WHEN THE INFJ COUDLN'T CARE LESS ABOUT REJECTION (this happens)
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Rejection is a part of life. It's not always easy to handle, but it doesn't have to hold you back in your journey towards success!
The INFJ has been rejected their entire existence- this can be seen as something common for humans since we all experience rejections at some point or another during our lives. But there are different kinds of rejection; Some may make us feel worse than others but once we understand how to cope with them, we can focus our energy on creating the life we always knew we could have.
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Yes, this used to be me until I realized that only I can truly reject me. I've chosen me, not people who don't even know who I am.
@Lord Winter Yes indeed!
Rejection ain’t a loss, it’s a lesson and a re-direction!
Chances are that people who reject you weren't people that you wanted in your life to begin with. Shake it off and walk away. Don't take it too personal. No need to spend too much time with it.
Am I the only one here who finds relief when people find me unsuitable for their agendas?
Not at all.
Not at all. I said no to people recently who think that everyone should love and adore them, that they are so good and so clever. I’m sure it’s devastating for their egos. I’m surprised how good it felt to stand up for myself and realise they just aren’t my cup of tea in the first place. They always made me feel uncomfortable.
Yay to that
Anyone else feel like we get ghosted by friends after a situation comes up we can nitpick any and every loophole contradiction and loose end and we will verbalize it.
I think they are scared to talk to us after a point cause their ego won't allow it. They know we kick start conscience
100%
Yes, if they annoy me one time too many, I will start picking apart all the inconsistencies in their thought processes and how they contradict themselves or the outcomes they want will not happen with how they are going about it. It´s like they´re a deer in the headlights, then the start gaslighting you and saying you are ridiculous, or crazy, etc. 99% of the time what I said comes true. A couple of people have come back and admitted I was right. I didn´t want to be right, I just wanted them to stop talking obvious BS (well, it was obvious to me lol).
This is so true! I caught a friend of mine in a big lie and it's been hard for me to let it go. I want to know why they said what they did. Why not just say the truth?
I am a strange person with a daredevil soul. If someone says to me " I would love to get a tattoo with you on our date" or " Yes, let's go see the spider exhibit at the fairgrounds", I take them at their word. My sleeve is rolled up and the tarantula is being retrieved from it's aquarium. Why did you not show up?
The only acceptable answer is a case of the green apple splatters near the food trucks. That fried rice was not quality. If you chicken out, that's ok. Just don't ghost me or cry. It harshes my mellow.
dealing with rejection has really made me want to hole up at home indefinitely lol
This was so true for me in so many ways. I still find myself dealing with making myself small to avoid the backlash 😬
What sort of backlash?
@@onelife7247 For me it was always rejection, ridicule, or dismissal of my feelings. I still deal with this now, having to remind myself that their opinion isn’t about me even if they are people I care about. Some people in my life have been not good for me. So if I did or said anything that they didn’t like, they’d make me pay. Usually with their words or by withholding affection or by blaming me for their feelings. Which would make me feel guilty because I’d give their perspective value, and I’d forget that their “right” wasn’t ultimately “right”
I now try to walk the walk and talk the walk as much as possible - I've stopped people pleasing and stand my ground, as you said. It's still lonely, but then I was lonely before. The big difference is I DO get respect now. And don't give a *uck about being rejected (as I did as a kid and young man). Strangely enough, more people LIKE me when I'm 'out there' this way.
you feel like you are going to have a heart-attack when you have to stand up for yourself
Dear Wenzes, I have most recently found you. You have become a voice for me of things I just have not been able to put into words about myself. You are my new life coach. You have been an amazing positive effect on my life in a very short time. Thank you! ❤
I feel the same way, Mark. She is very wise. I found Wenzes' channel a little more than a week ago and have been feeling like I'm finally understood for the first time and I am able to express myself in a more healthy way. In the past week I have seen her channel go from 47.7K to 47.9K are community is growing by the thousands and the world will be able to see people being the change they want to see.
