Why do I like Bears so much? (Q&A)
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- Answering some questions you guys submitted on my instagram @StanChris
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Love that you have a boyfriend happy for you. Don’t feel pressured to introduce him only if you’re both comfortable, you are entitled to have a private life 😁❤️
It’s obviously Calvin 😉
@@michiel75 you mean the lawyer? 😂
@@michiel75 🤣😂😅😆😁😄😃😀
Where is jeffhesbrother
Where's jeff
I think it's crazy how people ask chasers "why are you into chubby guys?" and "are chubby guys your only preference?" Like, most gay guys ONLY like skinny guys or guys with abs but that's never questioned...then they'll say, "oh no, I just don't like chubby guys because they're unhealthy" lmao yeah okay, but they'd probably date a skinny guy who smokes or drinks regularly....anyways, thank you for being open about your preferences! It gives chubby guys like me hope that there are people out there who do love us as we are!
Well said. But I also want to add that chubby guys need to give other chubby guys a chance too. Because chubby guys can be just as bad in only wanting skinny or muscular guys and not wanting to go near other chubby guys. I see this ALL the time..and it's really sad.
You speak truth. Lol
Im glad you’re honest about who you like. Never love anyone based on what others expect.
Very nicely said! 👍🏼
I love how much your face lighted up when you were talking about your boyfriend. Best wishes for the adventures to still come.
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I'm happy for you having a boyfriend now. Hope the best of times is coming for you both. Stay Chill Chris. Love you're channel. 💪💪😎😎🏳️🌈
The idea that a young hot man like you, would consider any kind of contact, or even conversation, with a 47 y/o man with a dad bod (but a youthful face) like me is so uplifting and encouraging. You have no idea what a cruel, cruel world it is to be a middle aged gay man. You really warmed my heart today; to know that not everyone thinks that I am just deadwood to be ignored and scoffed. Thank you a million times over. I used to be a young hot man, that enjoyed the feast of hot guys, but now, at my age and dad bod state, it is nothing but a desolate famine. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
Don’t worry, there are many men still who would be into you, it just takes searchin and I promise you will find someone for you
There's a lot of us out here 😉
Don't despair, man. "Everyone is someone's fetish" as I always say. 🙂
at least you have healthy self assessment, its really surprising among men nowadays
Why don't you get with other middle aged dudes
Our little Stanchris is growing up right before our eyes. So cute, it happens!
RIGHT? FINALLY...I'v BEEN watching him feeling like a shamed cougar for forever now lol...it's so much fun when they grow upppp 😄
Isn't he GORGEOUS!!!!! My boyfriend and I think hes awesome!
Good for you. My heart is still broke…make sure he treats you well. You have this unique quality of being above the rest and yet, very sensual. Your folks could run seminars on parenting. You are very fortunate to have them. Your brothers too. Be safe on your travels and take care. Alex from LA
Really glad you FINALLY have a mate. Someone to share intimate thoughts with and all the other benefits of being coupled!
Congratulations, Chris! I'm very happy for you and I hope he really treats you right. You deserve the best. :)
I love hearing that you have a boyfriend! You’re so giggly talking about him; it’s a good sign you’re happy, which is all that matters.
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 on getting 70K subscribers Chris,you'll be getting to 100K by the end of the year!
as an extremely toxic community, you make a lot of gay people who dont have the ‘perfect’ body feel good about themselves. thank you. ❤️
Thankfully..there is no one gay community. This is why I love the Bear community. People are accepted no matter the age, body type, race, or disability. Sure..there are bad apples in all communities..but you might want to explore others if you feel you are in an especially toxic one. Good luck!
@@Nightbird. thank you for the kind words and wise advice!
He's also never been in a fight? That says it all lol
So you need validation from a skinny guy to feel good about you? I think you might be the problem
@@Nightbird.I beg to differ. The bear community seems to be the worst when it comes to acceptance.
I’m very happy that the algorithm has blessed me with your presence, Nice hearing more about you and look forward to tagging along as an audience member, hugs from a big tall bear cub.
Congratulations on getting 70K subscribers and your boyfriend,hope he treats you well,we all think you are amazing.
