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  • čas přidán 22. 04. 2024
  • Please subscribe to this channel :) The name is Emily & Sarah for now but it's still TBD.
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  • @technicallyketo
    @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +701

    We are overwhelmed by all of your comments and love. Thank you so much

    • @samijanekasper8162
      @samijanekasper8162 Před 29 dny +9

      💖

    • @PastorChrisParker
      @PastorChrisParker Před 29 dny +24

      You are loved beyond measure! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @VLowcarbVegan
      @VLowcarbVegan Před 29 dny +6

      💜💜💜

    • @janetsanchez2025
      @janetsanchez2025 Před 29 dny +8

      Love you sisters ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

    • @sherryp7243
      @sherryp7243 Před 29 dny +12

      My father was diagnosed with the same as your father. I am so sorry. My father had nearly the exact journey that your father did. I went with him and my mom as you both did for the entirety of my first pregnancy. My father died a few weeks before my son was born. So I am sending love to you both and your family.❤️❤️ You are such lovely people, full of light heartedness and making a tough dieting road more palatable for so many! I watch all of your videos, try your recipes and I did notice that your had gained any weight at all. I never saw any skin issue with you, Sarah. People shouldn’t have that much time on their hands to hold you under a microscope. Hurt people hurt people. Sarah, I had skin issues as well probably due to the stress. After I had my baby, and he was safely drinking formula, I got a prescription for Retin-A gel. It is a miracle for clearing up your skin AND gets rid of lines and wrinkles as a side effect! Anyway, I hope you both heal well and know he is with you. Love from Sherry

  • @conniereeves2711
    @conniereeves2711 Před 29 dny +729

    If you haven't been a caregiver for a dying loved one, you have absolutely NO idea. It's the hardest thing you will ever do, but there's no way you wouldn't do it. Well done, faithful daughters

    • @mwhe3111
      @mwhe3111 Před 28 dny +12

      Amen.

    • @cindygraham7405
      @cindygraham7405 Před 27 dny +7

      💯

    • @MummaMia5
      @MummaMia5 Před 27 dny +9

      Omgosh so true.

    • @ronihilby9859
      @ronihilby9859 Před 26 dny +10

      This is absolutely true! There is no better tribute to a loving parent than to be there for them at the end of life.

    • @user-sg1rj2xs3i
      @user-sg1rj2xs3i Před 26 dny +12

      I took care of my Mother for 12 years, the last 3 years with Dementia. Was with her to her last breath.

  • @fskzero22
    @fskzero22 Před 29 dny +998

    The viewers mentioning weight gain and bad skin are not nice people and should be ignored. You both look great!

    • @tommyvestal5452
      @tommyvestal5452 Před 29 dny +24

      1000%

    • @shavonwalker2550
      @shavonwalker2550 Před 29 dny +40

      Considering how some of them conduct themselves in the FB group, I'm not surprised those kinds of comments were made.. fortunately, there are more of us than there are of them.

    • @chloezapata4152
      @chloezapata4152 Před 29 dny +36

      Block anyone who is a jerk.

    • @tabathatammaro9187
      @tabathatammaro9187 Před 29 dny +23

      You are so right! How dare they feel so bold as to mention it. Keyboard Pirates. You never know what a person is going through.

    • @rebeccarhoten8591
      @rebeccarhoten8591 Před 29 dny +13

      Ummm I feel more strongly about those people but I’m trying to be nice

  • @GoGoGadgetDoom
    @GoGoGadgetDoom Před 22 dny +89

    Gaining only 15 pounds during something so traumatic and life-changing is not a fail. Not even close.

  • @nestkeeper
    @nestkeeper Před 26 dny +104

    This is a good example of why we should be kind to everyone. We don’t know what they’re going through.

  • @caroldurst2834
    @caroldurst2834 Před 29 dny +619

    My precious girls!!!! I am 80 years old and been on keto 4 plus years…have lost 84 pounds…more importantly…not been ill!!!! I lost my Mother, Father, Sister and many bffs to cancer…I can honestly say …I feel your pain! I respect your lovely positive attitudes BUT if I (and thousands of others like me) had known what you were going through, we would have prayed EVERYDAY for you and your family!!!! Be sure, I will pray for all of you from this day forward!!!! God bless you as you work through your grief and thank you so very much for all you do!!!! Love and smiles in Jesus!!!♥️♥️♥️

    • @annyoung4423
      @annyoung4423 Před 29 dny +25

      Well said!!!❤

    • @beakendall2625
      @beakendall2625 Před 29 dny +21

      I adore you girls. I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. My heart is with you during this time. I lost my Mother when I was 26. Time heels all wounds. I have so enjoyed your utube chanel. You have been such a blessing for me during my Keto journey. I did it on my own and lost 80 lbs. All because of you sweet wonderful girls. Keep up the good work and know you are needed in this world. Praise and love to you! Bea ❤

    • @SandiTerps
      @SandiTerps Před 29 dny +22

      I agree 100%. This 64 year old women would like to echo the woman who posted this. I know your pain. I lost my amazing dad 3 years ago. The pain remains but the memories make it seem so bearable. You’ll get there, too.

    • @kcloveonaleash
      @kcloveonaleash Před 29 dny +8

      Love your comment ❤

    • @Sophiamia6960
      @Sophiamia6960 Před 29 dny +10

      Amen, praying too for these two precious girls, and their mother and sister.

  • @janehandrich3100
    @janehandrich3100 Před 24 dny +62

    You're the daughters every dad would love to have, God Bless.

  • @jodibellamy2713
    @jodibellamy2713 Před 25 dny +74

    Dear Sisters, that small weight gain IS A WIN! I'm in a life crisis since 2022 and used food for comfort - totally OFF keto and gained more than 70 pounds back. You are great daughters and did wonderful by your dad!

