r/AmITheA**hole My Kid's Daycare Segregated Black Kids from White Kids
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r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP is a black woman with a young daughter who goes to daycare. OP was shocked to discover that the daycare was segregating the black kids from the white kids by forcing the black kids to play in the sun, and letting the white kids play in the shade. OP told the daycare owner that this isn't safe because the kids could get sunburned, and then the daycare owner had the audacity to argue with the black woman and say that black people can't get sunburn.
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Hi rslash
Ok rslash I want a hug tho can I buy one
No
Mama better go on the news
Hi
Imagine looking a child in the eyes in 2021 and saying "You can't play with the white kids because your skin is different"
WHAT
I would literally rather get punched in the face than have to do that.
Lol
48 secs lol
I would do it and feel bad rather than feel physical pain lol
Edit: Yeah no, not anymore not after hearing what I just heard
Ok
Your skin color is purple Sooo. s k i n. C a n c e r
Here is another thing no one seems to be talking about regarding the racist daycare.
Leaving kids to stand in the sun is also a good way to get HEAT STROKE.
Yaaaasss, exactly. That mom should gather every other parent with a child of color in that daycare and sue them into the ground. Discrimination, negligence, and probably something else im forgetting, but eveyone involved needs to pay for the danger they are putting those kids in.
^ THIS TOO!!
Forcing kids to sit in the sun risking getting sunburn which hurts so bad and risking heatstroke bc they are black is HORRIBLE. I can't believe someone called OP a karen for caring about their child's health. The term Karen is getting way overused and is being used towards people who have a right to complain
OH! I never thought of that! You're right! Good Lord, I'm glad they got fired!
@@AHHHHHH107 agreed.
I think Karen was a turn for a middle aged white woman who would harass people and businesses of color.
And now, like Mary Sue, the meaning as been lost. Now it means ANY woman who makes a complaint-even if the complaints are actually valid.
Itâs now been weaponized to keep every woman quiet, instead of the assholes that honestly SHOULD be quiet.
First story: youâre in the right. Day care is racist, friend is being stupid, youâre not a karen to ask for your kid to not get skin cancer.
Yea. I didnât witness that and Iâm Asian which Karenâs say âdonât need sunscreenâ
Edit: no I did NOT go to America. Never flew anywhere actually
@Ace of Kade key word âdidnâtâ
@@Boypogikami132 Whut
@Ace of Kade ok
They literally want the people of non-European decent die of cancer.
The first story broke my heart. Itâs evil enough to be racist, but to enact racism towards children...! Those monsters at the daycare center can go to hell
I would say hell is too good for them but eh
Send them to purgatory hell is to good for them theyâll have to wait a verrrrrrrrrrrrrry long time
â@@DagasNeedle hell that is so hot it can turn your bones into magma
Maybe this is what they deserve
Yeah đ
Not even a minute in we already have a racist daycare.
I never judge 11 out of 10 AH point this fast.
General grievous how many lightsabers do you have just curious
0 to 100 in a minute or so
@@ReigoVassal how tf did you read my mind ?
Hello there.
"black people dont need sunscreen" genuinely sounds like something a kevin would say
Has the same vibe as "You're Russian, you can drink more than us."
I hate you, Kevin
*Karen
@@metalembarrased7567 both tbh
It was confirmed in the update. "Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping."
That damn story, I was right there with rSlash's outburst at 0:27. It made gesturing into thin air like a crazy person.
"Black people dont need sunscreen! they dont get burned!"
"but my kid is black and has a sunburn"
"no she doesnt cause she has melanin, ur being a karen"
for once i dont know wether to laugh or be confused
Why not both
Confused
I felt bad for laughing at the first story
That wedding dress story. Iâm sorry OP but that person is not your friend. Thatâs someone who is just trying to take advantage of you by pretending to be one
Agree
Do those daycare people think black people are just... sunproof?
Black person here, we're not. Now screenshot this, and send it do the daycare
@@mataeusdixonsteele3831 omg youâre not completely sunproof because your ancestors happened to live in Africa?? Really surprised.
@@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man wait arent all humans comming from africa? SO THAT MEANS IM SUNPROOF WHOO HOO NO MORE STICKY SUNSCREEN
Apparently they think melanin can help them in fighting against the sun.It's like snatching a person's cane away from them because they can walk,even with their back problems.
Sadly it is a common belief that black people cannot tan, get sunburned, or get sink cancer. Literally, all of these things are false.
My aunt has skin cancer, she found out like a year ago that she's no longer in remission. Black people skin cancer risk is generally lower than white people, but it's not like we can never get it.
And with the mediterranian syndrom (it's how we call the medical racism in France), Black people are less listened by the medical system.
Wishing your aunt the best. Cancer is rough.
@Sabre Nikki from what I heard, black people have less risk to get skin cancer but if they have it, they have less chance than white people to go in remission because it's easier to see skin cancer on someone who has paler skin (moles are more visible and easier to treat). From what I read most of the time on black skin, the disease is more difficult to see and most of the papers about skin cancer are written using white people has test group. White people can check their skin to see if moles are changing or not, it's more difficult for black people.
This is why I use a sun protection daily
Sending love to your aunt and family
Letâs also not forget about Ops so called âfriendsâ calling her a Karen for reporting them
I was summoned?
I get so much enraged by her so called friends
@@ops5161 no
Fat people are more resistant to low temperatures, however that doesn't mean that fat people don't need coats when it gets cold outside.
Yup!
Being a 'big' girl, I can attest to that. I may get cold slower, but I'm not a damn walrus or polar bear. I still feel the cold, I still need a coat, and black people still need sunscreen. The sun doesn't care what color your skin is, and neither does skin cancer.
