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I am always saying WE GOT THIS in real life and online. We all have our own struggles and I believe we can get through anything together. When I was diagnosed with cancer in September, I thought this was my own struggle but I realised my cancer has affected everyone around me. I am a daughter, a girlfriend, a sister, a friend, a cousin, a grand daughter & more. I know my journey has affected everyone around me and I know now more than ever that I have no choice but to get better. Whatever life throws at us, we are going to get through it together. We Got This
love you lots xxx WE GOT THIS - Jak na to + styl
hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I am so sorry for not updating straight away, I got results on Friday 4th and I just need some time to process everything. I have been so anxious & scared. I really don’t know what to say. I guess I just had a bit of hope in August that I wouldn’t need surgery but the scans have all come back different to the last time. PLEASE remember to live your life, be kind and do things that make YOU happy. I love you lots my tiffanythinks family. we got this💙
God is with you and remember we got this 💙💙💙💙
Loved Thursday vid was so busy and I’ve just caught up now.😂
Love you Tiffany 💙💙💙💙
You take the time you need honey. It's totally understandable to feel the way you do.
Take all the time you need. Much love and many prayers Tiffany Darling🙏💙
Tiff,
I was 20 years old when I got diagnosed with adenocarcinoma of the small bowel. I went in for an exploratory surgery and woke up with an ileostomy and a pretty big bowel resection. I had chemo and radiation as well. My team had the same misgivings about performing an ileostomy on a 20 year old girl. However, cancer had wrecked havoc on my family and other family members previously and we all agreed we wanted to have the surgery ASAP. I am 44 now, I am married, and was able to have 2 girls. I became a nurse after my cancer because I want to bring awareness about prevention and early intervention. Everything has a solution if you act quickly. Please do not wait. Do not be afraid of LIFE… in any way GOD gives it to you!!! WE GOT THIS!!! NOW!!!
Im 74 and my aunt had bowel and cervical cancer, i was a baby. She was in her early 20’s when she had her surgery, ileostomy and colostomy. And that was when the bags were huge rubber monstrosities, but it didn’t stop her and she lived a long active life
What a beautiful story , as an oncology
RN , I am so happy you had such a great outcome …Tiffany must take such comfort in your recovery story xoxo❤
I feel so encouraged
This is wonderful news. So happy you even have children. This is nice for Tiffany to see🦋🙏🏼💙😘
@@pamedison2881 that is amazing especially so many years ago , what a story of hope ❤
I had my stomach removed due to gastric cancer just over 2 years ago. Yes - life after surgery is different. Cancer is not a bump on the road, it is truly a fork and things are never as they were before the surgery. I had to grieve the person I was before, before I could begin to rebuild and celebrate the person I am now. I am of course, profoundly grateful to be alive, but there is no understating the difficulties. It would dishonor the journey to minimize how very difficult it all was. Today, I am healthier than before the cancer. I am going to the gym and rebuilding my strength. I am stronger in so many ways than before the surgery. Embrace every moment. Process your grief, your fear and your anger and get through. Prayers to you.
Glad things have worked out for you.
Gosh. I can't even imagine. I love how you said that it would dishonour the journey to dismiss how difficult it was. All the best to you for your future. 🥰🇭🇲
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So glad you’re better. Bless your heart ❤️
So very well stated. Prayers for you as you continue to recover, discover and define the new normal for you..❤🧡💛
I had this surgery in 2004, I was 40 years old. It took 3 surgeons 12 hours. The blessing is that you will get through this. I made the decision to live and enjoy life.
@@Truth1561 very good suggestions “typed up report”. she needs to see that!
@@Truth1561 I couldn't agree more with you. These smoke and mirrors feel like they are playing Russian Roulette with her life. I don't understand all the delays either. There should be a clear plan of action that reflects the urgency to remove this cancer.
@@Truth1561 I feel like they come out of the meeting trying to shut out the bad parts, but pick out any positive.
As to questions, my physician brother said to remind you Tiffany that answering all your questions IS your medical team’s JOB. You are never bothering anyone. He says it’s only wisdom to be wanting to know every aspect of your status!!! He is pulling for you all the way!!
I sure hope she reads this! I have also told her the same thing she should never ever worry about being a bother that's silly at the end of the day this is her life and she needs to advocate for herself. If you don't ask questions with any situation in life you will always wonder the what when and how you know? Your brother gave great advice!!!
Oh my sweet Tiffany. I can’t imagine your anxiety! Please know that you and your beautiful family and partner are never far from my mind. Matt made a wonderful point! Even though it’s not the news we hoped for, but it wasn’t the worst news. As Matt said, the dr cldve said it’s grown and there’s nothing more we can do! There are still options for you!! I’m so very grateful for that! You have the most amazing support system. Your family, Matt and us all over the world all sending positive energy, love and prayers to you. We love you so very much. On a side note, as much as you want to spare precious AMMA by not telling her everything, trust me when I tell you, she knows…As mothers, we just know. She also knows that when all is done that you’re gonna be ok! Her faith can move mountains!! Continue to focus on the beauty of life. You’re so strong and so so loved! Everything is going to be ok!! Love to you all!!!
