Kya Islam me Biwi Ko Marna Jaiz Hai - Does the Quran Condone Domestic Violence - Javed Ahmed Ghamidi

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  • Kya Islam me Biwi Ko Marna Jaiz Hai - Does Quran Allow Wife Beating - Javed Ahmad Ghamidi
    Kya Shohar Biwi ko Maar Sakta Hai, Kia shohar biwi par Hath Utha sakta hai
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    Javed Ahmed Ghamidi is a Pakistani Muslim theologian, a Quran scholar, and an educationist. Mr. Ghamidi is a student of Maulana Amin Ahsan Islahi and Maulana Abul A’la Maududi. Mr. Ghamidi has authored several books, including the bestseller ‘Meezan’, in which he presents a comprehensive treatise on the entire content of Islam. Mr. Ghamidi is a researcher and a critical thinker who has challenged many aspects of the traditional Muslim schools of thought on the basis of evidence from Quran and sunnah.
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Komentáře • 197

  • @GhamidiCIL
    @GhamidiCIL  Před 3 lety +7

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    • @FDRJFK
      @FDRJFK Před 3 lety +1

      Good.

    • @babag9490
      @babag9490 Před 3 lety +2

      Good.

    • @muhammadharis6629
      @muhammadharis6629 Před 3 lety +1

      mera ghamidi saheb se yeh sawal hai kay islam mein sab se afzal tareen khatoon khon hain?
      Aur jo bhi hain woh kis base per hain.plz detail mein jawab di jiye ga.

    • @politicaleconomy9653
      @politicaleconomy9653 Před 3 lety +2

      Ghamidi sahib is the greatest Pakistani scholar of 21st century

    • @politicaleconomy9653
      @politicaleconomy9653 Před 3 lety +2

      Ghamidi sahib slapping is not allowed in islam

  • @talhadar4672
    @talhadar4672 Před 3 lety +55

    I Think This Is the Best Explaination I Have Heard So Far, regarding This matter. JazakAllah

  • @acomonman
    @acomonman Před 3 lety +54

    ہمارے دوسرے علما کو 5 سال غامدی صاحب کے پاس نئے سرے سے پڑھنا چاہئے۔۔۔۔۔

  • @bilbobaggins4758
    @bilbobaggins4758 Před rokem +3

    Allah ka shukar ha k ghamidi sb jaisy log dunya main mujood hein...😍

  • @pupilofghamidi5842
    @pupilofghamidi5842 Před 3 lety +16

    Great، واقعی آپ کا مہ چومنے کو دل کرتا ہے۔ میں سمجھا ہے ان باتوں کو اور عمل کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہوں۔جس دین میں نے آپ کا پہلا آڈیو سنا تھا وہ دِن یاد ہے مجھے ۔

  • @ambreenrafiq9719
    @ambreenrafiq9719 Před 3 lety +8

    Allah Tala Gamidi sab ko lambi umer atta kary ta k hum deen ko achi tarah sy samjh saky.

  • @shaikhnaveed6522
    @shaikhnaveed6522 Před 3 lety +17

    Ghamdi sahab speaking like Mol Amin Islahi..Allah Jannat me Ala maqam pr fayez kare Mol Islahi ko..

  • @ziauddin5367
    @ziauddin5367 Před 3 lety +5

    بہت ہی خوبصورت انداز میں ذہن نشین فرمایااللہ پاک جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے...

  • @hassanishaq1998
    @hassanishaq1998 Před 2 lety +6

    Can't thank him enough for this brilliant & clear explanation.
    God bless Ghamidi sab!❤️🌹

  • @mansoorahmad1489
    @mansoorahmad1489 Před 3 lety +15

    i think this whole situation is about adultery. Its about a woman getting involved with another man. I think this has nothing to do with petty disputes among spouses.

    • @trapezius77
      @trapezius77 Před 3 lety +4

      Only women are capable of adultery? What if the husband does it?