Me too x
Me too!
Me too 💕
Imagine becoming a senior and evolving into not taking abuse slowly over the last decade. I've had the closest people be narcissists and they seek revenge, once you look like you are establishing boundaries.
Its so insulting to have a family that says " you want respect? No way!"
But I am prospering in my no family life. Fortunately my mind set has been to provide for myself, or I would be pushed out on an iceberg by my Grandkids . The list of things I've endured is long. You are absolutely correct in your evaluation.
Can relate. It is liberating to no longer care.
I admire your resolve to stop taking their crap. I find myself in the beginning stages of holding up the stop sign to a family member.
Man I started to stepping up for myself bout a year before I discovered mbti.
Its been.... A crazy year and half and I think at 37 and the stars aligning... I think I am on my way to bring sigma empath
It's the only road I see that doesn't end in mental breakdown or just ending it all. It hurts.
Man 😭❤️
I have the skills to pay my bills, and I will not abandon my inner peace for other people's drama and insecurities in my discernment and capabilities. My freedom in myself while adhering to the general "societal rules" creatively, makes me a target to people's egos all the time. So I risk embarrassment 😸 taking steps towards my goals, is believing it until I achieve it. My actions are my bonds, and my word is my wand. My vision, IS DEFINITELY my north star. I'm an old soul, with a young ass spirit. Making authentic decisions for myself, require some major discomfort and disappointing other people. Little to no friends, mean no frauds for me. I love my choices, and the person I AM BECOMING.
Is the fear of rejection holding you back when it comes to fully expressing yourself?
😎No.
Then again, I'm Dutch and we truly are blunt & direct to the point of bein' what most foreigners call 'rude.'
Very accurate & helpful 👍🏼
Yes, I used to do that, but not anymore.
Yes, the fear of rejection and exclusion
Yes. But socialization is necessary.
It's always bothered me when people get too close to me and invade my personal space. As an introvert I don't like being too close to people's faces and prefer at least three or five meters of space. I feel claustrophobic if people are too close.
It's exposure therapy. Simple as that. If you do that one thing you are uncomfortable doing enough times, sooner or later you will realize it's actually not that hard.
The best way of doing it is tying the activity to a goal i.e. if you are are afraid of talking to strangers you get yourself into a position where you need to do exactly that in order to finish your job. I was doing it, being a volunteer staff member on an international festival and after the initial hesitance (Englisch isn't my first language) seeing the progress I made and how far I went outside my comfort zone was nothing short of transformative.
It can have the opposite effect, I asked out a few women, got rejected every time, now it's impossible for me to even compliment a women. I asked someone to dance 14 years ago, when she said no, it just crushed my spirit.
@@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391 that's the issue. Asking "a few" women is clearly not enough. Also, women's decision making depends on so many factors (including how they feel in the moment) that it's basically random if they agree on a meeting so don't be discouraged if you don't get the desired outcome. Despite, you should never make your success with women the defining factor of your happiness. And I'm telling you that being single for most of my life, as well. Being in a relationship is a novelty, not an essential.
The grave mistake you're doing is giving up right when it starts hurting. You were about to cross the boundaries of your comfort zone. Do it, endure the pain... Observe what it does to you... Embrace it and start growing as a person.
@@HoshPak I guess I hadn't asked that many women out, about 6, when I thought that I'd go to dancing lessons to meet more women, so I could ask them out, or at least get to know them. It took 3 and a half years of dancing lessons until ONE woman my age turned up, that's about 350 lessons and around £2,100.00p spent on them, just to give me the opportunity to ask one woman out, that's how much effort some men have to put in. And I had to walk over to her in front of over 100 people, ask her to dance, get rejected, then walk back to my seat alone. I just can't do that all over again, just to be rejected again. Asking a woman out is a really big deal for me, it's always been very difficult, but to women it means absolutely NOTHING, or they even take it as an insult.
