Narcissistic Mom Abandoned Siblings at My Doorstep and Went to Enjoy Herself, Now Blaming Me for ...

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  • čas přidán 17. 04. 2024
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  • @zacharylewis2802
    @zacharylewis2802 Před měsícem +215

    To think that all of this could’ve been avoided over $30 and a fucking pizza for the kids.

    • @M.W.2
      @M.W.2 Před měsícem +19

      Yes but then you'll cave in to your son's reasonable demands. Someone younger than you ordering you around and not following your orders without thinking. Can you fathom what kind of humiliation and loss of control it would have been for them?

    • @cynthiabosman1134
      @cynthiabosman1134 Před měsícem +8

      😂😂The horror the horror ​@@M.W.2

    • @LMCorvinus
      @LMCorvinus Před měsícem +3

      it's almost always something stupidly simple that would entirely avoid these issues, and I think that's why this shit with people in my own life makes me so angry. because I'm literally asking for below bare minimum from some people, asking for next to nothing, and not only can they not be bothered, there is always piles of drama being caused over the simplest and dumbest things that don't even need to be an issue. I do not have the energy for interactions with other human beings anymore, it's too exhausting

    • @honeylovesbee1223
      @honeylovesbee1223 Před měsícem

      ​@cynthiabosman1134 😭😭😭 oh the hoorrroorr!!😫😫😫

    • @NJ-kp3wu
      @NJ-kp3wu Před 19 dny

      Yeah but then there would be no steel boot vasectomy and porch abortion which were very needed.

  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff Před měsícem +237

    My man literally noped out the back window. I love it. 😂

    • @cdid8
      @cdid8 Před měsícem +14

      IKR 😂
      OP was like 🏃 💨 ✌️ 🪟

    • @HomeMain
      @HomeMain Před měsícem +6

      I laughed like a hyena at that

    • @danatos24
      @danatos24 Před měsícem +2

      I lolled while working😂

    • @emzbemz
      @emzbemz Před 4 dny

      It’s brilliant lol xxxxxx

  • @kinosaga21
    @kinosaga21 Před měsícem +238

    Those parents don't want another son, They want free labor

  • @strongbackground7802
    @strongbackground7802 Před měsícem +164

    I love how the siblings also hate their parents and want to leave as soon as possible imagine the moment when the parents realize they pushed away all their kids and are alone

    • @LMCorvinus
      @LMCorvinus Před měsícem +5

      you can always tell, at that exact moment, who just really messed up and who really just never cared. any parent that cares and just made serious mistakes will then do ANYTHING in their power to fix that issue and get back in their kids lives. the ones that never cared will stay gone, playing the victim

    • @BrightElk
      @BrightElk Před 22 dny +1

      @@LMCorvinusSo so very true.

  • @Madison-fl4lq
    @Madison-fl4lq Před měsícem +138

    Those parents should stop having children

    • @LMCorvinus
      @LMCorvinus Před měsícem +3

      i wanted 3 children, pictured it that way since I was a very young girl. wasn't sure if I would have them naturally or adopt (I'm adopted myself), and my dreams always varied on how many boys and how many girls. not that it matters, but I usually pictured 2 girls and a boy. after multiple miscarriages, i had a daughter first, then a son. once my son was a year old, he regressed, making it clear we were on our way to an autism diagnosis. at 5 he is still completely nonverbal and has been diagnosed level 3 autistic with a significant developmental delay. he's the size of a 3 year old, and is at a similar age mentally. I do not know if he will ever be capable of caring for himself without significant help. I will never have a 3rd kid, because the 2 that I have now need me to be healthy and on point physically at all times. caring for her brother is not something that should fall on my daughter, unless she chooses to do it on her own. asking a child to give up their life to care for another that is not their own kid is unacceptable, I did not want 3 kids because I expected them to raise each other, I wanted them so I could watch the miracle that is a new human being coming into the world and choosing who they're going to become. getting to be part of that is a blessing, and if I tried to have a third or adopt another kid it would absolutely take time, energy and attention away from my other kids that they need to succeed in life. so that dream of 3 kids is now 2 kids and a whole bunch of pets that we all care for together, and it's wonderful. I couldn't imagine taking my kids for granted like this family did. maybe because I lost babies at the beginning of my journey, I appreciated what I had more than they did. but these seem like awful people that had no business having that many children

    • @skylinefever
      @skylinefever Před 24 dny +1

      I wonder how many parents only had children because they were told to have children. They never actually wanted any children, and it shows.

  • @hemanggupta3632
    @hemanggupta3632 Před měsícem +109

    Dad should have been scared to threaten OP before trying again

    • @m.c.9419
      @m.c.9419 Před měsícem +19

      Nobody said he was a smart man.

