3 Reasons Teen Overreacts When Boys Break Up With Her
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- čas přidán 16. 12. 2019
- A teen who admits she doesn’t know how to handle it when a boy breaks up with her learns three reasons why she might have such a strong reaction to the rejection.
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Were all really up at 4 am watching dr phil lol
P͓̽o͓̽i͓̽s͓̽o͓̽n͓̽ cause dr phill is that guy PERIOD
No, its 10am in UK. America isn't the only country.
You know there are other countries in the world, right?
7am here
@@joseomarperez9227 lil uzi lil uzi lil uzi " uzi voice"
“She still has stuffed animals on her bed”
Was that a personal attack?
Edit: Not you people thinking I’m serious- this is so obviously a joke
RSStarfire I have stuffed animals and a boyfriend..I feel attacked 😂
@@evelynanderson6016 I still have stuffies and Im married. Feeling very attacked lmao.
Lmao so do I whoopi 👌
stuffed animals are the best for reaaal
I'm 19 and in college, I still have stuffed animals lol
Fathers are so important. I'm so lucky that all three of my kids have a great father.
Yeah them be my babies 💪💯
I dont have one (mentally) and I found out that my relationships based on that issue since I was 14 .
@Mina B we know that
Good for you
@Mina B Young savage isn't using the word "we" in the context that you said. Young savage is just saying "we" as in the viewers stupid.
She' looks like a really depressed Anime character.
She actually does
@Sarah White make us-
Exactly you can't :)
😂😂😂😭
Yeah
BPD IN TEENS IS REAL. Parents need to start understanding mental health from a young age that impacts us as teens.
She is gorgeous and will get prettier as she gets older. I hope she finds more confidence and self trust as she matures.
"still has stuffed animals on her bed" ....... * me, a 27 year old, with 2 stuffed animals on my bed, in a relationship........ * WHAT
I love Dr. Phil in this one so much. It’s less of a “therapy” session and more of a Father giving a lesson to his Daughter. Super sweet clip.
I disagree with the statement about parents keeping their kids out of situations they don't know how to handle. You can't shelter a child forever. A better statement is parents should be there for their kids and be prepared to guide them through situations they don't know how to handle
this girl is an absolute winner in life....she just doesn't realise it just yet
I feel for this girl. I HATED having to say what my good qualities were. That’s how low my self worth was
This girl is going to be a model when she grows up. She’s beautiful. Forget the haters darlin. Better men out there!!
I have a pretty negligent father and hearing what Dr. Phil the first few minutes was probably something that I needed to hear
My father told me I meant nothing to him and that I was a loser. Now he’s in jail
“You really have the negatives on speed dial, but you really have to dig for the good about yourself” I felt that 😩we gotta start acknowledging what we DO bring to the table.
That John Mayer song ‘Daughters’ drives this home.
“Fathers be good to your daughters; daughters will love like you do; girls become lovers who turn into mothers, so mothers be good to your daughters too.”
I felt sad when she had a hard time listing good things about herself. I am the same way and knowing how painful it is, I feel so sorry for her.
Her answers about herself sounded like things that would be good for a relationship. This is rlly sad. I hope she got help.
Damn. That last part was a really good observation. Everybody needs self-affirmation, but not to a point they think they can’t do anything wrong. Think of the values you have and associate those with yourselves so if you’re ever in a bad situation, you’ll be your own cheerleader. ☺️
I absolutely love episodes like this. Fixing problems in people that deserve to be helped. Wonderful ❤️
That slow head-turn like "Yeah. I'm talking about YOU."
I consider myself very lucky to have a good relationship with my father. Dr. Phil is right, it takes a lot more than sweet words to sweep me off my feet and It's because I was told by my father that I'm beautiful and special since I was little.
People joke about Dr. Phil, but I think this man brings it on point. We're blessed to have him
My father was a very mean and abusive man and I understand now why I choose the men and women that I do. I have finally decided to take things into my own hands and be my own protector and my own motivator. I am no princess, I am a queen. ❤️
Poor girl I was in her situation years ago... took me so long to find my worth. She is doing good she will heal and be a strong individual. And I pray for those who struggled too.
