she said white people not suppose to wear bonnets ? | HAIR CARE NOT RACE
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the hate in her eyes wow so sad I'm white my hair started falling out and the pillows were irritating my scalp the bonnet saved me ... girl slap yourself and grow up this is still why so much hate...so sad so sad
I was thinking of getting a bonnet, but I know nothing. I know everyone can wear them, but are there different kinds for different hair types? Im a white woman with 3 feet of straight hair. Would I have to get a certain one or would any do? Oh and are there different sizes?
Has she never seen what 18th century European women wore?
Bonnets that looked EXACTLY like those
Yep! They wore them to bed
Bonnets, headwraps, sleep caps, shower caps etc have been around forever. It's not a race thing, it's a haircare thing and a warmth thing throughout history. People can be real silly sometimes over the smallest things.
Literally in “‘twas the night before Christmas” where both men and women wore them.
@@fromfjord well said
Bonnets are for people with hair, not only for specific skin colors
literally hate how ppl are talking abt hair care like its a race, just like the braids thing, braids are not a race they're a hair style
Exactly, apparently we're the racist one's yet POC are actively gatekeeping us from stuff. Like okay, that checks out.
you're a one year troll yeah I need that sage advice
@@terejosh13 huh?
@@terejosh13😐
Vikings invented braids!
I am curious as to what shape she would like us to make our head coverings in? I truly do not understand why she and other ladies have decided to dictate to me how I should care for myself and my body. The government is already doing that. Please stop.
Yeah, I'm not sure why the shape matters unless the shape is dictated by religion. Which it isn't. So why does this matter?
In most designs, form follows function. So I would think the modern bonnet is just the most effective hair covering, least likely to slip off, that people have come up with yet. And that when someone figures out a better design, everyone will switch to that because it's a better design.
i heard silk and head covering and I thought durag which is something she would still be mad about. she don't even know what she want. but I know what she needs. Help.
@@jordynm103 your nails are amazeballs😍
Because trapezoid shapes would fit heads better? I had the same thought, what shape should we wear.
Jsyk b*rb*r is a racial slur for the Amazigh people. @@itzAurora_Xoxo
I'd like to challenge that girl to come up a design for us white women...
Why don't y'all come up with something on your own instead of constantly copying
Right? What does she want us to wear? I suppose we could tie up a silk scarf or something, but it would prob be more likely to slip off and wouldn’t be worth the extra hassle. I’m not too worried about it, since these angry black women aren’t seeing me go to bed.
did you not see the part of the video where she talks about bonnets being around for hundreds of years in europe?
@@shylapollard5165 sounds like Europeans created bonnets. Who copied who here? 😂
@@shylapollard5165Black people can wear bonnets , even though some would call it cultural appropriation as European women have been wearing them for centuries . Imagine thinking that something that started in Europe was somehow only for Black people . Racists show their ignorance so readily. This is what happens when people play victim instead of actually researching the facts . This is largely an American phenomenon , not exclusively but you don't hear all this rhetoric in other countries with similar ethnic peoples.
I didn't realize this was such a controversy until I started wearing a bonnet. I'm a 50 year old white woman with really thin frizzy hair. I want to do everything I can to keep the hair I have.
Hi! My hair get so tangled with snarls that I use a special pillow case. I think bonnets would be more practical. I'll have to try one.
Keep wearing your bonnet😊
@@mirandaandrews2872 Hi! I agree. If a bonnet protects anyone's hair or makes you look good, why not??
Why do people care so much but white people do with their hair
Bonnets date back to 1400s for women. Period! No color or race appropriation. Hair care and appreciation! Love your products. I'm ordering a bonnet for each myself and daughter this month. ❤
Growing up in a rural town in the Southern US in the early 90s, every woman I knew over the age of 30 at the time had multiple bonnets, regardless of race: sleep bonnets, going to the store on a windy day bonnets, those mesh bonnets that go over rollers, plastic rain bonnets, etc.
Your collection of bonnets and need for situational bonnets really just reflected how much time, care, and money you were putting into your hair and its appearance. Simple as that.
Ever see Little House on the Prairie? They wore satin bonnets to bed all the time. This isn't a new thing.
My white grandmother wore one at night. She was protecting her perm. Not sure if it was a bonnet like you see today. But it was a head covering to protect her hair
It's a bonnet.
This exact style of bonnet was present in southern Europe for working class women in 1930-1970. My great grandmother who had thick hair that went down to her hips wore it, my grandmothers wore them, from both sides of my family, my mom wore them to protect her curls at night in the 90s. This is a hair care product. A HAIR CARE PRODUCT.
