Take your Kids OUT of Public School NOW!
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As a NYC public school teacher, the Muslim community needs to focus on Islamic schools over anything else!
Ben Gully The Muslim community needs to focus on strengthening their Iman, their tawheed, their taqwa. If strong iman is instilled in our community members, young and old, then we can tackle any obstacle, including PUBLIC EDUCATION.
@@shidasha80 not guaranteed. Why put yourself or your kids in a public school which can be a great fitna when you can avoid putting yourself in that situation. Don't test yourself
Nishimiya Shouko As long as we are breathing on this earth, fitna will be all around us.
The whole point of having a strong Islamic school is to teach Tauhid
@@bengully5076 I am in NYC area as well. I was brought up in a Muslim Family and went 2 public school all my life but was brainwashed by my Science teacher that Evolution basically disproved the Adam/Eve narratives of the Abrahamic religions so I left Islam. It was also just after 9/11 so there was very bad stigma and bullying against Muslims so that played a part as well. Alhamdulillah I was guided back 2 Islam by the All-Mighty 2 years back after a lotnof research but I will NEVER send my kids to Public School. The fitnah is getting even WORSE! I never had Transgenders and Homosexuality so prevalent in my school, in fact it was non existent then but so common now. SubhanAllah. I 100% agree with you. Public School is too much of a gamble. The problem with private Islamic School is lack of funding and not being able to get good teachers.
My parents converted when I was 6 or 7...he used to come down to my school and tell the teacher what to do and not to do with me... There were loads of Muslims kids in the school, I was the only one who missed Music lessons and prayed at lunch break
May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ reward you and your parents
Masha Allah...
Mashaallah
ماشاء الله
You did what you did because many kids who were born into Muslim homes doesn't understand what they have in the other hand your parents have something to compare they have seen the other side of the world and therefore had worked hard to instill that goodness and confidence in you May Allah reward them for their hard work
I'm the only Muslim in my family. I accepted Islam in 2007. My ex-wife introduced me to Islam. She did not accept it herself. As time went on she basically asked me to choose between her and Allah. After getting a divorce I got full custody of our son. He's struggling right now. He goes to a public school. This is his junior year. I blame myself for not realizing that I've been allowing his mind and heart to be poisoned. Al hamdulillah I pulled him out this year. So he's going to do Florida Virtual. So basically he's going to finish High School online. In shaa Allah this will be much better for him.
Ya 7bibi
I'm convert myself. My son is a Junior also in California. So far he is doing ok. His biological mom still pushes her whacky Christian faith upon him.
It's a struggle. May Allah swt make it easy for us
AmeeeeeeeN
@@danoneall4013 I should say that my son has social anxiety. He's in the honors classes . He's extremely intelligent. His issue is that he doesn't want to go to school. And the environment that he was in I don't blame him.
@@christopherwells3426 - Subhana'Allah
May Allah swt protect him, guide him, bless him & always keep his Deen & Imaan strong
AmeeeeeeN
May Allah swt make it easy for both of you
AmeeeeeeeN
Hang in there akhi. Relief is coming Insha'Allah
@@danoneall4013 in shaa Allah JAk. Ameen.
May Allah make it all easier for you
Asalamu alaikum
Very true. I went to public school. If I have children in'sha'Allah, I will never ever take them to public school. The fitna is so severe.
@MODNUB Lol good one
@@solomonw3758
Asalamu alaikum. Yes, and also liberalism. And alongside these shirki and kufri ideas is also the fisq in the environment of these schools.
During the times of the salaf, parents would sell their house, travel far away, make big sacrifices to be able to send their children under the guidance of Islamic scholars. They worried about their children’s fitrah and morals before worrying about dunya (getting a good job).
Tay Idies 👌🏼💯
What if all parent all over the world did that?
will never happen. it's not for everybody.
@Gray Kin most of them came back as a scholar and spread islam after they get the knowledge needed
@Trolling-The-Truth wa'alaikumussalaam
Aamiin
Insha allah
But whats with your name bro ? 😂
InshaAllah I will try to raise my kids in Islamic society.
ameen!
What will this Islamic society have?
Amin
@@Remake5182 haha I love how u r just being ignored through all the comments ... just being given the attention you deserve , :-)
@@3roubi Sorry, my last comment seems misplaced but what I wanted to say was, what made you want to leave your previous society?
On every salat we need to make duaa and ask Allah for guidance for ourselves, children, family and ummah.
Ameen
My favorite dua after durood shareef "Oh Allah, make me and my children steadfast in salah. Our Lord! Accept our prayer. Our Lord! Forgive me, my parents, and the believers on the day of judgement!"
If it works. Then Allah did it.
Aamiin Aamiin Aamiin! In Shaa Allah BiidmiLaahi Kariim Aamiin
@@yahya2925 can u write this in Arabic for me?
I’m not a Muslim but my morals and Belief and Faith in God makes my heart hurt from the way the world is and the destruction of innocence for the babies being born into this demonic world and it dirty affairs to indoctrinate confusion into the tender minds. Why??? God save us All from the wicked surrounding us. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ameeenn dear⚘
Islamic school should start making it easy for Muslim student
Salam brother. I have Autism and got really picked on because of that. I’m now a hijabi revert.
mashallah
MashaAllah. May Allah bless you with the best of best.
May Allah bless you 🧕🏾. l think many of our Autistic kids are truly SPECIAL and have their own genius. l wish you 💚 🤲 and much light, REMEMBER how precious you truly are!
