The Dark Truth About Attracting Women | The X Factor | Why Dark Triad Men Are So Attractive
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The idea that attraction flourishes in a swamp of anxiety, selfishness, and uncertainty doesn’t sit well with men who prefer to believe that love and attraction exist in perfect harmony. Love and attraction can exist in harmony, but to have love you must first have attraction. It’s a classic case of the chicken or the egg, which comes first?
If your goal is to build attraction with women, it’s crucial to separate the sweet, tender nature of love from the harsh reality of attraction. Love does exist, and it does grow out of attraction, but if you think you must be sweet, caring, and kind to win a woman’s heart, you’re sure to be disappointed.
One area, however, we’re yet to touch on is how to make yourself irresistible to women-to find the elusive X-factor in attraction. We know the X-factor exists, but for most men, any attempt to harness the power of attraction and channel its energy remains elusive.
The X-factor continues to remain an abstract concept, in much the same way that nuclear fission remained an abstract concept until the day Trinity-the first atomic bomb-exploded into reality in 1945. Right now, you hold in your hands all the concepts and theories of attraction.
Bringing these theories into reality, however, requires its own kind of nuclear fission. For this to happen, you must be able to turn theory into reality by smashing abstract concepts together like atoms. Only then, when you look into the blast crater can you catch a glimpse of the elusive X factor-attitude. Attitude is everything.
Men who are smart, handsome, educated, and who understand key concepts of attraction often come to me with the complaint that women still don’t find them attractive. Women often tell these men how “nice” they are, effectively telling these men that they have no attraction for them whatsoever.
Men who are considered anti-seductive, lack that all-important element of attraction-attitude. They smile too much; they’re too nice; they’re unsure of themselves; they communicate with weak words like “perhaps,” “maybe,” and “possibly,” words that mirror the uncertainty of their mind. When women snap at them, act bitchy, and try to push them around, these men tolerate the abuse without putting up the slightest amount of resistance.
Bringing an edge to your character doesn’t mean being an asshole, it means eradicating your desire to please and be nice. If a woman calls you a “nice guy,” take it as an insult not a compliment. If a woman has the audacity to call you “nice” you mustn’t respond with “thanks,” instead, you must respond by telling her to “shut the f@#k up.”
“What?” She says, shocked by your crude response.
“Just kidding.”
“Uhhh.” She looks around, feeling slightly uncomfortable.
“Still think I’m nice?”
She laughs. Maybe not, but you’re certainly a lot more attractive. As we dig deeper into the depths of attraction, it becomes clear that women adore men who score high on dark triad traits.
These dark triad traits include narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Men who score high on dark triad traits are usually more confident and selfish than their less self-assured peers. They’re also more likely to be self-interested and attempt to manipulate and exploit other people without any sense of guilt or remorse.
Among such men, there’s a dark, apathetic quality that often underpins their relationships with women; a quality that challenges women and keeps them around despite the man’s “asshole” behavior. Research has found evidence to suggest that men who possess dark triad traits are more likely to date more women, have more sex, and be seen as more attractive.
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If you can't change the girl...change the girl..✌
Raj Kulkarni clever
Invoke the triad. Change the girl's perceptions.
Spoiler: You can't change the girl.
Very epic quote from chashme badoor
@@zer8960 😜😜
My mom said I was nice so i told her to stfu then you wouldnt believe what happened next
I have a feeling about that 🤣
Lol
you were trying to attract your mom?
@@prantozahorska4232 lmfao 😂🤣😂
She beat your ass with the chancla.
It is so easy for me to absorb your teaching. I like to tell women "Im not a nice guy, im a good man . thers a BIG fucken difference".
Huge difference
2:49 it’s so true
Also if you’re girlfriend tells you that you’re the best boyfriend she ever had, take it as an insult.
Chris you changed my life.
