband. I would do anything to go back and talk to my younger self. I would tell myself that I had to forgive my husband or I would sin against God and hurt my husband and at the end of the day I never wanted to bring shame to my husband. Ladies if you hold on to unforgivness you will dishonor your husband. You can't walk in Christ with a hard heart. My husband never repented for the things that I clung to but it doesn't matter that is between him and God. I wish I always walked in good character and I wish my husband's name was still spoken well of at the gates. His hurt ego didn't bless anyone.
The biggest mistake was them getting married just because she got pregnant .They could have just co parented .Jada never ever actually loved smith and the ghost of Tupac visited their homes ecer so often .She never let go of Tupac
They were harming themselves and each other. They are reaping the wages of their sin...in their marriage, and with their children's lives.
Will is the leader who has led his family in sin.
Wow! This.... such good words of wisdom!! Well said...
Wow. Well delivered. And I am thankful to have your content to learn from, as a soon to be Christian wife. Thank you and God bless you and your family
Fantastic commentary on this whole situation. Your channel blesses me. Thank you for sharing. 💗
Much insight and wisdom here.
Thank you. I hope you acquire many subscribers. Young women need to hear you.
Amen, this is so true! We have great influence as women, as the youtuber Tony Gaskins mentions as well❤
You bought that out perfectly… influence by woman started in the garden. Good content
Your new to me, I love watching homemaking videos especially Christian ones. I just so appreciate how the Lord has used you. Keep seeking his face, it shows. I'm always chasing wisdom, your channel has blessed me. Thank you xo
Spot on! It was sad to see what happened. Great insight.
Prayers for Jada and Will. Everyone has some brokenness. Praying for them.
So profound! Thank you for sharing. There’s much to learn from this situation.
I like how you approached the subject matter delicately. Although spiritually speaking I’ve always seen this couple as Jezebel and Ahab. Prayerfully, this incident wakes this family up and directs them toward the path of the living God.
Incredibly blessed by this video to GOD BE THE GLORY 💝👑
Every video you drop gets better and better 🥰
You're wise beyond your years, continue to let God use you.
I just love your videos. This (and many topics you illuminate in your videos) is something very powerful that I have learned on my own. I thank God and my husband for teaching me. I am humbled by the beauty of these truths and the responsibility within me to understand all of this so as to learn to love my husband in ways I never realized were possible ❤️
Your wisdom and how you deliver it to the public is so straight up I cannot ignore it, you have impacted me in a positive way, thank you for the work that you do
I needed to hear this so much, thank you❤
I love your words so much! You have a gift for speaking.
This was a such a great video!
I couldn't stop nodding along in agreement😊
Girl, Speak!💖
this blessed me and my marriage. Thank you so much Bindi. Incredible take biblically on the Jada/Will situation. I personally did not have all the context; you painted a visually clear picture of the steps that led to the slap incident. So much to take from this, thank you!
I have so much to learn. Let the Holy Spirit continue to lead me into all truth.
And no matter how much money they Will and Jada Smith have, no matter the millions of dollars they have because they sold their soul and they don't have Christ none of it matters.
I bought the book and essentially I bought myself a challenge!
I think you’ve got this absolutely right ⭐️
Well say. Thank you for blessing us with the gift God has given you, thank you for wisdom.
New follower and I’m loving your content and what you stand for. Your take on this is spot on and through it I have gained grace for Will Smith. Before watching this video I was really disappointed with his actions but never gave thought as to what would lead a man who appears to have it all, to such reckless and self-sabotaging behavior. This has definitely shed light on other factors at play.
Im purchasing both books that you’ve referenced in this video.
Wishing you ever good and perfect gift.
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I understand your point of view 💯 %! I was upset for how much was packed into this. There was an all black production staff for the first time so that was very impactful in that respect. At the same time if you torture any being animal or human, when they have had enough 💥… it’s enough. Rather than further crucifying him for being human it’s good to see a perspective that shows grace. He chose this wife and is trying to honor marriage be staying with her. I can respect his continued efforts to take his rightful place even if he doesn’t know where that is exactly.
@@akilahballard1283 honestly I think we need to show compassion for the situation he is in and pray 🙏🏾. Further bashing him does nothing that looks like Jesus. This is the perfect time for the church to show what compassion looks like and possibly win him over to the forgiving and loving grace of God. I am not saying violence is ok, just saying that we can change his past 👋🏾 behavior, but we can cover it with grace and pray for change for him and his family.
@@akilahballard1283 I am not at all excusing his behavior but allowing grace to him. We ALL will sin and when we do I pray that the same grace is given. As a parent I understand when my daughters do things that I don’t agree with yet there are consequences. Let’s just let those who have never made a bad decision be the fist to throw stones at him. He was wrong but still deserves the same grace that Jesus died for. Moses acted in rage and murdered someone but through grace his genealogical line was preserved and through grace I can be saved because originally only Jews could get into the kingdom. Either way you know all this stuff. To each their own. I can see the Christ in these words but that’s just my personal opinion that you are not required to agree with. Nice chatting with you, have a great day 👍🏾
Retrouvaille may help this couple. Love is a Decision. Until deep wounds are cleaned out they will continue festering into all aspects of ones life/relationship/family. The Living Water is a start to healing. + We are all on this journey trying to figure The Way and keep forging our own paths when there is a well established path just waiting for us to take. It's very easy to fall for the detours put in front of us. We were made for communion to help with discernment while on The journey Home.
