moving in with your partner

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  • čas přidán 23. 04. 2024
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Komentáře • 49

  • @secret99826
    @secret99826 Před měsícem +1420

    the immediate feeling bad after being mean is real asf

  • @CCCTTT3737
    @CCCTTT3737 Před měsícem +561

    "It's his house too" in that voice

  • @TheNomadicSunny
    @TheNomadicSunny Před měsícem +754

    but this is barbie’s dreamhouse

  • @jihyegardens
    @jihyegardens Před 26 dny +56

    This is a great way to understand that a relationship is collaboration in most ways!! Physical and emotional

  • @AnniK243
    @AnniK243 Před měsícem +331

    My husband likes black colours and his house looked like a crack den. Now that we live together he has always said that I've made our house feel like a home, nice, cosy and warm (his words, not mine). So sometimes I think it's OK to stick to your strengths 😂

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx Před měsícem +1

      😂😂

    • @FaithAnswered
      @FaithAnswered Před měsícem +19

      Facts, men often don’t really know what they like. The girl friend effect is real! A women’s touch is needed in a man’s life 😂

    • @Hat153
      @Hat153 Před měsícem +8

      To a certain extent yeah, but it can very easily turn into “it feels like a home, but not my home.”
      Im only saying this because this has happen even when I live with my guy friends. I’ve lived with several of my good friends over the years, and none of those places felt like home until I moved in with my buddy who also never got a say in his house. So we went to target and Costco together and made it OUR house.
      But also, I know nothing about your relationship so It’s just my perspective, not telling you it’s right or wrong! 😁

    • @yeahyeah3013
      @yeahyeah3013 Před 18 dny +1

      yeah it really depends on the couple, some men don't care about decorating a house at all and are totally okay with you taking the reigns

  • @fussbrain9161
    @fussbrain9161 Před měsícem +71

    Kelsey gets on here and just spits facts the entire time

  • @evelyncrawford5006
    @evelyncrawford5006 Před 23 dny +30

    My mom was like this growing up. Even when we would do something fun together, like build a Christmas tree, she was so picky to where it wasn’t even fun. It got better as I got older, but it pissed everyone off.

  • @megharoni
    @megharoni Před měsícem +114

    Agreeing to my husband's decor choices is why we have a picture of "St. Frank" in our living room. It's Frank Reynolds from IASIP in the style of Christian iconography, holding an egg in one hand and raising two fingers with the other like he's doing a blessing.

    • @k.k.7797
      @k.k.7797 Před měsícem +14

      this is the correct way to decorate

    • @xtiebro
      @xtiebro Před měsícem +7

      I love you and your husband

    • @iLoveTheBamx
      @iLoveTheBamx Před měsícem +1

      Love it

  • @commonomics
    @commonomics Před měsícem +16

    And even though his style is garbage, because he likes it it becomes cute and sentimental

  • @mariacruz07
    @mariacruz07 Před měsícem +23

    wholesome & healthy take ❤

  • @mushmoomtv
    @mushmoomtv Před měsícem +13

    Do i have to have this same energy with his clothes being on the floor in every room of the house

  • @JulEnglefaris
    @JulEnglefaris Před měsícem +97

    "Let them be them." A man? Absolutely not.

  • @quaintcatholiccottage183
    @quaintcatholiccottage183 Před měsícem +13

    My husband doesn't care about decorating, but if he did then I'd agree

    • @zebedeesummers4413
      @zebedeesummers4413 Před měsícem +1

      I just like having some empty walls but it seems to drive others nuts.

  • @mysticfire473
    @mysticfire473 Před měsícem +23

    I have absolutely lived by this rule.... But lol. My biggest issue of frustration is he wants to just decorate. Im supposed to just agree & fix everything when it breaks down. When it came to the kitchen I actually put my foot down. If he wasn't spending ANY time in there he doesn't get as much say.

  • @maddievic2
    @maddievic2 Před měsícem +5

    Actually great advice

  • @jordanpitts9339
    @jordanpitts9339 Před 26 dny +9

    I love this shit sm

  • @frickfran
    @frickfran Před 22 dny +1

    Your marriage needs a sound proof room, Cody always says you don’t like him having fun but as a woman I know you just don’t like him screaming in the house ❤

  • @lou4954
    @lou4954 Před 29 dny +12

    I have to say no sometimes though. I feel bad but I don’t wanna live in the mojo dojo casa lego starwars house

    • @yeahyeah3013
      @yeahyeah3013 Před 18 dny +2

      hahahaha im also wondering where i should place all my boyfriend's anime figures without it looking like a mojo dojo casa anime pokemon house

  • @smilenowlaughlater
    @smilenowlaughlater Před měsícem

    easier said than done

  • @allierhodes6783
    @allierhodes6783 Před měsícem

    So true

  • @FirstNameLastName-gz1sw
    @FirstNameLastName-gz1sw Před měsícem

    I need to find a taco Tuesday girl

  • @saralee8531
    @saralee8531 Před měsícem +12

    If I let my let my husband decorate our house it would just be guns, Warhammer 40k, Knucklehead/Panhead/Shovelhead motorcycles, Pokemon, Yu-Gi-Oh, etc...
    And I'm for it lol

  • @krashdummiez007
    @krashdummiez007 Před 18 dny +1

    His house too but I bet Cody financed the majority of it😂

  • @Liatmew
    @Liatmew Před měsícem +7

    Lol its part of compromise, not everyone is good at everything. Absolutely do not let him put up the ugly azz picture. But let him choose the wall color or whatever

    • @Sisterlisk
      @Sisterlisk Před měsícem +8

      ugly picture is easier to ignore than a bad wall colour

    • @Liatmew
      @Liatmew Před měsícem

      @@Sisterlisk Pick what you know your partner won’t fck up is what I’m getting at 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @iLoveTheBamx
    @iLoveTheBamx Před měsícem

    Duh

  • @Emjay.d
    @Emjay.d Před měsícem +5

    Totally disagree. The key is to be with someone who doesn’t notice if the couch is totally different every time they come home. Then decorate however you want because they literally are like blind somehow and don’t notice any of the decor anyways.

    • @shelby6
      @shelby6 Před měsícem +4

      They do recognise, they just don't say anything. I think you need to reflect on how you're treating your significant other

    • @Emjay.d
      @Emjay.d Před měsícem +1

      @@shelby6 trust me. He literally doesn’t recognize. I will hang new pictures and ask if there is anything different and he literally doesn’t know. And he truly doesn’t care. He has never once cared to pick out any decor at all. No furniture or anything and has always liked what I pick out.

    • @AgileLily
      @AgileLily Před 17 dny

      Or maybe don’t pick an SO based on the fact that they don’t give two craps about household decorating/etc.??? 😭🤣

  • @justnone9809
    @justnone9809 Před měsícem

    I’m worried about her in the future kind of

  • @user-sb9es3ed5v
    @user-sb9es3ed5v Před měsícem +1

    Do it God's way - best

  • @HalkerVeil
    @HalkerVeil Před měsícem

    Why is this knowledge for grownup Gen Z?
    They should have learned basic sharing before they got to grade school.

  • @robertjosephgiarrusso5018
    @robertjosephgiarrusso5018 Před měsícem

    This girl is hideous

    • @freethegays
      @freethegays Před měsícem

      you are too Robert Joseph Giarrusso

    • @alissa3003
      @alissa3003 Před 22 dny +4

      Shes stunning, hilarious, kind, and successful. Things you are not. Im sorry your life is so unsatisfying that you think it's ok to be cruel to people. Find something better to do with your time.