How Being on 'American Idol' Made Me Resilient | William Hung | TEDxChulaVista

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  • What is it like to go from William Hung the American Idol contestant, to William hung the private citizen? William Hung shares his complex journey and discovers his real purpose​​ as an American Idol contestant.
    William Hung is an emerging voice. His academic and professional success has provided tremendous opportunity to understand and communicate winning strategies and principles.
    Find out more about this event and the other ideas at www.tedxchulavista.com William Hung is an emerging voice. In 2017, he discovered a new path to inspire others through public speaking by reflecting on his past success from his first album “Inspiration”. Back in 2004, this album was the #1 independent album on Billboards. The album was unique because it contained inspirational messages in-between some of his songs. This made him realize how he can entertain, educate, and empower people at the same time by articulating how to make complex choices in life with tremendous clarity and practical application. William is a highly sought-after speaker at corporations and professional association conferences around the world.
    For the past 7 years, William has been taking on middle manager roles for Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department and Department of Public Health. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Mathematics and a master’s degree in Business Administration from Marist College. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 422

  • @RandomBlackGamer
    @RandomBlackGamer Před 4 lety +251

    Man this guy randomly popped in my head. Glad this vid updated me on his whereabouts.

  • @kimkoshiyama8141
    @kimkoshiyama8141 Před 2 lety +56

    I freaking love this guy. I used to laugh at him back in the day but his positive, care free attitude is inspiring!

  • @jillwilliams7554
    @jillwilliams7554 Před 4 lety +214

    William Hung truly bangs! What a wonderful personality and a beautiful perspective on life. Imagine if there were more people like him.

    • @libbad7419
      @libbad7419 Před 2 lety

      It's a farce. If your getting motivation from William your in trouble in life. His audience are cult like obsessed idol obsessed lunatics.

  • @Liberaltrash447
    @Liberaltrash447 Před 4 lety +90

    The kind of guy that deserves the best life has to offer.

    • @seaor2k122
      @seaor2k122 Před 3 měsíci

      Nothing is deserved until you earn it.

  • @colinmilch1523
    @colinmilch1523 Před 3 lety +75

    His singing voice never changed, neither did his energy, nor his confidence. Love this guy!

    • @Zeitgeistmusic997
      @Zeitgeistmusic997 Před 2 lety

      You see yourself in him cause you have 'baby narcissism' where you have self desires that you don't want to put effort in

    • @HurricanePatrick
      @HurricanePatrick Před rokem

      I seriously would love to see an Asian singer in America, I honestly have never seen one.

    • @Gatsu_Gambino
      @Gatsu_Gambino Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@HurricanePatrickJoji? 5 Seconds of Summer? Sweetie... Vanessa Hugens, Brenda Song... Steve Aoki... I can keep going if you want

    • @dominiquedeveaux361
      @dominiquedeveaux361 Před 8 měsíci

      +

    • @RonLarhz
      @RonLarhz Před 4 měsíci

      @@HurricanePatrick
      Covo lee was first asian to sing in oscar and G.E.M perform in some kind of science, nasa level, ceremony.

  • @RyanAnthonyDigitalMedia
    @RyanAnthonyDigitalMedia Před 4 lety +101

    His impression of Simon was spot on lol

  • @angelaluna7532
    @angelaluna7532 Před 3 lety +59

    Awh he’s the sweetest guy ever. I love his drive! Hope he is still doing well.

    • @Zeitgeistmusic997
      @Zeitgeistmusic997 Před 2 lety

      He's a monster who proudly didn't put any work in a beautiful aft form but still wanted success

    • @forgottenstreets
      @forgottenstreets Před 2 lety

      Nazis STILL Hate Me (and Here's Why) you dont know what youre talking about

  • @espem88
    @espem88 Před 4 lety +337

    Excellent message. We need more resilience in today’s society. Thick skin, stay determined.

    • @Scharlarntz
      @Scharlarntz Před 2 lety

      Hola hermosa!!