As a senior in high school, I can confirm that everything this guy is saying is the truth. For years, I was under the influence of western culture, but Alhamdulillah for the hardships that I have faced the last couple of years that turned me back to Allah. It really is tough for the Muslim youth raised in American public schools to stay on their deen since they're in a constant haram environment, so please, I urge you Muslim parents to reconsider putting your kids in public schools, and may Allah guide us all. Salam.
I'm with you 100%, being in school amongst the non muslims is very dangerous for our deen. Even if they mean well they don't have divine revelation to base their judgement and policies on so they do whatever the moral standard fits with. So many times as kids they'll teach you things through songs and music, they don't see anything wrong with it, to them music is fine. They grow up in an environment of free mixing and get used to it. There are so many things they're exposed to, subtle or apparent, that they don't even realize are conditioning them to think and believe in certain ways. They grow up being conditioned with the values they were exposed to rather than Islam and as a result when they start learning about Islam it conflicts with the values they gained growing up so they start judging Islam based on their understanding of things rather than the other way around, I'm sure many people are aware of this. But people only seem to notice the end result and the effects but not the root cause.
This is coming from someone who, like yourself, was born and raised in America and lived through the school system from elementary to high school. Most parents like you said aren't from here they just have preconceived ideas about school and education here they don't actually know at all what happens in school and what kids are really exposed to.
Although I was born Muslim i didn't really know anything about Islam until later on, after i was out of school, and looking back i can't imagine putting myself through that environment, it's completely incompatible with an Islamic lifestyle. parents need to wake up and realize this and really work together to create a safe environment for their kids to grow up in an Islamic manner or go somewhere where they can find one. I will never send my kids to public schools here insha allah. living in the West in general has a very similar effect, i consider leaving altogether and going to a muslim country
Well said 👌
Very well put. I also extremely agree with you that living in the west has an similar or maybe even greater effect. Thanks for taking the time to write this. May we all meet in Jannah!
G Ali ameen
You can go to malaysia, we have so many muslim here.. You will be safe, no need to worry about religon
Same story here...I went through abandonment of salah too and come back to islam alhamdulillah...so I won't let my child attend school ever. May Allah give me the strenght to teach her at home or anyother halal way.
100% I agree but my parents don't UNDERSTAND!
@@hidir3532 they're gonna call him extreme or say I'm overreacting
Rahat Ahmed tell me about it!Especially desi parents.
@@maryamyasin1616 yeah ukht, it's school over everything for some of them
Some do understand but cant afford it
@@rahatahmed6188
The funny things my parents muslem
If I chose to do islamic thing they say the same thing but in Arabic
Yes, people need to pull the kids out of the Public schools. I live in California, and the teacher said they start incorporating LGBTQ stuff in the curriculum starting in the 2nd grade.
yucks!
@@fidelcatsro6948 End of days. The shaytan is working hard.
What if your child works for a homosexual man, would you expect them to leave their job?
Also About this LGBTQ stuff, what are they teaching?
@@fidelcatsro6948 Treat other people how you would like to be treated.
@@Remake5182 they are teaching what God has destroyed a whole city for. Even the bible says it so.
Alhamdulillah this is all true. Public school is doing irreversible damage to Muslim children and parents have a great responsibility for this. For all those who are looking for more options there are virtual public schools that can be attended from home with only the secular education and none of the social influences. K12, connections academy, etc...do a Google search. These schools are free in many areas and your child can be taught from home over the internet of you do not have time or resources for traditional homeschool or islamic school. Make the niyyah and Allah makes a way. Save your children!
What is the irreversible damage public school is doing to Muslim children?
@@Remake5182
In Public schools Muslim children are being pressured and influenced to do drugs, to have relationships with the opposite sex that are unhealthy for them during childhood, and among other things use profane words and act in manners that they would not normally if they had not been under the influence and pressures of others who do not have the same goals. Children are impressionable and are learning every day. If Muslim children are to remain muslim their foundations need to be strong in Islamic goals, beliefs and fundamentals. Public schools clash with that and end up confusing children detrimentally.
@@jayneartista5026 I dont remeber anyone influencing anyone to do drugs, but if that is the case, then that would be everyones problem as that would not just effect Muslims. What the profane words that are being used.
Also you mention this being the parents responsibility, but this takes place in school so shouldent the school be held responssible.
@@jayneartista5026 I forgot to mention, because this is important I need to know what schools you're talking about.
Which schools are these drugs at?
@@Remake5182
not by the school managament or programs rather by the high use of drugs by students and their influence on other students, from marijuana to ...!
sexual promiscuity and other issues aside.
I'm so happy that this video was reccomend to me. I was just talking to my mom about admitting my lil sister to a public school. Now I'm gonna tell her not to.
Islamic school is expensive . 95% can't even afford that
Home schooling is there which I belive is a great option to protect our kids
@@heba8024 if you have any names for homeschooling please share it
I live in Australia and that was my first option originally for my kids n it's called mehna Islamic homeschooling sorry I'm not sure what part if the world ur in but honestly it does work and there is alot of help it's not like what people make it out to be there are people that finished up to high school and trust me if it's up to me I would do homeschooling any day but my husband put my 5 year old in an Islamic school next to us it's good but there is alot of things that o disapprove of ..because in saying that not every Islamic school is great because u get the other students that can teach ur child the bad habbits ...and I have to agree they are very expensive some are up to 5000 au dollars a term for a year 1 it's ridicoulis..in England there is an Islamic homeschooling programme I know that for sure so just ask n try
@@heba8024 please can you give information about home schooling in UK.
