10 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Buy

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
  • In today's video, I am sharing a curated list of 10 things that elegant ladies avoid buying. By not buying these items, you'll not only enhance your style but also make more conscious decisions about your purchases. Unleash your potential at my FREE workshop fabulousfuture... and elevate your life.
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  • @AnnaBeyOfficial
    @AnnaBeyOfficial  Před 2 lety +349

    Thank you for watching! 😘 Ladies who ALWAYS want to dress classy and look stylish, should check out my online course on styling called The Elegant Stylist™ by visiting elegantstylist.me

    • @emanelmhlawy6331
      @emanelmhlawy6331 Před 2 lety +16

      Could you do a video about modest styles and the best way to style shoes to them and to look feminine classy and elegant

    • @emanelmhlawy6331
      @emanelmhlawy6331 Před 2 lety +9

      While being modest in summer

    • @KimberlyKelly2000
      @KimberlyKelly2000 Před 2 lety +5

      Hello Ms Elegant Anna! Can you please show us your best elegant BoHo style? I love festivals and wonder if there is a way to level up this style?

    • @inezamy9523
      @inezamy9523 Před 2 lety +2

      and that dress looks amazing on you

    • @andreaballesteros8823
      @andreaballesteros8823 Před 2 lety +2

      MAke another video part 2 of this please!!

  • @halaallafi2018
    @halaallafi2018 Před 2 lety +2119

    One thing i love about anna is that she always gets straight to the point! no 4 minute intros etc. I know if she posts a ten minute video ill be getting ten minutes of pure advice ! keep it up anna!

    • @monicagambino318
      @monicagambino318 Před 2 lety +13

      Omg! Yessss!!

    • @molamolalaaa2968
      @molamolalaaa2968 Před 2 lety +39

      She respects our time. And I love her for that!

    • @bigmattwheel
      @bigmattwheel Před 2 lety +12

      I thought I had missed the intro, I restarted the video to see what I missed - she really started right with point 1!

    • @ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349
      @ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349 Před 2 lety +15

      Respecting people's and your potential clients time is, indeed, very elegant.

    • @annas5303
      @annas5303 Před 2 lety +3

      And ads only at the end of the video, which doesn't bother me, meanwhile I can scroll through comments. Wish more people did this. It's becoming a trend to have 5 ads in a 10 min video. Halfway in I usually lose interest in the content.

  • @dorothea2199
    @dorothea2199 Před 2 lety +2183

    Anna is absolutely right. Don't go in debts just to buy something. I am an accounting student myself & all mentors have always said that be conservative with money. Don't spend the money you don't have.

    • @albacorona2472
      @albacorona2472 Před 2 lety +70

      Accountant here 🙋🏻‍♀️ as a fresh graduate people are often weirded out by how much I manage to save up 😶 I'm like "I just allocate my paycheck correctly 🤷🏻‍♀️"

    • @dorothea2199
      @dorothea2199 Před 2 lety +20

      @@albacorona2472 Congratulations for your graduation. 🎉
      I can totally relate 😅

    • @giuliapombo5560
      @giuliapombo5560 Před 2 lety +19

      Pretty common sense, the problem is some can’t resist

    • @jessie1090
      @jessie1090 Před 2 lety +32

      Agreed. I only buy on credit what I can pay off every billing statement. I only let it ride to build better credit. Live below one's means, in my opinion, but also splurge occasionally in things that will make you money in the long run. 🌺

    • @wenchy387
      @wenchy387 Před 2 lety +2

      @@jessie1090 I agree 👍

  • @Grannynan
    @Grannynan Před rokem +231

    I knew a very attractive woman who recently passed away at 107 years old. I was complimenting her outfit one time and she told me she bought it in the 1960's. She said that if you buy quality, it never goes out of style. She was always perfectly accessorized. I never noticed a designer logo on anything she wore. In other words, she lived what Anna is preaching. Anna, thanks for the guidance you provide. All ladies deserve to be elegant!

    • @annmcdonald6180
      @annmcdonald6180 Před rokem +5

      totally agree 👍

    • @heloizanery2817
      @heloizanery2817 Před rokem +3

      🥰👏👏👏❤️

    • @lexa6533
      @lexa6533 Před rokem +2

      Wonderful ❤

    • @jacarandatree123
      @jacarandatree123 Před rokem +6

      Personally I hate to see logos on whatever clothes, shoes ,bags...to me it is not classy. Quality material and make should be recognisable.

    • @tuttuttut7758
      @tuttuttut7758 Před rokem

      Also, stuff back then was made to last.

  • @myheartiswithme
    @myheartiswithme Před 2 lety +1592

    I was so sad about the fact that I kept buying dresses but I somehow never had anything pretty to wear, until it dawned on me that it was because I kept buying these cheap dresses that didn't fit me and was made of bad material... So I went to a tailor and had three dresses made for me 👗 Best money I have ever spent 😊

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Před 2 lety +68

      I agree that custom-made clothing is a great investment. In the US, it’s sometimes less expensive than off-the -rack designer clothing!

    • @rebeccaredhead7144
      @rebeccaredhead7144 Před 2 lety +41

      That's such a lovely thing to do for yourself which will save you money long term and you'll feel unique and special in what you're wearing 😊

    • @Lavenderrose73
      @Lavenderrose73 Před 2 lety +17

      That's cool, she had said something about an online store that sells silk clothing for affordable prices and I thought I would start with the bras next month or maybe the month after and go from there. I already have some dresses, skirts, and blouses in My Wish list.

    • @isabeldiaz9717
      @isabeldiaz9717 Před 2 lety

      @@maddscientist3170 why?