My grand mother wore a snood I'm not sure if that's how you spell it while she was working. Then home with curlers and a scarf tied up in the front. Other then that she was out and about with perfect hair. Haha my grand mother would think people were crazy at Walmart in their pj's and their hair not done.
Yep😂.
My grandma had alopecia and wore wigs she would’ve worn a bonnet if she had her hair. I bought one for myself and sleep in it every night to protect my hair. I don’t want rough damaged hair. I honestly didn’t know there was any issues about bonnets and white prime to just now. It doesn’t matter in the long run, people should be able to wear a bonnet if they want to it shouldn’t be based on race. IMHO.
Im 65 mixed American Indian & white...i use to wear a "bonnet" over my big curlers to keep them all in place. I dont wear either anymore these days...but if I wanted to I would. I am a grown woman, I wear what I want.
Thank you so much!! You literally make me feel better about wearing my bonnet.. I need it! My hair is a mess without it! Looooove you so much!! ❤❤
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Don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t wear a bonnet. It protects your hair, and there are very limited “shapes” as she put it that ANYONE can make a head covering out of.
The first thing everyone needs to remember is that we monetized being ridiculous on the internet. Factor in the common human need to get attention, the need to feel like a part of something and a long standing of black people being looked down on. This is what you get. Its a symptom and the cure is to stop paying attention to these people.
It's insane that this attitude is so prominent and I mostly see it from people in the US. Did you know in Britain and many countries that they colonised, the hood of a car is called a bonnet? The reason is because when cars came in to use a bonnet was worn to keep heads warm and protect hair, that's how far back bonnets go in British fashion.
Back further than that.
For a race that fought so hard for desegregation why do so many of those same people work so hard to segregate themselves AND everyone else.
They think fighting fire with would do something
Bcuz bigotry and hatred are started in the household.
Mind-boggling indeed
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!
I didn't know I needed a porcupine's permission to wear things that I buy. Thank you porcupine for telling me I'm not allowed to. I don't think I'm going to listen to a porcupine. People wear whatever you buy. Enjoy whatever you wear. Love yourself and love everybody else!
not the smoke detector beep 😂😂😂 sis fix it 😅😅😅
I was thinking the same thing! 😅
It always frustrates me when I hear it. Like do people not realise that having a working smoke alarm literally saves lives 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Change the dang battery when it beeps, so that one day it has the chance to save your life if needed.
How do they not hear that darn beeping??????? 😂
Welp, I always dreamed of a square bonnet, because squares just seem to fit on heads better....🙄
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But we wear bonnets to cover the weaves that we wear from other cultures 😂OMG this is dumb
I grew up wearing bonnets and shower caps as a white girl in the 80s. These people have so much hate
Why do everyone make everything about race? Y’all don’t see white people saying oh don’t wear that weave or that lace front!!! I’m just saying.
First punk rock mostly white folks in England started face piercings.
Second weaves and wigs were popular for white women to have bee hives or different styles.
Orthodox Jewish women cover their hair.
Sikhs both men and women.
Not all Muslim people are black or Middle Eastern.
My mom was a beautician.
Older women, mostly white, would get a wash and set and a bonnet !
Im mixed, and so was mom.
My dad had thick curly hair and was as white as paint.
Mom made him wear one.
Good grief, who resurrected McArthury?
It's getting ridiculous the things people come up with to fight about.
We have an election.
Far too much debt.
More homeless everyday.
Yet we are talking about who has a right to wear a hair bonnet.
BTW is that your natural hair?
Many ancient African civs had facial piercings and the oldest wigs are from Egypt.
I say that not to diminish your point, because I too think bonnets are for everyone, but I think that those first two lines make the rest of your post look a little disingenuous.
Piercings,Tattoos,wigs, braids/hair extensions/ you name it- are as old as human history and developed in every known ancient culture independently without those folks ever being able to meet- different styles, sure - as they were depending on climate/hair&skin types/available resources etc etc.
It’s HUMAN nature to take care of our (compared to other species somewhat boring and also inconvenient) bodies and to express (tribe,religion,status(…)) through sometimes very weird stuff.
WHY TF can’t we all celebrate how amazingly it shows that we all are humans with the same great (or silly) ideas, no matter what skin colour or hair type we happened to be born with. isn’t that what we need to overcome?? Let’s agree on “humans were using bonnets first” (if ever your pet wants to argue about that)
Think about it as bread.
At one point all over this planet many individuals decided independently to grind a local plant, mix it with water and fire it.
