The 5 Regrets Of The Dying: Life Lessons Everybody Learns Too Late... | Bronnie Ware
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What do you think you might be saying on your deathbed? Will you be looking back at your life with a sense of joy and completeness, or, do you think that perhaps you might be consumed with regret? As this week’s guest shares, “It’s easy to assume that you will live with great health to a ripe old age, then die peacefully in your sleep wearing your favourite pyjamas but it doesn’t work out that way for most people…”
Bronnie Ware is an internationally acclaimed speaker and author of the bestselling memoir, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. Published more than 10 years ago, it’s been translated into 32 languages and continues to attract new audiences. The book is about her eight years as an end-of-life carer, the close relationships she formed, and lessons she learned from those dying people, which changed her life forever.
In this conversation, we discuss some of the various regrets of the dying and what they can teach us so that we can live better lives, right now. We talk about the concept of choice.
Everything we do, or don’t do, has a price - be it time or money. Our culture incentivises what we can measure - salaries, possessions, status, social media ‘likes’ and comments. But Bronnie urges us to realise the sacredness and value of our time.
Is something a choice worth making if it means you have to sacrifice time with your loved ones? Is it worth pushing extra hard for the promotion that may bring you more money but also more stress and more time away from home? These are decisions that I think we all need to wrestle with from time to time if we are truly going to be living a contented and intentional life.
We also talk about the real meaning of regret, what it means to be courageous, and how self-compassion can help us see our mistakes as a natural part of life and growth. Importantly, Bronnie also defines the qualities and habits she observed in those patients who reached the end of life with no regrets - what can we learn from these people?
Death can be a topic that many people shy away from discussing but Bronnie is a wonderful soul who is able to talk about death in a relatable, powerful and authentic way. Appreciating we are going to die is the first step to getting more out of life.
This really was a thought-provoking and intimate conversation. I hope you enjoy listening.
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There is no regret for wise & sages, life is an experience & learning certain lessons to become better from past inclination & obsession. Everything is destined. Only cinema drama can be altered inbetween not the outcome.😂 It's natural evolution of human conciousness.
Hi Dr Rangan. I respect everyone’s opinions. I’m hoping I can help others through my life journey and experiences so far. The advice I would give someone starting right now if they told me they feel like they working too much or too hard. I would tell them to stop worrying about what other people think and want of you and start living your life. Ask yourself what makes you happy.
Stop wasting time thinking about what you could have would have should have done differently. And start living a life that’s true to yourself. Life starts when you start living in the present moment because in spending time worrying about what you would regret on missed opportunities or Or anything you’re unhappy with, you’re just spending more time regretting. And not living.
Happiness is something everybody should have. I hope this will help someone.🎡😘🦋✨🌸🌺🌍🐝🪞🎼🦉🌲🌙🎵🙏🪐💻🐦⬛😂💭🔥🪽🙃🦅🧬⏰🎡
...hey, strange question, but what's the emblem on your shirt in this vid?
I have to say at 65 years of age the one thing I've learned is regrets don't serve me. Sure we have them but this will not be on my lips on my deathbed If I'm able I will be engaged in listening and singing to music hugging kissing and/or saying thank y'all and I love y'all. Even if I'm alone. That's all folks.
Lovely message!
I have always said I would do just this......... be engaged in listening to music..... Jim Reeves, preferably....... and humming.... Please God🙏
Me as well as long as I am on earth I still have regrets because I never got to do anything. Because it was not my life I loved i.was told how to live it😊
I’d be next to you and holding your hand giving you kisses and hugs❤
Avoiding regrets by not acknowledging them is closing yourself off to valuable internal feedback. If you are managing to balance your life adequately without introspection, god bless you. But for the rest of us, we need to listen to those danger signals from inside. We need not to be in denial about how we can be destroying our own lives and putting ourselves in a position of deathbed regrets. Listen to yourself.
Live True to myself
Don't work hard and kill your self smell the roses
Express yourself fully
Stay in touch with all Friends
Allowed myself to be happier
Brings to mind the Bertrand Russell quote, ''The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.".
I have a job that allows me to consume massive amounts of CZcams content while I work. I listen to channels like this one... not mind-numbing channels that just entertain. I rarely comment. THIS... is one of the most significant, moving, and powerful podcasts that I've had the pleasure to experience.
