How One Olympian Turned Devastation into Inspiration | Jordyn Wieber | TEDxUCLA

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  • čas přidán 15. 07. 2019
  • Jordyn Wieber, Olympic Gold Medalist, looks at the moments of devastation that at times are part of the fabric of life, and how to turn these into transcendent​ moments of inspiration​. Jordyn Wieber is an Olympic gold medalist and American gymnast from DeWitt, Michigan. This teenage gymnastics phenom caught the world’s attention by becoming the World Champion in 2011. A key member of the “Fierce Five”, Jordyn helped the U.S. Olympic Women’s Gymnastics Team capture the team gold medal at the London Olympic Games in 2012.
    In 2017, Jordyn graduated from UCLA with a bachelor’s degree in Psychology and currently serves as an Assistant Coach for the UCLA Gymnastics Team. As a former Olympic gold medalist, Jordyn has expansive knowledge of how to succeed in gymnastics, but her influence extends beyond the confines of her winning combination of physical prowess and determination. Jordyn is still one of the top influencers in gymnastics and also serves as a motivational speaker and vocal advocate for preventing child sexual abuse in sports. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 125

  • @RheaToraskar
    @RheaToraskar Před 4 lety +151

    Jordyn is the sweetheart of the gymnastics community, I'm was so happy to see that she has a ted talk

    • @pme8370
      @pme8370 Před 8 měsíci

      Yeah I think she was mislead about her chances in the all around. Her coach told her to assume she’d qualify. But her peers were gaining ground. It set up the heartbreak when she did not qualify. But then she learned a lot from not qualifying so I guess it turned out all right in the end.

  • @stargirliexoxo
    @stargirliexoxo Před 4 lety +106

    She has improved so much as a public speaker. Great Ted Talk! Looking forward to her stint as a head coach at Arkansas.

  • @ukd8262
    @ukd8262 Před 4 lety +123

    When a baby learns to walk and falls over and over again, does he ever think ‘no, walking is not for me. I quit’
    Congratulations champion ❤️

  • @jennas84100
    @jennas84100 Před 4 lety +61

    Well that made me cry. As a huge fan and follower of elite and collegiate gymnastics, I have watched Jordan throughout her career. What a beautiful and strong woman. 💪🏻

  • @teddydavid2816
    @teddydavid2816 Před 4 lety +67

    Women's gymnastics is the most intense pressurized sport that there is, particularly and especially the balance beam.

  • @m.lizziebrooks8889
    @m.lizziebrooks8889 Před 4 lety +68

    What she did not say is that she actually finished 4th in the All Around qualifications at the Olympics and SHOULD have been included in the final had there not been the "two per country" rule, and two Americans (Gabby Douglas and Aly Raisman) had finished ahead. That would have been even more of a reason to be frustrated but she was the ultimate class act and helped her team win gold. And then she could not compete in college because she had turned pro so she became a team manager and moved mats and did laundry for the UCLA team, where she became a great leader and ultimately a coach. She is a true inspiration in the way she lives her life, and the classiest person ever. THANK YOU JORDYN for this talk !

    • @lizardbeth68
      @lizardbeth68 Před 4 lety +5

      No, she SHOULD NOT have been included in the final because that’s not how it works. They went to two per country to make the finals more inclusive. That’s the rules.

    • @edgartheboston1818
      @edgartheboston1818 Před 4 lety +15

      Lizzie Brooks Are we going to get back to that again? One last time, the US pushed for this rule when the Romanians were winning everything... you cannot modify the rule every time it doesn’t suit you. Rules need consistency for all. Thank you.

    • @m.lizziebrooks8889
      @m.lizziebrooks8889 Před 4 lety +11

      Edgar The Boston, I'm not American. My point was that her performance during qualifications was not a terrible one since she finished 4th overall. Not being qualified when you're 4th must be even more frustrating. Yet she was resilient about it. Period. Is the rule fair or not, that's an other debate.

    • @emmyjo720
      @emmyjo720 Před 4 lety +2

      She also had bad injuries which is why she stopped and became a coach. Russia and GB also had three gymnasts in the top 24.

    • @mlorocker
      @mlorocker Před 4 lety +2

      Lizzie Brooks your point is moot because Jordan knew the rules going in. She should have outperformed her American peers if she “deserved” a spot in the final. If qualifications were the finals, she still wouldn’t have medaled in fourth place. She’s a great gymnast but it just wasn’t her event. She had another chance in fx event finals but didn’t medal either. Injury mixed with nerves probably cost her in both, but she’s still a great champ.

