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Get OUT of that TOXIC RELATIONSHIP! | Ankur Warikoo

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  • čas přidán 16. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 253

  • @infinity305
    @infinity305 Před rokem +281

    After being in a 7year relationship that went toxic in the last year-I finally recovered in 2-3years,now i feel like the happiest person even being single

    • @subharupchakraborty522
      @subharupchakraborty522 Před rokem +3

      same here...

    • @infinity305
      @infinity305 Před rokem +1

      @@subharupchakraborty522 sune khusi holam

    • @subharupchakraborty522
      @subharupchakraborty522 Před rokem +3

      @@infinity305 amar jonno 7 years na...3 bochorer chilo...which went toxic in the last year....

    • @infinity305
      @infinity305 Před rokem +1

      @@subharupchakraborty522 currently I've overcome those days after suffering 2-3years...time is the biggest teacher as well as doctor 🤗

    • @GauravSharma-yh9gv
      @GauravSharma-yh9gv Před rokem

      How did you overcome this?

  • @kallmekana
    @kallmekana Před rokem +397

    girls don't love toxic men
    ''Girls fall in love with men who first showed them that they are nice and caring and then turn toxic after some time ''
    We don't love toxic men
    You men turn and change into toxic
    After we put out love and trust in you
    Guys keep gaslight us
    Guys manipulate us
    Guys hurt us
    And then expect us not to be angry
    Not to ask why you did those hurt things
    Girls aren't into toxic relationship
    Guys love for 2 months and them show their toxic side but we girls are forgiving and loving that's why we thing one day you guys will change
    Be better
    Not like you guys who just blame everything you did on us and leave us

    • @rohitbarman7642
      @rohitbarman7642 Před rokem

      Girls after 6 months start talking with another boys for excitement & attention seeker .
      They start showing interest in other boys .
      Majority of the girls like that .They can't understand true live of men .Men r loyal for that girls.

    • @kamakhyasingh5511
      @kamakhyasingh5511 Před rokem +14

      Accuracy on point *

    • @Mr.Batman....1
      @Mr.Batman....1 Před rokem +22

      Please don't spitting your fail love life here, things get always into two ways so don't talk about whole womens or men community....

    • @shine2678
      @shine2678 Před rokem +11

      So true, im in the same situation, completely heartbroken, dont know how to forgive and forget him, i still dont know why i miss him this much

    • @MantuYadav-sp3jd
      @MantuYadav-sp3jd Před rokem +20

      Listen 3 years before i started my relationship with her and i became the nicest guy for her and it is not that i am declaring nice by myself but her friends and even she accepted it and i listened to her when she cried, i was always with her when she needed emotional support, i never doubted on her i never even used promise i just believe on what she said and she was also same. When she said she wants to study i never disturbed . I mean whatever she said i agreed whatever she wanted i did....but i became to nice that she choosed too cheat on me and started ignoring me beacuse i think i was not like others who oppose or fight aur do block unblock stuff . The day she started i felt something abnormal and i asked her that is there anything wrong (i have chats where i checked the date and she told me that she started talking with that on the same date).
      After 1 week i was confirmed that something is going on behind but i never asked cause i thought she will feel sad so never asked and after 2 months i got to know that she cheated but then i asked her and she told me that she just 2 weeks ago so i said ok and there was her board exam on next I cried and felt like hell but controlled myself and told her that ok i am not leaving it's ok.....but after that my gut feeling was coming from inside that is doing that same thing but didn't did anything because i didn't wanted her to disturb after 1.5 months later I called on that number of guy and asked that are you talking to her and he replied yes who you are and i said i am his bf and then get to know that when she said she talking from 2 week that was lie she was talking with him 2 moths +1.5 month now totally broken from inside that what i mean i forgived you and you returned this to me ..... Then she realised and cried alot now everything is ok and 7 months passed but still i feel that pain inside and now i treat her same but I know that i will trust her as before and the trauma i got from her it will never let me trust on any girl. I had lost my mother when i was 11 years old when she came to my life i felt that whatever i am missing in my life is done now . And my father married to another woman so now it's not that son father relationship so i totally dependent on her for emotional support but now i am broken she is with me but don't think that i will make it same as before . She lost her father so i decided that the way she fullfill my sadness with happiness i will do the same and i did and she said that she never feel her father beacuse i am with her so i remained the same but she changed now i am hoping that she will be again like before otherwise i will live life to end but without love , hope, happiness and purpose.
      I wanted Just a Happy family which i never got in my past life but after these incidents I don't feel that i will get a happy cause for happy famili we need loyal partner who remain loyal not for weeks , not for months ,not for years but partner should be loyal for for decades or for centuries.

