We FINALLY Hired Help!
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- This is an Official Cole & Charisma Video Of: We FINALLY Hired Help!
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Let’s show some kindness, here. 💙
Enough said!!
#TeamColeandCharisma❤ All on one accord
His wife forever yes or no but good him handsome
If ppl don’t have anything nice to say skip the video!!!
Welcome 🙏
If they don't get help...ppl have something to say. If they do get help...ppl have something to say. Go figure! Smh. Their family is not nearby, so of course they'd need to hire an assistant. Stop the judgment. They're adults and they'll learn from their choices [ good or bad ]. Welcome Zane!🎉 Charisma breathe! You two have worked hard and deserve the help. Congrats!
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@brookeezlosingit5836 THAT PART
@@coleandcharismai love y'all you too are the nicest and sweetest people ever don't listen to negativity Zane is going to do great I love it!!!!
There should be boundaries
That's humans for you always complaining about Everything 😊 let's ignore them. We're happy for this family. That's all that matters ❤
My boyfriend has epilepsy and has multiple seizures and I work two jobs and I didn’t realize I was drowning working, keeping the house in order, dr visits and driving my boyfriend everywhere because he can’t drive with his condition. I hired a personal assistant that is with him while I’m at work, she goes to Dr. Visits with him and takes notes for me, takes him grocery shopping, helps him around the house and helps him manage the home economy so I can focus and really spend time at work, with my clients! She has been a godsend and become a real member of the family!
That entering Zane throught dog entrance was hilarious. It shows that she is smart girl and will find solution to anything. You guys lucky to have her.
Nah. That is dog style. Will do anything for anything. Will get what she wants. No boundaries. Charisma will regret this. Cole seems to be loving the attention. Is this something else. Oh Lord 👀
Welcome Zane!! She seems so down to earth, and sweet!!😊
Gosh she’s so great! - Charisma
Bringing in support and talent is the only way to grow your business. Good for you for taking the leap. I wish I had done that sooner in my business. Kudos and keep going!
Congratulations…..This is a timely, wise and well needed decision…..It can only get better for all concerned, even the fur babies…..Continued Blessings!!
Thank you Cole and Charisma for sharing. It is awesome that you employed someone to assist you all where necessary ❤️🙏🏽
I’m so happy for you guys. You’re very humble people so I can see why it took time getting help. I think having her there will you to find that good work life balance.
I love how you guys work together and respect one another. Many could learn alot from this video. You Don't have to be mean or micromanage to get the job done. Communication is key!
(In my grandmama voice) Chilld one thing I have come to know..even more recently through recent experiences in my life,is that you can’t live to people please or “not disappoint.” If you know that you know you have done the right thing for what you all need right now, then you stand on that conviction..period. It takes real maturity and a humble spirit to reach out when help is needed, when something is too much, we know what we need and don’t do it, etc.
Prayers and blessings and new beginnings for you Cole and Charisma and hey girl hey to your assistant!😊
Hi from Australia, it good to hear you have hired help, this is so important for your relationship and self care..I have been retired for 4 and a half years and I worked night shift as a nurse. I had a lady come in a clean my home and do things that I couldn't get done, I could actually get 8 to 9 hours sleep a day, so at night I could function to my best ability in a highly successful job, very sick people who are in pain or suffering don't actually sleep at night. I felt it was my responsibility to make them comfortable and took a great deal of pride and compassion in doing so..Thank the lord for my helper.
I LOVE that y'all got help! Great decision! I imagine the very long list of what you do, didn't seem like too much when things were piling on one by one and then one day you realized it was way too much. You must feel tremendous to have help now! And time!
You guys are THE ONLY ONES LIVING YOUR LIFE. You have to do what’s best! Proud of y’all for sharing your journey !!
I love the vibrant attitude of your Personal Assistant. May she always be a Blessing to both of you.❤
Congrats on expanding your team! I’m excited for the opportunities y’all can pursue with the additional help!
So happy for y’all finding someone to help you with your busy schedule. It can be a daunting task to trust a person and bring them into your lives and home. Welcome Zane and Marvel! Hugs from Texas🤠
Great to have additional help!!!💕❤️
How great for the three of you! It seems like a win-win-win situation. I was a personal assistant for a busy family many years ago, & it was an awesome job. It seems like Zane really enjoys & take pride in what she does. She’s also a natural on camera! I am super happy for you! Take care & stay well! ❤
OMG yess im so excited for you guys. Especially Charisma, girl you have so much on your plate and you do it with so much grace. Im excited to see what you get yourself in to with all this help now, cause I notice ya'll dont just stay still. Thaks again for sharing your lifes with us, I love it
Delegation is a true key to success - congrats on realizing that you needed help and doing something awesome about it! 👏🏾 Welcome Zayne, sorry for the baptism by fire, I don't know why people think this is a reality tv show, when it's a YT channel 🤦🏾♀️
Just remember PEOPLE are human too,they'll be over protective and go into grief stages until they get used to the NEW NORMAL.
