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Sure will :)
Love a good hot tub...
Chris, I'm 49 as well and I like twinks too and I'm a bear, haha.. Hey, you are looking great on your chest, have you been working out? Don't let them get too big but your upper chest is looking good brother. Take care and holler anytime.
By the way, Bret is very handsome and although we are both bears and like twinks, I'd date a bear like him because he's just a good guy. Anyone who is a Policeman and takes care of our protection is an ALL AMERICAN! I'm pretty conservative, well in mostly financial matters and things but I do believe in Equality. Bret is a good guy, dang you really did very well sir, you BETTER hold onto him. You don't find good gay guys like that everyday. Love to you both from South Carolina!
Hey buddy. How are you with Bret as a policeman? Do you get the same things happening when he's on duty....like if your phone rings or you hear a siren? Do you question that it's him God Forbid??
My husband and I met when I was 22 and he was 47. Now we are 47 and 72 and still going strong! 25 year difference and now 25 years together - just be real, honest and loving and you'll get there too!! Relationships are defined by the people in them, not those around you!! It has always felt natural to me , , ,
Happy silver anniversary, 25 year congrats. Much ❤ to you both.
I'm so happy for you.
My partner and I were 11 years apart, and we were together for 34 years until his passing in 2020. The age gap wasn't ever an issue for us, our families, or our friends. The heart wants, what the heart wants. He was the love of my life, and I was lucky/blessed to have met him. If I were to give you any (unsolicited) advice... it would be, always be honest, and never be cruel. That always worked for us.
11 years really isn't that bad though. There's is double that. It just doesn't seem right seeing them together
@@MH-bw9zt They’re both consenting adults. it’s not for me to say whether it’s right or wrong, and that’s why I just wish them well.
@@martins4788 that's true, I'm not saying I want them banned from being together, it just seems weird to me
That's a LOT different that being 27 years apart with a young 22 year old.
@@johniii8147 yeah, but if it works for them, why do you care?
The part when you both quibbling about who said I love you first cracked me up🤣 been waiting for this video! Love the chemistry between you guys. Stay awesome, love you both!
Hii Rooney 💖😄
Omg Rooney i love ur videos ur so cuteeee😆😆
Heyy rooney❤❤
My partner and I have a 31 year age gap! He's 68 and I'm 37. We've been together for 12 years and still going strong. Family and friends may disagree with the big age gap, but as long as you're happy and in love, that's all that matters to me!
My BF and I were 28 years apart in age. We met one day before his 60th birthday and were together for 7 years. He passed away just before this last Christmas. I don't regret a single minute we were together. He was a wonderful man, and was the love of my life.
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i wouldn't go for that big age gap knowing that your not going to spend enough time with him but great story anyways❤️❤️
So sorry for your loss 💔
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@@finn0721 thank you. I felt very lucky and blessed to have had him in my life. I miss him terribly.
I'm 26 and my fiancé is 21 years older than me. Been together 6 years and travelling the world together. Wish you guys nothing but the best.❤
You were dating them when you were 20 and they were 15?
@@Abraham11170 We met when I was 20 and he was 41. You seem to have skipped the rest of that sentence.
@@angeldvalentin Oh nah I didn’t skip it I just didn’t see the older than me part.
Key words here are “traveling the world together” being the reasoning it’s working.
@@ShaftCommander Actually, not at all. We weren't able to travel for almost two years because of covid and the entire time we were as strong as ever. Found new things to do together in the meantime. We got really into baking and latte making. Now we make each other's coffee perfectly every time. :)
I'm so happy that there are couples out there like you guys! My husband and I have a 26-year gap. I'm 50 and he's 76. We've been together for almost 22 years, married for almost 10 years. I wish you all the best, Bret and Chris!
Yeah but one of these look like a 12 year old!
@@FoxyJohn No he doesn't and he's not. Q videos are that way ---->
My husband and I are 24 years apart. We've been asked all these questions, so this video was really fun to watch! My favorite "father and son" story was that we happened to go to a restaurant on Father's Day that had an official Father's Day photographer. She asked us if we wanted a picture. We said "sure" and then went in for a romantic, sweetheart kiss. The look on her face!! Bret! Loved you on both Survivor and The Amazing Race. StanChris, going to follow you on TikTok right now!