I am the same. I am fortunate enough to work from home full time post pandemic. Pre pandemic I was in the office 5 days a week! It’s the same job. And now I can listen to podcasts all day which is amazing
what job is it?
@@ringthealarm8215 I’m an Executive Assistant
I can’t work at the moment, but when I was a Legal Secretary, we often had long periods of down time - since I had to stay at my desk in case I was needed, I got a lot of learning in, researching health and other things that were thought-provoking! I love watching him and also “Diary of a CEO.”
I feel exactly the same as you about tv/internet. I can’t seem to get my husband to appreciate the value in shows that give you an opportunity to enhance your own viewpoints and also allow you to consider perspectives you otherwise might haven’t thought of.
It’s a wonderful blessing to continue seeking growth & various viewpoints - rather than mindlessly allowing useless “entertainment” to pollute your mind.
“Massive amounts”
I basically did whatever I wanted to when I wanted to for half of my life. Then I had a son. I tell him I love him and give him a hug every morning and every night. He is 30 years old now. Most of my family and my close friends all died when they were in their forties. I have always known how fast life can be yanked away. Hug your kids. ❤
Can I ask how old are you? I also enjoyed my life for a good portion of my life and then I had a son too. I also do hug and say that I love him so much every day.
I am sure he is not married yet.
I want this type of freedom
@nadezda9873 and if he does, he will be a loving Husband thanks to his mama
I got to mid 40s and the biggest regret was convincing myself I had regrets. Regrets are such a waste of time. They are dependent on your own present self evaluation. If you're feeling bad... it's hard to see how great you are and what you have achieved.
I'm 72, just found this channel, been very helpful, maybe my regret will be I didn't realize the trauma I lived with, so my regret is I didn't seek the help , but maybe I will be grateful I realized it was not me, it just took me a lifetime to understand. Blessings to all.
It's not too late Mary.... you might seek out a good experienced IFS therapist (that's the therapy Dr Chatterjee raves about), or if you'd rather work at the level of your biology and not 'go there' then Organic Intelligence is a very very gentle pleasurable route to healing. Or, really, any therapy that draws you. And there are always people out there offering sliding scale, if needed. Good luck!
72 Mary you waited longer than me. Unless you have been on here for a while
You can make each day magic from here and now~ magic is miracles we participate in! Graces and serendipity, guidance too will come in the journey. 💜💐💖
This is a wonderful conversation. I lost one of my kids nearly 3 yrs ago. The first feeling I felt after sobbing so hard, was a feeling of nothing in this life is worth anything. The next day, I called people that did me wrong and apologized for what happened even it happened to me. I felt a relief and hoped that I touched their heart from the ugliness of greed ..
I don't know if made a difference but I tried. The last thing I wish anyone is to me sorry at time of death.. nothing is ever easy, is it?
Only doing nothing is.
Isn't it ?
Well done , you did something.
May deep relief express itself in love for each kid of yours, dad. Bless you, kind regards.
I lost my son in January 15 th 2022 I.lost my mom a week before I got my furniture and my son got sick at the same time. I.wss working 14.hour days and when I got back to my mom she didn't know who I was or.why.i.had not.come to see her and she quit eating and drinking water.. No wonder she didn't know me Before I left that day she tried to get up but she couldn't. And my son had gone blind and I checked all of his vitals and my sister in law said check his blood sugar. So I called him. And he was close to coma blood sugar was 1200 he had never been checked as a child or adult he was 6 3 and really thin with that came hashimotos hashimotos if not treated makes your heart very low and then you start to freeze.. it's a horrible death 3 days and he was gone. Because the doctor thought of us as less educated. Than.her. so my son should be here. My regrets is that I didn't kick that doctor ass lol I resent her almost to the point of hate but I did all the things that the Devine says to do and I am ready.to.live with passion in my heart and I am working out the kinks of finances
@user-tp3wz9tf7b I'm so sorry. Saw someone gain alot of weight. Next time I saw them very thin. Dragged them kicking and screaming to doctor. They were asking alot of questions then I said can someone do a blood sugar. They were close to 400. Urge anyone reading this get a second opinion or a third. Keep going until you get the right help. There are also Walk in clinics and Emergency Room. With anything keep going until you find the right help. Learned this at a late age.