Yes, I agree. The medical team is the ONLY one who can answer her tough questions.
As a nurse, I 100% agree…..
Nice! Hopefully Tiffany sees this and thanks 👍💓
Thank you for letting us know. You have the support of over 79,000 virtual family members. Sending you all my love ❤
Exactly, we are all here. Praying for you and sending you the best wishes. Please don’t forget that.
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Tiffany.....do what you need. Eat as much as you can..put on weight to help you through the surgery.
Thank the Lord the Drs have a plan for your future! I'm praying for you!! Claire from NZ
Yes I have and still am praying for you and your family💙♥️ Go girl You Got This
One little thing we can do is help get Tiffany to 100K. She deserves that silver plaque. I know it's not the most important thing right now, but I think it would make her smile:)
Hi Tiffany, I was 33 when they found my cancer in the bowel. I had surgery and had a colostomy done. Then had radiation I chose not to have chemo I felt it didn't fit for me. I have a awesome family and hubby . I am now 57 and I have traveled all around the world and have a wonderful life , cancer doesn't define who I am and my body is what it is and it's a reminder I am alive and happy. All our love ❤ Shar and family.
I found you when I too was diagnosed with colon cancer around the same time as you and came to the internet for support, help and information and just to find someone who might be going through the same thing. I'm just here crying watching this and knowing the fear you are feeling. You ARE stronger than you even know! But this is not an easy journey. Let yourself cry and please lean on your wonderful support system. Amma and Matt are there for YOU! They love you and can handle it! One day at a time sweet girl 💙💙 WE GOT THIS! GODS got you!
I hope you are ok and have support also.
Awww I’m so sorry that you’re going through this too 💙 breaks my heart. It’s not an easy journey but we will fight this. I’m ALWAYS here for you, so if you need anything - please let me know. I hope you’re okay. we got this💙 together xxxxx I love you my darling
Tiffany my girlfriends husband had this type of surgery 5 years ago and is still doing well. He was actually her boyfriend back then, the surgery allowed them to have a future! Your future may look different then you expected, but with all the loving support of friends, family and your u-tube family, you’ve got this! So many of us are praying for you!
Btw: Your gnome is so cute, I really like him.
Amen. At least you will be alive and can adjust. You GOT this!!💙💙💙💙✝️🙏
@@bethann3016 exactly my thoughts, I know there was a bit of hope there would be no surgery but at the end of the day, I know it's really upsetting and life after will be so different but at the end of it Tiffany will be alive and be able to live a somewhat more normal life than she is now without cancer and that is the main thing that whatever it takes she is alive and gets to be cancer free. She is strong and I am sure she will get through this and adjust with time💙 that being said I know it's extremely hard for her and I can't imagine what she's going through
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Your Matt is a gem, level headed and practical with no false sentimentality. You are so lucky to have him by your side.
I hope you live the rest of your life
We love matt
So true, you are so blessed MATT rocks, lean on him he’s your anchor
@@d.o.y.vcaninebehaviour.hea1558 Same... We love Matt too.
Ah Tiffany, it wasn't what you or anyone else wanted to hear but like you said it is what it is. I was 29 when I had a huge neurosurgery operation lasting just over 12 hours. The week leading up to it was very stressful. But like you, I had no choice. My little boy was only a year old. I was in a brain injury rehab hospital for 7 months after surgery & had to learn to do everything again. Walking was a huge milestone that happened months down the track after a lot of hard work, but there were many other milestones just as big along the way. I never really thought I'd be well enough to return to work or look after my little boy on my own again but I did.
Everything I've done since then is a bonus. That Neuro team gave me my life back. They were the most incredibly dedicated men & women I've ever met.
Right now I'm sure you don't want to think about how you will be after surgery. It's life altering & very difficult to go into when you can't physically see something on the outside that needs such radical treatment. I kept thinking they'd realize during the surgery that I didn't really need to be there & I'd wake up & go home! But I did need it & in my case if I had waited even a few more days the outcome would've been very different. That's what kept me going every single day. I'd been given a second chance. My sister flew over to be with me & became my lifeline. She looked after my son & came to see me 4 times week, every week. I was a single mum, living in a country thousands of miles from my family and it was the hardest thing I've ever done. If I can do it, anyone can.