Exactly! This daycare is doing the equivalent of forbidding all the fat kids from wearing coats.
As a husky guy I can attest to this. I may be fat but I also canât stand the cold. To me it literally feels like being stabbed by billions of needles. So I literally have to wear at least 2-3 layers to go outside during the winter, 4 layers if itâs windy, all of them interlocked with each piece of clothing just to avoid that stinging cold. So yeah despite being a husky guy I donât enjoy the cold and probably would die of hypothermia as quickly as anyone else.
My hands can literally become numb if it gets too cold, I canât imagine not being allowed a jacket because âyour fat will keep you warm enoughâ
Just remembered the cursed comment of âAccording to the Ethiopian calendar, it is 2012â âAccording to my racist relatives, it is still the 1960sâ
Why is that about Ehtiopian calendar a cursed comment though? ^^
idk it's the year the world was suppose to end i guess
@@nalcarya The reply to the Ethiopian calendar thing is a cursed comment. I was just trying to set a scene
@@nalcarya The original post was about how people would have taken 2020 more seriously if it happened in 2012
@@bork9570 I thought it's that joke again that's the Mayan have a typo and the apocalypse is not 2012 but 2021
That girlfriend sounds really bad, and like a huge huge red flag. The dad needs to not feel bad about going to his daughters surgery and break up with someone so selfish.
GF gotta go.
Honestly no parent should have to make that choice and the GF is an asshole for trying to make him! Plus just because her previous tests are negative doesn't mean she still is! COVID is still a thing and that could cause him being away from his daughter longer...
If you are that sick that you cant be alone safely then you need to call an ambulance.
This is the gist:
She knows that daughter isn't his blood relative, that's why she made him choose.
If you take the hint, that means she would be a horrible choice for a mother of that girl.
@@MalekitGJ You got it 100%
âMy childâs skin is peeling off due to the professional caretakers withholding medical cream to protect against UV light.â
âLol shut up Karen. Racism is totally chill.â
@@hectormarquez2402 Dude that was basically what the friend said
Geez friends are karens
Tell Mike and Tammy to go to the food shelf or to the county just like everybody else. They have no right to lay a guilt trip on this guy especially the way their relationship started and if they made 5 kids then they need to figure out how to pay for him. It's their problem not his.
About the childcare post:
She emailed the manager of the children care place. He was furious and separated the people being racist. Turns out they were just power tripping
At least it had a good ending.
Separated?
@@Altorin I think they meant that they were fired
@@aliyah2393 yes
@Leanardo Small update but thanks man!
"They burned that bridge!"
No, RSlash. They didn't burn that bridge. They nuked it. The fact that his family actually expected him to "get over it" is incomprehensible to me.
I feel the same, the family should be taking op's side if anything, smh some people
Yeah. It shows how little respect the family has for his feelings.
Literally this. I cannot imagine how fucked up your family would be to take the side of the brother rather than OP, whose fiancé left him at the alter for his brother.
No they fired a laser from a different universe and destroyed every bridge in the world.
@Troll for a guy named troll u are awfully serious
1st story - forget about reporting the daycare to a new station, the daycare needs to be reported to the state board of health, CPS (for endangering children, abuse, neglect and anything else that would fit), the state licensing bureau, and then find a good attorney for all of the parents, ALL of the parents, to sue the daycare center ...... Hey, as a white parent I would want to sue them for teaching my child, by their actions, that this kind of behavior is acceptable.
Thats what I'm saying. That isn't just bad behavior, that's endangerment
Yeah I say CPS needs to be involved
the dress one, definitely not the asshole. when borrowing something you should strive to return it in the same or better condition. borrow a car with half a tank? return it with a full one.
The last thing i borrowed was a trailer from my dad. I had it about a month and before i returned it, i put brand new tail lights on it as the old ones, while working, were faded from the sun.
Absolutely dump that girlfriend...She's a mother herself and still can't comprehend that a child having her leg removed is more important than her feeling sick?
Shes probably that type of parent thats wants her kids to be number 1 and gis daughter second
OP only said she has three kids. No one ever said she's actually a mother.
(This is meant along the same lines as "getting a girl/woman pregnant doesn't mean you're a father".)
I worked at many day care centers over the years and you absolutely have to give black children sunscreen! I can't believe a center would have that policy! But on the point of her daughter not being able to share her sunscreen with the other children I do understand because you could spread stuff from kid to kid. Everyone is supposed to have their own personal sunscreen no matter the race.
Edit: spelling
I've seen the horror stories of kids not wearing sunscreen before going on a field trip. They can get blisters the size of a baseball from 2nd degree sunburns!
@@365ral I got 2nd degree burns a couple years ago on vacation. I have slighly darker than white skin and the doctor I went to was slightly incredulous about me getting sunburned. Essentially: wear your damn sun screen, it can save you weeks of constant agony.
@@chasecordova5371 I go to ren fairs and one is in the hottest month of summer, I always bring sunscreen because I burn easily. you don't wanna know how many people I did not know I have applied sunscreen on because they were turning red and pointed them to a stand where they could get some because they forget it at home.
Fixed it for you: "I worked at many day care centers over the years and you absolutely have to give children sunscreen!"
Wait it was the sunscreen not the doctor's note? Wow this daycare center is even more braindead than I realized. I thought she was sharing the note since the same science that applies to the doctor being willing to write a note for that applies to all the kids but the center was being pedantic since it wasn't from THEIR doctor.
