why would you go to the ER for a high fever?? GO TO URGENT CARE Holy shit, I can't believe I gotta say this. Even though you have said the same exact thing over and over, IF THE URGENT CARE CENTER IS CLOSED YOU CAN GO TO THE ER URGENT CARE MAY NOT BE COVERED BY INSURANCE BUT IS FASTER AND STILL CHEAPER THAN AN ER VISIT. THE REASON WHY I YOU SHOULD GO TO THE URGENT CARE IS SO YOU CAN GET A PROFESSIONAL DIAGNOSIS AND GET STABLIZED IF URGENT CARE CAN'T FULLY TREAT YOUR ISSUE, YES URGENT CARE CAN NOT DO EVERYTHING THE ER CAN DO, BUT THEY CAN STILL GIVE INFO TO THE ER SO THEY CAN TREAT YOU FASTER AND URGENT CARE CAN STILL GIVE YOU MEDICINE TO HELP STABLIZE YOU BEFORE GOING TO THE ER. AND IT WILL SHORTEN YOUR WAIT TIME. PLEASE STOP REPEATING THE SAME GOD DAMN THING. Thank you 😊
@@dashroom8143 ER= EMERGENCY ROOM. A fever is not a emergency. loosing a limb is an emergency, a heart attack, a stab wound, and a broken femur is an emergency
Long story for nothing really happened... To spare you all time: neighbours parked their car in her driveway without permission, she let it remove, he calls police, police says: it's all fine. end of story.
Neighbours are AHs regardless And the only reason why I could see OP going to the ER instead of UC is because either it was MUCH closer or because of insurance reasons
Children’s health state can deteriorate rapidly, which is why you normally take them to ER instead of UC if it’s something serious like a high fever. I remember GPs would always tell my mum just to take me to the hospital when I was little because it can get bad rather quickly. Also could be because UC isn’t normally 24/7 so OP could be getting worried about her kid but not be able to visit UC so instead she would have to visit ER.
@@larainey Couple days long thing, you’re good. If it is a multi week issue then go to the ER. OP wasted her, her kid’s, the staff’s, and other patients’ time. Kids get sick all the time, sleep, good food, and hydration (along with over the counter meds depending) is the remedy to run of the mill viruses. My mom was always careful and only took me to the ER twice for whooping cough when I was young.
@@jakesullivan9179only ever been to an er for overdoses and stitches everywhere else was an urgent care, that is until the urgent care years later decided to say “you know this is a minor emergency hospital and not an urgent care right” every sign and even google maps had jt listed as an urgent care needless to say i havent been back 😭
bro, why the fck would you drop the charges. He's not actually sorry, he was just manipulating you to get his as* out of trouble. And if the police interaction would have gone his way, he wouldn't be sorry, he would probably make you pay the towing bill, and a bunch of other stuff. I don't know why people are so quick to accept any half as*ed apology. I would have also filed a harassment charge plus anything else i could. You can't let these people get off with just a slap on the wrist. Because they will never learn that way.
That's what I genuinely don't understand. If he was sorry, he would have come to that realization before Involving police. He's only trying to make amends now that he's realized his ass is actually cooked
In my opinion I would drop the charges because I think the father was humbled and I don’t think he would ever do it again, and maybe the family would begin to respect the lady and treat her better for showing mercy.
I dont think it matters what lessons he learned or didnt lear. It matter wether or not he will park where he is supposed to. I would drop the charges too. I donr give anough of a shit to go through the hassle. And frankly i dont think being an asshole should be grounds for a lawsuit.
She was nicer than I would’ve been when neighbor asked for the charges to be dropped. I would’ve told him you should’ve thought of that before you parked on my land.
She did the right thing and all with those idiotic neighbours… but why the hell do people feel like their case is more urgent in a ER because they have a “high” fever (that most of the times is just 39-40 degrees Celsius) when there are people that are actually dying? I get many don’t know basic medicine but even just basic room reading would tell you that between your “feeling uneasy” and that other guy’s 3rd degree burn, his burn would be of higher priority. I also get that I come from a nation where there’s free health care (that’s really not that free because we pay it with taxes but still) and so I can’t really comprehend that feeling of paying for a bad medical service, but getting angry on social media won’t solve it (also in places with free health care there’s usually more people in ER because they won’t even try to solve little problems on their own most of the times).
Yeah, my parents didn’t have a lot of money, we only went to the ER if I was in excruciating pain and nothing was making it better and/or I had a repeating episode of something that we couldn’t figure out how to stop.
because if the fever is high enough it cooks your brain and you die (around 42C can result in convulsions and death). I had to take my dad to the ER at 1am one day and sat there for hours waiting for help, the ER thinking he was just drunk because he was puking his guts out on the floor, after one of the ER doctors did tests, he was admitted and we were told he was maybe an hour away from dying and his body was in the process of shutting down while we waited in the ER. Just because something isn't obvious doesn't mean it isn't serious.
do people actually go to the doctor for that low of fevers? every single time ive had a fever (i think my highest was like 39.7 c) i literally just layed in bed for like a day
@@hectormontes7056 yeah, I get what you mean. I have an autoimmune disease since I was 3 so I had to stay in the hospital for a lot of time. Besides that though, even if in my country health care is free, my parents always preferred treating illnesses at home if possible. However I'm sorry that for you it wasn't a choice but a must. I hope you're doing better now.