    • @enjoyslearningandtravel7957
      @enjoyslearningandtravel7957 Před 2 lety +16

      How do you find a tailor to make custom-made clothing ?

  • @nannalambert3980
    @nannalambert3980 Před 2 lety +616

    With all due respect Ms. Ana, you are growing wiser and sending the right message to the average ladies who can not afford buying luxury on every item they buy. A lot of gals on you tube spent soooo much money on handbags and clothes and are confusing these young gals and make them unpopular if they don't buy luxury.

    • @IrishAnnie
      @IrishAnnie Před rokem +22

      You don’t have to “buy” luxury. Just LOOk luxury. Classics project that.

    • @seabreeze7378
      @seabreeze7378 Před rokem +2

      Exactly 1,2, 3000 for handbags? Never when paying rent or mortgage is hard enough. I watched the bag video she did and found the ‘ie cheap’ version of the same bag, two on the way as we speak! Thanks for showing what is classier for those pieces. ❤

    • @scarletbelmont9022
      @scarletbelmont9022 Před rokem +1

      Get a guy to buy you the expensive bags and use them as an asset lol. Worked for me...sold my designer bags when my work shut down for covid. I would never pay that much for a bag myself, I just have really good sources for mirror image dupes.

    • @chiarac980
      @chiarac980 Před rokem

      @@seabreeze7378 puo'essere un investimento in alcuni casi.

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay Před 2 lety +215

    My policy is to never skimp on the quality of my food, shoes or haircare.
    Thanks Anna!

    • @LisaF777
      @LisaF777 Před 2 lety +30

      And a winter coat!!

    • @jennifermcgee8621
      @jennifermcgee8621 Před 2 lety +4

      100%

    • @rosebelle-g8p
      @rosebelle-g8p Před 2 lety +18

      Agreed! And the quality of bed I sleep on.

    • @user-rx7uh9mg4f
      @user-rx7uh9mg4f Před 2 lety +12

      Shoes are a big one! I've done that mistake over and over and I don't even end up wearing them because they become painful after 30 minutes. Quality over quantity it is.

    • @LankatarhanTiina
      @LankatarhanTiina Před 2 lety +6

      And your lingerie!

  • @d1o2r3a4
    @d1o2r3a4 Před rokem +11

    I smelled a Miss Dior perfume for the first time years ago and fell in love with the scent. Fast foward, I bought my first Miss Dior perfume out of pocket two weeks ago. I couldn't be prouder of myself for waiting the appropriate time

  • @banszkiviktoria
    @banszkiviktoria Před 2 lety +274

    I bet a lot of people didn't expect such wholesome, logical, sensible advice. 💗 Lovely as always.

  • @beulahbenade4098
    @beulahbenade4098 Před 2 lety +315

    I'm so glad that you mention these aspects because too many young people are addicted to brands, thinking that it will elevate them. Education and good health are so much more important. Thank you for being so realistic and giving such good advice. I'm sure the young generation would listen to your advice.
    I always marvel at how mature and wise you are. By the way, this dress is absolutely perfect on you!!!!

  • @PinkHypatia
    @PinkHypatia Před 2 lety +651

    I like that you’ve evolved your brand of elegance beyond affluence to more of an organic class and good taste. Thanks for your content.

  • @lindseydorrington8277
    @lindseydorrington8277 Před 2 lety +173

    This is by far the best video you've done so far! I feel like it is the real difference on BEING elegant on the journey to BECOMING elegant. One lesson I'm trying to instill in my children is, "You can save and invest your money every single day, but you can only spend it once. Then it's gone." Having your finances under control and only spending money that you can afford to lose gives you that confidence that most people are trying to fake!

    • @sin3358
      @sin3358 Před 2 lety +3

      This video and comment are making me realize that ig I won't be buying that perfume I've been obsessing about ;( oh well, another time

    • @lizsahu9344
      @lizsahu9344 Před rokem

      Your comment is so spot on wow save every day spend only once…so true

    • @scegenius8751
      @scegenius8751 Před rokem +1

      I was complimented in church regarding my outfit. My dress was from last season, my wrap from a decade ago and my boots were new. You can do it on a budget with quality fabrics and an IRON!

  • @myclassicaladventure
    @myclassicaladventure Před 2 lety +255

    I normally don't comment, but I wanted to share how much Anna Bey has helped me!
    I was introduced to her (by my mother) earlier this year when I was seriously considering ending a relationship I was in. Anna Bey's videos on dating and how to be a more high caliber woman made me realize I was NOT being treated very well. I ended the relationship and started to change my life, for myself and for finding a husband. I got back into old hobbies, started new hobbies, changed the way I dressed, became more aware of how I acted/behaved in public. I let some relationships go, and became open to meeting new people. Let me TELL you...everything changed. I got more attention from men (respectful attention from masculine men), gained confidence, and felt like the world was my oyster. It was amazing to see how much I changed, and how much my surroundings changed. My one warning is, don't let your success get to your head...as Anna ALWAYS says, be humble, don't take anything for granted, and be in the mindset of always growing and improving! Thank you, Anna, you have changed my life, and I am so grateful!

    • @angelikabailey
      @angelikabailey Před 2 lety +8

      Congratulations and what an amazing story. Well done on investing in yourself by choosing what serves you in your life and your love life best. 💓💝😀

  • @tinabecker1313
    @tinabecker1313 Před 2 lety +121

    I’ve been taught from day 1 to care for my diet. Instead of processed food, I would snack on whole tomatoes or cucumbers as a child and I’m so grateful to my parents for instilling that value in me! I get A LOT of comments on my diet, but I don’t care anymore because I know I eat healthy high quality whole foods and I feel better for it! 🙌🏻 People always have something negative to say about things they don’t understand!

    • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
      @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Před 2 lety +9

      Damn ur parents raised you way good.

    • @thevintagekitty
      @thevintagekitty Před 2 lety +21

      Same here. I used to snack on red bell peppers like apples as a kid. I got made fun of constantly. Even as an adult, co-workers poke fun at my lunch, meanwhile they are eating Burger King or MacDonald's for lunch. How did that become the norm and vegetables are weird?

    • @llvluis
      @llvluis Před 2 lety +9

      @@thevintagekitty agree, I don't understand why if I dont make fun for eating trash food people have to make fun for eating healthy, totally dont get it..

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq Před 2 lety +6

      @@thevintagekitty Same here. Amazing how 1) what another person eats is suddenly someone else's business. Who asked for their opinion anyway? 2) processed, chemical-laden "foods" developed in the past 50 years have become the norm over actual food that nourished humans since the dawn of time. A final point: in 20 years, compare your health and lifestyle to those who bullied you about your diet. IF they're still around...

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq Před 2 lety +6

      Good for you! And in regard to your last comment, sadly, majority of those in the medical profession are clueless about value of nutrition as they are not required to study it in medical school. Astounding!

  • @isabellecurrat
    @isabellecurrat Před 2 lety +120

    As a nutrition coach for women, I couldn't agree more! Health is your biggest wealth and the quality of what you put inside your body does matter 👏🍒😋

  • @12Sanguine
    @12Sanguine Před 2 lety +105

    I love how Anna draws us in with simple "clickbaity" titles, and then provides genuinely valuable and deep life advice. ❤️

  • @anabellepp
    @anabellepp Před 2 lety +53

    This is perfect. I started prioritizing health, quality food and skin products. Then from there, I started changing the basics, like pants, quality fabrics, makeup, a pair of earrings for every day, perfume, shoes. Still in the process. Thank you Anna :)

  • @griffinina
    @griffinina Před 2 lety +153

    Yes, thank you! Most people think they become elegant, elevated, classy, the moment they wear all those luxury brands.

    • @katesomething1701
      @katesomething1701 Před 2 lety +9

      Yep. I never cared for luxury brands if I ever happen to win the lottery still no Rolex or Royce Rolls for me, most likely.

    • @dijonvolner6024
      @dijonvolner6024 Před 2 lety +16

      Luxury brands don't seem to have the status that they once had many years ago. Due to many influencers on social media....luxury brand clothing, to me, now seems cheap, tacky & available to everyone!

    • @annaskaldina2372
      @annaskaldina2372 Před 2 lety +10

      So true. My grandmother looked stunning however she never owned luxury brands, perhaps only a few of them. She always went to tailor instead of buying clothes. And her clothes looked so good on her, truly elegant and stylish

    • @didirocks1000
      @didirocks1000 Před 2 lety +1

      Because they are not thinking smart like she explained. I gree too that you don't need something expensive to be elegant

  • @loristryker
    @loristryker Před 2 lety +249

    These are points that my Italian father taught me, and they have ensured a good, elegant life for my brother and myself and our families. Excellent video Anna, I hope viewers put all your advice into action!

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Před 2 lety +154

    This is a FANTASTIC video, especially for young women. I’m seeing young women go into debt for luxury items because they see other women their age flexing on Instagram or TikTok.
    BTW, that dress is adorable!

    • @delaville680
      @delaville680 Před 2 lety +3

      I just paid off my car and credit cards. Believe me I think very carefully about everything I consider buying.

  • @AngelinaLeTV
    @AngelinaLeTV Před 2 lety +165

    An amazing series idea would be Anna teaching financial literacy. This video showed me a lot about money. Anna has the ability to educate millions of young people.

  • @veganronswanson9000
    @veganronswanson9000 Před 2 lety +127

    love the silouette of this dress! didn't think denim could look elegant. Also i appreciate your equating elegance with fiscal responsibility

    • @taliabutton1593
      @taliabutton1593 Před 2 lety +8

      It's gorgeous, isn't it? This dress kind of attracted me to the video, from the title itself I wasn't sure if it was worth watching. So I thought, I'll start watching it and decide if it's any good, while admiring the dress. I have a similar dress, but with thin straps, darker and not denim.

    • @veganronswanson9000
      @veganronswanson9000 Před 2 lety +3

      @@taliabutton1593 can you share where you got yours from? I really like silhouette!

    • @taliabutton1593
      @taliabutton1593 Před 2 lety +1

      @@veganronswanson9000 Charity shop. The label says Vila Clothes.

  • @PinkSnail
    @PinkSnail Před 2 lety +126

    I just want to say thank you, after consuming your content my life turned around. People say that I am very mature and behave quite polished, even if I am only a teenager.

    • @adelegrey4475
      @adelegrey4475 Před 2 lety +3

      I feel the exact same way. People mistake me as a adult sometimes because of my maturity and reserved character even though I'm only a teenager.

    • @halcyondays8945
      @halcyondays8945 Před 2 lety +5

      This will open doors for you that you never dreamt of! You are a smart young lady

    • @miriamchalmovianska863
      @miriamchalmovianska863 Před 2 lety +4

      @@halcyondays8945 nah. As a teenager you should be teenager. There will never be another time when its accepted to be goofy. Dont push kids to grow up too soon and pretend they are adults

    • @Lilaliba88
      @Lilaliba88 Před 2 lety +1

      @@miriamchalmovianska863 it doesn't mean she can't be or isn't goofy, she's never having fun or doesn't behave age appropriate. Unfortunately most teenagers, especially in developed countries, are shallow, keen on following trends, buy immense amounts of fast fashion products and think they have a huge personality because they look just like the "cool kids from TikTok".

