My Delusional Wife of 9 Years Decided She Didn't Like Motherhood and Arranged to Give Up Our Kids...
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- čas přidán 23. 06. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
Me [35M] with my wife [33F] of 9 years, wants to give up our daughters for adoption (u/dumbstruckhusband in r/relationships)
12:19 2nd story:
AITA for changing out of my bridesmaid dress during the reception, even though photos were over and I had no more responsibilities? (u/misshummbee in r/AITAH)
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Boss: You'd better have a god excuse.
Him: My wife is trying to sell or murder my daughters, not sure which.
Boss: You're excused, please take the rest of the day.
Boss: ...... I'll put it down as "family emergency".
Boss: "I wish I didn't ask"
Boss: …Have the whole year off.
Boss: your wife is home alone?
Boss: Understandable, take all the time you need.
All the YTA comments for OP1 about him supposedly not pulling his weight and that being the reason behind his wife’s reaction is laughable. You can be overwhelmed by childcare and burnt out to hell and back but that typically doesn’t drive a parent to put them up for adoption.
It's acceptable misandry. It's the man fault regardless. I have commented on a friend being almost deleted by a woman and someone basically defended her and said I am sure she got a reason. This just build in misandry by their moms and and supported thru their years growing up by the social media and schools now a day.
Not pulling his weight? They're right, OP doesn't need money to live, he should have quit his job and just moved his family into a tent.
@@shortangel333 Disagree. Notice how he was able to get a job within the company that did not involve travel when he became a single parent? He didn't WANT to be home full time.
But I don't fault him for not knowing she was batshit crazy. I'm just saying it would have been more apparent to him earlier if he had been at home and working and not out on the road.
Reddit do be like that.
@@shells500tutubo who the eff wants to be home full time when you have to make a living. his wife is just a bit*h
The first one is insane. What she thought he wouldn't notice???
Honestly, no. She expected him to enjoy being 'free' again too.
Nope, Mom DEFINITELY had right to stop it. The bride would have gotten a choice, either change the dress or my daughter will not be a part of your wedding. That girl was EXPOSED. No way I would make my daughter appear in public like that, especially as uncomfortable as the daughter seemed.
That's why I 100% think it's fake. For sure, the whole family just sat back while their overweight, mentally disable girl walked through a church.
Umm it might be a good idea to add which story your talking about
@@Nitro892? The first story had nothing to do with a wedding?
"I didn't think anyone would take my wifes side"
Lol, yeah, you posted it on reddit. That place is an echo chamber of self-righteous indignation where the fringe lunatics of the internet go to validate each other. Total cesspool
That first story is scary.
Her mindset was that she was putting the children up for adoption *FOR*THEM* she was thinking this was something to make them both happy. That along with other actions is scary.
She's just one step away from being flat out dangerous. Don't leave her alone with those children!
For the second story:
Why on earth did Sil forced OP to wear a dress that was extremely short, I mean seriously, even though the seamstress did her best to make sure she butt was covered she was STILL exposed. If her butt was still showing after all that tailoring, then they needed to find a new dress ( the one that op changed into) or have someone else take her place. The fact that OP's entire family said she was being dramatic for having feminine modesty is just out right wrong......... she literally had to hold the hem of her dress the entire time until she was able to change.
Oh, it was deliberate. She wanted to publicly humiliate OP, knowing that OP, being autistic, would not be able to properly defend herself against such behavior.
Simple she did it to
Humility the OP
because she was plus size, and for her Autisms
Then have her photo shopped out of the photo and lie she did it to apologize for the dress.
Hoping no one would believe OP about the treatment
Op was put through crap but still was the bigger person. People who are blaming her need a reality check. She didn't even put the post up on social media but the cousin. Its sil actions that caused her downfall not op.
OP in story 1 did the best thing, immediately left with his kids. People on reddit act like all parent love their kids, that's not true. Some people aren't meant to be parents. Glad OP and his kids are in therapy, hopefully that will help in the long run.
Story 2 - SiL in that story was definitely bullying OP the brother saw and did nothing, he claims that he defended her in school, even though she never noticed. Can almost guarantee he embellished that story to make himself a good guy and because OP was good at paying back favours, even fake ones. Glad OP is out of there and her cousin is a beast, OP is too docile so she needs someone like her cousin.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
--- This woman needs some serious mental heath help. Hopefully your in-laws will be loving grandparent to the girls.
--- SIL isn't sorry, she's been called out about her tacky behavior and was just covering her ass. She was gas lighting OP, she never said she was sorry. OP should and did distance herself from SIL. SIL got fired because of her behavior, she is stressed because of her actions. Because of her diagnosis, OP needs to participate in group therapy for autistic individuals.
I think SIL's boss has also seen her bullying tendencies at work and cousin's post just confirmed it.