@Dancing to my own beat yes,he's always been very nice to me when he responds to my comments!
I'm right here with you bud, being around your age, I've always been attracted to bears/older/bigger men and I have no explanation for it. I've been open for 2 years now and I have been involving myself in the community in my area. To be honest great and fun people to be around, great conversations and I have made much better friends. Keep up the great work !
I'm so glad you've got a boyfriend/daddy, you give so much love to everyone, you deserve love too. Thank you for finding us bears sexy. Makes me feel good! ❤️
"daddy" that's so fucking gross 🤢 The fact that it's "hot" to so many in the community to date someone old enough to be your grandpa is a pretty big sign of some mental problems. Absolutely disgusting.
I'm glad you have someone special in your life. I hope it works out. I think the level of privacy you have is yours to decide. We all deserve privacy in our lives. Whoever he is, I think he's a lucky guy.
thank you for repping for all the guys who like bears. we appreciate y'all
Hell yeah! It’s funny how guys will ask. Why are you into bigger guys. Like you’ve committed a crime or something
@@michaelmatherne5086 it's so dumb, you got preferences so do i. mind ya business lol
+70,000 subscribers! Congratulations 🎈 StanChris!👏👏👏
I am happy for you, I hope you and him have many awesome moments to share❤️😊.
You really do love your guy because every time you mentioned him you would get a huge smile on your face. You kinda glowed talking about him
Fridays with Chris... always the best . Have a great weekend Chris. 💪💪😎😎❤️🏳️🌈
Great video! It makes me feel good to be 44 and 195lbs. It's not always easy to he body and age positive these days.
Bro get some self esteem! I’m 47 (look 28-32), 180 lbs at 11% bf with abs and a v cut. I feel like I’m on top of the world and get positive attention daily (my shirt is usually off or I’m wearing stringers). I compete (physique competitions) and look better than majority of fit guys half my age. Here’s my point in case I’m sounding like a douchebag. Work with what you have to the 100% fullest! Love yourself and be the best you possible. It will show outside and others love confidence and security. When I had my Grindr account (not long ago) before I met my fiancé I was very selective and picky on my hookups and my phone would blow up like a Roman candle with messages (I did put my face and torso). I had zero issues getting hooked up with other jocks and pretty boys 19-35) and yes they knew my age. Most would question and ask if that was my real age bc I looked so much younger. There is no such thing as age or body shame is my point. If you work with what you have you’ll be golden and see that it doesn’t matter. Fwiw my fiancé is 22 and no I’m too good looking to be a sugar daddy.
Just happened upon your channel tonight and subscribed to it. I'm a bigger guy (245ish) who isn't comfortable with my body or the weight I've put on. It makes me happy to see such a cute skinny guy that is into bigger guys. Gives me some hope lol. Anyhoo, looking forward to checking out more of your videos!
It has been a while since I have seen one of your videos. You are a charming guy. Happy you found someone special in your life. Cheers!
You’re really fantastic, Chris. Happy for you 🤗
I think it is wonderful that you have a bearfriend! That is so wonderful for the both of you!!
I am not interested as to who it is for reasons of your privacy and his privacy too.
May you both ave great joy and contentment together Chris!
I had to come watch this again, I had to hear you like chubby daddies under 60 (I am 57)--You are eye candy that could cause cavities or blindness! Thanks for sharing things openly. I hope you stay happy with your bf. Honesty, hands down is the basis of a relationship.
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I saw how happy you looked when you talked about your boyfriend and the cute smile when you said he's a bear! I am really happy for both of you.
what's the difference between a " twink " and a " bear"? is a " twink " just a skinny gay guy or does he have to be little and skinny and fem ? I'm kinda little but everyone says I'm a big guy trapped in a small guys body . I guess on first hand glances I'm a " twink " lol I got uploads but I'm only in one and all my Playlist vids . I'm just wondering ...honestly.
@@Biserbalkanski a bear is a fat hairy gay lmfao
@@Biserbalkanski ur a muscle daddy
@Nightmeow On Elmstreet 2 I'm a little thin one but ...I guess if that's what ya want lol. nah I'm actually a good person and not on some " I'm better than you" not at all I'm just different 😉 enjoy your Thursday!
