Why Your Girlfriend Talks To Other Men
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- čas přidán 10. 01. 2021
- Here’s why your girlfriend talks to other men and what it really means about her suitability as a romantic partner.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work for about two years and has read my first book, 3% Man, six times. Before finding my work, he was married five years and got divorced after his wife cheated on him. He has a new girlfriend of about four months. However, she is often texting, talking to, sometimes hanging out with and taking about a male coworker of hers. She lives about an hour and a half away. He has set healthy boundaries with her, but she seems unfazed by them. He asks what he can do.
“If your goal is a healthy, loyal, exclusive, monogamous relationship, the best way to not have to sleep with one eye open and to wonder if your partner is faithful, is to only date people who share the same goals and values who come from a family background where they learned loyalty and fidelity from their parents. Dating women who constantly talk fondly about and bring up other men in a complimentary manner that they spend time with, or talk to is not a good sign. This is typically how unfaithful romantic partners assuage their guilt for their devious and disloyal behavior.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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When I was broken hearted and having anxiety attacks after being dumped I used to listen to Corey to help me sleep. I'll never forget that
Damn I’m sorry man I can relate with you
I’ve been doing the same
@@chrissyprice7483 don’t worry man through prayer and following God you’ll find someone better and You’ll truly become the alpha your destined to be.
I didn’t get dumped but I go to sleep while this guy is saying “she’s for the streets”.
I was fktup too, this helped.
Here’s my 3-6-9 rule. She mentions him 1-3 times....no biggie yet. She mentions him 4-6 times....she’s into him. She mentions him 7-9 times....she’s doing him.
well played.
Subconscious is the biggest traitor lol and she doesn't realize it
With those numbers I agree.
My ex would talk about different guys that she worked. It would be one guy for a week or two then she would move on to the next guy fit a week or two.
Also, she sadly didn’t want to let any one down. So if she was at work and a guy asked for her number She would give her number out. Sad isn’t it? She couldn’t even tell the guy that she has a boyfriend
THank you....Great rule, I will apply this next time.
Then she ain't my girlfriend, she belongs to the streets!
Yeap, she’s ouuuuut! 😬😅
Put her out in the cold 🥶
She’s just a girlfriend... she’s not like a wife or whatever so she has the right to not be exclusive. Men constantly do this why can’t women?
@Charlie B women shouldn’t be exclusif to men who aren’t their fiancé. It’s normal for us to see if there’s better options.
@Charlie B she should keep dating other men without you knowing
“You can’t take things seriously when their actions don’t match their words.” Exactly what I need to work on!
Because they always have a backup plan. He even says it in the book that most women will line another guy up before she leaves you. Don't get mad, it's just female nature.
Well then ig we as guys should also do the same dont you think?
@@thesadnesspath8371 absolutely 100% correct. Even coach has said he's just a serial dater and there's nothing wrong with that. Plus it's always easier to get with other women when you're already dating other women for some odd reason.
yeah that’s because women like men who has options and they always want what they can’t have. Also learned that from coach haha
Date a woman who is interested in spirituality and is conscious and awake. You'll find that they're more loyal. Date a woman who is at least interested in self development and you'll find that the relationship has more raw honesty.
@@CharismaStrategies just one that has her own shit to do and doesn't NEED my attention all the time. It's just doesn't work BC I'm the complete opposite,I love being by myself,so then she starts to become needy
Bottom line is, you’ve got to give all the love and attention and affection, that you’re wanting from someone else, to yourself. Love yourself to the point that you don’t need it from anyone else. Accept if they offer, for it is the icing on the cake, but it is not the cake. You don’t need anyone else to tell you how badass you are. Who knows you better than you? Love yourself, stay true and take care of yourself and the rest will fall into place.
truest words ever spoken
I consider it self abuse to even consider loving someone else before you can even love yourself first!
So, no more no nut novembers?
Fantastic advice, that’s why I keep coming back to the comments for these reminders.