Seems like a sweet person struggling.
I have my problems with Dr. Phil but man he articulated this so well and I think a lot of people would benefit from hearing this session.
Damn you just told 4 million people she still sleeping with her teddy bear
She is so sweet
i LOVE dr Phill on this episode, very compassionate
I just want to hug her!
This is a good segment & not just for teens. I’m 34 & my father has been in prison since I was a baby. He’s very emotionally abusive towards me. I’ve never had a relationship w a guy last longer than a season. It really hurts because I so badly want to get married & have a family but I scare every guy away. I don’t even know what a good relationship looks like.
Doesn’t most people have to “dig” for the positive things about ourselves verses the negatives?
If we could list 5 positive things about ourselves in 4 seconds, people would thinking we’re conceited
Yes and that’s a societal problem it’s not conceited to think good about yourself
Never thought what I needed to hear was dr Phil.
i can’t be the only one thinking this girl look like velma from scooby doo
Anime Velma
Probably the best I have heard from dr Phil.
This girl looks like Kendall Jenner. Doesn't she?
?????
She looks like she's part of The Adam's Family.
All these comments like ‘she deserves better’ and this one is just PHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Ya it's pretty cool. She'll find herself eventually and then someone who will have the ideals she embodies. Kids are quick to want adult things, then as an adult miss the carefree or I guess just less responsibility filled lifestyle of the teen years. Youth is wasted on the young.
pov: *jaded 32 y/o
Respect to Dr Phil for showing this girl companionship
Thanks Dr phil this brief clip has helped and you made it easy to understand.
Dr Phil was great in this episode especially
I'm 27 and cried when I heard this. I'm still learning.
Sometimes I see some goofy stuff from Dr. Phil but this is a good one
Bless her heart!
Phil handled this like a boss.
She seems so sweet but vulnerable and just sad
Take the most confident , loved girl & put her around negative people. The confidence built in all those years erodes in 1/4 the time .
This makes so much sense
dr phils the best at his job
I am 23 and have aspergers and ptsd . His words helped me understand too
I was seeing a psychologist who had me do the "list 5 things about yourself" exercise. It was so hard. I felt like there was nothing there.
That poor girl!... the whole time I just wanted to give her a big hug!...
Even the qualities she listed, 4 out of 5 were all attributes that serve others 😓
That's exactly what I was thinking
O my gooood dr phil is sooo gooooood
BRUHHHH
THIS VIDEO GOT ME SO STRONGGG
Poor girl. She’s such a sweet girl.
It's sad how much I relate to this
Poor kiddo. She seems really thoughtful and nice. Don't let the dopes get you down. Teen years don't last forever and a great big world of people and possibilities await you after that. Hang in there and stay true to yourself! =)
This girl will do some major good when she gets through this
Dr. Phil’s episodes will make better fathers for tomorrow
shes so sweet
This video really hit close to home. I’ve never had a father in my life. I don’t even know his name. And it just hurts. It hurts knowing that he never wanted to be in my life, he never even tried to search for me years later. He never made me feel like a princess. It hurts how much mistakes I’ve made in the past seeking validation from these dumb boys. And after all the things he’s done wrong to me, I hate how much I still want him in my life. It’s been 8 years and not even once he sent me a birthday card, asked how I was doing or anything. He doesn’t even care.
He's so right
Just watching her makes me wanna be her friends with her. Can relate to her on half what she goes to thru.
BPD makes abandonment excruciating.
Damn Phil is on fire here
I love how he throws side eye at the mom
Fathers are important! I had the best father ever, I was lucky!
I FEEL THUS GIRL SO MUCH.
Omg this is so sad for kids without parents
shes so pretty, i feel so bad for her❤
Never had a father no wonder my relationships are bad. Hmm
Dr. Phil makes me feel better about myself too lol
Heartbreaking
Rejection is difficult for anyone at any age whether male or female.
Nope
Just Saying not for me lol
Definitely for some people, everyone is different but it can affect anyone!
It’s not about the age, it’s about the experience. It can be difficult at any age, but you’re more likely to handle it better based upon prior experience to the situation
That doesn't excuse overreacting
I feel like alot of teens need to hear this one.