  • @rushil.bhutani
    @rushil.bhutani Před rokem +51

    Ankur mere mentor, those statements: “you’re wrong”, “can’t keep me happy”, “doing nothing for the relationship”; you hit the nail on the head

    • @aayushprabhakar1080
      @aayushprabhakar1080 Před 5 měsíci

      Going through the same thing but not able to get out

    • @meghanarula1580
      @meghanarula1580 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@aayushprabhakar1080 you should try again nd again

  • @Starlight11249
    @Starlight11249 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I cried, not only because my situation but you told this with experience, you soul is telling us

  • @SupriyoGhosh-e3e
    @SupriyoGhosh-e3e Před 6 dny

    This is my life now. Everyday I receive these words from her.

  • @Itish_ree
    @Itish_ree Před rokem +23

    Sir, mera to ye manna hai ki samne wale ko khush krna kabhi other person ki responsibility honi hi nhi chahiye.. kyunki that's next to impossible...my happiness should be my responsibility ye mantra hona chahiye life ka.

  • @odiadearpriya2001
    @odiadearpriya2001 Před 5 měsíci +6

    We all should avoid toxic relationships…👍

  • @ksherpa2703
    @ksherpa2703 Před rokem +3

    You opened my eyes. Thank you
    All the questions which you have mentioned all were true. I was at a point where i was questioning my self.

  • @akshataadhikari4834
    @akshataadhikari4834 Před rokem +67

    Can't get out of toxic relationship with my parents

    • @Studytips_Adarsh
      @Studytips_Adarsh Před rokem

      😂😂same here Ji😊

    • @devilbeast69
      @devilbeast69 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Genz ka rona yai hai.. ki toxic hai.. wo toxic hai.. tumlog na dhang se dhukhi reh pate ho.. na dhang se khush reh paate ho.. maa baap toxic ? You guys have lost logical analysis. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @manishvarun7815
      @manishvarun7815 Před 7 měsíci

      U r a toxic human then

  • @mugdha1202
    @mugdha1202 Před rokem +6

    True words
    But leaving one relation àni getting married to another person, doesn't give you peace
    It makes worst situations

  • @pree_yum
    @pree_yum Před rokem +89

    Thanks for describing my relationship with my father.

  • @mudassirali5926
    @mudassirali5926 Před 7 dny +1

    Try till the end if you really love the person, because sometimes, it's not the person that's bad, it's their conditions which shape them that way, maybe a little bit of more patience, trust and wait could open the doors of never ending beautiful partnership. Regret of not trying will kill you for the rest of your life. So, try n wait and have faith in your partner with whom you spent some of the beautiful moments of you life.

  • @vjnrsmhamysore1489
    @vjnrsmhamysore1489 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Toxic is the HELL
    Good relationship is HEAVEN

  • @RAkter20
    @RAkter20 Před 6 měsíci

    Just want to say, "Thank you sir!!".. Your warm words have touched my pain and made me cry..

  • @DrSk1405
    @DrSk1405 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I am the most worst and toxic relationship ever , I hate it so much . But idk I am still hope it will change somewhere or its the emotional attachment I have or may b the fear of being alone or the aftermath of breakup that I am not able to walk out of it even though my partner is trying so hard to breakup! Idk what to do .