I heard the first story and immediately paused to tell my grandma about it. We both were like âWhat the actual hell is this shit??â
Info: my grandma was born in the 40s, has never been a racist, and has grown liberal as hell since mom and I moved in to help her in 2020.
Honestly if I was the sick girlfriend dating a guy with kids I wouldnât want him around me until I got better. I would not want to risk him or his kids getting sick.
ESPECIALLY if that child was going into surgery
So I looked for the title story and the update is that OP has her daughter go to the grandmother after school but went straight to the franchise owner and the owner fired everyone involved including the manager. Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping. OP made a group chat with all the parents so they can be aware if something like this happens again. OP didnât go to the news because she didnât want people not involved to loose their jobs if they get shut down from the backlash.
Thanks for sharing this!
Thank you for the update!!!
I'm glad the owner fired all of them! They are super racist and should never work with children again.
Thanks for sharing the update...
the fact that others didn't know it was happen is questionable asf to me and id garentee more were involved than fired. its a shame and I hope someone who cares about their kids go in on them.
"How does it feel to be the reason my kids go hungry?"
"How does it feel to be such a failure of a man that you can't feed your kids without begging?"
oooh what a burn, just like that bridge burned lol
Someone call the morgue, we got a charred body over here.
Hmm did I just failed my children by not working my butt off for them? Nope it must be the fault of that rich person that I just betrayed, he should have given me his money insted of using it for his family.Yes, thats right! I must shame him now instead of putting an effort in providing for my family!
No mike should have just pointed out that if he hadn't betrayed op than they would be op's kid so op should pay for them. Right?
I should probably go get the ice-
The last one reminded me of something my late nan used to say ânobody who burns down the bridge then expects you to rebuild it deserves a single brickâ I didnât understand at the time as I was only a kid but now I know it all too well
imagine cheating on your husband with your brother and leaving you at the altar
and THEN years later you guilt trip your "fiancee" because he doesn't give you money like???
DUDE
Jesus Christ...too much sun is not good for anyone of any race.
Smh.
it kinda depends on the specific skin-tone, but in general black people are far less likely to get sunburn. My cousin is from Ethiopia and is fairly dark, and has never experienced it in his life despite frequent trips to the beaches in high-summer. Melanin pigmentation does serve a purpose, afterall. Heatstroke is another matter though
@@Freekymoho doesnt justify literally segregating kids and forcing them to not wear sunscreen
I bet if they piss off the wrong person, they're gonna burn down the daycare.
@@Freekymoho sure they might be less likely to get sun burn but sun/heat stroke is still a very serious thing
When black people go into the sun they get darker LIKE EVERY OTHER RACE how in the hell do they think "oh yeah, clearly because they're darker, they have more protection to the sun" Do they think us being black means the skin is just a mask and there's another layer protecting that? It's so idiotic.
Story 3: An 8-YEAR-OLD CHILD takes precedence over some adult woman's minor illness. OP is a good father & NTA.
Story 4**
The more
It's scary that she has kids too. Who is taking care of those kids while she's sick? Does she just make them fend for themselves?
Agreed
I say he needs to leave her and fast.
"how does it feel to know you're the reason my kids are gonna go hungry"
What I wished he had said: "I don't know, tell me about that, since you're the one with no job."
As someone with a lower leg amputation, I was scared to death with my surgery. I can only imagine how bad an 8-year-old might feel.
as a very white person who gets sunburns even in the shadows i can't believe these kids need permission for puting on sunscreen
Same đ
I'm Latina, have olive skin and still get sunburns on the shadow. Sometimes I get burned on spring, not even summer... I have to use 100 spf sunscreen if I don't, then you can see my skin getting red immediately and have to spend days treating my skin, with fever not being able to even sleep.
@@demosteneswiggin5122 woah... i'm so sorry! I knew EVERYONE can burn, some easier than others... but had no idea my ghostly-white issues of 5-seconds til i'm a red tomato if i dare step outside icould also be experienced by those whose skin I highly admire. (Hubs is half native hawaiian/half white, and he burns... just not as quickly, takes a few hours without sunscreen).
Thank you for posting this, you raised more awareness, and now I'm gonna be looking at everyone wondering just how long it takes them in the sun for the fever & blisters & severe pain (and in one case for me - dumb teenager lol, my skin split open across my belly).
Again... thank you. Sincerely and zero sarcasm. =D
*tosses you a new bottle of SPF 100 - i buy in bulk* ;)
@@abigailphoenixthepaperaddi2501 I'm sorry you have to go through that pain. Some people have really sensitive skin. Hope you take care of yourself and your dearest ones. Have a nice day and stay away from the sun. Not only for sunburns but skin cancer too.
@@demosteneswiggin5122 I'm sorry you have to go through that! Aloe! Aloe is your friend and believe it or not Benadryl. I know it's more for allergies but it helps with itching and with the sleep! Also, oatmeal in the bathtub. Soak for 20-30 minutes a day. I know it sounds really silly but it helps sooth the burning and the itching.
And yes, speaking from *a lot* of experience! I have use SPF 70 or up otherwise I'm a Lobster with pealing skin!
That last post was absurd. Imagine that your fiancĂ© leaves you at the alter for your sibling, and your family has the gall to say âjust get over itâ. What a disregard for how OP felt in that situation. The lack of empathy for the sake of manipulation is disgusting.
I wanna fight his whole family and be best friends with his wife.
it's probably soo humiliating imagine the gossip spreading and the fingers pointed at you they just ran away also i don't understand why they had so many kids if they weren't financially stable to host them also why ain't the family helping them if they are so caring about them
cannot agree more! at least op's wife has his back! she sounds like a dream partner and a queen! :)
I'm hoping that both the sunburned child and the 8-year-old who had to go through surgery are doing good now. I just... want to hug both of them and protect them from everything. >.
