How to Forgive Yourself of the Past | Eckhart Tolle Teachings
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- In this video, Eckhart taps into how the ego creates a false sense of identity and leaves us unable to forgive both ourselves and others through associating mistakes and wrongdoings to who they are, rather than seeing them as what they actually are: a manifestation of unconsciousness.
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Don't blame yourself for being unconscious in the past
NOW you are awake, dont waste time now by regretting
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Very, very few are truly fully "awake". "NOW you are awake", is true for a speck of humanity.
AwakenING, yes. I have met 3 truly awake beings ( I am not one of them, and this nickname is some years old, by the way haha! ): Mooji, Byron Katie and GP Walsh
Being unconscious led me to being unfaithful, and it cost me the woman I love. It woke me up. The pain and grief are immense, but I’m grateful and on the path to forgiving and unconditionally loving myself and others.
@@OsirisNin you get it. I'm just now beginning to see this. Unconsciousness and thinking that is me and especially just about everyone else in the world has led me to the bottom. At 48 I am now beginning to awaken. It is sad to me that most may not on this plain. I am more grateful for seeing this finally in my life than literally anything else ever.
@@JonasAnandaKristiansson 😀super cool ! Perhaps how about making a video telling us more about those 3 "awakened people " bcuz I Neva heard of em
If you have constantly felt guilt for years tell yourself you’ve done your punishment. You’ve learned from it and it’s time to let it go.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Thank you. All the best.
I feel so sorry for what I have done regret
Wow I really needed this
@@michaelsilverfoote6272 q 😂
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨
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Thank you so much 💕
You are very kind thank you
Amen. Thank you!❤
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“If you don’t leave your past in the past, it will destroy your future. Live for what today has to offer, not what yesterday has taken away.” 👁💫
I feel I have wasted years living in the past instead of being present and savoring each moment. Blessings.❤
There are parts of the past that will always be with you, no matter what! We all have different situations in life, that we are dealing with… some of us, can rise above them, and some us can’t… I’m now in the phase of merging past with present, to have a little peace of mind..
@@lavern1402 🙏❤🙏
I have Been living in the past for the last 4 months.. Its preventing me moving forward.. Utterly misable.. How and when do I pull out of this?? Please help
@@clivejohnsonuk7721 I can only speak for what has resonated with me. These videos help so much. I was allowing my ego to dominate things. Feeling sorry or sad about the past. A person told me I needed to stop. It really shocked me but I realized she was right. Forgive THOSE in the past, have compassion for them and forgive and surround them the white light and send them that on its way. I do it daily! Also when you feel yourself slipping back, ask to be brought back to the present. Take a deep breath or two focus on now. I'm on same journey too. It's a learning process and we 're all learning as we go. Focus on present what's good now. See a bird or flower in the sun. Hug your dog. Sounds so simple but it helps not go there in your mind. Also, forgive yourself. Blessings and hugs.
Blessings and hugs.
I really needed to hear this. I've been torturing myself. They say this is bad for physical health too. Now I can move that guilt away. The ego is a liar. Thank you for video.
Sending you precious thoughts of peace 🌸
So True the Ego makes us suffer
There is in fact no ego
The automatic mind needs a right and wrong, good and bad, for the mind it has to be someone fault, ours or someone else's, the automatic mind is part of our historic survival mechanism left over from our evolutionary past when we lived in the wild and danger was everywhere we didn't have time to think or rationalise.
The ego or inner chimp as some call it, is simply an automatic thinking mechanism that more and more people are now becoming aware of and learning to live beyond, its an evolutionary thing that's actually been happening for some time now.
100 years ago women were not allowed to vote here in the UK, but in the last 50 years we've had 2 female prime ministers, as a species we are evolving beyond the automatic mind and although we have a long way to go still, we are definitely making real progress.
Let it go. You are loved❤️ I love you
I keep coming here whenever I feel the weight of my deeds and want to give up
He made me think of what Jesus said: "Forgive them because they know not what they do." Same applies to our own unconsciousness. You do better when you know better. That sort of thing. Thank you Eckhart Tollee, once more.
