EASY MEALS to FEED YOUR FAMILY, (EVEN PICKY EATERS) // Recipe Ideas, Tips & Tricks
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I only had 1 child and he was NEVER a picky eater, he did some odd things with his food but he was adventurous. He adored vegetables and I discovered he got everyone's vegetables at school lunch that the others wouldn't eat. One day he started laughing at dinner and said "I had 10 helpings of broccoli at school today". I was so lucky
Mindy, Thank You! For all Mothers with young children just do what you can and each child is different. One morning 25 years ago my daughter was in kindergarten she would not eat her breakfast so I said tell me what you want you have to eat something she grabbed the cheetos and ate them.On the morning Mom's were invited to come in and join morning circle time. The teacher asked each one what they ate for breakfast that morning.I broke out into a full on sweat it was dripping down my flank! When they got to her she said I ate carrots! Oh sweet baby Jesus thank you. She thought they were carrots! She is 25 and loves veggies. Hang in young Mom's it will work out!
This nearly brought me to tears as I am currently dealing with a 3 year old who doesn’t want to eat anything these days. Knowing it’s temporary is so comforting.
@@claudiag.3036 It is! It will also fly like the blink of the eyes. Enjoy it and don't stress and beat yourself up. Do your best thats all you can do. Hang in!
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It does get better. All of my kids went through periods when they wouldn’t eat something at all. I felt like I was crazy. They have gotten so much better.
Keep trying. And sometimes breakfast for dinner is a win. In my house backwards Wednesday (breakfast for dinner) has stayed on the menu and they’re now 12-16 😅😅😅
@@claudiag.3036 Oh dear Claudia…It’s upsetting and especially if someone in your life is trying to give ya advice. As long as you’re not giving your child a candy bar three times a day ☺️ it will turn out ok and some adults never want to eat a lot of different foods too. I learned that it seems to work out better if there isn’t too much discussion about it with a child or anybody else.
@@mariselaali1396 I'm a full grown adult with kids of my own but there is something special about breakfast for dinner. As a kid I'd swear it tasted different and better than in the morning
Forty years ago, my first daughter was a very picky eater. A diagnosis of Asperger’s when she was in her teens made us realize she had sensory issues with the textures of food. Sometimes you just have to pick your battles, and this was one I chose to let slide. She was healthy and bright eating only Mac and cheese, carrot sticks, cheese pizza, and nuggets. Plus a daily vitamin. She’s still that picky at 40. Thanks for this video.
So many people roll their eyes at picky eaters and say if that were my kid he’d eat what I served or starve. Most people don’t realize kids on the spectrum have texture issues with food that has nothing to do with being picky and it’s hard to even get a diagnosis if they are high functioning. I feel my son is somewhere on the spectrum and his level of picky is so much more than just always wanting pizza or chicken. He’s 9 and has never been willing to try any drink other than milk or water. Not a bad thing but definitely unusual. I’ve struggled so much with accepting his eating habits because I can tell this is much more than picky eating. It’s so frustrating and hard as a mother to watch her child struggle with this and it sucks even worse when people act like there is something we should/could be doing differently. I want nothing more than to feed him good nutritious balanced food and it’s heartbreaking he pushes away everything I serve him! I wish there were answers or more people would talk about this struggle we have without lumping it in with kids who truly are just picky eaters!
Understandable. That’s why I gave that qualification at the beginning. This isn’t meant to address sensory issues or eating issues of kids on the spectrum.
I have a daughter on the spectrum. She turns 20 next month. I am a very picky eater and always have been. So, of course, she was picky as well. Here's my take on food aversion...EVERYBODY has likes and dislikes. It's perfectly normal! Stop shaming or forcing children to eat things they are not ready to accept! Instead, encourage them to try different things, but allow them to not like it.
