HOW TO FLIRT WITH GIRLS AT RAVES
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- čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
- Hey guys, thanks for checking out my channel! In this video, I’m playing matchmaker by giving you advice on how to flirt with and approach girls at EDM shows. Hopefully some of these work for you!
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Thx.lol
too bad I discovered this comment after my suffering
Goat
My hero😂
Not all heros wear Capes
You know it's really nice to get tips from the other gender, especially someone so beautiful. I am just getting into rave culture so I very much so appreciate the tips! Some i've used but some are new!
U saw her tips and tutorials and starting using them on her
When I went to electric forest festival my very first year in 2017 I was at razz’ set and this guy who was clearly on drugs had no shirt on and was super sweaty, he kept bumping into the back of me and then he would step in front of me and fall on me, now i’m 5”4, he did this about three times and each time this other really big guy would grab him by the shoulders or his book bag and yank him back he would be like “yo there are two small girls right here please watch where you’re going”, this awesome guy had to defend us three or four times and eventually other people in the crowd started noticing and everyone was pushing this in to the back! The guy who helped me and my friend offered us shrooms afterwards and I’m a very psychedelic person so I took the tiniest piece. but it just goes to show how some guys can be nice and some can be dicks
@Money Chasers inc. mushrooms aren’t really the “now she’s gonna wanna fuck” type of vibes brotha
Those were actually some good tips
Asking for "candy" in Europe prolly differ from there in the US lol😂
They call it kandi it’s a bracelet.. If u ask for candy in the us you’re gonna sound like police
glad i ran into this, i hope to one day find my headbanging dream queen
Have you found her yet
I dance like nobody's watching and throw in alot of moves that'd make you think I was a stripper and it never fails, will have whole friend groups of girls sharing me 😂🥳😋👽
Yo what kind of moves 🤣
just went to edc last weekend and didn’t miss with getting any numbers using these tips! I was careful bout my shots but still thanks gave me a lot of confidence
I always try to radiate positive energy by having fun dancing, headbanging, bouncing up and down etc. problem is I eventually run out of energy and I could never approach a girl myself
Even if you believe that to be true, you shouldn't talk about yourself like that. Your words are SO powerful, and not in some goofy "law of attraction" way. Become your own biggest fan and supporter. Improve your self talk. ❣
Same dude! I go prepared to talk to girls but end up too hype by the music until I’m whipped from going hard for 3 hours.
do more drugs
@@darrinortego7771 to be honest man, that's why we are raving. These tips are helpfuk for some I guess, but to be honest... People that are there for the sake of the festival are the best people. Everyone is free to do what they want and all that, but from my perspective... The reason why I love uptempo festivals is that the majority is there to actually enjoy the music and have a good time without the focus of hitting on each other. I feel like that's different for every genre though
Many of these are all just REALLY solid tips for dating in general. I think I might add, try being direct as well. Too much beating around the bush can be confusing and can exude poor self confidence, which is a turn off to most girls.
I love this. But learn to look around the girl you talk to if she has a boyfriend XD, i was talking to this one girl , vibing with her really well and she offered to go out of the crowd with me to go to another stage. So i took her hand and walk out of the area only to find her boyfriend hold me up and push me off XD. I never saw him there and he never showed his presence till the last minute lol.. They started fighting and i just apologize and walked off and felt so bad that i ruined someone day.
Mr. STEAL YO GIRL HERE^^^ 😂
What I always have to realize, (and it's *extremely* difficult for me to actually do this, especially since I have Asperger's, and I'm extremely shy when approaching and talking to ANY girl that I find attractive), is just to understand that more often times than not, (well over half), of the women you see at raves and music festivals are actually single AND friendly enough to talk to, AND open minded enough to actually WANT to meet new people, including new guys!... Just don't ever be a "dick" or "oversexualize" them, (even though they may be dancing almost totally naked right in front of you!), just be totally genuine, REAL, and COOL, (and as "confident" as you can manage to be), and most of them will receive your introduction and following interaction in a very positive and happy way!...
Generally more so than with just ordinary, everyday women you might see out and about during your normal workday or in other public places, etc. I think this is simply because the rave culture and "rave-minded" people in general tend to be much happier, positive, way more accepting of others AND their differences, and much more open-minded than most "average", "typical", everyday people that you meet on the street during your "daily grind" of shopping, work, etc... Those very true *qualities* about the rave culture, (both with girls and guys both), is one of my absolute favorite things about it as a whole, besides the awesome music!...
I'm just totally ready to meet a girl like this that I can actually start hanging out with and getting to know on a deeper level and on an everyday basis, who I can definitely go to shows with and have fun with in any and every way we both can think of, at raves or not, but one who I can also slowly *develop* a LTR with well into the future!... Where is my "Rave B.A.E."??!...