Holy texts are holy texts for a reason. But the asses think they're so clever, creating hell on earth 🤡
Great comment… so true!! THANK YOU!! ✨🙏✨
i was keen on "forgive them for what they do" too. I also added some prayer for the offenders and tried to offer them to be blessed. Whamo! freedom for myself!
Beautiful ❤ thank you for that
It is called learning. No one is born a master of life. It takes trial and error...a lot of error...to get to mastery. There is no reason to hold past misteps against yourself. Let it go...forgive. Imagine a toddler learning to walk...it would be ridiculous to hold every stumble and fall against yourself. Years later, long after walking has been mastered...wouldn't it be ridiculous to hold onto the misteps from learning to walk? Wouldn't it be ridiculous to feel guilty for ever having stumbled and fell? It is quite natural and part of the learning process.
And when parents laugh and say try again, as Love does...so we do Now
Great comparison 👍❤
very good you are........... clarity is a useful & beautiful thingie......... I'm loving it......... Kay La
Many Masters were born fully realised actually
I agree but there are people who laugh at you and then say "I'm sure you learnt your lesson" rubbing it in.
"Your deepest I am is the I am of the universe. It is not personal. "
"Real forgiveness happens when you realize that ultimately there is nothing to forgive. That's true forgiveness. "
Thank you.
You are a beautiful person thanks for your post I believe you will be a example for others in the world who need love
We have done our best to understand the souls creating us constantly. We are the faces, the holographic bodies of these electrical energy field souls. It is these souls that need to speak up louder so that we understand we are THEIR holographic projections.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 I thank you for your post. Have a great life.
@@Sam-nb8ev You are welcome. "Anyway" and "Yes", are the words that enable me, to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses, to get back in the hamsterwheel of apologizing for certain things or tormenting myself. But I say yes, I apologize to myself anyway. And I apologize to others, if it is my choice. I wish you all the best on your journey. ❤️☯️🙂
Thank you. With the rise of "cancel culture" it feels like forgiveness has gone out the window and you're no longer able to move on from mistakes if you're truly sorry and trying to do better.
Powerful! Very interesting I am actually creating a video about this over the next few weeks on my channel.
They think they are God and attempt to manufacture identities calling it gender. Miserable narcissists that are seeking someone to destroy so that they can feel self-righteous and have a pity party. Way worse than religion.
It's like blaming a fruit for not being ripe
Thank you
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.g
Wow that's a perfect analogy ❤
Woow thanks !
I think the hardest part is remembering that forgiving is not condoning the action or behavior. It's keeping the guilt and anger from eating you up inside. Forgiveness is clearing the way for deeper consciousness.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.c
yeah! a little prayer for the offender is good for "me" too
*_The truth is that we can forgive ourselves of the past, when we stop living in the past. What we need to do is to be more concious about our actions and thoughts, and then we can make a new life for ourselves. We can create a new endless story line that we want to experience. And we can choose what we want to experience.💖_*
@Eckhart Tolle▪️ Easy said than done. How possible
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Very interesting take…thank you!
I was just blaming myself really harshly for my past and then boom.. notification about this video
Me too😓 I just seen your comment and I felt this way 💕
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.c
“True forgiveness is when you realise that there’s nothing to forgive” :)
“Forgiveness is to offer no resistance to life - to allow life to live through you.” -ECKHART TOLLE ☀️⭐️🧡💜
"Life takes care of Life." - Mooji
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Thank you.
I have caused my mother so much suffering... I was not concious or aware of all the terrible mistakes I was making when I was making them. I am walking around with guilt in my heart all day everyday because I truly cant believe I caused the person I love the MOST, my mother, so much pain.
I pray for forgiveness... from my Mother, from God and from myself.
Please Lord... dont leave me in this horrible place of guilt and regret for the rest of my life.
I need to see both my mother and I move on from this pain.
This is incredibly important. Thank you so much for this. “There’s nothing to forgive.” Our society needs to grasp this, as each of us do.
"our society" "each of us".
I don’t completely get it ! When it comes to truly diabolical behaviour for example, pedos. I must say there is nothing to forgive. Maybe one day I’ll be so enlightened.
@@PersisP thanks
@@PersisP "there is no accpuntability or responsibility", I'm sorry but that makes no sense to me.. Horror is an illusion? Wonder how Fritzl's daughter feels about that statement? I'm not meaning to be rude to you, but I just can't understand this teaching at all.