Lmao good story ❤
My boyfriend and I also have a significant age gap, almost identical to yours. I’m happy for you guys and I’m happy there are more people who understand that Love finds a way
Just go for it, I have followed Stan for years and I am so happy for both of you. My husband was 21 years younger, and we had a great life. He passed away in 2017 when he was 50 year old.
That really puts things into perspective. I'd be worried if I had an older partner that he'd pass away before me.
I have the Lazarus gene and a family history of fatal heart attacks, so I can't determine how long I have to live if a psychic told me I'd die of natural causes. I could die at 60 from a heart attack or 120 from old age, lol.
@Devin W unfortunately, that's always a possibility considering the gap. The best you can do is don't eat like me (lol), exercise, and keep your body feeling young. You don't want to complicate diseases.
Unfortunately again, some diseases cannot be excercised off. Cancer is still very common. My biological father died at 70 due to an unknown kind of cancer. Also, males tend to live 30 years shorter in average than females. Both my grandma's died in their 90s. It always amazes to see a human that has lived 117 years on earth.
50 is kind of young to die, but is not a shock at all. People have died earlier due to complications, especially heart conditions. Heart conditions are no joke. Buy like i said, the best you can do is love yourself literally and physically. While there may always be the root disease that takes over the body so the immune system cannot defend itself, the best thing you can do is fight back before the inevitable happens. Everyone will die someday. You just have to try your best.
It is absolutely adorable how you two are so supportive of each other. I love that Bret takes every opportunity to compliment not only you but also your growth in all aspects of your life. Video editing, comedy, cooking, he's such a sweetheart and I love that for you. Keep that man happy at all costs!
Thank you for sharing all this and letting us see the personal side of your relationship. You both are great together, and I'm so so happy for you! Looking forward to seeing the vlogs!
I'm in an 18-year age gap relationship with my boyfriend so I can relate. Enjoy each other and travel while you can!
You two have inspired me to like my body more! I’m a bigger gay guy and I like skinny or fit guys. I’ve had the HARDEST time feeling like I’m not anyone’s type. But you have given me hope. ❤
would u ever date a trans guy?
You guys are so sweet! I vote YES to more videos together. I love hearing how couples meet. And I think, what's cool about the age gap is that it shows that it doesn't necessarily have to impact compatibility.
Being opposite is one of the most primal attractions between people. It can be age, race, culture, body size, body type, or even just personality. A lot of long-lasting couples are people who are in some way fundamentally different. The sexual and romantic chemistry between the two of you is obvious and understandable. When two people are this comfortable with each other, sane people are happy with them being together.
Great hearing from two people who are so happy in their love for each other and who also protect their life together from too pointed questions.
I am 66 and my bf is 23. That is a 43 year age gap. He is crazy about me and I love him dearly. We have been together for 4 months with no sign of it ending. I am soooo happy.
That's fucked
43 years omg
43?! do u have Money or smt because daaammnnn
Still
My husband and I are celebrating 41 years together now. I met him when I was 24 and he was 19 years old.
We will be together forever and beyond.
My parents met when they were 19 and 34. They have been married for 22 years now, but the age gap is starting to take its toll haha
Very nice to meet Bret. Love his accent. I have been watching your vids for a while now and always enjoy them. I hope you can convince him to make a music vid or mini movie like you and Calvin make. Y’all make an adorable couple.
As for the age gap-I lost my partner of 15 years about three years ago. We also had a 27 year gap. Ignore the nay sayers and doubters. Love him while you can and appreciate the time you have together.
❤️ from Texas
Love the name, that got my interest as an Irish patriot and Irish gay man myself, living 21 years in the U.K. with extended family still living in Ireland near Dublin (County Meath) - are there any Irish connections in your family and if so, do you know which County in Ireland? 🇮🇪☘️🇬🇧🇺🇸❤️
Came across this video today. My boyfriend/partner have been together for 6 1/2 years now. Im 28, he's 58. He is so amazing and wonderful! Don't let anyone make you feel bad for being with him no matter what. I'm so glad you two have found each other!!!