Jelly C
And dumbass moms that keep doing this to thier kids....
Thank you !!!
Almost 20 and this did truly open my eyes
I’m 32 and needed to hear this one. Dr. Phil has some gems sometimes.
Parents need to hear it too. Parents too busy being their kid's friend instead of protecting them from situations they have no business being in.
It took me a few years but I finally know why everyone’s hair looks horrible. They all wear wigs so it’s harder recognize them lol
Wtf. Really?
I’ve been waiting to see if someone noticed her wig lol
That actually makes a lot of sense.. but what about their names? Are they changed?
I mean probably yeah. The most horrible stuff is being discussed on this show, would be weird is they did use real names and hair 🤷🏼♀️
C. Marr but this isn’t true of all guests. For example, Nicolette gray and her mom on the show, now known as the Beverly Hills Brat, looked the same on Dr Phil
My father was never in the picture, I was forced into an adult role at the age of 10, and I was forced to take the role of the "golden child"... I'm 24 years old now and realized that I'm always tense, I fall for any guy who flirts with me, which after a lot of reflection I came to realize that it's the validation that I seek... I have trust issues, and I've never taken care of myself because I've always been too busy fixing other people's problems, etc.
PARENTS: Don't lean on your children for emotional support, don't expect perfection from them, and make your children feel special not based on what they've accomplished, but for who they are... Trust me, it will save them from a lot of psychological problems
Oh good luck x
Leslie N. Same
My parents forced me into the role of the golden kid as well. All their hope rests on my shoulders and they force me to fullfill their dreams they had in all of their children onto me.
I went through all of this at the exact same age except I’m 21 now. And it’s bad that I know I’ll be “jealous” when I have a child with my partner and they get what I never had. But it’s the best thing for the child. Things like this don’t make you stronger; they make you angrier.
@@fantasyhochzwei8977 Wow. I'm so sorry that has happened, you didn't deserve that. I hope you find whatever it is that will make you happy instead of what makes others. Really.
This is sad for kids without dads.
I tried not to cry, dr. Phil was straight up... hit home
Dads are irrelevant, moms should always have 100% custody because they are all a child needs
@@benjaminamarante8481 - I hope you're joking. Breakdown of the 2-parent household is a big problem for society. Single mothers want to pretend that's not true just to make themselves feel better.
@@ModernPlague Im right your wrong goodbye
@@benjaminamarante8481 -Spoken like an incorrect ignoramus. Nighty night, Benjamin. Momma loves you.
This gives me even more of a reason not to date in high school. A break-up can lower self esteem, meaning mine will degrade to about -923, which I'm assuming isn't good for me.
You need experience tho. Sooner or later you ll experience a break up anyway. Imagine being in college, or later in life, not knowing how to deal with a break up. The person you ve been with probably has been through a lot of break ups, so he wont seem that affected after the break up, but for you it will be way harder. Yeah, it brings your self esteem down at that moment, but later you ll become stronger and more mature because of that.
I didn't date in high school and uni. I'm kind of happy with that cos I knew who I was and wasn't distracted. But I did not handle my first break up well
Just live ya life
Ventus, yeah I guess, but to be honest, I quit dating in high school because most of the boys aren't mature. I have seen some people start dating just to kiss, and that's not what I'm all about. But then again it might just be me having high expectations, lol.
boi she looks like a future evil mistress that’ll laugh like
“YEEHHHHEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEEHEHEHEEHEHEHEHEHEEEEEEEEEEEE!”
This was probably one of the best analogy & advice Dr. Phil has ever given on his shows.
Seriously though! Many times I think he's way off, or is a bit of a douche (not that anyone is perfect), but he definitely did good here I think!
This needs more likes ☝️
Definitely and his execution aswell...dead on...❣️❣️❣️❣️💕💕❤️❤️
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Oh this innocent child
Legrette Shes a sweetheart and doing really really well now!!