@@sma4301 I hope them links will help you but u an ask ur local Islamic community also but from my knowledge u have to apply through the UK homeschooling programme and obviously withdraw ur child from school..u dont have to be a scientist as long as u have high school education as a parent and join ur local Muslim homeschooling blog there r a few in the UK just ask around do ur research but most very helpful and they all serve the same purpose teaching n helping ur child and helping u as beginner also and I belive in the UK the age to be enrolled is 6 which is year 1 in Australia..and ya iv attached few links that will give u an idea n just go from there
www.rahmahmuslimhomeschool.co.uk/index/homeshooling-in-the-uk/
ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2017/03/teach-kids-islamic-studies-online.html
tuitioncentreuk.com/home%20schooling.html
www.ummah.com/forum/forum/family-lifestyle-community-culture/islamic-parenting/184461-homeschooling-sisters-in-birmingham-uk
It is expensive to put kids in private school. Alhamdulillah i am doing that for my 3 kids despite being a single mom. May Allah give easiness to all parents so they can put their kids to good private schools
Yaa Allah please protect our children Amiin 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Somaliland!
Aamiin midnimada ummadda ha kuugu weynaato.Amiin
Asalamu alaikum all you have said is true. I have been homeschooling my children for 3 years now in order to protect their innocence. Alhamdulilah I was able to see the signs of what was to come with all this LGBT teachings in the UK. It is our duty as parents to safeguard our children and our progeny. May Allah make it easier on us all. Amiin
Suabaya H well done sister but majority of our community might not as educated as you and they don’t have the ability of home schooling . may Allah help our Umma it’s getting out of hand.
Ismail Aden If my education is based on me having gone through the system’s idea of schooling then I have not been educated. I have the intention to do good for myself and my children. That is all you need. Only Allah knows my journey and my struggle and all I need and rely on is Allah.
May Allah reward you aid you and keep you firm.
Suabaya H do you have any tips or any kind of learning program u follow at home? I would greatly appreciate if you could point me in the right direction
Salamaat
Me too, so glad I took them out. Recently I was told a humanist came to my sons old school telling the kids it’s ok not to believe in anything 😤
As Salaamu Alaykum..... All FACTS!!! May Allah increase you and reward you for this naseehah. May He allow the viewers to benefit from this..... Ameen
💚💚💚💚💚
That's why my mom choose to homeschool us since there was no Islamic schools in Montreal back then
That's good
they are now.
100% agreed, schools are getting worst ..Islam is fading away in public schools!!
All religions are, Christians protest for the Bible to be tough. They cant be two-sided on this if they allow Islam then they would also have to allow all religion.
Allah Almighty chose you to become Muslim and be a guide for "Muslims" to convince them to protect their children's faith. May Allah Almighty reward you for your efforts. Ameen
Abu Muhammad Amin
Thank you brother for this valuable advice to the Muslims parents. This year, my kids are going to Muslim school. Even though education wise is not as good as public school but at least they will be among muslims.
What Islamic school are u sending ur kids to ?
Whats wrong with being around non muslims?
@@canhaktan9674 Well what if they grow up and there boss is homosexual?
They have to be awear that homosexuals exist and who they.
ما شاء الله تبارك الله
you said the truth, I study abroad in non-muslim country and I can't imagine havein a kid here. it is so scary, I want my kids to be on فطره pure muslim. I can't wait to go back to my country 🥺 im sick of seeing devils everywhere thinking that they are the best human being, what a sad feeling they have. الحمدلله that I'm a muslim, can't ask for more, it's the biggest blessing that someone could have.
may Allah the love of our life, protect us 🤍
Elhamdulila. Very good and useful talk. No matter what, we all need to talk more about God Allah.
home school is the answer...
@prince dos No. No one man has mastery of multiple domains. No matter how skilled you are in say mathematics, you will not be a good teacher of literature. If you take the education of your child into your own hands, you must accept the responsibility of imparting knowledge in multiple fields of which you may not have expertise.
Honest_Bishop when homeschooling you can hire tutors and teachers to come to your house or you can send your child to them. Also in elementary schools here you usually have one teacher for most of or all the subjects anyways since they're so basic
@@honest_bishop5905 Students don't learn specialized information at that age. Look at the statistics. Homeschooled children score on average at the 80th percentile compared to public school students who score on average at, obviously, the 50th percentile. 25% of public school GRADUATES are functionally illiterate, no reading comprehension. That doesn't even include the ones who drop out. And this is just academics and doesn't relate to the social issues Brother Saajid mentioned.
@@pollykerr7092 You don't seem very terrified, coming on a Muslim channel and trolling Muslims. I know I avoid calling attention to myself when I come across dangerous looking people online. 😄
@@pollykerr7092 You're here too. WTH. 😂 Just how much free time you have? Get a job.
I'm early in my Islamic journey but praise Allah I'm on my way. Brother I was dying literally systematic failure of my lungs n my weight was out of control. Thank God everyday he sent me someone who put me on schedule better diet exercise because I had Faith n said God I'm in need of help. And one way was medical marijuana. I lost 100lbs in 9mo. No pain n I actually did a edibles. I only take my copd medicine n I just wanted to say Allah is not done with me yet! But please understand that your disdain for this " drug" can actually save people as well as God willing because of his infinite mercy get me back as a revert! He kind brother some of us are fighting demons in silence. May Allah bless and keep your message is true our children are in grave danger! May Allah Grant is ease.