  • @traceytillman7453
    @traceytillman7453 Před 4 lety +10

    Jordyn is such a tremendous inspiration and now Arkansas Head Coach. She had an injury at 2012 and I cried with her. She kept taking a step forward. Very proud of her.

  • @MsMockingbird06
    @MsMockingbird06 Před 3 lety +8

    "I was in control of the amount of time that I was going to live and feel like a victim." I love this!!!

  • @Shybairnsgetnowt1
    @Shybairnsgetnowt1 Před 4 lety +62

    A very inspiring video. As the saying goes, it’s not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain. I spent some 40 years waiting for the storm to pass, (abusive childhood) before I finally accepted that it never would, but that I could still have a great life regardless. I’m now 50, and looking forward to at least another 50 years, but this time I’ll be dancing in the rain! ❤️

    • @NaviNeku24
      @NaviNeku24 Před 4 lety +5

      Wishing you nothing but the best! It’s never too late to have a happy childhood! 😊

    • @Therealscousedancer
      @Therealscousedancer Před 3 lety +4

      I hope you're still dancing Paul, and I wish you all the best. I don't know you, but I hope you dance in the rain with all the joy in your heart.

  • @SnoopySubo
    @SnoopySubo Před 3 lety +7

    Not only a great gymnast. Well done champion. Keep on inspiring.

  • @PTunnelly
    @PTunnelly Před 3 lety +8

    Wow. I didn’t know how much I needed this. 😔 Two months ago my partner of two years left me for someone else. It was the beginning of my first semester as a senior in college. I currently have a 4.0 but I am afraid that it will not be the same after this term. The situation has made me slip into depression. I’m unable to focus on my studies as much as I used to. At times, I have completely no interest in studying at all. This caused my grades to plummet which just made me feel even worse. Now I am getting so mad. I wanna be able to control my life again. This video just inspired me to do just that. Wish me luck. ❤️

  • @LWC8
    @LWC8 Před 3 lety +6

    Jordyn is a class act through and through... sending love from halfway across the world... Singapore.

  • @davidadams2395
    @davidadams2395 Před 4 lety +20

    Wow! As soon as Jordyn started speaking, I listened with rapt attention. I had no idea I'd be hearing such a scintillating and inspiring speech, or that I'd glean from her story principles I could use in my own life to remain resilient.

  • @lokesh217
    @lokesh217 Před 4 lety +19

    One of the best thoughtful Tedx talk, I have listen till now.

  • @yuibot5998
    @yuibot5998 Před 4 lety +18

    Jordyn is awesome, definitely a badass woman young kids can look up to and I'm so proud of all she's accomplished.

  • @dashacrawford4951
    @dashacrawford4951 Před 4 lety +13

    I’ve looked up to Jordyn since 2012. I was literally obsessed with her lol. But she teach is a strong girl and I’m so happy that I got the opportunity to see her grow and do so many new things. I love this girl to this day .

  • @code-52
    @code-52 Před 4 lety +11

    Absolutely the gold medal Tedtalk. I have never thought of it this way, but you nailed it.

  • @cynthiakovacs4514
    @cynthiakovacs4514 Před 4 lety +3

    Omg Jordyn!!! This was amazing.... Love you & so proud of you!

  • @briar6479
    @briar6479 Před 4 lety +13

    I always wanted her to write a book about this moment when I was going through tough times.

  • @debaratibiswas7975
    @debaratibiswas7975 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you Jordyn for inspiring one and all through your actions and words. Wishing you all the best in your future endeavours.

  • @InfidelisEra
    @InfidelisEra Před 4 lety +7

    Amazing talk. Thank you. I needed to hear this today. Thank you so so much.

  • @cathygyurich6286
    @cathygyurich6286 Před 4 lety +7

    Jordyn, it has been a true pleasure and honor to watch you grow into the woman you are today. Resiliency is a character trait that has never let you down and I agree it is a choice as well. You have made the choice and you are an inspirational voice to people all over the world. I applaud you for sharing your story and continuing to share your message of hope and inspiration. Your hometown will always be proud of you!! Cathy Gyurich

  • @srfh2
    @srfh2 Před 4 lety +5

    Strength comes in many forms. Good you, Jordyn.

  • @vjj1764
    @vjj1764 Před 4 lety +30

    She’s a lot better at public speaking now than she used to be even a couple of years ago. She’s grown up a lot certainly since 2012. Unrelated but I have that exact same dress only mine is a deeper red.

  • @Therealscousedancer
    @Therealscousedancer Před 3 lety +2

    What a wonderful TED Talk & her message is such a simple but powerful one. Thanks Jordyn for taking the time & having the courage to share it.