00.1% of the comments: you made the right decision, people can be so horrible 99.9% of the comments : WHY WOULD YOU GO TO THE ER?!?!? ( that's not even important to the story 🤦♀)
Is OP a writer? This reads more like a screen play then a story you would tell. Plus it could have been a lot more concise. I also love the tangent about the hospital even though a lot of that wasn’t relevant to the truck story.
One time, I broke my arm by falling off a bike, I had blood dripping all over my legs and arms and had giant gashes. They deemed it not serious enough to need treatment and I waited 3 hours. This is true, because there are people who are in critical condition and could die, or have brain damage, so being sick or having a broken arm and bleeding out is not as big of a deal. I could handle the blood at home, and the broke arm was only a buckle fracture, otherwise I was fine, and being sick can be bad, but there’s a good chance it’s not “dying” bad so you just gotta hunker down and thug it out until they can treat you. Just be glad you’re not in such a critical condition that you have to be treated immediately.
Came to say this. As an ems student I have learnt that it is more “fortunate” to have to wait however ridiculously long at an ER than to be seen immediately. If you can wait, you’ll probably be okay. If you can’t wait, the situation is dire and is the worst day of your life for many. It’s an emergency room, not a waiting room for a GP. I understand the frustration with not being attended to quickly, but my gratitude for being able to wait overpowers that frustration now
@@lucillerouge5303 yeah it’s mb for not mentioning it, but I’d rather wait hours for treatment than be in such a bad condition that I need immediate treatment.
@DRofCZcams it's also really dumb to go when you're just sick. She should've gone to urgent care or a ready clinic to 1. Save money, 2. Save time, 3. Not risk the lives of critical condition patients who can die from these mild viruses. I think we need to give more focus in schools on what is and isnt an emergency
Every time I’ve been treated immediately at the ER it was either for an allergic reaction, or there was one time involving an accident with glass where I severed all the tendons in my right hand at the wrist as well as severing a nerve that goes into 3 of my fingers. I had to get emergency surgery to reattach everything and I wasn’t able to use my right hand for many months. I have mostly full mobility back in my hand and full feeling as well. Both of which I was not guaranteed to get back so Im very thankful
Had similar issues with our neighbors and they are still doing stuff. Police called on them four or five times now and a police officer had to walk them through a letter stating not to come onto our property at all. This was after their grandson started turning around in our driveway, and almost hit me twice, my dog once, and my nephew, and we put a chain up across our property. After telling the grandson to stop almost hitting us in our own driveway. They then proceeded to try and build a fence across our driveway to block us in and the wife tried to slap my mother twice from behind. All over 18 inches of property that we travel over and have traveled over for 30+ years, 15+years before they moved in. We had permission from the previous owner to make the drive way and also legal documents saying the driveway has existed since 1994. Apparently we now legally have a right away after using our driveway that long. Local police wouldn't arrest the grandfather for trespassing yet though, or throwing rocks from our driveway at animals. Awful people.
Guys we don't know where she lives, in France for exemple theres no urgent care it's the ER directly Also a high fever with kids at a certain point is gonna give a kid seizures so it is very dangerous too
@paulbrule5897 yeah where I use to live in the US there were no urgent care open that late. She said she got back at 3 am with a 30 minute drive each way and a 6 hour wait. That means she left for son's treatment at 8pm. Many offices would be closed by that time
Btw, just because someone calls the cops on you, doesn't mean you have to open your door, or talk to them. You have no legal or moral obligation to help the police in their investigation against YOURSELF.
@@nesiachan4534thats quite literally not how it works 💀, you can choose not to answer. they cant use that in any case as it violates ur rights of the 5th.
Ngl, people who go to ER with their kids when they have a high fever could go in panic, especially young kids, because they’re still more susceptible to death due to illness
okay but it always aggravates me when people get upset that they wait for hours at the ER like...yeah of course your sick kid with cold symptom isn't going to be seen anytime soon as people with a potential heart attack, severe allergic reactions, or bleeding out are coming through the door, be for real
@@gueraguess I guess it's parent entitlement, they think because they played hide the sausage they think they should be more prioritised more than a guy that got hit by a family of six's SUV and they think they're in the wrong. Parents to single people are mostly dickheads
This it’s my story not a justification, I was waiting in the ErR for 8 hours and I have terrible allergies so I wasn’t thinking it was anything serious, turns out I’m have asthma spikes out of nowhere, I kept passing out while waiting and I have really bad eczema, when I did get into the ER I had a full body check and my whole back was inflamed and swollen and bloody from me scratching, but I didn’t realize because I kept passing out.