As long as you're happy, thats all that matters
First time watching your vids and you’re so natural and down to earth! You also have large, kind eyes. Can’t wait to catch your next vid!
thanks!
Do a Chris marathon watch all da previous ones ❤️👊🏿
I love your content please keep posting...it's very inspirational! No pressure but I like your videos!
Love that you love my state! Happy you gotta bear of your own...
Stay kind sweet boy.😘
I've actually lost 20 pounds over the last 6 weeks and feel great. My blood pressure is back to normal. I was not really meant to be a bear and I lost the weight in my mid 50s. A few months back you had a post and at one point were talking about boyfriends and you kinda let it casually slip that you had one. I knew it would be a few more months before you would mention it. Anyway, glad to see that you indeed finally have one. Sounds like he is a great thing in your life.
YAY! I'm 59 so I'm in the pool! LOL, glad you are taken Chris. Also glad that life is going well for you
I came out recently, it couldn’t have been better. I am lucky to have a very accepting family and friends who turn out basically have presumed I was gay and were just wanting for to just say it. I feel for the people who cannot be themselves because of religious or just extremely conservative family and friends. On day we will not have to come out and just be accepted for who we are.
Three quick comments in respect to the person that asked about coming out to parents that may not be supportive.
“It doesn’t matter who you love or how you love but that you love."- Rod Mckuen
“The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.”- Richard Bach in "Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah"
The movie " Latter Days" really touches on this issue. It is a most wonderful movie that ends up having a very joyous ending.
I can't help myself from recommending this as truly one of the best movies for those who have trouble just being who they know they are yet feel ostracized by family and/or their church or both.
StanChris, I hope you have watched that movie. If you haven't, I hope you do and give us a critique of it.
It would be wonderful to see you and your Mom watching it and getting your reactions!!
Glad you have a boyfriend and are happy together! Love your honesty and love that you are into bigger guys who you love to cuddle!
It’s nice to see you so obviously happy about your boyfriend. I agree with @Paul Hooton - you shouldn’t feel pressured to introduce him unless you both want to! You do what you need to do and you owe us nothing!!!
Literally the very last video I watched before clicking was an Aries music video, love that you're a fan, didn't expect to see him mentioned haha, that was weird but glad he's gaining popularity.
i’ve loved him for years! seen him in Boston 2x so far
did you hear those loud screams when he said he has a bf
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For your chalazion you have to really heat it, it will reduce your chalazion size drastically after 3 days ( dip the back of a little metal spoon in a hot boil water for a few second and apply it on your chalazion) and do it for a week or two you will see the result
hi Chris ! i'm a french chubby daddy in France... happy to know you will come soon to visit my country ! Have a great vacation !
Wow, I got last question, I feel honored. And once again astonished that younger guys are so comfortable with older men. I have to remember that just because I'm not my type doesn't mean I'm nobodies type.
Also, that tank top is super cute. The waves remind me of the ones Alice Oseman had painted on the school wall in Heartstopper.
Also also, good advice on the coming out and to give people a chance. I tend to tell people that it took them time to figure out who they are, it may take people in your life some time as well. Someday I think we'll move beyond that and won't just assume straight cis. And the stay in the closet if you might be in danger coming out, that goes for physical, emotional, mental, or financial danger. It's gotten better ( I'm a 52 year old bisexual cis man, the 80's were a different animal so I stayed hidden for awhile) but it's far from perfect. We're counting on you Gen Z.
Your boyfriend is a very lucky man. I'm an older bear and prefer guys more like you; leaner, smoother. I appreciate your candor and answering all these questions. Thank You!
Chris never having fought talking about “ feel like I’d win in a fight” 😅 is my toxic trait as well 😂😂
"...a little dodge and weave and upper cut.... "😂
Happy for you guys 😊☺️
Awesome update Chris. If you liked WA state come visit your northern neighbors in BC Canada 🤩. The train trip is awesome from Seattle to Vancouver.
