These 10 simple habits are improving my personal style ✨

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  • In today's video I'm sharing the 10 habits I've been working on that are improving my personal style.
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Komentáře • 341

  • @Maire.
    @Maire. Před rokem +1836

    ✨ *_SUMMARY_* ✨
    1. Get dressed every day, even if you do not have any plans for the day.
    2. Put items you want to buy on a wishlist and wait at least 24 hours before buying them.
    3. Buy your favourite pieces in different materials to make your outfits more interesting.
    4. Pay attention to your footwear.
    5. Pay attention to balance and proportions.
    6. Take time to take care of yourself.
    7. Don't feel pressured to declutter a piece if you are not entirely sure, you can always do that later.
    8. Use accessories!
    9. Do not hesitate to repeat outfits you love!
    10. Make sure you can pay for the items you buy.

    • @APTTMHYforever
      @APTTMHYforever Před rokem +7

      Thank you

    • @Maire.
      @Maire. Před rokem +3

      @@APTTMHYforever np!

    • @raf906
      @raf906 Před rokem +4

      Super helpful, thank you!

    • @Maire.
      @Maire. Před rokem +1

      @@raf906

    • @moviesadda5645
      @moviesadda5645 Před rokem +2

      Thanks Marie, the list you mentioned from video helped me a lot in saving time😅😅

  • @JehanineMelmoth
    @JehanineMelmoth Před rokem +1615

    I’ve finally stopped buying ‘nearlys’ and ‘great except for’ clothes. You know, jeans that nearly fit, dresses that are great except for the colour. I know my preferences now and I stick to them. There are still too many fabulous choices out there, but thanks to you I’m looking better and buying less.

  • @MeliBsharpe
    @MeliBsharpe Před rokem +111

    That whole 'don't let go of things immediately if you don't want to' is SO TRUE. The other day I pulled out this jacket I bought two years ago and never wore and recently it's become my favourite closet item. It genuinely looks so cute! I feel like now I just go through phases of wearing and not wearing things in my closet and it almost feels like they're new items every time, you know?

    • @lisahansen6014
      @lisahansen6014 Před rokem +5

      I'm the same. I put things away for a bit and then later I'll find it and think it's a new item. :)

    • @lookingatdaisies9901
      @lookingatdaisies9901 Před 11 měsíci +4

      I've had those moments too, also just storing away clothes that are not for the current and bringing them back out gives me a fresh perspective and excitement because I totally forgot I had them when I wasn't seeing them gathe dust everyday.

  • @MissKoletta
    @MissKoletta Před rokem +174

    I would add: choose fabric and cut over brand. In thrift stores you may find great, original items of good quality that will stay with you for years and build the whole character of your style.

  • @paulaallen4106
    @paulaallen4106 Před rokem +196

    As a senior who loves dressing in nice clothes every day, I find your advice excellent. I shop mainly thrift and consignment, which is much cheaper than retail and much more fun too.

    • @seltzermint5
      @seltzermint5 Před 7 měsíci +1

      thrift is so great. I genuinely feel that 70% of my favorite items are thrifted.

  • @cynthiamurphy3669
    @cynthiamurphy3669 Před rokem +43

    Very helpful video. I'm near 70, happily retired since age 62. Before that, I worked from home in the evening hours for the last 16 years of my working life, which I absolutely loved (I did meet up with a few coworkers from time to time but never missed that office). I worked a total of 38 years, survived a divorce, never had kids and didn't want to remarry. At home, I almost always got out of bed around 8 a.m., made my coffee, got out of the PJs, put some makeup on and always, a pair of earrings (the only jewelry I care to wear). I cut my pain-in-the-butt longer hair off and spent most of my daytime hours doing something out in my yard or would be out walking or running errands with and for my mom with Alzheimer's. She's gone now, and I miss her a lot. Routine is a very good thing to cultivate, whether you work or not. Helps greatly to know what colors you look your best in when it comes to makeup or clothing and for me, it's keeping things simple. I've always been on the frugal side anyway and am now content with not actually buying much, though I don't mind looking around. Over the years, I've found nice clothing at thrift stores. I'm currently going through my closet to see what's what and can't wait for the fall-winter season since I prefer the cooler weather...