Everyone is sorry when consequences loom imminent. This remorse is always false. Not usually, not often, always. Sorrow for consequence is not sorrow for the act. They will do it again without hesitation if they think they can get away with it.
@@Lil-Deeno That's my point The neighbor said it was towed from a public space. So the police officer could check with the towing company. Would they tow it from a public space?
@ryanjones875 My guess is the police officer would have done that and might have once he left the scene. But the cop just came from the neighbors to get her side of the story. Cops don't do followup work in the moment. They get everyone's statement, gather evidence, and then go back to the station and process it. Then he would do something like call the tow company to ask where was the vehicle. Think about it from the cops point of view, he had no reason not to believe the neighbor in the beginning. That's why it's often very important who calls the police first, they get to give their side first and then it goes from there.
Long story short: She gots her child to the hospital after arguing with the neighbour. She wrote her property management, but they answered that this is non of their business. A few days later she needed to go again to the hospital with her son, waited 6 hours in the ER and came back at night when the neighbar thought he could secretly park on her parking lot. She called a towing service and they got his truck. She took photos and a video of everything, especially at the morning when the neighbour searched for his car and called the police for "stealing" his car. She showed the photos, video und e-mails to the police officer and at the end the neighbour apologized to her after he finds out that he can't sue her but she can (he has a criminal past). Sorry for my bad english. 🙈
You should have went through with pressing the charges.People like this get away with c*** like that.All the time, and they think they can because of their money.And then the one time Jo when it doesn't count their money.Then they try to apologize and that's what it works
tbh she played it smart. Now she has leverage to keep them in line. She would lose that and become open enemies with her neighbors if she continued pressing charges. Now she can use it as a threat.
“I don’t abide threats, and I don’t appreciate my word not being enough. I won’t waste them on you, I’ll let the courts and police do my talking, since they’re who you finally listened to.”
There was no reason to apologize to him. He was literally endangering your kids health by being ignorant and caused you to be sick as well. Not to mention he was also being an asshole the whole time so there wasn't a real reason for you to forgive him. Me personally i would have slapped that hand and said the same shit he did to me.
I've seen it at least a dozen times from local news story's to online articles and also reddit story's like this. Not common but not as uncommon as one might think
Girl, you should’ve said I had to drive my kids to the ER if they were actually really sick there could’ve been issues more than this and he’s blocking my driveway so my kids I couldn’t drive them to the ER
He would’ve been stuck not opening my door again ruined my sleep multiple times and pissed me off, and yet knowing you have a record and decided to do some shit your out of luck buddy
Honestly I am surprised that you could forgive the, after what they did. I would have been so angry and annoyed that I would probably never forgive them.
I had internal bleeding, was having a miscarriage, and was bleeding everywhere. They handed me a blanket and told me to wait. I passed out on the toilet in the bathroom. I passed out in their lobby. They did NOTHING. I waited 5 hours to be seen and by then needed a blood transfusion.
Obviously op is in the right. But its annoying to me that she thinks wheezing can compare to the others in ER. People with gunshot wounds, smashed ribs, etc.
In Sweden, people going to the ER for a fever that’s deemed not very dangerous at the actual ER is a big reason as to why a lot of people in actual need of ER treatments don’t get the care they need. We have a medical hotline (1177) that you should call beforehand that will let you know whether or not you need to seek ER attention or can wait it out/go to a night urgent care/book an appointment with your house dr. They will also call an ambulance for you if they deem it necessary. This is ofc not necessary if a patient is having an obvious life threathening issue in which case you always should call 112 (911) I think that part triggered me more than the actual issue because there have been many many instances where minor injuries and illnesses has taken up valuable time from actually sick and injured individuals. But I don’t know the US system, so maybe a fever is a reason for an ER visit there 😅 ETA: Ofc if you’re having a really really high fever and other potentially dangerous symptoms you should probably go but it’s always best to call 1177 if you think you can possibly wait 10-30 minutes longer
The fact he already had a record is crazy. Like...he knew he had a case like this before but he still did it. He must have thought you wouldn't really have any evidence to counteract his claim that it was on the street because he seemed to wise up hella fast. My guess? The officer scared the shit out of him and told them about the charges for tresspassing and that's when he realized he fucked up. I would have looked that man in the eyes and said "if I see you or your sons car parked on my property again. I will have no mercy."
If that dude knocked on the door the door would open while im rolling to him on the floor saying “heres my phone number, tell me what you wanna say later”
There is no remorse, no integrity, no sincerity in his apology. He would do it all again in a second if he thought he could get away with it. Personally I wouldn't shake that... thing's... hand.
It's insane how OP dropped the charges. If if were me I would've kept them and said something like, "Let this be a warning. If this happens again I'LL be the ones calling the cops AND getting your car towed AGAIN.&
dang. me personally, when I'm sick and tired I am a force of nature and a demon of hell. I would have pressed charges so fast even lightning wouldn't have been able to keep up.
