If He's Acting Distant, Breadcrumbing You Or Pulling Away, Do These 3 Things - With

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  • Discover three things you need to do if a man is breadcrumbing you, acting distant, avoiding you or pulling away in this video with Jack Butler and Helena Hart.
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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +25

    Get FREE access to Jack's Masterclass, "3 Keys To A More Authentic You" here: becomingtheone.us/magnetism
    Sign up for Jack's FREE webinar, "3 Keys To Being Relationship Ready: How Successful Women Find A High-Quality Man" here: becomingtheone.us/hh-co-ytvid

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 Před 2 lety +151

    One thing I know for sure, if a man is emotionally closed off/ unavailable to himself, I know he won’t be emotionally available to anyone else.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

    • @brookelight2090
      @brookelight2090 Před rokem +3

      That’s so true. If avoidant can be so cruel towards themselves constantly, of course he will be cruel towards you constantly. To them, their behavior was not even considered cruel because it is everyday action which is considered normal

  • @brookelight2090
    @brookelight2090 Před 2 lety +156

    Dating an avoidant is like take your soul away. You are left feeling exhausted, unfinished, confused. They still want me to chase after them by bread-crumbing me. ( haha, that’s right. More than one avoidant )

    • @sewmorelove
      @sewmorelove Před rokem +6

      Yes, I totally agree. I do not date avoidants anymore. It is not a life I want to live! They can go and be avoidant with someone else. 😂

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 Před rokem +1

      I told my BF I will give him no more than he gives me He's stepped up more, but in a low energy way.

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady Před 2 lety +85

    I can listen to this several times…really good. I recently encountered bread-crumbing with lack of response to text or calls, I brought it to his attention and he apologized and corrected it…but I could of just leaned back because if he was interested as he said he was I shouldn’t have had to bring it to his attention

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 💜

    • @MsPersianality
      @MsPersianality Před 2 lety +3

      Would you continue if he didnt correct himself directly and consistantly?

  • @fgdart
    @fgdart Před 2 lety +25

    I try to do everything right, but they keep disappearing... and it made me whenever i like a new person i get so scared that i am gonna lose them too.. and it never changed. They just disappear and sometimes they chose someone else over me. I am in such a pain that i can not even describe. My experiences made me feel "i am not loved, i am not enough, there is something wrong with me or whatever i like it will runaway..etc". I tried everything to get rid of this cycle. Meditation, subconscious cleaning sessions, affirmations, i've watched countless of self improvement, self love, law of attraction videos and i have learned lots of thing about them. But you know what hurts more?! Having lots of information and knowladge of those and still not being able to change the cycle and getting out of this pit...

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      Sorry to hear you’re going through this. ❤️ If a man disappears he can’t possibly be the right one for you, in my opinion. These are the videos I’d recommend for you: czcams.com/video/sHR3dJ8QiLA/video.html, czcams.com/video/hBB3bxA_6CE/video.html, czcams.com/video/prRtFvlcldE/video.html, czcams.com/video/h1SIhouAIH0/video.html and czcams.com/video/bN1jzRP_sQ8/video.html.

    • @brooklyn3299
      @brooklyn3299 Před rokem +1

      Pay less attention to them, be aloof.. give them just a tiny bit of attention and only when it’s something you want. It works! Stop giving them anything, be aloof until they prove their interest 💜

  • @suzspurr9098
    @suzspurr9098 Před 2 lety +57

    Boy...this was the video I needed to watch! Am going through the ghosting/unavailable/breadcrumbing scenario right now. Everything that you guys talked about, reaffirmed what I've been telling myself....mostly....IT'S NOT ME! 😉

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      I’m glad this resonated with you! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/PZ0ZGs4qfnM/video.html, czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html and czcams.com/video/4SBxUGRBFfI/video.html.