Even if you had to protect them from the monster house from monster house?
@@Itsmrbttns That would be easy. Just burn it down.
@@tsubakiofmelancholy6297 as we see in the movie, explosions and fire just turn it into a bigger monster at first
"The sun is a deadly lazer"
Wait a bad Yelp review? That day care should be sued to the ground....
Not only TO the ground, but INTO the ground. And not only INTO the ground, but about 6 feet down.
@@propandapower7633 and in hell
@@propandapower7633 or just sue and force policy/management change? what's with this type of mentality where everything needs to be destroyed? You'd force people out of jobs that may or may not have been involved in this.
And you're forcing every parent to find a new daycare, which may not even be possible, when the parents may not even know what's happening. This attitude is the equivalent of cutting off your nose to spite your face.
@@b00g3rs21 Everyone is responsible in this case so yes sue the daycare, it's not a mentality and it needs to be done. It takes nothing to go against bad rules but as a worker enforcing ludicrous rules you're apart of the problem.
@@b00g3rs21 And that sucks yes but how would you feel as a parent with a kid in a segregated classroom, I doubt a lot of them anyway would continue to be there.
For the man with the girlfriend who demanded he abandon his daughter on the day of her important surgery; RUN!
Yeah, No! She should just "get over it" and take her beating and/or break up and restraining order.
(Edited) due to lack of caffeine and glasses.
He needs to drop the girlfriend like a bad habit
Also the whole drop her off thing wouldn't be allowed. I had surgery recently (I've recovered nicely) and am a legal adult. My mom, who drove me, was told she could not leave the hospital while I was in surgery in case something went wrong or if I woke up earlier than expected afterwards. There is no way that any hospital would allow an 8 year old to be operated on if their father disappeared.
Adding on to the story about the husband who cooked: he only cooked one meal in bulk on Saturday and again on Monday I think. And thatâs it. He only cooked TWO bulk meals and expected his wife to be able to eat the same meal until he cooked in bulk again.
Exactly
I donât see the issue itâs something that he has to do because he also has work. They just had a child and the wife is doing the childcare which doesnât really make anything better, because heâs working and is handling the financial which alright is typical. This doesnât change that the wife admitted that she hates cooking, mind you the husband obvious decided to meal prep because he canât just get out of work to cook. So the question here is why in the hell is the wife asking him to cook when he canât and complains when he does what he can. Mind you he even left a lot of snacks that she could heat and was expecting him to drop his work to fucking heat up a meal. So itâs pretty blatant that having a child doesnât mean shit when his wife was expecting him to drop his work to make a meal, when he also left a lot of other snacks that she could heat up. I donât see how anyone thinks this guy is being lazy when heâs having to take on more things even though heâs already got work.
@@reflex9238 My thoughts exactly. He held up his end of the bargain, and it's understandable, that he can't just jump on demand when everything is prepped and can be cooked in just a couple of minutes.
Yeah but what I wanna know is how does not microwaving someone else Ford not holding up your end of a bargain lmao
@@Ricky-ox7ip because he's also got things to do, and are you saying the wife is incapable of microwaving something?
On the cheating brother story: OP can tell him that "Once you pay back the X thousands you owe me, we can talk." (referring to the wedding)
as a black person i can confirm: we need sunscreen, we can get sunburns and skin cancer as well.
And if I remember correctly, you actually can get it worse, since darker color equals more absorption.
seems like it would be true, ima search it up and see if there are any studies
As a white person you doesn't burn easily, I still don't bath in the sun. Forcing the black kids out of the shade is straight racist. Those daycare people are going to piss off the wrong person some day, and they are going to disappear.
why the heck have i been taught that black people dont get sunburns? I genuinely thought that. question, do you have like higher tolerance for sunburns or smth?
@@Gripprear69 Yes and no, it depends on the person, but they do tend to have a slightly higher tolerance. They can still get sunburns, anyone can, but they do have a little higher tolerance to sunburns.
The one with the surgery for their daughter: girlfriend was clearly testing how far she could go. Like "will he chose me over his child who is in surgery". Manipulative. that deserves more than 3 out of 5 butholes.
You don't leave a child that age alone in the hospital! You might consider it if the child is double the age of the child in that story. Maybe.
In some countries, presence of a parent or a legal representative is mandatory for children and individuals with peculiar afflictions (such as mental conditions that hamper autonomy), it may be illegal to give surgery without a representative. My sister got her adenoids removed at the age of 10, our mom was at the clinic for the whole time my sister was hospitalized. The clinic was strict on the protocol, my mom had to ring a nurse if she wanted to get some fresh air or buy something at the cafeteria (which she did a lot, my sister had unlimited ice cream rights, per doctor's orders, to ease the pain from the procedure :D )
Even if they're 30 years old with kids. You never leave your kids when they need you the most, not for anything!!
@@JudeMarchisio A 30-year-old should be able to handle staying at a hospital alone. Hospitals would be very crowded if they didn't.
@@Nico6th You missed the point entirely.
@@Nico6th as a parent onr should feel obligated to keep their child company when they are going though tough times like a big surgery
2nd story question: Pettiness aside, if the friend did irreparable altered OPâs wedding dress, could OP sue the friend for damages? And if she can and won, would she likely to get the full original price of the dress, the discounted price that she brought it for, or a different amount because off all the alterations that OP had made to it?
(not a lawyer) She could likely get what she paid for it, alterations and time included, plus she could argue for emotional damage because of the sentimental value. Whether or not she'd win would likely depend on her argument, evidence, and the judge.