This reminds me when my old neighbors parked their old beat up car in our driveway and actually DISMANTLED it and left it there for weeks. Idky my mom didn’t call the cops or have it towed or anything. Idk was just 9 when it happened. But all I know is that my mom was mad and she had to park her car on the side of the road.
Maybe it’s just me, but it drives me insane how just because of a fever she decided to take the kids to the ER, I’ve had a concussion from our car accident and not gone, I swear some people are way too sensitive, as my grandma used to say "they need some wax paper for Their candy asses"
honestly, i still would have pressed charges. he was only apologizing and acting all nice because it would do bad for him. i have absolutely no doubt he would have flipped tf out if you said u were still pressing charges.
This sounds like a somewhat bastardized version of a Reddit story I Heard a while ago with just the difference being it being some rich entitled kid who for Christmas or whatever got a new truck, deviation that I heard was that the kid had gotten a new truck and there were too many vehicles in their driveway and garage for them to have the truck in their driveway. They wouldn't Street park it because it was too new and too big. They are stupid could let them use op driveway op said no, long story short op had the truck towed. The story I heard even had the same illness sections
Rescinding the intent to sue for trespass was a mistake. His behaviour needs to have consequences & his son also needs to understand or the behaviour just keeps repeating.
7:57, Surprise, Surprise, the Pinhead who is Quick to Threaten you has a Arrest Record, and could loose LOADS if this goes to Trial. End, Who wants to bet when you shook his hand you gave him and his brat your Cold.
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The way these neighbours are so entitled is low key crazy😭
fr?
Not only are they selfish but they’re also manipulative
Not low key. The absolute highest key.
I can't believe it, especially because they are freaking adults
FR, like why the fuck would u even buy a monster truck in general what’s the point 💀
why would you go to the ER for a high fever?? GO TO URGENT CARE
Holy shit, I can't believe I gotta say this. Even though you have said the same exact thing over and over, IF THE URGENT CARE CENTER IS CLOSED YOU CAN GO TO THE ER
URGENT CARE MAY NOT BE COVERED BY INSURANCE BUT IS FASTER AND STILL CHEAPER THAN AN ER VISIT.
THE REASON WHY I YOU SHOULD GO TO THE URGENT CARE IS SO YOU CAN GET A PROFESSIONAL DIAGNOSIS AND GET STABLIZED IF URGENT CARE CAN'T FULLY TREAT YOUR ISSUE, YES URGENT CARE CAN NOT DO EVERYTHING THE ER CAN DO, BUT THEY CAN STILL GIVE INFO TO THE ER SO THEY CAN TREAT YOU FASTER AND URGENT CARE CAN STILL GIVE YOU MEDICINE TO HELP STABLIZE YOU BEFORE GOING TO THE ER. AND IT WILL SHORTEN YOUR WAIT TIME.
PLEASE STOP REPEATING THE SAME GOD DAMN THING. Thank you 😊
Insurance
@@dashroom8143 ok? But you wouldn't have to pay as much, make your insurance go up, and you won't wait as long
@@dashroom8143 ER= EMERGENCY ROOM. A fever is not a emergency. loosing a limb is an emergency, a heart attack, a stab wound, and a broken femur is an emergency
Depends on what kind of shitty insurance, because if it doesn't cover urgent care, then your gonna be horrified by how much they charge
Depends on insurance. One time I went to the ER free of charge
Long story for nothing really happened... To spare you all time: neighbours parked their car in her driveway without permission, she let it remove, he calls police, police says: it's all fine. end of story.
Ya wrong video bud your
Not on shorts
Wish I saw this comment before watching
@@ill-sidwhat are you on about?
Exactly!! She telling it like world war
@@TheClumsyChickensince he couldve just wrote it on the Short and spare us the trip here
Neighbours are AHs regardless
And the only reason why I could see OP going to the ER instead of UC is because either it was MUCH closer or because of insurance reasons
Or because its a kid that's sick and she want to be extra careful. Or just hates urgent care.
@@laraineyIt’s a virus, and he could have been very ill if anything, so I think she has a valid reason to go there.
Children’s health state can deteriorate rapidly, which is why you normally take them to ER instead of UC if it’s something serious like a high fever. I remember GPs would always tell my mum just to take me to the hospital when I was little because it can get bad rather quickly. Also could be because UC isn’t normally 24/7 so OP could be getting worried about her kid but not be able to visit UC so instead she would have to visit ER.
@@larainey Couple days long thing, you’re good. If it is a multi week issue then go to the ER. OP wasted her, her kid’s, the staff’s, and other patients’ time. Kids get sick all the time, sleep, good food, and hydration (along with over the counter meds depending) is the remedy to run of the mill viruses. My mom was always careful and only took me to the ER twice for whooping cough when I was young.