  • @jeannejones5449
    @jeannejones5449 Před 2 lety +46

    Jack shows us how to choose our self love first over the love of a partnership.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +3

      Yes, Jack gives fantastic advice! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with him if anyone would like to check them out: czcams.com/video/RpfODvxBNK0/video.html, czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html, czcams.com/video/HRvJEJ6ygE8/video.html, czcams.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/video.html and czcams.com/video/gm3-aoKXjuk/video.html.

    • @TheRalphie2020
      @TheRalphie2020 Před rokem

      ❤❤❤

  • @avril.227
    @avril.227 Před 2 lety +13

    If really hurts when he gives you so much then pulls away. That’s a big red flag 🚩 If he isn’t giving what you want keep your options open and you do you. I also like what you said about seeing who he really is from the get-go, watch his actions not his words. I’m a big believer in facing reality. For years I was giving to many guys the benefit of the doubt and beating myself up for the way they acted, instead of realizing they weren’t what I needed or not good enough to be with me.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for sharing your insights and takeaways here! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @lggarcia5949
    @lggarcia5949 Před 2 lety +47

    Very well said a very great advices
    Don't ever ever waste your energy, your time and efforts and love to SOMEONE'S doesn't care about your feelings, You don't deserve them, if your partner is Pulling away , acting like a distant, let them go and reserve your energy to SOMEONE'S who deserve to be with you
    If SOMEONE'S are meant to be it will happen at the RIGHT TIME to the RIGHT PERSON and for the BEST REASON. 🙂

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks for sharing your insights here! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 💞

    • @lggarcia5949
      @lggarcia5949 Před 2 lety +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching yes I do , ❤

  • @rosechungu7578
    @rosechungu7578 Před 2 lety +13

    Worked for me, mirroring energy. He began to put in more effort yaay

  • @susanrusso5551
    @susanrusso5551 Před 2 lety +10

    I am going through someone pulling away he went from 100% to 0 ..feeling so hurt 😓HEARING JACK SAY DON'T TAKE IT Personally WAS SO HELPFUL AS MUCH AS RIGHT NOW I CRY EVERY SECOND IT SHOULDN'T BE THIS HARD...

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. ❤️ These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/9UiCZsNJzno/video.html, czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html, czcams.com/video/sHR3dJ8QiLA/video.html and czcams.com/video/4SBxUGRBFfI/video.html.

  • @shaylaharper6364
    @shaylaharper6364 Před 2 lety +30

    Absolutely! Value myself first, thank you! Alway respecting the other person but I have to make myself the priority.
    The man I love and am in a committed relationship with has pulled away when it’s convenient for him and has then gotten comfortable with breaking up with any kind of conflict. He dictates when we see each other when before it was a mutual agreement between us.
    I have found myself trying harder, giving more, carrying the entire load. I have become the caretaker and one who has started walking on egg shells.
    I have been on a roller coaster these past few weeks. I absolutely needed to see this segment, the two of you have brought me to a better place within myself.
    Thank you so much 💝💐

    • @TT-ud5gf
      @TT-ud5gf Před 2 lety +4

      Life is too short… How did you pull yourself up?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      You’re welcome, Shayla! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @NorthernBell4612
    @NorthernBell4612 Před 2 lety +13

    Reciprocity, mirroring... I did this before listening to this video and bingo! It revealed so much about myself and of him.
    Loved what Jack said to not take things personally.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’m glad this resonated with you. 💞

  • @jokster4409
    @jokster4409 Před 2 lety +7

    This is really good, I've seen so much advice blaming women for the man's lack of responsibility and expecting her to fix it.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @sewmorelove
    @sewmorelove Před rokem +6

    Great advice. With the victim blaming culture in our society, I think girls and women are conditioned to believe bad things that happen are their fault. It also extends to dating relationships and looking inward instead of putting the responsibility on the other person.