  • @biswajitsamal1068
    @biswajitsamal1068 Před 4 měsíci +1

    True 😭😭 I have been suffering and I know how it feels

  • @najakrajnc9205
    @najakrajnc9205 Před měsícem

    Crying while listening to this... How do i get out of this

  • @Tusk148
    @Tusk148 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I used to tell the same thing to my partner very often and I knew that this would make her feel that she isn't doing anything but I said that judging by what I have seen so I decided to leave the relationship for our own good

  • @prasadsoundankar4552
    @prasadsoundankar4552 Před 19 dny

    Thank you so much for this video sir❤

  • @ahmedtousifta
    @ahmedtousifta Před rokem +2

    Thankfully I am out from that toxicity

  • @Lifeinaustralia2014
    @Lifeinaustralia2014 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Going through it 😞

  • @kashthkkr87
    @kashthkkr87 Před rokem +1

    Man your expressions are so authentic. Hope you did not have to go through it

  • @RohitGupta-ln4gg
    @RohitGupta-ln4gg Před měsícem

    Vry well said these all r the basic symptoms

  • @deva_771
    @deva_771 Před rokem +6

    You are good at what you do.Good acting👌👌

  • @artseawish683
    @artseawish683 Před 2 měsíci

    How to get away from toxic mother in law. She makes me cry every day. I can't say anything to her out of respect. But I'm dying inside.

  • @kavitakarakoti
    @kavitakarakoti Před rokem +4

    I experienced this 🥺🥺

  • @lunawizz
    @lunawizz Před 10 měsíci +1

    These are not even close to toxic relationships. I would get beaten up and then love bombed and some times I have to apologise if he gets hurt while hitting me.

  • @soumyadagdi8316
    @soumyadagdi8316 Před rokem +4

    Dheere dheere samjh aa raha me hii vo insaan hu toxic 😣😣

  • @ashokm5409
    @ashokm5409 Před rokem +1

    Indeed, had never thought will end my 10yrs of friendship, it was tough and difficult decision for both but it was necessary for better future

  • @AnuragMishraMusic
    @AnuragMishraMusic Před rokem

    Wonderful day to see this video. Thanks Ankur! ❤️

  • @sss0821
    @sss0821 Před rokem +19

    sir…sorry to say…humein yahatak sataya jaata hai us relationship mein ki hum hasna bhul jaaye..kahi baar cheat kiya jaata hai…kahi baar jhute promises kiye jate hai…kahi baar jo humein na pasand ho wahi kiya jata hai…repeatedly jhut bola jata hai…
    fir humari possessiveness badh jati hai…hum majburan toxic bante hai…aur baadme blame hmpr hi kr dete hai ki hum toxic hai…hum doubt lete hai…humne unki freedom chhin li…hum hamesha unko galat hi smjhte hai…
    toh kya karey…????
    aur jo hamaare saath itne din hua aur humne bardasht kiya uska kya…???
    jab hamare sath ye sab hota hai…tab hum toh nhi sochte ki yaar chalo alag ho jaate hai
    edited:-
    koi jaan bujhkar toxic nhi banta sir
    bana diya jata hai…aur fir galat bhi hum hi

  • @PayalVijayvargiya
    @PayalVijayvargiya Před rokem +5

    What to do if we face severe problems without that person anxiety frustration sleeping disorder and crying continuously what to do if we get attached to that person ..... everyone say get out of this relationship but no one helps

  • @arusharais223
    @arusharais223 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Sir, bilkul aisa hi hua h mere sath, mujhe baaton se zaleel kr ke bhi wo mujhe kabhi sunna aur samjhna nhi chahta, yahi kehta h ki mai effort nhi deti is rishte mein. Har baar main hi manati hun, kabhi mujhe nhi manaya usne na mujhe samjhna chaha
    It hurts, kyuki mujhe har baar guilty feel kraya jata h

  • @fahadfaridkhan9662
    @fahadfaridkhan9662 Před 10 měsíci

    koi bhi realtion toxic relationship nhi hoti . jahn compromise nhi hoti h .. whn koi bhi realtion nhi aachi hoti.. compromise is the best policy... vs realtion..