I don't have enough problems to be INFJ. I need a problem. That is my problem! Terrific!
have had so much rejection in my life - my job experiences have been pure hell - applying for jobs gives me total ptsd attacks
right? i've taken myself out of the office equation by working remote, hopefully it doesn't devolve into something nasty like office politics always do.
My goodness! It started in elementary school for me. It gets better and easier over time. We only need one or a few allies and true friends.
Every time I watch one of your vids I just sit there and say to myself, 'Yes. Exactly. Why can't anyone else see this?' By the end I always feel a little better about what brought me to your channel in the first place. Thank you.....truly.
I find it impossible to live authentically around anyone except for my kids and when I'm alone at home. I've been a people pleaser afraid of rejection so bad, my entire life, idk how else to be. It's like i automatically make myself small to everyone everywhere I go, and I absolutely HATE IT. Idk how to stop, it's so ingrained in me 😥. I want to live as my authentic self so bad bc it's killing me not to
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Is the fear of rejection holding me back when it comes to fully expressing myself? Yes. I'm in it to win it. So, I find myself in practice mode a little longer than I should be sometimes. As far as showing some backbone and sticking up for myself, I'm better at that nowadays than what I used to be when I was younger.
Right on the time, just when got rejected 💪 keeping strong, working out and tracking progress
I remember when I was younger being very careful not to hurt anyone´s feelings because their being hurt made me feel bad and that I was evil, etc. Now in my 50s, after having dealt with a lot of people I´d rather not have dealt with, I just really don´t care any more. I´m not going to take their pain on board, it belongs to them. If they don´t want to get hurt, then it´s up to them not to be d.cks.
This is good, practical advice on how to handle rejection. I don't think that anyone enjoys rejection in general - and we INFJs in particular take it hard due to the reasons you mention here. Also, a lot of us are sensitive, which makes it even more of a challenge.
But I think we're all capable of saying, "Ok! Enough's enough." And I believe that we indeed can reach a point (either because of prolonged verbal abuse rejection or rejection by being ignored) where we then realize that we're wasting our time. For me, pursuing what I like and want to do can put me in eventual contact with people who value me and what I like and vice-versa.
Great advice. It’s something I am only beginning to realise and do. I faced enormous backlash, but guess what, it felt really good, it empowered me, and their rejection actually didn’t matter to me as much as I thought it would. I’m me, take it or leave it but I’m not going to hide or apologise anymore for who I am.
The courage to be disliked.l totally recomend this book
It’s your life…so live it.
Often times the people we fear will go away if we speak up, do go away when we speak up! The second someone is corrected on their behavior, they can lash out and become worse. Then I can see that the only way to know this person is to tolerate the bad behavior! Other times I may tell someone about the horrible ways they've behaved towards me and there's no response, just indignant silence and then then they go away! So yes, abandonment is a very real possibility when we do speak up. The only thing I can say is it's an opportunity to forge new bonds with healthier people when the toxic ones run away because they're confronted.
5:50 - Focusing on other peoples pain than how I feel.
When I meet a stranger, I can be completely charming and engaging with no apprehensions, but if the relationship progresses over time I start thinking too much and then I feel abandoned if they get less intergenic during our interactions.
the only thing i hate
is too hate myself
because i started the overthinking of the negative and postive thinking
but when took time to realized
is unnatural and illogical
so i will door slammed for a moment of silence
than only once the time is right
i will came out from my shell
to restart the new me to view the world again
If I'm rejected I don't care, as long I know my self. In worst situation I always think the good than bad I always aware for the consequences of my action, if some body trash talk to me I laugh to show them i'm not affected but centainly inside me I feel unconfortable but easy to erase this feeling in another day !