    • @terianderson9959
      @terianderson9959 Před 23 dny +3

      I went off keto too. I've gained at least 60 lbs. 😞🙏

    • @cynthiastrom4298
      @cynthiastrom4298 Před 23 dny +3

      I'm not happy you gained back weight, but it is so good to hear about circumstances causing us to go back to old habits...sugar is comforting and addictive as you know. I got a concussion, started a new job (very stressful) now after gaining back 60 pounds, I'm on keto, but considering full carnivore as the darn scale won't budge. Counting carbs, doing intermittent fasting....I'm so ashamed of myself

    • @jodibellamy2713
      @jodibellamy2713 Před 21 dnem +3

      @@cynthiastrom4298 so sorry! Yes, it is so hard when we turn to food for comfort. My daughter decided to change her identity and decided my husband and I were not going to be a part of it. 😭 Life gets hard, but we can get back on the saddle and keep trying! 🙏

    • @jodibellamy2713
      @jodibellamy2713 Před 21 dnem +1

      @@terianderson9959 yikes, no fun at all. It's hard to start over. I know I feel better on keto, it's just that convenience food is so convenient 😆

  • @TheVinegarden
    @TheVinegarden Před 27 dny +77

    My dad died in 2022. There are NO healthy options at hospitals past the day hours. My parents were married 62 years. Between running to the hospital, being there for my mom, as the only girl and oldest a lot fell on my shoulders. I was also babysitting two infants ( I needed the income). It was NUTS. The aftermath of his death was my mom devastated, selling the family home, I spent hours visiting my mom, making meals and delivering them, watching TV with her. These past two years have been a struggle. I really had no time to care for myself.
    In the past two years I’ve gained back 50 pounds of the 95 I lost. I do wish it was only 15lbs.
    I sat with my dad as he died and there when he took his last breath. I had sent my mom home who looked like she was going to die from worry. There is nothing pretty about witnessing a death, it’s not like the movies.
    I know I will get back on track. Sometime we all need to give ourselves the grace we need. Thanks for sharing your story ❤️

    • @LymeandLight
      @LymeandLight Před 24 dny +4

      I’m so sorry… you are an incredible daughter and woman.

    • @kaleidoscopicmind5
      @kaleidoscopicmind5 Před 23 dny +1

      I am so sorry for what you went through. You are so strong! Thank you for sharing 💖

  • @MsILoveLamp-bl5et
    @MsILoveLamp-bl5et Před 29 dny +373

    My heart breaks for you two and your family. You don't owe anyone an explanation. So... it is my deepest hope that you made this video for yourselves, and for healing. People can be so cruel, but you know that. I love the photos of your Dad. Thanks for sharing with us something so personal. 💙

    • @gaspasser007
      @gaspasser007 Před 29 dny +21

      I am so sorry for your loss. I love all the hospice workers, they are wonderful people but nothing fills the void caused by loss. The fact you kept tears back long enough to tell the story was inspiring. We all have sad stories to tell and the older I get the more often the loss. My dad passed at age 37 in 1987, since 2018 I have lost one family member a year until all ( even my step father) have all left. So many times I reach for the phone to call them and have to relive their loss. I think you 2 have honored your father and love your mother. Weight and health are important but focusing on love is more. I’ll lose the next 15 pounds with you. I don’t know you but my heartbreaks just the same.

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +9

      So sorry about your losses as well, so many others have shared they have been through similar ❤️

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +6

      @msilovelamp- thank you ❤️

    • @maryanngullo1
      @maryanngullo1 Před 28 dny +1

      He was so very handsome too!

    • @melissahintz1267
      @melissahintz1267 Před 25 dny +3

      I echo what others have said...losing your dad or anyone you love is extremely tramatic! It's like being in a fog! I'm so very sorry for your loss! Praying that God will continue to strengthen you two and give you His Peace! I love, love, love your channel! And I'm anxious for your new one! Take care! Much love and many hugs!❤

  • @enchantedherbshop
    @enchantedherbshop Před 22 dny +5

    Grief changes your life and it takes a few YEARS to recalibrate. You keep focusing on your needs before ours. I'll be here.

  • @reikiwithcary2682
    @reikiwithcary2682 Před 23 dny +4

    Cancer attacks the entire family not just the person whose body has betrayed them.
    You take me back to my own dad being diagnosed and treated for stage four non Hodgkin Lymphoma. I'm sorry for the journey that this has taken you and your family on. As a doula to the dying , I have walked this path with others... thank you for remembering that life goes on for the patient and the family until it does no longer.
    It takes time for one to return to themselves... grief takes us away from ourselves for a while... you have done your Dad proud... and you still are.
    Thank you for sharing yourselves with us... it is important. Please know that many here care and have gone through and are going through similar ... your Dad sounds a lot like my late husband... he met death with a level of grace... and peace... you were the wind beneath your dad's wings ( I know corny)- and now your Mom's.
    It is a process. Anywho... sending blessings of love & light to your highest good and healing ... 💚💙💚

  • @VintageDiscoveries
    @VintageDiscoveries Před 29 dny +390

    Never once did I think you’ve gained weight either of you ! people never cease to annoy me ugh I’m so sorry for your loss , so sad .

    • @johnnyleemarquez3123
      @johnnyleemarquez3123 Před 29 dny +9

      “Real Life”- Keto Twins.

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +15

      ❤️ thank you for being here for so long!

    • @rebeccaw68
      @rebeccaw68 Před 29 dny +15

      Some viewers forget you are real people. They want a recipe or they see you come up in their feed and don't think about real lives attached to those pretty faces.
      Sorry for the insensitivity.
      Thank you for letting us know.

    • @lilianafiorino8257
      @lilianafiorino8257 Před 27 dny +11

      My deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear father. Loosing a parent is a very hard thing to accept. I’m 70 years old and I still have tears when I think of my father who died from cancer when I was 20 years old. My heart goes out to you both.❤

    • @midgiepie4928
      @midgiepie4928 Před 26 dny +5

      I agree, it never crossed my mind. They look the same and they are lovely and beautiful before and now.