The other thing that should be acknowledged is that if she’s talking about a coworker of the opposite sex, regardless if she’s talking positively or negatively about him… All that matters is that she’s talking about him. This is a big sign that she’s interested in the coworker.
Because she's bored, has no hobbies, and wants attention
Pretty much!
The apostrophe police are coming knock knock knocking at your door, like it's 1984...
And add no job to that too...lol
@@ibuprofen303 lmaooooo
That's a her problem,this guy needs to realise it's not his responsibility to entertain a girl.
This is facts. If she's talking about other guys tell her it's not respectful and if she continues to, drop her. Two strikes she's out. It's not worth it to keep seeing her and she will not change. I just had to do this to a girl recently and I've done it multiple times in the past. No regrets and I sleep good at night.
This girl I work with has a "boyfriend" and not only wants to hang out with me all the time, she told me a week ago we're soulmates. What is this madness??? I asked her if her and her boyfriend were soulmates too, she didn't know how to answer that. If I was younger and dumber this wouldn't end up well. Thought I wanted to hear that from someone my entire life, and when it did happen it was like a horrible joke. Thank god with age comes wisdom, not trying to come up on the drama.
She would treat u the same way when u in a relationship some ppl are are just low
@@littlex6 Yep...totally. She literally cannot understand why I'm turned off and why I don't respond to her. It's sad, she's more or less the same age as I am, which is definitely old enough to know better.
The current boyfriend is just a staging post. To her you seem like a better option, but you would only become another stepping stone until better options stopped appearing, or if those better options declined her. Work with women and you will see this again and again. They have a never ending desire for both novelty and attention.
@@MrMatthewhg They're in a "relationship" where they only see each other on the weekends, and it's been going on for about a year. Always complains that he hasn't asked her to move in yet. She can't see that SHE's the one getting played. But to your point you are absolutely correct - more and more women in the workplace are like this. Been working with women unfortunately my entire professional career so nothing's shocking.
Was in a similar situation too..this woman is in a relationship but she keeps texting me to take her on dates & that she wants to see me & I'm her favourite person..one time I told her to come spend the night to which she responded.."we're just friends,I can't " ..to which I told her to leave me alone completely..so you want me to spend my money & time ,wine & dine you then at the end of the day have Tyrone thundercock fuck the shit outta you? Hehe no miss,,if I'm spending my money & time on you I want the full package
When your girlfriend talks to other men sets date you dump her end of conversation. There is always going to be someone else better around more men need to have that mindset.
Just talking to other men shouldn't be a problem.
However, talking about (frequently), texting frequently with, and want to hang out one on one, shouldn't be tolerated. It is disrespectful unloyal behavior.
In my naive past, I did tolerate this and blindly trust the women's words, 'because we live in modern times and it should be possible...'
They all cheated on me somewhere down the road. Especially when some things didn't exactly go her way or having little arguments.
its normal for them to speak to other guys, but its also normal for you to leave if you're not confortable with that
Cory is right. But also remember, don't worry about the guys she TELLS you about, worry about the guys she doesn't tell you about. Those are the bad ones.
I was just going to mention this. As a woman I can assure you if she's talking about it, she isn't doing it.
It is not even about sex, it's about respect. Hell, we can f**k around but the disrespect to keep bringing it "whether sex is involved or not" is not healthy for both sides.
@@akoganofficial n
@@ad6417 rule number one of the 3% men program, do not follow a woman's advice 😁
If she calls him "my friend" then it probably is just a friend in her eyes, if she calls him "a friend" then shes most likely banging him, planning to bang him, or already banged him
Whenever someone says “It came out of nowhere”, it automatically tells me that they are unaware, clueless & not paying attention. And the same holds true for automobile accidents. “The car just came out of nowhere!” No, you weren’t paying attention.
Sad but true
Or in denial
Sometimes a car can come out of nowhere in fairness, but not too commonly
If she talks to other men, you talk to other women. It works both ways. And, If she does other men, you do other women. Everyone wins.
Some girls will do it regardless if you react or not, so if that's the case ,she's probably insecure, so I advise you to run.