What made you think it was Allah that saved you?
@@Remake5182 why wouldn't it tho?
Trying n failing at saving myself.
@@stefhanieinsinga-ash2093 don't listen to him, I'm somali and support your journey
@*•:Monica:•* Subhanallah sister yes the power of prayers is amazing isn't IT?? Im so happy your healing proof that our heavenly father is always listening!
He has plans for all of us I just hope we're able to do a fraction of what Allah has in play for US! Sister I'll keep you in you in my prayers my oldest brother has Crohn's disease n he suffers sometimes awful.... Be blessed sister have faith that the almighty has our lives planned I just hope I can help someone as I was helped. Fi Amanillah sister.
Very true. I went to public schools all my life but I can also say that this is where I picked up all bad manners.
I am sending my kids to Islamic School from the next grade, InshaAllah, thank you.
Most Parents don't know at all whats happening out there.
If you as a Parent are not educating your own beautiful children then everyone else (you don't necessarily like or is evil) is educating your precious sons & daughters.
Al hamdulilah, it is a miracle that Allah preserved my Fitra. Thank you Allah so much, despite the fact that my dad left Islam and that my mom really doesn't take Islam seriously at all.
I like your lecture but I’d like to share some stuff as a mother of three grown up kids, raising them here in the west. My children went to a public school but my husband and I made sure we always practiced what we preached. Allah swt protected our children. Having said that I’d like to share some observations as I’m very involved in the community here both the Muslim as well as the non Muslim. Most of the kids who develop doubts about Islam come from household that do not practice Islam, the parents have no idea about how things work in the west. They are not aware it takes more effort to bring up kids as practicing Muslims than back home. The parents themselves are very far from Islam , they do not feel the need to learn the Quran and Hadith, practice them and lead the kids by example. 2) the relationships between the spouses is also very important factor, we see that also missing, abusive marriages are detrimental to bringing up good Muslim kids. 3) we’ve become a la iqra people. We don’t equip ourselves with knowledge to answer basic questions. One of the reasons can be our lack of interest in “ dawah to non muslims”, children here basically ask the same questions about Islam that the non Muslims do ( both are inspired by the media). Had we learnt to answer those questions with logic for our non Muslim friends, that would’ve indirectly helped us with the kids. 4) we organize Quran Halaqa’s and educative programs for sisters, for free. There’s no prize for guessing that only a handful sisters respond. Majority are busy with recreational activities during weekends. 5) we only wake up when the cancer has reached the last stage, and now look for an instant cure.
I would'nt say most of the kids who develop doubts about Islam come from household that do not practice Islam.
Because converts come from those sort of homes. The best way to find out why Muslims doubt their faith could be obseved by looking at the stories of ex muslims and why they left their faith.
If you could find that out then by all means you could find out what really happens.This is by far one of the best ways to equip ourselves with knowledge to answer basic questions.
Well said. This a part of the solution.but i think salah and hidaya is a matter of Allah. We, as parents do our role, teach protect and educate, but the result, depends on a lot of factors, not only on the parents and their practice of islam. May Allah swt help us to succeed in this very difficult mission.
@@littlenumy true indeed guidance is with Allah. Some parents do their best to instill islamic teachings im their children but sometimes just a bad friend or bad company spoil them. May Allah protect our generations from any evil. Aameen
Wow, studied in Medina, so blessed. Ma sha Allah brother, keep it up.
Jihaka Allahu Khairan,brother☪️ you made this video after i ran away from public school ,because of bullying. Alhamdulillah,now I am not studying there, but studying at home.
I began to understand the subject only when I began to study at home, on my own. Subhan Allah.
This is very important information for Muslim parents. They just don't know what's going on! May Allah grant you Paradise!🤍
Lol. I just noticed the child seat in the back seat. The passion comes from somewhere!
I am sorry to go off topic and tell you something you probably are well aware of, but CZcams has suddenly made you very hard man to find and I am even subscribed! I originally found your channel by searching "American muslim" but now that only results in mainstream media channels. I forgot your name and was only able to reconnect after searching "Saudi Arabia Chicken Review" ( one of your videos I remembered) and even that video would time out before loading. I will definitely start watching again regularly as I do with almost any channel that CZcams trys to stifle or silence. As long as you continue speaking I will continue listening.❤👍
MADNUB it sure is it .....tube
This is sooooo serious walahi. Subhan Allah I'm w you 100% on this brother. We have 3kids and this is literally our biggest concern right now- what school. So far it's leaning on weekends madras and me homeschooling them In sha Allah.
Calm down its all about quality, not quantity. 2 days are enough as long as they learn.
These people came from war zones.
Well needed video bro 👊🏾
Allah protect for our kid's from evil 😢😢😢😢😢
Aamiin
Selam Aleykum brother from Australia, MaashAllah keep guiding May Allah The All mighty be pleased with you.
One of the best videos you've made!!
As someone currently in a public school, yes I can tell you it isn’t all great. While I’ve been fortunate enough not to have faced racism, being in a public school does have a bad effect on the Iman. In my case it wasn’t so much so because of what they were teaching at school, but rather what the other students were doing.
Actually, it’s onky because I hung out with, while they were good people they did bad things and were miserable (for good reason), these sort of people I actually went back to Islam because of the pain I felt.