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I’m still here after your summer break and appreciate that you actually do what you prescribe. I have a lot of respect for you 👏
Thanks so much for the support!
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Love this quote from the Baha'i Writings:"Let your vision be world-embracing, rather than confined to your own self"
I love that one that's so beautiful I was living in a small small world barely even left the house you my mom and the i m I don't ask you I've been asking my mom since it was for who I am so when God came to me as I am I kind of just forgot about that and now it's we or I am silence I am I am the silent note I am the silent note in a beautiful song the key that makes no sound no zero in the mayan calendar that we were never taught the importance of. The words I still hear the silence and they are important words. And I need to tell princess I interpeted her drawing and I was sitting at home crying and saying don't hurt them please don't. The man standing at top was a scientist and it didn't show the but they were bombing no don't hurt him going to hurt him they were they were that there are children but they're being bred should be more to be soldiers to control us things get out of hand they are half-animal half-human human human human not human clones in the reproduced until 56 weeks and placed in a womb probably where our kidnapped women are going with thier families one minute then gone
Biologist with a scientist not very good I hope those kids are safe and princess through that in 2020 I wanted bashar to go ✔️ on. Them who denies aliens. Well what do you think human and non human means. I think all three were there with me in spirit or in my dreams or hallucinations or lucid dreams or whatever when
Being aware of your priorities really matter. There are so many things that will ask for your time and attention. But I find that, if you are aware of your priorities (depending on the season of your life) then you reduce that feeling of fear of missing out.
About to turn 35 and this conversation really sparked some deep internal philosophical questions. Thank you! Life is a gift and im so grateful to live this experience
Get in touch!❤️📲
@@rafaelw8115 Or both? Peace on your journey 🙏
you're lucky. many cant wait until its over.
@@MikeSmith-rd9fi They have past karmas like that, their time has not come to know. They r not in a particular genetical body-mind to understand it yet. Maybe in next bodymind they will get opportunity to know.
I read Bronnie's book ten years ago, at the "right time", and it set me on a path of healing. Hearing this conversation today was the message I needed to remind me to keep striving for authenticity in my life. Thank you both! One of the best podcasts yet.
Meaning in life is about appreciating our existence in life. It is as simple as that. ❤
My husband has been battling cancer for a year and a half. He is getting close to the end of his battle. It never came easy for him to connect easily with our Grandkids. The other day he said, I wonder if Samuel (one of our Grandsons) loves me). I think this must haunt him.
This woman is an angel...you can see on her face the things that she saw...even her voice sound diffrent. Nice podcast, i love it💪💪💪
I had a gf named Stella passed abruptly at 40 yrs old. She was so full of life had dreams she was excited about. I honor her @ named my Malinois puppy Stella ❤😂
My friend, 44, single mom, attended her son's graduation and then, 6 weeks later, dead from a sudden medical emergency.
You never know. My heart is broken that I, an old woman, go on, and she wasn't able to.
Sending you and your beautiful Stella love .. 🙏
@@sidstovell2177😢 this is really dramatic and heartbreaking. You are definitely a very sensitive human. It seems unfair gof took her life who would deserve still lots of time as a mother, maybe even enjoy being a grandma some day. Do you regret not having children?
What a great talk, says me the eldest sibling, thank God pretty healthy at 77, with both parents and two of my youngest brothers already transitioned.
Once you release or share an idea or work its not ‘yours’ anymore loosening the attachment/ego to the sense of ownership is so helpful, then you create space for you and the greater community to lean in and benefit, Karma yoga, Bhakti yoga shared with love ❤️
What an amazing lady, Bronnie her voice is also so so kind and gentle, so nice to 'meet' her ! Thank you so, from Belgium
Yes, she certainly is!
I learn so much from every conversation I've listened to on this channel. You're a great interviewer with great guests.
Thanks so much Rob. Really glad the conversations are proving helpful
The thing that hit me hard was when he was talking about his dad. People assume they will live to a ripe old age but when you lose your father, uncle and even friends at a young age you quickly realize you have to live NOW! Even if you can afford not to work, we need the contrast between work and leisure but the work must never take over our entire lives. Unfortunately people have been trapped thanks to inflation and our fractional reserve banking system.