    • @garanteicierto706
      @garanteicierto706 Před 2 lety

      @@Scharlarntz tu nombre describe tu comentario

    • @Scharlarntz
      @Scharlarntz Před 2 lety

      @@garanteicierto706 viste? tu mamá me dijo lo mismo

    • @garanteicierto706
      @garanteicierto706 Před 2 lety

      @@Scharlarntz más virgo todavía porque tardaste en entender y borraste tu comentario

    • @Scharlarntz
      @Scharlarntz Před 2 lety

      @@garanteicierto706 "mis virgi tidivii pirqi tirdisti in intindir i birristi ti cimintirii"

  • @noranawa4loans
    @noranawa4loans Před 4 lety +22

    I had the pleasure to hear William Hung speak at a conference. His energy is infectious and his message is genuine.🙏🏼😊

  • @RhettaPeoples
    @RhettaPeoples Před 4 lety +274

    I love his energy!!! He seems like such a good guy. 😀

    • @kyrancolenburg2588
      @kyrancolenburg2588 Před 4 lety +4

      @@WilliamHungOfficial is that really you?

    • @alexalfaro1101
      @alexalfaro1101 Před 4 lety +2

      Rhetta your beautiful smile gives off good energy . By the way I’m a nice guy too 😉😘

    • @RhettaPeoples
      @RhettaPeoples Před 4 lety +1

      Alex Alfaro aww thank you! I can tell you are!

    • @25Newengland
      @25Newengland Před 4 lety +1

      Rhetta Peoples puke

    • @MonaRoo88
      @MonaRoo88 Před 3 lety +1

      That sadly says a lot that they all cheered for wanting fame over a good steady job.

  • @roybacanimusic
    @roybacanimusic Před 4 lety +75

    The Legend Himself.

  • @hfam4202
    @hfam4202 Před 3 lety +33

    I love William's Positivity, and it's so good to see so many supportive comments here. I felt like he was exploited and used for laughs around the time he was discovered so I couldn't bring myself to watch him on tv much, but I'm pleased to see encouraging comments from fans. His journey was an interesting one. I love how he looked at his choices anytime there was a junction, and he always chose the positive choice, though it wasn't always easy. Some of his meaningful quotes for me: "It's not what they say, it's what you Hear... Focus on your Mission... Respond with Love... Go back to School... What stage brings you True Happiness?... Choose to Create It, Choose to Be Happy." Beautiful message. *Jiayou, William!!!*

  • @-belue-6697
    @-belue-6697 Před 4 lety +75

    Bless him! He's a national treasure! Keep him safe at all cost! 😌...He's such a nice guy!...
    If you don't try, you'll never fail, if you don't fail, you'll never learn, if you don't learn, you'll never see how far you can truly go! 😎

  • @allanreysandoval3914
    @allanreysandoval3914 Před 4 lety +17

    I did bought his very first album, my family thought i was a hooligan for buying this guys album and singing his renditions. Well i really liked his singing and also his guts. He's an inspiration to people who are doubting about themselves and being resilient, turning negative feedbacks to staying positive.
    Job well done sir Hung!

  • @VictoryAviation
    @VictoryAviation Před 4 lety +36

    If anyone keeps it 100, it’s this guy. He’s the opposite of a snowflake

  • @medukun
    @medukun Před 4 lety +36

    I love how he chooses his choices, and how he portrays it. It really shows his natural inner resilience.
    much love to this guy

  • @nelsonnoname001
    @nelsonnoname001 Před 4 lety +136

    As a teen/kid I hated this guy - As a almost 30 year old, I can appreciate the honesty and message, respect, life can take you on a unexpected ride

    • @lhelms2850
      @lhelms2850 Před 4 lety +12

      Congratulations you’ve described the result of maturity. :D

    • @nelsonnoname001
      @nelsonnoname001 Před 4 lety +2

      @@lhelms2850 YESSSSS, thanks for letting me know! - And if you'd like to see just how much, I'd be happy to let you know, baby

    • @ScarasRealLover
      @ScarasRealLover Před 3 lety +9

      @@nelsonnoname001 why did you have to make it creepy

    • @crowns9966
      @crowns9966 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ScarasRealLover LOL

    • @grantmartin4773
      @grantmartin4773 Před 3 lety +7

      How’d u hate this guy in the first place. He’s great!

  • @miguelloko5
    @miguelloko5 Před 4 lety +89

    If this guy made it on ted talk. Than hey anything is possible. Key is dont stop dreaming. Set goals and stay on top of them and dont give up.