You have the best attitude of anyone I've ever seen, you are like a hand of steel in a silk glove. And you have an incredible support team ♥️. You know this will be difficult but you are not on this journey alone. You have yet to meet the inspirational people that will work so hard to get you back fighting fit again. You WILL get there! Sending you love, compassion, understanding and lots & lots of hugs 🤗
You've definitely GOT THIS! ✔️✔️✔️
A LOVELY, encouraging message. Thank you for sharing! ❤️❤️
Bravo for this beautiful account of your experiences; You are very strong and inspiring! Take care!
Elizabeth Gregory: You are one of the amazing inspirational people of the "Tiffanythinks family" that is sharing and giving hope to her and so many others. Thank you,blessings, love and light to you and your loved ones.
@elizabethgregory what a beautiful story - and so encouraging for Tiffany. She is at one of the best centres in the world so I would hope that the doctors do know what they are doing and why. We have probably not been told everything- we just have to support Tiffany as well as we can - though I agree she needs strong advocates which Eloise and Matt are. She will have a nurse allocated to her whom she can ring at any time to ask whatever she wants.
Elizabeth you are truly amazing. I pray that Tiffany reads this. I don't think many people would have got through what you did and a baby to worry about. You are an inspiration. Love to you and your son. xx
Waiting over nine weeks no treatment was was wrong decision should've had surgery back then now you have new growth hopefully they will be able remove the tumor Tiffany.
I'm so relieved you can still have the surgery! My mom had rectal cancer and was told surgery was not an option, so that is wonderful news that you can get rid of this cancer! My moms advice was just live in the moment and do what needs to be done for that day, and try not to let your mind go to the next day. Take it one day at a time. I'm reminded when you first found out you had cancer, the picture of Jesus fell out of yoyr Bible. I believe he was showing you he is with you through this process. Hang onto your faith in God and the Love of family to get you through this as I know you are. You Got this, but most importantly, God's got YOU!
Look
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Kendra: I am going through a hard time and your message resonated so much today. I made a screen shot as a reminder to take it one day at a time and God will carry me.
Hi Kendra!!
I was surprised to see your comment because this was the comment I gave for her when she shared her story..
Hi Tiffany !!
I have been following for a while..when you told Jesus pic fell down ..what stood out to me is ..he is promising you that the struggle which your going to face I am going to be with you….
Happy to see the confirmation from God..
Tiffany you got this and God is with you..
By his stripes she is healed if - just believe that in your heart, declare it with your mouth. ❤️
Just remember, you are NOT alone in this. We are ALL here for you and praying for a speedy recovery.
I would NOT be waiting until the end of the year for biopsy and surgery! I would push back for MUCH sooner!
Dear Tiffany, take a step back and look at what you just shared with us. You got some very hard news, but within hours, you, your sister and your Matt were rallying, dusting yourself off and talking about getting yourself stronger for this next step in your battle...another step....tick, tick, tick. We got this! 💙🙏💙🙏💙
Much love from Indiana, 🇺🇸
Matt is amazing and so level headed and what a great partner! Sending you hugs and strength Tiffany and WE GOT THIS!!
Hi Tiffany I'm so happy to hear that the Cancer has not spread and you're still operable!
I just wanted to let you know that I started watching your cancer journey before cancer touched my life at all. Within the time I started watching you my brother and I were diagnosed with different cancers both in our 20s!! I truly feel like you were put in my life for a reason. I felt so prepared and knew what to expect because I had been watching your journey 💙. I have a biopsy tomorrow under general anesthesia to find out what kind of lymphoma I have. I am so scared for the anesthesia because I have never had any surgery before. I wish I had someone like you as a friend in real life, nobody really understands what I am going through.
My brother is cancer free now after kidney surgery.
I am praying so hard for you!! We are here for you!!
Love from Canada... I know we will get through this
I hope your biopsy goes well tomorrow ❤
Sending you best wishes and good luck for tomorrow. 💖💖💖
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I am sending prayers and well wishes to you. I know so many people who have been through or are going through cancer treatments. They have been through a lot but they are all survivors and beating it and you will too. Stay strong and reach out if you need to talk.
Sending you prayers
Please, please, please, PLEASE! SEEK OUT A THERAPIST!
What you are going through is incredibly difficult and traumatizing. Having someone to work this out with is so important! Please do this for your mental health!!
Excellent advice!
Your Mama did such a wonderful job raising you two girls. You are both such a credit to her. I’m so happy that the cancer is still operable and hasn’t spread. Life will be challenging after surgery for a while, but with your determination and optimism and Matt and Amma and your extended family you can live a long, rewarding and fulfilling life. There will be professionals and services there to support you. I’ve watched your long journey with heartfelt hope. Bless you, Tiffany. Stay strong but lean on your loved ones and us when you need to. Love from Sydney 💙💙
I interpreted from this that it had come back ?
Tiffany, even though surgery may change some physical attributes, it does not have to change who you are. You are embraced because of your positivity and love for others and life.
When the cancer is gone and you have recovered, you will still be Tiffany- able to love and enjoy life. 💙
Matt is such a sensible guy.