May it be a Chapati,a Tortilla or “fill in your local type of flat bread”. it’s ok if we eat them all, we have to make sure that everyone gets some and I really don’t care who’s ancestors made it first ON PLANET EARTH
@@janad6065 I meant in popularity
The ending of your comment tho, I think this shit everyday. We have REAL racism (like police brutality etc, I live in Louisiana so you can roll the dice on the racism that still lives and breathes here), wars, homelessness, death, drug issues.. all these real issues and people hung up about who can wear what head covering and hairstyle? 😂 her bonnets are amazing, I got a pillow set and an extra bonnet and after one night, my hair is happy, not nappy, and my waves are much better twisting it up with the satin hair tie ❤ for once I’m not pulling my hair out this morning brushing it, I can just finger brush! Changed my life 😂
I’m a 45 year old white woman with fine, pin straight, naturally blonde hair, I have been using ethnic hair care products for 25 years.
It started with wax based pomade for my pixie haircut because I didn’t like how it looked gelled, and texture paste wasn’t a thing in the ‘90s. Then it was leave in conditioner when I started growing it out to keep it healthy so I could go longer between haircuts. Then it was ethnic hair gel for twisting my hair as it grew out so I was still within military regs. It held my hair for a couple of days and made life so much easier. We even had twisting parties in the barracks.
My daughter is white haired always shop in the "ethnic" isle. To keep her hair from breaking. On the weekends you could find her running the neighborhood with the huffy pop bag on her heard lol
As someone with frizzy hair I was always told about satin and it helping. I have never gone that route but use products to smooth out the frizz. I am seriously thinking about getting one so I don't wake up looking like Medusa as my bro always called me in the morning. The nickname stuck. 😅
They have satin pillowcases I love them
I would recommend to use silk instead of satin. Satin is polyester (plastic) so it can cause frizz as it can build static. Silk is a natural fibre and doesn’t build static so reduces frizz.
I use silk pillowcases as they help with my eczema and dry skin (they don’t absorb all the lotion like cotton does)
Thanks for the tip
@@elenalizabethsatin is a type of close fabric weave, not the name of a material. All silk comes in satin but not all satin is made from silk.
@@hotjanuary yes but if you look up “satin bonnet” or “satin pillowcase”, then 99% of those search results will be for cheap polyester satin ones, not silk-satin. But if you look up “silk bonnet” or “silk pillowcase”, then other than a few dodgy businesses, most of those will be real silk (not polyester).
Also silk scrunches and hairbands are great as they don’t seem to leave “dints” in the hair (also they’re comfy to wear).
You want to avoid plastic anything for your hair (hairbrushes, hair ties, pillowcases, bonnets, etc) as they will all cause frizz as plastic attracts energy like that. But natural fibres (wood, goat/boar hair bristles, bamboo, cotton, silk, etc) will help you avoid static and therefore lessen frizz/damage.
Lol, nobody ever told me this, and I wouldn’t give a crap anyhow. Love your mention of Little House on the Prairie! Also in the Christmas story “Mama in her kerchief (bonnet) and I in my cap”written way long ago. I mean like who invented hats? Lol
These young people out here don’t understand or know history anymore.
No one is born knowing history. If you dont know, you dont know. But what are schools doing about it? And curiosity?
@@Plethorality my point is, if you’re going to go on and on about something, know something about it before you speak. They should look up the history before making remarks that can be construed as r**ist.
It's willful ignorance. If it isn't on TikTok, it never happened. History is whatever agenda someone is jamming into a two-minute video because they don't have an attention span.
I love how you are so thoughtful and empathetic towards other's potential health problems, and researched the history into this. Great channel.
Living for the honesty, change the battery in your fire alarm.
I hollered😭 not Little House on The Prairie Days.
Silk is from Asia also.
Those of us who do so to protect our curly hair have listened to Black women who've taught us about textured hair care. Why would anyone care what I wear to bed? They're part of my jammies.
👏🏻😂👏🏻 "get you one. link is in a bio" I love that line because even after you spoke you was like "also I have a business" 😂👏🏻👏🏻 girl, you nice. Keep going! 💜
And folks have worn bonnets for centuries! Kept your head warm when you didn’t have heat.
Plus women's hair styles were complicated. So to make them last, they bound them up and covered them. Modern women have it easy. We just walk out in what ever and shop. Back in the day you had to be put together. My dad got a new car. My mom liked him and asked for a ride. He said no. He didn't want girls with pants on in his car. Next time she asked she had her hair done and was in a dress. He gave her a ride, the rest is history (1962). 2 years later my brother was born. 😂
My white grandmother and great grandmother wore bonnets to bed every damn night because they only got their hair done once a week in roller sets.