  • @TheDomesticHarbor
    @TheDomesticHarbor Před 2 lety +68

    Hi Anna! I’m a mother to 3, i struggle to find the motivation or purpose to look elegant. I go to the grocery store, lounge at home, making meals and going to the park..etc.. could you make a video for us mamas who want to feel good and Look elegant while accommodating for the SAHM life style?…. It’s a big ask but I value your opinion and expertise!

  • @marfuatullaila
    @marfuatullaila Před 2 lety +89

    Another reminder to get wiser and wiser..
    I even end up sewing my own dresses to get perfect fit size dresses and save more money..
    Thanks Anna, you are a total inspiration. Stay safe always

    • @ah5721
      @ah5721 Před 2 lety +8

      I sew my own clothes too because I can't find clothing that fits my upper half.

    • @marfuatullaila
      @marfuatullaila Před 2 lety +2

      @@ah5721 Yeah, I tried once and then find myself making new dress for upcoming occasion.
      Stay safe dear..

    • @fanni24
      @fanni24 Před 2 lety +3

      It's so great that you learnt to sew, I'd love to be able to create or adjust my clothes as well. My grandma is a true lady and she says that having a good seamstress is the gamechanger. But who has the money to have almost every piece of their clothing fitted? Nowadays a piece of clothing can cost less than the seamstress' job. It's not only cost-efficient to do it for yourself but it can also come in handy if you don't have time to take your clothes to fix them or you want a specific style and you can make your own.

    • @marfuatullaila
      @marfuatullaila Před 2 lety +4

      @@fanni24 thanks, sure you can learn too. It can be hard sometimes, I know. But unless destiny, nothing on earth can't be done by learning and trying. It's just the matter of time, in my opinion.
      For me it is so much fun to make dress just for myself. It fits my body, and I like the fact that I don't have to meet someone wears the same dress as I do. You know sometimes it happens 😀
      All the best dear 🌷

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 Před 2 lety +2

      @@fanni24 you can learn too! And you can buy an old machine for cheap. The older the better. Before 1970 or so they're all-metal and last forever, they just need tuning.

  • @IEVAKambarovaite
    @IEVAKambarovaite Před 2 lety +45

    Planning my daily coffee date with myself around this ☕😉

  • @seemva
    @seemva Před 2 lety +43

    Smart video by Anna. Thanks for talking about fiscal discipline and moderation. Materialism and Instagram are DESTROYING OUR SOULS. Discipline and quality are the key words for me. I once bought a Italian Trussardi hand bag from Venice for 400 US Dollars which is better looking than 7000 US Dollar Chanel hand bag. Go for good quality leather hand bags. Save money for old age, health care costs, do budgeting. Try to buy a home so that you save the rent. The rent saved could go towards mortgage. Discipline in every aspect of life would pay dividends in later life. Seemi from Virginia, US

  • @divyasharma8895
    @divyasharma8895 Před 2 lety +124

    Anna, I simply adore you and these tips. I love that you addressed not getting into financial debt / spending over one's means, avoid fast fashion, and focusing on the right priorities. It is super important to be financially stable first! Keeping your style guidelines in mind, it is important to purchase items that work within one's personal budget.
    P.S. I went shopping recently and channeled my inner Anna Bey (silk tunics, a nice midi length dress (not mini), and a good pair of pants) . My coworkers complimented my look and I feel so sophisticated thus making me more productive at work since it increased my self confidence. You're my favorite. I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel a year ago

  • @happyfittravels6868
    @happyfittravels6868 Před 2 lety +20

    One of my favorite videos so far. I like how you are dissociating elegance with money but rather associating it with quality. It is a refreshing and eye opening concept that is often missed with the overconsuming content and marketing spamed on us.

  • @debbiemize2269
    @debbiemize2269 Před 2 lety +15

    I bought a black skirt in 2015 that I’m still wearing now! It is in a classic style, still fashionable, and I love it! Another item is a print dress that was bought a few years before the skirt! Neither garment is a designer brand, but they are well made, and have stood the test of time.
    Thanks for this video!

  • @leesanti8670
    @leesanti8670 Před 2 lety +26

    Totally agree! Every time I feel depressed, I’ll make unnecessary purchases 😩 and now I have tons of shoes and clothes that I don’t even use.

    • @nafsikavogopoulou8781
      @nafsikavogopoulou8781 Před 2 lety +2

      Hi , you can resell them on platforms like Facebook marketplace or poshmark , ebay etc . All the best , greetings from Greece. Nancy

    • @Kingofthenet2
      @Kingofthenet2 Před rokem

      @@nafsikavogopoulou8781 such a great idea! She’ll make all that money right back ❤

  • @sew_gal7340
    @sew_gal7340 Před 2 lety +5

    Elegant ladies also have a range of skills/talents; to be a sewist is one of them. Ladies, if you take up sewing you can literally make a chanel suit at literally 5% of the cost and it actually is tailored to your body! Look at Ana's denim dress, it looks like it was tailored to her body...it looks really elegant despite how casual of a dress it is. That's due to A) fabric quality and B) great fit, that's all it takes to look fancy. You don't have to spend commercial $$ for an outfit that you can literally make yourself with a high quality fabric.