What a blessing to have him.
Mat is definitely God send.God bless you both 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am much older than you (my daughter is older than you), and this summer I had surgery for breast cancer. I was in surgery for 10 hours. I am doing well and my surgeons say they are pleased. You are young, strong, and have more courage than I have. You CAN do this! Please keep us posted if you are able. Everyone really cares.
You are incredible and such an inspiration. Stay strong for this final hurdle - all 79,000 of us are cheering you across the finish line!
I am loving all these stories of recovery from cancer. Darling Tiffany, my friend's father had complex surgery for bowel cancer when he was 68 ... There were many concerns, not least because of his age. He lived to be 98. You've got this... We've got this! 💕💕💕
Wow great news about his story living to be 98!! That sure gives us all hope!! I pray Tiffany reads this!!💙♥️💋🙏🙏💙
@@debbielibby8036 I hope she takes comfort from all the amazing stories. I know she's had to put up with some horrible comments lately.... God only knows who would do that. 😠
Tiff, you are without a doubt one of the bravest people I’ve ever met in all my 61 years. Your positivity and amazing personality shines through in every video, no matter what this vile disease throws at you. If anyone can beat this, it will be you. Sending love xxx
I agree with you 100 %. I know for a fact i couldnt do it, im the biggest weakling in the world, i crumble into a huge puddle of tears the instant anything rough happens around me.
I am 61 also and she inspires me 🙏
She’s so amazing! So brave!
***To the comments about just taking out the cancer at time of biopsy: It's more complicated than that. It does not take a team of 5+ surgeons to do a biopsy that are needed for the main surgery. The team of surgeons for the oncological surgery would consist of: Anesthesiology, Urology, Genecology, Gastro, Rectal and myriad OR nurses and assistants. It is a huge, complex surgery and lasts many hours.
tiffany dont tell yourself you have to be happy about the surgery it's a life changing one with a hard recovery and you're simultaneously mourning the life you had pre cancer and the future you could've had without it your feelings are valid you can be sad and still know it's for the best
This comment. It's a massive, life-altering surgery. I can't imagine trying to come to terms with a completely different life, filled with medical uncertainty. She's being so brave and it's commendable.
Hugs our Tiffany you take care of you honey and take as long as you need to process it's a lot to choke down all at once. For those how care about you, we will be waiting for you and your family to process everything you guys were told. We are sending you are love and I wished we could reach through my phone and hug you so softly. I feel speechless. Hugs from Michigan.
Can I ask why the recovery is so long? X
@@bellaaldridge3986 probably because they are taking out organs from her body. And not just one - a number.
@@SS-yu6xt ohh ok s
Please all, let's be supportive and carefully think about what we say because this is a brutal time for Tiffany and, IMHO, being positive and being supportive is the best way to help her and yourself be a better person. Armchair comments and judgment calls are really not helpful and can be really harmful. Let's show some real love for her bravery and her compassion. All of us need love and a great way to get it - is to give it.
I agree yes. Please be thoughtful ❤
Have you seriously seen people being horrible to her at a time like this? Why in the world would anybody be nasty to Tiffany, especially now with all shes going thru? Unless they are truley evil! I just cant imagine! I havent read all the comments, but everyone i read was very supportive, im assuming if she did have negative comments from evil trolls they must of been deleted by family members so she wouldnt see them.
@@puntinprincess7343 She's made a couple of videos on this. From Tiffany herself. I don't recall the ones but they were recent.
Agreed!!
Enough on her plate
Definitely xxxwell said
My heart sank after watching the last few moments of this update. Tiff, our focus now is to eat super healthy and high calorie foods to be in the best shape and form for surgery. Did some research for you. Please eat the following for weight gain:
1. Avocadoes
2. Eggs
3. Cheese
4. Chickpeas
5. Brown rice
6. Quinoa
7. Whole wheat breads
8. Lots and lots of water
Having your sister there makes it so much clearer. She clarified things even when you were still confused she explained.
I have no idea how you manage youtube and dealing with all this. You are an incredible lady. I have been thinking of you since Thursday, wondering how it went, worried as there was no celebratory insta post. So glad you had your sister and Matt there to help you process and take in the info and Mum around too. You can do this Tiffany, so much to look forward to, just a very tough bit to get through first but if anyone can do it, it’s you! We are all here 100% please continue to shine like the bright star that you are and stay strong. We need you Tiffany! Get the Xmas decks up so you can recover with sparkle all around you ☑️☑️☑️Big huge love to you and your wonderful family ❤️xxx
Hi, Tiffany. Well, all I can think of to say is that you have a HUGE support group that is going to be loving you through this. And having Matt plus your incredible family right there will strengthen you.