When my hair was knee-length, I wore a bonnet to bed otherwise with tossing and turning I would get tangled in my hair. I also wore a bonnet during the day to keep my hair out of cleaning buckets, food prep, etc. It does not matter what color your skin is at all. There are legitimate reasons ANY woman would wear a bonnet.
My grandma I remember as a blue haired older white woman wore a bonnet at night her whole life. Bonnets have been worn by men and women for centuries. People just get caught up in their own little cultural worlds not knowing others. That happens. 😊 they also wore rain and shower caps lol.
Why is gotta be an issue tho?? We’re all women and we wanna look good. 😊 ❤ more love between ladies ❤❤
I love how I found this community filled with love, compassion, and an eagerness to teach others and share their cultures.
I’ve only seen it in the US so far this level of self segregation.
I hope the world can more forward with this level of love.
As a lightskinned latina with curly hair, i have been bullied and even threatened for wearing bonnets and weating things like box braids, dispite my hair type. These people need to get a grip
If we wear scarves or some other "head coverings" then the Muslims will come after us saying we are appropriating their culture too lol
Whenever I put on my bonnet at night, my husband says that I look like Laura Ingells from Little House on the Prairie. 😂😂
🤗 everyone who doesn't have to pull my hair off everything thanks you
I am over 60 years old, and if I want to wear a bonnet, I will!
I love ❤️ her response!! Thank you for thinking of ALL the people and understanding that there are medical reasons.
Yup. I have lupus and my thinning, curly hair falls out and breaks and looks like shit. If I wear a bonnet to bed, everything is SO much easier! Less breakage, and less frizz. I have the satin bonnets that tie around the nape of the neck, and they stay on so well. I love them!
0:27 girl, the bonnet is theirs. It's french even the word is French origin 😅😂😂
My grandmother was from Mexico, and I spent many nights with her, and part of her nightly ritual was putting her hair in a bonnet. To me, it was a grown-up thing.
I have type 3b hair, I need a bonnet or a silk pillowcase or I look like I was electrocuted lol.
Dude, for the first time since 1995 I decided to grow my hair out, and it did not go well y'all. Maybe it was all those years of way too much bleach and punky color, or maybe it was just something in my genes, but my hair was breaking off constantly. Just sleeping on a cotton pillowcase would have my hair breaking off in chunks. I just want the long dark hair of my Indigenous ancestors instead of the bright blue spiked mohawk of my punk rock days, but my hair fought back hard. The only thing that has allowed me to have the silky dark locks below my shoulders is keeping my hair protected. This satin bonnet (a super cheap one from the local store) has allowed me to start my hair journey. I think I gotta buy a better one to finish it. And yeah, I will definitely wear it out for a quick trip to the store or whatever. I just want to have the traditional hair of my ancestors, and this bonnet is the only thing that will help me get there. Some people want to hate on me for it, fine. I just want to grow my hair.
Thank you for doing this work❤ ultimately it brings us together.
As a Native American I enjoy sharing my culture with others and learning about theirs in return. Stop trying so hard to horde things and share.
My question is is why does it even matter at all?
I am sorry but the this is only for people of such and such color or for white or black or red people or whatever discussions are starting to be really annoying. If a person (man or woman) want's to do something good for their hair and they find that something someone else came up with is nice and helps and makes their life a lot easier... why do people hate on that? I seriously do not understand why haircare is a point of fighting these days. I mean the Geisha literally sleep on a wooden pillar pillow thingy to protect their crazy exhausting to make hairstyle for multiple days and keep it in form and if someone else wants to do that so let them do it.
Same with bonnets, hair caps, shampoos and what not. Let people just wear what helps them and gives them a better feeling about something that is obviously important to them to do.
Also really love the look of your bonnets Itsmecc. They look super comfy and stylish.
I just got a bonnet (and I’m white) and it’s wonderful!! I bought it specifically from a small black-owned brand, and they were so cute
Head and hair coverings go back thousands of years. Sometimes it was for fashion, but mostly for hair protection, care and modesty. Many cultural and religious practices advocate head coverings. As women... not what color or anything else you may be, but as women, we should be supporting one another and not dividing ourselves. Be beautiful my beautiful friends!
Silk bonnets saved my huge, white curly hair. My mom never learned how to care for her hair, so I had to educate myself. I wish I could give a bonnet to my teenage self! She needed it so bad!
People dont have the right to decide what others can wear . Excluding someone based on skin colour is racist .
I'm 74 years old. I wore bonnets when I was a kid.
I had a white grandma and a Black grandma and have a photo of them on vacation, sitting outside before they went to sleep, both wearing identical style bonnets. The only difference were the patterns. It’s that easy. Sorry but not sorry, I can’t gatekeep hair
Head and hair coverings exist in almost all cultures wear bonnets for a reason. I wear bonnets from the Victorian era. They are very useful for gardening. 1:22 THANK YOU this is super cool to hear. Also veils/bonnets all hair coverings are so beautiful.