    • @lisar915r9
      @lisar915r9 Před 2 lety

      I've been thinking of purchasing a sewing machine on Ebay and teaching myself to sew. Do you know of any good online courses for beginners or other CZcams channels? Also do you know of any good ones laces online for purchasing fabrics? Thanks.

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lisar915r9 I recommend professor pincushion on here, thats how i learned how to sew 3 years ago. i only watched her videos and never went to a class or read a book, sewing is super easy! Now i make all my suits from tweed fabric i get from moods and i never looked back!

    • @lisar915r9
      @lisar915r9 Před 2 lety

      @@sew_gal7340 Thank you. You say you get your fabric from moods? How do you mean?

  • @kchiranthi
    @kchiranthi Před 2 lety +14

    Woow. , It’s such a great video. Before watching this I thought Anna would mention brands and items that she doesn’t find elegant. But this is deep. She elaborate core of being high standard living.
    Thank you Anna reminding people Elegant is not about buying materialistic items.

  • @Anamillio
    @Anamillio Před 2 lety +39

    That dress looks so good on you. Also I love how the content of your channel evolved and how you listen to your audience. That's what keeps me here over the years. Love Anna!

  • @Daffodils2Daisies
    @Daffodils2Daisies Před 2 lety +12

    Such a breath of fresh air with this entire channel. It’s insane how much of a confidence boost it is when you follow these directions

  • @susannuccio7637
    @susannuccio7637 Před 2 lety +38

    Excellent video with some important lessons to learn. In the past I’ve been obsessed with amassing heaps of clothing without being thoughtful or using discernment for those purchases. It’s a difficult habit to stop but so very important to do so.

  • @sarahgisellearabejo6508
    @sarahgisellearabejo6508 Před rokem +8

    What I genuinely like about this video is how conscious Anna is in using her platform to empower women with BOTH FASHION AND FINANCE. Nothing sexier than a woman who is headstrong with what she wears and her money. 💪💪💪

  • @magdasz.4808
    @magdasz.4808 Před 2 lety +23

    I love this format - getting straight to the point with the first sentence without unnecessary intro

  • @dorcasmofosi3247
    @dorcasmofosi3247 Před 2 lety +24

    This video helped me to accept that I have to live below my means as I am always doing retail therapy and buying unnecessary clothes . Thank you Anna ❤️ Sending love all the way from 🇱🇸 Lesotho

  • @NadiaCNunes
    @NadiaCNunes Před 2 lety +20

    Oh Anna, I am loving your content more and more. A few years ago I thought you were some kind of anti-feminist gold-digger, but somehow I stood around and it's lovely to see how thoughtful you've become with your approach. I guess I've come a long way too.

  • @zmrjhn9097
    @zmrjhn9097 Před 2 lety +35

    Because of your content I'm feeling like I'm already elevated but now i can't found women's like you around me..i only found jealous jeans girl's ... But I'm happy all the men's are attracted towards me colleagues seniors juniors teacher's as well... thank you anna... one day I'll definitely meet you 🤞❤️

    • @ImenBen12
      @ImenBen12 Před 2 lety +3

      If you're in London, I'm happy to meet up 😃

    • @faizahanif9515
      @faizahanif9515 Před 2 lety +3

      Same thing with me as well. I've heard the women who live with me telling nasty stuff about me to other people because they felt threatened.
      But keep going sister. This is the only thing those women can do. Keep boundaries and they'll not be able to harm you in any way.

  • @susanholway6159
    @susanholway6159 Před 2 lety +22

    You are so down to earth and easy to relate to. Thank you for opening my eyes to the importance of quality clothing. I find myself getting dressed and I’ll say “ would Anna approve of this” . Needless to say I’m donating more of my clothes lately and shopping quality only!
    So thank you for all of your helpful advise!

  • @thecreativestylist
    @thecreativestylist Před 2 lety +7

    Nice video! as a stylist I can confirm that elite ladies buy high and low brands. Its their combination ability that makes every garment looks expensive on them, not the label!

  • @carmelafernando7823
    @carmelafernando7823 Před rokem +5

    So much sage advice from Anna that focuses on managing one's the mindset ad priorities behind spending vs merely telling you what and what not to buy. This is true elegance.

  • @peternincompoop9553
    @peternincompoop9553 Před 2 lety +122

    If you want designer items, buy them second hand. I've never paid full price for a designer item. There's no shame in my thrifting game.

    • @monicagambino318
      @monicagambino318 Před 2 lety +12

      Exactly! I do this with designer handbags

    • @poisedladydiaries
      @poisedladydiaries Před 2 lety +6

      Yes!

    • @jheuliabee
      @jheuliabee Před 2 lety +14

      Or buy replicas. A lot of fashion houses get their things from China and then do the finishing touches in Europe. Buying a $10k Chanel bag is ridiculous, regardless of how much you could re- sell it for in the future.

    • @taliabutton1593
      @taliabutton1593 Před 2 lety +6

      @@jheuliabee Even buying a £1k bag is ridiculous. I'd say £100 is the limit, unless it's super special, in which case I just might stretch to £200, though highly unlikely.

    • @jheuliabee
      @jheuliabee Před 2 lety +5

      @@taliabutton1593 Agreed, however some bags are genuine leather that would last you literal decades so I would spend a couple hundred on a bag or a shoe if it is a classic high quality piece yes.

  • @cara0405
    @cara0405 Před 2 lety +7

    One of the best videos ever made! It is loaded. Prioritizing the balance with emotions, health, etc, is key before mindlessly swipping the plastic card. Taking care of ourselves inside out is priceless.💎❤

  • @chihayaayase1299
    @chihayaayase1299 Před 2 lety +5

    I like how you teach ladies about elegance. It’s not about wealth, it’s all about mindset!