I already know I would definitely "click" with someone like that because I am the same type of person; very happy, positive energy, open-minded, free spirited, and accepting of everyone cool and genuine around me! I'm basically kind of a "modern hippie", (which I think most rave-minded people are usually like that), but without the "getting high and fucked up" part... I like to be 100% aware of and alert to notice all of the awesome sights and sounds all around me at a rave, not just to be in a "stupor" like some choose to be.
Anyway, I'm rambling now... Great video Emma, I look forward to watching as many of yours as I have time to see! :)
First two paragraphs are more useful for introverts than the entire video (which is good, but common sense). Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable.
As a fellow Aspie, this is SO true. I REALLY struggle to talk to ppl ESPECIALLY guys I find attractive. I can't even smile at them 😅
@@MentalThingsIsScary Hmm... OK. I will have to remember that; that there might actually be quite a few rather shy girls at raves like you, ones who ARE open to meeting and talking to new, cool guys... IF ONLY they would approach you first and strike up a Convo... Then maybe we (a guy like me) would actually get to see your beautiful smile! ;) I say don't be afraid to show it... Just know deep within your Spirit, that you are awesome... You're a "rave babe" after all, right? One who is not only cute AND very cool to know, but also really loves to LOVE, and of course the EDM music, vibes, energy, and overall lifestyle and culture... Because you are most likely also one who finds it is the best way for you to express your overall positive energy and Spirit!... Know and appreciate that about yourself, and (since you are a good person), don't ever be afraid to show a smile, it goes with who you are on the inside, (a generally happy and optimistic person, am I right?), plus a smile will help to attract a like minded and Spirit guy to you, if that is indeed what you would enjoy to happen.
(As you can tell, I love deep thought conversations with others who appreciate that also... I only wish I could meet a girl to continue having more and more of them with in person and in my daily life! Oh well, when the timing is right for both of us, I will finally meet her, but until then I just have to always remain a positive energy and loving Spirit!... As YOU should also, girl! The right guy for you will be able to notice AND appreciate ALL that you are, inside and out, especially your energy and Spirit! :) )
@@DanDascalescu-dandv I think those 1st two paragraphs are not at all common sense (except for the necessity of having to be kind and respectful of course), since there are people, like eg. me, who have very little til non experience with raves and how different the people may actually be there. So as I'm going to a festival tomorrow and wanted a few insights like these for preparation to hopefully find a girlfriend (for ever), these sentences from @JoeJ-8282 are really a booster to my confidence and hope, to actually find an openminded, kind and beautiful woman soon. 😊
Thanks for making this video! You’re a real homie!
You are on point. I especially appreciate chivalry in trying to look out. It was one of the most frustrating things when I am trying to vibe out, and people just want to constantly shove you. Politeness and respectfulness. Just because someone is wearing something more revealing than traditional, does not give permission to touch without consent.
amazing tips!!! Also "girls can see right through you" WORD!
Lol idk if anyone has had this happened before. I’m a decent singer and I always sing along at shows and that usually works for me.
Spill the beans. I think your cute is a good one. Better than to get friend zoned or she just walks. Interactions are like 2-5 minutes. Also big thing is vibe and connection.
I'm a girl and I need to learn how to flirt with girls-
same, i suck in that department xD
real
Don't we all
Same 😂
Like 80% of girls are bi just do the same thing like this video says. Be flirty compliment them look em in th eyes
Q: how do you flirt with girls at raves?
A; Give them ecstasy
Hahaha exactly
RyanD86 xddd
And, you definitely do NOT do that.
RyanD86 You seem like a semicolon type of nigga
Uncle Iroh A SEMI COLON LMOOOOO
Thank you so much I really appreciate your video!!! I’m normally really self conscience at raves and most of the time I don’t know any of the artists, so I’m just confused pretty much the whole time there
Lmao kick back and have a good time, always move to the beat, and maybe do something crazy once or twice;) lol
How are you at a rave and not learning the artists? Some rave baes are really into the artists so I’d learn them so you can share that interest instead of coming off as a guy who’s just there to hook up and party
What if you go to the rave alone?
Going solo is a vibe lol
Done it plenty of times and I've dance with a few girls but nothing pass that😂
Saw the same video your probably talking about lol it was pretty sleezy! Definitely for the broskis lol this was way more helpful! Thanks you Emma your awesome!
do you have a link to it?
Discovered something at the last show I went to. There's a current heat wave going on here and the show was outdoors. I kept a pocket-sized mist bottle in my pocket. Not only did nobody turn it down but I had one girl approach me to fill it back up with water just so she could get sprayed again.