  • @tanahaines1043
    @tanahaines1043 Před 28 dny +167

    I'm an old lady, it was serendipity that I found you .
    I am ashamed of those who have nothing better in their soul than to criticize you or anyone else. The year after I lost my dad, I quite frankly lost my mind. I was just lost. You must grieve, whatever that looks like for you, it must happen. Don't skip a step, you will need to go through every inch of it for your own good.
    I admire you ladies so much. Please know that you are very special to us.
    May God give you strength and the peace that only He can give.

  • @panfilajohansen3779
    @panfilajohansen3779 Před 7 dny +2

    I lost my dad at 19 to cancer, I was his caretaker, I'm now close to the age he died. He was 71 and I'm now 70.
    I use to live in Illinois and worked downtown at northwestern. I miss the scenery.
    I now live in California.... I kept seeing your videos, but never clicked on them. I'm glad I did.❤

  • @user-xd8ri2zs1y
    @user-xd8ri2zs1y Před 26 dny +8

    I think you women are the bee’s knees ! I am so sorry for your loss but please know not all people are critical of you. Life is a roller coaster and you are handling it like a marvelous human being. I am 70 years young and love to see you create your videos. I lost my 96 year old mother in November of 2023. We must feel deeply and carry on the best we can. 💕

  • @carolynnmathisen8754
    @carolynnmathisen8754 Před 28 dny +145

    Stress can cause weight gain. To the viewers who critique your weight…..GRRRRRR. 🙄. You guys do a great job

  • @mkd1266
    @mkd1266 Před 29 dny +220

    You both are awesome. Good daughters, good humans, fantastic entertainers.
    You both did what ya’ll needed to do.
    One of the things I enjoy is your real life relaxed Keto vibe.
    You both are in our prayers.
    By the way how awesome that you were able to give your dad joy with your channel.
    You are not alone and all who have walked a similar road get it.
    Thank you for sharing.
    🙏🌼❤️

  • @bevalexander5897
    @bevalexander5897 Před 26 dny +15

    Emily and Sarah- I am so sorry for your loss. I am 65, and still don’t feel middle aged😉I converted to Keto a little over a yr ago and have lost 45 lbs. Your recipes helped me a lot. I am also crying right now. I lost my mom about the age you are now. I lost my dad about 12 yrs later. Then, my favorite aunt was diagnosed with a rare form of kidney cancer, ( the same one I had, when I was 42.) My uncle was 79, and she was 69. She was so sick so fast. I was retired, and I packed up my 2 dogs and 3 cats and moved in with them. Unfortunately, chemo didn’t work, and she went into hospice. I was with my uncle when she passed. I know how hard your dad’s illness was for you guys. But, he was right about you continuing your videos. You help so much with your recipes, but you always lighten our days with your humor. Looking forward to the podcast!

  • @snurfbee58
    @snurfbee58 Před 26 dny +18

    I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer. He was only supposed to live for about a month but he went into remission and 6 months later he seemed to be doing fine. Then one Friday he saw his oncologist and came home and told my mom that he wanted to show her where all the important papers were. He didn't say anything else. On Monday morning she found him passed away in his recliner, still holding his horse racing form in one hand and a pen in the other. Cancer sucks. Losing a parent sucks. I wish I could tell you it gets easier. It doesn't really. It gets to the point where you can finally look back on the past with your dad and smile instead of cry at his absence but that will take time. But, it sure sounds like he was awesome and he obviously loved you both and was so proud of you. Keep that in your hearts. It helps.

    • @leavemialone629
      @leavemialone629 Před 23 dny

      I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I'm excited at the prospect of you having a lifestyle channel! So many possibilities. I hope you don't let people's harsh words bother you. Just know that there are another 99% of your viewers who absolutely adore you and support you! ❤ Praying for you and your family. 🙏

  • @IceGoddessRukia
    @IceGoddessRukia Před 29 dny +128

    You ladies don't need to explain yourselves at all!! Even if you gained 200lbs we'd understand because what you went though was horrible!!! Shame on those commenters making comments about your appearance!! Literally made me yell at my screen, makes me so mad!!!
    Take as much time as you ladies need to grieve-

  • @marksnortum4080
    @marksnortum4080 Před 29 dny +114

    My name is Mark. I am a professional house painter who loves to garden and cook
    Your video concerning your father and your journey through the end of his life was very touching.
    You guys have been a big inspiration, and I will continue to enjoy watching your videos.
    I love your humor and the way you play off each other. You showed courage and strength throughout your journey with your father .
    I know you will use that same courage and strength to continue with your CZcams channel. Your father will continue to be proud of you both. Keep up the great work keto twins. Manny prayers for your family.
    Your youtube friend Mark

  • @allisonjornlin7254
    @allisonjornlin7254 Před 15 dny +4

    Don't listen to the meanies. The more popular you get, unfortunately the more detractors find you. You guys are so wonderful. Thank you so much for brightening our lives even during your darkest days.

  • @Jeannine2853
    @Jeannine2853 Před 26 dny +3

    Ladies, this video is the first time I have seen you. I have been keto for 5 years myself, but also like you, I have cared for my father while he died. It is more important to love your family and take care of yourselves than anything that will ever happen on CZcams. You are both gorgeous, lovely people. I wish you well. Ignore any critics. They don’t get it.

  • @seeking.harmony
    @seeking.harmony Před 29 dny +99

    I am COMPLETELY blown away that you were able to continue filming at all during that period of your lives.
    And I am so sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @VintageDiscoveries
    @VintageDiscoveries Před 29 dny +197

    Absolutely nothing wrong with your skin , some people are just mean 😢

  • @ellenbuford112
    @ellenbuford112 Před 25 dny +5

    My sister and I are 70 year young identical twins. You beautiful ladies have been a Godsend to us and thousands of other people. We went through much your same journey in 2017-18 with our dad. God bless you both for your love and compassion. May your journey continue to bless others.

