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Negative energy is extremely exhausting to us.

Yes and as a budding astrology coach, also in my general experience teaching adults, there is this thing where they take me for granted as an equal, and overlook my mentor role and what I contribute. That is a hard part. I'm bit burned out and feeling lazy since arriving back in US from new home UK (since 3-1/2yrs living there) ... I think it's hard to adjust my mind to my transition being back in this country's dynamic again. There are a lot of things here that fit with me and my energy. Also I just went to a digital marketing conference, it was big help for me but also a lot to take in, and I stepped into my power and now I'm kinda vegging despite being in a holiday situation where there is much to do of practical chores and touristy things.

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That’s why I’m staying 1,020 miles away. I could fly and put bandaids on boo boos however they just get worn off. Back to the same infection. I can answer questions truthfully when asked. It’s a 16 year old damage not of my doing. It’s their choice. Make good choices. Or not! Tough love ❤️.

I don’t want to stop intimidating others. If I trigger people that’s their problem. Those that are triggered or intimidated I don’t want in my life anyway. They’re usually evil. I could tell you a life time of people that were lying or evil to the core. I love people or feel people that are just wrong. Thanks Wenzes. 😊

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Why is it that we are able to handle the emotional fallout of truths better than other people? Is it because our intuition is a step removed from the actual bodily sensations that others call feelings? Is it because we are mentally strong enough to see that the truth around us doesnt actually change who we are? I just dont understand how people react so strongly to ideas and concepts that make me feel so safe and happy. The truth is like a warm cozy blanket to me, and i cannot understand why other people want reality to be so maleable. I can tell theyre experiencing something I am not 😂. It doesnt make me feel ashamed anymore and i dont feel responsible for their emotions anymore. But i do feel a sense of curiosity or almost like a fear of missing out.

I am fully convinced that Wenzes is an angel sent from heaven specifically to heal me and help me get out of the loop I have been stuck in for years. How can this be soooooooooo accurate???!?!?!?!?

Following universal law

It’s like walking on eggshells with most people once they realize they can’t ‘handle’ you…

I'm getting Wow! moments from this video

all this pseudo science garbage is just as bad as zodiak signs. grow up

No you are right ‼️ 5:48

Oh gods, this is both my best and worst trait. 😅

I was always in the shell cool with myself.. loving everyone more than I should’ve.. I used to gave them everything and got nothing in return.. but I was okay with it thought I am the change the world needed… until At time everything I had was taken away.. mom got cancer,love left , finances were cleaned off… and a lot of debt… Funny thing was none of it was my fault.. it was God’s plan… it flipped the switch in me… I embrace the bad I need to be cared about nothing how people view me… and become true to myself and more closer to God as I think I needed that punishment.. coz now I’ve turned my life around and I am more than I ever could be….

Harsh truths I realized over the last six years. Weird feeling to hear a proper analysis over all these. Thank you for the videos.

Were also intuitive so sometimes we know its better to gate keep in certain situations.

INFJ??

Injf never get constructive criticism most of them are hateful criticisms, all the pososite then infj that is always bringing constructive criticism.

Injf never get constructive criticism most of them are hateful criticisms, all the pososite then infj that is always bringing constructive criticism.

Make yourself small, observe, be in 2nd row, do not express ... all the stuff you have learned in home with narc mother

I don't want people to be intimidated by me. I'm not a monster.

Die Teilnahme an diesem Diskurs fühlt sich an, als würde man sich auf ein intellektuelles Abenteuer einlassen, bei dem jeder Kommentar zu neuen Entdeckungen führt.😻

I just love this girl! ❤I’m so grateful for the community she has built for us! ❤❤

Right not feeling be misunderstood but being misunderstood ‼️❤️ 0:53

I do it, to allow people to feel at ease. Be an open book so-to-speak.

Independence with joy!! Thanks a lot, Frau Wenzes ❤

You really know INFJ i also don’t watch the news.

Thank you!