    • @jingjingk3459
      @jingjingk3459 Před 3 lety +1

      @@trapezius77 he can marry 3 more instead.

    • @alianajeff2060
      @alianajeff2060 Před 3 lety

      yes u r right....he said it but didn't use the exact words....he should have said it

    • @baghi536
      @baghi536 Před rokem

      Woman can go to state to punish the man.

  • @SocraticOracle
    @SocraticOracle Před 3 lety +8

    Way to go for the person asking questions to Ghamdi sb! God bless you! He is asking questions as if he is an alter ego of a common Muslim/human!

  • @MrWaseemrahi73
    @MrWaseemrahi73 Před 15 dny

    بہت ہی اچھی طرح بات کو واضع کر دیا ہے خامدی صاحب نے ,اس سے اچھا جواب کوئی نہیں سکتا تھا

  • @AsifAraz
    @AsifAraz Před 3 lety +44

    Ghamidi sb puri riasat k education system ka kaam akele ker rahy hai,, Allah in ko apny khas bando main shamil farmaye gy Inshallah.

  • @sheralam920
    @sheralam920 Před 8 měsíci +2

    The verse under discussion in the video is as under:-
    Quran 3:34
    Men are the caretakers of women, as men have been provisioned by Allah over women and tasked with supporting them financially. And righteous women are devoutly obedient and, when alone, protective of what Allah has entrusted them with.
    And if you sense ill-conduct from your women, advise them ˹first˺,
    ˹if they persist,˺ do not share their beds,
    ˹but if they still persist,˺ then discipline them ˹gently˺.
    But if they change their ways, do not be unjust to them. Surely Allah is Most High, All-Great.

  • @ismailshaikh6146
    @ismailshaikh6146 Před 3 lety +4

    Massha'Allah..... excellent explanation....

  • @fayyazbutt9715
    @fayyazbutt9715 Před 3 lety +2

    Yes Sir, You did a logical explanation. ALLAH bless you complete health in the rest of your life to educate us. JAZAK ALLAH

  • @naeemnazir
    @naeemnazir Před 3 lety +2

    Beautifully explained and excellent work. Jazak Allah

  • @biker1581
    @biker1581 Před 3 lety +14

    As salaam o alaikum Ustaaz mohtaram, aaj aap black suit meh bohat dashing lagg rehe hain!!!!!!!

  • @hasanmohdkhan3966
    @hasanmohdkhan3966 Před 3 lety +4

    I was really disturbed by this question but this explanation satisfied me a lot.

  • @AsifAraz
    @AsifAraz Před 3 lety +7

    Great man, great work, Jazakallah.

  • @abdulbasitmansoor8095
    @abdulbasitmansoor8095 Před 3 lety +3

    Well-explained...Thank you Sir

  • @mohammedalam1649
    @mohammedalam1649 Před 3 lety +3

    Beautifully explained. 100% agree

  • @saadiakhan4760
    @saadiakhan4760 Před 3 lety +3

    Well explain.....Thank you sir

  • @malikaleem2263
    @malikaleem2263 Před 3 lety +5

    Beautifully explained ghamidi Allah ghamidi sb ko lambi zindagi dy ta k deen mukhtalif zavio se samajhne ka moqa mily... Ameen

  • @rb495
    @rb495 Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful sensible explanation

  • @miraza606
    @miraza606 Před 3 lety +3

    Ghamdi Sahib ki sari videos ko english subtitles ke sath post kia jai to kya bat he bohat ziada faida he

  • @Kamranrrafi
    @Kamranrrafi Před 3 lety +11

    نشوز کی تعریف اور اسکی صورتیں بیان کیے بنا عام آدمی کو اس کی اطلاقی صورتوں کی سمجھ آنا مشکل ہے

  • @harujan306
    @harujan306 Před 3 lety +3

    jazakallah for hundred million times. allahsubhanotaalah bless you and your parents specially your great mother.

  • @nasiralishah2406
    @nasiralishah2406 Před 3 lety +5

    Always, Ghamidi sb is an inspiration. Excellent explanation. I hope, I can meet him someday.