  • @shrillytemple1654
    @shrillytemple1654 Před 2 lety +8

    No more PhDs- just do nothing! Love it

  • @vjcarter4657
    @vjcarter4657 Před rokem +12

    This is really, really good! - when I feel like I’m making it about myself, I recognize this emotional intensity welling up inside of me and I create this inner turmoil and drama for NO REASON! I think THIS issue is my biggest challenge. I always think it’s me. 😢

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many people can relate. ❤️

  • @sjgbrighton
    @sjgbrighton Před rokem +7

    Now I have met someone who genuinely likes me and is carefully building something with me, this information rings so true. Getting to know this person has been stress-free. Its been surprising accepting his kind comments, his flowers and his affections as I have been meeting men who just wanted something casual. It was extremely painful and made me feel bad. I think I will find it easier to weed out those type of guys in the future if necessary.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here, Sophie! I’m happy to hear that. This video might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/t0Mfw4tbsew/video.html

  • @menlove251
    @menlove251 Před 2 lety +6

    Listening to these insights make me feel good. I am more interested in my own inner work rather than getting him to text me...

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m happy to hear that! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @lisamar6386
    @lisamar6386 Před 2 lety +12

    I went through Jack's and Clayton Olson's course Becoming The One, where they talked about personas and I had my consciousness shift. This is the real deal, Jack knows his stuff.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      Thanks so much for sharing, Lisa! 💗 Here’s the link to their free webinar if anyone would like to check it out - it’s called “3 Keys To Being Relationship Ready: How Successful Women Find A High-Quality Man": becomingtheone.us/hh-co-ytvid

  • @Pablo-cy5ve
    @Pablo-cy5ve Před 2 lety +12

    I love that comment and it is so true - it is an opportunity to love yourself more 💕

  • @jcanangel
    @jcanangel Před 2 lety +7

    Jack is amazing! Love it when you bring him on!!! Thanks Helena! Diving in

  • @ankecharbonnier6148
    @ankecharbonnier6148 Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks guys, wonderfully put... great to understand and exactly in perfect timing for my life 🙏

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 Před 2 lety +7

    Love Jake’s energy. Thank you guys.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Jack if anyone would like to check them out: czcams.com/video/RpfODvxBNK0/video.html, czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html, czcams.com/video/HRvJEJ6ygE8/video.html, czcams.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/video.html and czcams.com/video/gm3-aoKXjuk/video.html.

  • @InspiritB
    @InspiritB Před 2 lety +6

    I love this so much! Jack is truly the best! Thank you for sharing this wisdom 🤗

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Jack if anyone would like to check them out: czcams.com/video/RpfODvxBNK0/video.html, czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html, czcams.com/video/HRvJEJ6ygE8/video.html, czcams.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/video.html and czcams.com/video/gm3-aoKXjuk/video.html.

  • @dlm2133
    @dlm2133 Před 2 lety +10

    You both are so professional and knowledgeable. Thank you for all you hard work. I appreciate you

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 Před 2 lety +15

    Love this❤️! Mirroring technique!

  • @deedubs5473
    @deedubs5473 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you, thank you, thank you! I really needed to hear this! I’ve had this experience so many times and was here feeling utterly distraught and not knowing what to do with myself as I try to navigate this situation and the intense feelings it’s triggering. Then I opened up CZcams and this was the first video that popped up in my feed. My perspective has totally changed and I feel soooo much better! Makes so much sense! Wow, you are godsend! I am so grateful! 🙏🏽

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/PZ0ZGs4qfnM/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @rinawilliams6249
    @rinawilliams6249 Před 2 lety +15

    Helena, I love your soft feminine look.Even your bouquet at the back compliments your look.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +7

      Thanks Rina! 💖 The flowers in this video are from Rose Forever. They're preserved with natural oils so they last for a year! Here’s a link to their website if anyone would like to check it out (you can use the coupon code HART25 to get $25 OFF your order!): bit.ly/3fPAxqx

    • @rinawilliams6249
      @rinawilliams6249 Před 2 lety +3

      @@HelenaHartCoaching ,thx Helena,this is Amazing!!...I've never heard of such a procedure.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +4

      Yes, I’ve had those flowers for over three months and they still look as beautiful as the day I got them (they smell good, too!). 🌸

  • @veronikah.6918
    @veronikah.6918 Před 2 lety +20

    Thank you for this great video! I've been practicing all these 3 things recently and I feel so much better, valuing myself more.