  • @lindal5186
    @lindal5186 Před 3 lety +3

    Powerful, beautiful, strong! You are the epitome of resilience!
    Congratulations on a wonderfully inspiring speech! Sending love from Singapore

  • @sophier5508
    @sophier5508 Před 4 lety

    Very good job with this TED talk, and for sure Jordyn is a true example of resilience. Well done.

  • @morganbusinger3522
    @morganbusinger3522 Před 3 lety +2

    Jordyn Weiber is so amazing! I am so happy for her and she inspires me sooo much!! Keep it up!!! ♥️

  • @Excaliburhope
    @Excaliburhope Před 4 lety +12

    Best Ted talk I’ve heard.

  • @liceous
    @liceous Před 4 lety +5

    phenomenal speaker and human being

  • @tarantulabunnydog
    @tarantulabunnydog Před 3 lety +4

    Really well done. She's right. You have to be intentional with how you deal with difficult circumstances.

  • @robocoastie
    @robocoastie Před 4 lety +225

    What does the poster of this mean “former gold medalist?” She IS a gold medalist; there is no “former.” The medal isn’t taken away 5 minutes later then name erased. There also is no “former President” the title remains, people are supposed to know who the “sitting” one is.

    • @03bdr
      @03bdr Před 4 lety +1

      The First ever family trip to the US ! Today July 7 2019 is the set date to travel to America, we get Up at 2:45 as the van will pick us up at 3:30 . The First ever family trip to the US ! Today July 7 2019 is the set date to travel to America, we get Up at 2:45 as the van will pick us up at 3:30 . The First ever family trip to the US ! Today July 7 2019 is the set date to travel to America, we get Up at 2:45 as the van will pick us up at 3:30 .

    • @aylbdrmadison1051
      @aylbdrmadison1051 Před 4 lety +4

      Calm down Spanky, lols.

    • @fraidarahbaran6076
      @fraidarahbaran6076 Před 4 lety

      +

    • @zb6070
      @zb6070 Před 4 lety +3

      I suspect is meant to clarify she is no longer a reigning team gold medalist.

    • @hazelnutspred3348
      @hazelnutspred3348 Před 4 lety +2

      @@zb6070 but she is a gold medalist, so it makes no sense to say "former"

  • @Anil_7852
    @Anil_7852 Před 4 lety +3

    Wonderful speech
    Great determination

  • @extra_ice_girl
    @extra_ice_girl Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you Jo!

  • @katerinap5298
    @katerinap5298 Před 4 lety +3

    Truly inspiring

  • @ChicSeraphim
    @ChicSeraphim Před 4 lety +3

    Love!!! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @MsPerfume25
    @MsPerfume25 Před 4 lety +6

    Beyond amazing speech...I heard her live at the MSU campus last yr!!!`she always draws me in...love her motivation n yes being in the medical field you definitely get trained to be resilient!!!!;)))

  • @pme8370
    @pme8370 Před 3 lety +6

    This was great my only small suggestion is to refer to the time not as 2,880 minutes but 48 hours. I think everyone has a very clear understanding of that block of time and what they realistically could and could not accomplish in that time frame.

  • @Ladystrange66
    @Ladystrange66 Před 3 lety

    I love her , she is such a inspiration to me and to many others I’m sure. Love love love love her

  • @emilytudor
    @emilytudor Před 4 lety +1

    so inspirational and such a courageous woman

  • @thuantran610
    @thuantran610 Před 3 lety

    What an eloquent speech!

  • @duanesforkandspoonrr10

    Very well done, awesome job

  • @homelychef-vandanaahire5981

    I can't understand some words. But feeling her success with struggles. Good one...

  • @Inerize
    @Inerize Před 4 lety +71

    It's not about the cards we have been dealt with but how we play them!

    • @Omanjisinkala
      @Omanjisinkala Před 4 lety +1

      Very true. A lot of People miss the point

    • @mickleigh674
      @mickleigh674 Před 4 lety

      That’s right because that’s a man! Women don’t have Adam’s apples end of!!

    • @ashrabkhanal2533
      @ashrabkhanal2533 Před 4 lety +1

      Yo randy pausch

    • @JD-jl4yy
      @JD-jl4yy Před 4 lety +2

      That's sadly only part of the equation, ESPECIALLY in sports.

  • @ahavens2463
    @ahavens2463 Před 4 lety +6

    She doesn't need a gold medal to be a winner. It's how you live your life, not the medals you have. She is a great example.