They say you need to try foods 3 or more times before you might accept the food. I would encourage my daughter to try something new. If she didn't like it, that's fine. No fuss was made. I would wait until she forgot she'd tried it (months or even a year later) to encourage her to try again. Even lied when she asked if she'd had it before! But I would do the same process over again. Sometimes, she'd change her mind, sometimes not. Didn't matter, I was always just encouraging and happy when she'd tried.
Furthermore, I was especially encouraging to try new things when we ate at buffets or pot lucks. Restaurants make things way more yummy than I could, and you never know if you might find a new recipe your child likes through someone else. It's also a lot easier to allow them a small bite of something new in these situations. What I found was that my daughter was very excited to try anything new when it was breaded and deep-fried. That would open the door to eating the item cooked other ways and/or in other dishes.
I can tell you my daughter still has sensory issues with food and sometimes refuses to eat things she previously would enjoy. But overall, her tastes have greatly changed over time, and she even loves foods I do not like. She found her own path, her own likes and dislikes, and I'm very proud of her!
Thank you for this, I deal with this and the guilt of not being able to get healthier food down her stomach. She has a reflux and has thrown up many times at the dinner table after trying to get her to eat something healthy. It's the texture. I have such guilt.
I am a single woman with no kids and I love watching your videos! You always give me great ideas to up my boring meals. I downloaded your free cookbook and can’t wait to try some recipes! Thank you Mindy!
Honestly I grew up with my dad being a picky eater. He doesn't eat dark meat, he doesn't eat meat on the bone, he only has a handful of veggies hell eat. So when my kids started I wasn't surprised. I was patient and kept introducing things and most of my kids eat so many veggies. I used to get comments from people because my kids would eat a salad but the veggies had to be separated and my son doesn't like dressings. I'm like if he doesn't want dressing I'm not going to force it at least he's eating his veggies 😂
Ooh I don’t eat meat on the bone, dark meat, any fatty meat 😬 I’m super picky when it comes to my meat!
I also have one who won't do dressing but loves her veggies. It's frustrating when I'm cooking with sauces that she doesn't eat and I have to think how and when to separate things out. On the other hand, it feels weird to tell her she needs to eat the less healthy stuff when she will willingly eat the healthy stuff😅
All great pieces of advice. As a mom of a 2-year-old and 4-year-old, I would also add serving a "safe" food especially on nights when you try a new recipe or something you know they haven't liked in the past. Typically this is fruit, a safe veggie, or garlic bread. For example, I love red beans and rice and I'm making that tonight. I know my 4 - year - old doesn't love it so I'll leave some of the sausage on the side for him and also give a few slices of apple with the rest of the meal. Often it encourages them to eat more of the new food like magic!
Great tip!
Good ideas. My mother lived through the Great Depression. Her mantra seas , eat it, and be grateful you have it. I deal with a picky eater husband every day, it’s a problem. Thank you for the ideas.
I totally agree with your grow up comment, Mindy! When I was first married, my husband didn't like a lot of vegetables. I said, "Too bad." We have kids here that need to see you eat vegetables, so you have to eat what I make. There were no ultimatums. The two kids grew up fighting over who got the last of the vegetables that I made that most kids hate( Lima beans, brussel sprouts) Sometimes you just have to put your foot down with husband's! LOL
Love the message you are making here about adults setting examples. I'm a dietitian and for my capstone presentation I researched adolescent health outcomes influenced by family meals. The number one take away from my studies (3 years ago now) was that regardless of the mother's position (shopping, prepping, cooking household meals, and her preferences), children will mimic the father's eating behaviors. So if the dad doesn't like vegetables and openly does not eat in or encourage vegetables (or any food group, just using veggies as example), the children will follow his lead. Thus having major nutrition and potential chronic illness precursors on the children when they reach adulthood. Areas where there was not enough data to discuss and make conclusions included same sex parent household and single parent households. So Mindy, you're giving good advice coming from this dietitian with a food science degree!
That’s so interesting!
My husband sat with the older kids on his lap and let them share his salad. They eat it, the others don't.