    • @miguelloko5
      @miguelloko5 Před 4 lety +2

      @@WilliamHungOfficial I dont think they will let me on Ted Talk. I would probably be labeled under banned Ted talk. I have lots of knowledge . The only thing I dont have is patience. And thank you

    • @JACpotatos
      @JACpotatos Před 3 lety

      @@miguelloko5 I'm gonna assume you're not stable based on the pfp

  • @CaptJackPal
    @CaptJackPal Před 3 lety +24

    Met him in person years ago and he was so kind. He gave us tickets to his show.
    Love how he always has a positive attitude. He really does have a grift to make people smile. 😊

  • @Winteramen
    @Winteramen Před 4 lety +64

    When he sang his algebra song, you can hear is in key. Maaan, if he'd only chosen a different song maybe he could've done different. But then again, this ted talk probably won't exist. Awesome talk Mr. Hung

    • @Winteramen
      @Winteramen Před 4 lety +1

      “You have a choice” yes sir

    • @cherrybello
      @cherrybello Před 3 lety +5

      You can tell he has always been in tune, even in the initial audition.
      Only if he knew how to use his vocals properly...

    • @alexandertan8592
      @alexandertan8592 Před 2 lety

      Haha, u could see that he had some vocal training post americal idol audition. Proper vocal training boost ones singing ablity

    • @RonLarhz
      @RonLarhz Před 4 měsíci

      He probably had some training when he made his album.

  • @gyeeniuslab
    @gyeeniuslab Před 4 lety +46

    Wow~ William Hung, it’s great to see you on stage again... you are legendary! Thank you for this meaningful message 💜

  • @byoloye
    @byoloye Před 4 lety +22

    It's not what they say, it's what you hear... nice quote William Hung.. I choose to be happy

  • @hennanoor6346
    @hennanoor6346 Před 4 lety +21

    Perfect example of what the power of the human mind and spirit can do. Love this and I admire him and his resilience. I needed to hear this.

  • @Aveture
    @Aveture Před 3 lety +41

    Looking back, I just now realized he wasn't that bad of a singer as everyone said. He wasn't off key, or clumsy with remembering the lyrics or anything. I think everyone just focused too much on his thick accent and made fun of him for it and it makes me a little sad now. But I'm glad to see he's doing well nowadays.

    • @bendover4154
      @bendover4154 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Apparently your memory isn't as great as you believe.
      He really was as bad as Simon said he was.
      What saved him was his positive attitude and turning a truly bad experience into something great.

    • @Aveture
      @Aveture Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@bendover4154 No he really wasn't that bad. Obviously not a professional but not bad.

    • @seaor2k122
      @seaor2k122 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@AvetureHe sucked at singing then and he sucks at it today.

  • @piluccifranco6399
    @piluccifranco6399 Před 4 lety +15

    William, you are truly an amazing person. Keep believing in yourself and keep reaching for that star! My mentor once told me that there is an opportunity in every adversity, if you just keep looking for it...and I believe that with all my heart! Go William and never stop!

  • @___Anakin.Skywalker
    @___Anakin.Skywalker Před 2 lety +6

    I love William Hung.
    He's a dreamer and he bet on himself. Nothing wrong with that. Sure he was mocked, laughed at, looked down but followed his dreams and won because he got what he wanted. Isn't that what is fundamental that every American value? He made his choice and he had no regrets.

  • @Aerochalklate
    @Aerochalklate Před 4 lety +36

    this guy one of the earliest memories of my childhood

  • @jeanineshiman8228
    @jeanineshiman8228 Před 6 měsíci +2

    My mom always said, there is nothing stronger than a gentle man, an William Hung is a very strong man ❤

  • @saugusguy
    @saugusguy Před 2 lety +3

    How can anybody not admire and respect this wonderful positive human being

  • @-Vitalis-
    @-Vitalis- Před 15 dny

    He has one of the best comedic timmings I've ever witnessed. Truly an admirable person. I feel happy for him.