These are the real questions đ
The "(I'm my wife's a queen)" was hard to read at first, lol
The âbrotherâ and ex are absolutely disgusting. They publicly humiliated OP in front of both friends and family because they were so selfish. *THEN* they had the cojones to yell at him to give them money, OP definitely upgraded big time.
We all need people like OPâs wife in our lives.
yes, op's wife=our wife (ussr theme plays)
Itâs actually called Cojones not Kahones
Yes, we need to bring back corporal punishment for cheating
@@TKUA11 would this apply equally to both participants?
After reading your other comment, I have a sneaking suspicion you think only the woman should be punished đ€
@@kayleekat8895 oh, thanks
The husband story where he doesnât cook did a record scratch when rSlash mentioned how the wife takes care of the house and newborn baby
I was against him even before I knew about the newborn, because it read to me like he was just cheaping out on his end of the chores by just throwing stuff in an Instant Pot and expecting his wife to eat the same meal for 2 or 3 days in a row 3 times a day? Maybe thats my fault, I like to cook, when I'm in a relationship,I usually the better cook and I'm happy to do it, I'm talking even dinner rolls made from scratch... But that just read to me like his wife agreed to pick up all the other chores and he said "Great, I'm going to do the bare minimum here, sandwich meat and self-self serve, and here, some stuff in an instant pot you can eat over and over for 3 days, no I can't be bothered to make smaller portions and cook dinner once a night and maybe occasionally have leftovers for lunch the next day."
Word your contracts carefully. One slip up could hurt you in the long run
Yeah, although he should have found a wife that can cook. In the rest of the world through most of time, a woman that doesnât cook probably wonât get married
@@TKUA11 please remove your misogynistic ideology from this channel before you end up on reddit.
@@Nekulturny i think they should split childcare duties evenly but the wife should warm the food, however the husband is just an ass by not helping with the childcare, he should just make a very nice lunch dinner and breakfast
As a journalist with an ABC affiliate, we would LOVE this story!!!
I'll buy the "starving" kids 50 lbs of rice from Walmart. I do like my purple cushion. Saving up for mattress.
Update on the first story:
UPDATE: i haven't logged into this account in a while but i tried to update and it got removed so i will just copy and paste it into here
I decided to ask my daughter how she feels about all of this and she said that she likes going to daycare and that all of her friends are there. I got a lot of nice replies and awards and i am very thankful for all of the support i have been getting. I'm having my daughter come home from school with her grandma instead of the daycare. I emailed the owner of the daycare franchise (not the manager) and they are very furious and have decided to let go the people who were participating in this. I am not going to report them yet unless they do this again and i am in a group chat with the parents and i told them to all tell me if they do this to their kids again and i am afraid that reporting the place could make a lot of the people who didn't know about this lose their jobs. Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping. I am not very confrontational and my husband also said reporting would not be a good idea since if they close down other parents would lose childcare.
Wow
wow
Wow
Maybe you could get parents that actually care about children to make a new one that does not hearken back to Jim Crow laws? Also, people just need to not be jerks towards one another or we just need to end up like The Purge and take out the criminal scumbags on the left, right, middle, and fringe alike.
Lol. I also posted the Update in my comment but no one saw it. At least some people know about the update :D
I've never heard of a racist daycare what horrid people
I have. Wouldn't let the black kids in the pool without a shower because they couldn't tell if they were dirty.. But we also had a local one shut down for giving benadryl to the kids so they sleep all day. Considering they were caught because they almost killed a 3 year old, I hate to say it, but there are worse things.
@@toysruskid5074 Holy. What did you do when you found out
@@wagwan8278 Not my kids. My cousin works at a daycare. We hear lots of horror stories she gets from parents and coworkers. The benadryl one made the news, though.
She got her job because the previous lady was fired for running red lights and nearly running over kids when picking up from schools. Even with the name of the business on the side of the bus, she didn't get fired until video of it was posted on Facebook.
I have but I'm from Oklahoma so....
I think I heard of one from the 1920s.
First story: Sue without hesitation.
I have not only worked as an employee at a daycare, I now run my own childcare program and hearing about the daycare in this story disgusts me. I recommend that the parents should report the daycare to their state licensing agency. The parents can also access the results of the daycare's state inspections online as well.
When it comes to your children, you should always be proactively working to protect them.
I left the daycare I used to work at because I wasn't comfortable with how the director was running things. I had no intention of starting my own program but after several parents from the previous daycare contacted me and telling me how the daycare employees were calling the children bad and making them sit still for long amounts of time (these babies are only 2-4 years old), I knew I had to do something.
So I started my own private childcare program and besides teaching them the alphabet, numbers, colors, shapes, etc, I also show them how to do simple tasks to gain independence, age-appropriate responsibility, creative, individualism, and most importantly-love. I dont believe there are bad children, just children dealing with bad situations.
In relation of the first story: As someone who is biracial and whose seen his father after a week at the beach I can confirm: Black people DO need sunscreen. Now speaking as someone who's considered 'dark': Sunburn hurts like hell
The gf that wanted bf to leave his daughter during surgery gets 3/5 a$$holes & 5/5 red flags.
There was an update to the first story
I decided to ask my daughter how she feels about all of this and she said that she likes going to daycare and that all of her friends are there. I got a lot of nice replies and awards and i am very thankful for all of the support i have been getting. I'm having my daughter come home from school with her grandma instead of the daycare. I emailed the owner of the daycare franchise (not the manager) and they are very furious and have decided to let go the people who were participating in this. I am not going to report them yet unless they do this again and i am in a group chat with the parents and i told them to all tell me if they do this to their kids again and i am afraid that reporting the place could make a lot of the people who didn't know about this lose their jobs. Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping. I am not very confrontational and my husband also said reporting would not be a good idea since if they close down other parents would lose childcare.