  • @yasminjadoon3759
    @yasminjadoon3759 Před 2 lety

    Jazak Allah khair Ghamidi sahib for great teaching.🤲🏻🤲🏻. May Allah bless you with good health and happiness. Ameen

  • @seem64
    @seem64 Před 3 lety

    جزاک اللہ

  • @MueedVI
    @MueedVI Před 2 lety

    Beautiful!

  • @muhsinkamal9988
    @muhsinkamal9988 Před 3 lety

    Superb explanations

  • @ehtashamkhan1110
    @ehtashamkhan1110 Před 3 lety

    jazakallah

  • @roshaanehzafar7336
    @roshaanehzafar7336 Před 3 lety +1

    Great

  • @videovoice4622
    @videovoice4622 Před 2 lety +2

    mashaa ALLAH! ALLAH tala aap ko jazaay kher day!

  • @adnandar4042
    @adnandar4042 Před 3 lety

    You promised me very good ways and thank you very much

  • @SocraticOracle
    @SocraticOracle Před 3 lety +2

    I respect Ghamdi sb a lot and he has changed me to a greater extent but on this point, his viewpoint holds little water. Wallaho aalam

  • @azibhassan804
    @azibhassan804 Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent explanation as always

  • @haroonbaig5674
    @haroonbaig5674 Před 2 lety +1

    Worth listening to him.

  • @wasilrehman6495
    @wasilrehman6495 Před 3 lety +1

    Shukriya Ustaad E Mohtaram. ALLAH Apko Salamat Rakhe, Aameen.

  • @parsa1107
    @parsa1107 Před 3 lety +3

    I wish this particular video had English captions to it

  • @awaisdurrani49
    @awaisdurrani49 Před rokem

    Excellent interpretation

  • @DrAyeshaNaveed
    @DrAyeshaNaveed Před 7 měsíci +1

    Kia fazool baat hai .
    Shohar main aur adalat ke judge main Zameen asmaan ka farq hai . Shohar ka aksar bias hota hai , woh aurat par apnay bias main hath othata hai .

  • @mukhtiarahmedmukhtiarahmed8807

    Masha Allah subhan Allah Allah hoo Akbaar Allah hoo Akbaar jaazak Allah kheir

  • @zuberpatel6450
    @zuberpatel6450 Před rokem

    زبر دست.. ماشاء الله و بارك الله...

  • @kamilsyed9113
    @kamilsyed9113 Před 2 měsíci

    Masha-Allah

  • @eshaahmed9596
    @eshaahmed9596 Před rokem

    Brilliant answers

  • @funtv.5228
    @funtv.5228 Před 2 lety

    Great scholar. Great answered for all librares. Why is this why Allah did this. Great answered sir.Allah bless you.

  • @ABC-uw7gu
    @ABC-uw7gu Před 2 lety

    بہت اعلی گفتگو

  • @yaaserawan4824
    @yaaserawan4824 Před 3 lety

    Ghamdi sb.....Thanks for existing........

  • @moizsmusings4900
    @moizsmusings4900 Před 3 lety +1

    Great work you have done 👍.
    Poore tareeqe se satisfy krdiya Allah esa fehem hamari poori ummat ko de. Or apko Allah ne hamare liye sarparast banaya hai is jaahil ummat k upar hum me bohot kamiya hain.
    Allah humse hamari darkness ko dur krde or hame ek surkh ru ummat bana khada kare dunya k saamne.

  • @greenshowbiz648
    @greenshowbiz648 Před 3 lety

    Best video on CZcams

  • @munirusama
    @munirusama Před 3 lety +5

    anyone who disagrees with Quran is free to follow some other book. But if you call yourself a Muslim you don’t have the option of picking and choosing. Take it or leave it. You are free to do so.