"The only people telling you it's okay to wear a bonnet is the people who make and sell bonnets." + "The majority are telling you not to wear bonnets." So what, does she just not want bonnet businesses to succeed? that's what I'm picking up from this 😂. To succeed in business, you cannot tell specific people that it's not for them. Imagine selling cookies or something and then someone asks for one box, and then someone tells that customer the cookies aren't for them. Aside from normal rudeness, it is also disrespectful to the one selling cookies.
I really don't want to offend anyone here, but it might make sense to first look into the history of the bonnet before posting something on TikTok or wherever you like.
100 years ago it was completely normal for every woman, whether white, colored or with colorful spots, to wear a night cap to bed so that her hair didn't get messed up or the hairstyle was ruined. Most of the time these night caps were in the shape of a bonnet. The word bonnet comes from French and means lid. Lid because a round piece of fabric was used, which was adjusted to the correct fit with a band. I won't be so mean as to ask who appropriated what historically.
But no matter how you look at it, historical or current, a bonnet has to do with hair care. It is not a part with which one can or should have a "race discussion".
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Thank you for educating people. You are awesome.
I just ordered a cute hair protector. 💚 Thanks, babe! 🌻
Ohhhhh my goodness thanks so much for saying this... I've been saying this for years ❤❤
Thank you for setting the record straight. ❤
She said this with a face full of piercings popularized in the pass thirty years by white people in the U.S.
Totally agree is for every women thank u for explaining that
Is she appropriating culture from tribes in the Amazon basin that pierce their faces like that? Seriously....in the 1700's white women wore bonnets.....their hair was packed with tallow (animal fat) and powder...bonnets kept all that together...its not appropriation, unless everything is...culture is meant to be shared.
🤦🏽♀️ Thank you, miss. We get ridiculous sometimes.
Those piercings are cultural appropriation 😂😂😂
And some of us grew up in families that have always wore them. Ridiculous ‼️
Shes lost & loving itt 😂
She waited her whole life to use that word
Shorty ain’t even got no hair talking about someone else not wearing a bonnet 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She needs to remove that rejecting bridge piercing before she comes after anyone 😭
Betsy Ross wore a bonnet
Really? Magnet girl is being racist over a bonnet?
Can you please recommend a good leave in deep conditioner? Dry broken hair. B2 or C2 waves. ! Ty god bless ❤
I'm white, but get my hair care advice from black women. Anything with Shea butter is really good for dry broken hair. Also try Argan oil. They can both be left in.
@@valkyriehutton4556 Thank you! I need all the help i can get, it’s my daughters hair and it’s very different from mine, I’m lost on caring for her hair.
You guys do know that bonnet is a French word, right? As in France in Europe? Where white people live since prehistoric times? We're happy you love our fashion, and are happy to share. Peace with everyone! ❤
White woman wore bonnets before black people. Fact. People need to open a history book. Not like it matters because everyone can wear them!
Thank you!!!
Girl, what shape is my bonnet supposed to be? Is a triangle better? I don't want to appropriate anyone's culture, but also European women have been wearing bonnets since... a long time. Women used to wear them regularly throughout history to protect their hair when bathing was less common, and kept hair styled in curls or braids for a long time. They helped protect us from lice. They were used for modesty in some cultures (Puritan, the Amish still use them). Also, does no one remember old 50s grannies in the robes and the bonnet caps with curlers underneath? I will never, ever deny that bonnets are part of black culture... but they are part of European history too. I think there was a brief period in the 60s-90s where some people abandoned the practice, but the tradition of various European women using bonnets is a very old one. It's hair protection. Anyone who wants to protect their hair should be allowed and encouraged to use one.
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander!! AMEN!!
I just tried to order a bonnet and Etsy said NO….. they banned my account for some reason….. IDKW!!!! Bonnets protect everyone’s hair, and I have thick wavy hair. I am so mad at Etsy!!
Omg yes thank you girl. 100%
change the battery in your alarm😂
Yes - i love this!
I think one of her piercings went straight through her brain.
😂😂 Triggered by a bonnet that's been around since 1800
These people really just want to claim things that their race didn't invent. Hairstyles too,
"braids is a black thing"
no it's not. For example, Vikings (both male and female) had their hair in braids. And they aren't black. And braids was a very popular hairstyle for Europeans and many other cultures back then and still now.
That’s like saying facial piercings are for white goth people only. Except…obviously not.
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