  • @unknownname7305
    @unknownname7305 Před 23 dny +3

    This episode had me in tears! My mom passed away from ovarian cancer a few years ago and it was an extremely difficult situation to go through.
    My heart & prayers go out to you beautiful ladies.
    Thank you for sharing such a difficult story with all of us❣

  • @HockeyTownJohn
    @HockeyTownJohn Před 29 dny +136

    My wife and I have been ride-or-die lurkers of your channel for quite a while now. Every time we would get frustrated on our Keto journey, your videos and recipes have kept us on track. The haters can just !@#$ OFF INTO THE FOREVER. Please know that there are TONS of us out here who love you both unconditionally and live for your videos. Big hugs to you both...

  • @elizabethswiezy3587
    @elizabethswiezy3587 Před 29 dny +65

    Name idea: "Real Life with the Keto Twins"

    • @marye.fox-grimm6541
      @marye.fox-grimm6541 Před 25 dny +5

      Great title! So grateful that you two don't sugar-coat how you handle life's stresses.

  • @Shadwife7
    @Shadwife7 Před 26 dny +7

    Emily and Sarah - I am new to your channel - I've seen a few videos over the years, but in recent days I started following more low carb and keto youtube channels and your "we need to talk" popped up. Wow. First of all, my deepest condolences for your loss. My goodness, you have been through so much. My Dad passed a year ago - and he declined very slowly over the course of 5 years (he had dementia) and when our parent's decline - it's a stressful, emotional time. Thank you for being real. I TOTALLY understand weight gain and skin issues - and it broke my heart to hear that people said critical things of you. That is so shallow. The truth is - eating healthy, following keto, low carb, low glycemic, etc. IS A PROCESS. Life interrupts us all the time. I'm grateful to you both because it encourages me that I am not alone in the struggle.... that life throws you curveballs and your diet will fluctuate. God bless you both - and again sorry for your loss. You could tell your Dad was very special. :)

  • @cindymclaughlin
    @cindymclaughlin Před 26 dny +9

    So glad that you added this new channel. I started during my journey of becoming an orphan and a widow in 2014 in 6 years. My dad was brilliant too.
    And he head Alzheimer's, but died of a ruptured abdominal aneurysm. At the time, I was working two jobs. I turned in my notice for the full time job. I turned in my notice for my second job. That took effect on 2015 in January. Unfortunately, dad died two days before my notice was effective. Then my mom's lung cancer came back. She passed on 5/26/22. I was caring for mom during covid and there were no home health workers to be found. So I was in house with her and at the inpatient hospice unit 24/7. During this time, my hubby developed prostate cancer. All of the doctors missed it, because they thought that it was merely back pain from his several back surgeries. He died in June 9, 2022. So I understand that disconnected feeling of being in a place that the outside world understands. But I can never understand your individual pain. I am so proud of you both.🎉

  • @lynnedavenport3298
    @lynnedavenport3298 Před 29 dny +88

    People who criticize you can eff all the way off. I lost my Mom in November 2003 and in February 2004 I was diagnosed with an immunity disease. I fully believe it was my body reacting to the stress of her death. Everyone responds to grief differently. Thanks for sharing this with us. Continued healing to your family and know that there are people out on the internet who truly care about you. 💙💜

  • @neth3898
    @neth3898 Před 29 dny +88

    May those that have made these horrible comments never have to face the tragedy of losing someone so close to you.
    It takes a very long time to not want the world to stop and notice a wonderful person is no longer with us. Live each day completely... love and laugh with everything you have. Dream of your father and relive your beautiful memories! Xo

    • @gr8gardn
      @gr8gardn Před 29 dny +8

      Wanting the world to stop and notice the loss of such a special human is so real.

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +5

      Xoxoxo

  • @donnawebb1001
    @donnawebb1001 Před 26 dny +7

    You deserve ALL the grace. Anticipatory grief, layered into caregiving, is exhausting! Many of us have been in that position and we get it! I'm glad your Dad got to see your videos; that's so special.

  • @davinasampson6557
    @davinasampson6557 Před 26 dny +2

    When my son died I aged a good 10 yrs, lost half my teeth from the stress, to this day I can't sleep well. I actually lost weight to the extreme. So don't beat yourselves up, this is the grief process and it's not pretty.

  • @rebeccakuntz6619
    @rebeccakuntz6619 Před 27 dny +86

    My husband of 40 years died in October after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He only survived 56 days after being diagnosed. So I can relate! I had a real rough patch after being on the keto diet for 6 years! My sympathy and prayers are with you both! ❤😢

    • @cathywest7845
      @cathywest7845 Před 26 dny +12

      My husband passed fro. Pancreatic cancer as well. 5 yrs. Ago. He lived 24 days from diagnosis. We were married 47 yrs. Jesus is sll that got me through.

    • @lilirobin7136
      @lilirobin7136 Před 24 dny +1

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @RoninDosho
    @RoninDosho Před 29 dny +113

    The fullness of life includes death, but also belly laughs and tears, and plain old mundanenss. There is no way any of us, your subscribers and fans, could imagine what this cycle of life, has brought you both. That being said, your dad gave you two, both biologically and through enculturation, part of himself. It looks as though the Keto Twins are beginning again, in that fullness of life. For what it's worth to each of you, it never matters whether you "looked" one way or another. I can say this with some authority, The Keto Twins have been unique in the world of Ketogenic life. I know because I have watched a hell of a lot of them. Your videos are valuable to everyone who watches. (and supports your sponsors😉). I'd wager I'm speaking for most of your audience, that we'll take the ups and downs equally, and happily. It's 2024 now, so I'm betting your 250k goal will be accomplished this year. All blessings upon you and yours

  • @lisah3355
    @lisah3355 Před 24 dny +5

    My mother passed away from cancer (,brain) in June of 2022. You are not alone and I appreciate your story. I have gained 15-20 pounds since my mom left this world. I have been emotionally eating, and I'm trying not to drown. Slowly things will change and I hope the best for you both!