I am still at work at 8:28 p.m. (Montreal, Canada time). I have listened to this entire podcast.
You are both exceptional human beings.
I have absorbed every word like water to a sponge. Bronnie, your soft spoken exquisite wisdom is essential for everyone. My spiritual eyes & ears have been opened up. Ragan, your questions are..... phenomenal! So much perception and in-depth sensitivity. Thanks to your questions, Bronnie answers certainly touched a deep chord in my being.
I am always very appreciative watching your videos...but wow....this one is definitely right up there.
Thank you so very much. 🙏 I wish you peace & comfort regarding your Mum's medical condition 🙏
This is sooooo amazing. I'm not finished completely since I have to go to work but, so far I understand that we have certain amount of time and energy to invest on most important things in our lives, whatever it is and have no regrets at the end of our time. 3 things cane to my mind just the past 20 minutes I've listened: we have ego, some healthy some unhealthy. The fact is to acknowledge that how we react to it. Secondly: prioritize your life and get into it by making a choice and thirdly: We all are going to die, we might as well, review it before someone else write a book about our regrets.
I can't thank you enough. I was listening to Dr Joe Dispenza when my feed called me to listen to you before my work day starts.
My father in law is in the hospital with his last breath in Ecuador. We are in Canada 🇨🇦 and so much going on with regards to my partner's family arguments about inheritance, who should go there out of 7 kids in Canada and all other matters at hand. I am going to listen to this with my partner this evening and make a decision.
Wow
The timing 😊❤
Wow, what a deep and beautiful conversation. Thank you to the both of you for the synergy of your thoughts, and for sharing them with us.
I have very much enjoyed every single one of the many podcasts I've listened to on your channel but this one might be my favourite . It was wonderful to hear you say you don't care if you lose followers during the summer break, well done. I've started to think in this way over the past couple of years and it's changed my life in a very positive way
I love that you take summer break with your family! It's awesome modeling of a life lived on your terms...we all need to find our best life within the reality of our unique circumstances. It's a journey but we can always pause for those micro, mezzo, or macro time frames and gaze around being fully present in that experience.
@Chat__up___. love your podcasts and books! Keep taking your summer breaks ...we can all learn from your healthy example!
What a wonderful woman. I’d love to go for a meal with her and share experiences. So much of this conversation was hearing the right thing at the right time for me and I thank you both! ❤
Thanks for this interview! Something EVERYONE will appreciate and learn from. I can't wait to read it and pass it on!💖
It is hard for many of us to feel motivated to do the things I think we want to do. In my own case that's I think because my past efforts, when I have worked hard don't seem to have got me anywhere. Which isn't true because you learn a lot through doing but its natural to have doubts. As your guest indicated it took a lot of effort and trial to get to the good place where she is now in terms of success (in the widest sense). Worth hearing this again as its great advice from a beautiful lady.
Thank you! Having just lost my mother, this was a great message for self-reflection.
I wanted to say that we don’t know for sure how much of our love and care and words get through to our loved ones who are ill - physically or mentally. They have value regardless of whether they can “contribute” to the relationship as they used to do. In addition to that, holding their hands, talking to them, spending time with them also does something for US, as we do these things. It may not feel that way at the time, but we are being impacted in a positive and lasting way. When our loved ones are gone,
those times together can be a source of great comfort as we grieve and remember them. Thank you for this conversation.
When my mum had her stroke it was very hard to see the Changes that affected her being. But the love and support we gave to her throughout it all ,will always be memorable . It is very sad to see the ones we love suffering. Love your stories and messages ♥️. Thank you kindly for sharing. God Bless 🙌♥️🙌😇🙏
Terrific and so honest. We need to think about this routinely rather than towards the latter time of our life
I’m proud of you self! Thank you God for everything ❤❤❤
I'm so happy you're back! I've missed you over the summer but I admire your commitment to your family. (I was waiting for your return. My favorite youtube channel ❤).
Thanks so much Sandra. It is good to be back 👍🏾
Dr. Rangan, watching your videos has literary saved my life. Thank you so much.
Such a powerful message! Thank you for this message that can change so many lives!