What a relief, to have great help. And she’s lively 🥳. ❤
I am so happy that they have some help. They have needed some help for a long time . Given the situation, any help they can get would be beneficial.
Love to see you got help and were able to recognize when you needed it, you two are inspirational, zane you seem like an amazing person who is on the same wavelength as Cole & Charisma,
and to all the people in the comments who are doubting, how dare you not trust cole or zane, and bringing that kind of energy here is not what is needed
Congratulations on this great decision and addition to your work team! Having Zane to help out will cut down on stress and make room for growth in other very important ways, physically, mentally, spiritually, creatively! Best wishes for all to come!
So she is a personal assistant and she does a lot of work for them. They hired her for all of this so wtf is wrong with the people in these comments assuming cole is going to cheat and that this woman is here to destroy everything? People should really get a life.
Both beautiful
Agreed 👍. Let's be positive. Zane has been their friend for a awhile. Now, she works with them. Cole knows he has a strong and beautiful wife. She is ambitious, confident, independent, kind, nurturing, compassionate, adventurous and empathetic. He would not risk losing this diamond of his.
I think it's because she is young and attractive. 🤭🤭That's a harsh reality many women go through at their work places. Being seen as if they slept their way to the job or will sleep to keep it. Sad 😢
Chole is gonna hit that..that is if he's capable of hitting
@ericcartman9042 I agree it was an awful idea to hire a girl assistant who already is pretty cute. They were better off getting a male assistant. I've seen so many relationships end off of messy "messy assistants"
It's amazing how things just fall into place, so happy for all 3 of ya'll. Welcome to the family Zane!
Y’all do so much! Having help makes so much sense to alive a lot of stress. Welcome Zane! Happy to have you apart of the team!
Her personality seems like she fits right in. Glad you got help and are happy!😄
Welcome and thanks for all the help you've already provided.
Love your enthusiasm Zane!! So awesome for you to be a personal assistant to this amazing couple!! Yay!👏🏻
It seems like allowing yourselves to accept help was a big decision. I'm so happy that you found such a fantastic PA that made you feel comfortable accepting help! I really hope all the rediculous negativity doesn't impact what is clearly a great arrangement for all of you! ❤️✨
How exciting for y’all to have this enthusiastic new assistant! Welcome, Zane!
“ Nothing happens before the time” I am happy for you guys. Welcome to the theme Zayne. Blessings
Good for you for getting help. If you have nothing nice to say then say nothing. Sending positive energy to you all. ☝🏽 ❤
Congratulations y’all! May you continue to be blessed and successful!
I'm glad you both found someone that understands you and can improve your lives. I love the introduction.
I'm so happy for y'all! Zane seems wonderful and her energy matches you both. I am praying this provides you with what you both need.
Yaaayyy you 2 for hiring a helping hand. It seems as though Zane is friendly and easy to get along with. Way to go you guys!
I'm happy you guys are getting help. More time to just love on each other.
This is a great move. Welcome and best wishes to you all! From Mexico by way of Brandermill
Yes! Its healthy to get help ❤️ I love that your dogs are friends.
Welcome to the team, Zane!! You three seem to have great chemistry. Bonus points for Sophie getting a new furry friend.
That was great, 🤩realized after that I had the widest smile on my face the entire time, welcome and all the best, wonderful addition to the team 👍
You go guys, you’re doing your things your way, and I for one is soo proud of you and all your accomplishments. So, good luck with everything. ❤
Welcome Zane ! I’m shocked at some of these negative comments.
Great news! I don't think people realize that you 2 have a ton going on besides CZcams. Y'all are so likeable and genuine. I'm happy for you. I can relate to Cole as I suffered a sci in 2018 and was paralyzed for 6 mos. Luckily I made a miraculous recovery and was able to walk. Bless you both and Zane and the pups
Not to be a jerk but what do they have going on besides CZcams and Cole’s amateur acting career? They make it sound his care is easy but then like they have so much to do than any normal person does in a day
@sinjon Well for not being a jerk you kinda are
We homeschooled our children and had multiple rentals and full time jobs and never requested any help. We did it all. And not all well! Help just never seemed to be an option. Looking back it would have lifted many burdens! I pray this works well for Charisma and Cole and if it doesn’t they’ll keep searching!❤️
I’m admire your transparency.