  • @aanchalshukla2895
    @aanchalshukla2895 Před 7 měsíci

    I hear this everyday , n just got out of it now a few hrs ago and its hurtinh like hell

  • @anonymousTech01
    @anonymousTech01 Před rokem

    I am with toxic friend and he destroy my whole career my money,my reputation in family and friends. He asks about my personal life, things and stolen all my contacts from my mobile and created issues between me and my good friends and make lier. And negative person he keeps eye on my every movie and he always try to drag me down and now i become a negative character person in my all my friends and family and my career is destroyed. I have no or less chance 7 years waste, money waste, efforts are wasted.

  • @beer7820
    @beer7820 Před rokem +1

    And if not only one relationship but all relationships are turning out to be same , then should I be alone or survive in toxic relationships

  • @tusker2093
    @tusker2093 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Bro.. I wish it was that easy.

  • @guludon1977
    @guludon1977 Před rokem +6

    How to get out of a toxic marriage with a lovely 8 year child ? It’s been taking a huge toll on my mental and physical health.

  • @user-nn8zd7ur9c
    @user-nn8zd7ur9c Před 22 dny

    Rishta bachane ki chakkar har baar khudki dhajjiya udaadi hai naa chhod sak rahi hu or na reh paa rahi hu 😣😖

  • @ritugulia1980
    @ritugulia1980 Před rokem +1

    Thank you 🎉🎉

  • @DanishKhan-wb4gj
    @DanishKhan-wb4gj Před 2 měsíci

    In a relationship The role of victim is permanent for girls...

  • @user-yz3ec3qv5y
    @user-yz3ec3qv5y Před rokem +1

    I am going though this.

  • @manjuonly9583
    @manjuonly9583 Před rokem +1

    thank you sir 🙏 thanks for guiding us

  • @gargimishra33
    @gargimishra33 Před měsícem

    my husband and inlaws. they treated me so badly beating using abusive words .my brother in law torture me like hell my husband enjoy this . I now stay with my parents but my mother is not ready for divorce

  • @SagarTheTruth
    @SagarTheTruth Před rokem +1

    Very True...Real...

  • @sangaygurung80
    @sangaygurung80 Před rokem +3

    Mera sath ho raha hay my bf use to say me this everyday and nahi nikal pa rahi hu ish toxic relationship se 😭😭

  • @Abylash
    @Abylash Před rokem +1

    Hi Ankur thanks for sharing your knowledge.
    Can you make a short/video on how much rent we should look for while checking for a rented house/appt.?
    (Since it's very costly nowadays to live in a rented house/apartment, how much should be the max amount that we can put in so that our other responsibilities/investments doesn't affect)

  • @fulungsar
    @fulungsar Před rokem +2

    I understood I am the toxic guy

  • @Love-dz1um
    @Love-dz1um Před rokem +1

    What if the most toxicity has been given by parents through out the life...
    On some other day, we get to see videos stating parents are not less tha God... Respect them, care them, love them.. foundation he gala sada k rakh dete hain aise parents... It takes sooooo long to actually take stand against them ...

  • @KabitaGupta2405
    @KabitaGupta2405 Před 9 měsíci

    I want to get out of this toxic relationship....

  • @suvendudhar5913
    @suvendudhar5913 Před rokem

    Well said, sir

  • @incrediblevines4237
    @incrediblevines4237 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Happening with me😣💔

  • @faixanrukhsar
    @faixanrukhsar Před rokem +9

    finally finally i got out of it and now i am much better may be she was not meant for me or was a different person.
    leken ab nahi ana life main kabhi relationship main seeday shadi 😅
    boht muskil se himat karkay nikla hoon ab phr se itna sab bardast nahi hoga
    thanku sir iss video ko almost roz dekhta tha aur sare signs dekhte thay

    • @notthatgal
      @notthatgal Před rokem +1

      Mashallah Faizan. Really happy to know that you are doing good now. As a person who is suffering in one, I know what freedom must feel like.

