I think this speaks volumes. Notice its not what we DO that we regret but what we DIDN'T do. A friend died a few years ago and he told me just before he passed his biggest regret was not going for a walk barefoot on the beach with a friend. He just never did it. Too busy. By the time he told me that, it was already too late.
That's just a bad way of looking at it, the man that just got his legs chopped off will always have regrets about something he can't do anymore, but the warrior that's in every one of us realizes that if you lose one weapon you find another..... The proper reaction is to know that when one door closes two open , maybe three.... There are people in this world that you could give $1000000 to and all they would do is complain how heavy it was.
But when trying things out there is always the risk of regretting things or be thankfull for things. You are the only person who knows that because you know your own story right?
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 198 subs and almost 90 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I've studied in Europe, driven cross country, lived in various states, and have kept in touch with childhood friends. I had a great career, but my entire division got laid off. Education pays a lot less, but the shorter summer school hours make it possible to have three day weekends with friends. Money doesn't buy happiness, but it gives you peace of mind and allows you to have what is necessary for a safe, healthy existence.
I've heard a whisper that the company I work for are going to lay off a large percentage of our workforce in the near future in 1½ to 2 years time. I've only been there 12 years and although the thought of losing their job to some people is terrifying, I personally can't wait to finish. I'll be 51 years old then and I ain't going to find another job after I leave. I'll consider part time work if I find it, but I really don't give a shit about working anymore. Money sucks and I'm looking forward to an early retirement. You tend to think differently when you get older, I would have done it years ago if I didn't have a family to support.
I know right, motivational videos can be so stupid. have passion, go on vacations... see your friends... as if we have all the free time and money to do all this.
*it is that simple. Think about how much time you have in a day and record every second of it in your head. At the end of the day, you will realize u spent so much time on your phone, netflix and other crap*
I regret going to school & college. I regret not standing up to my teachers and telling them all to f&^k off. I regret not dropping out and running away from school. In a society where money is more important than human character, and you struggle day after day to feel adequate, death seems like a better way out.
My biggest regret in life is not doing much about leaving home after high school. Listening to people who had their own interests instead of mine is #2.
I think you have a point. I also think that we spend most of our time in things that don't matter at all. In the end we realize that and that's when we wish we could have done it differently.
#1 0:02 not everyone has an opportunity to get an education because they are to busy trying to put food on the table or may not have the ability or opportunity to learn at higher education institutions to do what they really want, most people are to busy trying to make ends meet to do what they really want. #2 0:37 It's hard to get a long with family and people in general. #3 1:00 It hard to express true feelings because it makes you vulnerable. #4 1:19 People change, and they're paths in life change. #5 1:35 This day and age people are pushed so hard to be productive and constrictive that it's hard to find time for vacations. For some they don't have time or if they have time they don't have money, that's the problem.
Get away from the victim mentality my friend! Make a budget, save money, make a plan! We all struggle but that's what makes the rewards so much better in the end.
Don’t ask how I know (lol), but not expressing feelings of love is most often not something to regret. If you didn’t do it because you were a shy teenager, you eventually found someone else. If you didn’t express those feelings as an adult, it was probably because it was the smart thing to do! Those feelings were for a coworker, a friend or family member’s partner, or you were already in a relationship. Expressing those feelings is the thing to regret, not holding them back. Or so I’ve been told.
Almost all the things you mentioned here require you to have economic stability. Of course people regret working too much, want more vacations, wish they had more time for family, but they have to make a living
Here's an idea. Don't regret! You're damned if you do, you're damned if you Don't! Regret is a paradox. Every action has Consequences good and bad. Regret is being ignorant of all the good an action/inaction has brought.
The part where you talking about keeping in touch with friends hits hard(1:15). Unfortunately, making friends becomes harder with age especially ones whom you can develop a deep bond with.
here in Norway, our workers have A LOT more vacations than the workers in the US. I have been to 20 countries, and im only 16, mostly because here in Norway, we have more holidays and such
Yeah, I agree with this list, it's good but, traveling? Vacation? That takes A LOT of money, even cheap vacations take money, don't fool yourself. But I'm talking about going to other states, countries, etc. - the usual way we define vacations. Unless you're extremely frugal. However, taking a short day trip to another town you've never been to can be a lot of fun and it's more practical, not to mention takes way less money.
I almost laughed out loud when he said two weeks isn't enough vacation a year. Capitalisms enslavement has taken over this country. I'm lucky if I get one long weekend vacation a year. We've voted for people who worship money over what's really important.