People need to realize that this shit has happened for centuries, people have kids and then start the cycle of trauma
And I have heard this stories before, if you don't love your first kid, get help immediately. End of story. No second retry kid, help.
I observed this and noped on out of the kiddy angle. no way do I want to be responsible for messing up another generation. I do not entertain the delusion I'd do a better job than my crazy progenitors of a bonkers egg donor and grand egg donor
@@erosagape514not excusing but when women have something like postnatal depression or mental health issues, it can appear not after the first child is born but later. It would still be their responsibility to get help but it can appear later. My mum definitely had it, but it developed after 5 months and it has affected her whole life but she's gotten help, therapy and my dad supported her through it. Which is how I have been raised by a loving wonderful mother. She made the effort. She tried. She got the help. She got supported.
To the OP in this story: Not the a*hole. You had every right to say that you were uncomfortable due to the dress not fitting you properly and to want an apology from your Sister- in- Law. And while it is unfortunate that she had to find out your perspective in the manner she did, she definitely needed to have a serious wake- up call. Therefore, from one autistic person to another, my advice would be to engage in your favourite hobby and surround yourself with people who respect your boundaries and value your feelings.
1: yeah Reddit was crazy for going after OP the first time before he elaborated. Regardless of what’s going on, trying to adopt your kids out from under your husband is not an acceptable response. Even if she was having a mental health crisis, grabbing your children and getting them out of the house to somewhere where they are safe is the correct response to that situation. Making sure she can’t hurt them or abandon them before going back and dealing with it is how you should react because the kids are unable to do it themselves
2: I’m sorry but if even your BOSS calls it bullying, then I’m pretty sure it’s bullying. I think the cousin getting angry on OPP behalf is great -stop somebody needs to since the rest of the family was determined to make OP’s fault for how SIL treated her until she laid it out to strangers. Also if I was OP I would reevaluate my relationship with my mom - she doesn’t notice a lot of things and thought she was a liar most of her life???? wtf
Story 2
Everyone else: going slow and taking everything with stride.
Cousin: nah bish, we're going nuclear!
😂
😂 she literally said come to me. I'll handle it from there. Love people like that. Everyone else was downplaying it and acting as of OP was overreacting. Every aspect of what SIL was intentional. I'm glad someone saw through the bs and stood up for OP.
She was falling all over herself making excuses for her mom. 😢
As a sister of a disabled treasure, I'm sooo ashamed about the reaction of the brother! 🤬👹 What a shameless one! He allows his b**** to bully his sister and doesn't even accept that his now wife is the culprit
@@lilogonzales6625 yeah... he was absolutely aware and allowed it to please his bride. Perhaps he chose poorly. Or perhaps he's also a POS who didn't actually care enough about his sister to speak up for her. Honestly seems like the latter...
Honestly this kind of shit makes me glad that my family is so dysfunctional the only people I am in contact with is my mum and my grandfather bc if my autistic ass had to put up with stuff like that id be even more of a mess than i already am 😩😩
Sounds like SIL is looking for any excuse in the book
This is why I will actively avoid people that say the legitimately hate kids. If you're child free fine that's your choice and opinion. But to say you legitimately hate children? You're a horrible excuse of a human being.
He needs to divorce sil she is a massive b to his sister
I agree.
He won't. He's clearly making excuses for her. He will probably continue even after most of his family slashes all connections.
@@southernflight5078 or until she cheats on him
@@funtimegenshin6973 $100 says he makes up excuses for why she cheated too
Wanna take bets that SIL’s pregnancy is not the kid of Bro ? SIL seems awfully comfortable lying and gaslighting… at least until OP’s Cousin revealed SIL for the sh*t human being she is, and now “suddenly” The Stress™️is affecting the baby.
“No, don’t question me!! …don’t call me out for being cruel to my husband’s sister who has autism! You’re stressing my baby out!
What??? No, don’t ask for a paternity test !! How dare you !
Oh look, now I ‘miscarried’, you can’t question me ever again and it’s YOUR FAULT. You can’t ever make me take a paternity test with a future pregnancy either ! “
I've seen 2 similar in the past 6 years of crazy Reddit stories.
The other stories involved infants under a year. This is absolutely insane 😮
Did she just think he’d be okay with it???
It really pisses me off the fact that people on Reddit and in this comment section are blaming OP for having a job in which he spends long hours away from home multiple days of the week for his wife’s actions. There are a crap ton of couples in which at least one parent does the same thing as OP and yet the other parent would never do what OP’s “wife” tried to pull
One of my 3 best friend have autism and I can say they tend to be very kind and people find funny to push them way to much because of their kidness. I must say the boss knew more of autism spectrum than OP parents and brother, which make me feel dissapoint and a lot. How come a stranger know better than someone who been there for almost all their life? Especially, if they knew about autism, the mother would believe her everytime, since autism people DONT KNOW how to lie, they always say the truth, is very rare if they knew how to lie. Goodness, this is why in so overprotective to my bff from others people.