    • @ritaborde1657
      @ritaborde1657 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Hello Cynthia, you are speaking from my heart🥰. And I am just at the very start of getting retiring at 63. I also love thrift Stores, but there are no more in my areas, so whenever I get to Germany or to our main city here in Croatia I do a biiiig shopping tour at the thrift Stores. I also very often get clothes from my people around me, and as I sew a lot of my textiles, there is also a big stash growing in my house😂. And Accessoires, like fashion jewelry , handbags, and scarfs and shoes (without High Heels, because of Osteoporose 😭) are a big Part of my wardrobe. And I love comfort clothing, inspired by the middle ages and vintage. Just found a sweet dress in a CARINA of the year 1978, tadaaaaaa💝. Wish you the best💐

    • @cynthiamurphy3669
      @cynthiamurphy3669 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@ritaborde1657 It's great that you can sew - I learned how years ago and did hang on my sewing machine but got rid of it finally since I hadn't used it in so long. I really regret this. It sounds like you are really enjoying yourself and know good clothing when you see it. I hope you have a wonderful life to come, and may God bless you and yours! Thank you for your comment.

    • @ritaborde1657
      @ritaborde1657 Před 6 měsíci

      @@cynthiamurphy3669 Cynthia, thank you sooooo much for your good wishes and blessings 🥰. I cannnot imagine having no sewing machine, so, yes, but donot regret, why not get yourself a new one😜?! There so simple and Not expensive sewing machines Out there. I actually sew on one from LIDL 🤩, because my Pfaff machine has lost its Power ( I never sew Jeans again😱!!!) . I also live somehow frugal, all life long, doing a lot of things on my own, and when I like something to buy, I just do IT If I can. We are here on earth to live and enjoy our lifes🥰. Btw, where do you live in this also lovely world? Its getting really cold here, and I go now to prepare my oven and get wood into the House. Enjoy your beloved coldy, but cosy weather ❄️☃️🌬️

  • @bstrouble
    @bstrouble Před rokem +157

    Thanks Christina for the advice. I’m a guy & I’ve been watching you for sometime now as it has helped me to be more self aware of my shopping habits. I don’t see many men in the comments section but I believe there is valuable stuff to be taken away even when it comes to learning women’s styling. Lots a guys ignore proportions but women do it really well. For example when I layer, I like to French tuck my shirt for that added layer of dimension which would show where your waist starts.

    • @JennaOnTheBeach
      @JennaOnTheBeach Před rokem

      Chic 👌🏾

    • @lookingatdaisies9901
      @lookingatdaisies9901 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@kimberlyperrotis8962I watch lots of men's channel's too, I just enjoy people talk about fashion, and I may have found them when I was looking for how my blazers should fit and Goodyear welted shoes as I was sick of glued together shoes, but everything is useful, I have made direct impact on how my dad dresses and he asks me for my thoughts, he dresses well in the first place so it's extra nice to have information useful enough. Even my brothers ask me too.

  • @feonaarabellaparaiso1786
    @feonaarabellaparaiso1786 Před rokem +72

    I have found mixing clothes that I normally wouldn’t pair together is a great way to get inspired and play with my wardrobe. I normally would not pair my plaid printed work trousers with other printed clothing items, but I’ve found it to be rather fun and chic to mix several prints to create a maximalism Gucci-esque look instead of just a slightly interesting work look.

  • @dianegoldberg6791
    @dianegoldberg6791 Před rokem +47

    YES to storage of those beautiful,special occasion clothes. I am an "aspiring minimalist" but refuse to get rid of some beautiful, timeless dresses I own for future special events. I agree.

    • @happytofu5
      @happytofu5 Před rokem

      I agree! Getting rid of items should only be done if you really really don't want / like them or they break down. I also have a kinda minimalist wardrobe, but I don't wear my "business chic" every day, since I don't want to wear those items down too fast. I want to keep them longer than just a year or two.

  • @juliawhitmore3991
    @juliawhitmore3991 Před rokem +24

    Shape is SO important, especially for plus sized people like me. Finding a silhouette I enjoyed when I looked in the mirror really helped me stop buying clothes I hated wearing/couldn't style. Don't follow an arbitrary guide about what an "apple body type" should wear, but DO experiment with shape to find out what kinds of clothing are most flattering in your eyes.

    • @happytofu5
      @happytofu5 Před rokem

      Playing around with the silhouettes helps a lot here! Especially constrasting oversized / flowy items with slim fitting ones, or balancing the waistline with the shoe. I found out its not necessarily the "fault" of an item if it looks weird on me, but more of the combination with the other items.

  • @sablisland
    @sablisland Před rokem +141

    For wishlist items, since I usually see them on Poshmark, I pick a random day in the future and make a reminder that says “if you still want X and it’s still available, you can buy it.” Often deciding to buy it is the fun part and actually getting it/having it is incidental, and this has really worked for me! I still get the joy of deciding I’m going to buy it later, but many times by the time the date rolls around I’m not that into it anyways.