  • @dandymaiden
    @dandymaiden Před měsícem +50

    Years later these two will either be dead from all the petty anger or left abandoned in a retirement home still wondering why their kids never visit

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 Před měsícem +7

      optimist ? retirement home, who will pay, lazy parents probably have no savings or enough pension ...

    • @dandymaiden
      @dandymaiden Před měsícem +2

      @@jyvben1520 shiiiiii ur right

    • @EmiStar070
      @EmiStar070 Před měsícem +2

      I feel like the only way those kids are paying for a retirement home is if they check the reviews and find the worst one

    • @SilveryBlue1010
      @SilveryBlue1010 Před měsícem +2

      Like one of the story where the dad of OP just drop dead of the heart attack from anger. 😅

  • @MavenCree
    @MavenCree Před měsícem +17

    Yeah, leaving with the turkey leg was indeed a boss level exit.

  • @PastorRapture
    @PastorRapture Před měsícem +15

    Abandon your kids with me, even if they are my siblings, will result in me calling the cops and CPS.

  • @BPJD2004
    @BPJD2004 Před měsícem +58

    Can I date OP pls? He sounds like my kind of guy. Way to go, dude!

    • @MaouVallkur
      @MaouVallkur Před měsícem +1

      Eww why? He got his mom pregnant then pushed her off the porch to kill the baby

    • @kratikagarg7029
      @kratikagarg7029 Před měsícem +4

      Wtf

    • @wonyoungismjour
      @wonyoungismjour Před měsícem +7

      ​@@MaouVallkur oedipus is that you?

    • @BPJD2004
      @BPJD2004 Před měsícem +8

      @@MaouVallkur Did you even listen to the story? Where the hell did it say anything like that?

    • @NJ-kp3wu
      @NJ-kp3wu Před 19 dny

      ​@@BPJD2004 Whoosh.

  • @ARcinder
    @ARcinder Před měsícem +31

    Bro $30 one time payment per sitting gig .. the lowest going rate is $10/hr... I would have said $30/hr

    • @Arkryal
      @Arkryal Před měsícem +9

      $10/hr even is pretty low. Forget a professional service, the high school girls around here charge $25/hr for the scheduled time, $50/hr for any part of each hour after the agreed upon time, and they don't prorate. And that's the one child rate, each additional kid is an extra $5/hr. Little bastards make nearly as much as I do, lol. But hey, that's the market response, supply and demand.
      My advice to parents, make friends with other parents and alternate watching each other's kids, and don't have a whole litter of them. Keep it to like 1 or 2 kids, maximum, lol.
      Not counting child care, private schooling or unforeseen medical expenses, most financial planners suggest budgeting $15,000 a year for each kid, at an absolute minimum. So I get why OP's parents were stressed... 5 kids, if they were doing what they should have, that requires $75k a year, after taxes, paying the mortgage, utilities, etc. With that many kids, they'd have to be earning about $200k for a modest lifestyle. A 99¢ condom might have been the wiser financial move, lol. No wonder their house is rotting to the ground. While I don't condone anyone kicking people in the balls, in this case he might have done his father a favor, that guy can't afford another kid, ever.

    • @TheMeloettaful
      @TheMeloettaful Před měsícem +2

      @Arkryal it also says a lot when the other siblings were RELIEVED the baby had died! Parents really had no business popping out yet another baby when they are struggling so much financially. Like you basically said a box of condoms don't cost much lol.
      And yet will save you so much money in the future. Like putting that money towards a new porch to replace the rotting one that ultimately got an unborn baby killed! I would consider it a small mercy the baby at least won't have to deal with shitty parents, and resentful older siblings who would have to be their babysitters.
      The parents really are gonna wind up alone, and have no one to blame but themselves. They're definitely heading to The Nursing Home for sure 😅.

  • @moxee33
    @moxee33 Před měsícem +44

    I wish him all the best. He deserves good things. Hope he updates sometime.

  • @wesxd5292
    @wesxd5292 Před měsícem +13

    Even if this story is fake, it's quite depressing and scary that some kids actually get abused like OP
    As people say, children deserve parents but some parents don't deserve children

  • @nikopunksuperlink
    @nikopunksuperlink Před měsícem +12

    The movement when op kicked his father in the ballsack was fucking hilarious 🤣

  • @leroysgamesandmore2226
    @leroysgamesandmore2226 Před měsícem +25

    Why do they know where OP lives in the first place

    • @pallydan893
      @pallydan893 Před měsícem +8

      It's an uncanny ability of narcissists to locate their victims

    • @DwarfDaddy
      @DwarfDaddy Před měsícem +1

      Probably mentioned it to them in passing

    • @Eldritch-1
      @Eldritch-1 Před měsícem

      Flying monkeys ...entitled trash always have a few at the ready.