I was in my early 20s when I had an accident that completely changed my life. I'm now 54 and still living with the results of that accident. It becomes a part of you after a while and you won't remember what it was like to live before the surgery. A different life doesn't mean a bad life. You will adapt and you will thrive. I promise.❤🤗
Love you Tiffany. One day 50 years from now this will all be a memory. You will tell you grandchildren about it.
I can see Tiff next year around this time with her beautiful smile being so excited for Christmas. Letting us all know she is feeling great and even though it will be a challenging journey her bright light will shine and life will be hers. We got this! 💙
It's good that the surgery will happen. That's what you were wanting from the beginning. Now work on your physical strength and get your body ready for the surgery. This is good news. You've absolutely got this 💙
Hi Tiffany. Sorry the news wasn't what we had all wished for. The tumour may have reared its ugly head again but the positive is it hasn't spread. You have some challenges ahead but you'll rise up to meet them -
Biopsy ☑️☑️☑️
Surgery ☑️☑️☑️
Post Op life ☑️☑️☑️
Cancer's ass kicked ☑️☑️☑️ Remember you won't be alone because you've got Matt, Amma, the rest of your family plus over 79,000 in your support network.
WE GOT THIS
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Hey Tiffany!! My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. But you got this girl! Life may be very different after the surgery, but thank God, you will still have life! We have been with you during this cancer journey, and we will continue to be there for you after the surgery. Your support system (Ama, Matt, your sister and the rest of the family) is amazing! So I would encourage you to have a good cry, and then take one day at a time ! I constantly pray for you Tiffany and will continue to do so - before, during and after the surgery! WE GOT THIS - God is still in control!
Tiffany I am going to be brutally honest. Get it removed. I saw the same song and dance with my mother till the doctor waltzed in and said "get you affairs in order, you have max a month to live" I know it is harsh but you have to be laser focused on saving your life. You are such a doll of a human being. Remember you are just another folder on their desks and this is your life. Much love and you got this.
Well said! 👍 thanks
Ouch , you are only another folder comment Zgirl . Harsh thinking. I
Understandably know this is our frustration. Doctors due care !
@@Robsav-yx6vi Do they? Some for sure. But at the end of the day they answer to the hospitals they work for, government policies, insurance companies and big pharm. They really aren't "practicing" medicine. They are told what procedures to do, who is a good risk, etc. Sprinkle in a good dose of they are only human and they sometimes don't know it all. The advise I gave was sound. Her life is precious and removing the cancer should be the focus. As for the folder comment that was said to me by the lead nurse of my mother's oncologist. My mother has been gone 30 years. I miss her everyday. I doubt her doctor has thought of her once. She was just another case.
You are absolutely right. I would not mess around with this song and dance drama. I had part of my bowel removed and ended up with a colostomy at 22! It saved my life.
God bless & be with you sweetheart ❤ You are stronger than you know, as a former oncology nurse, I know what you’ve been through already & you are incredibly strong & brave. People like you, are my heroes, the ones I look up to & greatly respect. Cancer patients walk thru their very own private hells to come out on top, & you’ve got this sweetheart, I believe with my whole heart you will absolutely beat this. Much love & many many prayers . Now go & kick the sh ** outta cancer Tiffany! 🙏🙏❤️❤️💜💜
Well said.
I couldn’t of said it any better. I agree with you 100%! You got this Tiffany! 🤗❤️
Life after surgery is going to be LIFE !!! I’m sorry you are going through all of this. But I am happy you get the chance to have life saving surgery. You got this beautiful Tiffany❤
This is right for you! This surgery is opening up a future for you to embrace. We all love you.❤
remember the time when you desperately wanted the surgery to remove the cancer. I think the past couple of months when you thought you wouldn't need it has set you back emotionaly. Just remember how much you want the cancer gone and take it one step at a time. I can't imagine how frightened you are but I'm sure you're going to be fine. Your young, strong and have a great support network with Matt and your family. The next couple of months are going to be so tough on you all bu then you'll start the road to recovery - cancer free. You've got this Tiff xxx
Build yourself up Tiffany for the operation. You are always in my prayers.
My precious Tiffany: I wish so much I could wrap you in a big comforting hug and take away your worry. I know this was not the news you were hoping for, but you appear to have a wonderful surgeon and your support system is so good. While we cannot take away your pain, please know that you are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers. WE'VE GOT THIS!!! We love you so much.
My friend at 26 went through almost your same journey. Had the surgery and is now 43 with a new baby. We got this Tiffany!
I guess I don’t understand, why are they making you wait AGAIN? They made u wait so long already and it come back and is growing.
Why can’t they get u in for surgery asap ?
I mean no disrespect, I’m just concerned. Cancer (especially in that area) grows very fast.
Are you able to tell them you don’t want to wait??
Please consider talking to your surgeon asap.
Sending Love 💜
I've read that prep for this surgery is 30 days. Among other things she needs to get her body strong for the surgery by gaining weight and muscle.