  • @marcicanp
    @marcicanp Před 4 lety +5

    Wow. So much love and respect for her❤️

  • @danceballetacro
    @danceballetacro Před 3 lety +1

    she is so inspiring!!!

  • @vjj1764
    @vjj1764 Před 2 měsíci

    There were a lot of other athletes who needed to recover so much faster from the same level of disappointment. 30 minutes or less. Much greater accomplishment.

  • @Omanjisinkala
    @Omanjisinkala Před 4 lety +5

    Wow, i can relate life doesnt go as you plan

  • @gnarlyray5305
    @gnarlyray5305 Před 2 lety

    I love you jordyn. You’re amazing

  • @maicoindedip85
    @maicoindedip85 Před 4 lety +2

    She’s an amazing person and a great spokesperson. It’s incredible how we forget that top athletes are actually human, you Never really know what is truly happening in their heart and brain, whilst criticizing them for not achieving exactly what these so called “fans” Want from them.
    Super Role model Jordyn, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @lopeter6176
    @lopeter6176 Před 3 lety +1

    Jordyn Wieber, I LOVE YOU!!

  • @timallen41
    @timallen41 Před 2 lety

    You are a "rock star"... keep up the great work!

  • @tommyrhodes8594
    @tommyrhodes8594 Před 3 lety +2

    I am so sorry that happened to you but I am glad you are the coach at the university of Arkansas I know we will succeed wps

  • @ritadanilova
    @ritadanilova Před rokem

    To make a choice to continue moving forward, thinking only about what was ahead and leaving the past behind.

  • @RonGee
    @RonGee Před 4 lety +47

    Odd, the description says that she, "currently serves as an Assistant Coach for the UCLA Gymnastics Team," but she's been the head gymnastics coach at Arkansas since last April.

  • @edylordyt4468
    @edylordyt4468 Před 4 lety +1

    Nice THANKS

  • @woopityscoop2863
    @woopityscoop2863 Před 4 lety +4

    It was such a big moment. This was even a meme for a long time.

    • @AlyssaRicks
      @AlyssaRicks Před 4 lety +8

      It was? Maybe Maroney's not impressed face took over the memes of the time, but I don't remember that

  • @spacebella
    @spacebella Před 4 lety +1

    Inspiring to hear your healing journey and how to use adversity to bring out the best in us. Timely message for the world - especially right. XOX

  • @morganbusinger3522
    @morganbusinger3522 Před 3 lety

    That’s how I felt about my test that I took the other day. Why did this have to happen to me, I worked so hard. That’s exactly how I felt

  • @quantumboy9124
    @quantumboy9124 Před 4 lety +1

    Best

  • @sureshnaik2917
    @sureshnaik2917 Před 4 lety +1

    Nice

  • @JadeHinrich
    @JadeHinrich Před 4 lety

  • @jayathomas2737
    @jayathomas2737 Před 4 lety

    Good

  • @15allrerebs
    @15allrerebs Před 4 lety

    She has matured so beautifuly

  • @vijayvr4699
    @vijayvr4699 Před 4 lety +3

    If Yu realize pain then realize yur success💪 if Yu didn't realize anything Yu are worse than nothing 😵😵🤒so be active 🔥🔥🔥🏆🏆🏆👍👍👍🕺🇮🇳

  • @nilsudonmez6201
    @nilsudonmez6201 Před 11 měsíci

    And she slay

  • @francisnguyen6349
    @francisnguyen6349 Před 3 lety

    Let's talk, Jordyn Wieber.

  • @nishku413
    @nishku413 Před 4 lety +1

    💕👍

  • @Finger85
    @Finger85 Před 4 lety +2

    I wonder if she wrote this speech herself? Nevertheless it was great.

  • @mesquitegirl2013
    @mesquitegirl2013 Před 4 lety +1

  • @EXPERiMENTALRajdeep
    @EXPERiMENTALRajdeep Před 4 lety +1

    2nd

  • @shaeb1637
    @shaeb1637 Před 2 lety +1

    Because the same alternate you were talking about, belittled, and made feel bad the previous year came back and beat you.
    You never congratulated her, hug her or said good job. To me it was karma.

  • @jlr43100
    @jlr43100 Před 4 lety

    WPS

  • @josh2059
    @josh2059 Před 4 lety +1

    1st!

  • @abdullahkose728
    @abdullahkose728 Před 4 lety

    ez ji dibijim goti meriv her wext pey duxwazya xu biçe.

