Confronting the biological clock | Should I freeze my eggs?
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- čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
- Journalist Nicole Ellis takes us on a personal exploration as she considers freezing her eggs. She's turning 30 this year. Join our private group Fertility Frontier on Facebook for more conversation on all things fertility: wapo.st/2wLvqDN. Read more: wapo.st/2nj0UdC. Subscribe to The Washington Post on CZcams: bit.ly/2qiJ4dy
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The wall is undefeated.
Okay FLAWLESS VICTORY
Who's watching in 2022? I love this. So much great insight. Lots of love for ya Nicole. From the Pacific Islands.
Lol spend 12 years frying them now you want to freeze them? Lol
🤣🤣🤣 you win the internet
@Tia Bear it was meant as a quote I was responding to someone here in this chat
@Tia Bear wait, you're a woman?
Frying them? I’m sorry sir, what?
Thank you for making this. We don’t ever have serious conversations about the emotional and financial toll of egg freezing.
¿No os preguntáis si puede afectar a vuestra salud?
this was great!
“Who came up with the idea of a biological clock in the first place?”
umm... nature 🤷🏽♀️
God
@@SreyNich-ep9re God is nothing but a devil. He woulsn't make unborn children deformed, deaf, blind and such otherwise. Keep living your myths tho
Voopi Doopi you trippin god is the standard of good.. we’re all made in his image...
@@truthseeker8200 Don’t throw your anger and pain towards God. No one but you should suffer it.
It's too late for her she tried a career and money for family the deal is made
The wall is indeed, scary....
It's hilarious 😂😂😂. Rost her UNDED.
The wall is undefeated
You can freeze eggs but you should thaw them out before cooking them.
She’s nearly 30 and doesn’t know how her body works?!!! Wow.
Generation of perpetual entitled children
Reflection of failed educational institutions
MGTOW
Winning!
We're soooooo Evail!!!
Bwahahahahahahaaaaaa!
@Asif Redoy I'm not mad because I know you're gay and you want me to pull your hair
Youre all gay too
@@criticalweiner8256
Never had your child taken away...
Try that then youll wake up
@Tia Bear
Unfortunately for you being a woman, you've got the strength of a 13 yr old male.
Once pregnant youll have 2 choices. Live off the avails of the government or use the government to take money from the guy who got you prego.
Once pregnant your independence is gone, the only way for you to be the powerful woman Feminist you wanna be is to stay single without children.
Now go for it be the big powerful woman youve always wanted to be...
But wait theres more!!
Because you've got the strength of a 13 yr old male, Youre not really able to compete with men. On average women produce 25% less than men in the workplace yet demand equality, so theres that!! Women are not equal to men in any regard.
Yup, run off to your dynamic world of Feminism be all you can be but dont forget that youre stuck in a feeble body, you make a poor competitor to men
you smash the wall… lol
Opportunity cost!!!!
You just figured out how to be an adult at 30??? Have fun with your cats and career. You will never find a man to marry. You don't need to freeze your eggs its a waste of your money. Too late to bad.
@Tia Bear thanks for stopping the spread of hatred on the internet
@Tia Bear i don't know why you're against mgtow since from a certain point of view it puts very well defined borders on misogyny and stays out of the realm of violence. What mgtow want is isolation from women.
Mr. & Mrs. MGTow SHHHH... let her waste her money!
Mr. & Mrs. MGTow Um 🙋🏽♀️ I don’t even like cats, nor have I ever owned any and don’t plan to in the future. Can you please stop using that invalid argument 🙄😒
@Tia Bear sure, my wording was a little off. But this video is misleading women about the viability of extending their fertility. If there's any place for mgtow to go to fight toxic femininity, it's comment sections like these. Most mgtow are happy to fight toxic femininity with a comment since words are free
Father time is undefeated for these broads
Lol geezus
@Tia Bear time hates women
@Tia Bear gotta spell it out for you: womens' reproductive viability ends before that of mens'. Spermatogenesis is related to testosterone levels whereas Oogenesis happens and finishes in the embryonic stage.
Tia Bear biology must really hate women then... since it’s blessed men with everything else and burdened women with child birth. Wait... doesn’t that make biology sexist? 🤔
Tia Bear never said child birth wasn’t important... also if a woman’s body was as strong as you THINK it would be able to give childbirth at an older age, which it can’t once it hits 40 (even having children after 30 increases likelihood of poor health and illnesses in newborns), and a woman can become infertile from physically demanding tasks. In other words, a woman needs to play her role or risk losing her main purpose in life going around acting like she’s better than men...
Men need to start being financially independant so they can start families and have children. Instead of wanting career women who don't need men be the men women need so you can be happy and not hate feminists and let them have children. Men also dont want to take any responsibility or settle down. If that doesn't happen how can a women be a mother.
@Toxic Stoic lol women who want to be mothers are not feminist are they?
reporting for duty Lord Commander
What a great story to to do a report on! Most of the time, we as women are so busy trying to get ahead in our careers that we do not focus on a family plan when we are not married when we know that we would like to have children. Good for you on planning ahead!!!
Yes, it does get harder to conceive. Plus you are going to be competing with younger women.