I don’t need to see your boyfriend (so happy for you) - I’m glad you shared because it helps answer some of my questions “Why doesn’t Chris…”. Be well!
I KNEW IT!! I JUST KNEW IT@!! omg Chris I thought there was something you were hiding. . . This video you were like the Cheshire cat who swallowed the canary. When you started answering the question you face lit up and began to truly glow. That look was totally priceless! That is the best news evra. Im so happy for you. Long time coming. Ever need to shoot something my way in regards to keeping it going and making lifetime committments, just send away. Maaaaan this is awesome news. Congrats handsome. 😘😘😘🤎💜💙💚💛🧡❤💬
Congrats Chris on manifesting a boyfriend! So happy for you! You're looking cute as always. Love all your videos.
I’m a Ravenclaw, my celebrity crush would be Orlando Bloom and/or Harry Styles, and I’m into bears/chubby guys too.
He likes bears that's a good thing you can come over and roll me and flower LOL
Marvelous post regards from the UK x
Chris
Great video.
Don’t make it public, enjoy being low key.
I like it a lot, learn more things about you.
Enjoy your trip to france 🤙
Greetings from mexico 🇲🇽 ✋
Enjoy being you and your boyfriend. Enjoy the time you have with eachother. Your young go the pace you need for relationship(s). ❤️😊🙏✌️😎
Great video Chris, I am 62 and a Bear and am engaged to be married to a 26 year old Asian Boy, we both make each other incredibly happy and that's what is important, right?
You’re adorable. Good luck with your daddy bear.. from one daddy bear to another!! 💜 I have a channel and my partner never comes in my videos. And he is a podcaster 😂. It’s ok to keep things private. Love your energy!
oh jeez i thought i missed the q&a 😂😂😂 but awesome plans man
Just wanted to say that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. Love you and your channel 😍🤩❤💋
Great hearing your stories and thoughts
Question: Did you soccer teammates change their behavior toward you after you came out? Please cover treatment on the field / in school hallways / boys locker room / locker room showers.
yea i have a video about it
What costume are you going to wear at Spooky Bear? A great time of year on the Cape.
As a chubby daddy you make me very happy
I really love how funny and honest you are! I'm glad that you are very happy and that you have found someone you're happy with and have a boyfriend. However, if that changes you can add me to the list of older bears that find you absolutely amazing I would treat you very good! lol 💘🌹
PS - Your response about a gay person's parents really connected with me.
My dad passed very unexpectedly and suddenly (cancer, he was dead about 92 days after being diagnosed), and I never had the "I'm gay" conversation directly with him.
I think he knew I was gay before I was even 10 and knew what the word meant.
Coming from a very conservative Christian family, I was terrified to have that discussion with family. They don't approve and it is very obvious. I don't think my dad disagreed with it, but he did love me and never spoke about it n
I have actually had the "I'm gay" conversation with my mom and aunt...unfortunately, they still call my boyfriend of 7 years "my very good friend."
It I'd hard to work on myself and my own self confidence, when the people closest to me do not fully recognize the grown man that I am.
You cannot function as a healthy adult, if you do not feel fully validated and acknowledged.
I love the point that you made - you always have your gay family. It is SO important to be kind to one another and to build the connections that are positive in life.
David,
I'm so sorry you lost your dad. And I can totally relate to what you're going through with your family..as I'm going through the same thing. A lack of understanding and respect of who we are as human beings and our lives. A lack of treating us with the same dignity they treat other family members who are not LGBT+. Even though we have done nothing to deserve this disrespect. I came to the realization that you can't change people..no matter how hard you try. And like the song says.."I can't make you love me if you don't..". So sadly..you must distance yourself from these people in order to not be continually hurt by them. My straight friends don't seem to understand why this is so important to me and my spouse..why being treated with respect by family members is such a big deal. But as you said..it's important to feel validated and acknowledged. If you ever need a friend to chat with about this I'd be happy to give you contact info. Thanks for your feedback here and take care.
Validated? Naaa
Maybe this isn’t a place for psychotherapy.