The SNeaky CHef is great
I’ve done so many of these things and i still have 2 awesome eaters and 1 of the pickiest eaters ever 😭 I’ll still keep trying. I never let my kids say “that’s gross” etc about food. Food is a blessing and so many people go without it.
I have an almost 4 year old and an almost 2 year old. My oldest eats great. He loves veggies and he's finally coming around with eating meats other than ground beef. My younger son is in a phase where he only wants bread type foods. I bake ours myself with freshly ground flour so I feel less bad about it, but I still want him eating meats and veggies. Every meal I offer all that is on the table, but sometimes I just put a little bit of each on his plate to avoid throwing food and feeding it to the dog lol I've found that he randomly will try something and actually swallow it at times. He really likes to do what his brother does so sometimes my older son will encourage the younger to try it. Sometimes that works! We're getting there. I also do some smoothies with lots of veggies and berries for sweetness. That way I know he's getting nutrition, but we're also trying to get him to eat the food by itself on his plate.
Getting kids involved in growing their own vegetables is another great way to get kids eating their vegetables. Here in Australia, some of our elementary schools have school garden programs to get kids involved in this. So if you have a garden at home, it might be a fun way to involve kids in producing the food they eat,
So true!
My toddler tried snap peas for the first time because she helped plant them, watch them grow, and picked them. Decided she didn't like them but exposure is a starting place. She wouldn't have tried it otherwise.
My kids will eat the veggies they grow outside only. It's crazy, bring them inside and put them on a plate and they won't.
As someone who was labelled as a picky eater as a kid (and given a ton of flak about it my whole childhood) we realized later it was totally textures and smells that affected me, and that I liked my foods seperate, cant do a casserole, but I sure can do piles of veggies and proteiins in their seperate spots lol. Great idea about putting out the options and letting everyone build their own plates. I think something people forget is some of us "picky eaters" don't do it to vex everyone, it really sucks to not be able to eat eggs even if I want to but then being guilted for not eating eggs. I pretty much dread eating anywhere becuase of it's really creamy or whatever, I'm out haha. That being said my kids are not picky, but we never give the option. They eat what we eat, sushi, dim sum, veg and chicken, we ignore the pickiness, and keep exposing them to everything and never talk about it.
I try to find family friendly meals as much as possible and I make sure there's at least 1 thing on the table that each person likes. The rule at my table is that you have to at least try everything, even if it's just 1-2 bites. I've found that sometimes this helps my girls realize that something doesn't taste as bad as they imagine it does. It doesn't always work, but I always praise them for trying. I also try to do slight modifications if I can (such as my older daughter not wanting cheese on top of everything, I'll just cover half of a casserole with cheese). When possible, I also make assembly lines for everyone to do it themselves instead of preassembling - tacos, quesadillas, lettuce wraps, salads, homemade pizzas, etc. Everyone's more likely to eat if they make it themselves. I'd still need to prep all the ingredients so it's no extra work on me.
We had a win recently with one of my kids. She discovered at 17, that she loves brussel sprouts. Both of my kids have diva palettes. They are both teens now so if I cook something they don't like, they are welcome to make their own dinner. I keep things in the freezer that I know they can fall back on when that happens. It's so odd to me that they are so picky because me and Dad will eat nearly anything.
I find that our 2 year old daughter is pretty adventurous when it comes to food compared to her cousins and friends. As a rule early on, we always give her what we eat. If she doesn't eat it, we finish and cover her plate. When she gets hungry again, we offer it back to her. 9 times out of 10, she eats it. I'm old and tired now so I don't have the energy to be a short order cook. 😂
This is what we did in our house too. And now my son does this with his kids. I told them I wasn't a short order cook. You gotta eat what mama makes! However my youngest is a picky teen. She gets away with a lot more. I somewhere along the lines lost my hard edge.
@Brianne Hill No Mama, you like me just got tired, lmao. Especially if you have more than one.
@@pandapoof8798 I have 3 kids and 2 grandkids! I think you're right,lol. I am tired!