I went from being heartbroken to dating a woman who has already submitted to me thanks to this book. it's crazy because I have these dark triad traits and yet she only focusses on pleasing me. She offers to pay for dinners and always wants to make sure I am pleased like a king. I can do anything to her that pleases me which is crazy to think about. I am like Christian Grey and I love it. Respect you forever.
Can you mail me this book
@Gordon G The book is pretty big for me to summarize in one responce but what I will tell you is that if you follow his newest videos (ones he started making since last year) you will be in a really good position. The book just goes deeper into the concepts he talks about in his videos. So I would highly recommend you start there!
@@hasanyucel3286 I have it paperback lmao
Cody 'No Guard' Garbrandt Fkn cheap ass!
Tactical x Recon Thanks man. I really appreciate the support and awesome job on coming so far! Onwards and upwards!
This guy is real, if a woman called you a nice guy it's an insult. FACT
I just finished with the "48 Laws of Power" believe me, that book if you follow it you will develop dark Triad traits.
Michael Peterson great book. Reading it at the moment
Michael Peterson what is the book about?
Have you read the others from Robert Greene? Human Nature and the 50th Law are good reads
@@ardp202 manipulation
@@Prince.G no
Learn to be a hybrid....be nice and show strength at the same time.
Alpha.
Wow someone actually knows about the dark triad. Been a member for 34 years now lol
GUYS!!!!!!!!
PLEASE always remember-she use to be someone else's problem,so why should she change Now!!
@Sidewayyys can't fix a cheating heart
@Sidewayyys true enough, but when you find out stuff about her past it's usually already too late..
This is an excellent commentary because it's frank but not cynical. Thank you.
Chris you have taught me a very big lesson, Thank you so much, without your videos I was in so much relationship stress and drama, I'm glad you saved me😊
Lmao my girl called me a nice guy and I told her to “shut the fuck up”... she blocked my number for a day
Blocking is emotional so take it as a W
@@GangstalkingReality correct if they block you. You earned a permanent spot in her head
Lol, I also went on a date with a girl, and was little bit too harsh. And she blocked me, and since never texted me again. I guess she wasn't interested in me in a first place😢
Men should not misunderstood the word attitude. Showing too much attitude projects yourself as a man full of a pride and arrogance.
pride and arrogance can be useful if used appropriately
And they love a man with pride and arrogance.
Attraction is like being in The Rolling Stones; the coolest ones are the Keith Richards' and Charlie Watts' of the world - the hardworking, stylist and quiet ones rather than the flamingo out the front shaking his ass about.
😂😂😂
It's really great idea to use illustration for your explanation
If the smart guys mentioned at the 2 minute mark really understood attraction, then they wouldn't be making all of those mistakes listed.
Your informations is priceless ,,,, scientific based theory
I bought his book..... Awesome book
Love from India
Hey, have you purchased his Get her back (Action plan)?
@@AhmedKhan-ok7lj no I purchase atomic attraction.... In kindle
John Diengdoh i bough it too i tought it was better
Well, I am exactly as the guy in the video but when a woman snap on me, I definitely don't tolerate her attitude and really take an action.
I laughed so hard on shut the fu3k up part 😂
If being a nice guy isn’t good enough for a woman, then she isn’t worth it. Move on. There are too many low quality women out there seeking low quality men.
There’s a difference between being a nice guy and a good man
Thanks bro can you please speak about why women take you for granted and how to deal with her
Fantastic video. It goes in my Rewatch list.
As a concierge at my work place I have to fake being nice and most definitely can’t say stfu to a resident lol. I try to limit smiling but remain optimistic and seductive without seeming nice.
suriel tv When it comes to money you have to be nice.
@@chrisuk2073 i guess that's different.
great video! (: Which software do you use to make this? :D Tanks
I still don't understand should I be rude to girls?
Yeah, not really helpful is it. The jist is, when you interact with a woman and you feel the slightest annoyance from her behavior, you as a man have to check it right then and there. Most men suck up to women because they feel that if they are rude to them they are going to miss out on "potential pussy." To have the right attitude with women you have to not care if being assertive will lead to you NOT getting laid.