  • @rinawilliams6249
    @rinawilliams6249 Před 2 lety +9

    Looks like it's a season now amongst men!...OMW....

  • @anastasiakatsimbardis2648

    Thank you Jack for this sound advice! You’ve illuminated sooo much for me here as I’ve never been in this situation. I love “see this as an opportunity for self love” and to reflect inwards, to stop questioning HIS motivations, stop excusing HIS behaviour. And instead reflect on what is it in you that allows/ enables/ accepts this behaviour towards you. To reflect/ refine and name/ claim what I want, what I’m worth. Thank you. Love it 🙏

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Hi Anastasia, these videos I recorded with Jack should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/k8eb_r5tjtE/video.html and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 Před 2 lety +13

    This is so informative and encouraging to me!🤩

  • @Amconrod
    @Amconrod Před rokem +2

    I so enjoyed Jack Butlers advice! If only I’d learned this when I was in my twenties….even if I’d learned this in my twenties I probably wouldn’t have heeded it! When you’re young you think you know everything and you don’t really listen to advice unfortunately but that’s the life experience. I’m 68 now and I’ve used Jacks advice and although a man you really like is breadcrumbing or pretending…it still hurts but when you stop the breadcrumbing at the beginning if it’s not what you want the hurt is less and dissipates faster helping you to move on and not waste precious time. A man breadcrumbing, distant is really all about him and something you don’t want to engage in. ✌🏽♥️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! The latest livestream I did with Jack might also be helpful for anyone who’s experienced this: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share

  • @BeeRejuvenatedStudio
    @BeeRejuvenatedStudio Před 2 lety +10

    Priceless advice!! So concise and easy to click in your mind.

  • @josie9612
    @josie9612 Před rokem +1

    Helena,
    I just found you and wanted to extend a complement as to your interviewing skills. You are intelligent, listen and champion your guests with intuitive questions and allowing their response.
    Plus your content is so necessary and beneficial in this day of such confusion in the relationship world

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much, Josie! ❤️ My latest video might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/t0Mfw4tbsew/video.html

  • @belove0705
    @belove0705 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you Jack & Helena !!!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 Před rokem +1

    Helena Thanks for recommending these videos!

  • @queenr.480
    @queenr.480 Před 2 lety +3

    You guys are just validating what I already knew, which is reassuring that I know I made the right choice. THANK YOU for validating me. It's so hard when you only have your own perspective to see these things through.❤️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @starsilvia
    @starsilvia Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing video! Super powerfully useful in a very authentic way!! THANK YOU!! 💖💖💖💖

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome! 💜 I’m glad you enjoyed it. These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html, czcams.com/video/ZlXm4QynpFM/video.html and czcams.com/video/4SBxUGRBFfI/video.html.

  • @spreadthegospel6667
    @spreadthegospel6667 Před 2 lety +4

    Awesome video! Life changing for me! I always thought it was me! Not doing a thing anymore! Thank you, THANK YOU!

  • @Blynn_
    @Blynn_ Před 2 lety +3

    This was awesome!!

  • @juliemichaud6118
    @juliemichaud6118 Před 2 lety +6

    This was so good and perfect timing!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it, Julie! 💕

    • @juliemichaud6118
      @juliemichaud6118 Před 2 lety +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching hahaha..ive watched it 5 times in the last 2 days and binge watched you tonight!