@@jakesullivan9179only ever been to an er for overdoses and stitches everywhere else was an urgent care, that is until the urgent care years later decided to say “you know this is a minor emergency hospital and not an urgent care right” every sign and even google maps had jt listed as an urgent care needless to say i havent been back 😭
bro, why the fck would you drop the charges. He's not actually sorry, he was just manipulating you to get his as* out of trouble. And if the police interaction would have gone his way, he wouldn't be sorry, he would probably make you pay the towing bill, and a bunch of other stuff. I don't know why people are so quick to accept any half as*ed apology. I would have also filed a harassment charge plus anything else i could. You can't let these people get off with just a slap on the wrist. Because they will never learn that way.
That's what I genuinely don't understand.
If he was sorry, he would have come to that realization before Involving police.
He's only trying to make amends now that he's realized his ass is actually cooked
In my opinion I would drop the charges because I think the father was humbled and I don’t think he would ever do it again, and maybe the family would begin to respect the lady and treat her better for showing mercy.
This is exactly what i thought, also, if the lawn was damaged take it to small claims for a easy bag 💰
I dont think it matters what lessons he learned or didnt lear. It matter wether or not he will park where he is supposed to.
I would drop the charges too. I donr give anough of a shit to go through the hassle. And frankly i dont think being an asshole should be grounds for a lawsuit.
Especially given his records not my damn problem. Either have a clean one or accept getting in bigger trouble next time, that's not my problem.
She was nicer than I would’ve been when neighbor asked for the charges to be dropped. I would’ve told him you should’ve thought of that before you parked on my land.
Same bro
@@jellywolfplayz100 percent
Your driveway your rules.
She did the right thing and all with those idiotic neighbours… but why the hell do people feel like their case is more urgent in a ER because they have a “high” fever (that most of the times is just 39-40 degrees Celsius) when there are people that are actually dying? I get many don’t know basic medicine but even just basic room reading would tell you that between your “feeling uneasy” and that other guy’s 3rd degree burn, his burn would be of higher priority. I also get that I come from a nation where there’s free health care (that’s really not that free because we pay it with taxes but still) and so I can’t really comprehend that feeling of paying for a bad medical service, but getting angry on social media won’t solve it (also in places with free health care there’s usually more people in ER because they won’t even try to solve little problems on their own most of the times).
Yeah, my parents didn’t have a lot of money, we only went to the ER if I was in excruciating pain and nothing was making it better and/or I had a repeating episode of something that we couldn’t figure out how to stop.
but 6 hours is crazy so I see why they were mad
because if the fever is high enough it cooks your brain and you die (around 42C can result in convulsions and death). I had to take my dad to the ER at 1am one day and sat there for hours waiting for help, the ER thinking he was just drunk because he was puking his guts out on the floor, after one of the ER doctors did tests, he was admitted and we were told he was maybe an hour away from dying and his body was in the process of shutting down while we waited in the ER. Just because something isn't obvious doesn't mean it isn't serious.
do people actually go to the doctor for that low of fevers? every single time ive had a fever (i think my highest was like 39.7 c) i literally just layed in bed for like a day
@@hectormontes7056 yeah, I get what you mean. I have an autoimmune disease since I was 3 so I had to stay in the hospital for a lot of time. Besides that though, even if in my country health care is free, my parents always preferred treating illnesses at home if possible. However I'm sorry that for you it wasn't a choice but a must. I hope you're doing better now.
I, myself would be PISSED if this happens. I would have said no to the dad at the end and pressed as many charges that I could.
00.1% of the comments: you made the right decision, people can be so horrible
99.9% of the comments : WHY WOULD YOU GO TO THE ER?!?!?
( that's not even important to the story 🤦♀)
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ITS NOT ! THEY SHOULD BE GRATEFUL THERE ALL OK, NOT SAYING
“Just go to uc he’s just sick”
@@proyo7702 unless if you're a physicist, that extra 0 is not significant.
@@p01nt_blank67 Errrrmrmmmmmmm you should shut the hell up.
@@proyo7702 same thing
Is OP a writer? This reads more like a screen play then a story you would tell. Plus it could have been a lot more concise. I also love the tangent about the hospital even though a lot of that wasn’t relevant to the truck story.
It seemed much more like it has been AI generated. Main thing I noticed is repetition of small details
@@Ilo722yeah plus the officer is a bit... off
@@R.A.I.D. yeah like “checking the lawn”???
It’s all bs
seriously, the officer wouldn’t be that thorough checking the information. getting her to print off the emails? bullshit. definitely ai generated.
One time, I broke my arm by falling off a bike, I had blood dripping all over my legs and arms and had giant gashes. They deemed it not serious enough to need treatment and I waited 3 hours. This is true, because there are people who are in critical condition and could die, or have brain damage, so being sick or having a broken arm and bleeding out is not as big of a deal. I could handle the blood at home, and the broke arm was only a buckle fracture, otherwise I was fine, and being sick can be bad, but there’s a good chance it’s not “dying” bad so you just gotta hunker down and thug it out until they can treat you. Just be glad you’re not in such a critical condition that you have to be treated immediately.