Unfortunately saying there is nothing to forgive is the biggest trap people can fall in . Its the easy way out
"Everthing is as it is. The rest, you add to it." - Tolle
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Remember that my friend “Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously edit your beliefs, and to upgrade and expand your identity.” James clear
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
The first to forgive is the strongest 💪
The first to forget is the happiest 💕
Eckhart is a wonderful Being. His explanations, concerning the Human condition, are so clear and concise ,delivered in such a gentle, disarming way . Bless him.
Yes, indeed! He has such a beautiful, serene spirit and this message from him has been perfect for me to hear today.
Absolutely Peter, Eckhart simplifies the confusing and complicated by explaining things in an very easy to understand and entertaining way.
I have learned some very helpful stuff from Eckhart which has most definitely helped me have a happier relationship with my mind.
Well, if that is the case how come there are legions of ‘woke’ who seem to run with Eckhart’s ideas and start ideological wars based on identity politics that are clearly contrary to what he’s saying here.
There are people who confuse the finger with the Moon but there are also those who only pay attention to the shadow casted by the finger.
@Eckhart Tolle▪️ We needed you so much, thank you.
@Eckhart Tolle▪️ We needed you so much, thank you.
I❤ wish everyone here to forgive themselves and forget the past mistakes and move on and have a great mental spiritual health and long and happy healthy life ❤
I still haven't seen that day but hope someday I will
@@sweetlovelyangel-vi4bl me too
amen!
This was the best teaching about forgiveness I ever heard. I feel lighter.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 wow Thank you for sharing this ❤️ 💖
@@yasminevine you are welcome. I wish you all the best 🙂☯️
Omgosh, this brought me to tears! It was almost as if Eckhart knew me. Thank you for this instruction, Eckhart!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Me too, wonderfully healing
Amazing! There is nothing to forgive. Inside us, we are divine. I am that I am. :)
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Presence really is the natural antidote to regret about past and worries about the future
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b
Every time he talks I can feel the love he is . Thank god for Eckhart and the internet that allows us to hear such a wisdom. ❤️
We live in beautiful times ❤️
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 you are right. But why do you attach this beautiful message here under my message ? It would be worth to be seen as a complete new one, don’t you think ? I am happy to hear, that you pushed through the illusion of separation. Guilt is a powerful tool for awakening, that I can tell too, I guess like many of us….
@@dankestella9393 Thank you so much for this. I posted this message to every single comment on this video. You are one of them. It is meant to reach as many people as I can. Because apologizing to myself relieved me of the burden of guilt. I still have the pattern of guilt, but it is no weight anymore. Because I apologize to myself and release it. My intention is to relieve people of their suffering. If I can make this contribution, it's worth it me sending it personally to you and anyone who can absorb something useful from it. I wish you all the best 🙂
@@ryu7408 another awakened soul. God bless you. May every single miracle you seek be appearing in your Material world as soon as possible ❤️
"Forgiveness is not forgetting. Forgiveness is not overlooking difficulties you have had with people in the past, for that becomes emotionally and intellectually dishonest. You cannot make something good that was not good without deceiving yourself and becoming dishonest regarding your feelings. Forgiveness here must be something that enables you to see another person clearly and to derive learning from that experience and from that relationship."
A quote from a teaching brought by Marshall Vian Summers. It's called Healing Relationships.
That makes a lot of sense. Thank you!🕉💜
Ty
Thank you, Ivan.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
When enough of humanity gets this, our world will shift instantly ☝️🌈👌
Agree.
I think so too… 🌸
Yes it will probably take another 1,000 years
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
Ashamed of my former reactivity. Thank you for this valuable lesson.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
"Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing." - *JESUS* ☀️💜🙏🏽🧡
He did it well. Ultimate Grace and Truth.
Old news mate
We are not Jesus!
@@reginafarias well said 😉 👍
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.f
I'm literally crying while seeing this. I've caused mental and physical harm to other beings in the past.
I've been punishing myself for years now up until the point of severe self harm thoughts.
I feel so sorry for what I've done, and i cannot make amends for it anymore.