Here is what I have experienced in my life: if she's talking about a guy she's not related to, you're screwed. She's thinking about him to the point that she brings him up in conversation.
Years ago I had a girlfriend who took a 90 minute train ride into the city for work each day. One day she comes home and says "You'll never guess who I saw on the train today." She saw my friend's older brother. The last time I saw the older brother, he seemed a little too interested in the fact that I was dating her. When she told me she saw him on the train, I knew it was over. We split 2 months later and she married him 5 years later.
Things tend to work out exactly as they're supposed to, so keep that in mind.
Bet they'll split up in a few years from spending too much time together on the train LOL
@@dselect1383 good eye. Social media is another important thing to look out for. In late 2019 I had a chick I hadn't seen in 10 years come out of the woodwork. It started with her liking and commenting on some stuff I posted. That's the smoke before the fire.
Damn straight. The problem with this whole type of situation is that when a guy speaks up, he gets gaslit by both sides that he's being insecure, jealous, possessive, irrational, abusive etc.
In the early 90s I was dating a girl wo loved to cause drama. She started getting way too friendly with my roomate, but when I brought it up both of them belittled my concerns. This was way before even the internet, and I was young and confused.. it didn't feel right, but I wasn't sure what to do. They ALMOST had me convinced.. but I went to someone I trusted, my mother, and she told me to tell her to stop it immediately or I was going to break up with here right then and there. I think as a fellow female, she knew what was up.
So I forcefully gave her the ultimatum, and to my surprise, she instantly yielded and never talked to the guy again. In my case it wasn't because she wanted to fuck him, it was that she was shit testing me for being weak. I passed the test, and it was never an issue after than. She liked seeing me jealous, but when I put my foot down, she liked that even more. She was the type who used to test me a lot, and back then I had no one like Corey Wayne to guide me through it, just endless blue-pilled movies and 80s music to set the standard.
Too bad too, because she was a fiery hot Latina who rocked my world in the bedroom. We broke up a few years later when I moved out of state to go to college. She begged and cried and pleaded with me to get married and stay together, but down deep I knew that a woman like her was always going to be a headache to deal with.
You're better off! She belongs in the streets!
Shoulda cheated on her and dumped her, like just gone ice cold and dipped.
HOLY SHIT! I started dating a chick 4 months and she keeps talking about her previous fwb. He even fed her cat when we were away. We had issues and solved it but this video is clearly showing what I have to do. I have to dump my girl
@@Roodsteam agreed. Gave her the benefit of the doubt but it's apparent that he's not going anywhere. So I should take my leave
@@sharinganMRDBZ
Yes you should. 4 mos in,consider yourself lucky. You are most likely dodging a life threatening bullet.
Uh oh! SWINGERS lifestyle is coming around the corner.
@@franchi8601 haha. Ended it. She said she had nurturing feelings for him and can't leave him. So that was it
@@sharinganMRDBZ you did right thing, my best friends newly wed wife had nurturing feelings towards another friend of ours and she was cheating on him for at least 3 months before wedding, 2 weeks after wedding he filled for divorce after he(my best friend) saw her getting in car with him to go into hotel room, this happened just 5 months ago
"Set boundaries" Dude, just walk away. She ain't that into you.
It's not even that she ain't into you, they're gonna do it regardless, you could be do everything right, if she's the insecure type it's game over bruddah BMT!
Seriously. If you're at the point where you feel the need to "set boundaries", it is almost guaranteed that she doesn't give half a shit about you or what your boundaries are.
Good morning gentlemen! ☕️
Good fucking morning to you as well sir ☕️💪
Oi Oi Evening Champs !
Hello pal 3 years later haha but how are ya?
I always Remember by not getting attached right away so that leaves room for her to prove herself if she’s even good for me. Remember to stand up for want ya want or she’ll just take you for granted. Have an awesome day!
Not getting attached is easier said than done.
. 2 strikes: First one you tell her in a loving maner that you dont accept this and if she wants to continue, you walk away.