Nice tips from a lovely woman. A lot of these tips can work outside of EDM guys, take note!
🤞🏼 first time going I need all the honeys 🤣
Thank you, I hope it works 🤞🏼❤😅 I’m a very shy person and I’m a new raver! 😅
I dance very well, my energy is top! I can notice this because the people, so many girls try to be to my side, but I dont know what to do after this... dance with her, talk to her, idk! The last time there was a girl putting in front of me... and I could see his tattoo on her back, so I figure out to start from there, so I touched her tattoo but he left after this... wtf!
Same here!
Also, how do you possibly talk on a dance floor?
don’t touch people without their consent period
Never go from behind
I'm 45, short and girls always approach me or come into my personal space. Why? Because I'm not there for them. I'm there for the music and seriously enjoying myself. The girls are not important. I'm confident as fuck and don't care whether girls are there or not. Of course I love girls. But my energy is focused on the DJ and the music. I dress very well. And girls always approach me or come into my space. When you make it about girls it's obvious and it takes your focus away from what is important and that is the moment. Not girls. It's a paradox. It's not rational it doesn't make sense. But girls at raves are the most nicest girls I have ever met. But it works for me to not focus on them. I'm there for the music not girls
Do a video on how to find the gay gorls😭❤️
Having fun isn't a lesbian thing so you wouldn't find them at raves.
@@RoflJoker1994 Ummm sorry but lesbians are the funnest people
@Marissa Lopes Your lesbian friends are gay 🤣
It's easy they don't wear make up and dress like guys, i have a lesbian friend that I met on a rave and she's so fu*king awesome
@@RoflJoker1994 sounds like someone’s mad there are women who don’t find the male species attractive
they come up to me, i have abs & good body, lol sometimes we get "harassed" too ladies
Edwin G 🙄
@@2muchWack 😑
Nice.
you are so dope! 💙
So you live in around new york. I am gkad if so, I feel like there are more people that likes rave from california, west side. My impression so far. Happy you are around here.
I love going to raves however I'm very self conscious about approaching women at raves because I'm overwheight and I wear oxygen. I don't know if there are any women out there open to me approaching them in this manner.
Then work out
@@munecabonbon it's hard for me to work out. I have severe arthritis on my left hip as well as a torn rotator cuff on my left shoulder. I work out as best as I can.
@@MrCdiaz71 what about changing your diet then?
Apple Tree arthritis is a hereditary issue and millions of people have it. Changing your diet isn’t going to magically cure it even if they lose the weight they will still have arthritis in their hip.
@@haileeexx7270 who said changing your diet cures arthritis? 😂😂😂
Just mingle guys to women without thinking about hooking up.Love will happen naturally if it was meant to be.
I usually get behind a girl and it works 🤷🏻♂️
😂👌
Sounds like nonconsentual rape dancing
It does work probably 40-50% of the time, however, its far less likely to form a lasting relationship of any kind; gf, rave gf, or friendship.
@@afordiam why would you even want to date or have a more serious relationship with a edm girl??? wanna get cheated? lmaoo theyre the most easy women i have encountered, dont waste your time on dating one, they just wanna party and do drugs. not dating material at all. id just sleep with one but nothing else lmao
Yeah my dudes, you’re just there to hook up lol, no more no less
Is candy code for XTC... cuz the police knows eI got a whole crunch of that...
umm, if the raves are in US, then I would say there are something they call "kandi" I think, they have bracelets and that and isn't drugs at all
oof haha my issue is im normally a pretty depressed guy it takes alot of effort for me to have "fun" and seem out going unfortunatley and lets be honest nobody likes to be around negative energy/people who struggle with depression
Dalton Griffin just keep trying to get out of your comfort zone and hopefully one of these days you’ll finally be free from internal hell. Depression seems to be common but extreme depression is definitely not healthy. Sending positive vibes your way 🌈 ✨
Love you man. Please seek professional help. Doing so is not a sign of weakness but a sign of STRENGTH. I also strongly advise getting to a healthier mindset before dating. No woman can fix those kinds of issues, and it will only hurt both of you worse in the process.
you don’t have to be having “fun” or be happy to have a genuine conversation with someone
THE GOAT 🐐
Thank you so much!
Hot women will think all of this is creepy
Maybe a little out of the subject. But jesus. I just found out you have thing called kendi. We do not have that here in holland. But I wouldn’t really wanna wear that though. I guess our rave culture has some differences compared to the American one if that’s where the kendi thing happens. 😅
Great pointers! I’ve tried these and they 100% work like a gem.