Me too. And will now have to do serious work on me to move on from terrible remorse that is ruining my Life.
Forgive your self and start New page each day try to bring love to this world even by giving a smile to somebody 💚
The fact they we now regret what we did before only proves how much we've grown and evolved since then
I am now 59 years old and how unfair would it be for me to judge my 5 year old self, my 20 year old self, my 40 year old self or even my self of last week by same standards that I judge myself by today?
I didn't know or have the same awareness and wisdom then as I have now, and tomorrow and next week I am sure I will need to show forgiveness compassion and understanding to myself of today too.
Life is a learning curve for us all and we all learn much more from our mistakes than we do our successes
When I was 5, 20, 40 and a week younger than I am now I didn't have the same awareness information or wisdom that I hold today
@Oakly Jeuneville you are so welcome bless you.
We are all a work in progress and absolutely none of us are the finished article,, but the very fact that we capable of accepting our mistakes and being genuinely sorry for them shows we are making absolutely excellent progress 👍👍👍
John, such wise, helpful words, thank you so much. So glad I watched this video and found your comment. x🤗
@@sharonrose4 Hi Sharon you are very welcome, by sharing compassion, understanding and lessons with each other we all grow stronger, happier and more at peace with ourselves and everyone we meet along the way.
I can think of worse ways to live 😊
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.h
When you see Unconsciousness from Consciousness, you understand why people act as they do, and if you don’t or can’t forgive, then you just disturb your Peace of Mind and that takes you out of Being and into Ego.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
I suffered with not being able to forgive myself for my unconsciousness that caused me to tolerate neglect from a relationship. I couldn't forgive myself for not loving myself enough to value my own needs.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.d
Same here
When we aren’t trapped in our ego nothing can be taken personally.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
It hit me that he us right when he said, “true forgiveness is when you realize there’s nothing to forgive.” (Obviously paraphrased.) I had a father who was a raging alcoholic, was abusive, humiliated the family, etc., and yet, even as it was happening, I forgave him because I felt sorry for him, and I (at age 66) haven’t felt the need to go to counseling to rehash the past and play the victim.
Years ago I met a woman whose father had sexually abused her when she was young. When she told me that she later went to him as an adult to forgive him, I remarked how admirable I thought it was that she could do that. But she said, "I didn't do it for him. I did it for me."
Then I understood.
@@TerriblePerfection You might also think about what your father's childhood was like, and why he was a raging alcoholic in the first place.
@@MeesterVegas Not my father. That was Kathryn's comment.
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I had a NDE around the age of 8 or so because that bitter, violent female that was supposed to be my mother was in terrible pain. At that time, I heard and felt 'SOULS" around me speaking to me. I felt them.They said I should have compassion for her. I didn't try to hurt her, but I don't see why more could not be done for her like what was done for me.
I am what is called 67 now, but after reading 200 books or so, I know that I am an eternal energy and light being constantly being created by the electrical energy field being everyone calls souls. The quarks that are bursting forth spinning billions of times a second as 3 points of light are these souls. We are the holographic projections of these souls that everyone calls physical, except for me. So intensely and densely formed these bodies are that we don't see through them, even though they are light.
Death is dependent on being physical, BUT nothing is physical. INTELLIGENCE is holographic/electrical and so are we. We are saturated and immersed within this type of reality right now. We do our best not to hurt others while at the same time being taught by those that seek revenge for a death that does not exist.
This was really timely. Guilt, blame and shame are the final obstacles to living in Christ-consciousness for me. Thank you for this awareness 🙏 ❤
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 Thank you so much for taking time to describe your process of relieving guilt. This makes perfect sense to me. I'm starting today to forgive myself and to apologize to myself for all the years of agony I put myself through. Bless you, friend 🙏 ❤
@@slister45 You are welcome 🙂. I wish you all the best on your journey. The side that condemns me, is still present and needed. It is not eliminated. To my opinion I am just as much my guilt, as it is me, but that is a different perspective. I just don't torture myself for my guilt anymore. And thus the guilt has no weight anymore, when I apologize to myself. I'm hoping this practice will help you as it helps me. I'm happy when it does. It is very clear that apologizing to oneself implies, that you want to be good to yourself now. Blessings my friend ❤️☯️
Love overcomes the knowledge of evil, forgive those who trespass against you for they know not what they do, and forgive yourself..