  • @kristad8977
    @kristad8977 Před 2 lety +8

    Helena, love this video! It’s so true and I am reminded to come back to the beautiful person I truly am! Thank you for this 🌷

  • @maricelgund
    @maricelgund Před 2 lety +7

    Excellent advice. Thank you Jack & Helena 🎀🤍🌸😊

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v Před 2 lety +1

    Helena, these are so insightful. Thank you!!!

  • @Wooddweller
    @Wooddweller Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this suggestion on this video ! Listening to it while grabbing lunch.

  • @femininefitness1
    @femininefitness1 Před 2 lety +7

    This must be the best interview & advice on the topic. I am seriously impressed and grateful: thank you, Helena & Jack! 🤗I wish I had known this decades ago! 😅 Thank God I now Love me first! ❤️🥰

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome, Monica! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @hannahlouise1604
    @hannahlouise1604 Před 2 lety +10

    Thank you so much for this video. I started to fall for someone in another state but he is hesitant to come and visit me yet I am prepared to visit him. I've started to pull back. He's only 30% available but drops things that keep me hanging. I love this video and the advice. Thank you 🙏 fan from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @andreapeet9558
    @andreapeet9558 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I wish I had read this sooner. It helps a lot and gives me back my self-worth. This video is very insightful, thank you so much.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 10 měsíci +1

      You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️ These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @dhaybarr
    @dhaybarr Před 2 lety +1

    Great insight, well said and definitely needed this

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/PZ0ZGs4qfnM/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @ginaalesha2
    @ginaalesha2 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video Helena!!!❤️

  • @ayedee4463
    @ayedee4463 Před 2 lety +2

    Such good advice. Thanks!

  • @ekaterinasaturn6853
    @ekaterinasaturn6853 Před 2 lety +3

    Great video, really deep stuff!

  • @briangonsalez2173
    @briangonsalez2173 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent video!!

  • @abeach5420
    @abeach5420 Před 2 lety +9

    👌👍😁🙌🙌 *YESSS Mr. Jack is back* . Outstanding coach in all so many areas.
    One of the few I follow on 'the' Tube.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +3

      Yes, Jack gives fantastic advice! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with him if anyone would like to check them out: czcams.com/video/RpfODvxBNK0/video.html, czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html, czcams.com/video/HRvJEJ6ygE8/video.html, czcams.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/video.html and czcams.com/video/gm3-aoKXjuk/video.html.

    • @abeach5420
      @abeach5420 Před 2 lety +3

      @@HelenaHartCoaching Oh I have watched them all and have sent pple I know to watch as well plus follow. Tx for featuring him. Uhhh 'that' dreamy accent & so very kind eyes ain't hard to handle either, hehe.

  • @katnisseverdeen9772
    @katnisseverdeen9772 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this video! This resonates with me so so much. I love how the points here were clearly explained..😍

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 Před 2 lety +4

    Love ❤️ this video!

  • @dnibcn93
    @dnibcn93 Před rokem +1

    Watching all ur vids, jack is one of my favs!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Jack gives great advice! Here’s the latest livestream I did with him on a similar topic if anyone would like to check it out: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share

  • @carolb3869
    @carolb3869 Před 11 měsíci

    Really enjoyed this video.
    Very well done!
    Thank you

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 11 měsíci +2

      You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @ramune1904
    @ramune1904 Před 2 lety +4

    Amazing video 😊 💕

  • @bettycarmella1127
    @bettycarmella1127 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent advice😊

  • @audreyorgnon7112
    @audreyorgnon7112 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sooo true, thank you Jack!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 6 měsíci +1

      The latest video I recorded with Jack should also be helpful: czcams.com/users/livegQNmkJHeNxo?si=mz4YGkX1KBdlVFJ7

  • @cerimarriott474
    @cerimarriott474 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this so empowering

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html, czcams.com/video/PZ0ZGs4qfnM/video.html and czcams.com/video/4SBxUGRBFfI/video.html.

  • @Wooddweller
    @Wooddweller Před rokem +1

    Makes so much sense !