Basically I was a lonely person who was finally invited into a friendship circle, but they almost had me do something pretty bad and something that would have led to a chain reaction of bad Deeds. I made the choice not to do it and my relationship with some of the members spiraled down so much that I eventually left out of emotional pain but was inspired to try do Salah again at that moment, which is when I started praticing Islam properly for the first time ever (before I followed bits and pieces, otherwises didn’t do all five daily prayers and such despite being born a Muslim).
Even though I was born a Muslim, I consider that I reverted back at 16 (17, turning 18 soon now). And I’ve honestly been a whole lot more forunate compared to my other brothers and sisters. Never been challanged in person for being a Muslim, fortunate and blessed to now have, although non-Muslim, very respectable friends who understand that I’m a practicing Muslim (they don’t try to persist me into doing sins).
Actually pretty sadly, I have a feeling that now I’ve decided to start speaking out more and more, the ones that are going to really be against me are my own family and extended family, despit my family being majourity Muslim. I remember trying to tell my cousin that we really shouldn’t be promoting lewd drawings and that it’s wrong, even though she’s a Muslim she simply said to stop making it a religious issue (another family member posted said picture, not said cousin).
Anyway, with Islamic schools I’ve heard it’s a good idea, but I’ve also read that there are some problems with it and that the current system might actually be promoting secularism. The Muslim Vibe did an article on it a little while ago if any of you want to take a look. I’ll edit it in when I find the link.
Edit:
Yeah, here it is.
themuslimvibe.com/muslim-lifestyle-matters/5-problems-with-islamic-schools-in-the-west?.com&
Mishaal Kisan welcome back to Islam. Everyone of us at some points in our lives find ourselves in situations which are at odds with our faith, so we must revert back to Islam and to the right path continuously and consciously.
Ibrahim Diriye thank you.
And I couldn’t agree more.
Sound rather personal.
@@Remake5182 Yeah, apologies...
I really just want the brother's and sister's younger than me and also around my age to have it a little bit easier on them.
@@mishaalkisan1688 No need to say sorry, I can understand.
I feel like warning every immigrant parents who believe that their children going to public school will benefit them! As someone who has been inside western education system, it destroys the iman of a young muslim. However, where I live private schooling is near to impossible, as almost everything is state regulated. And there are no religious private schools. Would you advice us to do hijra to a muslim country when we have kids?
siyama zik Sometimes it’s worse in the Muslim countries. Many are embracing the ways of the West (teaching music, encouraging feminism, subtly discouraging hijab, etc.). So you may not necessarily be better off.
Hijra these days is very difficult. Being in a Muslim majority country does not mean your children will be better off.
Be positive sister. May Allah ease your difficulties. Alhamdulillah in my country we have a lot of islamic school combined with STEM, english is EFL also learn arabic not FUSHA just basic but it is a private school. My country is a muslim majority country, and alhamdulillah ahlus sunnah wal jamaah is thriving here. May Allah make our iman stronger
Yes I encourage you to do so my dear sister :) I know lots of sisters that left their non Muslims home countries with kids and without money, and Allah gave them a better situation.
Most of them have chosen to live in North Africa
You should do Hijra even if you dont have children!
I have seen young people who went to Islamic school many of those schools are not properly equipped to teach higher level education as a consequence many are struggling as adults are often in low paid job married off early and large families leaves little time for parent child relationship development in particular father's involvement trapped in social cycles poverty housing etc and the same goes for public schools but still the key is the parents hands-on guidance..
I am single mom and my son he's in public school i don't know what to do if i pull out i can't teach him the only thing i can do to ask Allah to protect him 😢😢😢😢
Hafsomedia ASC sister how u doing long time no see 😀😀😀
Why don't u send him to Islam school here in the uk a lots of Somali children go Islam schools 👍
Jazakallahu khaira brother Sajid. Indeed Allah guides who he wills. You mentioned some amazing points.
May ALLAH bless you brother and admit you to jannah
Good education at home by the parents is crucial! If the kids are followed by the parents daily and they are taught daily, I ensure you whether they go to public school or private, they should be able to make it! I speak from experience. Unfortunately most of the Muslim parents do not do their jobs at home!!!
I met in Lahore Pakistan a Pakistani who returned from Germany just because he did not want his daughter to take swimming classes with boys. He told me his whole story and as per him if a person spends at least 10 years straight in western world and do nominal job and avoid all the dirty things then he or she can have enough money to go back home country and start his or her own business. Just take an example of Arab world, In Pakistan many Pakistanis criticise that arabs don't give nationality but here Aalims and Maulans defend this system and give very understandable justifications
1- In poor countires there are few to earn and many to feed in every house
2- When some person goes away from home then he sends money back to his home and this causes an improvement in overall society
3- When someone knows that he will never get nationality in the country in which he or she is working then he or she will never create assets in that country and send back all his money to his poor country
4- This scheme also provides sense to security to the national residents of the country in which he or she is working that demographics of foreign country will never change
5- In current world people have become very nationalists and this nationalism is causing disturbance and conflict among countries.
There are plenty of other reasons which everyone should keep in mind and should come back to his home country. Otherwise your children will become just like foreigners because surroundings, culture and environment is the most important factor in developing personality and perception of child towards something. Desi Dads and Moms want to live in foreign countries but want their children to have values of source or ancestors country . This is impossible.
me and my wife really wanted to run over to Canada or America, but each time we saw new tests (fitnah) that Muslims are undergoing there, we decided not to move there to preserve the morality of our children and their akidah it's too important, our children are a new society a new generation keeping them we save our grandchildren
You did the right thing! I'm telling you this as a Muslim teacher in American public school. What the brother is saying is 100% correct. As you long as you have peace and security where you are, i would say stay there.