  • @jimramsak3255
    @jimramsak3255 Před 26 dny +3

    I’m so sorry for your loss. You two have helped me so much since the fall of 22 when I was hospitalized with uncontrolled diabetes. Since that time, going “dirty keto” as you call it, along with intermittent fasting I’ve lost 130 lbs. I can honestly say that you & four other CZcamsrs were my inspiration to finally take my health serious.
    You both sound like you were phenomenal daughters that stepped up like family should and not only made your Dad your top priority but never let him feel like a burden. God bless you both & please never, ever let comments about your weight or appearance make you feel badly about yourself. The only thing that truly matters is your heart, and obviously you both have enormous hearts!
    Thank you for sharing & thank you for the help you’ve provided me! You also created a lot of revenue for the Dash company. I bought seven different mini-waffle makers to make your dang chaffle recipes! 😂

  • @nancyjackson2279
    @nancyjackson2279 Před 29 dny +48

    Omg, i thought that was Burt Renolds when you showed the 60 minutes video. He was a handsome man. He was fortunate to have such caring daughters. It shows what a good dad he was. God bless your mom and you.
    I can't believe how rude and nasty people can be. Even if you weren't going through hell. You're beautiful inside and out❤

  • @RachelDAdams
    @RachelDAdams Před 29 dny +57

    Having worked in oncology and also being a survivor that will always have a type of melanoma present (also not curable...treatable), I want you to know how moving it is for you to share this. Thank you. You take care of your family and of each other. So glad you had the opportunity to spend the time you could with your father. You are not alone.

  • @davidsalvador8989
    @davidsalvador8989 Před dnem +1

    Treating a hemoglobin of 3 as an accomplishment is such a dad move.

  • @cseverin821
    @cseverin821 Před 25 dny +2

    My heart is with you. I was with my Dad until he took his last breath. I was holding him while I played his favorite Hawaiian music. I gained 20+ plus pounds, the stress catapulted me into menopause believe it or not. My husband is my no. 1 cheerleader throughout. I understand and so grateful for your channel. It’s disappointing that some people are so ignorant and insensitive. I’m with you ❤ I’m gradually losing weight and I’m happy about that.

  • @BartonKashmer
    @BartonKashmer Před 27 dny +41

    The like button for this video is actually a hug button. You two have brought us so much joy and happiness with the recipes you have shared. Thank you so much for being great people!

    • @lynnisaman6797
      @lynnisaman6797 Před 22 dny

      Yes. Definitely a hug, love, and support button. Well said!!

  • @bspevans7940
    @bspevans7940 Před 29 dny +64

    I'm very sorry for your loss. You are not alone. Praying for you both.

  • @artistbc5168
    @artistbc5168 Před 25 dny +2

    Girls. I am so proud of you! Not just for supporting your dad during that time, but for also supporting your mom! Being a caregiver is extremely hard on your body. Plus grief and cortisol from stress compound the problem. I know. I went through it when I lost my husband of 43 years. Be kind to yourself. Do what you can when you feel that you can. Know that you are blessed.

  • @arachne1969
    @arachne1969 Před 24 dny +2

    Dear beautiful girls,, I've been where you were, 9 months caring for both dying parents . However, at 70 I've learned that life happens while your making plans. I also left my job, lost my 45 year marriage, and lost my home. Put yourself in God's hands. It will all work out in the end. You will get back on your diet track when your life calms down. We will all pray for you.

  • @cheryldoorbar7187
    @cheryldoorbar7187 Před 29 dny +49

    I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I haven’t noticed weight gain or Emily’s skin, but even if I had, I certainly wouldn’t comment. You two and your channel are a joy.

  • @JamesMostowski
    @JamesMostowski Před 29 dny +64

    I’m glad that you made this video. I was an only child and when I was 59, I got a call from my mother’s oncologist telling me that she would have to be in hospice due to lung cancer. My wife handed me a box of clothes & my insulin and said go! I spent the next few months taking care of her before she passed. I was lucky to have the support of my wife and two daughters, just as you had with your sister(s). I’m now LCHP and have lost between 70-80 lbs. and finally got my diabetes under control. All I can say is it eventually gets better!

    • @nancyrossi3903
      @nancyrossi3903 Před 29 dny +2

      You are a blessing. My husband of 34 years died in 2020 after many years of illness and disability. I started watching you somewhere around that time. I appreciate you and adore you. You have been a bright spot and a joy in my life though some of my darkest years. I am so grateful to you. Your dad was awesome. My husband's personality was similar. He was sweet and funny and not Mr. Fix-it too. Your both so beautiful, super smart and seem to understand that critical, insensitive people are damaged and how their lack of restraint and officious

    • @gaildalton3155
      @gaildalton3155 Před 28 dny

      Sarah and Emily, I'm so sorry for your loss.
      As a person that has taken care of both my mom and dad, and also my father in law I know where you're coming from.
      I told my FIN, that it was an honor to have taken care of him and my parents.
      Just remember this, God chose you, you've completed the mission, and given much honor to your family, especially your dad. God bless you both. You are lovely and beautiful inside and out. Love you guys!

  • @sharonbruno2789
    @sharonbruno2789 Před 26 dny +3

    My husband died of pancreatic cancer 5 years ago on the 19th of this month. I can’t say that I know your experience, but I support you totally. I know your dad is so very proud of you both.

  • @frannharrison4204
    @frannharrison4204 Před 26 dny +2

    Screw the bums that make unkind comments. I have walked the path that you both were on and I know how hard it was. Unless you have been through this hideous cancer you can't imagine how life changing it can be. God be with you both.

  • @jenenegreen4731
    @jenenegreen4731 Před 29 dny +40

    I took care of my dad when my mom died. They were married for 60 years and so in love. The doctor said my father had COPD so severe that he had 6 months to live. I made the decision to move in with him, and he lived five years! We traveled and had fun. Then, on my 59th birthday, he went to be with my mom.