Came to say this. As an ems student I have learnt that it is more “fortunate” to have to wait however ridiculously long at an ER than to be seen immediately. If you can wait, you’ll probably be okay. If you can’t wait, the situation is dire and is the worst day of your life for many. It’s an emergency room, not a waiting room for a GP. I understand the frustration with not being attended to quickly, but my gratitude for being able to wait overpowers that frustration now
@@lucillerouge5303you right I was a priority, patient once ended up in the ICU.
@@lucillerouge5303 yeah it’s mb for not mentioning it, but I’d rather wait hours for treatment than be in such a bad condition that I need immediate treatment.
@DRofCZcams it's also really dumb to go when you're just sick. She should've gone to urgent care or a ready clinic to 1. Save money, 2. Save time, 3. Not risk the lives of critical condition patients who can die from these mild viruses. I think we need to give more focus in schools on what is and isnt an emergency
Every time I’ve been treated immediately at the ER it was either for an allergic reaction, or there was one time involving an accident with glass where I severed all the tendons in my right hand at the wrist as well as severing a nerve that goes into 3 of my fingers. I had to get emergency surgery to reattach everything and I wasn’t able to use my right hand for many months. I have mostly full mobility back in my hand and full feeling as well. Both of which I was not guaranteed to get back so Im very thankful
Had similar issues with our neighbors and they are still doing stuff. Police called on them four or five times now and a police officer had to walk them through a letter stating not to come onto our property at all. This was after their grandson started turning around in our driveway, and almost hit me twice, my dog once, and my nephew, and we put a chain up across our property. After telling the grandson to stop almost hitting us in our own driveway. They then proceeded to try and build a fence across our driveway to block us in and the wife tried to slap my mother twice from behind. All over 18 inches of property that we travel over and have traveled over for 30+ years, 15+years before they moved in. We had permission from the previous owner to make the drive way and also legal documents saying the driveway has existed since 1994. Apparently we now legally have a right away after using our driveway that long. Local police wouldn't arrest the grandfather for trespassing yet though, or throwing rocks from our driveway at animals. Awful people.
Lawsuit finna go crazy
Guys we don't know where she lives, in France for exemple theres no urgent care it's the ER directly
Also a high fever with kids at a certain point is gonna give a kid seizures so it is very dangerous too
Wrong in France there are equivalents to urgent care like sos médecin or the likes in most medium to large towns
@paulbrule5897 yeah where I use to live in the US there were no urgent care open that late. She said she got back at 3 am with a 30 minute drive each way and a 6 hour wait. That means she left for son's treatment at 8pm. Many offices would be closed by that time
@@paulbrule5897 nobody goes to SOS médecin NOBODY
I’m not saying you don’t have a point. But who buys a monster truck in the tight roads of France? Even though it’s just an example of
Definitely press charges immediately if he does it again.
Problem solved, don't do the wrong thing and you won't get punished for it down the line.
Btw, just because someone calls the cops on you, doesn't mean you have to open your door, or talk to them. You have no legal or moral obligation to help the police in their investigation against YOURSELF.
But it would paint you as guilty..
@@nesiachan4534and she wasn’t guilty so there was no point to not open the door and help them help you 🤷
@@xaspects7926helps her more to open the door and talk
@@nesiachan4534sure but they arent prosecutors
@@nesiachan4534thats quite literally not how it works 💀, you can choose not to answer. they cant use that in any case as it violates ur rights of the 5th.
Ngl, people who go to ER with their kids when they have a high fever could go in panic, especially young kids, because they’re still more susceptible to death due to illness
okay but it always aggravates me when people get upset that they wait for hours at the ER like...yeah of course your sick kid with cold symptom isn't going to be seen anytime soon as people with a potential heart attack, severe allergic reactions, or bleeding out are coming through the door, be for real
Well obviously they would treat the people more in danger right?
Especially when you could help your kid by removing the blanket and giving them paracetamol (tylenol? think thats the american version)
@@paulalcock6735 yeah exactly my point, idk what makes them think they’ll be prioritized
@@gueraguess I guess it's parent entitlement, they think because they played hide the sausage they think they should be more prioritised more than a guy that got hit by a family of six's SUV and they think they're in the wrong. Parents to single people are mostly dickheads
This it’s my story not a justification, I was waiting in the ErR for 8 hours and I have terrible allergies so I wasn’t thinking it was anything serious, turns out I’m have asthma spikes out of nowhere, I kept passing out while waiting and I have really bad eczema, when I did get into the ER I had a full body check and my whole back was inflamed and swollen and bloody from me scratching, but I didn’t realize because I kept passing out.
Everyone is sorry when consequences loom imminent. This remorse is always false. Not usually, not often, always. Sorrow for consequence is not sorrow for the act. They will do it again without hesitation if they think they can get away with it.
What a nice Police Officer.