This is what we model. Try to "work our way up" for what??? To keep up with somebody um no thx. Live your life....take that vaca. Grab a groupon or rent a trailer/ rv. Live yo life....yolo
Last I checked enslavement was being forced to do a job for little or no pay. Remember, you have the opportunity to choose not to get a job and leech off the welfare system whenever you like, so there's no enslavement to it. If you want to live off welfare like communism wants you to do (better ask Russia, China, Zimbabwe, Cuba, the Visegrad 4 and a host of other countries how that went by the way) then, in a capitalist society, you are free to do so.
There's no way to avoid having these regrets unless you're damn lucky. I can just imagine telling my boss, "I'm going to take a 6 week holiday this year." Right. I'm in America baby
There was a headspace ad before this video and I thought it was actually the video because of the animation. I was like, "Ooo this is different!" Haha!
2 weeks of Holiday..wait a minute is this in USA ? There are over 40 days of holiday for people living and working in France,Germany, Sweden,Norway,Denmark....
Be happy now. It's a choice. You can never have enough of seeing. Maybe you've been to Paris. Was it spring? Was it Christmas? Then you missed something somewhere else!
Most idiots are so caught up in wasting there money on what they call "Nice Things" (whatever the fk that is), that they are left without money to enjoy life. To them I say, on your deathbed, remember that cool cell phone you had 20 years ago, remember that car you boasted about, remember the expensive clothes you wore, and remember the family you never spent time with.
The only comment in this string that has the fucking needle on point! The short term possessions are something people obsess over way too much. When the end comes you're not going to care about your car, phone, Playstation, computer, house, or whatever material it is. What you will care about are the experiences you had. The ones which will always stick with you till your last breath. Don't get caught up with material shit. It's stays put when you die.
Wait is the thing with Americans true? I'm from Europe and I'm currently 19 and I've visited every European country except 4... With school, family and with friends, and not just Europe I've also been to Egypt, Japan, Canada, USA Australia...my dad is American and when he talks about his childhood he never mentioned this fact :/
With all the changes in this world this list seems simple...but the way things are going it would be interesting to see if this list would change..social media allows for contact of old friends but the world has become more isolated... so will ppl wish they spent more time with family when they didn't have a family of their own? Do they have true feelings to express when they spent much of their lives trying to get over on ppl than really getting to know and love them? Will they travel to places they dream about? Or be so broke they only do it virtually; never actually setting foot on those shores...
"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV) Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV) ✝️ By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely...
I loved the fact that when the narrator referred to "americans" (01:44), a fat and ugly couple were drawn. I just think that was a nice touch. Exquisite.
Takadatsu , l quit my office job at 39, to look after my 68yo mentally ill Schnizphrenic mother, whom can't walk at times due to Arthritis, now l get the Carer Allowance payment from Centrelink (Social Security), which was the same amount l got from working full-time. It short, l'm 41 now and l haven't regret it.
i always think what regret that i have and ithe only thing i regret is my dad didnt use condom while making me. like ... seriously. btw, regret is part of life. relax dude! be regret! be happy! be sad! fuck em! its part of life you dont really have choice.
Sorry, but can you please make the vocal audio centered. It's panned a bit to the left and it annoys the living poop out of me. Thanks. -concerned fan. Edit: it's like that in all your videos, just so you know :)
Hello,thanks for these videos it helped me be aware.I need your notion so I am having a crisis.I dont know what I want to do with my life.I AM ABOUT TO GRADUATE and I want to chose something that has time with my family and get a career which I love.I either want to help people with health or simply help.or work with tech with AI or work with robots give me an advice or just tell me what would be good
Exactly! A lot of us simply have no chance to do even a fraction of what we would really want to do because we're forever stuck in a never ending work cycle.
My biggest regret. Giving my kids too much shit at the bequest of my wife just so they could keep up with the Jones’s. I could have quit working years ago if I had not spent all that money on them.
I think this speaks volumes. Notice its not what we DO that we regret but what we DIDN'T do. A friend died a few years ago and he told me just before he passed his biggest regret was not going for a walk barefoot on the beach with a friend. He just never did it. Too busy. By the time he told me that, it was already too late.
so sorry take his words to heart and sieze the day
Honestly Fear of missing out is real!!!!!!!!!!!! Fuck it just do it all.
That's a stupid regret bare foot on sand ? Really? Smh rip though
@@blacklyfe5543 u have issues dude
That's just a bad way of looking at it, the man that just got his legs chopped off will always have regrets about something he can't do anymore, but the warrior that's in every one of us realizes that if you lose one weapon you find another.....
The proper reaction is to know that when one door closes two open , maybe three....