This is more than a shared story. It is a ministry.
God bless you.
I love that you have a personal assistant I'm sure she will be a big help for you guys, Welcome to the Family!! Godbless
Glad you all got some help❤ Blessings to y’all 😊
Congratulations! You deserve a break. Hope this collaboration works better than you could possibly expect. 🌺🌺🌺
I am absolutely love y’all! Welcome the new team member. I am so happy for y’all!
Congratulations on getting help! I’d love to see a video of her helping you ❤
I almost never comment, but I'm a silent supporter. Cole and Charisma, I really admire you both, and wish you the very best. I think all three of you have emotional intelligence, and if only two out of three of you combine that with iron clad integrity, then you have nothing to worry about, as nothing inappropriate could happen. That being said, I have never, and would never, approach a married man to ask for his help. It's always been my practice, as a single woman, to communicate with such a man through his wife, and to never open or maintain any lines of communication with him that would bypass or circumvent her. I do that as a sign of respect for the wife, and to her relationship with her husband. If I were the wife in such a scenario, I would want a single woman to observe the same boundary. That being said, I'm glad that you both have help, and that it's working it out so far.
I agree 💯 %. It's something...just can't put my finger on it.🤔
I totally agree. I didn't want to come on here being negative, stating the fact that Zane seemed to have a bit more conversation with Cole than was appropriate or comfortable (to me). You have posted my same own sentiments perfectly.
I don't personally like this set-up, but it's because I just find it odd that a person that was at an acting gig needed to gain employment from a quadriplegic. Does she have any caretaking or quadriplegic experience?
I truly wish Cole and Charisma the best and I hope that Zane stays respectable. 🙏🏽
Agree with everyone. Don’t contact my husband.
She targeted them or him.
The story of the dog door is creepy .. watch out that you’re not robbed.
Thanks for sharing guys. Zane is a wonderful addition to the team.
Wishing you all the very best for your endeavor and the future.
Blessings 🙏🏽💞💞🙏🏽
The growth is real here! Congrats to all! Love seeing you all getting "stuff" done. Welcome Zane!
Yes! Happy for you guys to have a little help! And from a friend too. She seems very sweet! She crawled through that doggy door like a pro lol XD
The doggy door is unsafe. Watching how easy she crawled through it gave me chills. Not a good idea.
@@jennyg2243HOW ELSE WAS SHE GONNA GET IN WHEN SHE DIDN'T HAVE HER PHONE ON HER N/OR A HOUSE KEY?
It’s a great idea to have a doggy door for our pups lol. Our doggy door has a metal door that shuts it out from the public when Sophie isn’t using it. It literally impossible to break into. People really must think we’re so naive 😅
A burgler could climb through that doggy door if Zane could crawl through it. I think that's what people are concerned about. Just stay safe guys, thats all.
Yikes to all the comments assuming Cole is going to cheat because she’s young and beautiful. My family assumed the same when we hired a 26 year Mexican Au pair to help with our kiddos. So insane. I made it very clear to keep these insecure comments to themselves.
She’s been here for months now and it’s wonderful. I feel so much more supported now which has strengthened our marriage tremendously. If someone’s gonna cheat, they’ll find a way. I won’t deny myself support because of someone else’s insecurities.
How sad is the life of people who think that every interaction with the opposite gender might lead to cheating.
My first thought was the same though, but ik that’s because of my trauma and insecurities. I think they have a great relationship (from what we see) and i’m sure they made the best decision for themselves we really shouldn’t just assume and think the worst.
But Carisma is super beautiful inside and out and also young. so all good! People are so negative!
@@elinakeranen4499That is their insecurities, and sometimes they want that to happen, They are happily married and I rebuke anyone planting that negativity.
Oh my goodness Cole love charisma very much their marriage is sealed by God and besides Charisma don't play that she is a very strong woman
Happy you guys have help. I do as well my SN son goes to The Day Center now, he appears to really be enjoying himself, I am glad. Gives me a break and makes me feel at ease, finally. I still want to move to LA county though.
That's so great!!!! Life is going to be a little easier and you will be less rushed and will get to enjoy each other more, with less to do.