I've got to ignore or cuase massive trouble 🤔 ,when it was family and they are sitting rubbing the sick things they have done and we all know the TRUTH,,i got used to rejection very early in life so the rejection doesn't bother me until recently 🤮🤮🤮they are very sick evil people ✌️✨️
Sometimes. I feel what they feel when they reject me. So because I feel what they do I understand their rejection. I’ll try to change some for a while.
Thank you Wenzes sharing about this. I like to share my point of view, that could help on dealing with others judgement. There are 2 points. 1. understand the others judgement does not mean we are wrong. Maybe maybe not. Even we are wrong, or weak in something, does not mean all parts of us have problems. We are human, we are not perfect, and all of us have different parts good at. No 2. Build our confidence by daily live.
I love listening to you, Wenzes! Every day!!
Yesss I really don't people think they played me when I allowed it to happen
Typically, if this happens to me. I stop being helpful and that is extremely obvious to them.
Hi, and thank you.
To go even more deeper, our human animal biological death anxiety, or our natural physical drive for self-preservation, is the underlying unconscious influence for why we human animals fear rejection and abandonment.
Rejection and abandonment are naturally perceived by our bodies as a biological threat to our physical survival. Why? If and when a group and or if and when someone we physically depend on or is expected to keep our bodies safe and alive - is perceived by our bodies - to be stopping with helping to keep our bodies safe and alive, our biological defensive animal instinct of self preservation is naturally threatened.
When we really understand and accept this hidden defense mechanism, and diligently keep ourselves aware of this hidden influence, on ourselves and on other humans, we will less stressfully react less and feel less confused over feeling rejected and feeling abandoned. We will feel less confused about why we humans act like we do overall and in most everything we all do. Having and carrying this awareness at the forefront of our everyday lives, we will feel less anxious or stressed overall. We will be healthier humans overall.
When we face our biological or inherent death anxiety, and gradually dissolve our defensive and biological denial of death by understanding why the denial of death exists, we will more mentally and emotionally pause before reacting to and feeling stressed over perceived threats like rejection and abandonment. They will be more inner and outer peace in our lives. We will more accurately analyze our thinking more, and therefore we will decide on and act on better decisions, or more constructive and healthier prosocial actions now and in the future.
We will have less frustrated, angry and morally righteous outbursts, and less painful door slams. Why? We will understand more of why we INFJs are driven to help others.
Our helping others is actually helping with our own biological self preservation. For eg, when we try to help say a regularly angry or constantly crisis producing human animal calm down, we are actually trying to help create more peace and safety in our life.
But, when our helping is perceived accurately or inaccurately by another as a physical threat to another person and or group, and their unconscious death anxiety influences them to reject and abandon us, naturally our survival defense mechanism can be triggered. A INFJ door slam can understandably happen.
When our help is rejected and abandoned, our own death terror can be triggered to irrationally feel like it is the end of our lives and that we are all completely doomed. When what we INFJs do to try and help others is brutally kicked down, cruelly crushed and terrorizingly trashed, the best way to think about this reaction is to understand that this is just a biological defensive reaction - it is just the other person’s or a group’s collective unconscious terror of and denial of their impending physical death kicking in.
Peace ✌🏼💀
Thank you! I often feel a bit on the outside even with the infj's in my groups! So nice to follow you. Definitely feel on the same wavelength. I saw an older video about enneagram and noticed were both type 9 also 9w8 over here. I'm loving the confident strong Infj vibes you bring. I read so much about.... insecurities I suppose being misinterpreted for introversion. I'm sure you are helping and guiding so many people with practical applications and it's awesome
I stopped caring, authentically stopped, several years ago. It's liberating and you find your tribe. Even if it's a tiny tribe.
🙂❤
One of my boundaries is my personal space, I had to end a friendship due to crossing this boundary. This one thing escalated with a verbal altercation, I stood my ground.