  • @laxminarayankeshkar5292

    अस्सलाम अलैक सर साहब।

  • @Cyedahadaly
    @Cyedahadaly Před 6 měsíci

    May allah bless you ghamdi sahab♥️ jazakallah khair

  • @dedicationworks6350
    @dedicationworks6350 Před rokem

    Intelligent questions have been asked

  • @farisazim7049
    @farisazim7049 Před 2 lety

    Please add subtitles

  • @mukhtiarahmedmukhtiarahmed8807

    Nice zabrdast Nice very beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ ustajh ji

  • @Ali_Turab_
    @Ali_Turab_ Před 3 lety +6

    Please include English subtitles

    • @arcyine
      @arcyine Před 3 lety

      Didn't expect a redditor lol

  • @ifteqarahmed6306
    @ifteqarahmed6306 Před 3 lety +1

    Allah aapko lambi umr de..... aameen.

  • @Historelic
    @Historelic Před 3 lety +2

    اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو صحت کے ساتھ لمبی اور با برکت عمر سے نوازے اور دین کی مزید خدمت کا موقع دے۔

  • @Zak-gl4ig
    @Zak-gl4ig Před rokem +1

    English translation would be nice. After all, it's the English speaking critics who often accuse Islam mistreating women.

  • @Bhatti890
    @Bhatti890 Před 3 lety

    Alhamdulillah! Perfect and just clarification on topic!!

  • @rizwankaleembutt3272
    @rizwankaleembutt3272 Před 3 lety +1

    Love you sir

  • @farzanakhan8301
    @farzanakhan8301 Před rokem

    You are great sir

  • @qurantafseerbymrsadnan2837

    Aslamoalakum ghamdi sahib same sitution agr mrd ke dill kahien aoron lga hua ho tu aourat kia kry???

  • @hinaakhtar9901
    @hinaakhtar9901 Před rokem

    Good questions by hassan bhai

  • @mukhtiarahmedmukhtiarahmed8807

    Allah Pak apko jaazayee kheir shaht tondrasti lambi Umar ata frmaye Aameen ya rabuollalameen jaazak Allah kheir

  • @mushwani85
    @mushwani85 Před 3 lety +2

    بہت ہی بہترین غامدی صاحب، اور حسن صاحب آپ نے پوچھنے کا حق ادا کر دیا ھے۔
    جو میں سمجھا ھوں اس حکم سے، کہ خاندان کے ادارے میں خاوند قوامون ھے، جب اللہ نے اس ادارے کے فرد بیٹے کو مخاطب کیا تو حکم دیا کہ اف تک بھی نہ کہو،
    اسی طرح اس ادارے میں بحثیت بیوی اگر کوئی عورت سرکشی کرے گی تو اسے سمجھایا جائے گا، اس سے بستر الگ کیا جائے گا اور پھر بھی نہ مانے تو اس کو سزا بھی دی جائے گی۔

  • @arbazkhanpathan4300
    @arbazkhanpathan4300 Před 3 lety +1

    Respected ghamidi shab Hazrat esa a.s ki wafat aur nuzool pe tafseeli lecture record krwaiye ...... jazakallah

  • @rashidrauf4982
    @rashidrauf4982 Před 3 lety +4

    غامدی صاحب ضربوھن یہاں طلاق کی دھمکی کے معنی میں استعمال ھو گا۔ قرآن نے جہاں بھی ضرب کا ذکر کیا وھاں مارنے کی چیز اور جس پر مارنی ھے اس کے ساتھ ذکر ھے۔ جیسا کہ سیدنا موسی کے قصے میں عصا آلہ ھوا اور دریا سبجیکٹ۔
    آپ ذرا غور کر لیں

  • @Faridahmed19
    @Faridahmed19 Před rokem

    Lajawaaab ..... Allah-hu-Akbar

  • @yasminekhalida2536
    @yasminekhalida2536 Před rokem

    All Right.

  • @dumbsaraiki9167
    @dumbsaraiki9167 Před rokem +2

    Kon hai ye?
    Kon hai?
    Kon hai?
    Subhan Allah. Aise log billions me b nhi milenge.