  • @BT-qc7wy
    @BT-qc7wy Před 29 dny +81

    My dad had colon cancer at my wedding and rolled him down the aisle with me. His Dr. Told me he lived longer so that he could see me get married. He died two weeks after. Like yours, my dad was a very special man. I am sorry for your loss and know that at some point, you will smile at the memories instead of cry. You are both wonderful daughters and he was proud of you. That is wonderful.

    • @1963freemanful
      @1963freemanful Před 27 dny +2

      I love you both and people are cruel. I just lost my dad and I'm a mess. I miss my Dad so much. I understand: how you feel. I couldn't tell you gained weight or you skin was having issues. Those kind of people are A-Holes. Luckily you girls have each other ❤❤❤

    • @CoalMiningAlchemist
      @CoalMiningAlchemist Před 25 dny +1

      ​@@1963freemanfulI'm sorry for your loss- I know it's so difficult. 💔

    • @1963freemanful
      @1963freemanful Před 25 dny +1

      @@CoalMiningAlchemist thank you🤎🫂

  • @cynthiaschoonover146
    @cynthiaschoonover146 Před 24 dny +3

    Wow, you two just described almost exactly what happened to me and my sister. We lost dad from a form of leukemia in 22, and helped my mom through it, while having lots of other things going on in our lives. I understand your story completely and my heart goes out to you both. What endures is the amazing love and life we shared together. Priceless!

  • @altheamcnabb2829
    @altheamcnabb2829 Před 22 dny +2

    I've taken care of 3 dieing family members. It's extremely hard. Especially when you ask for help, to get a break and don't get it. It then becomes heart wrenching.

  • @kknight2828
    @kknight2828 Před 29 dny +35

    People are rude. You two are both beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. Cancer is horrible. My father is battling it now.

  • @rebeccaderby2108
    @rebeccaderby2108 Před 28 dny +46

    You are both rays of light on CZcams! You are stronger than you know. Your dad sounds like a remarkable and loving man. Hold on to your precious memories of him. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing what’s been going on. You have a lot of support out here! You are loved! 🥰

  • @chitza3270
    @chitza3270 Před 26 dny +4

    My dad died 4 months ago on my 60th birthday. I had been working three days a week and driving 4 hours one way to help take care of him for the other days. Yes. I gained weight, too, and only half-a$$ed my keto diet. I wouldn’t trade one pound or fifteen for the time I had with him. I thought I knew how much I would hurt, but the depth of my sorrow was unexpected. A friend told me that my dad was obviously a good man to inspire so much sorrow. I still cry on nearly a daily basis. I hold you guys with me now when I miss him. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @joane8651
    @joane8651 Před 23 dny +2

    I'm all goosebumps and crying for you. I just turned 80, watched my Dad, Mom, Brother, sister, Grandparents, Ex husband, AND BFF all leave, Best Friend, Barb, was the worst. No wonder I've been having trouble losing weight, never thought about it this way. You both were brave, wish I had known sooner. Please keep connecting with us, any way you choose. Love you both.

  • @hollygorrell2262
    @hollygorrell2262 Před 29 dny +51

    My condolences! People online can be jerks! I hadn't noticed any weight gain. At your height 15 lbs. is nothing. Your dad sounds like a great guy!

  • @dwfaught
    @dwfaught Před 29 dny +37

    I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to an amazing man that you two are.

  • @lisae1032
    @lisae1032 Před 26 dny +2

    Ladies, you got me started with laughs and fun for my Keto journey 2 years ago! I'm praying for healing with memories of your Dad spurring you on! May all your future dreams come to pass. I can't thank you enough for your commitment to strangers like me!!!

  • @sosunny233
    @sosunny233 Před 23 dny +2

    I am so proud of you two! I lost my dad on May 20, 2023, and had the honor of caring for him in our home. My dad was 95 and had a wonderful life. But I understand my whole life has changed; this is the hardest thing I have had to do so far. I’m on Keto, and you two have helped a lot. I gained weight during my dad’s last two years, so I understand.
    I support you and pray the heavy weight of grief passes soon.
    Lesli M.

  • @billmonday3532
    @billmonday3532 Před 29 dny +51

    At 74 years old, I am living without my father and mother. I lost a sister to breast cancer. One thing you two have of your father is a love of life. What we all should do is live the best life that we can to honor our parents gift. I see this in you two.

    • @JeanneF77
      @JeanneF77 Před 28 dny

      I’m 77 lost my mom, dad and older (by 4 yrs) best friend/sister as well in last 6 yrs. I miss them all but glad I moved in with my mom and dad before they passed.

    • @pamalajuenger1562
      @pamalajuenger1562 Před 28 dny

      Big hugs!! I took care of my dad before he passed. You two are such a blessing to us in the keto community! What a sweet tribute to him!

  • @user-wr7yl7xp8d
    @user-wr7yl7xp8d Před 29 dny +37

    Thank you for sharing. Life is hard sometimes and we cope with it in myriad ways. Not one of the mean commenters would handle cancer any better than you did.
    I will continue to follow you in all your platforms. Your dad would be so proud of all you are accomplishing.
    Sending love.

  • @cajuncraftysue
    @cajuncraftysue Před 24 dny +2

    My mother died of cancer last Mother’s Day 2023. I had just left to go home & she died the next morning. It was hard. I understand what you went through. Everyone grieves differently. Grieve however you need to grieve. It’s a process. Much love! ❤❤❤

  • @lenihauer7896
    @lenihauer7896 Před 16 dny +1

    Losing a parent is SO hard. I’m 72 so mine have been gone for a long time. I still miss them. Part of your dad’s legacy is sending your joy out to us via your channel. Thank you for sharing.❤️

  • @53sheri
    @53sheri Před 29 dny +13

    I have a blood cancer too. The transfusions are an all day event. I was scared to get a bone marrow biopsy because of the bad reviews on the Internet. It was a piece of cake. I didn't feel a thing. So if anyone is avoiding because they are scared go for it. I love that you were there for your parents. They raised beautiful daughters inside and out. God bless you and your family.