    • @christinejanvier3530
      @christinejanvier3530 Před rokem

      Great advice, I'm a Poshmark junkie

    • @rhythmandblues_alibi
      @rhythmandblues_alibi Před 6 měsíci

      That's a really kool idea! It also takes away the illicit fun that goes hand in hand with guilt, of buying stuff on impulse that you really can't afford but want regardless, which is a good thing!

  • @tinabecker1313
    @tinabecker1313 Před rokem +383

    Love making a wishlist!! It’s made me realize while I may want things, I have everything I NEED! I clearly don’t need the pink blazer that’s been on my wishlist since 2020. Fantastic video 🙌🏻

    • @amandaamanda5398
      @amandaamanda5398 Před rokem +4

      A wish list doesn't help finesse one's style. Take straight blue jeans for example. There are different shades of blue, and there are also different waistlines, different shapes at your hip and butt, different lengths and wides of legs, etc. They are designed to work with not only different body types but also different tops and shoes. You won't get those subtleties just from looking at pictures and watching videos. You'd need to buy at least 10 pairs of seemingly similar blue jeans just to start to be able to "get it", and we are just talking about straight-legged blue jeans. ---- Of course, styling will be much easier if all your tops and shoes are of the same fit, style, and similar color.

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 Před rokem +7

      @@amandaamanda5398 I disagree, with pretty much your entire premise. Straight leg blue jeans are available by the ton, so why would you put them on a wish list, unless you're such a difficult fit that a decent pair of jeans is a dream that has gone unfulfilled? On the other hand, I, too, have had a pink blazer on my wish list, but for 24 years, not just two. I need a petite size, so when I find my dream pale pink wool blazer that's good quality and the right shade of pale pink, it doesn't come in my size or it's sold out. That blazer epitomizes for me my ideal look. It's the image that I keep in my head of how I want to present myself to the world.

  • @happytofu5
    @happytofu5 Před rokem +7

    The point on footwear is so true. I started to build my outfits up from the shoes I plan to wear according to weather and walking / standing time. First I select my shoe, then I select the outfit that goes best with it. That way I don't have to wear shoes that I don't like that day.

  • @lorrainehughes-smith199
    @lorrainehughes-smith199 Před rokem +13

    I have at the age of 55 just found my style. It has evolved amazingly. I have lost a phenomenal amount of weight through illness but it suits my 4ft 10 frame better. I ordered from Abercrombie and Fitch for the first time. I must say I am British but live in Australia. I went shopping with my daughter who is 13 and I have been referred to as her grandmother ( very distressing) . However, I now feel happier when in jeans with a nice top, usually plain with a small jacket on top. I became addicted to Poshmark , although I bought a ton of duds I also bought some fantastic vintage pieces. That night I was wearing ankle booties, 3/4 vegan leather pants a pale bodysuit and one of my vintage find jackets. I thought I looked ok but was amazed when a young saleswoman told me that I was rocking my look. I find taking a compliment difficult but that night with no interaction prior between us I actually believed her. I always strive to look my best whenever I leave the house often to my own and other’s detriment. I used to wear what I termed a “uniform “ when I did the school run and had to get out of the car. Little did I know that all the other Mums used to wonder how I looked so put together at that time in the morning. Really it was vanity. I didn’t want to be seen without my makeup on and looking as if I had somewhere to be apart from back home to clean.
    The breakdown of my marriage has also had a massive impact/effect upon me. I don’t want to be that person anymore, the one my husband fell out of love with if he even ever loved me at all. I was a shopaholic and obviously that had an impact. I just couldn’t find ME. Not sure if I truly have as I have an addiction to boots, long boot, ankle boots, suede boots,leather boots. You name them any colour and I probably have a pair.
    I accept that I have issues that I have dealt with by shopping, but nowadays I order things, put them in my cart and the forget them. I almost feel I have bought the items just by putting them in my carts and so far it’s working. I have longggggggggg way to go and a lot of things to store, sell, give away or whatever but I’m trying. If you have read this, I Thankyou sincerely. Lorraine

    • @lindawaddington7866
      @lindawaddington7866 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I think Lorraine you love boots and that is your signature style. Nothing wrong with that. You just enjoy fashion. One year I spent an entire income shopping for clothes. But I am not that person anymore. I still buy things but not on that scale. Haven't the space. Curating my wardrobe has stopped the urge to add to it unless the new item is special. And will enrich my wardrobe somehow. I reached a point where I was overwhelmed by all my stuff. Now spend time trying to wear everything purchased. I am 69 and love to dress in my happy clothes...😊