  • @mudassrasattar9669
    @mudassrasattar9669 Před 5 měsíci

    The same word of Nushuz is used for husbands too in 4:128 but there is no physical discipline involved as per scholars. The word Nushuz can not maen "Sarkashi/Rebellion since you believe that husband is the sarbrah (leader) of the family. So how a leader can be rebellious against his subordinates.

  • @sayyedbakhtiyar9161
    @sayyedbakhtiyar9161 Před rokem +1

    intellectual level 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @RizwanAhmad-cy5yo
    @RizwanAhmad-cy5yo Před 2 lety +3

    What if that sarkashi is from husband's side?

  • @jbond008
    @jbond008 Před 7 měsíci

    There should be English translation

  • @firozsayyed4192
    @firozsayyed4192 Před 3 lety +3

    Lots of love & respect Ghamidi sahab!

  • @hinaakhtar9901
    @hinaakhtar9901 Před rokem +1

    ضرب کے کئ مطلب ہیں صرف مارنا کے لیے کیوں استعمال کیا ہے۔

  • @NewBeginning2020
    @NewBeginning2020 Před rokem +1

    Daring hai boss. He doesnt shy away from a challenging question

  • @88yasirrana
    @88yasirrana Před 3 lety +10

    He said that the husband is the head of the household because he is responsible to bring livelihood. If wife is earning livelihood for the house, does it mean she is then the head of the household and can personally punish the husband if he becomes rebellious?

    • @uzmanaqvi7272
      @uzmanaqvi7272 Před 3 lety +7

      Very true now a days we see so many examples where women r responsible for livelihood .man forget their responsibilits

    • @aamar6039
      @aamar6039 Před 3 lety +12

      Good point 👍
      No man should be allowed to hit the wife in any circumcentences. That’s it !!

    • @munirusama
      @munirusama Před 3 lety

      @@aamar6039 that is the right according to Quran. You are free to not follow Quran and follow anything else.

  • @shahidmehmoud7459
    @shahidmehmoud7459 Před 3 lety +2

    Domestic violence & Islam! There are many examples that explanations in Quran have been violated . Islam is a religeon of moderation not extremisn! Basic human rights play an important role in,keeping the relationship appropriate,

  • @luzsombra2202
    @luzsombra2202 Před 2 lety +2

    Plz add subtitule english sir! I,m from Spain , this topic is very topical , all the people in Spain attack us with verse of hitting the woman

  • @danishalibaig
    @danishalibaig Před 3 lety +4

    Agar kisi couple k haan aulad nahi ho sakti to kya wahan khandan ka idara khatam ho jae ga kyu k wahan aulad honi nahi aur jinsi mamlaat main pabandi ki waja aulad ki parvarish hai. ispe zara baat ki jae. aur is mozu pe main jitna mutasir Ghamidi sb k answer se hota hun utna ho nahi paya kyu k cross questioning main Ghamidi sb jaise baat wazeh kerte hotay hain amoman waise clear ho nahi pai mere mutabik.

    • @aamar6039
      @aamar6039 Před 3 lety

      You brought a good point 👍

  • @atiqrahman7289
    @atiqrahman7289 Před 3 lety +3

    Then what is ---"Nushooze" ------- not very clear,what is " Nushooze". What is really specific. Lot of words, but what is specific?

  • @luzsombra2202
    @luzsombra2202 Před 2 lety

    Plz add subtitule English same homosexuality LGBQT Hadir interview with Ustad Ghamdi sab is big help has subtitule understanding Jazkallah khaira

  • @hispanaislam2595
    @hispanaislam2595 Před 2 lety

    Plz not forget to add this video subtitles english becus ghamdi sab urdu is very dificultd