Other than the tiny part of me that holds to the fantasy I would be in your league I am extremely happy to hear you have someone special in your life and as others have said your private lives are your private lives and you'll go with whatever you're comfortable with
His league? Hes very average in the gay community. Nothing to write hone about. Not attractive at all to me
@@richcampbell6808 Thanks for projecting your own insecurities
@@cbsinfll Not what projection is . LOLOLOL
You are awesome, and your channel is awesome! 🥳
Dude! I'm so happy for you that you found someone. Good for you. And BTW he's a damned lucky guy.
I'm not sure if it's just the lighting in your videos. But I've never seen it like this before. Your skin looks amazing! It actually glows. Could be because you're so happy with your new Teddy Bear. I'm 59 and if I found a young man like you. I'd be over the moon. Just the fact that you like men in their late fifties early sixties and my body style. Gives me hope that I could maybe someday meet the Twink of my dreams. Thank you for all the videos. I wish I were coming up with your generation. When I was your age I literally would be risking my life to come out. So you could say in a way. I'm a 59 years old virgin.
Damn bro!!! 60 !!! I’m 41 and a guy tooo old for me to date would be 39!!! 🤣😂🫣
The smile on his face when he talks about the BF so cute 😍
Love you Chris ❤
I love your videos Chris and I thank you !
Woaaah ❤️ You look soooo grown up CHRIS 💣
I'mma be back ⬆️ when I couldddd
You're just about the cutest little thing going! That being said, I'm loving your videos here and IG. I, too, am in a relationship with a big age difference (27 years) that has lasted now since 2002. We're married 6 years and moved back to US when they legalized it. I've a question for you, if you're interested in answering. Are you from the Virginia/West (by God) Virginia/Maryland area? I reckon I could look at you and listen to you talk all the day long! Thanks for the great videos and keep 'em comin'!
Wow, your chest and back look amazing! I’ve noticed that you really bulked up these past couple of months. Is your boyfriend (what? now there’s a boyfriend???) going with you on that trip to Palm Springs? Are you going to be comfortable being at the nudist resort? Is your boyfriend cool with you having an OF? After watching this Q&A I feel like I hardly know you … so much has changed recently! 🌪
I’m happy you found someone I was hoping I had a chance lol but I hope he is sweet and kind I hope I find someone who will love me As you did
Great job Chris
Excellent
Thank you for sharing. You are a nice cool guy.
Private life is the good life, props to you bro.
Just discovered your Channel. Very cool
I'm glad you like bears 🐻 🐻❄. We need love too ❤️ 😘 💕
Damn! I was too late. Ha! Glad you found someone though
If you've never traveled outside the USA, how are you able to speak fluent Canadian?
Fluent English or French?
IKR? Every time Chris says "out" it sounds closer to "oot" which make me wonder if he's from Canada.
@@italiangm1 he's from New Hampshire
@@jaymason5239 Ah. Still, that's not a typical NH accent, which kinda sounds like folks from Boston MA. Maybe he was exposed to a lot of Canadians.
honesty honesty honesty :D really enjoyed your video! yay that you like bears, chunky, chubby boys! :D!
I wish more gays were like you. I'm 26 and have been single my whole life because of being chubby. Gets me really depressed at times
youll find someone! ❤️❤️
Yes we wanna see him.. but no that's not important.. the glow in your face says its good so that's all I need to hear.. So HAPPY FOR YOU!!
“Love butts”. Why do you say all the right things. More cushion for the pushing or something to sleep on!
Do not give in to the pressure of introducing your BF. Just enjoy your BF and be happy.
Love you, thank you, always good.❤❤
Dayum..... The Right to Bare Arms @9:36
Absolutely delighted you have a boyfriend...best wishes to you both .love your videos
Happy for you. ❤
Congrats on b/f. I’m a polar bear who actually lives 150km from actually polar bears (northern Canada).
I'm a doc, Maxitrol ointment for that stye, what I usually prescribe, but yeah, I've had to still have 3 lanced before, it sucks.
the friend you went to visit in washington state is he the one who stayed by your side after you came out?
A cub like you recognizes his tribe
Congrats on landing a man. Wish I was that blessed.
So 60 is your upper limit then? Suddenly I feel a bit better about being 37 (38 in October).