@@shahid8545 Ameen
God bless you and your family brother
جزاك الله خيرا
إن شاء الله في ميزان حسناتك
JazakAllah khayr, got married last year at age 20 alhamdulilah, my husband is a revert and we really want to live a proper islamic lifestyle. We dont know so much but were trying so make dua for us to gain more knowledge (from london) i was also thinking about home schooling, inshaAllah my husband wants to be a teacher so inshaAllah he could work at an islamic school. Make dua for us to have righteous muslim children. Im terrified. Im so scared that my kids will not be practising muslims. Its clearly the beginning of the end, there's so many signs its ridiculous to deny at this point. I pray that Allah guides the next generation of muslims insha Allah. Brother, jazakAllah khayr for the effort you put in the videos. Honestly may you be rewarded Jannah.
Is public school 100% to blame really or uninvolved parents? How Many parents have open communication line with their children? How many sit down with their child on a weekly basis to ask about their life stress ? It's not easy being caught between two cultures as a young person and you can't turn to your parents for guidance because they might disown you or explode in anger and forever look down on you in disappointment. I understand this is not the ideal country or culture for parents but some of you are just producing children and not putting in the day to day work of raising,emotionally connecting,talking and building a close bond with your children and at an early age too,this way you might have a fighting chance !
great timing i just was about to go to your channel to find a video to watch
just discovered this brother.. Masha Allah he's right.. may Allah bless him.
You are 100% right. Ma sha Allah and Jazzaku Allahu khayran. Greetings from Gernany.
Germany is an Islamic sharia Capitol of Europe. Just take it
@@googlebarbaralernerspectre2581 don't lie
What if you have no choice?here in Germany you can go to prison if you don't let your children go to school. The only way out is Hijra. I am also a convert and I also went to public school. All this is true!it was the thing that spoiled me the most!Alhamdulillah Allah saved me.
Aren’t there Muslim schools in Germany?
What about homeschooling? Online homeschooling?
Are there after school islamic classes?
@Darth Shadow Amin.Jazak allahu kheir .May Allah bless our whole Umma and may Allah unite us on Tauhid.
@@uniquelegance Assalamu aleikum. I know there must be one in Berlin, but it is only for the first 4 classes and very far from us.it is also very full.homeschooling is forbidden in germany. We have mosques where children can learn Islam but this is not the problem. The problem is that they are forced to go to public schools.
Alhamdulillah we live in Indonesia
I make dua, you can built an islamic school base on Sunnah, we here in Indonesia have so.. many islamic school with Sunnah base
Some parents only think about this Dunia and ignore or forget about the Akhira not realising they are putting their children in the fire.
You can be a successful business man or even a professor but whats the point if you don't know Allah.
Whatever you have in this world will come to an end but the Akhira is eternal. Instead of having a house or a mansion in this world where sewages run under, I'd rather have jannat where rivers run under.
Putting children in fire is illegal, cruel and you could be arrested for it.
Great advice brother. May Allah bless you
ameen!
Reverts to Islam become better Muslims than us! Masha Allah brother, you talk with so much wisdom
JAZAKALLAHU QAIR MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU WITH JANATUL FIRDOUS I LIVE IN Nairobi KENYA IT IS MY SINCERE WISH THAT YOU CIRCULATE THIS DAWA’A WIDELY FOR ALL WORLD MUSLIM REFUGEES BENEFIT
Very true brother Saajid much respect to your effort on the straight path may allah keep you in his way. It’s a collective effort and we all need to help each other in every way we can just as you are doing mashallah. We’re just taking the easy way out and losing focus on the akhirah this is the sad truth. Keep the ummah in our Duas inshallah
Allah bless you from Saudi Arabia.
Excellent video brother.
I cried when you talked about the Syrian refugee 😢life is been very difficult! May Allah help us all. Thanks brother
mashallah good talk akh im a convert as well
U are blessed. U have received a gift that is priceless and worth more than the entire Universe and everything in it. May the All-Mighty keep you on his straight path, give u a long and healthy life to serve him, increase you in peace and blessings and guide your friends and family to THE truth that is Al-Islam before death. Welcome 2 the largest family in the world of 1.8 BILLION and growing. InshaAllah, we all get pious spouses and children that can help us get 2 Jannah.
What lead you to believe in Islam?
Jzk brother Saajid, people need to read and analyze this book -> *_Weapons of Mass Instruction!_*
well said my Brother... well said! actually this is the Age of Fitnah (you know what i mean), may Allah protect us all! much love and respect from Australia!
Is tho, I mean there are more Muslims on earth than any time in history.
Jazakallah khair
Alhamdulilah I did the exact thing the brother said
Just wanted to make short comment
The Islamic schools have also some problems too
My kids experienced bullying and even some sexual harassment from a Muslim girl , all because the classe are small and they have girls and one few boy
My son almost fell in zinah because of mixed class
Alhamdulilah Allah saved him and us ,
I am still happy that I took them anyway
They leaned more Quran than me
Just to give people heads up
Islamic schools are not perfect
We need to work on the tqwa of Allah تقوى الله on our kids
May Allah help us in this struggle
I'm in Canada but at least in my case the schools have been to try to not let this happen in fact my highschool has a prayer room at the quitest part of the building Allhumdullia. In middle school they didn't teach the evolution theory knowing that it goes against some students religious beliefs.