  • @IrishRose
    @IrishRose Před 2 lety +11

    The dutchess of Cambridge often wears high street clothes rather than designer. In her engagement photos she wore a blouse from zara 2 seasons old. her blue engagement dress was not designer either. Catherine mixes up her fashion and gets it right all the time

    • @sarahb6758
      @sarahb6758 Před 2 lety

      Meghan Markle also wears some designer who aren't particularly expensive too.

  • @roseroussett1912
    @roseroussett1912 Před 2 lety +5

    Can you do a video for what a stay at home mom should wear? I’m always in the kitchen, cooking and cleaning. I would love to know what you come up with 😊

  • @dancingadelaide3325
    @dancingadelaide3325 Před rokem +3

    Very good si Anna, nag-evolved na sya! She’s grown and grown wiser pa.
    She started talking na about aligning priorities, spending below means, asking the 3 q’s before purchasing, other investments, education, experiences and memories, health, mixing and matching, doesn’t always have to be designer stuff, becoming a minimalist.
    She’s also admitted to some of the mistakes she’s commited in the past - overbuying, therefore realising she’s got more of similar items she doesn’t need.
    She is making more sense now and mas aligned na ang core values namen. Well done, Anna! Proud of you. 💕

  • @TomoMomoDomo
    @TomoMomoDomo Před 2 lety +7

    These are super interesting points.
    I used to spend a lot of money on online purchases around exam times. Almost like a reward for myself for studying well. Or, if i didnt do well, a pick me up gift. All the excuses i gave myself! I bought makeup, skin care products, clothes, bags. Etc
    Half the things with an expiration date i had to toss out because i never actually got around to using before it reached expiration date.
    My parents were too nice to tell me I had a problem.
    when my boyfriend invited me on a morning jog with them the day i had an afternoon final, i was exhausted (out of shape!) But the shower felt afterwards was rewarding, i had so much better focus, and i aced my final.
    Ive kept a jogging routine since (switching it up for swimming in the summer) and now, i dont even need my adhd medication, i feel great, and it honestly does wonders for my mental health overall. And i said goodbye to my impulsive shopping habits. I do reward myself here and there but definitely only for serious achievements!

  • @Hello_WonderWoman
    @Hello_WonderWoman Před 2 lety +4

    Anna this is, in my humble opinion, your best advice advice yet! It's about needs rather than wants, dont need it? Don't buy it. We're way too submerged into the frentic consumerism and buy into the idea of the more we have the more we matter. The less is more most of times. This is very relatable and a great advice as usual. Thank you for sharing your wise expertise

  • @mcvigs
    @mcvigs Před 2 lety +8

    I really loved this video. It sounded like an older sister teaching me about life and really caring.
    Since you mentioned help I think many ladies would enjoy a video about mental health and how to transform it for the better along with the rest of our persona.

  • @deedoodles465
    @deedoodles465 Před rokem +2

    Yep slow fashion is a conscious choice for the environment and for our bank accounts as well ❤️

  • @vanessaval9325
    @vanessaval9325 Před 2 lety +68

    "Always opt for premium when it comes to things you put in your mouth." My new life slogan!!!🧘🏻‍♀️😮

    • @vanessaval9325
      @vanessaval9325 Před 2 lety +1

      @@RC-eb5hqJust a bit of humor... 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @inezy6329
      @inezy6329 Před rokem

      Yup..think like the Japanese..the govt saves the best crop/produce for their own people..

  • @luizaalbuquerque963
    @luizaalbuquerque963 Před 2 lety +8

    Anna, do you have tips for elegant glasses? I can’t wear contacts, but I don’t like myself in glasses. I’d love to see a content about it.
    Thank you! ♥️

  • @sunshinehaydeeify
    @sunshinehaydeeify Před 2 lety +4

    I agree especially food! Is important to eat healthy, and don’t compromise or bargain with your health!

  • @dominiquetheeasyminimalist

    Respect for sharing your good experiences, your victories, and your mistakes as well. I believe that we learn so much from people who live their life and are not afraid to get out of their comfort zone to evolve and grow.

  • @Bakerygo
    @Bakerygo Před 2 lety +6

    I totally agree with the video but you can definitely find some gems in the fast fashion shops (h&m, zara). I one found a dress in the discount section of H&M and I really liked it so I bought it. When a colleague saw it she was ecstatic with the print (prince de galles). When i told her that it was H&M for 20€ she urged to silence me "don't say that, it doesn't look like H&M".

  • @janelarson7065
    @janelarson7065 Před rokem +1

    Great video, Anna! Materialism is a dead-end street. You are totally correct: the absolute best way to spend money is to invest in your health, education, and well-being. I highly recommend getting a good therapist if you struggle with anxiety, depression, addiction, or any other issue that pulls you down. It's money well spent! My "secret millionaire" father taught me to always shop for quality. He would say, "The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of a cheap price has been forgotten."

  • @xiaoyuhu4264
    @xiaoyuhu4264 Před 2 lety +21

    Thank you Anna for promoting sustainable fashion. Over consumption is really vulgar and doing harm to our environment, which ultimately backfires us(summer is getting hotter and hotter, climate change, pollution)

  • @darleneizaguirre7688
    @darleneizaguirre7688 Před 2 lety +5

    OMG you are such a good influence to both young and not so young women. Thank you so much! I think you are one of the few women giving away truly helpful content on the Internet.