No need of 2 strikes. The fact that she even thought of doing so and acted on it is a deal killer. If she did it once, means she did not respect you and took you for granted. She will tell you she won't do it again, but I gaurantee you, she will do it, only thing she will try to hide it. No need for any explanations. You know you have a low integrity woman here to whom loyalty, trust, commitment doesn't mean shit. I would not try to keep such a woman even for a single more second in my life.
@Charlie B yes but make sure your absolutely sure that she's sleezing. I can read people like a book but there is no need to do such a thing to a completely innocent woman.
@Charlie B don't burn bridges with every female in your man, life alot of them are worth it.
never fall in love.
with a low quality partner*
I appreciate you’re honesty. You’re always spot on! Thank ya
Thank you for your great work coach, you changed my life! 💯💯💯
More women should watch this. We all need to learn.
Also side note, I laughed so hard throughout this video. Very blunt. Caught me off guard so many times. Had a great laugh😅
Thanks.
Great video! She's not girlfriend material.
He can say. "I'm not exclusive with women who chase other men" and walk away.
This is all so thrue Cory ! You have hit the point in this videos. Your comments here are brilliant !
Coach you have been such a blessing for my life. I can’t thank you enough. May God always bless you abundantly.
Coach Corey Wayne, you are a genius! Thank you for your work!
but you say he's just a friend! yeah you say he's just a friend!
"The key is that you gotta have the right reasons and make sure your goals and values are aligned. You can't take things that people say seriously when their actions don't match their words." Believe your own eyes.
I was asleep the other night and woke in the early hours. I sensed my girlfriend was awake and realised she was on her phone. She was laid away from me propped up on her arm, with the illumination of her phone screen sheilded by the duvet.
I could just make out over her shoulder the screen of her phone. As I focused in and my eyes adjusted I could see various preview messages from blokes names I've never heard of in over two years!!!!!! Must have been like 4 or 5!! She sensed me awake and turned to see if I was looking and had seen her. I closed my eyes mimicking being asleep. I could feel her watching me a few a minute or so, then she turned her phone off and settled back down.
Sly as chuck they are!!
Walk away or be cautious, same happen to me and no I am divorced and boning tons of chicks
@@fred89pj Yes defintely being contacted via social media by other blokes. Im extremely cautious now, suspicious, noticing little things. I'm discreetly adjusting my life in preparation for her cleaeky very shifty behaviour.. I'm positive most if not all attractive birds are up to stuff on the sly with their phones. Guaranteed.
What did you do after you saw those dudes on her phone?
When she talks to another guy... TALK TO ANOTHER GIRL
talk to other GIRLS....plural !!
@@jadizm Not talk about another girl - talk TO another girl.
Firstly tell her you don't accept it just like she is expecting it from you. It shows that you don't care about an argument or fear losing her, but still love her that's why you are saying it. You don't let walk over you. That's the main thing what is important. You are not a push over
yes! then BOOM you have a toxic relationship! exactly what everyone wants!!! good advice!
@@HUSTLER1346 a comment from a beta. You poor sucker. Abundance mentality you don't have. You don't realize people want that which they can't have or is in demand.
Guys shouldn't have to tell women not to talk to other guys. Women know that is not ok, so if they do it then that means they don't respect you. In that case, turn her into a FWB and look for a better match.
My now ex-girlfriend did almost EXACTLY this within weeks of beginning to date (many more red flags then came up). She's tried her ass off to make me feel guilty for ending it and I started to and then I saw this.
If I was dating a woman and in the early stages she was spending a lot of time with another guy, and speaking fondly about him, I would stop dating her.
I would look for another woman. Not worth it.
👍 Coach Cory, you said alot of good things to say to manipulative women with work related scenarios. I agree, ALWAYS set boundries with your woman from the start. There were lots of real world tidbits that I'm familiar with.
Excellent vid. I wish i knew what in the your book 3% man when i was younger.