Not that this happens here, it does. Here you have to do whatever it takes to stay out of trouble to begin with, my middle school & my parents as well thought me how to do so.
Inevitably when your children are not accepted in school they will most likely conform to their peers and spend a lifetime confused.
Al Hamdu lillaah, thanks akhee. I love you for the sake of Allaah. May Allaah help me and you for all good.
Asalamu alaikum, as someone who went to a public school in elementary, middle, high school, and now college I cannot stress how important this video is. Everything you said is the truth. May Allah reward you dear brother.
jazaakaAllaah my brother,may Allah grant you his heaven.aamiin
Thankyou for the video because I never thought of this for the day I will be married with kids. Public school is not an option.
Salam I’m also a convert, I want to know why you didn’t suggest homeschooling? 50% of Christians are homeschooled now and Muslims as well . Homeschool is the best option during this plandemic NWO nonsense . Islamic school if you can afford it and if they are pushing these death shots
AssalamUElecum
I went to elementary, high school and college here in the USA. Back then I wasn’t religious at all. I hardly prayed either. But only thing I knew that we don’t mix up opposite gender. When I got married. With Allah’s blessings, my husband prayed regularly and he still do and when to masjid on a regularly as well. When my kids started going to Sunday school then I would say I changed a little bit. I started praying Five times. Reading Quran . Then we started halaqas and we still do that. When my kids turned seven, I made sure they know how to pray. AlhamdulilAllah since I made sure then pray five times. They go to public school. When they come home I make sure then pray and read Quran. And I before going to school in the morning, the pray Fajr. I tell them, the difference between them and us we pray and our character is the best. With blessing of Allah we took our kids this year for Umra. This is constant struggle with kids and our self. Only thing I would say educate yourself and kids with Islam education. And make dua to Allah (SWT)
A child's primary care and education comes from their parent ,, choose for them the correct path for as long as you can make decisions for them, never take your eyes off them Inshallah May Allah guide all parents Ameen
You left me speechless 😶
Now i know why my dad never immigrated into west and keep saying it's for our benefit 😭♥️
As wr wb brother
Jazakhallah keyran wallah everything you said is 110% true subhan Allah I have been thinking this all since I came to America almost 10 years anyway may Allah reward you happy life and give you jannah in next life
Brother you are absolutely right, as there is a problem there at public school, continue to advise Muslim community studying at home because of the danger or even make the Islamic school cheaper, create jobs, find qualified teachers to teach all subjects, work hard on it. I know you are advising the danger for our kids, plsss help them, keep it up, do more that you can to preserve our kids, let the message you are conveying reach all muslim parents. I know you are doing your best, continue as its the right path to save our kids. May Allah send blessings on you. Islam is a way of living....
Salam alaikum Im convert myself. We modę to Canada from Poland. My husband is born muslim. But he doesnt practice prayer. We have three sons. Elder ones will go to 1st grade. They are going to public School. I was with non muslim in Poland and i saw what I saw. And still in Poland many things are illegal and prohibited. Its still very catholic country and I would not like to give them to public school even there. And here where drugs are so common, zina and the worst homsexualism. I am so scared. My husband wants me to work and ONE we cant afford for islamic school TWO its very far. I wanted to homeschool. I know so many parents are homeschooling and they have a great social connection, a lot of activities together, events and meetings. But my husband still wants my kids to be in public school so they have friends not just muslims. And he says they need to be with people and not closed it home. Its very sad. Me as women I cant do anything else. Me as convert I cant teach them much. I studied a lot on my own but thats never enough. Plus my kids dont have an example of practicing Muslim in my husband. Soon they will be few years older and I will not be able to take them with to masjid women section. 🙁
You have make Duaa to Allah to protect your children and guide your husband.
and try to make your husband realize how dangerous public schools are and what brainwashes innocent children, Allah will hold you accountable for the loss of your children.
I do not normally post comments on CZcams. But my brother thank you for this video. May Allah SWT reward you for every person or watches this.
thanks for the truth bro. hope things get better for Muslims in America. I recently saw creepy old lady behaving crazy in the subway when she saw a Muslim woman with hijab, and she was on a crazy rant for long time. I could only imagine what that sister was going through. None in the subway reacted and said anything to the creepy old lady to stop her. I wish I could have done something to stop her.
Salam Aleykum brother Saajid, you have spoken the truth about public schools, and we as a community must find a solution to make Islamic schools affordable because the high tuition of these private Islamic schools does not make it affordable for the average Muslim (or American in general) to send their children there and at the same time put a roof over their heads and food on the table, it comes down to this simple math for many Muslims in America.
I always told myself that my kids will definitely go to a Islamic school until i found out how much it costs to send a child to the only Islamic school in my area when i started gathering information for my first born who was then around 3 years old.
So it became clear to us that only those who are well off financially can afford to pay for the high tuition at these private Islamic schools, I am making a descent salary but i cannot afford to send even one of my three children there, we are now seriously considering the homeschooling option and hoping we can make that work if my wife stays home permanently.
The point of my comment is that Muslims will not send their kids to Islamic schools if they cannot afford the tuition, we need to think about solving this obstacle otherwise there is no way for the big majority who are already struggling to pay rent and food.