  • @Afia6098
    @Afia6098 Před 3 lety +2

    In prenuptial agreement or mehr agreement it should be written that any kinf of physical emotional abuse won’t be accepted for any kind of dispute. Since many muslim countries are still living in patriarchal societies where ullemas are not very educated in the religion and their decisions are mostly based on cultural values. Plus these countries donot have family laws and courts and women do-not have easy access to courts. For example coutry like pakistam where 90 % of the population do not understand arabic they follow mostly hindu values for treatment of women , they have joint family system. Where as joint family system where there is so hard to follow mehram and non mehram concept since many times the brother in laws are atill iliving in same homes. Since population donot know quran meaning or prophets Muhammed pbuh life lso they blindly follow the imams. Look at the example when people started saying wrong stuff about hazrat ayesha when she was left behind by mistake in the desert . Did prophet Muhammad pbuh raised a hand on her?

  • @mhdhashaam973
    @mhdhashaam973 Před 2 lety +1

    Lekin 34th me kahi bhi lafz biwi shohar ya spouse tu he ye nhi... Aur agli ayat ko pahr kr tu ye lgta he k Allah individuals ko nhi blke authority ko address kr raha he... N violence just bring more violence

  • @DrAyeshaNaveed
    @DrAyeshaNaveed Před 7 měsíci +1

    Agar Husband " Sakashi " karay phir ? Osko Kon maray ga ?

  • @DarkResonance
    @DarkResonance Před 2 lety +13

    Mr Ghamdi, I did not watch the whole video, around 24 minutes, but I am very disappointed. You cannot expect people to not be emotional about a very real topic that has affected women from around the world for centuries and still does. You are living in the west and essentially saying that a husband is allowed to beat his wife or "punish" her. As you yourself implied, times change. Women will no longer accept oppression and those who do must change. Rebellion against oppression is completely legitimate in Islam. How can only having a job make someone the "head"? Women do jobs too. If you read books like Invisible Women or even research studies (easy to find!), you will find that women's unpaid workload and care work is a trillion dollar industry. Just because a man is the main earner in some cultures does not mean he is doing more work than his wife. In fact, men generally get more leisure time than woman! A marriage is supposed to be a beautiful bond where two individuals respect, love and care for each other. Aside from this, there other interpretations and translations of the verses out there that do not translate the Arabic word 'daraba' as 'strike' or 'beat'. Furthermore, it is often the man who abuses this 'institution' of marriage and takes away the dignity of his wife through, not just one, but many forms of abuse. Please reconsider your position.

    • @razraz9637
      @razraz9637 Před rokem

      What are other interpretations/translations of daraba? Please share.

    • @HaeppyUnni
      @HaeppyUnni Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yes. Sadly my heart just doesn’t agree with this stance of his. My Allah would not allow anyone to hurt me. Be it a husband or not.
      Interestingly all the men are rejoicing in the comments section. I wonder why?

  • @sajidraza1439
    @sajidraza1439 Před 3 lety

    Sir Ghamdi sahib, جزاک اللہ

  • @muhammadharis6629
    @muhammadharis6629 Před 3 lety +3

    mera ghamidi saheb se yeh sawal hai kay islam mein sab se afzal tareen khatoon khon hain?
    Aur jo bhi hain woh kis base per hain.plz detail mein jawab di jiye ga.

    • @BASE91
      @BASE91 Před 3 lety

      Khatijah tu Al-Kubra

  • @PTIrealsupports194
    @PTIrealsupports194 Před 2 lety

    Sarkashi means?

  • @rechaelmentor3745
    @rechaelmentor3745 Před 3 lety +1

    In the relation of husband and wife, there is no self respect of wife in front of husband.

  • @jahangirsamtio8690
    @jahangirsamtio8690 Před rokem

    Khulah Lena bina saboot ke jayaz nh Jo ke humari adalaten derahi hen bilkul gair sharai.

  • @presentneed9556
    @presentneed9556 Před rokem

    Please change title condone to condemn

  • @2AN3M
    @2AN3M Před 3 lety +2

    Where it says ke kar sakte ho to kar lo?

    • @XultanEditz
      @XultanEditz Před 3 lety

      Surah Nisa 4:34 verse is under discussion