  • @keldonmcfarland2969
    @keldonmcfarland2969 Před 3 lety +5

    William Hung--amazing stage talent. He inspired millions, he has courage that is greater than many Marines I served with in Iraq and Afghanistan. He fills the stage. He bends it to his will.
    Thank you, William Hung, thank you for everything

  • @brysonchao5040
    @brysonchao5040 Před 3 lety +20

    “William hung set us back 10 years” -Jimmy O Yang but all things aside he seems like a great dude.

    • @forgottenstreets
      @forgottenstreets Před 2 lety +2

      Jimmy needs to look in the mirror lol. Hes sayin william hung set us back because hes the opposite of Bruce Lee. Meanwhile Jimmy is also an asian stereotype. A short, average looking, nerdy, comedian lol.

  • @nazyaacob
    @nazyaacob Před 2 lety +6

    The paths he created for himself, not only he is resilient, he is also smart. The last part of his advice is good. Where you wanna be to find happiness. I can sing and dance for myself is enough. 💟

  • @ashley5228
    @ashley5228 Před 4 lety +9

    It first started with the song popping up in my head, to looking up his audition, then final to his TEDcast. Listening to him talk made me smile, laugh, and brighten my day again. William listening to you sing and I honestly have to say you did not sound bad at all, I've heard worst. Thank you for talking about your experience and how you it made you positive and determine. ☺️

  • @jingshumbleappetite8266
    @jingshumbleappetite8266 Před 4 lety +20

    William Hung"The She Bang Guy" You took me back to my last yr in college.

  • @dear_saturn
    @dear_saturn Před 4 měsíci +2

    Met him once at CSUN. I remember him being all smiles. Lovely guy!

  • @constancewilson495
    @constancewilson495 Před 4 lety +79

    This is brilliant. Very inspiring. Power to William Hung

  • @andytaylor5960
    @andytaylor5960 Před 4 lety +27

    After hearing you talk, I became a bigger fan! Thank you xxxxxx

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut Před 4 lety +48

    What a great message. Resilience is key to living life full out.

  • @Fuckblmfuckpalestine
    @Fuckblmfuckpalestine Před 4 lety +17

    Bless you Mr. Hung. Best wishes

  • @_lil_lil
    @_lil_lil Před 4 lety +62

    First like.
    Always liked how genuine he was, even if he's not a great singer he seems like a wonderful person.

  • @ZhanaZee
    @ZhanaZee Před 4 lety +31

    Awww William this was brilliant!!!!!! What a marvelous lesson

  • @Tricia1869
    @Tricia1869 Před 4 lety +38

    ⚾️ Out of the ballpark! Another Tedx Talks we didn't know we truly needed💖, thank you! 🙌🏼

  • @prescriptionlifestyle1319

    He’s such an inspiration! Learning how to be resilient is one of the hardest lessons in life, but is truly essential to spiritual growth. A beautiful personal story we can all appreciate. Thank you William!

  • @ohmy49
    @ohmy49 Před 3 lety +4

    I love William Hung. No matter what situation I endure he can make me smile. I just think of how much identify with him. You have inspired much of my work. I want to make people laugh as much as you make me laugh.

  • @ell3852
    @ell3852 Před 3 lety +16

    He’s such a cool dude! We could all learn from him!!

  • @katestrong8558
    @katestrong8558 Před 4 měsíci +1

    His pure soul resonates with people. So easy to love.

  • @vanessajohnson4550
    @vanessajohnson4550 Před 4 lety +3

    I love your resilience and courage William. You are very genuine. What a wonderful message .

  • @jasminecowan242
    @jasminecowan242 Před 3 lety +2

    Love this! He makes me smile and you can’t have enough of that! Beautiful energy

  • @LargestClassifieds
    @LargestClassifieds Před 3 lety +1

    This man's testimony truly inspire me. Love his honesty, courage and attitude. Thank you Mr William Hung.

  • @ckwong96815
    @ckwong96815 Před 4 lety +1

    Mr. William, you are right at the top of my list of people I would to be friends with. You have what I think most never find (including me) - self acceptance & peace with who you are. Thank you for sharing yourself with us - and me.

  • @AlvaPalin
    @AlvaPalin Před 4 lety +16

    Thank you, William. Love is always beautiful even when you can't sing. Just teaching this message brings light to the world. You made me smile all the way through this. Ahhhh, love there's nothing like it!