  • @pats.p1594
    @pats.p1594 Před 2 lety +7

    It is true that small gratification isn’t as good as long term gratification but after having a bad week or day and treat yourself once in a lifetime is therapeutic

  • @mahaultpons
    @mahaultpons Před 2 lety +14

    I would love to hear your tips on finance management and relationship with money, it would be so helpful!
    Thank you so much for this video Anna, it was very interesting.

  • @farahandjohn6955
    @farahandjohn6955 Před 2 lety +21

    I love that dress you’re wearing Anna, where is it from?

    • @eriettafafitis8344
      @eriettafafitis8344 Před 2 lety

      Love, love, love the dress! Do you give info Anna?❤️❤️

  • @VintageBethany
    @VintageBethany Před 2 lety +2

    So true about not buy designer! There are so many quality items like leather handbags and sterling silver jewelry that can be found at local companies for a fraction of the price and incredible quality.

  • @marishasveganworld2240
    @marishasveganworld2240 Před 2 lety +118

    Wearing clothes that you will actually wear for a long time is more sustainable than constantly buying new trendy ones that you will forget about soon, but we also need to talk about the devastating effects fast fashion has on the environment. Please, purchase second hand and vintage whenever possible🙏🏼
    Fast fashion brands clearly don’t care about our planet.

    • @marenwilliams2787
      @marenwilliams2787 Před 2 lety +7

      Love this! I shop almost exclusively at consignment shops. They carry quality brands I otherwise would not budget for & vintage clothes that were made WAY better!

  • @telmaalexa.8392
    @telmaalexa.8392 Před 2 lety +12

    Dear Anna, thank you for the video, I really appreciate it. It was very interesting and nice to know all these mistakes in the process of buying things. I am going though a "shopping-detox", I challenged myself to be at least 3 or 4 months without buying clothes and other stuff for myself, specially because I have a lot of everything, so I don't need to use my free time buying more stuff (and then feel guilty for it), I rather go to the gym and exercise, return home and make a healthy meal.

  • @meydiaengka
    @meydiaengka Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you Anna for mentioning good food for our body 🥰
    I dont have that much in life but im always picky with what i put in my body. Only good quality meals for me. I cam always buy luxury stuff when i can afford it. but for my body, this is the only body i have, if im not ruining it forr the sake of saving money. I eat good and healthy and it makes me feel good

  • @anaaraiza5532
    @anaaraiza5532 Před rokem +1

    Oh my, I had stopped watching your videos for over a year, and now that I've been recommended your videos again, I see your growth, you've become wiser, and I love how you promote a sustainable affordable, but elegant wardrobe. I'll be watching more of your new videos.

  • @juditstudywithme
    @juditstudywithme Před 2 lety +4

    Really nice tips Anna. Congratulations for sharing such a strong message. Elegance has nothing to do with money but with mindset. Remember always that ladies. No money can buy it. Kisses and god bless you all.

  • @dinushadushmantha1032
    @dinushadushmantha1032 Před rokem +1

    This channel is a gem. She is speaking facts.

  • @giea
    @giea Před 2 lety +20

    Love your contents, Anna. Straight to the point and so much value. We get so much from these videos and surely there's more in your courses which I'll save up for. So glad I discovered your channel. Thank you for making these quality and helpful contents!

  • @dianaf2820
    @dianaf2820 Před rokem +1

    These are all good points…BTW, I like your hair without the extensions. Natural beauty!

  • @judithrobinson8344
    @judithrobinson8344 Před 2 lety +4

    My parents always taught me, if you save for those special things you will appreciate it more xx

  • @valeryzee
    @valeryzee Před rokem +2

    I adore luxury items but I think it is so great that you are asking women to focus on quality, education, health, sustainability, investing and investing on themselves instead of luxury items. It is a great role model for younger women who watch your channel Thank you for spreading wise words!

  • @sleepmcsleeperson4081
    @sleepmcsleeperson4081 Před 2 lety +3

    I love this! So true! Class doesn’t mean spending so much money! It’s about spending wisely on the right things! And yes to being a conscious consumer! We should always think about how our actions affect the planet

  • @Jackson-fy9gb
    @Jackson-fy9gb Před rokem +1

    So nice of you to put this positive message forward to women. Thank you for caring about the planet and the well being of the women that watch you. I was very impressed by this video.

  • @IEVAKambarovaite
    @IEVAKambarovaite Před 2 lety +73

    I was reading an article about some ladies making 7figures and shopping specifically for amazing quality fakes. They recognise they may need to have a certain bag to be in certain circles, but they prefer to invest their money into something else.
    Let's not get broke trying to afford insane luxury items drowning ourselves in debt.

    • @seemva
      @seemva Před 2 lety +9

      A Chanel quilted flap bag costs over 7,000 US Dollars. I would save that money for my old age than this bag. In old age, unexpected health care costs could financially cripple you . So plan ahead. instead of spending this amount on hand bag, why not save money for future trips, health care etc. Discipline is the key. Seemi from US

    • @IEVAKambarovaite
      @IEVAKambarovaite Před 2 lety +4

      @@seemva that's so true.. I think we should be putting money aside for our savings and investments first and only then look at luxury purchases

    • @doitdiaries3797
      @doitdiaries3797 Před 2 lety +7

      I agree on buying quality, but I don't agree on buying fakes. Dupes yes.