I will be editing my comment as I listen, and think you're right about his pride being broken. Unfortunately, it was Jada who introduced the idea of sexual openness within the marriage. Will wasn't for an open marriage. He was more traditional, but Jada wanted access to other people outside of the relationship, so she convinced him to participate in it. Will is humongously sensitive to the point of being controlling concerning the image his family portrays.
Wow! This was powerful.
Beautifully said ❤️🙏🏾
I have just discovered you and am really enjoying the views you are sharing. Thank you very much. I am eager to keep on listening to you. Colleen
I agree with everything you have said.
Spot on! You speak truth.
Truth beautifully and respectfully put. Well done! 🥰👌
May our Almighty bless you for sharing the wisdom with us!
You are so full of wisdom. Thank you.
Proverbs 31:11
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
He clearly can not safely trust in Jada and their secular marriage is taking a beating because of their openness to outside interests. Thx for the video and example of your Christian walk.
Wow this analysis is deep!!!!!
I would put this on Jada if Will Smith had not condoned the open marriage. But he did. So this principle of wives reflecting their husband is moot. Because she did reflect her husband accurately if he also agreed to this sort of marriage. Jada understood she wasn’t breaking their agreed upon arrangement, so she wasn’t taking him down, she was doing what they both agreed to. If he knew he would be embarrassed should this come out, they should have both had a talk about if they should even be doing it to begin with, but you can’t put it on Jada If she was operating out of a mutual agreement.
Will also admitted to cheating before .However Jada been looking for Tupac since he died
@@sakuraesther6309 I think both decided to married for the wrong reason, Will knew deep down he couldn't compete with a man like Tupac, but once he passed he thought excellent this guy is no longer in the way of my dream girl, she'll forget him, but in reality she's been talking about him for years, to the point that their daughter at the age of 6 wrote a letter for Tupac to comeback so her mom won't be sad, in Jada case she saw a "nice guy aka boy next door never got over her friend...so it manifest it self which I think grew into resentment towards Will and his success.
It’s only that it’s not a godly character according to the creator of marriage 🙏
Love this perspective ❤️
It's 10am where Iam and watching you cut those potatoes is so oddly calming and satisfying
I concur with your assessment. I didn't know all of the background dynamics.
I understand what your saying and I agree with some of it, I also think that a unhealthy ego and pride is something that needs to be worked on and an external individual cannot blamed for that. I also believe this works both ways a husband and a wife can have influence on each other’s growth and lack there of. Us as wife definitely need to be more sensitive to our husbands pride and how he feels about himself however when it is something unhealthy that would need to be addressed because many men do unquestionable things because of there ego and pride some married and some are very much single.
Did you listen to her message with regards to her context? Before going into defense mode?
This video shows just how important Ephesians 5:33 in the amplified version is:
However, let each man of you [without exception] love his wife as [being in a sense] his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband [[a]that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and [b]that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly].
I need this lesson today, thank you!!
I believe God brought me to your channel, thank you for all your videos, may the Lord bless you.
And i don't know you but i feel like i love you! Thank you so much for this content on feminity. Please don't stop! :)
Amen!! I feel this, I’m hungry for this type of content.
I appreciate your ministry. Keep it up sister 👏
Agreed!!
I love your style, home and simplicity ❤
I totally agree with you, but in a related issue, I wish to point out something that took me years to figure out and I was blaming myself. A wife can do everything right and a husband who does not have a Christian outlook will only see her as a pushover. I have seen women struggle to be a Godly wife for years only to be treated with disdain. Only a Christian husband is won over by feminine traits like submission, modesty, generosity and hospitality. Of course, we must 'do everything as to the Lord' for this reason.
I don’t think so. According to the Bible it says opposite. In 1 Corinthians 7:16 and 1peter 3:1
@@oodlesofdoodles8389 Can't argue with the Bible, but yet it's not what I see happening in the people around me. It confuses me and makes it hard to just trust that God knows what He's doing. It's a daily giving up of ourselves.
@@oodlesofdoodles8389 I understand your point and here is the verse: 1 Corinthians 7:16 : "'How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?"
As you can tell it is an open question. Sometimes the answer is yes, sometimes no. But the Bible encourages the born again spouse to pursue righteousness either way. And it is a fact that non-Christian husbands can absolutely despise/hate their wife because of their Christianity (as well as the other way around).
That's why being unequally yoked is so NOT recommended by the Word and people who have been in this unfortunate situation
Well, said! Very wise.
It started in the garden... genesis 3. We saw the consequences of the influence of the woman being led by satan, on her husband.
Women, we should always be led by the Most High and be righteous influences to men.
Thank you I am so glad I found this channel
As always, well delivered.
Such insightful comments!
I've been writing about modesty for years. I'd love to be one of your first customers. I'm having some issues with the man I was supposed to marry. We both made huge mistakes and broke up a year ago. I STILL love him and I know he feels the same. We are both getting excellent Godly counsel. Our Pastor thinks we should marry. I want to reconcile and I reached out to him. No reply. I definitely emasculated him but it wasn't intentional. He was insensitive to me but it wasn't intentional. Pray for us!
You know this is really true because when someone is great a common compliment is whoever their partner is or whoever will become their partner is lucky but when someone is not great an insult can be I feel bad for whoever their partner is or whoever will become their partner