A real high value woman does not have male orbiters, FWB, or the equivalent. A lady with class doesn't talk about previous partners. That's gross and it's smearing the man. She may have admirers that she doesn't engage with though. Many times when I would be out on the town my date would say "Did you see that guy staring at you" and I would reply "No, I didn't notice" because I didn't. I don't scan the venue to see who is noticing me. I'm focused on my date. Many people lack etiquette and have abandoned common courtesy.
I would say this. ' don't disrespect me by speaking of a co worker. If you ever cross that boundary we are done and you will never see me again. I'm I clear?'
If she continued to SMS him after that statement I would dump her
Love this retro format of the videos.
Just like back in 2010-11. 🤩👍
Because they're never happy with one guy and as soon as that guy drops the ball in his attention they seek attention elsewhere and will step up to sending photos and all sorts just to get the attention her oh so fragile self craves. It's a never-ending cycle of attention seeking behaviour and girls like that aren't worth your time. The sad thing is, there's ALOT of them out there.
Its unfortunatelly so thrue
i hate that this is true bro
Agree 💯, im in the process now of moving on from one such woman
Corey, I don’t agree with your politics, but you are a form of a spiritual teacher. Thanks for what you do.
Coach you are the best!
had to learn the hard way. actions above words, always! protect yourself
I always tell girls that do this to me don't come fishing in this pond you're being deceptive that's already a red flag, I cut them out.
Hell yeah. Drama free is the way to be.
I forgot. What does the other person being to the table ??
Drama? Stress? Unreliability?
Alot of women do it because it's a good opportunity she doesn't think anyone will find out And she stays with you and just does her thing when she has a good opportunity
Hard learned- When it's goin ok- we can still daily or weekly stay in the know with Coach- or like me lose touch with what I knew and was workin on and end up coming back and startin over.
She's not yours, it's just your turn...
@@hmhm856 put in the work.
Pls continue to include the Intro Sound in your Succeeding Videos. Thanks COACH WAYNE..
Coach is still making dem jawline gainz. Must be the green juice 💪🏻😎
Create enough value in your life and be driven with it. Money and the right partner will come along. People who don't have enough in their own lives going for themselves run high risk of partners and friends abandoning them.
good but explain how?
Bs
Awesome video. I was laughing
Hey everyone, I just had my first phone appointment with Corey. It helped a lot. If you have been debating on whether to spend the money, do it! It’s worth it. Invest in yourself! Thanks Coach!
Triangulation! Classic Narcissist tactic. Time to street that one!
Narcissists & psychopaths use this tactic. Drive her out to the country and set her free like an unwanted dog.
This is easy. Guys we are like a new car when we first start seeing someone. You don't really know what she thinks or how she feels until the buyers remorse sets in. that's all that's happening here. She is getting past the new car smell so now she wants a newer model even though he is only a few months old. Take her to the car lot and trade her in for another model.
I wish I started listening to you before I fell for my latest partner.
Title should be called: "Why you should just stay single because modern women belong to the streets"
😂😂
im gonna keep it real. If a guy of my very first choice is going to disrespect me ignoring me while he thinks he is going to be choosing a girl that actually is going to eventually reject him and not going to let him in the end, That Very Same Guy is Not going to be coming to me expecting for me to give it up & get "intimate" with me on his terms. Here is a facts meme i came across is 1,000%! "A women will first treat the man how she wants to be treated, then she will treat how the man treats her "(10x magnified....so May it be a good treatment) - All the Best -
On god 😂 🙏
@@linafosho8611 Then stop only going for Chad and Tyrone.
Bro, that is truth!
Thank you COrey!
Commifornia....Luv It!!!! Speaks the truth!!
Not only are you not moving in, I don't even want you in my house, period.
They're testing you
Its still disrespectful
@@uraialagidamudamu7813 Be man enough to pass the test
@@francisdaly1757 fuck that. charge her to the game
@@francisdaly1757 Be man enough to have self-respect.
at least she told the guy. most girls wont even verbally tell you they seeing another guy. they are sneaky and sly and you find out lot later. i had girls i met who dont tel you much and very sly. they give you vague annoymus answers. its like they got a wall up. this not just on first date but after 5 to 6 dates
“Commiefornia” if I wasn’t broke as a joke I’d be funding a CW word a day calendar lmao good stuff coach
If you are 4 months into a relationship and she is always talking about some other guy then she is probably screwing the guy.If it were very early in a relationship and she was always bringing up this guy it is because she is testing you about someone she is thinking about getting it on with.When you really want someone you don't do these things.This is probably toxic.Best do what the coach says.