Matt is absolutely brilliant and he will love making sure you have all the yummy food and fun strengthening you need before the surgery. It is so much information but you all did so well talking about it together in the car, helping each other see the positive and allowing your CZcams family to send you all so much love and support!!! You can go buy lots of cozy socks and jumpers for afterwards too! Your being scared is what any of us would feel and you can count on all of us around the world to send you love and light everyday! 🙏🏻💖💜💙💙💙💙💙💙
Gorgeous words my dear…
You deserve to feel everything…gratitude, sorrow, confusion, etc.
I could see how strong you were being for your family. As you’ve said, the surgery will be life altering, so you deserve to grieve the body you have known before you accept the body you‘ll be in post-surgery. Sending prayers for strength, peace, love, and faith. 🙏🏻 ❤💙
Aww big hugs to you! My sister had the surgery and she had stage 4 colorectal cancer. She is almost 12 years cancer free, works full time as a nurse, yes she has a colostomy bag. She can do everything she did before Cancer and has a wonderful life! Don’t think the worst yet, we got this 💙
That’s amazing 🙏 I hope Tiffany sees this comment ♥️
That's fantastic, I'm so pleased for your sister! Hope Tiffany sees this and thanks 👍💓
I’m so sorry you didn’t get the results you were hoping for. You are so strong and inspirational. I had a major bowel resection six weeks ago if ever you want to talk x
I pray you are recovering well .
@@janemiller7568 thanks x
I saw the titel and had tears in my eyes. I never cry for a youtuber. You are so special and strong Tiffany. You got this!
Not going to lie, I’m gutted for you Tiffany. However, you have the best people around you to get you through this surgery.
We got this 💙
I feel the same way, utterly gutted hearing the news today. Not going to lie, I had a gut feeling that her tumor was growing this entire time.
@@susansuarez8954 I found it so weird when her cancer went from being too big to operate on to suddenly being gone. I can't believe her doctor told her to wait and see what happens 😔
@@cheryl2912 I did too! I was shaking my head in confusion! Like how could this happen to her? I really feel like her doctor was just figuring things out as he went along and not really knowing exactly what to do so he chose to wait & see? Now look what happened to poor Tiffany, I'm literally crying for her because the wait & see was the worst thing she could do & she followed what the doctor said when an overwhelming amount of doctors, nurses, specialists were telling her NOT to wait & to have the surgery ASAP! I'm so glad that her cancer didn't spread cuz I don't know if I could handle that. It's bad enough that the tumor grew but I'm so thankful that at least she can still have it removed! She really needs to talk to a Therapist because this is gonna throw her for a loop & she just might start to regret listening to the doctor now. She has been put under so many times & I don't know why this doctor wants to do yet another biopsy then surgery because if she has to go through what she went through the last time that's gonna be so hard on her body & then she has to recover from that & have a 12 hr surgery? How on earth is she going to survive that? I think it's going to be too much for her. I am praying for her so much, everyday I pray for her to be ok.
@@susansuarez8954 I completely agree with you. I wish she had listened to the wise voices of experience from all the health professionals and patients that have dealt with this cancer instead of blindly following this wait and see approach which led to tumor growth.
The poor thing. I am so sad, as well. I agree that putting her thru another biopsy.. the last one didn’t even work, and then a major surgery is really odd. What could the biopsy show… that she doesn’t need surgery? She needs surgery… get the surgery. With the snails pace of all of these docs, it’ll be several months before they can get all 4 specialists in one place. She needs to schedule it now and skip the biopsy and eat to her hearts content! Get stronger! ❌⭕️
You do have this Tiffany, you really do. And in times like this when you feel like you don’t, we will remind you ❤
Tiffany, know that we are all praying for you! Hopefully everything will be great after the surgery. Just try to smile knowing how many people love you!
Darling girl, hearing about treatment going forward in more or less concrete terms was probably quite a sobering thing. And, I think I heard Matt say this, the good news is that there are still treatments available. This will certainly be a defining point in your life and we all love and support you to the utmost.
I am so sorry you are going through this. But, baffled as to why the Doctor's have been so slow to do surgery. Waiting only lessened the chance to be able to do the surgery?! The confusing part now is doing another difficult biopsy before surgery? And why are they waiting 2 months to do the surgery? I'm sorry, my head is swirling with questions that you probably don't even know...
So sorry the tumour is back 😪Sending lots of strength , love and prayers ❤ it may not feel like it right now, but we got this ❤
Sorry to hear the tumor has grown, I remember the plan is basically the same. You're still able to get surgery. Yes, life will be difficult and different after surgery but you will have a life after surgery and that's what's important.
Be thankful that it is operable. Many people hear that their cancer is inoperable and yours isn't and a different life than what you have now is better than no life.