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞 This video I recorded with Jack should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @chrissikinsm3051
    @chrissikinsm3051 Před 2 lety +9

    This is so great, Helena. I agree - wish I'd known this 15 years ago!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! Yes, so happy to be putting this information out there! 💕

  • @TwilightSagaBella1
    @TwilightSagaBella1 Před 2 lety +5

    This is a great video, enlightening women how to value themselves ... Thank u 💕🌷🌈 ... I learned today one of the most imp thing...don't make it personal if a guy pulls away.

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the enlightenment .

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 7 měsíci +1

      You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?si=ghEMxbO75flmFNn4 and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.htmlsi=ddyw9KKrPNu1wcxD.

  • @dr.arunimarohatgiofficial4189

    Great advice 👍

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed this! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/HRvJEJ6ygE8/video.html and czcams.com/video/jqda97uPRqI/video.html.

  • @jenaya_laila2442
    @jenaya_laila2442 Před 2 lety

    Love him! This is the first time I am hearing solid advice that seems coherent...👍

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html and czcams.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/video.html.

  • @nhl4264
    @nhl4264 Před 2 lety +15

    Thanks Helena! I like how Jack explains this, really, what we term as pulling away is actually a moment-to-moment detachment that every musculine must go through. The best thing a woman can do is to do absolutely nothing when it happens (one recipe to create deep emotional connection). When a man comes back, a woman has to choose whether he wants the relationship or she chooses to leave. However, that being said, It is misleading to believe that moving on to another man is a solution
    because one can move on to another relationship where a amn is available at the moment, perhaps even gets married to the next man who then, BOOM years later pulls away intensely because they need to Detach at that moment to fulfill their masculine mission. The key is not to run away from the fact that masculine is detaching at that moment & pulling away, but rather how is the state of the womans emotional intelligence to handle this with grace when it happens, because every musculine man is bound to pull away to fulfill his musculine missions, it is not a matter of if it happens but when it happens!

    • @moorlivingholistic
      @moorlivingholistic Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your comment I was about to make a big mistake and you saved me. Thank you.

  • @pimchand.6412
    @pimchand.6412 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks Helena and Jack for the nice video,
    make me more powerful ❤️❤️❤️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +2

      You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/ZlXm4QynpFM/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

    • @pimchand.6412
      @pimchand.6412 Před 2 lety +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching thanks a lot Helena ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Dee-ahn
    @Dee-ahn Před rokem +1

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You have both helped me to a great extent. The words of wisdom you have spoken brought me to tears. The tears were healing. I feel blessed! I am blessed! I'm ever so grateful! I appreciate your work! Hugs 🤗 Much love! Thanks, again. 💐🫶✨🤍🥰☹️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +2

      You’re very welcome! ❤️ These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful !

  • @colleenmariebeautiful1897

    Such Great Content~💖
    Thank You Both...🙏

  • @JessicaLTL
    @JessicaLTL Před 2 lety +4

    Wish I saw this sooner. Great advice. I Def need to sober up. 😢

  • @diannaantes5262
    @diannaantes5262 Před 2 lety +2

    Hello Jack 😊

  • @skyeseas
    @skyeseas Před 2 lety +17

    Y’all are seriously out here doing the lords work lmao. what another gem 💎 🙏💜⭐️🌻

  • @2brunhilda
    @2brunhilda Před rokem +1

    I love that statement “ looking for a PHD in bread crumbing”

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 Před 11 dny

    Such a great info, thank you! 🙏

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 9 dny +1

      You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/livegQNmkJHeNxo?si=gAkpOzyRL11aHaZh, czcams.com/users/livek8eb_r5tjtE?si=ZlcKQqjnbOna8jbU, czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?si=jg8iFyd0y9ByM34k and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.htmlsi=KY-NSzWyGJFLyiuk.