@@MD-we7ue Really glad to know that
Future liberal lesbian
@@user-lb2iu8ee1o Fax lmfao😂💀
@@user-lb2iu8ee1o and?😂 oh no, lesbians
“I didn’t know what to do so I broke down” BABYGIRL, I feel that heavilyy. I hope you find peace and happiness in your life. Be a kid hunny
Potato🥔
Every child deserves to be a child
PS: someone who watches yes theory!!!
Daddies be good to your daughters.
Even if you're not with the mother anymore 💖
Nikki Caz
Your baby father left you
😂
@@1alsaidi319🤣 we're on our 21 year of marriage.
Even if he were to leave, he would be no different to our girls.
They have his heart forever.
The love a woman can give a man can be replaced, but the love between father and daughter can never be.
Have a wonderful day
Nikki Caz
Wow what a comment I’m speechless
Merry Christmas and a happy new year!!
Revolutionary and clever advice.
Yeah. Be good to your daughters even if the mom threatens you and does everything possible to keep you out of her life.
I just turned 30 and I've always had stuffed animals on my bed... Probably never gonna stop. There's no age limit on stuffed animals lol.
I'm 20 and I've got 2 big ones😂 i don't see the issue, they're just fun shaped pillows
Ikr that’s what I thought? Stuffies are just lovey dovey they don’t do anything 🙈
Just like there's no age limit on nostalgic stuff.
Nope!
I call them plushies now so they’re more adult lol
I love how loving and patient Dr. Phil was with her. He knew she was hurting😢
If I have a daughter I'm making sure she knows that shes special, I'm not gonna let my kid ever feel like they're less than perfect.
UltraLuke 2000 making them think they’re perfect is a terrible idea. Let her know she’s loved and doesn’t need to be perfect, for a start
I would smack them and hug them
I would just headbutt them
UltraLuke 2000 Be careful though. My husband did this with my stepdaughter and now she has diagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorder. 🤷🏻♀️
I know your intention is good, but it's not as nice as you think.
I have a teacher at my school that looks exactly like dr phill. We did the only logical thing a normal human being would do so we named him dr phill. He's an unintentional meme to it's self. Honestly, this man made me laugh so hard and he noticed and went on about how much his life is worth if he didnt make anyone laugh. Best teacher ive ever had.
I had a physics and chemistry teacher who looked like a young Albert Einstein. Even though he wasn't a particularly good teacher, he was my favourite. He looked and dressed like a real science nerd. I loved his classes.
we had a guy who looked like snoopy and dj'd but he was old asf
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I feel this on a personal level. I’ve never had a real relationship with my father, which has lead me to be very vulnerable when it comes to guys and has left me with low self-esteem. It also makes sense as to why I’m only attracted to men my fathers age. Everyone here who has a good relationship with their father, be thankful. It really is important in a girls life😣😔
If it's any consolation it's better to have no relationship than have a toxic one. That is when you end up dysfunctional.
Dora pepe you end up dysfunctional just as much if you’re flat-out abandoned.
Jesus I am a single parent to a daughter aged 9. How do I help this then 😬
Tara O' Connell I don’t know know exactly how to help, but I can say that hopefully she does have a male in her life who can be a father figure/positive male role model to her, wether that be a grandfather, uncle, friend, boyfriend, etc. When I was younger, my mom had a boyfriend who was my father figure. He showed me how I should be treated by a man and he taught me many things that my father never had an interest in taking his time to teach me. He gave me unconditional love and affection and spent time with me as much as he could and I can tell you that was an amazing time for me those years I got to have him. I will always keep those memories close to my heart and I will always remember the things he’s taught me and how he treated me. Unlike myself, I hope your daughter can have a man/men like that throughout her whole life. Unfortunately for me, I was abandoned yet again...but adults break up and that’s life. Good luck to you and your daughter.
Lots of love to you girl. I didn't have one with my father and I never realized how much it impacted me as an adult now until I went to therapy. I chose my kid's father who ended up to be like my own father. I made that mistake and my kids suffered from it.