  • @allthingswavy6420
    @allthingswavy6420 Před rokem +92

    Just wanted to let you know that this 60-something girl has, with your help (and that of Alyssa Beltempo ;-)), FINALLY gotten clear about my personal style "signature". I appreciate your channel soo much ❤️
    Edit: I really need "footwear" help! Any ideas for helping me "visualize" what shoes will work for my style BEFORE I buy?? I do need to add to my shoe options a bit but because shoes are usually a pricier commitment for me, I'd like to have a way to figure out what to look for first--haha!

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  Před rokem +42

      Amazing! Ahhh I love that! I can make a video on shoes 🥰

    • @camm8832
      @camm8832 Před rokem +12

      I think another great way is looking for staple wardrobe shoes that have versatility but also match your own needs such as can you wear/like to wear high heels or do you prefer flats or maybe a chunkier heel. Next consider seasonal shoe needs depending on where you live, such as if you need a boot for snow or can you get an awesome pair of shields or leather booties for a cooler season.
      I’d say in most cases you can’t go wrong with a great white pair of quality trainers/tennis shoes like Stan smiths, addidas, Vejas, or Balenciaga…there are many great even more affordable options as well
      Then consider a great neutral flat or a true red for a pop of color or even a silver or gold pair to treat as a neutral.
      For me ankle boots are versatile and I’m in S FL. Sandals like the Hermes or the Steve Madden dupe for them are also a nice must have for our weather.
      I love that you mentioned you can find your personal style at any age. You
      Go woman! 🌞

    • @allthingswavy6420
      @allthingswavy6420 Před rokem +3

      @@camm8832 These are great, concrete suggestions!! Thank you!

    • @lillianbarker4292
      @lillianbarker4292 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Number one is comfort and quality. I shop at Zappos online because they have narrow sizes I need. I’ve discovered favorite brands that suit me (walk Soft and Vaneli for example). Once I have the practical shoes I need for basic occasions, I add fun shoes that add style and color, but very few. I’m 73 but can still enjoy shoes even though my body changes limit clothing styles. I pay more for shoes because their quality and style make or break an outfit.

  • @wondering_stars_in_oz8462

    I've heard people say this. Dress nice every day and if your worried about your clothes you can wear an apron. During covid i started just staying in my pyjamas all day 🙊 i have to stop 😂

  • @The.LifeWithLori
    @The.LifeWithLori Před rokem +54

    Absolutely agree! Improving my personal style has increased my confidence as well.

  • @Sienna10Sunz
    @Sienna10Sunz Před rokem +3

    Great tip to recommend dressing fully- even if working from home, because I find more often than not, I need to still do something that takes me away from the home - often at a short notice, such as dropping off my kids forgotten lunch, or interacting with someone such as a delivery carrier. As Snoop Dogg says, "You don't need to get ready, when you are ready."

  • @lilidonna
    @lilidonna Před rokem +5

    Storing clothes and coming back to them later has become my form of shopping ☺️ i just chuck them into vacuum bags and stash them under the bed and when i rediscover them - it feels like i’ve bought something new. This is also good for my ongoing weight fluctuations cos hormones don’t play lol

  • @kristidavid4473
    @kristidavid4473 Před rokem +17

    The self care tip is the best one in my opinion! I’ve always had a goal for myself that I want to feel so good about myself (my body, my skin, my hair, my personality & sense of self) that I will look good in a white T-shirt and jeans. Hope that makes sense 😊

  • @juliabrito4248
    @juliabrito4248 Před rokem +46

    We have two completely different styles, but after watching this video I had to subscribe to your channel. Those were great tips that could be applied to basically anyone's preferences, and I loved the segment where you showed the New Balance shoes with different pants to make your point! It made everything super visual and also easy to understand. Great content!! :)

    • @nyahbell826
      @nyahbell826 Před rokem +2

      Same!! Loved seeing the differences side by side!

  • @amgchainus
    @amgchainus Před rokem +15

    I agree with dressing up. I did online teaching during the pandemic and still got dressed up. I'm on vacation this summer but I'm still getting dressed even if I had nowhere to go, and shop my own wardrobe.

  • @cindyboughen9933
    @cindyboughen9933 Před rokem +37

    I love outfit repeating. I’ve learned that it’s “ok” thanks to people like you! Great video😍

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 Před rokem +2

      It's also called a signature style. I like that term.