Side note: Survivor 43 was my very first season I have watch in my life. Since then I've been going through each season since from the beginning!
Nicaragua is my favorite!
Chris, you are a natural talk show host, podcaster, broadcaster, etc. You are destined to have a great career. Love your confidence and charm.
I think it's awesome that your boyfriend is a cop. He has handcuffs and knows how to use them. 😂
My husband and I are 20 years apart we have been together 38 years and married 6 years we’ve never been happier and I just loved this video ❤❤❤ Thanks Chris and great to meet you Bret
One of you must've been in your twenties when you first met. Love the longevity. Happy for you guys!
@@JmelBst yes he was just 21 when we met…thanks
Have you any kids?
@@JmelBst 🥰
@@rcoppock44 🤗🤗🤗💯
OMG Bret you were my favorite in your season of survivor! I'm so happy you found someone like Chris and just know that you laid the groundwork in your generation for a much more accepting and safe world for gay people. Sending you both love and care, wishing you both the best
My parents had the exact same age gap! They had a VERY good marriage. Good luck, guys! 💜🏳️🌈
Wait wtf same this is kinda scary
My boyfriend & I are 33 years apart so I definitely relate to you guys on a grand scale. I’m so glad to see more couples who are very similar to me out there on the internet or in person. It’s refreshing to see healthy intergenerational relationships, you guys are awesome.
I’m almost as old as both of you together and I can see why you like each other! Chris is so very grounded for his age Brett is just a good hard working man who likes to enjoy life! Good luck to you both! ❤
My partner and I are 39 years apart and we’ve been together 14 years and still going strong. Age is just a number guyz! 👌
I am 54 and my boyfriend is 37. Sorry to be a downer but my mom passed away Sunday morning. My mom didn’t care and toward the end of her life she was totally oblivious, but I always tried to tone things down between my boyfriend and me in front of her. Now that she is gone I find myself a lot less anxious of pda in public. In fact naturally I reach out to him without a care in the world. And that is a wonderful feeling and quite a gift from her.
MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY LAST FEBRARY AT 101.THAT WAS MY LAST RELATIVE.A LONLY COWBOY FROM ABUQUERQUE.
Nice!! Can’t wait! Love you guys! 😊
You guys are the best. I really enjoy listening. Me and my partner John were together for twenty-six years until he passed away in 2012. Thanks for making this old man smile. 😊❤
Congrats on being a police officer and being on a TV show.
I'm straight. When I was not looking for someone, they found me.
I'm glad you found each other. I'm happy your together. Age should not matter.
I'm not into public affection past a certain point. Some things belong in private.
You guys are such an inspiration to me and my boyfriend. I’m 46 and he’s 22. I’m so glad you guys exist. Hope to meet you beautiful people someday .❤️
My husband and I are about to celebrate 20 years in May. Our age gap is 18 years now 56 and 38. We raised 3 children to adulthood. He’s my most favorite person in the whole in the whole world! Love it guys! Kudos ❤
You raised his 3 children. Favorite person. Hope he puts you before his children in his will & trust. Do not be stupid take charge before it’s to late. As a 59 year old man. No children but protect yourself
38 years with my husband. Make sure you leave all assets to him. Regardless of children
Age gap is a rapidly growing trend. There seems to be a lot of harmony in those relationships.
Love Bret and his accent! You two are absolutely adorable together. As someone in my 30s who tends to like 22-28, this certainly gives me hope.
Love is Love - 14 year age gap couple here too and it makes no difference what are ages are. Always nice to see another monogamous couple in love sharing their life open and proud. Keep up the great content StanChris!
Found you recently and can’t stop watching!
When I met my partner, he was 49 and I was 23. We were together for 25 years until he died of cancer.