    • @faixanrukhsar
      @faixanrukhsar Před rokem

      @@notthatgal i just want to tell you it takes courage to get out of it but believe me life will be beautifull just say good bye and erase all connections
      Rule is you can message him only once so just message him and tell him what are you feeling and why am leaving and that is it then slowly you will feel much better sakshi may god give you courage

    • @notthatgal
      @notthatgal Před rokem

      @@faixanrukhsar Yes, I have made up my mind. May god give me the power to do it. It’s a misery that when you leave them, it’s the good memories that you think of. I make a dua, that if this isn’t the right then may Allah take it away and since then everyday, there are signs which clearly indicate it. Before I end up losing myself, it’s better I lose him. I really had high hopes from this relationship. I’ll move on. It’ll be all okay. I can do it again. Thanks for the tip Faizan.

    • @radhikakashyap7121
      @radhikakashyap7121 Před 10 měsíci

      What did u do to get rid of that toxic relationship

  • @jspalace3897
    @jspalace3897 Před rokem

    Yes I'm surviving this relationship

  • @labanimitra1954
    @labanimitra1954 Před rokem

    I a person constantly ignoring you, ghosting you then what should we do

  • @CodeThorughAI
    @CodeThorughAI Před rokem

    I never followed you but on this I agree with you :)

  • @poojakohli2814
    @poojakohli2814 Před rokem +2

    Thank god I came out of such relationship

  • @supratimrong2011
    @supratimrong2011 Před rokem

    I'm highly agree with you but if the person really do nothing for you or never ever think about you before taking a step, then??? Then, if you want to express your feelings to that person so that al least this time the person can understand that you really wanna stay with that person then what will be your words sir?

  • @sabbirahamed2239
    @sabbirahamed2239 Před 5 měsíci

    Sometimes family comes out as toxic or unbearable. What to do this situation?

  • @mightypen11
    @mightypen11 Před rokem +1

    Thankyou Sir

  • @013karthik
    @013karthik Před rokem +1

    This relationship should relay on behalf of women… men’s always can swim. But ladies cannot swim because of baggage called kids… I love my woman for what she is doing.. I expect everyone has same situation… pls don’t disrespect women

  • @varunacharya4583
    @varunacharya4583 Před rokem +1

    Salaam warikoo
    Warikoo salaam

  • @balasahebpawar6167
    @balasahebpawar6167 Před rokem +3

    Sir kya Alison website legal haih ya illegal haih please tell me with full information .

  • @RahulRoy-pm7zq
    @RahulRoy-pm7zq Před rokem

    m going through a bad phase in need to move on after i forgive hundred of times it's my 13yr i can't take it anymore

  • @anuradhapatil8118
    @anuradhapatil8118 Před 9 měsíci

    If they do such things then what we say that toxic.

  • @Katyayani556
    @Katyayani556 Před 6 měsíci

    Mere sath yehi sab ho rh h😢😢😢😢

  • @sabiyakhan4053
    @sabiyakhan4053 Před 4 měsíci

    Me roz yhi sab sunti hu😢😢 fir bhi nhi chhod pa rhi

  • @secretgamerop01
    @secretgamerop01 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Same😢😢😢😢😢

  • @nikhilverma2010
    @nikhilverma2010 Před rokem +3

    Deep ❤️

  • @erhemantgangwar
    @erhemantgangwar Před rokem +2

    Great !

  • @BMP-2M
    @BMP-2M Před 11 měsíci

    But i dont wanna leave the person

  • @learningbeforeteaching
    @learningbeforeteaching Před 11 měsíci

    What if we found toxicity in relationship after marriage????

  • @prabhatdubey5668
    @prabhatdubey5668 Před rokem

    Thanxx sir

  • @mitsuki_amv_4072
    @mitsuki_amv_4072 Před rokem

    this is what exactly happed to me now my gf left me exactly leaving me feeling like this how can she do it I tried my best yet there she goes our 3 year together

  • @ank10858
    @ank10858 Před rokem

    Bahi tusi vade gyani ho...ur life must be so much easier.