We offer raw veggies with ranch as an option to the cooked ones. Most kids will at least eat carrots or cucumbers as long as there's ranch. I have also hid veggies to get more nutrients into them... pureed in spaghetti sauce, chili, etc.
A lot of people put sugar in the marinara/tomato sauce. Instead of doing that, I puree a good amount of carrot and onion, saute until they are soft and put that in the sauce. Better flavor and much healthier. Also bulks it up a bit to make it more filling and economical.
I used to be a picky eater until I was 19 years old and I started making things and trying them, really helped so much
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Modeling eating your veggies and not talking bad about them is so important when kids are little!! I realized when I was pregnant with my first that if I wanted her to eat her veggies I was going to have to eat mine, and I better start now so I can learn to like them. I didn't like most veggies on the first try. BUT I would try a different recipe, cutting it differently so the texture was better (looking at you squash), or sometimes I just needed to get used to the strong flavor by trying one or two pieces at a time until my tastebuds adjusted. I am still learning to like some but I eat way more than I used to and I really think that helps my daughter. Oh and don't let family act shocked when they actually eat a vegetable! It's just a food on the plate to my daughter. She doesn't need to know it's not normal to love broccoli 😅
Mindy, Rule #3 is of utmost importance. I actually told my husband before we had our first child, to never ever say "I don't like...," or worse "You won't like ..." We both followed that plan. My eldest eats almost everything, drawing the line at organ meats and for some reason raw green bell peppers. I'd say that is pretty good. The other two even eat those things.
I love about 95% of all veggies, but I can't stand raw green bell peppers. It's an overpowering flavor for me.
I remember growing up(60 years ago)you ate what was put in front of you, or you went hungry. Of course, the fact that my mom and grandma were great cooks made this no problem.
Those were the rules at our house too. I didn't have any problem going to bed hungry. My aversions were so strong that shut my hunger down. I suspect that I had sensory issues, but they just called it being a "picky eater", which is weird because I am a foodie now, but still very picky about textures or flavors like cilantro.
@@PinkTigger33 understood.
This is SO good, thank you for putting it out! I finally got to a point when my kids were teens where I was like "Look I am not a made to order chef here guys. I am making a nice dinner, if you do not like it that is fine, but no comments about it and make yourself something else." I also made sure to let them know what I was planning ahead of time and if they didn't want it, that really was okay with me, but I only made enough for the people who did want it. This cut way down on waste and too many leftovers. If they chose to make their own dinner they had to clean up their mess and do the dishes. Nine times out of ten this cut the whole I'm not eating what mom is making way down. Lol, my kids didn't always like cooking for themselves and found that many times they actually did like what I made, but just thought they wouldn't!
I love your comment on the adults eating their veggies. My son (elementary school now) eats pretty much any vegetable. He loves asparagus, zucchini, eggplant, peppers, spinach and the list goes on (when I say loves I mean guard your plate so he doesn't steal yours). Do I try preparing the same vegetable different ways and different seasoning until we land on a version we all like - yes. Does everyone not only eat but express pleasure in the taste ...also yes. Kids follow our lead and if they don't get to try it and often - how will they learn to like it? The first time my guy tried cheese tortellini - you'd think we were coaxing him to eat dirt. Now he loves it. Same applies to offering veggies more than once, prepared in a way that taste good (no plain steamed with no seasoning please). Parents at his recent birthday party were surprised to see their kids eating veggies with the pizza. When I brought the plate around anyone who said no was gently informed they had to choose at least one (we have 3 options). With everyone having veggies on their plate - they all ate at least one serving any many had second helpings.
Thanks for saying that about sensory and medical. We struggle so much with our sensory kiddo. Some people just do not understand the complexity of texture, sensory, and medical issues. For example, in my home, I have 1 person eating keto, 1 person lowering cholesterol and maintaining a good glycemic index, 1 person with sensory issues, and 1 person that is an extremely active and growing teenager. So, for example, 2 people breaded chicken, 2 people without, 3 people eating the green beans, 2 people eating the Mac, adding an extra salad or veggie for the adults to feel more full.