I'm just really happy for you guys that you got the help you needed! 🥰💜 There's absolutely nothing wrong with lightening the daily load to make your lives more comfortable. Having Zane to help will allow Charisma and Cole to both not work as hard, which they wholeheartedly deserve. As long as this situation works out for the 3 of them, we as supporters should all be happy for them 😊💕 Love you guys!
Cole, your faith and courage got you to start believing again that love "was out there" and glad you found it because you ceased focusing on what or how you looed in the past to live accepting the present and every. After all you've been through, to show us the beauty of your soul with your BEAUTIFUL soulmate and I mean Charisma internal AND external beauty. Your love story inspires me and should serve a model around the world because we are spiritual. individuals and appearance is dust, you're showing us love within and that what matters.
What a relief for you guys to have some additional help! It takes strength to acknowledge when you need assistance and can't manage it all on your own. It's a heavy burden to bear in general. You three seem to vibe very well and that's what matters most. You all have trusted your intuition and it won't steer you wrong. As a sidenote, damn, so many people in the comments projecting their own insecurities on you guys. I'm sorry to see it. I hope Zayn doesn't have to wade through all these as part of her job duties, because yikes, what a headache for her (unfortunately I imagine you guys are used to it by now). Thanks for sharing more of your team with us all as it's interesting to see "behind the scenes" a bit and know all the cogs required to keep the Cole and Charisma machine running smoothly!
Yay we could all use some help so happy you got someone great. Much needed help!
Charisma I know you’re such a strong independent lady an to finallllllly let someone help y’all is awesome because you deserve to have your load lighten to an be able to spend more time on the other side of the camera :) I’m so happy for y’all an I know she is blessed to have met yall ! Much love from Mooreville Mississippi ❤
Praying this works for you all. 🙏🏾 90 day probationary period is always the way to go. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Your a doll Zane. Glad you all can work together. The doggie door was priceless. God Bless you all.
Congrats on the extra help and welcome Zane!!! Love the improve entry when the door was locked. Lol!
Im so excited for the opportunities this is going to open up for y’all! So exciting to have someone help you get some life energy back :-))
The comments aren’t negative i had to listen to the video to understand. The comments are people concerned because some situations like this can go left. But I believe if charisma is not feeling something trust me she will get it in check I don’t think the girl is gullible she’s giving it the benefit of doubt.
Charisma is naive though, she did the same thing with that Brazilian woman years ago; when the Brazilian woman was sitting on the couch with Cole, and Charisma was in the kitchen cooking dinner.
@@iLovePaulWesley1864Ouue what happened?? 😮
I was afraid to look at the comments because I knew this craziness was coming and boy y’all didn’t disappoint! Folks attacking others opinions was just insane! Y’all watching too much dramatic unreal TV! I’m sure Cole and Charisma have discussed all they needed to before hiring Zane! They aren’t naive as yall think! They’ve had to deal with many forms of discrimination and are probably experts at reading folks and situations! These comments felt like a mini reality drama 😂😅! SMH! Cole and Charisma be well and enjoy the help! Y’all deserve it!! 🙏🏽💕
They are silly comments. Coke says they’ve used discernment in the past and have learned from experiences just like the rest of us.
She isn’t naive. She just doesn’t live in fear like most of you.
So happy for y’all! Can’t wait to see this new journey 🩷🎉
That's awesome you're getting help! Charisma, you've done a fabulous job but I feel like this is a welcome change for both of you! Welcome Zane!
Hi Zane! Welcome to the fam🥰 You seem fun & funny, cute❤️ Hi Charisma, hi Cole, soO happy in your decision to get the support n help you needed❤️ Nothing like genuine n like minded ppl working together❤️ Much love n hugssss to you both😘
Welcome Zane❤
Charisma there’s nothing wrong with having extra help and so glad you were open to it. So glad for you and Cole❤
Yay you guys!! I've got nothin' but love for ya ❤ Congratulations to you all on this positive transition! Welcome to the C&C crew, Zane! I'm thrilled that you're there to assist them & that you bring so much knowledge & skill that meets their needs. I also love that Sophie & Marvel are pals 🤗
All the Negative Ned's & Debbie Downers need to step off & get back in their own lane. They're just petty, sad lil souls who are trying to deflect their own insecurities onto you. 🙄😒 It should go without saying, your love & faith in one another always prevails. Just keep doing you, you got this!
Oh, Charisma, your new tops are so pretty!❤️🔥 & Cole, I like your t-shirt; pink is a great color on you 🩷👍🏽😊
She seems like a beautiful person, you guys really needed help .
So happy to see you join these two amazing people Zane!!!!