My father died at 48 on his way to work. I know that life can be taken away at any moment.
One of the most beautiful conversations I have listened to. ❤
From Tanzania east Africa I will be waiting until you finish your summer retreat with your family.
May God protect you and your family during your vacation
THIS LADY has INCREDIBLE WISDOM, GRACE and also BEAUTY, BOTH on the inside and out!
However, with all DUE RESPECT to the TRUTHS that are being spoken in this eye-opening brilliant podcast:
"Birth is NOT the beginning and physical death is NOT the end".....A Course in Miracles.
Her work has been inspirational to me in my approach as an aged care worker. And it's a brilliant read beyond the 5 regrets, as a memoir. Onya Bron! ❤
Lovely chat today, thanks Dr Rangan 🙂
Rangan makes the point that remembering that in some way or another, nothing we produce is entirely original, we were provided info by others thoughts, ideas. Sometimes it is about ego.
Jim Croce "Cats in the Cradle" comes to mind listening to this. The song completely describes dad working to hard, son learns from his dad
This man is gorgeous......
What I hear? Live your life for YOU and screw everyone else. I totally agree. No regrets..
Amazing conversation. So honest, so profound. Wonderful
This was absolutely amazing. What an incredible conversation.
Thank you for this wonderful video and for bringing up the topic of burnout. Six weeks ago, I felt the need to take a break from a project I've been working on and take a break from social media (which I was using for promoting and networking related to the project). At this point, I'm not sure when I will return to it. I've been viewing this as a failure on my part, but as I watch this video, I realize it's not failure---it's medicine. This period of time that I've been on "break" won't be something that I look back on with regret at the end of my life. I will probably look back and think "Thank God I had the wherewithal to take that break."
I've now completely reframed things in my mind and I'm seeing this break as a success, not a failure. I realize now that, by taking this break, I'm winning at life. ❤☮
I like you taking a break, it gives me a break too. Wish more people would take a month or so off, everyone would have the opportunity to chill and not have FOMO of not watching an episode.
I always take extended breaks like a month or few lol. Have never had FOMO tho.
Just to let you know, I'm not big on subscribing to a whole bunch of channels. I listen to a lot of different ones but don't like being lumped in as a subscriber and having my home page over-curated. But when I heard that you purposefully take an extended break in the summer I jumped on the bandwagon. You now have another follower. Kudos to you for being balanced. I can get behind that!
Far too many people do what they are told to do. Wake up. Think for yourself. Question everything.
I personally feel that regret is a pointless exercise. No one can go back & change anything. That said, like everyone I’ve made plenty mistakes & if I could go back to certain times I’d do things differently. I’m coming up 65, not in the best of health right now & I wish I’d taken better care of myself physically & mentally instead of taking my health for granted but it is what it is. Fast forward to the end of my life I may well wish I’d taken more risks but that’s just not in my DNA! I won’t be feeling regret. And I don’t fear death. I’m not religious but on a spiritual level I believe I’ll be moving on to a new place & maybe that’ll be the place I embrace risk and I know there are loved ones already on the other side for me to return to. Thanks Bronnie & Dr Rangan.
I have followied this podcast for about a year now, I love everything about it. You can go for six weeks and enjoy your family, I will be here waiting for you!
Yes, people with dementia I have often found to be incredibly astute to the energy around them
If You enjoy wasting time, Your not wasting time !
Speak and write before dying. I Lived my life.
Ive taken breaks from listening to your show at times when the long format shows didn’t fit into my life, but I will always come back when I am in another place. I read your book " How to Make Disease Disappear" in 2018 and that was the kickstart to my health journey. I was looking to reduce inflamation, because I was suffering pain in my hands. I still get occasional pain in my fingers, but it is so much improved. One of your podcasts in 2018/2019 you were discussing barefoot shoes and that transformed my life. I run a restaurant and am on my feet all day. My feet were in so much pain all the time prior to switching to barefoot shoes. I almost never have sore feet anymore or lower back pain. Thank you so much for your podcasts.
A possible alternative could be to find out early on what you truly love doing then search for a career that matches this passion. Perhaps if your career/ job matches your passion you will not feel as stressed nor keep wanting to retire!! I’m one of the fortunate ones who really enjoys both my working days, my weekends and my holidays equally.