“How you feel is 100% about you” no one can make you feel anything, like all things, it’s an inside job. So if you’re angered, offended, hurt, upset, joyful, happy, grateful etc, they are your emotions that you feel, not something that someone else has done to you.

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Thank you - your videos have helped me make sense of my life. I only wish I had learned all this much earlier. Better late than never. Having fun with who I am now...

Very good - we have to love and accept people where they are at. The truth is that may not be a good place, but it doesn' t have anything to do with us. We can only help those that actually want help and accept that truth. Most people are just not ready for the truth. Other people are either going to love or hate us for being authentic. That's on them. You are right that everything depends on self love.

Take time for yourself, it's addicting.

Everything you say is true.

Hi Weirdos!!!! I am in the house!!!!!! I am so happy to find this channel, it’s is freeing my ugly duck! I will be watching all the videos until I start to replay! 🎊 🎉

Haha this is so spot on. Love your posts. Thank you.

After the mocking whenever I would share something, and, becoming almost invisible (!!!) I realized I was killing myself for a selfish, ignorant fool who (in hindsight) was unworthy of what I had to offer. Bye, Felicia.

Ultimately: Do I feel tough enough?

It is my choice, not to be an echo and instead, be a voice. To understand over being understood. To be Trusted rather than liked.

I’m going through this right this moment. I was never really seen for who I am, only for who my spouse wants me to be. That is her truth, not mine. I’ve sat on many unsaid words, and at this point our union is reached a destructive point. I am prepared to walk away from this marriage, bc regardless of what I’ve done, I don’t deserve to be verbally bashed masking it as “conversation”. I love her enough to walk away so she can do what she needs, but also I am holding onto the last string of love I have left for myself.

I don't really think this is a good way to explain Te though...Te is an interface function that works for the good of the 'tribe' in order to cooperate and bring about action towards an end...in opposition to Fe, it is pragmatic, shorn of feeling, and cold. Its goal is simply executing the most important task, and putting the consensus of the group into action. Implicit in Te is the ability to simply accept what has already been concluded by consensus, without further deliberation. Someone who is Te blind would simply never be able to accept that there are any conclusions of the group that are NOT up for debate. In other words, someone lacking in Te will never accept that there is actually a right way to do something, and consequently, will be bad at 'systems thinking'. This leads to frustration and very bad ADHD.

You chicks make me sick. Reaction video on the way. Hijack someone else’s movement. Goofy

I THINK WE SHOULD BE CALLED FUBAR NOT INFJ !!! HAS IN F~CKED UP BEYOND RECOGNITION !!!

Why would one wish to be understood by a world who can never understand them in the first place?!

If at all possible, I try to tell the truth in the most tactful way that I can. Put unfortunately, I can't do that all the time. Then, I have to speak the truth whether they want to hear it or not. It's not always emotionally easy but it can be done

Part of this bothers me because as an INFJ I can tell when an emotion is authentic and when I help people its genuine. I'm not looking to get anything back. In fact I reject the whole idea that helping people is selfish. Really helping someone out is unselfish for INFJs. We put other people first for them, not for us. By this same logic putting others first is selfish. Again INFJs are not selfish. They can put themselves first, but that isn't being selfish. It's called acting right.

I already feel wholly unloved on this planet, like everything I do is wrong. Why would I intentionally drive away more people. I think there are no "ones who stay," so I continue to live in unhappy solitude. I enjoy your videos, but I don't see a solution for me.

Truth be Told : Mona Wenzes

Let’s be real INFJ’s. Let's be real and take off the mask! Let our light shine. People will respect us for standing up for what we truly believe in. If we’re honest, we don’t want to live a fake life, even though we don't want to walk all over others. People may still get offended no matter how respectful we are. But one thing is for sure, we don't want to disrespect ourselves. We need to build up the courage to be disliked because there will always going to be someone who will dislike us. This is not our problem but rather people projecting their own insecurities. The most inspirational people in history were all disliked by some. We should refuse to live under their shadow and be our true authentic self. Now that’s true freedom!🌠