  • @amyjones8613
    @amyjones8613 Před rokem +5

    You are a very beautiful person. Inside and out. Your content is wholesome and knowledgeable without making the watchers feel laymen or dumb. 🥰

  • @malisabrown7597
    @malisabrown7597 Před rokem +8

    Agree with the waiting period before a buy- I screen shot things I want and keep them in a folder to re-visit them and make sure I actually want it- 9/10 I don’t end up getting it!

  • @IM-uh5tk
    @IM-uh5tk Před rokem +17

    1) 1:37 get dressed daily for nothing
    2) 3:17 wait before you shop for something
    3) 4:45 add texture
    4) 7:17 pay attention to footwear
    5) 9:37 proportion and balance

  • @Jessxo13
    @Jessxo13 Před rokem +8

    All great points. In addition to the wish list concept, if I find something I want, I’ll research to see what similar options are available. Typically, I end up researching so extensively, and seeing just how many other options there are, I sometimes end up realizing I don’t want to put in the work anymore and the idea goes stale. Kind of like listening to a new song on repeat until I’m sick of it.

    • @neitilusikka4226
      @neitilusikka4226 Před rokem +1

      I am the same. For me the volume of options make me feeling overwhelmet and I just stop checking up anything. Somethimes it`s quite annoying when I don`t seem to find even basic stuff 🙈

  • @cm975
    @cm975 Před rokem +9

    Great video! The struggle you explained at the beginning, at least as far as wearing comfortable clothes but feeling like crap until that look seeps into your work attire too - not a great feeling! It’s amazing how hard just putting on a real outfit and not just gym shorts can be. Thanks!!

  • @seventhmade1918
    @seventhmade1918 Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much for sharing Christina!! Love that you shared the actual habits to building your style. 💕

  • @lindsaygillis6812
    @lindsaygillis6812 Před rokem +5

    I always love hearing your advice. It really inspires me to amp up my style uniforms with accessories and consider proportions when getting dressed. Great video as always! 🙂

  • @marciagarcia8486
    @marciagarcia8486 Před rokem +20

    This video is so me today!! Self care , allowing myself to store things for a while, revisiting my accessories and waking up one hour earlier to have enough time to get dressed and put a little make up with creativity 🙌🏻😍 joyfully. And NO credit card bills ! Great video 🧡

  • @thebeauty_minimalist
    @thebeauty_minimalist Před rokem +2

    Love your tip about personal care and your emphasis on personal finances, style is holistic! 💜

  • @danamatsukawa4762
    @danamatsukawa4762 Před rokem +10

    I like the wish list and a wait for a while idea very much. In addition to not getting things I don't need, it really hones me in to why I want the item. The result is that I am much more content with the items that I do buy. I have thought through how I am going to use it and when I do these things I feel that sense of satisfaction of having something I use. I all so appreciate repeating an outfit that I like. It takes the stress out of getting dressed, especially when I am in a hurry.

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  Před rokem +2

      Right? So glad you’re finding value in those habits too!

  • @starylize
    @starylize Před rokem +37

    this vid came at a great time. i'm getting over a frenzy of impulse shopping and i'm choosing to try shopping my closet more. :) super excited to style what i have for WFH!

    • @goldengrace2833
      @goldengrace2833 Před rokem +6

      I feel you on the frenzy of impulse shopping! And now some resulting shame 😕

    • @gracewaterlilly8023
      @gracewaterlilly8023 Před rokem +8

      I had this Shopping Phase too! I was so ashamed, I did it for A YEAR! I was so embarassed but I want to tackle it now! Its the First time in... months I dont have New clothes on the way to me. I really want to improve

    • @goldengrace2833
      @goldengrace2833 Před rokem +4

      @@gracewaterlilly8023 it's so good to be able to relate to others. I am on a no buy right now, but the craving has yet to subside...

    • @starylize
      @starylize Před rokem +1

      @@goldengrace2833 same here. the shame is some of the worst parts! but we got this. we can get through it! :)

    • @starylize
      @starylize Před rokem

      @@gracewaterlilly8023 i feel you on this! mine have been on and off for a few years but i really want to make a change. we're in this together!

  • @sheilynnalfredhager9873
    @sheilynnalfredhager9873 Před rokem +1

    Great tips! I also struggled with impulse buying clothes buyers remorse. One thing that helped me utilize what I already have was going to the gym. A lot of the clothes I already owned I didn’t feel comfortable in because I didn’t feel like they looked good on me, after a few months at the gym I started to realize I was reaching for what I had in my closet and it was exciting and felt like I just got new clothes 😊

  • @MaPrajna1
    @MaPrajna1 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Loved this video. I listened to it on the drive to work and got to watch it tonight to see the outfits you featured. Thanks for the thought and effort you put in this - a great combination of actions, mindsets, and styles.