I have been watching your videos for some time, but held off at first with watching this because I wasn't sure what to expect, but so glad you went in the direction that you did! I have two kids (adults now) that were both picky eaters along with having sensory and texture issues. Despite how severe they were, we were not short order cooks and just worked around what they could and couldn't eat. As they both grew older their picky side diminished and all that was left was their sensory side. My oldest is able to eat most things fine, we just have to work on my youngest because they have such a difficult time with textures. Then, my husband got diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, and we once again worked on making dinners for everyone. My husband is diet controlled, and everyone is eating the same dinners, just some avoid certain aspects of the dinner.
Well done, Mindy. I have major aversions to food scents, textures, and many foods taste different to me than everyone else, and even the visual appearance of a dish can make or break it for me, and this passes my picky palate. I struggled a lot as a picky eater and a single mom to please my own palate while trying to introduce my children to new foods and tastes because it was hard to prepare something I wasn't going to eat, was disgusted by, or unfamiliar with. They grew up to be adventurous diners and there isn't much that they won't try or don't like. I still have texture aversions and cilantro tastes like dish detergent, certain carrots taste like perfume, and potatoes taste like dirt, while I adore brussels sprouts, black licorice, anise, and other things most people dislike. I like coriander but cilantro is soapy. Taste buds are weird.
Thats's very interesting my son was pretty picky up until age 8 and then he was eating Indian food and other foreign foods and thats what he loves now at 26. He was always experimenting in the kitchen. He developed a mature palate early. Now I'm having to go back to childlike foods for my 90 yo mom lol I miss Indian food , Mexican etc Thank you for the recipes ❤😀
Thank you! For being a straightforward mom! It is appreciated
Yay!!! I have 7 kids. They are all picky eaters. Never fails that someone does not like something so THANKS SO MUCH for the ideas. 😊
Thank you for the freebie Mindy! I look forward to making a lot of these recipes.
Thank you so much for the freebies!!! I can’t wait to try them out!
Growing up my mother allowed my stepsister & I to choose 1 thing from each of the food groups. Since this different today then it was in the 80's I'll specify these groups for you: Vegetables, Fruits, Meat, Dairy, and Breads. My sensitivity to sulfur in Egg Yolks & the Onion family (the liquid/juice has the most sulfur in it) didn't really apply here. She just used powdered versions instead of fresh. Later we discovered that Chives has the onion flavor but low in Sulfur. So those became my Onions.
Anyways, these were my food picks from each category, and it's still holds true today:
Vegetable: Lima Beans - Fruit: Plums (inc Prunes since they're just dried plums) - Meat: Liver (Beef or Chicken) - Dairy: Limburger Cheese (When I was little I didn't know the name, and I just called it "Stinky Cheese" - Bread: Pumpernickel. Mom wouldn't make us eat our chosen foods, and would give us another option instead. Example: Mom made Liver & Onions w/ Mashed Potatoes & Corn. I could have a leftover meat (Chicken, Meatloaf, etc.) instead but have the Mashed Potatoes & Corn like everyone else.
Yessss!! We eat fruits and veggies with almost every meal. Even if it's a can of green beans and some grapes, let's feed our kids well! ❤
Yes! Needed this one!
Love how you mention tweaking something, without making a whole separate meal.
My kids won't eat casseroles, so I make up their plates with the separate ingredients, then mix it up for the casserole for the adults.
I grew up in a very poor household. We couldn't afford to be picky, so I learned to have a good palate and eat anything. Either that or not eat much at all, plus I felt bad if I declined food, because I knew my parents were doing the best they could. I am actually grateful for that, because I can enjoy so much variety of foods now as an adult.
This is so helpful. Thank you so much for including all of these printables. Your videos are so intentional, and you are my favorite to watch on CZcams. You put so many helpful ideas out there, I appreciate your content so much!