Display your gratitude for overcoming the knowledge of evil..
Beautifully said 🙏
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 Bless ourselves.
Not, mess ourselves💜
@@Dan0948 Amen. 🙌🙂
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Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun
Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens
Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything.”
― Jalal Ad-Din Rumi
~ Much Love from a Growing CZcamsr💜
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I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.e
My mum passed away 2 weeks ago, and i have been feeling so much guilt and a lot of shame for how things went. I really needed to hear this Thank you!Rest in peace my Beautiful & Strong Mum🙏 I will Love You for Eternity❤️🙏❤️
Hey. Your mum is proud of you, and she definitely wouldn't want you to be guilty for anything at all. She knows you did your best, and she did hers, and that is enough. Love to you. ❤
We are all human beings just trying to figure things out on this planet knowone is given an instruction manual. What you could try is finding a good medium and ask her to connect with your mum and then you can explain things
I'm sorry. Even if you do everything right something happens with healthcare to wreck everyone trying their best.
Eckhart is not my "go to guru" but I've always respected him as a person that knows their stuff. I'm glad I chose to watch this one. His opening statement about getting a message to someone that needs it describes me perfectly. Hearing this concept articulated has instantly changed my perspective and it feels pretty cool. 🙏
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
There is a tendency to think the great teachers, and saints were, of some past age, or future age to come.
Mr. Tolle walks among us in this day and time. Drink from this spring of the spirit.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.d
Eckhart Tolle's teaching is those of Jesus Christ, Buddha and Lord Krishna - all in one. Humanity is blessed to have him and hear his teachings in these difficult times.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.e
I heard you say, that you felt someone needed to hear this. I did. I needed to re-remember this. Sometimes busy-ness makes me forget and I fall into old patterns that are unhealthy.
It had been said that expectations are premeditated resentments.
What you said reminded me of this advice
I guess all who are wracked with guilt need to hear this Rachael his explanations are life changing ❤️🙏
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I get this, I nice reminder is needed sometimes
I can't believe how this video popped up on my screen just as I was in deep despair over this very matter. Maybe just coincidence,- but to me miracle! Especially considering Eckhart's opening statement.
Go ECKHART." The REAL FORGIVENESS happens when YOU realize that Ultimately THERE IS NOTHING TO FORGIVE. That's TRUE FORGIVENESS" 🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟👏👏👏‼
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.i
This video helped me SO much I can’t explain
I haven’t being able to let go of things I have done and things others did to me for ages
But listening to this, I feel free
I feel empty 🙃🙃🙂🙂
Thank you so much Eckharth : )
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b
@@ryu7408 iv let go aswell if there is no guilt you are not likely to hurt someone again. People seem to come to non-dualism for there awakening path because of much emotion al self harm. It seems This is the path for those who feel deeply and are sincere but something is also “off” so we cast the identity away and find yet another way for a path yo awakening. I have felt none dual emotions before ad a form of prayer and I can do this now but there is no I today all is actually empty not even emotional . It’s such a good spot , for me.
maybe try prayer towards the other person. Great little hack to free yourself from anger poison
Divine timing at its best. I really needed this today. Been struggling and its eating away at me. Thanks for your video and kind guidance. Much love
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
I have made a huge mistake that has had massive consequences on my physical health. I cancelled some treatment and now my condition has worsened. I had multiple reasons for doing it, and I was completely overwhelmed and stressed from being so caught up in them. I have rebooked the treatment but I can't stop bashing myself for cancelling the first time because I believe by delaying the treatment I've made my health worse. I don't know if I'll ever forgive myself :(
Whenever I listen to Eckhart, his peaceful nature and his gentle words make me think, "Ah, it's so simple. I see now." And at times I slip into presence and everything does seem simple and effortless. But eventually I slip back into my conditioned reactionary self (like when reading the news, lol). It really does help to take some time to listen to Eckhart or read an inspirational book (like A Course in Miracles), to come back to the realization that what seems so complicated is actually simple and easy. Then a big weight falls away. Thank you Eckhart and all my spiritual teachers. I am so blessed to be able to hear your words of wisdom!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.