Dear, dear Wenzes. I’ve learnt so much from your talks. Thanks so much for sharing your lore! I got mad and had an f all of you moment. I put that anger into action and am busy taking my life back. I bought a basic straw hat. Looked online for ideas to trim it. So boooring! Came up with my own ideas! Much more going on but not enough time to write it down. Lots of creativity. Another f you to the people who told me I wasn’t creative.
INFJ'S need to go into their Ti which will have help them to be objective I had an INFJ said some positive things about me she doesn't know me but I saw allot of Fe in her she is a sweet person INFJ's want to help people even those they don't know they don't just help people they know but want to encourage and help those people they don't know that is a true INFJ .
Six month in therapy - my therapist couldn't handle what I was and it all came to "you have a personal disorder, you should be therapised and you need minimum 50 sessions of schema-therapy". And I tried to start it but soon I just dropped and he never asked me why. I think he breathed freely.
And then I found this channel. And it was like - "why are you know everything about me?" And then I laughed and cried. Thank you so much, Wenzes. Thank you for validation. Thank you for all you are doing for me and others like us.
And those people who rejected me were just shallow and I will never find myself resonate with them so feel free to judge and leave me before I slam the door I’ll give you the opportunity first😊 I like it when people show their true color and I don’t have to be dragged down along with them.
I need these reminders.
Much appreciate
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Great explanation and advice for dealing with this aspect that we INFJs definitely possess. It really is a gift that more often than not, does become a burden. It is so true that the more we practice taking the difficult steps to change their easier it gets with time. 👍😃
2:25
Even as a child, before I realised I'm an INFJ, I understood why the bullies tried to bully me.
They tried to bully me because I'm not afraid of them, even when it is just me vs a group.
Bullies simply fear what they can't understand.
My parents raised me to not be a coward so if it came to a fight I would at least take 1 of them down with me.
It also helps that I rather stayed & fight than run away and be consumed by fear.
And even when I lost, I lost to a majority and was proud of myself of not having ran away.
Broken bones heal faster than a broken spirit anyway.
And I never got in trouble for fighting, cauz my parents understood what it means to grow up colored in a white society.
I guess this is why I despise groups, I hate the 1 bully aka the leader, who surrounds himself with followers.
I learned as a 6 year old that safety is an illusion, that being part of a group doesn't offer safety; that there is no safety in numbers.
How did I reached these conclusions?
Because even as a 6 year old I figured out that my parents were lying to me because they insisted that Sinterklaas (the Dutch Santa Claus) is real while I already had figured out that he didn't exist. Somehow I made the connection between the Sint's presents, my dad's early shift work and the car's trunk.
And because I'm a light sleeper and always woke up when my dad went to work at 6 pm I decided to spy on him on the day we would receive our presents.
Through my bedroom window I saw my father going to the trunk of his car, pick up the presents and bring them into the house and concluded then and there that Sinterklaas didn't exist.
Which brought me to my next question: *Why did my parents lie to me?*
And if my own parents already lied to me about Sinterklaas, what other lies have they told me?
I guess that from that point on I decided to take everything anyone told me with a grain of salt and figure things out myself.
Hmm yeah. There's the fear of rejection and then there's also the pain of true rejection.
My 30-year-old daughter turned on me when she was 14. She thought I was going to die from my disability and I did not. Ever since then she has been acting like I abused her and I'm horrible. I want to drop her but her personal problems are severe enough from ADHD that I worry about her ending up homeless. And it doesn't help that people keep telling me she doesn't mean it. I am having major problems extricating myself from her. Even though I know I have to for my own sanity, I feel like such a hideously horrible person for abandoning my daughter. All I wanted growing up was a family member who cared about me, and I can't comprehend how that doesn't matter to her when I am the only one who was there for her. I am ashamed writing this😭
Do not feel ashamed or alone. I am having a similar problem with my 38 year old daughter. Do you take care of yourself or them? I know that doesn't help solve anything. I just want you to know you don't have to feel like the bad guy.