Hey Chris. Your videos on no-contact and your concept on space have helped me a lot to get a girl back. But you havent done many videos on how caring and how affectionate one should be in a relationship once the girl is back. I mean you have to show some affection and spend time with her. But is there a rule how much? I always let my girl text first and usually she instantly asks for meeting up. So Im not really chasing. But is there a rule on how to know when youre giving her too much attention and when youre giving too little? Because as you said you cant always be cold and distant. Its just means to an end. And there are not many videos of the bigger dating-channels on the question how sweet and caring one actually should be. Mostly the videos are warnings to just not be too sweet and attentive
Mirror her behavior. If she is sweet and affectionate, return the affection. If she pulls away, so do you. Reinforce good behavior, correct bad behavior. Bitch training 101.
Ed Kasper best answer
Let her know this...show her this video..and see how she responds
Lol can't believe Chris cursed!
Girl's they are receivers and you need to know how to give the information to her to make her better or worse, dependents how do you want to be with you...you modelate her how you want....but you need to know how....and before you do that you need to work on yourself a lot and accumulate information...and you will have a beoutiful relationship.
Goes to show how screwed up women are😵
I used to think so, but then I realized this stuff used to be common knowledge amongst the men of previous generations. So it's not women, it's our society that is screwed up by teaching boys to be nice.
Most aren't screwed up, it's just how the female brain works
That makes sense. I guess that’s why so many women stay with assholes who treat them like trash, as opposed to a guy treats her like a Queen.
Thanks
Hi Chris, I've got one question. So I need your suggestion, or anybody's else. After she broke up with me, I used no contact, and after 7-10 days she reached out to me, and she keeps contact me, and we had some nice, light and funny conversation. And then I asked her out, she accepted, and we had so much fun. We were smiled so hard, she was even touching me a lot. And I saw she's happy seeing me. And after some time, for about 10 days after our meeting, I wanted to kiss her. She rejected me, and said she don't want kisses and sex with me anymore. We're still in contact, she still acts interested, but she don't want to meet up again. So the question is... This Saturday I'm going to the gym with another girl, btw my ex knows her... Should I go with her. Will my ex leave me forever when she see us together in the gym? Don't know what to do. It's still 5 days till Saturday, so any help would be helpful. Thank you. ❤
Go with the new girl, it will be a win-win for you. Either her jealousy will act up and she will be desperate to get you back, or will leave and you'll have the new girl.
@@svesnimajmun2731 Hvala stari, prošlo je neko vrijeme, sad sam sa novom djevojkom. Živ bio. ❤
My parents did not let me watch this video for some reason they thought I was watching killing or murdering people murder people right just right now. Is that bad somebody respond to this
Alejandro Salazar they tryin to keep u blue pilled
These types of videos will save your life. I'm not joking at all, this tyoe of content can literally save your life.
You right
I’m packin my shit and leaving my LTR. She can have the house. My peace of mind comes first
I gave my ex 2 houses..she lost them both in a year...watch em squirm without you
X factor is Real
The x factor is NOFAP
Real
yes very nice i like
Will my Gf chase me if I stop chasing her??
if she has any attraction to you, yes. if shes not interested, she wont and will find someone new. you must do the same
You care too much!
Obviously!
Yes, if she considers you a "difficult to win beast". (With reference to 'Beauty and the Beast" movie)
"If you think you must be sweet, caring and kind to win a woman's heart you're sure to be disappointed"
how to buy your book pls....send a reply
Are we talking psychopathy here ? 🔥
2:50 hahhahahaha i cried :D
Does anyone have purchased Get her back (Action plan)?
Told my boss to shut the fuck up today. Got fired :/
So this one girl I know loves nice guys lol but I thought she was a little to much lol
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Dark traid ,,, real nuclear weapons