Wait wasn't Brett on survivor? The dude is so hot and when he came out I was so happy. Mega jealous haha
I enjoyed the Q&A. Bret has a sense of humor that complements yours, Chris. I look forward to your vacation vlogs, which should be entertaining. Have a great time. 😃
That was awesome. I adore you guys. Thank you for sharing some of your life with us!
Bret is hilarious. "I don't even know what the Aries is, is it a cow or something like that?"
Great video! So nice to get Bret on the vlog! You guys are amazing! I have an 18 year age difference with my boyfriend and we just celebrated our 13th anniversary! Congrats to you and happy many more years!
just found your channel a few nights ago and i think you're a very adorable couple and i appreciate the wholesome vibes
I just came across your video and think you guys are absolutely adorable! As a single gay who just turned 40 and have been out of the dating scene for a long time, seeing how you are with each other gives me abit of hope that there’s someone out there for me. 😁
Sorry ain't gonna happen. Take it from someone who knows.
@@Rage_Harder_Then_Relaxwith that attitude, definitely not. If you are an older guy (40's for the sake of argument) and you are into younger, yes many people are not into that if the scope of your view is grindr, but if you are a great person, plenty of younger guys are looking for older, more mature partners.
My husband and I have been married for nearly 11 years and together for 12 and the age difference between us is 18 years so I obviously have no problem with your age difference. Congrats to both of you!
Me and my partner are 25 years apart and have faced some hate for it so it’s nice to see you two being so open it makes me happy to see thanks for sharing your guy’s experience!
LOVE this video!! I'm an ER nurse and it has been a dream of mine to find a guy like yours who is in law enforcement. Someone who understands shift work, long/stressful hours, etc. So thanks for inspiring me with help to find my significant other!! You guys are awesome!! 😎
My late partner of 18 years and I had a 28 year age gap. We got along great. Love of my life.
You both are amazing guys and I am happy you found each other! It does not matter what the 'world' thinks about you as long as you are happy!
Y’all are so adorable I really enjoyed this Q&A!!
I loved your christmas video together, but this one is even better. Warm & Cozy. BE HAPPY TOGETHER.
can’t wait til chris starts talking with the boston accent
Bert thanks for the encouragement that us older guys may still find someone. I’m 62, with 32 years in LE and when I came out the family took it well but the boss did not. I’m attracted to younger guys. Wish you both the best.
Loved this Q&A you both did an excellent job answering the questions. Glad to see you finally got some sunshine on this trip. It's nice to see how happy Chris is now he is in a relationship. So many vid's this is all he wanted. 💜💚💛🧡❤🖤
Ok, you were both so chill and i loved your view on things mentioned in the video as well as your attitudes/personalities. You have a beautiful relationship and are people with opinion, ideas and a healthy mindset✨❤️
You’re amazing guys! Loved to see you two together. Greetings from Brazil! ❤
My ex and I were 25 years apart. Age to us was just a number. We were together for 14 years. (Still friends). Really happy for you both. We are from NH. 😊
I’m polyamorous and my metamor is 20 years apart from me. Thank you for being visual with your relationship
My husband was 22 and I was 44 when we started dating. And, we dealt with many of the same questions and concerns. The one that was the most ridiculous for us was the money issue. I was a social worker, and he was a database programmer. He made about twice what I did.
Ya'll are the cutest! As a longtime viewer, we're happy to see you happy!
Love is Love. You guys make a very beautiful, hot, handsome couple. Rock On!!
Bret's adorable! a sweetheart, very personable; a little gruff at times, but real. And Chris, you're great as always, too, of course; the reason I "tune in." You guys are heartwarming to see, your playful, easy rapport... POSITIVE ROLE MODELS. Yes, please, more videos of the two of you together!
,Bret is cop, cool! (I'm speeding 4 mph less...!51 mph ♥️🔥😇)
So lovely to see this Q&A ❤️
I love that you found each other! Age is a state of mind. Nobody knows why two people fall in love, and it's none of their business. The heart wants what the heart wants. You actually seem great together. Gives me hope. LOL! Cheers!
I really like Bret. He's 100% say it as it is and no bullshi$. Very out going, and straight forward guy. OH, and yeah his Boston accent......... Love it.