I had severe sunburn on both my legs and feet last year after not realising the cold wind wouldn't be enough to protect my legs
Oops, my legs were as red as RSlashes logo, I stood for hours with the ice cold shower water on my legs
If you're burning bridges, don't expect to use them ten years later.
am i the only one who legit LAUGHED at that last story? Like...OPâs brother essentially steals his fiancĂ©e from him, starts a life with her and all the family goes along with it. Then they somehow have the AUDACITY to try and get money from him? No OP you are NOT TA AT ALL. Cut all of those toxic people from your life (also your wife sounds like a huge catch)
The best part was the douch' attempt at guilt tripping op, its hilarious that he is blaming op for something the douch did himself
Plus I dunno if I misunderstood, but it sounds like they hijacked the honeymoon too, that shit is expensive!
That comment about black people not needing sunscreen reminds me of a coworker from years ago. She's white and has a black step brother and she was putting some sunscreen on her arms and he asked if he could have some too and she responds with. "Why would you need sunscreen you're black won't burn."
Story 3: is worst, he cooks a batch on the weekend and then just has the wife reheat food ALL WEEK, wail he does nothing.
He stated he was in his office. Never knew that u have a office at your home for playing games.
Guy with child in surgery. I soooooo hope he's no longer in that relationship
I checked the post on Reddit and he sent her a text saying theyâre over
@@Jacob-nk1of nice
@@Jacob-nk1of WONDERFUL đ đ
BLM is just a palette swapped and cosmetically changed KKK, change my mind.
@@paxhumana2015 I have no reason to change your mind. I just know I want to stop seeing unnecessary deaths & treatment of people who look similar to me and mine. Do you. My job is not to do anything but live and make sure mine do too.
"How does it feels to be the reason my kids go hungry"
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Even the homeless in America donât go hungry. Besides, why would you interfere with karma ?
Should have said I dont know, you tell me how it feels.
@@mariposa9506 man, that sounds so cool
@@miguelmaureira002 đ
@@mariposa9506 I'd have been tempted to answer "Pretty damn good, thanks for asking!", just to shock him into silence
I was a daycare staff for over ten years, before becoming a private nanny. By refusing to let those children sit in the shade, thereâs not only the danger of sunburn, which can also blister, leaving an opening for infection; but also heat exhaustion and even heat stroke if itâs hot enough outside. Children are active, and often donât realize that theyâve been in the sun too long unless _we,_ the adults trained in their welfare, are vigilant. Shade plays an important role in managing childrenâs health on hot days. This level of deliberate, enforced neglect makes my blood boil.
That story with the girlfriend who sas sick and OPs daughter was in surgery: She would be contaminating him with her germs, then he would see his daughter who would have a weakened immuned system after that surgery, which could make her VERY sick and could actually kill her. Even if its just a cold. Your girlfriend never comes before your child and if she cant understand that, drop her. My mom puts me first and her now-husband understands that. I had a seizure and she said "i have to go, she had a seizure" and he immediately got up with her and drove my mom to me. He has more of a level head than my mom so if shes upset, he drives in case she starts crying. Anyways, op is not the asshole, she is. I would never ask my s/o to visit me over their child, especially not one thats sick or going into surgery. I dont care how im feeling, ill manage. A child depends on their parents until as late as their 20s before parents become people instead of attachment figures. At 8 years old, she will immediately be looking for her father. That "girlfriend" can manage her cold for a few more hours or call a friend or relative to help take care of her if its that bad.
"My child has a horrible sunburn, to the point her skin peels off"
"You're being a Karen"
I- Uh- Huuuh???
Edit: Since this is still recieving attention, sign petitions for proper catcall punishment ok thanks bye
Apparently, If a mother has something to say to an establishment, it can only mean that they are a karen
@@harbymastopia9635 tbf usually they are
That's what I thought too tho
@@thecoolaxolotlnova8523 keyword; *usually*
@@alakazamlover4908 keyword keyword checkmate atheists
"C'mon, bro, it's been years already! You need to get over Tammy!"
"I did. She's your problem now. Congratulations, you have lost successfully." **click**
The only reason so much pressure is being put on OP is that no other members of the family want to pony up the money to help the scumbag brother.
The brother is lucky OP didn't break his face open because getting cheated on hurts, having family do it to you is torture.
I would sue that day care if that was my kid.
In story 2 I'd say both of them are unreasonable. Dropping whatever your doing at the moment just to heat up food is an unreasonable thing to ask of anyone. But it's also unreasonable to ask just one party of the relationship to do ALL the childcare because your basically asking for the same thing. A better solution would be to have somewhat scheduled mealtimes where you take turns cooking and also take turns caring for the baby when they need it.
Someone posted this here already, but just incase it gets lost, I will also post the update from the first story.
UPDATE: i haven't logged into this account in a while but i tried to update and it got removed so i will just copy and paste it into here
I decided to ask my daughter how she feels about all of this and she said that she likes going to daycare and that all of her friends are there. I got a lot of nice replies and awards and i am very thankful for all of the support i have been getting. I'm having my daughter come home from school with her grandma instead of the daycare. I emailed the owner of the daycare franchise (not the manager) and they are very furious and have decided to let go the people who were participating in this. I am not going to report them yet unless they do this again and i am in a group chat with the parents and i told them to all tell me if they do this to their kids again and i am afraid that reporting the place could make a lot of the people who didn't know about this lose their jobs. Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping. I am not very confrontational and my husband also said reporting would not be a good idea since if they close down other parents would lose childcare.
should have sued them its a real shame when people back out like that, those places are only going to hurt more and more kids now that its just left to keep running as is. I hope another parent that actually cares about their kids well being goes in on them its not okay.