I don’t think it is always just learned behavior from upbringing, some people are selfish and will test you to see where your boundaries are and if they can push them. Sounds like this guy didn’t learn from the first relationship and is behaving passively despite the 🚩. It’s his self esteem he needs to work on and figure out why he stays with someone who frankly doesn’t care how he feels.
I totally agree with coach Corey in what he said in this video , Those are the points may cause a woman to talk to others while she is still with you :
- Her background and family is the first reason
- She does not find you enough for her needs as a woman or does not believe in your masculine energy
- You show your self as a weak and needy man which make her lose her interest for you
I spoke about that in one of my videos before also , Thanks coach you did a great job
Awesome
3% Man discount!
"Slip one past the goalie"!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
U look good coach.
Coach. I once used that line "How would you like it if I went out one on one with a woman who's interested in me?". My girlfriend (at the time) then responded "I wouldn't mind. If she's your friend you can hangout as you like". What do you do from there... lol. She wanted to hangout one on one with a guy who's interested in her.
crazy, they just dont give a shit
Dump her cause your goals and visions aren’t in alignment
Just dump her bro. Theres no reason in arguing about it. Even if you feel like you won the argument and shes going to fall into your frame, its more likely that shes just going to hide the behaviour and probably feeling "forced to cheat" because youre being "sooooo controlling." If she doesnt know how to show basic respect for her boyfriend then shes not worth your time.
She doesn’t care about you, and she knows exactly what’s going on.
Calling your bluff. I bet if you actually did it she woulda lost her shit
Insightful
Coach, I love your intro. I wonder who made it.
@Coach Corey Wayne thank you for your excellent content, I have watching for quite some time now and thoroughly enjoy your videos. Unfortunately I recently came across a channel @Ashley Nord which made excuses for individuals displaying toxic behaviours and when challenged on her comments, became rude and dismissive. The irony being is this particular CZcamsr displayed the same qualities in which an abusive person would treat someone and showed no accountability, instead making apologies for individuals who use people as emotional crutches before discarding them and moving onto the next
I think there is a slight problem with the examples Corey gives in terms of comeback´s. In my experience, women absolutely love to have the last word in conversations/arguments, and if you apply logic with something like "how would you feel if I.. etc.. etc.." , then there is a big chance that she will slam the door in your face with something like "do whatever the fuck you want, I don´t care!" and that´s basically game over.
The combination of the last-word-part I mentioned and the fact that women often don´t want to hold themselves accountable for stupid behaviour (also my experience), makes this situation extremly difficult. So I would simply give her an ultimatum right away!
The rough beard looks great👍🏾
Hey coach Corey Wayne are you going to make a version 3 of how to be a 3 % man ?
Read the damn book 40 times in 2 yrs and seen almost all vids
I might not agree with this guys political views but his dating advise is Sage level!
My girl forgot to sign out of her fb on our pc and I saw her complaining about me and venting about our problems to some guy from back in highschool. He asked for her number and she gave it. Mind you we are across the country in cali and hes back in Maryland. It still makes me uncomfortable. I confronted her about it and she apologized and we had a talk about our relationship and how its not going well. We’re back to normal now but im still obsessed with whether shes talking to that dude or not.
Im sorry bro.. these girls will always vent with other “trusted” men these women ain’t shit I’m in a relationship
@@MarcoGonzalez-bi6cg i just found that my girl is accepting the orbiters around her, like she likes that these guys want to do her, i dont know if straight telling her that is just a Hoe Behaviour not sure what she will respond, what do you recommend_
Dump her ass dude if she did that and your conscience is yelling at you she's probably doing it all the time imagine the guys that she is talking to in town there no back to normal there's only truth
Thats deserving of a break up tbh. She should barely be venting about you and your relationship problems to her close female friends, let alone some random dude. If a chick cant solve her own relationship problems, then shes not ready to be in a relationship.