Thank you, Ashley, I really appreciate that. I try to think about how I can make helpful and realistic videos, it's my primary channel goal, so hearing I hit the mark is really encouraging, thank you!
One thing my parents did when I was a kid that I think helped me to not be a picky eater was that we had a 3 bite rule. They didn't force us to finish anything that we didn't like, but we did have to at a least try three bites of everything on our plates. And we were never served special meals - we were always fed the same thing that the adults were eating.
Great video! Thanks so much for the freebie menu suggestions! You're the best! ❤
I made a deal with my kids that they got a tablespoon of anything new and they had to take one bite of it. That way if they didn’t like it not much was wasted, but if they liked it they could have more. This way there were no fighting over not wanting to try new things.
I totally agree with being a good example of parents eating and cooking vegetables. My Mom made a plethora of different veggies as we grew up and I can honestly say I love all veggies except turnips. So go Mom!
I totally agree with you. Parents, adults ARE the models to the younger eaters. Love your tough love!
I’m thankful my kids actually love most veggies. And we all eat the same thing so it’s fair. Also, with after school snacks we don’t do them in my house. My kids won’t eat dinner otherwise so as soon as I get home from picking them up I usually start working on dinner that way they fill up on food better for their body! Plus they get a snack of fruit or veggie that the school supplies for all students before pickup.
These are AMAZING tips!! Thank you!!
Thank you for sharing this video! I have 2 very picky teenagers and planning our menu every week is a struggle! So seeing this was very helpful! ❤️
This video is so interesting! I know my own mother had trouble feeding our family since we're all picky eaters. But as we got older, she started to vary what we made-- ie replacing a lot of red meat dishes with chicken, pork, or fish to help with my dad's cholesterol levels. And making vegetables in a way that everyone would be able to eat, or at least tolerate.
I know when I was a kid I hated most vegetables, especially eating them raw, because of texture issues. But I'd happily eat vegetables if they were in soups or stew, and I loved eating corn and potatoes in various ways. So my mom would focus on making me those things so I'd get at least some sort of vegetable in my diet.
We had 11 kids between the ages of 4 and 15 at one point. Everyone got to pick one thing that they never had to eat. I would work around it.
We would schedule seafood meals when one daughter was at an overnight with Grandma, or I would make sure we had leftover potatoes for my one son when we had rice. Or I would cook mushrooms separately for the lovers to add.
I also always put fresh veggies and dip out while I was cooking. They were hungry and that was available. They all eat all the fresh fruits and veggies!
Thanks so much for the printable cook book!
Thank you for the great ideas and tough love! And thank you for the free ebook! I can’t wait to try the chicken spaghetti 😃
Hope you like it!
Thank you! ❤️
So very helpful, I'm definently in the season of life where I'm exhausted and unfortunately giving in to bad habits.
I cant wait to try all this wonderful advice.
I appreciate you ❤
Ty for the free cookbook Mindy!
Great tips! Thanks for the freebie (already downloaded!).
I just watched the video and downloaded the little cookbook. Thank you for doing this and for making a freebie---gotta love that :) I am a household of one and , while I like to cook and try new recipes, most often I prefer to make simple meals,, easy, thrifty meals. This ticks all those boxes for me. Thanks again.
Such an important topic!! Thx for another great video Mindy🌸
I agree wholeheartedly about the children need to see the adults eating good healthy foods to model a healthy lifestyle for their children. I did this for my kids when they were small and now they are two very healthy adults with good appetites for good healthy food. They also know how to prepare them in a healthy way. They exercise a lot in their 30s and they also saw that as well as a good work ethic growing up. They do what they see good or bad! Just something to think about. I also realize I am very blessed that they have made good choices.
Mindy- A dollop of those yummy Walmart dips are fabulous for upgrading mac and cheese as well! Personally I love a spoon of the “bacon ranch dip” in mine-SO good!