To be honest I’m just trying to sleep with a girl after a festival. Mdma alone is wack
lol what do you mean? MDMA does most of the work for you - those walls come down.
@@kaibe5241 bro im the biggest Casanova on Mdma cause all my walls come down, but man it’s impossible for me to get hard on it 😂😂
That's why God invented prostitutes...
@@WiseFoolTrades dude the struggle I’m so good at spittin game but when she check to see how big I am I’m embarrassed
@@badass420weedsmoker5 Actually i take back what I said dawg, recently when I've been on Mdma I have no longer been the casanova I once was but funnily enough I can get hard 😂 maybe there's something different in the pill these days lmao
I’m at hard summer rn imma try it
How’d it go?
@@jaayytaps7238 everything she says is tru. The main thing u need to take away is that u should just focus on having a good time and going with the flow. I’m the process u will get chances at some point throughout the night hope this helps and thx for the video. For my first rave it was awesome 😎
for the boys!
Dope haha thanks imagine 1st timer let's get it
Hi Emma you look amazing
Eres toda una reina
I like to dance but I don’t know how to dance I just move lol would that matter in dance circles???
UwotM8 definitely not! As long as you’re having fun 😊
#plur
For the boys
Wear a pashmina scarf lol.
Girls like male that wear pashmina ?
3:08 that's me always
Give them a Buzzball and wait 5 mins.
Hey Emma can you do a video of how gay men should approach guys.
Yeah save that for San Francisco
Give them a light show 😏
haha i was thinking of commenting something of the like. how effective is this for you?
okidoki, no rave for me
not bad
offer them party favors.
I was legit trying to be friends with my camp neighbors at Nocturnal Wonderland 19’ I’m telling you I literally had pussy thrown at me. They all were girls and were into the same things I was so I hung out with them. The cold approach or whatever is pointless just have fun y’all at a rave talk like human beings. It doesn’t take much to flirt
The point is not that I had pussy thrown at me but the fact that they developed trust for me just by being genuine made them really attracted to me I guess
You are gorgeous😍
mahmoud Hassan yeah, love that tooth gap!
@Steve 😂😂😂😂😂
Hey back off her shes 5'1 douche bags
@@stevecharmer4296 douche canoe, she's still beautiful!
What's candy?
Raver bracelets, they call it candy because it’s usually colorful.
Adrianna Nelson thought she meant pills lmao
Candy is dandi abracadabra
Not bad advice coming from a girl. Usually they're worst at this topic
Aaa
Instructions unclear, no girls like chubby guys anymore. My belly barely sticks out and girls get disgusted and walk away from me.
Sounds like a personal problem lol.
lose weight lmao
This is a useless video. All these "tips" just rely on the girl already finding you attractive at first. If that is the case, you can do whatever and not even have the need to watch this.
Wtf is candy?
Your WIBBLE kandi are beaded bracelets/jewelry that people in the rave community make and trade!
it is another term for the beaded braceletes
Anal beads
mdma
I take Kandi from strangers
Gee, flirting is complicated! How do you know you got the right notion of secret code words like sleazy and candy? Wearing candy? Huh? And I have never ever heard that mysterious "sleazy" before, honest, it must be like yuck, but... what is the visible behaviour of a sleazy girl? So, first you need to graduate on extremely introvert girls, or you have no clue why you will be rejected again and again.
Point is, how do you get better at flirting? I am a dick, so my compliment sucks. I end up being that fool taking pictures only, and then those chicks are gone. I do the rugby thing to give sweet babes some space for breathing, so I'm basically dancing back to back with another dude. You make friends that way... And don't say I gave up too soon. My passport says I'm 225 years old, now. I must say, flirting and raving keeps you young.
when you approach a girl that you wanna flirt with don’t come up to them in any creepy way and just compliment either their makeup, kandi, outfit, hair, or basically anything that catches your eye first (do not compliment their body most girls tend to feel uncomfortable when that happens).
and you can just dance with her (no grinding or wanting her to grind on you, that shits weird at raves trust me) but forreal just dance all out with her and get her either her number, snapchat, instagram whatever SHE prefers
oh i almost forgot! if you have anything for this you can give her a light show
Girls tend to compliment how I look at raves is that their way of flirting then lol?
Yes .
yeah
Not every compliment is a flirt though just a something to think about
Probably not unless they give you a smirky smile, if no smirk they’re just expressing themselves
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This is terrible advice lmao 🤣
literally how
The girl that made this video is regarded and will be living with cats in 10+ years. Mark this post
@@mattblaircomedysounds like you just gets no bitches
@@darius8414 😂
I've raved since 98 to 2008 sorry to say they don't exist after that. They are all sleazy after that time.
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