Thanks.
@@squishy2368 Did you actually read the update. OP didnât back out, she contacted the owner and the people involved got fired. The daycare wonât continue running as it did before, since the racist employees were fired. Itâs kinda messed up that you want to also punish the people who werenât involved and are innocent even though the situation has been dealt with.
Just because OP decided to do everything she could, before going the nuclear option doesnât mean she backed off and did nothing. OP even said sheâd be keeping an eye out to make sure that the situation has actually been solved.
Iâm sorry this didnât end as dramatically as you wanted it to. But Iâd say an outcome that only punishes the guilty, is much better than an outcome that drops the consequences on the innocent people as well as the guilty.
Iâm sorry if any of this came off as rude, but the fact that you implied that OP doesnât care about her kid just because she solved the problem differently than you wanted her to is just horrible, and kinda made me upset.
@@_LunarDragon can garentee that all the people involved weren't fired. they rarely are. also it did come off as rude no worries, just shows you don't want a conversation. in situations like these, there's almost always more people in there but they very often do the bare minimum and just get anyone who was garenteed to be involved or whoever the owner throws under the bus.
@@_LunarDragon idk next time if you have to say sorry if this came off rude re think what you're typing if you want a back and forth conversation and not just you assuming all my views on a situation based on one comment đ€·ââïž
I have to get a non emergency surgery that is definitely necessary next week. I can't walk for more than a few minutes without extreme levels of pain. So I really related to the daughter in the surgery story because I'm having difficulties with walking too. I'm 22 and I'm terrified of going under for surgery, I can't imagine how that would feel for an 8 year old. I can't believe the girlfriend would not understand that.
Same, I had surgery on my feet, while not an emergency, definitely necessary.
hope it will help, what diagnosis do you have if I can ask?
@@menopriezvisko94 I chronically tore a ligament and have a build up of scar tissue. It causes me a lot of pain and the joint is really unstable
@@MacySavannah Hope your surgery goes well!đ€
Hey! How did your surgery go??
15:40 this brother burned the bridge than expected op to rebuild it with no help from the people who burned it
1. News station, this is a lawsuit baby. 2. No, no, and hell no. 3. Not cool OP. 4. No girlfriend, just no. Also, every single surgery regardless of their complexity carries risks. Move on OP. 5. You can't control them, fine, but they can't demand anything of you including to get over the betrayal. Also, if you pull a stun like that, don't come back asking for money. Also, they need to snip themselves.
Itâs not about still being hung over about the girl/guy, itâs about being devastated of the betrayal, itâs already excruciating for someone you loved for so long to leave you with some stranger, but your own sibling?! Thatâs two betrayals, I hope OP in the last story is doing okay. The audacity those people had to do something so horrible and than crawl back just to beg for money.
6:50
Op's friend sounds like a choosing begger here. Op let her borrow the dress and then her friend wants to dye it for her "dream wedding." Her friend should just be happy that Op let her borrow the dress in the first place.
She should hav3 bought her own dress in the first place if she wahted a coloured one
The part at 12:20 and onwards about the girls surgery almost sounded like what the Godfather says about his daughter's wedding lol
First story: In my country, there's this organization about fighting cancer and they sell sunscreen in stores and supermarkets. I've recently sent an email to them containing this story since this is defiantly something they would like to read about.
Fourth story: How could OP's girlfriend not understand that she isn't the only one that he cares about, loves and wants to be there for, he has his daughter too. I would not want to be with a guy whom he thinks he should be the only one I care about and love of all, not even wanting me to care for others as well, not even my own family members, only to him.
Last story: Sounds like OP's brother is the favorite one of the family's side. OP's ex was really just using him so that she can get to his brother. That sounds like disguising behavior. There are better ways to win his heart than this, like, asking him to be his friend, spending time with him, getting to know him and then the time comes, you confess. And the fact that, even though OP's brother wasn't interested in her at first and what she was doing to get to him, and then after a drunk night, he finally accepts her? Let me tell you, if my sister's boyfriend were to do the same thing where he was much more interested in me than my sister the whole time, and the reason why he'd been dating her is so that he can get to me, my sister would be heartbroken and angry at him for using her this way and I would have the sense to reject him for what he'd been doing and the fact that he was using my sister the whole time. I would not want to date someone who'd been dating my sister just so that he can get closer to me. The former part is what happened to OP, but his brother and the family didn't give a crap about how OP felt about being used. His brother is a complete dumbass to even felt for her trap and accepting her, despite the fact that she was using OP to get to his brother the whole time. Glad OP had moved on, despite the family still trying to guilt trip him, and had found a new and better wife.
Title story: NTA. Another case of teachers following psuedo-science over common sense.
I think you meant NTA
@@nogoat I know, I fixed it.
I mean, even doctors aren't immune from this shit. Many think that black people feel less pain, have thicker skin and thicker blood. John Oliver did an interesting episode of Last Week Tonight on that topic.
It isnt pseudo-science, its based in reality its just they have taken it to the extremes. Darker skin does protect you from sunlight far more than paler skin, it just doesnt make you immune to harmful sunlight, sunburn etc. The science basically says everyone should use suncream, but if you have much darker skin you dont need as high a factor to be protected.