  • @americangirl6029
    @americangirl6029 Před 29 dny +34

    You two were so strong and I am absolutely gob smacked how you kept yourselves together with so much going on. I know he is watching over you both, laughing away at what you two are up to. Know he is so very proud of you both. (I won’t say was, because his soul is still very much alive). I am so very sorry for your loss. My family and I will keep you two and your family in prayer. Love to your Mom as well. 🙏❤️

  • @12044m
    @12044m Před 26 dny +2

    So sorry. I took care of my daughter who had cancer till she died. It’s very hard. You don’t always tell others about your life. Keep up the good work.

  • @beckieespitiapate7335
    @beckieespitiapate7335 Před 26 dny +1

    I remember telling you guys once that I could be your long lost triplet. Same dry humor, same delivery, etc. the day before my mom passed away our water heater broke and leaked all the water into my bedroom and bathroom. My dad was bedridden for many years before he passed away. There was a lot of going back and forth to the hospital. I was a big daddy’s girl. I felt so much in limbo. It was the worst time of my life. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are not alone in what you are going thru. Please know that you will be in prayers from this day forward. Love you guys.

  • @doggoneme3863
    @doggoneme3863 Před 29 dny +34

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢😢 my mother passed away from this. You are both so beautiful, and don't let anyone get you to think otherwise.

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +2

      AML is rare, and yet so many others have been affected in our community. ❤️❤️

  • @7995writer
    @7995writer Před 29 dny +19

    You two are the best daughters your dad and mom could ever have asked for.

  • @cherylderogatis6768
    @cherylderogatis6768 Před 25 dny +2

    I lost my Mother in 2020 & my Father in2021. It’s never easy to lose your parents. I love your channel ❤ 🙏

  • @delaineharvey5177
    @delaineharvey5177 Před 22 dny +1

    So very sorry for your loss… A great dad is a treasure! You two ladies will always be my favorites on my keto journey. You keep it real!

  • @jeanvignes
    @jeanvignes Před 29 dny +16

    I completely understand, y'all. When my brother died I stopped wearing makeup for work because I was sobbing uncontrollably seven or eight times per day. Then I might be hysterically laughing about something adorable he did or said while he was dying of kidney cancer. Then I'd see someone on the street who looked like him and I had to circle the block to get one more look at "him". The roller-coaster of emotions does diminish over time, but it takes months to years. Don't worry about us. Take care of yourselves and don't let anyone on CZcams add one molecule to your burdens.

  • @julieweber2155
    @julieweber2155 Před 29 dny +19

    I am deeply sorry for your loss. You hid your pain, suffering and grief well. I pray this video you made will help your healing process. You two are very creative, funny and beautiful, as well as devoted to your parents. You will never ever regret one single moment you spent at the hospital supporting your dad. He must have been so proud of you both.

  • @gp4708
    @gp4708 Před 23 dny +1

    I love that he laughed at your channel!! And we all need to remember that none of us get to stay. Bless you and live your lives to the fullest!!! You're both awesome!!!

  • @lilirobin7136
    @lilirobin7136 Před 24 dny +1

    My husband passed in 2016. I don't remember alot since I was sooo tired but my husband was always cheerful and positive. He said it was God's plan and he would be in heaven and would be in a better place. Life is a journey and your Dad was blessed to have such beautiful loving successful daughters. Real beauty is inside and you two are always shining beauties.

  • @rebeccadunehew8768
    @rebeccadunehew8768 Před 29 dny +24

    Lost my Daddy in 2017 to lung cancer so I can relate. I was 55 at the time but I was still his little girl. To all the people who feel the need to boost themselves up by pointing out that you gained a little weight or had skin issues...go get a life. Girls, you are both beautiful and this will get better. I don't focus now on the months leading up to his death now and you will get there, too. Prayers and love to you both.❤

  • @sherylp.7212
    @sherylp.7212 Před 29 dny +29

    I've been keto almost 3 years and watching your channel the entire time. Not just for the great recipe ideas and cooking dips and tricks😅, but for the entertainment value. It has made this keto lifestyle fun! So thank you. And, I'm truly sorry for your loss.
    Viewers that make negative comments are NOT your followers. They are just scroll trolls with no lifestyle whatsoever.

  • @mariecohen3578
    @mariecohen3578 Před 25 dny +1

    You are definitely winners, and I for one really appreciate the bits of fun that you’ve provided over the last couple of years. You’ve definitely helped me on my journey. So thank you.

  • @sharonrusso6994
    @sharonrusso6994 Před 25 dny +1

    I’m in awe of you! To keep up filming and walk the fires of losing your Dad is incredible! Who cares about weight gain when you have such emotional pain. Fifteen pounds…that is a win! Please, know that most people understand your pain and those who don’t…karma is gonna bite them! Our hearts are with you!❤❤

  • @krish5682
    @krish5682 Před 28 dny +20

    Ladies.....WHAT WONDERFUL daughters you are. I had 1 child that got an aggressive cancer in 2015 at the age of 34. We quilt our jobs and went to California to help his wife and 4 daughters. I have struggled with my weight my entire life and ended up gaining 100 pounds that year. He died 10 days before his 36th birthday. 9 years later I still struggle. This is a journey to move forward again. It will take the time it takes. Hugs and prayers as you Navigate these coming years.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KetoBicyclist
    @KetoBicyclist Před 29 dny +32

    I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I have watched my Mom die from lung cancer, my birth-mom die from pancreatic cancer, and my step-mom die from metastasized breast cancer that spread to her spine and skull. My father also died suddenly less than a year before my step-mom died. As I watched today it brought all of that back. I feel for you both so much. I know how hard it is to keep giving 100% to your work, and when you are grieving and going through this stuff. It takes more than you have. I want you both to know that I so enjoy your videos and that you are not alone. Sometimes our self-care suffers. Love to you both and your family.