Why didn't the police officer call the towing company? Will a towing company tow a car from a public space?
it was a private space, not public
@@Lil-Deeno That's my point The neighbor said it was towed from a public space. So the police officer could check with the towing company. Would they tow it from a public space?
@ryanjones875 My guess is the police officer would have done that and might have once he left the scene. But the cop just came from the neighbors to get her side of the story. Cops don't do followup work in the moment. They get everyone's statement, gather evidence, and then go back to the station and process it. Then he would do something like call the tow company to ask where was the vehicle. Think about it from the cops point of view, he had no reason not to believe the neighbor in the beginning. That's why it's often very important who calls the police first, they get to give their side first and then it goes from there.
@@ryanjones875 the way you worded it was kinda confusing, i get what you meant now
If I was them, I would have not accept the apology and I would still press charges. But props to them for forgiving them.
i would of still pressed charges
Long story short: She gots her child to the hospital after arguing with the neighbour. She wrote her property management, but they answered that this is non of their business. A few days later she needed to go again to the hospital with her son, waited 6 hours in the ER and came back at night when the neighbar thought he could secretly park on her parking lot. She called a towing service and they got his truck. She took photos and a video of everything, especially at the morning when the neighbour searched for his car and called the police for "stealing" his car. She showed the photos, video und e-mails to the police officer and at the end the neighbour apologized to her after he finds out that he can't sue her but she can (he has a criminal past).
Sorry for my bad english. 🙈
2 minutes ago
Wow, I’m really proud of what you’ve done today and the fact that it was a day ago for me. I’m really impressed.
“I’ll take things that never happened for $1000 Alex”
It’s backfired BADLY
The guy really went like im going to call the police after doing something illegal even though i already have done illegal shit and got caught lmaoo
You should have went through with pressing the charges.People like this get away with c*** like that.All the time, and they think they can because of their money.And then the one time Jo when it doesn't count their money.Then they try to apologize and that's what it works
it sounds like a student writing an essay and trying to get to a word count requirement.
"that's how I met your father"
Would not drop the case, the neighbor is only sorry that he got caught and in trouble with the police
cmon dont be kind for ppl thay dont deserve your kindness that egoist should learn a lesson
tbh she played it smart.
Now she has leverage to keep them in line. She would lose that and become open enemies with her neighbors if she continued pressing charges. Now she can use it as a threat.
“I don’t abide threats, and I don’t appreciate my word not being enough. I won’t waste them on you, I’ll let the courts and police do my talking, since they’re who you finally listened to.”
There was no reason to apologize to him.
He was literally endangering your kids health by being ignorant and caused you to be sick as well. Not to mention he was also being an asshole the whole time so there wasn't a real reason for you to forgive him. Me personally i would have slapped that hand and said the same shit he did to me.
Half of this story is irrelevant
How honestly
No it's not
same thing your mom said when you came out
like bro why watch if you know it’s irrelevant
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This makes no sense. Who parks in someone else’s driveway?
I've seen it at least a dozen times from local news story's to online articles and also reddit story's like this. Not common but not as uncommon as one might think
Honestly, I wouldn’t even ask
Girl, you should’ve said I had to drive my kids to the ER if they were actually really sick there could’ve been issues more than this and he’s blocking my driveway so my kids I couldn’t drive them to the ER
shoulda coughed real obnoxiously into your hand before reaching for his, but those charges should not have been dropped.
People like that will never learn their lesson. Forgiving is the biggest mistake
Criminal record and still committing small crimes
He would’ve been stuck not opening my door again ruined my sleep multiple times and pissed me off, and yet knowing you have a record and decided to do some shit your out of luck buddy
I personally wouldn't have dropped the charges because her kid got sick and she couldn't use her car. I would not have cared at that point
They officially own this sound
I would not have dropped the charges.
Just charge him lots of rent. He can park if he pays.
Honestly I am surprised that you could forgive the, after what they did. I would have been so angry and annoyed that I would probably never forgive them.
3:31 they didn’t have the right to have it on your property
Ngl sounds like my family 💀 we have a monster truck, only difference is that our neighbors park in our driveway :/
Didn’t know the cop was chill like that
hahah i'd press chargers just because of how rude he was it CAN go back on his record
Some people are saying high fever isn’t an ER visit, 104 is a hospital visit, 105 is an ER visit, and 106 is a medical emergency
I had internal bleeding, was having a miscarriage, and was bleeding everywhere. They handed me a blanket and told me to wait. I passed out on the toilet in the bathroom. I passed out in their lobby. They did NOTHING. I waited 5 hours to be seen and by then needed a blood transfusion.
Obviously op is in the right. But its annoying to me that she thinks wheezing can compare to the others in ER. People with gunshot wounds, smashed ribs, etc.
We don't know where op lives, she could live in France or a place without UC. Don't go thinking that ops a bitch or dickhead.
Where, I-was-going. - ai moment
He huffed and puffed like the big bad wolf
Ok this sounds like an actual story
Damn American health insurance ducks balls
For the entitled neighbors
WOMP WOMP
You're a better person than me I would have still pressed charges
She’s too nice in my opinion. Some people need to learn the hard way.
