I Was Engaged At 25 , How Can I Stop Thinking Of Her? YouTube
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- čas přidán 10. 03. 2024
- What if you get engaged at a young age and it did not work out? let see if your approach to such scenarios is or have been right is you had or having such experience.
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I still thank Merhan, may God protect her. I'm glad I came across your channel. Maybe it's even better to always accept the uncertainty, because the answers to the questions are usually just supposed to calm our brain. I keep trying to get help through her videos. You have to know that in Germany Hocd is a catastrophe. At the end of the videos they just say stuff like yes, homosexuality isn't a bad thing or those affected by Hocd are in the bi-spectrum. Her videos, on the other hand, are very touching because they understand those affected by Ocd.
You are not bi, you are not changing to homosexuality. This is HOCD you are not milk to be milk one day then become sour milk if you stay outside then become yogurt and then someday become cheese. We are what we are born as and stay that way biologically but in the meantime the brain can go through malfunctions and the same malfunctioning brain will be suggesting to you that you are bi or changing in orientation but this is the same brain that is in the glitch of malfunction and your awareness is the one that is seeing the contradiction and is sounding questions. If you were anything other than heterosexual then you would not even notice the suggestions of the brain or the changes and would not see any contradiction between what the brain says and what you prefer and have been and want to continue to be. There are ways to rewire your brain and help it to get back to it's default setting and understand the hocd glitch and how to manage it and live your life as ever before HOCD.
Du bist nicht bi, du wechselst nicht zur Homosexualität. Das ist HOCD, du bist keine Milch, um eines Tages Milch zu sein, dann wird sie zu saurer Milch, wenn du draußen bleibst, dann wirst du zu Joghurt und dann eines Tages zu Käse. Wir sind das, als was wir geboren wurden, und bleiben es auch biologisch, aber in der Zwischenzeit kann das Gehirn Fehlfunktionen durchmachen, und dasselbe Gehirn mit Fehlfunktionen wird Ihnen suggerieren, dass Sie bi sind oder Ihre Orientierung ändern, aber das ist dasselbe Gehirn, das in der Lage ist Es liegt ein Fehler vor, und Ihr Bewusstsein ist derjenige, der den Widerspruch sieht und Fragen stellt. Wenn Sie etwas anderes als heterosexuell wären, würden Sie die Anregungen des Gehirns oder die Veränderungen nicht einmal bemerken und würden keinen Widerspruch zwischen dem, was das Gehirn sagt, und dem, was Sie bevorzugen, waren und weiterhin sein wollen, erkennen. Es gibt Möglichkeiten, Ihr Gehirn neu zu vernetzen und ihm dabei zu helfen, zur Standardeinstellung zurückzukehren und den HoCD-Fehler zu verstehen und zu erfahren, wie Sie damit umgehen und Ihr Leben wie eh und je vor HOCD leben können.
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@@MehranDadbehDanke!! Auch wenn das Gehirn sagt du ekelst dich nicht oder nicht genug oder du leugnest nur, vielleicht stehst du auf dein gleiches Geschlecht usw? Wenn solche Gedanken kommen bekomme ich ständig Panik Attacken und innere Unruhe und möchte sowas nicht denken.
Merhan, please answer my question here because I'm translating it into my language. I'm a man (hetero) happy in a relationship with my girlfriend but when I'm too much in the Hocd loop again, very strong thoughts come to mind that I find my same gender attractive, be it on the street or on social media. Then I try to tell myself that they are just thoughts, so I automatically neutralize them, but I don't want to do that either because I just want to continue living my life without interpreting the thoughts. But then thoughts keep coming up like you just don't want to accept that you're gay, maybe you're bi, maybe you're just in denial. Then I have a panic attack and I feel very warm inside and I think constantly, my mood goes down and I become sad. Do you have any advice you can write without saying things like find a therapist or get into a Skype conversation? I would be really grateful to them. Just don't want to always feel uncomfortable when I see my same gender and just want to continue enjoying my heterosexual life without my mind constantly saying I'm in denial.
23, From Germany
This is constantly followed by thoughts like: “You are not disgusted by these thoughts or you are not disgusted enough by these thoughts” or you are just afraid to admit it. But I know myself and I don't want that thought because I swear to you when I didn't have hocd I was the happiest person and when my hocd gets weaker I'm always the happiest person. I always enjoy life, enjoy my relationship, and enjoy doing things with my friends. But if these thoughts are so strong and I'm in this hole again then I just don't want to live.
This needs interactive discussion and I can not just put in writing the discussion we should have to help you understand the way to deal with this stages of hocd. My services has been providing about 3000 videos which about a 100 is on OCD and HOCD they are available to you 24/7 my live streams are also free of charge but this is my business and expertise and if I want to be helpful I best have the chance to interactively engage in this conversation and that would mean either a Skype appointment or number of paid question sent to me through my site so I can record points of view sand discussions and send them to you to hear and benefit from. This is not managed by just a response to your concern through a comment here Malik.
I know , I understand, but this needs discussion not in comment section Malik.
@@MehranDadbeh Ok danke sehr Sir, aber bekommen sie öfter solche Fragen von Leuten die ich gestellt habe. Also habe die Leute die unter Hocd leiden ihnen auch so ähnlich fragen oder Erfahrungen schon einmal geschildert? Weil dann versuche ich meine Antworten erstmal in ihren Videos zu finden.
@@MehranDadbeh I didn't know there was a fee. to ask questions. I would be happy to send you my question for a fee. I trust them as people and I thank them for their work.
@@Karim_55885 Ja, ich bekomme ständig solche Fragen und noch mehr. Manche Leute vereinbaren einen Termin für einen privaten Skype-Chat, andere zahlen eine Gebühr für eine Frage und ich würde meine Antwort bis zu 5 oder 6 Minuten lang aufzeichnen und ihnen die Aufnahme per E-Mail schicken, damit sie sie anhören können. All diese Fragen wurden jedoch bereits in verschiedenen Videos auf meinem Kanal ausführlich beantwortet.