This woman is beautiful
Ladies hit the wall at 30 o’clock
even younger
*THE WALL IS UNDEFEATED*
My grandfather's cousin, Uncle O, had children til he was seventy. Through all six wives, serially, he had healthy children. So it cannot be a problem. At least, not for men.
@Tia Bear Yes. True story.
@Tia Bear come on now... this comment wasn't even that inflammatory.
well, yeah lol
You're 30
@Tia Bear and no plans for marriage right?
@Tia Bear every man or woman who gets married is insecure. you better bring something besides sex to your relationship, or your man will go mgtow without once visiting the internet.
@Tia Bear I really wish you the very best. I don't know you at all but I've been married almost as long as the young lady in the video has been alive (28 years in August) and I want to challenge you to find a man that you can love firstly for who he is, not for what he brings to the table in material wealth or prosperity. Should you be concerned as to his potential for building and maintaining finances, and if he can provide, and protect? Of course. But if you love him for him and follow the old rule of full tummy and empty b**ls, if he is a good man he will want to do all that he can for you. We love you for WHO YOU ARE, not your political opinion, education, or money. Consider this: when a girlfriend tells you she's seeing/ met someone, do you ask "what does he do?" or "what is he like?" Men want to love women so badly but things like modern man bashing media, feminism, and women's lack of accountability have soured many on the entire idea of relationships. As an example the American psychological association has declared traditional masculinity as toxic that is unbelievable.
@Tia Bear that's rich coming from a misandrist
@@ComeOnPelican91 Yes, there may be some hate among the rank and file of MGTOW but women have to understand how mean have been undermined and lied to for years by the people they love.
People that take away their children , have them incarcerated, try to have them killed for money, cheat on them, put them dead last, and the list does go on. All these things in the name of self and narcissism or just because a woman sees them as a tool. THIS HAPPENS! Ive not known many women to deny basic female nature.
Hi Nicole, are you on instagram?. I’m from London, and would love to write to you about this. MJ
I think you need to start looking for cats 🐱 you will need them later
Rich Guy -- loool look at all these men upset that women have choices.
If it was her choice then why is she scambling to freeze eggs?
Pablo Escobar -- men are upset women have choices. They no longer have to settle before a certain age for just any old Tom, Dick and Harry. With this, she can take her time. If she finds ‘the one’ fit enough to bore children for before a certain age. Great. If she doesn’t (which is usually the case) Again. Great! because of this method.
I believe. The second one mentioned is the reason she’s currently scrambling. Ok? ☕️
@@candykane5442 you do realize that freezing eggs doesn't garaunte you a baby right? In fact you still have less of a chance to have a baby than you did when you were younger, not to mention freezing is expensive.
@@candykane5442 Do you like cats?
Do the world a favor and stay kid free
All these men are in this comment thread bashing women for not settling down before 30...when I do not know ANY men in their 20’s who want to have kids. And new research is showing sperm decline in age too. People are quick to hate on a woman for delaying parenthood, but men delay parenthood just as much and the responsibility is equally theirs.
Because they accepts the 20 something year old women to settle for an old man in his 40s
Jesus, no wonder you don't have kids, you are a kid in an adult body. So many basic level questions were answered in this video that a 16 year old in biology class could answer.
Main Takeaway from this video (In my humble opinion) was "I am a 29 year old kid, who has an amazing career looking to have kids in the future but I don't want to acknowledge that actions have consequences.".
@Tia Bear she was asking for HERSELF as well ... listen video again, it WAS PERSONAL for her AND a job !!! 🤦♂️ and you say youre " intelligent"... buahahahah READ BETWEEN THE LINES HONEY !!! 🤣
If you trade your career for a family this is the outcome
Horse Man Japan has the same problem. I think it all comes down to money but they said its importing western governance and values.
If you think it's money and you trade money for anything the price is to be paid
Who was she meant to marry herself? Or become a single mother? Or bring children into poverty?
Dirty Duck -- Calm down. I don’t think she cared THAT much or as you say... she would’ve been with a ‘good kind man’ wouldn’t she? 🙃
What many men don’t understand is that women don’t look back at their choices and say ‘I wish I was with him’ or ‘I regret I didn’t procreate with this guy’. No. We know that we made the right decision at that time for many reasons (especially for things like his income level etc). If she doesn’t want you now. She will never want you.
Women are natural ‘shoppers’ we always seek the best for ourselves and our young. If we don’t get that then most do not mind taking other routes if they desperately want a child.
Why else do you think sperm banks and artificial wombs are being made? 😴
A good kind man is not enough. Many men are deceivers by nature. It’s better a woman thinks logically when going into these things ☕️
Dirty Duck -- You needed that side note because you had no comeback and rightfully so. Check these out:
💺☕️😴💅🏽😂💸
I love how you turned off comments for the racism video. SMH. What a joke.
She didn't brush her teeth nor clean her mouth, and she didn't take a bath.
YES!.......... PLEASE FREEZE YOUR GOD DAMN EGGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She is the definition of pretty
😷
She has been run through by multiple men and now she has a job going downhill fast. She will wish she married a reasonable guy in her 20s and had a family, but she will be stuck behind a cubicle paying taxes alone. She was brainwashed by feminism and Marxism. Her bad
Then why don't you marry her?