  • @sablisland
    @sablisland Před rokem +1

    I used to get rid of things too and did end up starting to hold onto them. I have tons of room to store things, so if it ticks all of my boxes (colour, style, fit, etc) but just isn’t “doing it” for me at that particular time, I hold onto it. I have dug things out in the past! (I have been letting go of things that I know just don’t fit me anymore / are uncomfortable to wear).

  • @jodrew1845
    @jodrew1845 Před rokem +1

    Your habit #7 is a valuable tool. I've put things away at the end of the winter season, only to forget where I put it when fall arrived. That mistake turned out to be a happy one because it allowed the garment to rest, and I explored other pieces to wear. Whe I finally was able to put my hands on those pieces, I had a new application for the item(s) and styled it with a fresh perspective.

  • @jasminetyxo
    @jasminetyxo Před rokem +1

    LOVED this video! Such amazing tips and definitely saving this for future reference. Thanks for sharing 💕

  • @malvikasridhar2339
    @malvikasridhar2339 Před rokem

    i truly feel it takes time! you definitely have to play around, enjoy it, learn what YOU love

  • @nadabenboubaker6825
    @nadabenboubaker6825 Před rokem

    Your pieces of advice are actually so on point, thanks for this nice content!

  • @user-sk8fc4cb1q
    @user-sk8fc4cb1q Před 4 měsíci

    Great video! I love that you talk about storing items instead of decluttering. I’ve been trying to do this as well.

  • @pennyditchfield9944
    @pennyditchfield9944 Před rokem +2

    Love all of these tips thank you! I’m going to start introducing more texture into my wardrobe and making a wish list of things I’m tempted to buy instead of impulse buying!

  • @ashlynnkaplan680
    @ashlynnkaplan680 Před rokem +2

    These are excellent tips! Even though I haven’t found my personal style 100% just yet, I have confidence because of incorporating some of these tips, even though I’m trying several different things right now. Especially helpful, is storing things away. I have three bins in my garage of clothing I’m storing away and I check back in with those things every couple of weeks and I might pull out a piece or two or put another one in that has just been sitting in my closet or doesn’t really go with what I currently have out. In a sense, I have a bit of a revolving closet but at the same time, I’m starting to weed things out but I’ve tried several times and just don’t work for me. I have also declutter things that I later bye back because I didn’t take enough time to contemplate. Decluttering can really become a rather wasteful habit in effort to waste less…

  • @lesezeichen1603
    @lesezeichen1603 Před rokem

    The most encouraging and clear styling-help I `ve ever got! Thanks a lot!!

  • @seahorse7fly
    @seahorse7fly Před rokem

    I love this, thank you!! And thinking about personal style as a habit that takes time *chef's kiss*

  • @robinsmith4499
    @robinsmith4499 Před rokem

    Practical information. Awareness of the basic. Time to take a good look at my spring/summer switch to fall/winter.💕💕💕

  • @Valeria-cq4it
    @Valeria-cq4it Před rokem +1

    One thing that has really helped me personally in using an outfit calendar to track how i wear clothes and how often i wear them. Theres a few apps for this and i found it to be great in figuring out what i like to wear and how i like to wear them

  • @makenna8454
    @makenna8454 Před rokem

    You’re so smart omg. These tips are really helpful, so are your past tips, I’ve always gotten something from them thank you I love your videos :D

  • @samanthacurious
    @samanthacurious Před rokem

    This is such a wonderful video. It touches my heart. I can totally resonate with every single word that you said.

  • @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441

    I love the konmari method. I only keep what sparks joy. 😊

  • @revomljbs
    @revomljbs Před 9 měsíci +1

    Your tips are sensible. Ty!

  • @glorylfeliciano
    @glorylfeliciano Před 6 měsíci

    So many great things to think about when thinking about style and spending money. Thank you for sharing!

  • @angiemcdermid4845
    @angiemcdermid4845 Před rokem

    I appreciate how these tips come from a place of compassion.