  • @SanjayParmar-ds5hv
    @SanjayParmar-ds5hv Před 4 lety

    I am Sanjay from India

    • @rahulpareek5816
      @rahulpareek5816 Před 4 lety +1

      यहां क्या कर रहा है

  • @vivekanandkumar5446
    @vivekanandkumar5446 Před 4 lety +3

    Sorry I don't understand your language what's yours language I understand your language but little bit sorry

  • @fabianrodriguez9825
    @fabianrodriguez9825 Před 2 lety

    Why you don’t compare with Americans instead of Brazilians, or any Latam culture?

  • @JESUS-cv5nn
    @JESUS-cv5nn Před 4 lety

    JESUS ....C.HRIST IS THE ONLY WAY THE ONLY TRUE, REPENT OF SIN AND CHANGE YOUR WAY OF LIVING

  • @milktop1
    @milktop1 Před 4 lety

    😴

    • @AlyssaRicks
      @AlyssaRicks Před 4 lety +1

      Please do entertain us, great one.

  • @rcadegaming9123
    @rcadegaming9123 Před 4 lety +2

    Not a fan of this one

    • @heatherwicker9990
      @heatherwicker9990 Před 4 lety +3

      Why say anything then? If you don’t like it; move on and don’t comment.

  • @mje19D
    @mje19D Před 4 lety +1

    She’s great but the whole “Ted Talk” media is a joke now.

    • @aylbdrmadison1051
      @aylbdrmadison1051 Před 4 lety +6

      The whole _I don't like something because they don't agree with my precious propaganda_ thing is a much bigger joke.

  • @KrunoslavStifter
    @KrunoslavStifter Před 4 lety +10

    I really feel that Americans have some kind of syndrome where any obstacle that one overcomes, becomes an opportunity for book publishing, TED talk or Oprah book tour. Meanwhile most of the world looks at silly Americans and laughs thinking, you guys. We all have been trough a lot of things, its not a contest of who had it worse, its just life. Not mandatory book or speech we need to deliver. Just life. In America its mandatory "inspirational" talk. I find that particular part of American culture disingenuous. Especially in the way it is delivered in this speech. It feels so fake. With rehearsed pauses and everything. You know what is perhaps more inspirational. People who don't talk about their story, but use the lessons of what they have been trough for something else other than self promotion.

    • @Shybairnsgetnowt1
      @Shybairnsgetnowt1 Před 4 lety +9

      Krunoslav Stifter Yet you watched the video! Do you not see the enormous irony of your comment?! Your glass is clearly half empty. Try working on your mindset, looking for the positive in life, no matter how small. I promise you that you will find happiness if you just try.

    • @Omanjisinkala
      @Omanjisinkala Před 4 lety +1

      Acculate observation

    • @AlyssaRicks
      @AlyssaRicks Před 4 lety +8

      Because no one needs encouragement ever... Speeches have no practical or meaningful use, that's why only Americans give them, right? It's not like Jordyn is a 24/25 year old woman whose trauma and disappointments were publicized. It's not like she's helping others by explaning how she got through.

  • @JD-jl4yy
    @JD-jl4yy Před 4 lety +2

    What an empty talk.

  • @biohack215
    @biohack215 Před 4 lety +2

    "Devastation" - not getting a gold medal in the Olympics, lol.
    Her other major low point was when she lost her Rolex.

    • @matthewplizga1920
      @matthewplizga1920 Před 4 lety +5

      Jimbob she didn’t like purchase her spot on the team buddy

    • @matthewplizga1920
      @matthewplizga1920 Před 4 lety +14

      Jimbob training for a gold medal most of your life and failing in front of everyone is pretty a definition of devastation

    • @Kimberly-wt1nu
      @Kimberly-wt1nu Před 4 lety

      Devestation, realizing your name is Jimbob. 🤣

  • @rashaanelam1897
    @rashaanelam1897 Před 4 lety +2

    " she " doesnt look like a " she " people.

    • @auspicious93
      @auspicious93 Před 4 lety

      ?

    • @rashaanelam1897
      @rashaanelam1897 Před 4 lety +1

      @@auspicious93 a man. She looks like she was born a MAN.

    • @auspicious93
      @auspicious93 Před 4 lety +2

      Rashaan Elam um, no. Not at all. She’s a woman and was born a woman. If you’re so sure of your theory then where is your proof.

    • @rashaanelam1897
      @rashaanelam1897 Před 4 lety

      @@auspicious93 I said SHE LOOKS LIKE. It's not my fault you dont have a trained eye to spot the anomalies. You dont have to like it. You dont have to AGREE with me. Agree to disagree and move because I'm not changing my opinion in this. Ok? Shalom.

    • @rashaanelam1897
      @rashaanelam1897 Před 4 lety

      @ciara beth ty