  • @seilvox
    @seilvox Před měsícem +8

    The fact that the dad thinks he has any power over OP is laughable.
    You can tell by how OP describes him that he's trying to be 'hard' and 'tough' and intimate his kids like he probable did when they were five. But... news flash: The older a person gets, the less shits they give for your self-imposed 'authority' over them. Keep poking the lion and you're gonna get the claws... or, I guess in this case, get the steel-toe boot in the balls.

    • @SnowyWolborg
      @SnowyWolborg Před 6 dny

      This mindset is actually very common. For a lot of controlling parents, the worst day of their life is when they come to realize that they have no power over their adult children. OP's father will not let go of the idea that he's the big man in charge.

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 Před měsícem +7

    op should have gotten a restraining order way sooner.

  • @jamesplayzreviews
    @jamesplayzreviews Před měsícem +10

    OP has become Carnage (get it because Carnage is Venom's son and stronger than him?)

  • @S-Possum
    @S-Possum Před měsícem +4

    I heard this story long ago, but I will always feel bad for OP and those kids. I hope they are doing fine and OP is receiving therapy...

  • @ddozen883
    @ddozen883 Před měsícem +8

    Yeah no the father knows good and damn well that miscarriage was his fault he just can’t come to terms with it and it’s easier to blame someone else. denial is a river in egypt.

  • @rainbowmeowmix
    @rainbowmeowmix Před měsícem +4

    This is proof some people shouldn't be parents

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 Před měsícem +27

    they urned it

  • @sanjeevanisinghal
    @sanjeevanisinghal Před měsícem +4

    Op is so brave and courageous to stand up against such pathetic assholes time and again. I need to do the same.

  • @TheVercci
    @TheVercci Před měsícem +6

    These doormats are so hard to listen to, always the threat of legal charges instead of filing legal charges.

    • @PastorRapture
      @PastorRapture Před měsícem +1

      It is genuinely aggravating. They should contact the police, CPS, and file charges the first time, every time, and go as far as the law allows to absolutely destroy them. Narcissists never respect “being the bigger person”, if anything, it is recognized as the weakness it is and incentivizes worse behavior. They only understand consistent, swift, severe, and brutal consequences.

    • @DwarfDaddy
      @DwarfDaddy Před měsícem +1

      How is OP a doormat? Did you even listen to the whole thing before commenting?

  • @eastfrisianguy
    @eastfrisianguy Před 26 dny

    Family violence is horrible, good thing OP is out of it! My mother kept me away from her parents as a child and I never understood it, but she was beaten half to death as a child by my alcoholic grandfather and at 15 when he tried to hit her again she snapped, broke his nose and cheekbone and told him if he dared to touched her ever again she would kill him. After this, he cried and pissed himself. She moved out when she was 16, my grandfather was afraid of my mother for the rest of his life and only after he died did it come out that he had se***lly ab***d my youngest aunt for years and my mother said that if she had known when he was alive, she would still be in prison and I would never have been born. My grandma, on the other hand, defended her dead husband during a visit, saying she knew everything and she didn't care my mother ripped her a new one, kicked her out instantly and said she never wanted to see her again and that she should burn in hell. I didn't find out about all this until I was over 30 and anyone who knows my mom knows she is the sweetest, most lovely little person on earth and I thought she couldn't hurt anyone.

  • @chrispeterson3362
    @chrispeterson3362 Před měsícem +14

    Human ashes come in a vacuum sealed bag not loose in a jar

    • @ThatGirlsGraveyard
      @ThatGirlsGraveyard Před měsícem +2

      As a mortician I can assure you ashes don’t come in a vacuum sealed bag. Most are tied shut with a twist tie or a zip tie.

    • @chrispeterson3362
      @chrispeterson3362 Před měsícem +1

      @@ThatGirlsGraveyard either way who just dumps the ashes in an urn. It's sad the animal remains come sealed but not human

    • @ThatGirlsGraveyard
      @ThatGirlsGraveyard Před měsícem +2

      @@chrispeterson3362 some people prefer them loose in the urn. Most are inside a bag in the urn. It truly is a matter of personal preference. If you don’t purchase an urn they come in a plastic bag, zip tied and placed into a plastic box. Then the plastic box is placed in a cardboard box….Where I live anyhow.

  • @dylanmcfalls3677
    @dylanmcfalls3677 Před 8 dny

    OP isn’t a monster, he’s a monster hunter.

  • @G1antPurpleHipp0
    @G1antPurpleHipp0 Před 11 dny

    Let's face it, they lost 1 of their cash cows the day OP moved out and got pregnant to have another.

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před měsícem

    I’m glad the fact that OP’s siblings don’t resent him and also openly hate their parents as well

  • @skylinefever
    @skylinefever Před 24 dny

    Parents force their older kids raise the younger ones, then wonder why they never got any grandbabies.