I just reached through your camera and gave you a big hug!!!!! I hope you felt it!!!! Thank you Thank you Thank you for saying outloud these topics!!! They needed to be said!❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the free download it will really help my family out. Kathy Utah
👏 Thank you Mindy! I laughed at the "tough love" parts, but you are SO right! I babysit little ones who are all picky eaters and cannot even get them to eat mashed potatoes. I can get them to eat a few vegetables, though mostly raw. I keep trying though, maybe one day...
Thank you for the free e-cookbook! You are amazing! 🙂
You are so right! My kids are exceptions. I've always given them what the adults are. They asked for tuna salad in elementary school. The teacher called and asked if I had an accidentally given my kid my lunch.😂😂 they ate salads, tomatoes, all the veggies. Loved it all!
One thing I’ve always noticed is that most kids don’t like to chew a lot so when mine were little, I used to offer fruit that I cut up first. They really weren’t gonna bite into an apple and I think that’s why a lot of whole fruits aren’t eaten during school lunchtime.
I struggled with overeating when I was younger so I didn’t say much about food to my sons and to this day as adult men, they eat well and didn’t acquire my problem.
Thank you for the free recipes!!
When my kids were younger, they would say they didn’t like certain foods, I knew they had not eaten it before, so I had them try a spoon full. They usually loved it 😊😊😊
As an adult picky eater, I would like to expand on Mindy’s tough love by saying that, if possible, it might be a good idea to try to involve an adult picky eater in the meal planning/cooking process. When I first went to college and became responsible for feeding myself, I decided I would only eat my favorite foods and never eat anything else… that didn’t last long. But my mom’s style of “eat it or else” also didn’t work when “or else” included much more appealing options. I had to learn to use ingredients I don’t particularly care for in ways that I could learn to genuinely enjoy. There are still some ingredients or dishes that I just can’t stand, and that’s okay for me right now - but I still work on broadening my horizons because I’ve learned that you never know when financial or health constraints might pop up.
When my kids were young and I was poor I would do what I could to make what they liked and was still healthy. Sometimes they would say I'm not eating this or I don't like this. I would say well that's what we have. You're not getting anything else to eat til tomorrow and no dessert. Usually that worked. I hated to say that, but it really was all this tired mom was going to do. Now they eat most anything. Thanks for the tips. I now have grand kids and these ideas will work with them.
Thank you for sharing and thank you for saying what needed to be said. Being a good example is very important.
Thank you for the recipes! There are several I’m going to try. Very helpful video.
Hope you enjoy!
Thank you Mindy for this. I really wish I had access to this information and ideas when my youngest was little. He's 27 now but he was the pickiest eater ever as a child. I actually had to have a visiting nurse come and help me try to get him to eat as a baby. He would only eat chicken nuggets and fries or Mac n cheese but I started putting tuna in the Mac n cheese and there went that!! Really appreciate the info!!
Thank you for the recipes. Can't wait to try them!!
I did the same thing when my kids were young. You can't expect kids to eat veggies if you as the parent don't set the example for them. I never liked peas as a child but as an adult I learned to love peas by eating fresh peas or frozen. It's canned peas I didn't like which is what we were given as kids. Honestly the only canned vegetable I like is corn. That being said I rarely buy canned corn. I usually buy frozen or fresh. My oldest loves veggies but she is not as big on fruit. My son always went for the fruit as a baby but I made sure he still ate his veggies. He actually preferred raw veggies as a kid, he has always loved raw spinach. He also loves cabbage. This is a great video by the way. My mom would laugh and shake her head at me because, as a kid I loved cooked cabbage, beets, turnip, parsnips, raw spinach and of course carrots but the bonus was that all these veggies were fresh not canned. I would do veggie trays all the time for my kids too and when I would make Kraft dinner, I would often add cooked ground beef and peas, so it was sort of like a casserole My kids loved it.
Thanks for the freebie!