Stay strong. We got this 💙💙💙💙
@@franklinstephen3268 this isn't a dating website. If you are not here to support Tiffany then get off this site.
I’m afraid the doctor keeps moving the surgery date until it is inoperable. Remember he was the only surgeon who will do this for her. Maybe he doesn’t think he can anymore.
Bless you Tiffany im so sorry youre having to go through this. You have absolutely GOT this and we are all here for you every step of the way xx
The positive in all this is not only that now you have answers, but there is something that can be done. I understand that it's a lot to take in, but soon this will be all over with. The pain from surgery will not last forever and you will be up and running in no time. You've got this Tiffany! And we will be here with you and praying for you throughout the whole process! We love you. Big hugs from Nashville, Tennessee!
You are the definition of a pillar of strength! We are here for you! Sending so much love your way ❤
I stick with my initial opinion you should have had that surgery since day one they offered it to you. I know is not my position or my decision but if i had something bas as Cancer in my body and they want to take it out i would definetely take it out the sooner the better wasting no time and preventing from getting bigger or spreading
I’m so sorry it’s not the news you wanted Tiffany, but we will all support you through this. One step at a time. Give yourself that time to grieve and get ready for that last push ahead! Many people are able to lead successful happy lives with the adjustments after surgery. You’ve got this ♥️
We're all here with you Tiffany. It's positive they can do the surgery, you're young and strong, we got this!!
Matt and your sister speaking some positive words to you Tiffany is the sweetest thing ever 🥺 we truly got this since we as your internet family are all in this journey with you. We got this 🫂
Beautiful Tiffany, I am sorry to hear about what a difficult path you will be on for the next year with the complicated surgery and long recovery. Please know that there will be prayers surrounding you from all around the world. You are such a bright light for so many others like myself who are fighting cancer. Cry when you need to, smile when you can, and always remember how very much you are loved. 💙
Watching this video brought me this awful feeling in my chest of anxiety 😓because I can see your nerves and I remember exactly how I felt every time my mom had a scan, every appointment... It is the worst feeling ever, and even now that my mom has passed away, I still can remember it and I just want to hug you so tight. YOU GOT THIS! I know you do❤
we so got this tiff, life will be a bit different recovering from surgery but it will feel so so so so good to know it is finally out of you, it'll be a weight off your shoulders and you'll be able to put your mental energy fully into your recovery
Sending you so much love and prayers Tiffany. I am so sorry for all that news! So glad you have such a loving and supportive family. You got this💙
Beautiful Tiffany, your light shines so bright that cancer doesn’t stand a chance against you. ❤
I don;t usually comment on you tube, but I have been following your journey for the past few months, and I find your bravery inspirational. I find it also gives others hope, as well as others that comment here who give you hope, if that all makes sense? In many ways you are a big family. For Matt. As a person living in Ireland, you can be proud of the way that you support and love Tiffany during this difficult time, you do it in such a gentle but strong way, and that's what she needs at this moment, as cancer affects everyone, not just those associated with the actual prognosis. Tiffany you have so many people in your corner, with a wonderful extended family. We can only hope and pray that all will be well for you, so I will light a candle for you so that you know you are loved and supported. Try and keep the head up as best you can, but know its ok to feel a bit low too. You got this
That is why you should have people with you at appointments, it is hard to take everything in and you have extra set of ears. Praying for you always. You got this!! 💙💙💙💙
Tiffany you have not left my thoughts over the last few days, thank you so much for sharing this news with us. You are surrounded by love and as always, WE GOT THIS! 💙💙💙
Tiffany, I love your attitude! I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer at 44 almost 12 years ago, had a 10 hours surgery and I am so grateful that I am still alive. You have so much to fight for and a wonderful family to support you. You got this! Take care of your self, eat well, exercise and prepare por the surgery because the recovery if brutal but worded! I will be praying for you and your love ones.
Hello 👋how are you doing?
To see you cry breaks my heart ! You are strong and beautiful, I pray for complete healing ❤️🩹 love you Tiffany !
Praying for you Tiffany you’re so strong I have cancer too and you give me so much strength and hope ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Dear Tiffany, I can't even imagine how bad you are feeling right now. I'm so sorry for you, and seeing you that upset is really hard.Take your time, write your bullet journal to clear your thoughts - that is what always helps me the most. And hey! Your surgeon is going to remove THIS. Please, enjoy your favorite time of the year (it is mine too), make your place the coziest ever, and feel save and warm. You are in my thoughts and prayers (and all of you struggling with your health). All the best to all of you.We got this !
Tiffany, I hope you realize what a huge difference you're making in this world. My son-in-law has been quite unwell for months but he's been too stuborn to take time off work to get himself checked properly with the doctor. He's lost over 50 pounds since this all began. A few weeks ago his body finally took the desision out of his hands when he became desperatly ill and in agony while at work.(he's always at work) He still refused to let his co-worker take him to hospital until their job was done. He just lay down in the truck until quitting time, but at least he finally went.