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +2

      Wow, we are so sorry for all of your losses. Thank you for your kind words

    • @x-mess
      @x-mess Před 29 dny

      My condolences to all of you.. 💔❤️‍🩹I don’t know how you guys kept working… i had to quit when my father was passing away in the hospital… you guys are tough! It would be appreciated to talk about grieving and self care… it’s part of the journey.

  • @staceyharding816
    @staceyharding816 Před 24 dny +1

    Emily and Sarah THANK YOU for being REAL. You made a promise to your father and kept it. Family matters MOST. Not a job. Not status. Not looks. I am SO sorry for your loss. Your Dad is looking down and smiling because he is so PROUD of you ❤

  • @HollyWaznik
    @HollyWaznik Před 22 dny +2

    Bless you both for honoring, respecting, and caring for your beloved father❤ Well done.

  • @jennifermoody487
    @jennifermoody487 Před 29 dny +17

    I feel honored that you shared this with us. It is so dificult to lose your father, and then to talk about it. My Daddy died 10 years ago in June. Momma died three years later. While I am nearly 67, those were some of the hardest moments of my life. I want you to understand that those of us who became interested in your channel due to being overweight think that you two are both extraordinarily nice looking and that includes your bodies. I had no hint that either of you had gained a pound let alone 15 lbs. I started a keto (or technically keto) diet last September largely because of you two and am now down a little over 30 lbs. My doctor, at my six-month check up last week, was so impressed. Just let us know when you start the new channel, but please keep this one, too. I love the recipes! Cauliflower rice is delicious, and your orange chicken is fantastic! Oh, I did the drying of the cauliflower rice in the oven last time and it came out great! We love it! 😘💗

  • @kflan3342
    @kflan3342 Před 29 dny +21

    I am so sorry for your loss. You will never ever look back and regret the time spent with your father. Prayers for you in your season of grief. Pooh on people who feel free to criticize or make unkind comments. Just POOH...

  • @pearlmockenbird
    @pearlmockenbird Před 26 dny +1

    Girls don't apologize, u were there for your dad and that's all that matters. I really like your idea to discuss life at 30, life at 40, life at 50 and the ups and downs that women go through. How we all fall and how we all get back up again. No rants, just discussion and sharing. Very sad for your loss but happy he was caring enough not to make u suffer with him.

  • @michellevaccaro8639
    @michellevaccaro8639 Před 22 dny +1

    Very sorry about your dad. I lost my dad in my 30s as well and didn't have a healthy relationship with food to hold onto. I am 68 now and still miss my dad every day. I hope our channel subscriptions show our support. My daughter and I watch your channel because we have no time to investigate the whole internet. So, thank you for all you do to help us out here. Hugs

  • @BullDurham12321
    @BullDurham12321 Před 29 dny +21

    Praying for you guys. I’m so sorry. You guys are so tough and I love how supportive your dad was. ❤ Also, I honestly didn’t notice and still can’t tell you have gained weight but my goodness, who wouldn’t gain weight going through that. You’re both as beautiful as ever. Thank you for sharing the videos of your sweet Dad.

  • @jen1778
    @jen1778 Před 29 dny +19

    So very sorry for your loss. It’s a hard time in your life. Give yourself some grace and time to heal and spend time with your mom. ❤ ❤

    • @technicallyketo
      @technicallyketo  Před 29 dny +2

      Thanks Jen, we are taking turns having sleepovers at moms ❤️

  • @ReneeHarveyDuh
    @ReneeHarveyDuh Před 26 dny +1

    I bet your dad saw in your videos what we all see. Lots of people make recipe content or diet content or even keto content on the internet but what you bring to the genre is a populist scientific approach, and I now understand where it came from. Your way of approaching things like an experiment and comparing different trials with different outcomes, without being super technical about any of it, and laughing at every misstep, is so special and endearing and is part of your dad's legacy continuing on it you. I'm so glad he got to see you take your own version of his gifts and make a success of it your own way. That's what every parent wants.
    Yes there were videos the past year and a half where it really did look as if you were going through something. I understand why now you couldn't talk about it, because you knew dad would see it. And I think you made the right call and I have so much respect for both of you for everything you've survived and powered through. I hope you continue to make content for us for many many years to come. I'm so sorry for you loss.

  • @carrieivey3080
    @carrieivey3080 Před 23 dny +1

    I’m so sorry about the loss of your dad! I lost my mom in early 2023. You served both of your parents faithfully! Well done! That is a huge win!

  • @dagnolia6004
    @dagnolia6004 Před 29 dny +15

    grief never becomes less, just less often. you are LUCKY that you had the opportunity to take care of your dying father. bless you for inheriting your dad's humor!

  • @KarenJ214
    @KarenJ214 Před 29 dny +17

    So sorry for your loss 😢
    I agree with y'all that only gaining 15 pounds is a success. You two have lots to offer this community!
    Your dad was obviously very proud of y'all!
    The pictures and videos were very precious! Thank you for sharing your hearts with us!

  • @sharonann530
    @sharonann530 Před 27 dny +1

    My wonderful husband passed 4 years ago. I could barely breathe most days. I still cry. You both showed incredible strength and devotion. We live in a world with wonderful people and cruel people, so just continue to be strong, cherish the happy memories, cry when you must, and ignore those who say hurtful words. They will never measure up as you have. May God bless you and keep you in His loving care. ❤

  • @laurenskelton226
    @laurenskelton226 Před 23 dny +2

    Emily and Sarah = My goodness you have been thru it! So proud of the way you handled everything. So very sorry for your loss. Your Dad sounds like such a blessing! He has had two great daughters and it sounds like he knew it even more once he saw your videos. What a fun thing for him to learn about at such a difficult time of his life. Thanks so much for sharing your life with us. You went thru all this amazingly well in terms of Keto etc. Big WIN! You both are an inspiration to many. So glad your channel is going well. Ignore the trolls! You two are terrific.