Thank you for the free recipes! Looks like that chicken spaghetti might be cheaper than the one I use with velveeta! Love the way you created this video making a recipe while giving tips all at the same time. So creative! You’re a gem!
Excellent video addressing this topic, Mindy!
Thank you for the free recipes! You are awesome!
You are so welcome!
I guessed what to cook when you don't feel like cooking BUT this is even better!!! ❤
My children have always eaten their vegetables growing up. When they were toddlers they gave me a hard time, their father was a picky eater. He refused to eat his veggies, so he stopped eating with us and the kids starting trying more vegetables and started liking them.
The niceness vs kindness is so true. When I was a nanny, the kids would eat what I cooked, with some limitations of course, I wouldn't make it spicy for example for toddlers, and because I eat a plant based diet they would also eat all the veggies because they saw me eating them
Their parents: no veggies, trying to feed the kids veggies: well.... that didn't go well
Super helpful!
Preach it, Mindy! 😊
Thanks for the free ebook! I will use it ❤ please more of them 😅
Thank you!
Thank you Mindy. This is very kind.
Yes! We need to be good examples to our kids in all aspects
Thank you so much!!! My boyfriend gets menu fatigue so easily, so this is just so helpful!!!! ❤❤
Great video 😊! Thanks, Mindy.
When I was a kid through a new mother I only ate peas, corn, Lima beans and cabbage. Like you said, over the years my tastes have changed! I love a lot of leafy greens, squash and low carb veggies. Im still not a big fan of green beans but I will eat them mixed with other vegetables in soups and casseroles!
I was a picky eater as a child. Looking back on that, it was mostly from fear. I didn't know how something might taste or feel in my mouth. Fast forward to college. There were very few food options for me. I tutored Japanese exchange students. In return they fed me. I learned to be adventurous and became a much better person for it.
I was just searching the other day for your spicy Ramen recipe. Thank you so much!
My Mom was an incredibly picky eater and the only vegetables she ate were carrots and iceburg lettuce. My Dad would put veggies on our plates and tell us to eat them. As soon as he left the table, we would turn to her and ask do we have to eat these? and she would say no.
My sister and I had to take over making dinner when we were in our later teen years because Mom had cancer and was unable to do many things. It was once we got to decide how things were cooked that we started eating more veggies.
so great!
Great video and thanks for the free recipe book!
Never mind got it thanks alot have a great day and week
Canned frozen or fresh green beans can be covered in water with bacon fat onions and maybe a potato or two and boiled till the water is about gone. When they’re wilty they taste the best 😋
I completely agree with you about the vegetables.
Mindy and family have a great day have fun thanks from Oklahoma
My kids have all been picky, but I treat it as a phase and never make a big deal about it. I make options available, and teach them from a young age to make their own food.
They seem to be more willing to eat things when they've made it themselves and I haven't made it into a fight.
You speak truth I’ve always try to show my plate with all kinds of veggies and meat and I find it works well my three great grandkids love broccoli with cheese and air fried broccoli with dips thank you for the video
One thing I do to sneak a veggie into mac n cheese for my kids is I add some pureed butternut squash when I add the cheese packet and mix it all together. (To puree it, I cut the butternut squash in 4 pieces, scoop out seeds, steam it on the stove with a pot, steamer basket, and a little water. Once a fork can poke through it easily, I let it cool a bit, scoop the squash out of the skin, and blend it with a little water. Pour the puree into ice cube trays to freeze, pop those into a freezer bag, and then anytime I make mac n cheese I just put 3 or more cubes into it). My kids have no idea and love it. I guess if you try it for the first time, maybe start by adding less and then work your way up to adding more.
We try to do this where we can. I like doing quesadillas for lunch because they're easy but my toddler likes it unassembled. So I have a chicken quesidilla and she has plain tortilla, chicken, and cheese (plus a fruit or veg). Happy campers all around.
Mindy, you are an 😇. Thank you for all you do inspiring me and others in our cooking skills. 👍😁❤️🙏