Brilliant podcast. Really got me thinking about many areas of my life and also triggered me in respect to some recent events of my life, but maybe in a good way!
Get in touch!❤️📲
Beautiful conversation between the two of you’s. Many thanks ❤
Our pleasure. Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to leave a comment
It feels a lot better knowing that there are people who are eager to continue to improve while keeping in mind that being perfect isn’t the goal. Creating my CZcams channel about self development was not easy to start. It took me years for contemplating before I finally did it and I’m glad I did.
Amazing insights!! Tough to put into practice, but definitely worth the effort! Congratulations on your channel, I've recommended it to all my friends. Regards from Argentina!
This is such a great conversation. Thank you!
Thank you for your beautiful message and energy Bronnie❤. Am going to purchase your book.
Thank you Jesus and thank you for the podcasts and valuable information shared. Pray as you go and be blessed. 🙏💕🕊
Thank you!
When I saw the headline of your interview. I said no way that's to heavy I cannot deal with a death story now. We just lost a family member during this Christmas 2023.
He was at a party surrounded by family, friends, love ones, good foods, music and drinks so fun and bam gone. Some how I felt the need to listen to your interview. After
I thought how intriguing is that to party your way out of this planet into the unknown. Thanks so much for this wonderful conversations.
I realized what a wonderful way to look at life and dying not only the words but how well you'll feed of each others and passe it on to us. Great energy! Keep smiling!❤😂😊❤
I totally agree with you to take a break you all need it. There are too many people that do the fill in's and I have never understood it at all. Be real you aren't working you will get burned out, it is the worst feeling. You certainly won't lose me to another content creator...I love listening to you and you are worth waiting for. Go enjoy your time off you are all so worth it. I don't like that work-life balance expression either lol...I thought it was just me.
Get in touch!❤️📲
I come from a life of immense hardship, and I've made it my life's mission to die without big regrets. So far, seeing these top 5, I'm good on the first 4. Number 5 is still challenging, but I'll take it to heart. Thank you for this beautiful conversation.
So grateful to have stumbled on this beautiful chat. Thank you! Loved the easy tone and respect you both have for each other and the topics discussed. Really lovely and although I am not out jogging!!!.....it struck me deeply. Namaste, with love xx
Good for you, I'm probably going to be on a 5-week hiatus anyway as I'm able to do in my life-after I stopped working so hard🎉🎉 and then I can look forward to your show when I come back !! Have a great holiday ❤
I am loving this interview.
Very inspiring to me to do what is true to myself.
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LOVE this conversation.... Been a nurse for a long time, including end of life care and everything talked about resonates with me! 🙏💝
SO good. Thanks for sharing this ❤❤
A thin line between being a victim and compassion… victim mentality doesnt serve any purpose but compassion brings best of you, for you 😍😍
What a great episode and a lovely lady. I've just shared this episode with my 19yr daughter also. Interestingly just finished reading 'Taking Stock' by Jordan Grumet which is on the same topic. Some real truths spoken in this podcast.
Also, thank you when you talked about regrets. I've carried for years what I thought were regrets, and do still beat myself up on them occasionally. Saying that you just "didn't know any better at the time" has really helped lift that burden.
Wow, so impactful. Timing, my hubs was diagnosed yesterday with Bowel Cancer, still raw and processing what lies ahead. Nothing wakes us up like death and diagnosis does, I will buy this book, what a beautiful soul.x
I’m sorry! Wishing you and hubby well!
Thoroughly enjoyed this interview👍🙏🙏🙏
Just finished listening to this amazing podcast! I take my hat off to you both 🫡
You are two wonderful, inspirational people! 💯 Respect ❤️ ❤🙏
So thankful and grateful to Dr Rangan for bringing beautiful and wonderful Bronnie to his podcast. Both of you are truly blessed for sharing your experiences to the world.
Thank you so much for this, Dr. Chatterjee. I needed to hear this at this point in my life right now. Ms. Bronnie Ware was an amazing guest. 🩵🩵🩵
I found this conversation at the right time - all of the sentiments mentioned here resonate with me deeply, especially making time and space to just be and not feeling guilty for it 🙏
I sometimes lose your content in the midst of an evolving dooming algorithm that works against me (self inflicted at times) but the honesty and authenticity in your conversations always brings me peace and back into my curiosity to grow and learn.