I love the camaraderie, maturity and loveliness that you all share. Blessing in all ya'll do! I love who you are Charisma and Cole! I also love (Zane's Zayne's) humility and vulnerability to say she needed work and the faith with action to ask. And also humility on you and Cole's part Charisma to receive help and support! Sidenote: Sometimes people are introverts, feel awkward about people assessing them because they are new and just in general we all want to be liked. Zane also said she was nervous/anxious, etc. in her acting class that she didn't really want to take, so we all have to grow in who we are and allow others to do the same.
I'm so very proud of the two of you for being so classy about the topic at hand lol As I was not on the other hand!! Personal insecurities are what's wrong with others... I've been with my hubs for almost 20 years....guys my best friend of 30 years is a male and that's where it stands My brother PERIOD!! 💛
You guys are Amazing!!! Congratulations on getting help!! Welcome aboard Zane!! God bless you guys!🙏🏽🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Welcome to the team, Zane! I hope the future has many pleasant surprises in store for you. You have an authentic and lovely personality, and seem to be a great match for Cole and Charisma. All the best!😊
Zane, your a breath of fresh air for them, you all look like you work well together. I look forward to watching you work together as well. 🌺
Glad you’ve got help now it’s great to see ❤️🇬🇧
Welcome Zane...cant wait to hear more about the exciting this you have to share...like your work Charisma when you are ready!!! Congratulations 🎉
Lmao the way she rolled through the doggy door 😂 roll with Marvel 🐾
So excited for the team. Welcome Zane.
I'm so happy for this! Wishing you guys nothing but the best! ❤
I’m really happy for y’all! Change is the only constant! Great to see the adaptation! ❤Best Wishes!
I'm a special needs mom and I would do anything to have a personal assistance just to do the small things for me Ive been doing this for 30 yrs alone my God I'm so tired!!!!😪
You are doing an amazing job, even though you feel unnoticed and I’m sure alone more often than not.
I wonder if there are small ways/spurts you could get some respite? Programs in your city, care groups, a family or friend member go small windows?
I know maybe it’s not a full assistant like this, but something that gives you sone support. You and your kiddo (young or old kiddo) deserve it! When mama is at her best, she can also give of her best😉❤️ Praying that the right resources open up as you explore.
@@fatimag.9985SAME
From one Mama to another- I'm proud of you! I agree with @fatimag.9985's words of encouragement for finding some "YOU" time, even if it's just an hour or two once in a while (maybe once a week or so?) Caregivers need time for self-care; you deserve it & you're worth it! I do hope you reach out & find some respite 🫂 I wish you & your family all the best 🙏🏽💪🏾🫶🏾
I’m caregiver for my husband. It’s hard and getting harder. We had home health aide’s last year when I had surgery. Sometimes they wouldn’t show up and I ended up having to resume helping my husband and firing the home health people. I’m pretty sure that’s why my leg never really healed.
@@TheBiggirl1957❤❤
Congrats on the extra help!
God bless!
Thank you!!
so happy for you guys!! you deserve a break and to be happy, charisma and cole! welcome zane!!
I'm so happy for you guys that you have hired an assistant. Good luck to you.
These people thinking so poorly of Cole, saying he will cheat. They need to get a life. Clearly they have nothing better to do. Glad you guys are getting help!!
He will
@@safinahkyala9291you must think everyone is condemned to be like your dad
Why people think cole would cheat ? Why people don’t ask themselves a question if this attractive ginger woman would be even interested in paralyzed man ?! Are you insane guys ? This is young and very attractive woman and I bet she can have all man and healthy she wants.
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@@YesIlikebananasSobut why the low blow? That wasn’t necessary 😮even if her mindset thinks that what does your comment say about you? You guys are so brave on this internet
Welcome Zane 🎉👋🏽! Your personality and exterior are beautiful and joyous 😊!! I’m glad your helping out Cole & Charisma and that it is a mutual benefit. Can’t wait to hear more stories with you al!
It’s great ! You guys are so blessed to have help and Zane is so lovely! 🥰❤️ I need a PA too! Lol!
Im glad you guys are working things out you deserve the help
Do not have that woman around your man!! Are you freaking crazy...?! Old heads taught us this..
That was Aretha Franklin.... don't have nobody around me and my man😅😅😅
This was so neat to watch and hear! Welcome Zane.
I am so happy to hear that you guys finally got some help. There’s no reason to have been so stressed out with all the stuff that you have to deal with with jobs and personal and all that good stuff so good job. Welcome to the team Zane.