  • @magpie06
    @magpie06 Před 11 měsíci

    Excellent video. Very insigtful. I am one who has way too many clothes and yet "never have a thing to wear". Every so often, I declutter, and rarely do I remember any particular item or regret getting rid of it. That's a sure sign you have more than you need! When I'm honest with myself, I KNOW what I feel good in, what makes me feel attractive AND comfortable. What else do I need? You always look neat, clean, classy and sophisticated. ♥

  • @chrissyhiking
    @chrissyhiking Před 11 měsíci

    This is a GREAT video, thank you so much

  • @2PuppyProductions
    @2PuppyProductions Před rokem

    Absolutely love this! I'm saving it for future reference!

  • @DNg-zm1ue
    @DNg-zm1ue Před rokem

    That's some real talk right here that I needed. Thank you.

  • @denizguneren8495
    @denizguneren8495 Před 6 měsíci

    That whole wishlist thing is so true! I've been putting items in my wishlist for at least a week before I buy them and if I forget about them or they become out of stock, great, problem solved :)) and when I do remember to go back and the item is still available, I usually say "what was I thinking?!" and take it off of my wishlist. This strategy has really worked for me and saved me some impulse buys that I used to make and completely regret afterwards. Great video ❤

  • @ABSVabeautifulsunsetvlog

    What an incredible video!!! One of the most helpful for implementing personal style.

  • @analys1422
    @analys1422 Před rokem +1

    Hola, excellent advise , definitely habits I started this year and it has certainly changed the way I go about purchases.
    Wish list is great , I usually clear mine pretty quick. Storage is really a must or I will buy something I gave away yet again.
    Nice work on the video

  • @FaithHopeLoveJV
    @FaithHopeLoveJV Před rokem

    Practical, realistic, but effective tips! Thank you for sharing this. ✨

  • @jbayoda01
    @jbayoda01 Před rokem

    The ideas in this video has really helped me in going forward to define my own style. Thank you.

  • @fanybut
    @fanybut Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for all your tangible advice

  • @CorinnaOnTheRun
    @CorinnaOnTheRun Před rokem

    Such wise words. Thank you, Christina.

  • @tral_lala374
    @tral_lala374 Před rokem

    Oh my god I needed this so so much. I love black, white, red, denims and leopard printed stuff. I thought that this is not good, I mean boring. I am so calm know to reknow my styling journey. Thank you ❤

  • @pautatoes
    @pautatoes Před 7 měsíci

    I'm so happy I found your channel. We absolutely have the same style but I'm still in the middle of transitioning my wardrobe as I've discovered my style just recently!

  • @meganhobza
    @meganhobza Před rokem

    Great advice -- love your 10 habits. Way to deliver on your headline's promise 🤩

  • @judygarzadavis2946
    @judygarzadavis2946 Před rokem

    Love all the suggestions, especially about footwear. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Jharieltravel
    @Jharieltravel Před rokem

    Thank you for all your tips! Its very helpful! I love to mix and match the clothes that i have in ny wardrobe!

  • @ZeldasMask
    @ZeldasMask Před rokem

    This is one of the better videos on finding your style thank you

  • @MsFitVegan
    @MsFitVegan Před rokem

    I really needed this. Thank you so so much 🙏🏼💞🍉

  • @simplysilent2980
    @simplysilent2980 Před rokem +1

    Love this! Fantastic tips. Thanks for sharing. 👍

  • @milotherescuecat7924
    @milotherescuecat7924 Před rokem +1

    Another excellent video. The silk trousers look great on you 💚

  • @jayjellobean
    @jayjellobean Před rokem +6

    Thank you so much, Christina! I especially appreciated the section on selecting the best footwear for your outfit. I am embarrassingly bad with this and would really love to see more tutorials on picking the right shoes! Much love.

  • @mompreneurlife
    @mompreneurlife Před rokem

    ❤ thank you for sharing. You're so right about getting up and getting dressed every day. It's how we show up to the world that matters. Love your blazers in this video by the way. Thanks again for sharing.❤

  • @moumitadeb9337
    @moumitadeb9337 Před rokem

    Excellent video and tips 👍👍all the tips are great ! One that I need to remind myself is not to declutter in a hurry and end up looking for the same thing to add yet again ….this happened with a green utility jacket and I haven’t found the right one ( which was the one I decluttered) in 2 years !

  • @mellissafung2741
    @mellissafung2741 Před 11 měsíci

    Thankyou Christina, I hv learnt so much 😊❤

  • @jodydeschenes5031
    @jodydeschenes5031 Před rokem

    what a great video! the first I've thought seemed like a regular person like me learning good fashion lessons! you are REAL - yay! helpful, thank you!

