20: Being a People Pleaser

Today we are going to be talking about a very common tendency that a lot of people have. For me I have had this since I was young, and that is being a people pleaser. I looked up the definition of people pleasing and according to google, a people pleaser is someone who feels a strong urge to please others, even at their own expense. Don’t get me wrong, I think putting others before yourself is an amazing thing. But people pleasing takes that to a whole other scale that can constantly negatively affect someone. Today we are going to talk about what causes people pleasing, what are some negative effects of people pleasing, and I will be giving advice to others that may be struggling with people pleasing.

[@Prince_Yonte]

Yea this took a good minute for me to take control of. Confrontation is uncomfortable and disagreement but it really is the natural filter for like people becoming closer. Because yea we are a people pleasers but were not dumbies lol. I watch Heidi Phoebe and she says to save and protect your energy, so that we can use it towards people that acutually deserve it.

[@nigel_bgm]

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