S1: Honestly, he's right- the extra information shouldn't've been needed because the fact that she was trying to get rid of their kids *behind his back* is a huge problem. Yes, the extra information is good and helps with context, but she was 100% wrong with that no matter what.
S2: OMG her SIL is absolutely horrible, and her family isn’t much better. I feel horrible for her and how she has been taken advantage of.
SIL completely set her up and everyone just went along with it, and got mad at her for being upset/bothered, then tried to make her feel guilty for being upset. They all suck so much. (I am absolutely livid about her mom only NOW realizing she isn't a liar)
I love the cousin tho! Im so glad OP has at least one person on her side!
I’m sorry but what exactly did the wife in story 1 expect OP’s reaction to be? “Ah yes, perfectly reasonable, healthy, and safe idea! Let’s ditch our literal toddlers who will permanently know that feeling of abandonment even if they don’t remember us in the system as if we were simply returning dolls to the store and pretend we never had children”??????
Even without thw context he isnt the ta wtf reddit
Reddit Shmeddit.
The other english teacher at the school where my sister works is a single father. His wife ran out, fled the country, and he's only received a few child support cheques (all of which bounced). And of course, he gets all the stigma of being a single parent... but none of the support. Because single fathers are always assumed to have done something to make their wives run out on them - such as being a wife beater or a choster (And what does this say about hte mother if she gave up her rights to a wife beater or a choster...?)
@@TerestraszRight?! Women who find a man intolerable and leave their babies with him disgust me. I don't care if he made you have the kid and you don't want it, take it with you and give it to someone responsible!
This is scary. There seems to be a clear correlation between mental health conditions and people who pursue Art degrees in college. I know correlation doesn't necessarily imply causation, but I'm happy OP in Story 1 managed to save his children from whatever his wife was capable of doing before she could do it.
We've sadly seen over the years many women suffering from severe mental health conditions outright ending their children in bathtubs, so at least OP saw the signs of discontent and was willing to press her on what was wrong until she admitted to wanting to do away with their kids, albeit in a less lethal manner in this case.
I get the distinct feeling that if Op had been home more he would have picked up on his wife's issues. They did not just pop up overnight. She had been neglecting those kids all along. It IS unusual to have the first psychotic break at her age. It more commonly shows up in the late teens-early twenties.
No parent with young children should voluntarily be totally absent for 25% of their children's lives. Notice that he immediately got a job without travel when he had no choice. He SHOULD be guilty for telling himself nothing was wrong so he could continue being away from home.
First story sounds familiar
@TheJadedLibraGuy-qy9cy In that one, it was similar to "A Doll's House" where it happened around Christmas but the woman was pressured into having kids.
"She has an art degree" "she feels her degree is worthless" it's an art degree... it's always been worthless
thats one helluva title
The second story is such a pathetic joke. “She was fired because her boss doesn’t want employees who bully disabled people.” Wow.
She got fired for being a shitty person. Sadly the brother is just as bad.
It happens. Especially in a position where you're in control of the well-being of others. That's why people tell you to be careful what you post.
Sorry as someone with autism Sil is garbage she was using microagression with OP it was likely she didn't like her an OPs bros closeness an this would be perfect to drive a wedge and something tells me she's using pregnancy to manipulate everyone into forgiving her an blaming OP for the actions of the cousin is out of line as she would have not known an the cousin clarified she was the Sil so if anyone should get heat its the cousin so the Sil is controlling the narrative saying OP encouraged it
I mean, that’s literally what SIL was doing, sooo…sucks to suck.
@@arynkoeings668 SIL is just your average mean girl. She sees someone who is kind and clueless to evil and for her that is a challenge.
Wait, so did the cousin post OP’s posts pretending to be the SIL or as herself?
Story 1: Aren't mothers supposed to be the loving overly affectionate caring ones? What tf happened to this one?
Nope, people are way different. Which is why people trying to force everyone into a role. Causes this type of thing to happen.
You sound oblivious to the countless news stories about mothers abandoning (and not at a Safe Haven spot)/neglecting/murdering their kids.
AUTISM IS NOT A REASON FOR LYING!
As a person with autism, I second this
For story one I really wanna hear the wife side of things, I don’t trust this guy whole “I didn’t notice she was struggling so she probably wasn’t” deal
Well in many marriages they allow there anger to fester expecting there partner to basically "read there mind" and fix whatever they view as wrong and when the thing they view as wrong or a problem isn't fixed since there partners can't read there mind they just blow up whether that be of anger, impulsiveness or other such plus why don't your trust it? was it to random, was the story off since as a mentioned it is possible for someone to struggle without you noticing or do you simply think its off since the wife was being so outlandish
I don't think you should cut off your wife, OP. The vow "in sickness or death" were said for a reason