Bro I would have broke up with her. Tf
Always be willing to walk away.
Oh the intro!!!!!
She's testing him... Act like you don't care and be James Bond about it and watch her change her tone.... Sounds to me like...10:50
She's a dumbass then. Real men don't got time for all that 💯
@@Doctrinedarkk Exactly.... Men with clear intentions and purpose don't go for chicks like these... For the most part at least
@@Doctrinedarkk exactly..fuck that noise.
She's insecure, if it gets worse the more you don't react ,just leave. My ex was super needy and insecure,I hardly ever reacted to her childish bs, and she just became more clingy to the point where it just pissed me off
Real men bang her one last time and never say a word to her ever again right after.
I had a woman come to my work and talk to me and be very friendly. I was curious of her situation so when it came up I asked her if she was married. Of course she was. After that her visits become less frequent and I haven't seen her for months.
Coach said camifornia first time I heard of that lol 😆
x female co-worker from 4 yrs ago still msgs me and chats, pretty sure she doesn’t get the listening attention at home....says love you at the end of convos...
The girl Im talking to has a best friend in the military... they video call and flirt back and forth. I have already had issues with him... i dont believe this girl is the one...
Tell her to kick rocks and you move on. Done.
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Lil Corey Wayne wit da bars 😂
So, she ends up asking me to meet up after 18 months after she’d been trying to get hold of me on FB unbeknown to me for 2 weeks. She ended up driving over to mine unannounced such was her desire to see me. I picked a message up retrospectively from her saying this. I wasn’t in and ended up responding the following day and got her round that night. Effortless night ensues, endless laughing, she initiates flirting and after several hours we end up in bed. She left the following morning. I jokingly said when she left ‘See you in 6 months’ and she laughed. Told me at the start of the night when I asked her what she was doing here, ‘You’re the only guy I can completely be myself with’. She texts me a few times over the following days. Now been 19 days no contact. Wondering what’s going to happen next? I’m staying silent.
The key to this shit is to have several willing and able chics to date. That way we don't get fixated on one women. You won't care nearly as much if you have 2 or 3 other things cooking on the stove.
Lookin great coach!
Man, this guy is a fucking treasure
I would break it off and move on.RED FLAG ALERT my man.Dont understand why this guy does not get it .RUN MAN.
This entire scenario has Narcissist or Borderline written all over it. She was triangulating this other guy with her BF for the purpose of creating urgency, jealousy, and a false sense of value in herself to lock her BF down. If a Narcissistic type person starts talking about someone a lot, you can assume they are cheating or going to. People don't do that unless they have an attraction to another person and with Narcissistic type people they get a high from the attention and can't help but tell someone about that feeling and it's usually their SO they tell. That chick is actually telling on herself and NPD's and BPD's do that all the time because it gives them a sense that you shouldn't be mad or upset when they cheat because they warned you and you stayed around anyway. It's a way for them to justify and not feel shamed by their behaviors.
I had this exact thing happen to me. I was dating a very attractive woman for about 6 months, then one day she "confessed" to having had an affair during her marriage, which had ended about a year before I met her. At the time, when she told me about the affair, I thought it was really odd for her to bring it up outta the blue, plus the fact it had nothing to do with our relationship, but I justified it internally and told myself she just needed to confide in me to somehow relieve herself of her guilt from her previous marriage; I mean we all make mistakes right? Well, a year after that revelation, I found out the hard way, that this guy she confessed to cheating with during her marriage; she was still seeing the guy behind my back. Why did she tell me about him a year earlier? So she could relieve herself of any guilt because she "told" me about him. What she was really doing was WARNING me, and since I didn't recognize the warning, to her, that was all the justification she needed for doing what she did. Sociopathic narcissist, nothing more. She belongs to the streets which is exactly where I left her.
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