There are people in this world that you could give $1000000 to and all they would do is complain how heavy it was.
A way to not fearing the death, live a fulfilled life with no regret
Owen Bunny
The other side of every fear is always bliss.
But when trying things out there is always the risk of regretting things or be thankfull for things. You are the only person who knows that because you know your own story right?
The reason why I'm afraid of death is: I have no idea what happens next.
That's impossible everybody has regrets about something in there life
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 198 subs and almost 90 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I've studied in Europe, driven cross country, lived in various states, and have kept in touch with childhood friends. I had a great career, but my entire division got laid off. Education pays a lot less, but the shorter summer school hours make it possible to have three day weekends with friends. Money doesn't buy happiness, but it gives you peace of mind and allows you to have what is necessary for a safe, healthy existence.
I've heard a whisper that the company I work for are going to lay off a large percentage of our workforce in the near future in 1½ to 2 years time. I've only been there 12 years and although the thought of losing their job to some people is terrifying, I personally can't wait to finish. I'll be 51 years old then and I ain't going to find another job after I leave. I'll consider part time work if I find it, but I really don't give a shit about working anymore. Money sucks and I'm looking forward to an early retirement. You tend to think differently when you get older, I would have done it years ago if I didn't have a family to support.
The4thDensity I will do exactly what you said.
1. work
2. family
3. not expressing true feeling
4. friends
5. vacation
If only it were that simple...
I know right, motivational videos can be so stupid. have passion, go on vacations... see your friends... as if we have all the free time and money to do all this.
It is ...
it is that simple. don't be a heathenous swine, open your eyes
*it is that simple. Think about how much time you have in a day and record every second of it in your head. At the end of the day, you will realize u spent so much time on your phone, netflix and other crap*
Lenz Sands i call this zombie mode. a mode that feels so right until to its reflected upon.
No fap, Cold showers and green juice got me out of this.
I regret going to school & college. I regret not standing up to my teachers and telling them all to f&^k off. I regret not dropping out and running away from school. In a society where money is more important than human character, and you struggle day after day to feel adequate, death seems like a better way out.
Don't die with your music inside of you!
i will live forever or die trying
My biggest regret in life is not doing much about leaving home after high school. Listening to people who had their own interests instead of mine is #2.
1 mistake: life isn’t short
It’s the longest thing any single person does
I think you have a point.
I also think that we spend most of our time in things that don't matter at all. In the end we realize that and that's when we wish we could have done it differently.
@@robertoperez8692 i agree n thats y i try to live with no regrets. i dont want 2 b on my deathbed like i wish i would have...
Life is short because most people don't make it past 30 or 40 in my neighborhood and where I grew up at
#1 0:02 not everyone has an opportunity to get an education because they are to busy trying to put food on the table or may not have the ability or opportunity to learn at higher education institutions to do what they really want, most people are to busy trying to make ends meet to do what they really want.
#2 0:37 It's hard to get a long with family and people in general.
#3 1:00 It hard to express true feelings because it makes you vulnerable.
#4 1:19 People change, and they're paths in life change.
#5 1:35 This day and age people are pushed so hard to be productive and constrictive that it's hard to find time for vacations. For some they don't have time or if they have time they don't have money, that's the problem.
True true
Get away from the victim mentality my friend! Make a budget, save money, make a plan! We all struggle but that's what makes the rewards so much better in the end.
youre real good at excuses... your boss must love you
Bro it's TRUE. Everyone is wasting potential and they'll only realize it when too much time has already gone by. It's never too early to start living
Don’t ask how I know (lol), but not expressing feelings of love is most often not something to regret. If you didn’t do it because you were a shy teenager, you eventually found someone else. If you didn’t express those feelings as an adult, it was probably because it was the smart thing to do! Those feelings were for a coworker, a friend or family member’s partner, or you were already in a relationship. Expressing those feelings is the thing to regret, not holding them back. Or so I’ve been told.
"With the fam" lol. I
This is why I quit my job 5 months ago and travel to southeast Asia for 2 months.
How are things now?
Wish I knew how'd it went too.
Not pursuing a career in porn.
Lol
🤣🤣
My last regret will be spend all my time watching self help videos. See the irony?
Definitely.
Yeah, and here you are living up your irony
I have a job that allows for a great deal of quality time with my wife and child, I'm so grateful for that.
Mike Czenkus
Really! What is your job?
@@zarifad379 tell your job
@@zarifad379 he is a male stripper
I can definitely understand the feelings part, you must acknowledge how things make you feel and process them in a healthy way
Vacations with family while working a job that requires travel while telling everyone how I feel constantly
The economy disapproves.