    • @maymoneydandelion2989
      @maymoneydandelion2989 Před 2 lety +3

      Not the “rich people buy fakes” rhetoric again
      Please bury this and just buy stuff within your budget, no actual rich person does that

    • @mahnaznadeem902
      @mahnaznadeem902 Před 2 lety

      Change your friends

  • @vilena5308
    @vilena5308 Před 2 lety +2

    Learn what colours actually suit you. You get into a shop, and with a glance you can tell if they have sth for you and where to focus.
    Then learn what cuts and shapes truly suit you. Again, you located appropriate colours in the shop and now you can quickly sort, finding appropriate pieces that you need.
    Finally, learn materials. Develop a habit of taking a good look, recognize bad stitches, buttons that are about to fall off and envision what care theses items will require.
    It took an effort to learn this but, FINALLY, I have a closet full of stuff I actually wear and my shopping experience has stopped being a thing of dread.

  • @lovewins007
    @lovewins007 Před 2 lety +3

    I used to shop or eat when I felt sad. Now, when I feel sad I go to the gym and do cardio or binge Anna Bey vids😌love you Anna. Thank you for the wisdom and the chuckles 🥰

  • @jill5215
    @jill5215 Před 2 lety +2

    Love you video I am draining right now emotionaly on compulsive buying online, I buy almost everyday . your video may help me to slow down and realizing we dont need those luxyry and hype stuff on social media

  • @griseldaguerrero7199
    @griseldaguerrero7199 Před 2 lety +4

    Great video Anna. I have been applying many of these tips in my life for a long time. I haven't bought myself any new clothes and shoes for over a year. I still have clothes that are 10-20 years old that I still love I do wear. Also, I actually donated more than half my clothes that were old, didn't fit me and didn't like anymore. I've never been in debt because I don't allow myself to overspend and I keep my credit cards at home when I go out. I always ask myself "Do I really need this?". I love cooking and baking, so my money goes to healthy homemade food and homemade gourmet desserts. Working out, supplements are important. What I do need to do is buy high quality elegant clothes that I will wear for years to come.

  • @laureneye527
    @laureneye527 Před 2 lety +2

    I love the fact Anna teach more of just how Dress but all our life, I think is that what make her so different and interesting

  • @pats.p1594
    @pats.p1594 Před 2 lety +7

    I do miss watching the videos on Sundays During my self care Sunday routine 😄

  • @ccarr4030
    @ccarr4030 Před rokem +2

    I am sooooooo glad you touched this topic. Having a channel like yours can easily persuade or invite women to start spending money when before they were not so much into. We can easily get attracted to materialistic things when in reality it is not and should not be the first priority in our lives. Thank you! Maybe you should have this topic once in a while. It’s is very important!

  • @Lullalies
    @Lullalies Před 2 lety +3

    Elegance and minimalism go hand in hand.

  • @patricialee753
    @patricialee753 Před 2 lety +2

    Spot on. Intentionally teach your children these advice points as well!

  • @shinkhaleynjiley4261
    @shinkhaleynjiley4261 Před 2 lety +3

    Today's Video was actually really good and mature. It spreads Awareness of what is going on around us, such us some People not being able to afford quality Food and Health Care.

  • @ybe7011
    @ybe7011 Před 2 lety +1

    I think this was one of the best prices of advice I've heard in awhile.

  • @elizabethanne8729
    @elizabethanne8729 Před 2 lety +29

    Confession. I quite literally repeat buy. If I find something I like I buy two. And I put one away completely incase the other one gets a stain that cannot be removed or something else. 😂

    • @Brokie09
      @Brokie09 Před 2 lety +2

      Same ! 😭

    • @monopinion77
      @monopinion77 Před 2 lety +2

      Here too! I feel you

    • @eyeonproperty
      @eyeonproperty Před rokem +1

      Me too don’t like shopping much - buy the pieces i need not want

  • @thelandofloviestarringmiss77

    I love how you said elegant ladies always look for a deal saving money and being able to buy the coordinating accessories you have to use your imagination along with good taste and wear it with a good demeanor and a big smile

  • @prettylittleprincess4289
    @prettylittleprincess4289 Před 2 lety +8

    Me and my best friend have a shopping addiction and I truly have started to take things into my own hands and say NO to myself… It’s hard because it’s a true addiction ♥️ Thank you for this video, Anna. It means a lot

  • @kristinhughes5309
    @kristinhughes5309 Před 2 lety +2

    I loved this video. I am currently cleaning out my closet. I try things on and if they don’t fit right they are “OUT”! I will replace with better clothes when I have the money.

  • @verapurrio5462
    @verapurrio5462 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for the video. There is nothing to add! It is so important to become aware of these 10 points you are talking about!!!

  • @arayaphumpho1176
    @arayaphumpho1176 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely done this a few years ago, stop buying unnecessary dresses and chose, only I really need and look classy. ❤ I love this episode xxx

  • @eliushi6220
    @eliushi6220 Před 2 lety +15

    Those are all great things to implement in your life.
    This is a very positive and great video. thank you Anna.

  • @misscecilia2190
    @misscecilia2190 Před 2 lety +2

    There are so many aspects in life that we all have to learn; no amount of money can buy taste and style.
    Thank you for making valuable videos Anna🌺

  • @Yoga4SpiritBodyMind
    @Yoga4SpiritBodyMind Před 2 lety +4

    Soo true, Anna - thank you for recording this video. I’ve been sharing same ideas with my friends, colleagues or clients for a long time. You need to analyze and become concious, what motivates you to spend or to have more, than you can afford. It’s All about Yourself, Your State and Your self-perception. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @caseyscottmusic
    @caseyscottmusic Před 2 lety +2

    This is my favorite video of yours so far, Anna. Very centered and deep. I was a fan before, but now I trust you. Wonderful priorities. Yes.