If possible, let us work with state representatives to introduce legislations allowing parents to send their kids to any school of their choice and have the state pay for it as it would pay when kids go to public schools, in other words, the same expenses per child can be redirected from the public school to a private school chosen by the parents, this must be our objective if we want to see Muslim children educated in Islamic schools, A legislation of this kind works for all the parents who want to see their children going to schools that will teach them important values of their faith, therefore Muslims don't have to fight for this alone as a coalition will work for all the faiths out there. This was my two cents, and I hope we can get to the objective sooner than later. Salam Aleykum.
Alhamdulilah, our Deen as a priority in our actions .
May Allah reward you brother.
Thank you brother Saajid for feeling for your brother's and sister's children. I hope you become the mujaddid in America.
America?
Jazakallahu khaira for delivering this much needed talk brother Saajid. May Allah protect you and reward you abundantly in this world and hereafter. آمین یا رب العالمین
Asalam wualeykum I live in Virginia and sadly all Islamic school are super expensive like over 1000$ for each kid a month my wife used too homeschool them but she was forced to start working and we ended up putting them on public I got 2 on elementary and 1 in middle school so far no problems I hear what you saying and I agree i wish islamic school they were more affordable
I went through all of this my parents are immigrants who came to London England
I wasn’t particularly bullied but because I was only one of few Muslims it was very difficult for me I would go as far as to say a humiliation for Muslim kids
Allah did rahma on me and put iman in my heart
I did make mistakes and was chastised severely but looking back I realised that the mistakes I made were because of oppression from being put amongst non Muslims
I took my children out of school and went to Lebanon to an Islamic school because I couldn’t put my children through the nightmare that I went through
When I returned to England they were home schooled and people thought I was mad but I told them that they did not know the school system like I did
I’m struggling with my youngest now but will never send my precious gift from Allah to the garbage
Inshallah he will be successful pls dua for me and all the Muslims struggling
Ameen
Gray Kin jazak Allah khair
Alhamdullilah Allah put me through my childhood amongst kuffar and also being a latchkey kid with my father abroad to really show me how important just being there for your children is
And the school system also alhamdullilah I feel that the new generation are aware and more are taking the same stance alhamdullilah
Just need as many as possible to spread the message
Salamaat
Masha allah brother saajid good advice the youth is the future we have to protect our youth my Allah guide us
Mashaa Allah. May Allah سبحانه وتعالي protect you and reward you with فردوس الاعلي. Very well put together, extremely beneficial and very eloquently presented. I completely agree with you as a father who had school age children going to public school and currently homeschooling as of last year. First of all I think we are treating the symptoms here not actual sickness. We shouldn’t raise our children in the land of disbelief rather we should take them to Islamic environment. That being said, I am assuming your advice is for those of us who has legitimate reason to be in a non-Muslim country. Example, reverts or those who are here and don’t have the means to leave or don’t want leave for reason or an other. Based on my experience here are some practical steps you can take to safe yourself and family.
1.change yourself before your children. Learn your Deen as you can’t give what you don’t have.
1b.Change your mindset. Your aren’t back home so change your discipline strategy. Being harsh maybe culturally acceptable but not Islamicly.
2. Get your priorities straight. Build houses back home, being away from your family, working too many hours vs spend time with your family. Sacrifice is the name of game!
3. Be a role model for your children and be the change you want them to be. Be God-fearing if you want them to fear Allah.
4. Feed /shelter them Halal. Hard but is easy if want hear after.
5. Stop the war at home. Make your home peaceful environment. No fighting/ yelling in front of children. Very important.
6. Avoid divorce if all possible. These is a goodnesses in your Wife/husband try to find it.
7. Be gentle and kind to each other and to your children.
8. Befriend your children. Give them choices if possible, ask them to come up with rules and let them sign it. Make them part of the process!. Your children are Amanah that Allah entrusted you with not your property.
9. Make a lot and a lot of Duaa
10. Have a plan for everything. It just makes life less stressful.
11. Take the means and put your trust in Allah.
انك لا تهدي من احببت ولكن الله يهدي من يشاء.
May Allah grant you success in this life and hereafter.
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرّة اعين.
abdiaziz hassan Ameen
Brother, did U move 2 Florida now that you're back in the states? I'm guessing cuz u interviewed a principal of an Islamic School in one of your videos. Would u recommend any private Islamic School there? Do u think we need more Islamic teachers and should they get equal, less or higher pay than compared to their public school colleagues? I'd appreciate any responses. Looking forward to future collaborations with Daniel over at "The Muslim Skeptic".
Jazakum Allahu khairan. Barak Allahu feek
Great video brother. Alhamdillah, I was blessed to move overseas to raise my kids in a Muslim country for work. My intention was to make them grow up in a society where they didn’t have to be ashamed of their deen. I just got back a month ago now that they are in college. My son, however is going to grade 12. If I could, I’d put him in ISLAMIC school. Unfortunately, as a now single mother, I can’t afford it. In sha Allah his fitrah is strong because I struggled to make it strong all on my own. My husband looked like you, beard and all. However, he exerted no effort to contribute to his children’s deen. My kids are in college and wallah, I struggle everyday with their deen. I can’t let my sacrifice be for naught!! Their deen is the most important thing for me. May Allah protect all our children and protect my only son forever and especially this one year in public school. Also, I’m a teacher in public schools. I’d love to work for ISLAMIC schools. However, the benefits and salary would make it very hard for me to sustain a basic lifestyle. Thank you brother!! May Allah reward you to continue your dawah.
Barakka Allah Feek Akhi Saajid..