You guys make a great couple.
Wow guys. I really appreciated this video. I’m 41 and get hit on by guys in there 20s a lot & I’m always on the fence about it.
So I appreciated your candor and y’all breaking it down. Those were great questions too.
Keep on keeping on you guys! 💯✅
I really enjoyed this vid and am looking forward to the other 3 parts.
It is great to witness the two of you interacting. Thanks for sharing and kudos to both of you on being open about the relationship. Granted, due to some in society, the age gap is a taboo thing and like Bret indicated, that is their problem. Both of you are very lucky to have found one another and it gives someone like me hope. Stay safe and thanks for being you, both of you.
Met my man when he was 18 and a freshman in college.... I was 40 with two little kids.... 31 years later.... it's a wonderful life. We have lived all over the country, and traveled the country with the kids, now grown with kids...... 22 years between us. He keeps me younger for sure. All about love. And, working together to make this amazing life we have had..... with lots of rough spots, as we all do. Love grows deeper when you really connect with someone that you have so much in common with. You two have years of life to enjoy. Be yourself.... fuk the rest.
Bret seems like a chill dude. Love your chemistry. Great video!
Hi there
Nice to see you here 😇
@@jumadiakhir4735 ?
@@shawnlaib8511i'm looking for friendship
OMG your energy together is amazing! Keep doing your thing 👍
So charmed by both. Hope to see regular updates over time.
“I think” totally cancels out the I love you… Bret wins this one.
I think Bret needs to be in more videos. And have an amazing vacation ❤
Omg! Finally watched this. And y’all are the cutest! ❤
I'm 52 and one of my favorite lines to use when I'm out with a younger friend (not even dating) and someone asks if he's my son is to say, "No, but sometimes he calls me daddy." It always leaves the most wonderful look of confusion on the person who asked.
You two are sweet and fun together ☺️💕
You guys are a great couple..... Awesome Vibes☺
Love it that you both did this one together. Awesome!
I've watched a lot of you're vids over the weekend... And I'm just happy for you two. Much love boys
You guys are adorable ❤️
Hi Chris my significant other passed away this August 8 2022 just shy of his 95 birthday. We've been together since 1975. I sorely miss him!
so sorry to hear that ❤
@@StanChris Thank you Chris. We were 22 yrs apart in age.
@@StanChris any tips for 18 year old high School male student?
I love how honest you are! You don’t sugarcoat anything, as you should king! ❤
I love you two together. Y’all compliment one another well.
Great video Chris! Bret seems like a great guy. You boys give me hope. 🥰🙂
I love how not 2 minutes after you explained that Bret is not your sugar daddy somebody commented like “oh I bet he’s rich.”….what in the hell?
Oh my god, I already love you guys together! I just wish you the best!
This is so nice . You both are very positive and love the way you interact with each other.
Cute af! Had to come see how you guys felt about the “sugar daddy” assumption by others since I’ve been getting it a lot with a younger bloke I’ve been seeing 🙆🏽♂️ ngl, it can be sort of gutting sometimes and other times (when I’m in a non homicidal mood) I’ll just play into it while mentally adding that person to my Death Note aha
This will be great!
Randomly came across your channel and I saw the short and clicked to learn more - great channel and loved Bret on Survivor - I am a huge fan!! Now of both of you! So happy you guys are defying the age gap difference. I've dated younger and older and as a gay man it's so hard to find love you just need to grab on to it whenever you find it and as long as you both love and support each other then nothing else matters. Much love to you both.
What a sweet couple. My husband and I have a w25 year gap, and we have been together for 17 years, married for 10! All the best to you
You guys are so cute together!
I am so happy for you Chris. I wasn't sure what to think at first about Bret but this video did it for me He seems like a great guy Thanks for Sharing
Cool video! I love how you are both so honest and relaxed. Getting great vibes from you both. My partner and I have a 15 year gap and have been living together for 21 very happy years. All the best
I've enjoyed a lot of your videos ... but this is my favorite so far. It's so nice to see a committed couple. My first relationship was 16 years and my current one is going on 20. Best of luck to you guys.