@@ryu7408 Good idea. Thank you!
@@maryrogers1021 Thank you. You are welcome. 🙂
Forgiveness is paramount. However people are still responsible for their actions, and we are wise to set boundaries. Thank you
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.d
This no doubt saved my life. I've been stuck in my past for nearly 6 years now bashing myself about an unconscious decision that I made. It has been destroying me to my core. I've tried to find help and applied techniques but nothing has resonated as much as this man's wisdom. Thank you. I feel lighter again.
There is nothing to forgive :only when you reached a high level of awareness that you can realize how true it is. Your life will go on and you can meet any one and talk nicely without even thinking of the past!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
easier to say than to actually do. I still get cought up a little too much
I got aspergers syndrom, and it feels like my guilt just doesnt go away. If i think about some past things, im talking in myself and people look at me like what is this guy, it goes in a circle of uncertainty for me. Love to everyone that helps each other❤
So beautiful. So much healing is triggered! Thank you.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I’ve been trying to forgive myself for the longest seems like it’s been a long journey and have a long way to go. A lot of unnecessary suffering in my days now I just want to be me again with no restrictions.
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I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.e
Him mentioning the bronze age goat herders book all the time always puts me off. He should come out and say ' look i'm really just a christian with a new angle but this angle has made me really wealthy '.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.i
Unconsciousness is not an excuse for hurting, harming, or abusing other human beings!
Forgiveness can only be given when unconscious/conscious people who have caused harm and hurt people take corrective actions and apologise sincerely and acknowledge that they know what they did was wrong.
My Love, forgiveness is never about the one who caused you harm. It is about the harm you are continuing to cause yourself by holding on to your thoughts about that persons actions. Love yourself enough to forgive. They never even have to know you've forgiven them. Forgiveness is a gift you offer to your Self. XO
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I agree. I did apologise in a letter. Now I must take Eckhart’s teaching to learn from it, stay present and stop torturing myself. I can only do good if I heal myself.
@@Lola-Yo was a letter enough to apologise? Actions speak louder than words. If you heartfelt meant the apology and it was received that way then I guess you can heal.
No one knows the damage they cause
@@danielleho-shing351 The letter was heartfelt, but I have no expectations about how it was received. The situation is complicated and the letter needed to be written at this time, but it will not be enough. To make better decisions and actions, I am learning through mindfulness and presence. It may all never be enough, but I have to go through this process, without expectations.
Eckhart, thank you so much for saving me. This video has given me the key I have been searching for in order heal from the death of my son on 2.2.2022 and many other things that have happened. I am free to live in the present now as feelings of guilt and shame were the only things that would pull me back into past emotions and thoughts and leave me feeling broken over and over again. I would be ok, then be pulled back with guilty thoughts. It was becoming so confusing and draining for me going around in circles of being ok, then feeling broken. I was actually about to give up, then I saw this video.
I love you Eckhart ♥️ thank you, thank you, thank you. I am free, I am free, I am free.
💚💚💚🌹 stay peaceful and free
Interesting perceptions! Seems like the difference between observing without the past, and thinking we are our reactive uncouscious thoughts, from our past pains and pleasures, like a computer program. I had a experience where I was judging my current situation to better times in the past, and it made me very depressed! I did it to myself! There was a part of me just observing this. So instantly I told that part of myself if it did not have something positive to say or a solution, to just keep silent. I thanked God for the realization, and noticed my peace of mind came back, then joy and love in my heart area, which started to expand and shot up to the top of my head and past. I noticed my mind was a lot more quiet for a couple days, and more observing and at peace. The old way, keeps trying to sneak back in, but that observational awareness is needed each time.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b
So much compassion
For me, I had to learn to fully accept the "parts" or past versions of myself that were involved in/had done those things. When we feel guilty about it, we tend to push those parts of us away. Acceptance is acknowledging that we were who we believed to be and the consciousness trapped in that mind state is to be accepted.
This is so simple and profound explanation on forgiveness I hv ever come across. Thank you Eckhart for this!!
Have you been able to forgive yourself since this ?
the explanation might be simple....the reality is actually quite complex...I read so many wise comments but I am very curious about your daily lives if resemble your comments....