In Sweden, people going to the ER for a fever that’s deemed not very dangerous at the actual ER is a big reason as to why a lot of people in actual need of ER treatments don’t get the care they need.
We have a medical hotline (1177) that you should call beforehand that will let you know whether or not you need to seek ER attention or can wait it out/go to a night urgent care/book an appointment with your house dr.
They will also call an ambulance for you if they deem it necessary.
This is ofc not necessary if a patient is having an obvious life threathening issue in which case you always should call 112 (911)
I think that part triggered me more than the actual issue because there have been many many instances where minor injuries and illnesses has taken up valuable time from actually sick and injured individuals.
But I don’t know the US system, so maybe a fever is a reason for an ER visit there 😅
ETA:
Ofc if you’re having a really really high fever and other potentially dangerous symptoms you should probably go but it’s always best to call 1177 if you think you can possibly wait 10-30 minutes longer
The fact he already had a record is crazy. Like...he knew he had a case like this before but he still did it. He must have thought you wouldn't really have any evidence to counteract his claim that it was on the street because he seemed to wise up hella fast.
My guess? The officer scared the shit out of him and told them about the charges for tresspassing and that's when he realized he fucked up.
I would have looked that man in the eyes and said "if I see you or your sons car parked on my property again. I will have no mercy."
This needs to have more views and likes😩
The audacity! Get TF off my lawn! 😊❤
Thank you
If the neighbor if he needed a transplant I’ll say move the car fist
If that dude knocked on the door the door would open while im rolling to him on the floor saying “heres my phone number, tell me what you wanna say later”
3:49 bro I would’ve LAUGHED. Shut the door in his face. & call the cops.
I wouldn’t have dropped the charges. He should have thought of his history beforehand.
You are a better person than I am. I would not have dropped the charges. He was warned a couple of times and was a real asshole about it
Bro what did you do Sue them get the money who's poor now?
I’m surprised the father and son didn’t steal the business card
There is no remorse, no integrity, no sincerity in his apology. He would do it all again in a second if he thought he could get away with it.
Personally I wouldn't shake that... thing's... hand.
It's insane how OP dropped the charges. If if were me I would've kept them and said something like, "Let this be a warning. If this happens again I'LL be the ones calling the cops AND getting your car towed AGAIN.&
So who should have waited for your son? The stroke victim?! The heart attack, or the eight car pile up?
Nah bro cant say ‘sike thats the wrong number’
dang. me personally, when I'm sick and tired I am a force of nature and a demon of hell. I would have pressed charges so fast even lightning wouldn't have been able to keep up.
This reminds me when my old neighbors parked their old beat up car in our driveway and actually DISMANTLED it and left it there for weeks. Idky my mom didn’t call the cops or have it towed or anything. Idk was just 9 when it happened. But all I know is that my mom was mad and she had to park her car on the side of the road.
Maybe it’s just me, but it drives me insane how just because of a fever she decided to take the kids to the ER, I’ve had a concussion from our car accident and not gone, I swear some people are way too sensitive, as my grandma used to say "they need some wax paper for Their candy asses"
No apologies accepted here bruh, he's only apologizing coz his antics didnt work. Otherwise he'd still be a dick towards you
honestly, i still would have pressed charges. he was only apologizing and acting all nice because it would do bad for him. i have absolutely no doubt he would have flipped tf out if you said u were still pressing charges.
Neighbors committed several crimes. Wow 😃
My Asian ass parents would not take me to the doctor for those weak ass symptoms lmao
This sounds like a somewhat bastardized version of a Reddit story I Heard a while ago with just the difference being it being some rich entitled kid who for Christmas or whatever got a new truck, deviation that I heard was that the kid had gotten a new truck and there were too many vehicles in their driveway and garage for them to have the truck in their driveway. They wouldn't Street park it because it was too new and too big. They are stupid could let them use op driveway op said no, long story short op had the truck towed. The story I heard even had the same illness sections
Rescinding the intent to sue for trespass was a mistake. His behaviour needs to have consequences & his son also needs to understand or the behaviour just keeps repeating.
Thanks for telling me about your sick children not being sick….
Why did I think that it was a monster truck 💀
OP is just as entitled as their neighbor lol
Huh... what do you think about that?
Yeah somebody owes me the last 9 minutes of my life back.
Tested negative for what exactly 😂😂😂
7:57, Surprise, Surprise, the Pinhead who is Quick to Threaten you has a Arrest Record, and could loose LOADS if this goes to Trial.
End, Who wants to bet when you shook his hand you gave him and his brat your Cold.
He came groveling because after the police visit he knew he was wildly Wrong! 🙄
OP is a doormat… she shouldn’t have dropped the charges.
don't pull in the drive all the way, that'll keep em from stopping
Dude, how are these people so entitled
going to the hospital because ur son is coughing is kinda wild though