  • @itzlexxii
    @itzlexxii Před 19 dny

    Wish I could have seen OP riding off with the turkey leg 😂

  • @joansamuels3241
    @joansamuels3241 Před 29 dny

    Restraining order against them. Cease & desist.
    Block all ways they can get to you.
    Did Dad beat your mother and throw her down the porch steps?

  • @jscullyandmulderx25
    @jscullyandmulderx25 Před měsícem +1

    This is why not everyone woman is cut out to be a mom or a man a father. This pushing people and especially women to have children should stop. Stop this not having children dosent make you less manly.

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 Před 5 dny

    Story 1: Why keep such terrible people in your life after moving out?

  • @BrightElk
    @BrightElk Před 23 dny

    I have grown up around parents making it sound like having kids is so complicated. And I won’t say that being a parent isn’t hard it is just not in the way many people made it sound like. My husband and I don’t use daycare or baby sitters and we get along just fine. These parents are just idiots.

  • @AlwaysTehFool
    @AlwaysTehFool Před měsícem +4

    Sounds fake af, but I was entertained

  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 Před měsícem +1

    story seems like a parallel universe where my mom married a much worse guy than my dad

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 Před měsícem +6

    Boss

  • @turquesa_8056
    @turquesa_8056 Před 17 dny +1

    Amazing how people just insist on keeping toxic people in their lives it's almost like they enjoy the drama or something. If my family was that toxic I would move to a different city and stop talking to all of them. But I know these are all fake stories but they all have the same theme lol.

  • @plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona

    Im wondering how the parents knew op's address and why didnt they think to threaten mom for stalking? Like id be horrified if they found out my address the first time she visited, how did they know anyway?

  • @kisstune
    @kisstune Před měsícem +1

    I doubt she was pregnant

  • @Mehhh_was_here
    @Mehhh_was_here Před měsícem +1

    why would you even talk with them after you move out...like why...

    • @BrightElk
      @BrightElk Před 22 dny +2

      Because it's hard to give up your relationship with your siblings. And often if you want to see your siblings during the holidays and such you have to talk to your terrible parents. The siblings are innocent and have no say in the situation. Often they are vulnerable and victimized too so it's nice to be able to check in on them.

  • @ranjithbalasubramanian1545
    @ranjithbalasubramanian1545 Před měsícem +1

    11:43 and 13:34 are comedy gold moments

  • @DanaTheInsane
    @DanaTheInsane Před měsícem

    The ashes in the urn are in a sealed bag they’re not just in the urn.

  • @teneluxio
    @teneluxio Před měsícem +11

    No one actually believes this sad story, right? “They were enraged about my reddit post” “My dad’s legs quivered at the threat of my steel-toed boots” “I’ve been hitting the gym for a few months and learned fighting” Reads like the classic Redditard post.

    • @cheesybol
      @cheesybol Před 27 dny

      What are you talking about? It’s 100% real! Who would lie on the internet?

  • @Kaziglu1
    @Kaziglu1 Před měsícem +2

    God, I wish this story was true.

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows Před měsícem +3

      Me
      Damn, this is almost as messy as my family. No mention of trying to unalive any of the kids via neglect though
      Stop being a fake literary critic for...reasons? I'd actually like to know why if you could help explain it to me. Serious request

    • @Kaziglu1
      @Kaziglu1 Před měsícem

      @@catsncrows Go away. Serious request.

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows Před měsícem

      @@Kaziglu1 gotcha. Defensive, no help. Shouldn't have expected anything else

    • @Kaziglu1
      @Kaziglu1 Před měsícem

      @@catsncrows That's right. Shoo.

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows Před měsícem +1

      @@Kaziglu1 a nice sling back heel or suede boot? Okay lol have a good evening. Take care😊

  • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
    @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Před měsícem +2

    Another fake story if you ask me

    • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
      @user-bj8rk4rj7w Před měsícem

      Thank you, i was thinking that too, at first it seemed like it could be real but the update kinda confirmed it wasnt to me

    • @michelleengle207
      @michelleengle207 Před měsícem +1

      It a readit story so you don’t know if it is real or not.

    • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
      @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Před měsícem

      @@michelleengle207 thats pretty much speaks for itself to take this "story" with a grain of salt to begin with

    • @user-bj8rk4rj7w
      @user-bj8rk4rj7w Před měsícem

      @michelleengle207 yes thats true but there are certain things that can subtly indicate if a story is fake or not, such as not enough detail, too much detail, or unrealistic events, etc.

  • @buttholesurfer3213
    @buttholesurfer3213 Před měsícem +1

    I’d like to believe that when OP’s parents are old and alone in a nursing home, they’ll realize they pushed all their kids away. But chances are they’ll still blame everything on OP.

  • @Mehhh_was_here
    @Mehhh_was_here Před měsícem

    why would you even talk with them after you move out...like why...