@@yukon9315 thank you for being kind. she lives alone and has a job which is much to be thankful for. She only calls me for help, but when I try to talk to her about anything else she can set my PTSD off so fast it's like a bomb went off in my head. All those years I kept her from upsetting me and now I get upset just thinking about her. I always wondered how people's kids could just turn on them and now that mine has I still can't understand it or deal with it.
@Rowan, recommend reading about trauma bonds and getting triggered from abusive or traumatic situations. The pain you must feel can be overwhelming. But the path to healing yourself begins with You. What you control. What is positive for you. What do you need protection from. Go ahead and help yiur daughter bcs it's the right thing for you _ not because you expect anything in return or equal access to her. You don't control her. You have to accept that and focus on healing your spirit.
Wow loved this video so much, such a beautiful advice, thanks a lot. I am still working on it and getting stronger at putting boundaries and standing up for myself ❤️
Yay 222 thank you.
Embracing my spirit 🖼
"the smaller you are the less you make other people uncomfortable". yes! And then I stopped trying to get smaller because I couldn't get any smaller
I used to be a fawning pathetic codependent but after a few bad breakups (with girlfriends, a wife, and a few bands) I grew a huge pair and don't care; I was a cynical punk to begin with, but now I feel like a superpunk carrying a big axe ready to chop off anyone who dares disrespect me. And you know what? I now enjoy cutting ppl off. It's empowering and liberating to stand up for yourself. Try it.
As an Infj, because I project so much. The way I deal with rejection is I switch seeing my future with that person to seeing my future without that person and I focus on building my future before I realize that person is completely forgotten.
Wenze this is exactly what I needed at this exact moment. Thank you so much for sharing your gift with us!!❤️❤️❤️
8:19 - The Understanding tendency. A gift and a Burden
What if the other person you have differing viewpoints with is a family member or friend of the family and they make you feel stupid for having an opinion?
I needed this.... Thank you... 👍😊
9:42 - Sticking up for yourself.
This is one of your best videos yet!
Thank you Wenzes! 😊
Love this video! One thought: I've been living at home with parents as I just got out of college and trying to grow my youtube channel that I'm most passionate about because it allows me to express myself. I'm not monetised as of yet but have been growing so much because I'm investing myself more and more into it with a part time job on the side. I'm pretty much done trying to convince my dad to understand my motives but all he seems to care about is me getting a better paying job, which may be something from his own insecurities. If I can't make him understand, what other steps can I take until i am making money on youtube? He says he's supportive of me but I have perceived that because my passion doesn't make money, he doesn't have complete faith in it.
I just want her to keep me rejected and not try to draw me in again which can be a pain in the ass.
Relatable, but because I don't really care about a particular situation much anymore at work, I haven't bothered to say anything--though I probably should to "clear the air" and ease some people's conscious since nobody else has mentioned anything else about it. Some things you become immune to because they happened so many times that it seems like a waste of energy to even talk about them, especially if they don't really matter. Plus, as a truth teller, I'd probably be put into a negative light by some anyway.
3:10 - Yup. If I hit back it will be too hard!
That is no kidding. I have no doubt I would break a couple people if I really released my control. That is my fear and my torture.
Excellent!
🤔Wait, am I the only INFJ who isn't afraid of rejection thus has no problem expressing himself?
My 1st reality break / traumatic experience taught me that *life=suffering* and if I hadn't accepted this fundamental truth I wouldn't be alive right now.
I realised then that every individual only has 1 free choice, which is the choice between life or death.
😶Since death didn't scare me I chose life and because I understood that a parent's worst nightmare is to outlive your child.
😎The passing of my father forced me to deal with my 1st reality break and surviving this experience made my concious rebirth possible.
I have never asked to be born, but now have accepted the gift of life and the burden that comes with it, so I took care of my mother.
And when I heard that my mother had cancer and was about to die the temptation to just die & give up returned.