She is ugly lmao
All of you are pathetic rats. Every single comment specially from toxic and Joseph.
No wonder why your name is Toxic. Cuz you are once toxic parasites. And hahaha I wonder how y’all look like, I bet y’all are ugly as a deform rat. Cuz only those that are ugly and jealous hate on good looking ppl.
BYE YOU UGLIES.
In other words WOMEN HAVE YOUR CHILDREN IN YOUR 20'S
But that's SEXIST, OMG YOU SEXIST PIG
What if we can’t afford it in our 20’s?? 😰😰
There are loads of things to take into consideration. Women need to be married. I don’t condone them giving birth without marriage. Many men want the benefit of using up a woman’s good years, youth, beauty and ovary space with no real responsibilities. All while reaping the benefits of carrying on his bloodline. No sir. We don’t need anymore of that. A woman should give babies to a man that is ready to settle down with her and provide for the family. ☕️
@@kole1ful That's why you get married.....
@@candykane5442 You and I both have twice as many female ancestors as male....
NATURE...not fair but ALWAYS true
30 years old women want to marry loooooooool
@Vitalii guys should not marry a women over 25 anyways. The only reason to get married is to have a family with a traditional minded woman and real women tend to secure commitment early on.
Sorry, I like my eggs from free roaming chicken heads... sawwy 😬
The defining moment of the the female experience is having a child. Women cannot have it all.
@Tia Bear Do tell. Imagine I am your son. Tell me what the defining moment of my time on earth will be, and how unhappy I will be if I fail to realize that moment.
Don't you know it's hell for some people? Don't overgeneralize
@@FemmePistolera it's the biological imperative, something as real as the libido, and you're turning a blind eye to it for the sake of writing a snarky reply. A women who can't physically have children will still wish she had biological offspring. And a such a person does have my sympathies.
@@ComeOnPelican91 The urge to reproduce in present in most but not all. I've never wanted children and feel more and more confident in my choice as I grow older.
@@ghihbgyu the pressure society places on women to ignore their biological imperative is evil
Msm: women suffering!
Me:good!
good luck with your cats lady
She is average with make up
@Estrellakatarinathegreatrussian :)
All of you should be ashamed of yourself.
All this bullying and disrespect to this woman is completely unfair and cruel. If you seriously don’t have anything nice and good to say just don’t say anything at all. And don’t you dare and talk to god or even pray knowing that you are one horrible human being. I bet you pray to the devil. That you can do. It goes with who you are.
who raised you dude
@@vennusoto9790 gods and devils are stories fed to you by cons.
God come out with this idea ☝️ to stop women from going wild for all life 🤣the wall is ther girl. Deal with that 🤣 say thanks for friends femnacys
She hasn't been a adult for 12 years.
Repent the wall is nigh !
Men age like wine and women age like milk. Go ahead and freeze your already spoiled eggs. I bet the doctors didn't tell you freezing eggs isn't as successful as they say it is.
@Tia Bear Ah, sou you're adept of shamming! Classic!
If the shirt fits on you.... use it.
If kids are that important to you than try adopting when you find out your infertile & the money you save from not freezing your eggs you could then go get some electrolysis on your upper lip.
NOW she's thinking about having kids????😯😒🙄 smh.... The Wall always win!!!!! Lmao. 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
You have two choices; cats or a Downie baby.
@Tia Bear so bitter
@Tia Bear no, she is not a decent human being. Her message is reprehensible and that makes her worthy of ridicule, as long as the video stays up. Freezing your eggs means you've squandered the agency you've been given. No woman should follow her example. She's misleading the next generation of women, and the men here saying the wall is coming are not.
@@ComeOnPelican91 oh, because men ALWAYS knows what's best for women? Sure....
@@FemmePistolera the right choice becomes the wrong choice if a man mentions it. Sure......
my best advice is start looking for some cats to adopt
Would it not be easier to find a husband?
This isn’t the place to make sense 😂
Just go pick up your rescue kitten already.
@Tia Bear meow...😦
@Tia Bear You seem angry, heard the fear of dieing alone can do that to women.
@@jamieblack667 lol she said meow and she sounds angry? Lmao please make sense! 😂
- Old ugly feminist: I love you!
- Egg to be freeze in carbonite: I know ...
Women have to understand one basic thing: Men don't care about your titles, how much money you earn etc. We care about women being: Young (18-25), Healthy, Beautiful, Fertile and Wise (WISE NOT INTELLIGENT).
What was so bad about this comment that inspired so much vitriol?
That is the biggest lie my partner of 5 years is 32 and I’m 28 and he is so mainly focus on money and to climb the highest and last step in his career to get more money and then have a family. According to him that is the right thing because that’s how his family is successfully happy.
Then why are so many 26 and over women dating and getting married. 💀 Just say you hate women and your mom and go please.
omfg lol
If you’re over 25 and insist on a woman being under 25, that’s creepy. And if you’re over 18 and insist on them being 18 or closer to 18, that’s borderline pedophilia.
The wall is undefeated