  • @pinkibiswas8276
    @pinkibiswas8276 Před rokem

    4year tk sbkuch thik tha but ab mujhe feel ho rha hai hmara relation ek toxic relationship hai

  • @KishanJha-yp1or
    @KishanJha-yp1or Před 11 měsíci

    Kya ho agar ye sab Jaan k v bahar na nikal sake toh...😢😢😢

  • @sherinkishore9469
    @sherinkishore9469 Před 3 měsíci

    How to get out of such relationship if we are not financially independent??

  • @komalmehmood9364
    @komalmehmood9364 Před rokem

    Very nice..👍

  • @benjamintennyson202
    @benjamintennyson202 Před 7 měsíci

    Guy's can anyone help me find if I'm in a toxic relationship or I'm being toxic...
    Cause I am having dilemma..🥺

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    @armyrajgamer8105 Před rokem

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  • @alphacretz
    @alphacretz Před rokem +3

    What if married already

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb Před rokem

      Divorce ka naam suna hai?

    • @alphacretz
      @alphacretz Před rokem

      @@Rahul-ml2xb ha bhai, ye bhi suna hai bhatta dena padhta hai even aapki galti nai ho to bhi.

    • @Rahul-ml2xb
      @Rahul-ml2xb Před rokem

      @@alphacretz only if u had children though, I think

  • @mrsaruna7825
    @mrsaruna7825 Před 2 měsíci

    मेरी सखी रानी राधा कृष्ण मुरारी लाल हमारे पास है श्री कृष्ण मुरारी लाल का, हाथ हमारे ऊपर है, श्री गणेश जी महाराज हमारे पास है

  • @aproudhater9158
    @aproudhater9158 Před rokem +1

    honesty se baat karna toxic hai?🤡

  • @malliknargis6792
    @malliknargis6792 Před rokem

    What to do me facing the same thing every day.....

  • @lalisa-zx9dw
    @lalisa-zx9dw Před 9 měsíci

    Iam in this toxic relashionship

  • @alakeshhgogoii3906
    @alakeshhgogoii3906 Před měsícem

    Keise niklu koi to bata do...avi 1:48am ho raha hey avi v ro raha hu

  • @busyTalkingmom
    @busyTalkingmom Před 10 měsíci

    Yes I want but not

  • @poonamkashid8511
    @poonamkashid8511 Před rokem

    Can't get out of my relationship with my husband

  • @soumyshrivastav5561
    @soumyshrivastav5561 Před rokem

    Please sir make a video on how teens can save money if they get
    Money in online form ( Phone pay)

  • @nishantsingh3
    @nishantsingh3 Před rokem +3

    Kya pta wo BAAP hi nikle 😜

  • @subhajitsamanta7842
    @subhajitsamanta7842 Před 8 měsíci

    Write now I am watching this.
    According to my wife I am the toxic person in the world..But I cannot leave her.
    please help me how can I leave me ? So that I can make her free

  • @pbhushanbsb
    @pbhushanbsb Před rokem

    What if you're married to toxicity ?

  • @cookwithfarhaa
    @cookwithfarhaa Před 9 měsíci

    Yes I am not a good person 😭

  • @maleficent6974
    @maleficent6974 Před rokem

    Thank u....... This helped

  • @shivshaktisharma8033
    @shivshaktisharma8033 Před rokem

    Not some but most

  • @thekingoftheworld1584
    @thekingoftheworld1584 Před 9 měsíci

    Last night my wife asked me what do you do for me...

  • @BinniDey
    @BinniDey Před rokem

    How to work things up when you are the one who is doing this to your partner??

  • @tonystark3892
    @tonystark3892 Před 9 měsíci

    Aur shayad kabhi kabhi sach me hamare andar woh kamiya rah jate hein