@@meme-bz6iw hello my friend. I provide weekly videos on my channel on all things forgiveness but not daily videos unfortunately!
Eckhart, you are such a blessing to humanity!! Thank you.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
this is similar to what derrida says - "there can only be forgiveness where there is the unforgivable"
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.f
I really appreciate your perspective. My divorce was one of the best things that happened in my life. It was also one of the most painful. I took a lot of these steps discussed when he left me. And I decided if I truly loved my ex that I needed to respect his decision to leave and let him go. I chose not to victimize myself instead I chose to use the experience to self reflect and see my part in the divorce and what kind of relationship I wanted. I am remarried now. It is our 7 year anniversary today and we are happy. I watched this video to help me separate from a family member, and I believe the same rules apply. Thanks for the reminder! ❤
Sending love to you all - we are all ONE 🙏 Forgiveness will heal us
This is exacty what I need now. Thank you so much! 🌱
What a great guru.
Wow! Seeing this sure clears up a lot of miserable mess.
Eckhart is a gift that God give to us!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.d
I love quote ultimately there is nothing to forgive. And I love the explanation of why feeling a need to forgive is ego-driven 💞💓💗
Amazing grace. Was blind but now i see🙏🏽
I have awakened by reading Eckhart’s “Practicing the power of Now”. I owed my life to him.💜
That's what A Course In Miracles says about forgiveness too.
"It does not pardon songs AMF make them real, it sees there was no sin. "
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
This man has helped me deal with things on many levels..... Amazing message always.💝 Regret my past ! Negative thinking! The list goes on.........wish I could meet him!......but I am greatful to just listen💓
He has on his website some talks and retreats on 2022. Check them out !
You are not alone! He truly is a spiritual anchor in our lives! He really touches our soul.
Be blessed!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I was very unconscious in my past and now I can see that also I'm grateful for that experience. And I can have compassion for those who have been deeply unconscious
Thank you for my spiritual awakening
This is the best video on consciousness! Thank you for freeing me from my past.
So clear! I love Eckhart Tolle for his clarity.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
Actually crying while listening to this. He has triggered something that I’m struggling with 💔
Thank you, Eckhart. I really needed this teaching now. Peace and love.🙏
I’m really struggling to forgive myself of the past causes huge pain
I have this impression while I am listening to you that you put all pieces in their right places and everything becomes more clear. I have this feeling for the time being that your teachings are perfect guidance on my way. It’s hard to express it with word but I am feeling it deeply. Or so I think. Thank you.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I am still so angry at myself for giving up on my dreams a few months ago. (I was already conscious!). I used to feel happy, wake up joyful, excited and full of unconditional love. It’s true, no matter how many times i say “i forgive me” i don’t feel true forgiveness occurring and cant feel true love for myself again 😢
Thank you, Eckhart - you have spoken to me. Bless you, and bless your teachings
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b
Man I needed this!!! This is Truth spoken! Thank you!
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
Necesitamos más vídeos esclarecedores sobre la culpabilidad. Es un peso pesado que se arrastra a menudo durante mucho tiempo
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
@@ryu7408 Thank you for your answer.
Usefull
@@pilarhencar9586 you are welcome. Thank you. I'm happy you can absorb something useful 🙂
@@ryu7408 But, do you apologize to yourself for being unconcious at that moment,for not being present at that moment,for....what exactly?
"There real forgiveness happens when you realize there's nothing to forgive." That's going to take sometime to get to...or maybe not. This is deep.
Thank You 💗 forgiveness happens naturally. Yes 😌 💓 Peace 💜
What a very important
Lesson. A lesson I need to learn. Thank you so much 💜🕉💜
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
I needed this
Same same
감사합니다💙
Join the club. We all need this, whether we realize it or not. XO
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.g
Eckhart ..a precious human being and teacher..
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.d
Forgiveness feels like an opening of the being 💗
Thank you thank you thank you! Each time more disidentified from the voice in my head ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.e
I desperately needed that. 🙏 Thank you from my heart.
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.a
My dearest teacher .. I love you so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.e
For ‘Me ‘ this is one of Eckhart’s very best😍 and deepest.