I have awful parenting rollmodels but always thought “I’m fine” until I noticed I was really not. It does make a diference. No one is imune
identifying that is progress on it's own though, you'd be surprised how many people go through life pretending things are perfect when they aren't. the first step is always admitting your reality, the ability to look in the mirror as honestly as you can without ego and all shish, to understand your insufficiencies, is the first step to growing and overcoming those odds and becoming the person you deep-down know you're meant to be. and finding contentment in the things you can't control. we dont get to pick our parents, but we can certainly choose the way we react to things/these circumstances/etc. you're smart! (:
it kinda feels like he’s talking to me
This girl is totally adorable! Any young man would be lucky to date her!
@Vamp you sir have acquired the CHAD role
Part of the problem is she was very controlling of those boys she dated, and they got fed up with it and broke up with her. Dr. Phil and her mom point that out in another clip from this episode.
@@StealthMode3924 Because of her low self-esteem. She doesn't think she would win any competition between herself and another girl.
@@nu-agegamer3548 yes. It’s sad to hear how low she thinks of herself. Someone also has to teach her what’s right and wrong in a relationship when she’s ready for one. Controlling behaviour and major jealousy are abusive qualities. I’m not dissing her, I’m just saying she is confused partly due to her self-esteem issues and I think the other part of the problem there is that because her father isn’t in the picture and didn’t make her feel good about herself, she also didn’t have an example of a healthy and good relationship set to her by her parents in order to prepare her for one.
I really feel sorry for her. She seems like such a sweet young girl.
Let this be a lesson to all women, PICK BETTER FATHERS FOR YOUR KIDS. It's one of the most important decisions for your child you will ever make.
Thank u. Most just want anyone or thing to f them...no more thought to it.
Dumb comment XD must me a troll
Jeff Kaplan
Troll? The honesty troll?
It’s a two way street.
Some women leave good men and hold kids over them and force the child out of their lives, happens everyday. Mothers are trash too lol
she is just honest and composed unlike other teenagers who pretend to be fake know it alls and extremely rude...well i am saying that as i am a teenager myself.....thats really good♡
It's because she wants the help, not the clout. He needs more guests like her, open to help and can sit there and listen to what he's telling them 😌
She went through a lot. That forces kids to “grow up” too fast.
Bless her heart. I love how Dr. Phil treated her.
Doctor Phil, I’m 23 and I still have stuffed toys on my bed please don’t call me out like this. 😂
I have a unicorn poop pillow 😂😂
Kei Im a 61year old Granny My bedroom has all the big cat toys you can imagine They all have names they all get kissed every day I have a life size Panther on my bed and a life size Emperor Penguin I love them all Getting a Polar Bear this Crimbo Never be ashamed of them Dr Phils a guy remember his teddy bear is probably under the bed Take care my sweet Happy Christmas from a soppy Granny 🌹🎁🎄🎅😌
@@jennyperrio4887 merry Christmas to you too Jenny!
@@jennyperrio4887 you rule
He isn't
Alright I’m 24 and still have stuffed animals on my bed 😅
I'm 21 and I also have stuffed animals on my bed
I'm 21 and married and I even make my own stuffed animals😂
@@SynFlowers ooo nice touch 👌🏼 i like that
Courtney Remi I’m almost 23 and I feel like I alway will lol
@@brij5261 I mean they all look like they have some developmental issues but they're still my babies!
(I've also named my aloe plant Henry so maybe I'm the one with issues🤣)
damn im 25 and married and I still learned something from this, thanks dr Phil
I don’t feel so alone now... I know it’s because of family issues that I seem to act that way. I feel bad when I do but it puts me in a panic and ptsd (caused by family trauma) starts up right away. I feel really bad for her but she isn’t alone. 💕
Just remember your past doesn't define your future. It may not be your fault, but you need to hold yourself accountable for your actions moving forward. Once you enter dating and you become destructive, insecure, and unwilling to open up, that would be your fault. Healing takes responsibility and effort. It takes a long time, maybe even a lifetime, to heal but it is worth it when you see yourself improving. I hope things work out for you!
For real for real. That’s crazy n good to know i’m not alone either i’m glad they got a video like this out to inform people on y they might have problems
I feel for this girl. My father was extremely abusive and I've hopped from bad relationship to bad relationship in my life and it's overall mentally damaging. I hope she gets the help she needs.
How about focusing your time and energy on getting the help YOU need?