Good economy vs. good life.
Almost all the things you mentioned here require you to have economic stability. Of course people regret working too much, want more vacations, wish they had more time for family, but they have to make a living
so get stability
But no work = no money. Find me a way to pay my bills without working and I'll spend all the time in the world doing things I'd rather be doing.
Bass Player You really are a special individual,right?
find it yourself... haveyou even looked or are you distracted by unproductive shit?
Here's an idea. Don't regret! You're damned if you do, you're damned if you Don't! Regret is a paradox. Every action has Consequences good and bad. Regret is being ignorant of all the good an action/inaction has brought.
The part where you talking about keeping in touch with friends hits hard(1:15). Unfortunately, making friends becomes harder with age especially ones whom you can develop a deep bond with.
here in Norway, our workers have A LOT more vacations than the workers in the US. I have been to 20 countries, and im only 16, mostly because here in Norway, we have more holidays and such
Mac Schwegger ,most beautiful country Norway..
I don’t agree with this idea , we should always be grateful at our present time no matter the situation
"Please don't wait till you're almost dead..." Funny!
DONT SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS. stay or be close to the family roots and unit.
this channel is mad under viewed!!!
Travel!!!!!!!
Yeah, I agree with this list, it's good but, traveling? Vacation? That takes A LOT of money, even cheap vacations take money, don't fool yourself.
But I'm talking about going to other states, countries, etc. - the usual way we define vacations. Unless you're extremely frugal.
However, taking a short day trip to another town you've never been to can be a lot of fun and it's more practical, not to mention takes way less money.
The real losers are the lost souls on that Day.
This shit is hilarious, especially after seeing the "millennial generation sucks" video this guy made.
There’s that possibility that I may be self-employed so what exactly does this mean…
I almost laughed out loud when he said two weeks isn't enough vacation a year. Capitalisms enslavement has taken over this country. I'm lucky if I get one long weekend vacation a year. We've voted for people who worship money over what's really important.
Enslavement. Look it up.
Um... I don't think people in Communist countries are faring much better
This is what we model. Try to "work our way up" for what??? To keep up with somebody um no thx. Live your life....take that vaca. Grab a groupon or rent a trailer/ rv. Live yo life....yolo
nassiepoo stfu you like communism more swine?
Last I checked enslavement was being forced to do a job for little or no pay. Remember, you have the opportunity to choose not to get a job and leech off the welfare system whenever you like, so there's no enslavement to it. If you want to live off welfare like communism wants you to do (better ask Russia, China, Zimbabwe, Cuba, the Visegrad 4 and a host of other countries how that went by the way) then, in a capitalist society, you are free to do so.
Live you´re life like if was you´re last day.
If i did that then it would be my last day id be dead
Love this video!!!
Dude! You Da man!! Thanks!
Ur first
@@user-ow5sm1ro8k yes!
How do you feel to be the first comment on a hugely successful channel?
@@ThePhotographicEye lol feels good when I’m the Mike to the Mark hehe. Thank you for the comment though! And we appreciate your support!
I legit thought the first one was gonna be relationships
The No 1 is No 1 for a reason. Whew...
There's no way to avoid having these regrets unless you're damn lucky. I can just imagine telling my boss, "I'm going to take a 6 week holiday this year." Right. I'm in America baby
Geez I guess when you are about to die, you forget how awful spending time with your family is. Glorify the past!
There was a headspace ad before this video and I thought it was actually the video because of the animation.
I was like, "Ooo this is different!" Haha!
One of these should be "Not playing Lando-T"
how do people tell you their regrets when they die??????????
Lol 😀
😀 C'est cela la bonne question ✌️❤️
2 weeks of Holiday..wait a minute is this in USA ? There are over 40 days of holiday for people living and working in France,Germany, Sweden,Norway,Denmark....
Thank you!
Wasting my life with toxic people environments and worry
Be happy now. It's a choice. You can never have enough of seeing. Maybe you've been to Paris. Was it spring? Was it Christmas? Then you missed something somewhere else!
I have no family...
Joseph Williams what do you mean
Joseph Williams We are all your family :)
life is not that just simple
It doesnt have to be easy, you have to choose - live full life or waste it. Overcome your fear!
you are verry talented goodjob on all the videos
Staying much to long in an unfullfilling job!!! I wasted so much time at that former workplace and now I am too disabled to work anywhere!!!!
Danielle Tirpkoff I'm felt the same.
Anything for the broken heart,
Man's greatest burden is unfulfilled potential - Dan Pena
I love you your the best youtube channel ever!!!