    • @allisonabraham6078
      @allisonabraham6078 Před 4 lety +1

      @William Hung I always liked you. I never stereotyped you. You seemed very happy. So good to see and hear you. Congratulations!!

  • @queenhadassah_7797
    @queenhadassah_7797 Před 4 lety +16

    I love this! Great message! Thank you 🤗🙂

  • @joytoyouandme4593
    @joytoyouandme4593 Před 4 lety +26

    Best message ever- William you are bang on!

  • @bigguys45s29
    @bigguys45s29 Před 3 lety +3

    I love this man. Very friendly and confident.

  • @lilliansgut
    @lilliansgut Před 3 lety +12

    Entertainment is about making people laugh and smile. He knows how to do it. Great entertainer :) even if it was an embarrassing accident he can teach people that it’s ok to not be societally thought of as good in order to have good heart.

  • @genieveesther6442
    @genieveesther6442 Před 3 lety +5

    I remembered him because he left some funny & fond memories back in American Idol etc during his time, he did make everyone smiles. Now i’ll also remember him as cool, educated, always have that positive vibe, genuine, well, basically a great person 👍🏻

  • @lydiat5819
    @lydiat5819 Před 4 lety +13

    You go, guy !!! Thumbs up, stay positive and keep going. We are so proud of you. Good to see you doing well.

  • @jennihutchings9712
    @jennihutchings9712 Před rokem +2

    Beautiful spirit offering a beautiful message. Thank you William Hung. This is exactly what I needed to hear today.💜💜💜much love. Way to own it!

  • @Missraeraeruru
    @Missraeraeruru Před 4 lety +4

    I love this very much! ❤ thank you so much, very inspirational!

  • @habiebiee1
    @habiebiee1 Před 2 lety

    I've tried my best and I have no regrets at all! William,you have no idea how inspirational those words are!

  • @WhiteMadea
    @WhiteMadea Před 4 lety +16

    I love this man. Much respect to him. 💕🙌🏻

  • @jaredkodiak8160
    @jaredkodiak8160 Před 4 lety +9

    This man is a legend

  • @anaisnintuition
    @anaisnintuition Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful story!

  • @cashappsupport8597
    @cashappsupport8597 Před 2 lety +2

    Bro his energy is unmatched. What a great guy. His friends are really lucky to have him in their lives. I would love to work with a guy like William lol

  • @basheermuhammad7757
    @basheermuhammad7757 Před 4 lety +8

    Wow, how powerful. Amazing.

  • @elo_888
    @elo_888 Před 2 lety +1

    I randomly thought of him. Glad to know William is overcame all the negativity and became successful in his own eyes. Happy to see that! Stay positive people!

  • @xxxrosexxx123
    @xxxrosexxx123 Před 4 lety +14

    So happy for him!

  • @Ren722
    @Ren722 Před 4 lety +4

    I volunteered for Tedx Chula Vista a year ago! Dang, I wish I saw him because his performance was so funny and was cool to see him actually be famous for his audition! Seeing his output of his reaction with the judges shows how it can lead to good!

  • @brandnew2677
    @brandnew2677 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so true. Often times we get caught up in the negative and we become negative. Truly inspirational💪💪💪💪

  • @carolsuebillingsley3850
    @carolsuebillingsley3850 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This was unexpectedly encouraging after a hard day. What a wonderful human.

  • @RandyRhoadsFL
    @RandyRhoadsFL Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, that was probably my favorite speech I've ever heard. Every word hits because you can literally look up the situation he's recalling

  • @sec1rxg
    @sec1rxg Před 4 lety +1

    Its with great respect and admiration that i say this, your message really transcends well beyond ANY stereotypical background. 'She bangs', has new musical meaning. Thanks!

  • @vinh777
    @vinh777 Před 3 lety +4

    What a great guy! Love his energy

  • @jayatissa6028
    @jayatissa6028 Před 4 lety +13

    William, you're awesome!

  • @nativestudioart
    @nativestudioart Před 3 lety

    William you are a true inspiration ~*~ thank you for being real and sharing your experiences!