Thank you Rangan for being so true to yourself and wanting to share the knowledge to help others x
The Best Podcast's episode ever.
Life is an enormous problem. Even bigger than the planet itself.
I could listen to you both all night as well. Wonderful podcast! Reminds me of the NDE’s I’m listening to everyday 🩵
I regret being a "good girl" and not refusing to go with people who caused me grievous harm.
I regret living a life of fear of others and how they perceived me.
I wish I'd allowed myself freedom to be that authentic self - no matter what the cost ..
Now I'm stuck with a disease that's robbing me of my bodily movement .. sort of like the "freeze response" and fear I lived through all my life.
Desperately praying, visualizing "changing my reality" etc. in an attempt to save my life.
But I'm still going downhill.
Was supposed to die 2 years ago. I guess I'm just grateful for having the opportunity to learn.
Sorry .. Having a crappy day today .. 😮💨
I like the way they say its ok if someone finds a better show
Nice interview Doctor Chatterjee....
I think overall we all should follow what inner self actually love to do for the good sense of humanity..because after death this figure will be no more....if we accept mistakes positively then we can get peace and can progress...
Please can you do a podcast about your mother. Iv been through the same thing recently. Mum is 88. Went into hospital with strangulated hernia. Not the same now cognitively. Im really. struggling. Iv done certain things to help her cognition... diet supplements exercise.
I suddenly feel im the mother... and i just struggle with this. I haven't accepted it. This is the most moving video. Thank you
Unfortunately, often the meds given allow overgrowth of parasites (all viruses are parasites). I would try a gentle antiparasitic protocol . blessings
@@auntgertrude2717 thank you.🙂 Yes the antibiotics etc did it.
It is a powerful thing to have the very first authoritative voice ( by that I mean the person that helps you understand the world from babyhood) become an unreliable narrator. My mother had dementia and this would worsen after bouts of ill health. I learnt not to correct or try to get the story she was telling to conform to what I knew to be true. I had to stay in the now and appreciate what we could share and enjoy. The heart dies last and despite not being able to remember things or understand complex situation I am grateful that her loving heart reached out to her children and she was able to feel, express and receive love to the end. She died in June and though I felt grief, and still talk to her, this was perhaps mitigated by the grief I felt over the years at the loss of her sparkling mind.
@@bibphil5078 thank you for your reply. I really appreciate it.
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I had a midlife crisis 5 years ago and put most of these things (I am not the best at keeping in touch) to the forefront of my life. Hopefully, I will be dying with minimal regrets.
I bet my bottom dollar that there is a whole heck of a lot of people who regret living lives where they thought they were being true to themselves and regret not actually working harder for the benefit of their families. People who get interviewed and their dying moments are not people who fail in life. They're people who succeeded in life and are in hospital beds and nursing homes etc
I used to think i regretted not keeping in contact with my friends and then with the magic of Facebook i found out i missed nothing. As for work if i hadnt of worked so hard i wouldn't of had a family.
"Space is medicine" Agree 100%.
Thanks for this, really interesting conversation, hadn't heard of Bronnie, but had vaguely heard of the book, which I have just bought!
Beautiful and moving conversation thank you! Too bad there is so many ad interruptions!
you are a brilliant interviewer. very thoughtful questions that create a wonderful opening. thank you.
Very idealistic to think you can just walk away from a job causing burnout when that job is also the only way you're putting a roof over your head and food on the table, let alone save.
They're talking to a specific audience who have a choice. Not the young mother working a 12 hour night shift and struggling to keep food on the table and a roof over the heads of her family. While prices keep rising, and minimum wage can't keep up.
Admitting you have regrets doesn't help if you dwell of them. Realize what they were then move on, no more looking in the rear view mirror, that is the mistake that holds people from moving forward and enjoying life.
What I do, or don’t do, has a price , financial or emotional. At 70, I find looking back I wish I were a kinder person, less fearful, and more trusting. I'm alone now, each day passes by and another comes along much the same. I feel life has gone by So Fast and I've not really lived.
Very informative.