  • @pajamamama5965
    @pajamamama5965 Před rokem +14

    This was an excellent video! You've given me some food for thought. I bought two dresses at the beginning of the summer that I've gotten a lot of wear out of already. I received compliments on each of them. I knew that they were being sold in different colors and patterns and I wanted to buy those as well since they fit me perfectly and were so flattering. But I resisted, thinking I don't need them. I just discovered that they were marked down on clearance, still in my size here at the end of the summer. I'm really glad I waited, I got each one for $5! Talk about a good deal and now I know that I will get a lot of use out of them. What's that saying, good things come to those who wait :-)

  • @juliabroad3255
    @juliabroad3255 Před rokem +5

    I heard your wish list tip about a year ago, and it's literally the best advice ever! I still use it and it helps sooooo much with impulse buying!

  • @sparkedbysusan
    @sparkedbysusan Před rokem

    These are all great. Love especially #1 and 9!

  • @kathrynp7595
    @kathrynp7595 Před rokem +7

    My favorite habit you talked about was working with proportion 👍🏼

  • @Me-nc8pp
    @Me-nc8pp Před rokem

    A short version of this video would be welcome. Thanks for this helpful tips!

  • @sarahfrancescutti9873

    Excellent video! Love the visual examples!!!

  • @AmyMaley1
    @AmyMaley1 Před rokem

    Love #10-so much respect for your message!

  • @tiffanymorris7399
    @tiffanymorris7399 Před rokem +2

    Completely agree with your point about shoes. I have had so many great outfits/pieces in my life that I never wore because I just couldn't find the right shoes. I have wide feet and don't like heels so as I try to finally get a good wearable wardrobe finding the right selection of shoes is key, but also so hard!

    • @happytofu5
      @happytofu5 Před rokem +2

      I can recommend playing around with the silhouettes. Most of my outfits look good with high heels, but I don't like to wear them often. I found out that dressing for my short, curvy body type with cropped tops and high waistlines allows me to wear flats and not look off. I also noticed that wearing a bottom that has the same / similar color as the shoe makes things way easier for me. What I try to say is: sometimes its not about finding the perfect shoe, but making the rest of the outfit fit the shoe.

  • @timepi437
    @timepi437 Před rokem

    Good, down to earth advice. Thank you for showing, not just talking. I’d add if you buy something you love with a great cut (eg shirt/pants), and it will get a lot of wear, buy two in same/different colours. Makes it easy to travel too- same Shakes but different look. Also one item that can be worn several ways, like a shirt dress that can be a shirt dress, unbuttoned for jacket/kimono, beach throw or even dressing gown is great for travel.

  • @APTTMHYforever
    @APTTMHYforever Před rokem +1

    Since 2020 it’s gotten so easy to just throw on lounge wear (or even pjs) day after day especially if you work from home… I’m going to try to get “dressed” every day. Like you said, it’s a good way to see what’s really working for me at this stage in my life and what’s not

  • @shivanisoman4440
    @shivanisoman4440 Před rokem

    I totally agree with the first point!

  • @doodledragon2605
    @doodledragon2605 Před rokem

    Thanks for the video. I too really enjoy thinking about textures more than patterns. 😊✏️

  • @Ellebear
    @Ellebear Před rokem

    I appreciate the advice to store things if you are on the fence about them. You or a friend may have interest in it later! Also, I love thrifting as a sustainable and affordable way to try out different fashions. Thank you for the video!

  • @Estefania9ne
    @Estefania9ne Před rokem

    You jus inspired me today. Thank u so much!!

  • @marbled2816
    @marbled2816 Před rokem

    The outfit with the black blazer is so cute!! You're so stylish!

  • @healthyoutloud2873
    @healthyoutloud2873 Před 2 měsíci

    So true. Very helpful video.

  • @indieowlful
    @indieowlful Před rokem +1

    I always find your videos so inspirational! 🙌🏻 thank you christina!

    • @Christinamychas
      @Christinamychas  Před rokem +1

      🥹🥹 thank you! It means so much and I’m so glad they’re providing some value to you!

    • @indieowlful
      @indieowlful Před rokem

      They are!! Greeting from Uruguay! 🫶🏻

  • @sio039
    @sio039 Před rokem

    I loved this video, makes soooo much sense 👏 thanks

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 Před rokem

    Great video! I had to limit my colors to blk, grey, white, navy blue, beige/ivory, camel and army green. Now I have a uniform that I can switch out pieces. Patterns/strips overwhelm me

  • @Msosenami
    @Msosenami Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing this ✨

  • @petrachristou
    @petrachristou Před rokem

    Very helpful tips !! Thanks for sharing, Christina !! Greetings from London !!