Most idiots are so caught up in wasting there money on what they call "Nice Things" (whatever the fk that is), that they are left without money to enjoy life. To them I say, on your deathbed, remember that cool cell phone you had 20 years ago, remember that car you boasted about, remember the expensive clothes you wore, and remember the family you never spent time with.
The only comment in this string that has the fucking needle on point! The short term possessions are something people obsess over way too much. When the end comes you're not going to care about your car, phone, Playstation, computer, house, or whatever material it is. What you will care about are the experiences you had. The ones which will always stick with you till your last breath. Don't get caught up with material shit. It's stays put when you die.
Lol I’ll die with no Ragrets hahaha
Wait is the thing with Americans true? I'm from Europe and I'm currently 19 and I've visited every European country except 4... With school, family and with friends, and not just Europe I've also been to Egypt, Japan, Canada, USA Australia...my dad is American and when he talks about his childhood he never mentioned this fact :/
Inkscape The Hyena That a rich ass family that you born in.
Can I have permission to play this video on my channel. Absolutely excellent and the art graphics right on. Thank you.
Replace "family" with "tribe."
So who's gonna front me that half a mile, so I can take that dream vacation, lol. Thanks in advance.
There is always the afterlife
True. I love Ricky!
I didn't get the dream job I wanted. Or the dream family. Was it in my control?
This make me sad
ayyy
I don’t agree with some of these things, but number 1 is most important
With all the changes in this world this list seems simple...but the way things are going it would be interesting to see if this list would change..social media allows for contact of old friends but the world has become more isolated... so will ppl wish they spent more time with family when they didn't have a family of their own? Do they have true feelings to express when they spent much of their lives trying to get over on ppl than really getting to know and love them? Will they travel to places they dream about? Or be so broke they only do it virtually; never actually setting foot on those shores...
For these answers to be true they would have had to interview dead people :o
Basically win the lottery and you can solve all these problems
Nice, no sources. No surveys of the old and dying (those surveys do exist, y'know).
I would never tell my crush I like them
"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.
And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV)
Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him
should not perish but have everlasting life.
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV)
✝️ By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely...
Yeah, but work gets in the way of doing most of those things and we need to work, so....
Bro why the happy music 😂
I loved the fact that when the narrator referred to "americans" (01:44), a fat and ugly couple were drawn. I just think that was a nice touch. Exquisite.
this is a strong survivor bias.
Watching this video.
The music here seems really misplaced.
Very interesting...
3 and 5 that's all
Gonna quit my job in the next 30 days ;)
Takadatsu , l quit my office job at 39, to look after my 68yo mentally ill Schnizphrenic mother, whom can't walk at times due to Arthritis, now l get the Carer Allowance payment from Centrelink (Social Security), which was the same amount l got from working full-time. It short, l'm 41 now and l haven't regret it.
But hey, that’s just a theory...
You must work hard, so the rich people live better lifes.
Exactly why I quit my job...I might as well make myself rich..
I regret fuck tons of comments I made.
sound good doesn't work
i always think what regret that i have and ithe only thing i regret is my dad didnt use condom while making me. like ... seriously. btw, regret is part of life. relax dude! be regret! be happy! be sad! fuck em! its part of life you dont really have choice.
Advice of the day: don't die before deleting all your porn videos if you don't want people to judge you....
Sorry, but can you please make the vocal audio centered. It's panned a bit to the left and it annoys the living poop out of me. Thanks.
-concerned fan.
Edit: it's like that in all your videos, just so you know :)
My friends-age graf is a fucking constant at y=0
ty
Hello,thanks for these videos it helped me be aware.I need your notion so I am having a crisis.I dont know what I want to do with my life.I AM ABOUT TO GRADUATE and I want to chose something that has time with my family and get a career which I love.I either want to help people with health or simply help.or work with tech with AI or work with robots give me an advice or just tell me what would be good
This is middle class as fuck. Many of us do not have a choice. We are prisoners of wage labor.
Exactly! A lot of us simply have no chance to do even a fraction of what we would really want to do because we're forever stuck in a never ending work cycle.
Does someone know what is the music played ? I can't find the guitar scale :/
For past 2 month i ask a lot of people but no one explain some of them stupidly say videoscribe.
Please tell me how to make these sketch videos.
Soon immortality will be possible. Support Aubrey de Grey.
My biggest regret. Giving my kids too much shit at the bequest of my wife just so they could keep up with the Jones’s. I could have quit working years ago if I had not spent all that money on them.
Awesome
I wish I could have watched more anime, read more manga.
And see the finale of one piece.