Dying is so easy and it was living that scares me, but I also realised that I was already grieving because I knew my mother was about to die in the near future, because beside the cancer caused by the medicine she had to take because she had a donor-kidney she also had Covid. She probably caught it because she still had to go to the hospital for a kidney dialysis during the whole Covid mess.
So I reached out to the professionals and got the help I needed and survived my 2nd reality break.
💪From that moment on I realised that it was true, that *that which doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger.*
2:20 - How to help this other person. This is so true.
This gets into poor boundaries in the workplace for me, because people passive aggressive react and affect my career. Situations aren’t black and white sometimes and this gets highly difficult
Yes on 6:06.
A number of years ago I realized that all the girls I had any sort of friendly relation with (wife was sex, all others were not) were messed up in their head, with some sort of depression and drug addiction. Seeing that pattern, I decided to close off all new sort of friendly relations with women. Wife died 2 months ago. Now I'm safe from mentally unwell women.
I walk on eggshells or leave.
I gave been ghosted and never faced up to the true reality of the situation. In reality it is painful and and I had a fear of lashing out due to abandonment.
I eventually told them exactly how I felt over their answering machine. I felt like a million bucks. It made my evening. I went and took my aerobics class
Thank you for this video. This message was important for me to hear.
Tnx...
Again
Wenzes, how do I be a minimalist if I was abused as a kid over messy room and rebelled over the meanness. I want my real self back. I was abandoned by narcissistic father. Stuff makes me anxious.
I could give a flying F what anyone thinks of me. I know who I am. They don't.
I never been a child. I was adult with child body.
I didn't take the j@b, I knew in my heart it was wrong.... Everyone told me how stupid I was being.
Now as we see all the v@ccine injury, I'm hearing how wise I was not to take it.
Miss Wenzes, as always thank you so much for being our guiding light especially in our community.
I find relief in your channel.
So much love from here 💗
12:00 - Actions and Consequences. Boundaries.
I think it’s just maybe me but lately I’m doing a lot more of the rejection, but I guess I’ve already been ‘rejected ‘ (nit treated tag way I want to be) long time ago. These days I don’t care much and don’t even notice I’ve been rejected maybe because I know when to regret first! I’ve just learned to discern not to let people linger in my life too long who would need to be rejected soon!
I know what happens. Its hard not to act arrogant
7:22 - Boundaries.
Truth b🤔e Told : humanity in Europe
fears my Analytical Thinking....
💯💯💯
Bravo
Alternate title: What happens when a millennial INFJ listens to “Rockstar” by N.E.R.D. again
Wow. Hi, Wenzes. I've just stumbled upon your channel and love it! ❤❤
I comented in one of your videos that Scorpio characteristics are so similar to the INFJ's. They match in so many ways -- confidence, independence, door slam, humour, putting others before self, all-seeing-observing-piercing gaze, etc etc...
Being a Scorp, I'm aware of Scorp behaviours/characteristics, but until I did the MBTI test and started reading about INFJs, it would seem more or less that Scorpio = INFJ! ...OMG... 😅😅
(You may/may not be an expert in astrology, but) What's your opinion on that?
Is it a double whammy, or a double blessing?? 😝☺
I'm gonna hv fun sorting myself out... Thank you for these videos! 😁😁
So strange, happend me last night … I draw a girl I like and know … she react cold and said she scared by my draw… and make me feel so bad as I doing something so wrong. But when I become sad she said is nothing don’t care don’t mind… but I feel like all i over … and don’t to say or ask or let it go … and be abandoned …
hard topic but u bite it very well 🥂
In the words of the Son of Man: I don't really give a good goddamn!
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Or your father rejecting you.
🎭 Sucks being burned from a trusted friend. Sucks knowing that I have also burned a trusted friend .🎭. Oh the INFJ / unique INFP is concerned about others witchcraft accusations
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can this feeling also come from an incubator? (7month baby)
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