Darker skin quite literally developed to protect people from the sun, just as paler skin developed at higher latitudes where people werent getting enough sun. Its the reason almost all dark skinned folk in northern europe have vitamin D deficiencies.
A black dude wearing spf 50 is overkill and will block out too much sun, a pasty pale blonde dude wearing spf 15 will still get sunburnt within an hour.
@@fritjofvalerijs800 Thatâs what I mean. The pseudo science is that only white people can get sunburned.
For the very first story, there was an update:
"I decided to ask my daughter how she feels about all of this and she said that she likes going to daycare and that all of her friends are there. I got a lot of nice replies and awards and i am very thankful for all of the support i have been getting. I'm having my daughter come home from school with her grandma instead of the daycare. I emailed the owner of the daycare franchise (not the manager) and they are very furious and have decided to let go the people who were participating in this. I am not going to report them yet unless they do this again and i am in a group chat with the parents and i told them to all tell me if they do this to their kids again and i am afraid that reporting the place could make a lot of the people who didn't know about this lose their jobs. Turns out the manager and her friends were just power tripping. I am not very confrontational and my husband also said reporting would not be a good idea since if they close down other parents would lose childcare."
Nice.
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Bump
There are some things you just can't compromise on, your child's health & wellbeing being one of them.
In the first story, the friend was basically defending the daycare.
Oh my god, the daycare story was crazy. OP had all the right to complain. I really hope they change that at the daycare.
RSlash needs to comment on these posts because there is a high chance these writers wonât see his videos. If he comments on the posts, however, rslash can give the advice directly to them.
For the serious ones definitely
I would have loved a follow up on a few, because I wanted to see what the comments were for the daycare one. The father ended up skipping management and went to the owner of the daycare chain. They were NOT impressed with the people working there, and fired them all. He decided to keep an eye out if it happens again, but didn't do further action because people need daycare, and the problem was solved.
@@amedeacatpaw5987 serious one usually have thousands of comment by the time he make a video about it, sometimes he use post that are year old
So yeah, writter wont see the video nor the comment because it will be lost among thousand of other
OP from the first story actually commented her update here, which is cool
If you can't afford food for your kids, it's your fault, not anyone else's.
Parents have an absolute responsibility to take care of their own kids, and at least in developed countries like America, there are dozens of programs to help them financially. Unemployment, welfare, food stamps, soup kitchens, school lunch/breakfast programs, food drives for the poor from schools, churches, hospitals and etc. Even if you somehow can't get immediate access to any of these programs, your kid's food should be the absolute first priority for you above all other expenses. OP's brother should be saying "I need help with the rent," not "my child is starving!" The concept of a parent starving their kid because they're too prideful to look for government aid, too lazy to work, or too narcissistic to spend money on their child first infuriates me.
If you aren't giving your kids food, it is absolutely your fault, and you are a horrible parent. If anything, OP of the last story should use that call as evidence and contact CPS to tell them his brother isn't feeding his children. Either OP's brother is using his kids to get sympathy so he can get money for some other BS, or he's starving his children. Either way, CPS should absolutely be called. That behavior is entirely unacceptable and OP's brother doesn't sound like he deserves to take care of his own children.
The sick girlfriend... just wtf. People are crazy.
My only reward for waking up early~
And also one of my justification for staying up late and maintaining a messed up sleep schedule
@@bork9570 same lol, since it is midnight and school is on tomorrow.
I know I have the best sleep schedule!!!
My only reward for staying up
its 2pm for me
Ikr
OP needs to tell the rest of his family to go help Mike since they have so much to say.
The food story: possibly the only twist I could think of that justified the response
I love hearing the opening to this episode and itâs just
âThis episode is sponsored by purpleâ
Me: *reads title*
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First story: "I'm thinking of taking this to the media" DO IT!! OMG
Go go lady, take it to the papers! The media needs to hear about this ridiculous and racist school.
me after waching this:
*"An Enigmatic Encounter" ("Undertale: Last Breath" phase 3) starts playing*
*kills ALL a**holes INSTANTLY*
*"An Enigmatic Encounter" stops playing*
When I had surgery on my foot a couple years ago to remove glass that was stuck in it for a couple years I was TERRIFIED. I wasnât even put fully asleep at all. Iâm 24. How tf does anyone think it wouldnât be terrifying for a child?!
That first story no lie pissed me off I'd sue that school and have those teachers arrested
I must be missing something in the cooking-husband story. Sounds like the wife is currently stay-at-home mom (understandable with such small kid), so it's not like she's working AND taking care of the child and household chores. So the husband prepares meals. The situation was "husband is working, wife comes for him to stop working so he could heat up the food". I would say in this case wife deserves a score - food is ready, it's only the matter of heating/microwaving it. So I don't really understand what's the issue here, sounds like laziness on the wife side as it's not like husband is refusing due to playing video games or drinking beer, he's working, if he was leaving to the office work, not working from home, would she also require him to take a break from work to come put food in microwave for 2 minutes? NO!
The first story made me think: What did they do to the Asian and Latino kids.
I...the first story, i cant i just cant, humanity is getting worst and worst
Zamasu and Thanos did nothing wrong.
id say its more that you're a good human being and getting better at a faster rate than humanity
I mean, don't forget that not long ago there wouldn't have been black and white kids in the same daycare.
Don't get me wrong, the story is awful and needs to be exposed, but the sad thing is this is still better than it was not that long ago
@@fool4343 thank you
@@TonySamedi the sad truth is that your right
"whitexplain" the therm I never heard, but always needed
The story bout guy getting left at the alter. He should take a pizza to his brother's house, have the kids come outside eat their fill of pizza and make sure the adults don't get any.