  • @JLu20
    @JLu20 Před 4 lety +2

    Always loved Mr. William Hung...He's maybe the most elegant, and graceful soul ever! INSPIRE so many people... LOVE this guy :-)

  • @FricaJames
    @FricaJames Před 4 lety +7

    OMG!!!! I love this so much ❤️

  • @frederickjk3
    @frederickjk3 Před 4 lety +11

    Wish I saw this before playing poker with him on the bestbet live stream last night. I didn't even know who he was. But really cool guy, got to shake hands with him. Even cooler now that I seen this. Hopefully I'll see him again soon. I need to stay positive with courage just like William.

  • @birdman7039
    @birdman7039 Před rokem

    i love this man, the world is a better place knowing this man exists

  • @madelyngates1380
    @madelyngates1380 Před 4 lety +6

    What a beautiful & sensitive man..thanx soo much for ur funny & profound message..love & joy to u..💚💜💙💛

  • @thesecretdecoded5801
    @thesecretdecoded5801 Před 4 lety +1

    Excellent message. Wisdom is your talent.
    A message greatly needed by many.

  • @caitlinchenrealestate
    @caitlinchenrealestate Před 4 měsíci

    What an inspiring speech of positivity and resilience. William Hung is truly an inspiration.

  • @aviegrinberg691
    @aviegrinberg691 Před 11 měsíci

    Excellent message. Also remember that the person giving you criticism is just trying to help, regardless of how they are saying it. Being ignored without any criticism is worse!

  • @minteractivemedia
    @minteractivemedia Před 3 lety +4

    He is a great motivator. Well done to him

  • @joenyc
    @joenyc Před 4 lety +2

    what a great story, all to exemplify that happiness is a choice. you always have a choice in what you hear and perceive, so choose to hear and perceive in a way that makes you happy

  • @anitahsiao4505
    @anitahsiao4505 Před 4 lety +22

    7/22/19 Very good messages, 😲
    Be brave to be yourself !
    Always do your best ! Always spread positive energy to the world !

  • @chucknorrismeta3171
    @chucknorrismeta3171 Před 8 měsíci +1

    He is actually a great speaker

  • @smartybrain3
    @smartybrain3 Před 3 lety +1

    one of the most meaningful 10 minutes of my life

  • @RyanPosen
    @RyanPosen Před 4 lety +1

    Ugh I needed this! 🙏

  • @CSI426
    @CSI426 Před 2 lety

    I would love to have William Hung as a co-worker. His positivity & kindness would help make the office a happier place.

  • @lynnmitzy1643
    @lynnmitzy1643 Před 4 lety +15

    I saw William perform @ the B& I in Tacoma. We took our daughter out of school so she could see him too🤗. Nice guy💛

  • @stephen2848
    @stephen2848 Před 11 měsíci +1

    What a gem of a person

  • @slatersworld
    @slatersworld Před 2 lety

    courage and wisdom like no other! "A great man of wisdom"

  • @bibitechUSA
    @bibitechUSA Před 4 lety +10

    Who else has same amount of energy as this guy?

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 Před 4 lety +1

      Bibi Tech Videos Well, in the peoples defence, it's much easier to have that energy on a stage.

  • @shinrui77
    @shinrui77 Před 4 lety +1

    i am learning new things about and from him, he's inspirational!

  • @kenbrunet6120
    @kenbrunet6120 Před 4 lety +74

    I went back and watched the original audition after this. I feel bad for laughing all those years ago when i saw it live. But im glad to see there are people who are immune to human ugliness. I'd buy it if he figured out how to bottle it!

    • @BlakeGeometrio
      @BlakeGeometrio Před 4 lety +5

      Well said! I wish I had the resilience that this guy has.

    • @jdowg6
      @jdowg6 Před 4 lety +1

      You can't help but laugh.... But insult is unacceptable

  • @gottbean5440
    @gottbean5440 Před 2 lety

    William Hung is a true inspiration to those of us who got rejected during the choosing sides for ( athletic team)

  • @Jam7pi
    @Jam7pi Před 4 lety +2

    Preach it brother!!!! Let's not forget you had a #1 album on the Billboard Independent Albums chart(#34 on the Billboard 200).

  • @wakawaka1976
    @wakawaka1976 Před 4 lety

    I tell my kids it’s not about being the best but about being real and true to yourself. As long as your effort is honest you are a success.