How to be an anti people pleaser | Kate Riggers | TEDxMontanaStateUniversity

Kate walks us through how to set boundaries and conceptualizes different types of people-pleasers. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@teodoravasilichi]

"Take the time to make sure that you're happy, because you can't fill up other people's cups if yours isn't full as well." Thank you for this talk!
I personally believe that a good and non-egoistic way of making yourself happy is by finding and feeding your constructive passions. Mine, for instance, is singing. And I've realized that also other people feel good and touched when I share music with them. Thus, your happiness can naturally make also other people happy and even inspire them to find their own passion.

[@jeffreyboyd6402]

This describes me perfectly because thinking back on my life every major life decision I’ve made in the last 25 years I’ve been talked into

[@mariannehappiness2227]

Wow start a new beginning,now

[@ziyadalawad]

Me too

[@maggiekerr6254]

This is incredible! So well spoken and broken down. One of my favorite talks of the event.

[@pl9879]

I loved this very much, one of the best videos for people pleasers that no longer want to be people pleasers :)

[@tejirioru]

I am the mirror and conflict avoider. Working on changing that

[@mollypinto4666]

I found you doing this research love😊Thank you 💓

[@deannal.newton9772]

I was kind of forced to become an over apologizer because in the 4th Grade my classmates and the teacher were mad at me because they think I did something on purpose when it wasn't. So if I did sometihng wrong, I would say sorry immediately so that no one would have to hate me forever.

[@akhileshk1584]

Thank you

[@icysurfer1]

Great vid.

[@humphreychama1734]

"Do the same thing for yourself that you would do for those people who you try to make happy"

[@karismaregmi7311]

I realised i was a people pleaser when i was 23

[@AbdullahKhan-mn3kg]

Did u fix it

[@justinaez4029]

ở nhà coi cũng vui

[@terencehennegan1439]

Go to 9:23 to be a none people pleaser.

[@jazreelangulo3796]

Giọng hát của ah Đức phúc hát đúng tâm trạng hay quá

[@justinaez4029]

Chúc VkCk thầy Mạnh khoẻ hp, để tiếp raa video nhaa thầy :v