    • @dazza8551
      @dazza8551 Před 9 dny +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you 🙏

  • @2brunhilda
    @2brunhilda Před rokem

    This is excellent

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thank you! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @aprilfrancis1730
    @aprilfrancis1730 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so true.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      You’re welcome! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts Před rokem +1

    Excellent ❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thank you! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @congtrihayankeomut2024

    Thanks!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @christineribone9351
    @christineribone9351 Před 3 měsíci +1

    thank you Jack, for the sobriety test.

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Před 2 lety +1

    This is sound teaching.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html, czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html, czcams.com/video/PZ0ZGs4qfnM/video.html and czcams.com/video/IADc64qhmJs/video.html.

  • @2brunhilda
    @2brunhilda Před rokem

    Excellent. I told my friend he needs a break from me because I was only getting bread crumbs. It is a chance to get sober.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! The latest livestream I did with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/k8eb_r5tjtE/video.html

  • @denisesiddon7241
    @denisesiddon7241 Před 2 lety +3

    Move on and block him on everything he's not worth it
    Had this with someone I've always trusted and liked it's painful but moving on is for the best

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here, Denise! These videos should be helpful for anyone who’s having a hard time moving on from this type of man: czcams.com/video/4SBxUGRBFfI/video.html, czcams.com/video/ZlXm4QynpFM/video.html, czcams.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/video.html and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @tashadavis2491
    @tashadavis2491 Před rokem +1

    Hi I've been a situation ship for a few yrs and he "NEVER" going to change. He doesn't talk much and texts sparingly. So i just need at this point stay to myself and stop letting him hurt me. Thanks for video

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem

      You’re welcome! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @vjcarter4657
    @vjcarter4657 Před rokem +1

    Men too! - Women Breadcrumb as well

  • @acmb6763
    @acmb6763 Před 2 lety +2

    He is the ONLY male coach I actually like. No offense to the other ones 😂

  • @tammys5417
    @tammys5417 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Wow, this is so good.
    Please
    Posture
    Perform
    Not today ✌🏽.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 11 měsíci +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/users/live_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.

  • @tovebjrsvik4964
    @tovebjrsvik4964 Před 2 lety +1

    As always 💝

  • @Basilicum83
    @Basilicum83 Před rokem

    i always personalised things and i have beaten myself up many many times. i am now so ashamed for it

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. This blog post I wrote might be helpful: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-stop-being-hard-on-yourself-to-get-the-love-you-want/

  • @feliciaardelean3169
    @feliciaardelean3169 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, thank you very much for this Information( important). Now I Know that, but 3 years I feeled quilty for Nothink. I make evetyrhink for our relationschip. That was The story. Now I whant to Love my Șelf More.. I wisch Love for all women în this World.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      You’re welcome, Felicia! I just published a new video that might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/d0Um3WynLrc/video.html

  • @gertaqilla7795
    @gertaqilla7795 Před rokem +1

    🤗🤗💞Thank you!!!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      You’re welcome! 💗 This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html

    • @gertaqilla7795
      @gertaqilla7795 Před rokem

      Thank you so much Helena!Blessings 🤲💞

  • @OK-wb1dy
    @OK-wb1dy Před rokem +1

    ⭐️

  • @dawnnathan3464
    @dawnnathan3464 Před 2 lety

    I bet I have situation you have never see.!

  • @ondyvalladares5254
    @ondyvalladares5254 Před 2 lety +1

    Hello. I just signed up for the master class. I didn't see the date and time. Did I miss it?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před 2 lety +1

      I believe the live Masterclass was a week ago, but you may be able to get access to the replay if you sign up. Check your spam and “promotions” folders, as the automated emails can sometimes get caught there. 💜

  • @michellec3100
    @michellec3100 Před rokem

    Breadcrumbing 😅.
    First time I hear that expression. Lol

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Před rokem +1

      These videos I recorded with Jack should also be helpful for anyone who’s experiencing this: czcams.com/video/_iPJxM7VwQo/video.html and czcams.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/video.html.