They have it narrowed down to two things. It's either crohns or colon cancer. Obviously, we're hoping for crohns.
I've been following you since your cancer journey began and I'm so very grateful to you for sharing all this. It's comforting to know what may lie ahead if the tests don't give us the answer we're hoping for.
Sweet, beautiful, fierce, strong Tiffany ❤️.... in this earthly life we aren't provided reasons for why certain experiences come our way, nor insight into our future. That can be thrilling at times, and other times not so much. When it's the not so much times, those are the times we most require radical acceptance and faith that whatever lies ahead and whatever the reason may be to be experiencing such difficult things, what IS in our control is where we place our energy and focus in the period of time before we get to know the outcome.
That is easier said than done, especially during such previously unthinkable challenges. Yet 18 months ago you had no idea what laid ahead of you and likely would not have thought you could handle what was coming your way.
I hope you are so proud of how you have come through the past 12 months since diagnosis and that first chemotherapy session. You did that. YOU. You had no idea why this was happening, nor what the result would be in the future.
I truly want you (and your Matt, mum, sister and family) to remember that you've all become different people, a different family than before diagnosis. You did that all together, with faith in you Tiffany, in doctors/health team, in your family solidarity and commitment to face these challenges together as the strong family you are.
Whatever this next chapter is, you have one another and your love and solidarity is truly magical. These are some of the beautiful things that even something as insidious as cancer can bring, when a family are willing to create a circle of protection and support to one of their own who needs it so much.
I hope every calorie you eat fattens you up and tastes so delicious. I hope each walk you take to get strong for this next phase of your journey brings flowers to smell on the way, the cutest dogs ever crossing your path, glorious sunshine and the crispest fresh air your lungs could ever want.
Focus on your body and strength of body, mind and spirit as you also embrace the joy that Christmas gives you. Relish each moment and indulge yourself in any way you like. That is medicine better than anything in a tablet. Then you'll be so ready for that surgeon to get this out of your body and your recovery and healing can begin.
Sending so much love and light to you from Canada. You DO got this💙
Beautifully said ❤️❤️ from 🇨🇦 here too
I’m so glad you have such strong support. You are so loved
Tiffany once you get rid of cancer it will be a new challenge & a new beginning for life. You can do this. We love you. ! You got this. Much prayers. Strong girl! 💙🦋🦋🦋
Tiffany. I also have an odd case. I had a pancreatic tumor at age 20 and they had to do a Whipple procedure. Not only was mine benign, but also I was very very young at the time. So, now, all of my issues related to the surgery are not really known about. Usually people develop it at a much older age.
You are strong! We are praying for you!
Much love!!!
My heart sank when you told us what the surgeon has said about your results . You need to look after yourself.
It's amazing that Ann-Marie Buckley has reached out to you, to prove there is definitely life after surgery. To talk to someone who has had lots of surgery, possibly similar, you can ask all sorts of question.
More of Matts cooking, cakes and anything yummy. Go for it.
Stop this horrible thing in its tracks. You're a fighter and we are all with you! X
It's good you have so many people to support you, and of course your wonderful mom, you are so blessed to have her. :) It's going to suck, and I say that because my husband has gone through two stage 4 cancers, the last one was throat cancer, and had a 13 hour surgery to make a new throat. But that was a year ago, and so far so good, you are young and will heal fast, you really got this! :)
1.5 months more waiting for a growing tumor surgery ? I am having a hard time understanding.
Also Matt said they sounded like they will do the surgery so does this mean they might not do the surgery ?
Some doctor here might explain better maybe.
How about your lungs ? Did it show up on PET scan ? ❤
This is what made me move back to the USA from the uk. I'd be dead if I waited on the long wait times in the uk. It's horrifying!
it shouldn't be 1.5months (im hoping beginning or mid of December)... I have to have another examination under anaesthetic (my surgeon will do this) and then its most likely surgery. The surgery is a lot (removing and reconstructing) so I need 4 surgeons (colorectal, gynaecologist, urologist & plastic surgeon) to be ready at the same time. Lungs are fine - they are still monitoring 💙
Thank you for clarifying Tiffany❤
@@tiffanythinks Thank you Dear. We love you and Pray for you. 😘💜🙏🏼🧿
I saw that you watched Emily Hayward’s channel and you remind me of her positivity and strength. She once said that she wouldn’t of changed her life because she loved the one she was living and had her soulmate and amazing support system. She said she would rather live a shorter life than one not with the love of her life. You will have a long life because of the surgery even though it is daunting you have so many people who love and care for you! It’s just one more huge TIC TIC!! we all are here for you
So so sorry sweet girl. And I’m so proud of the Tiffany family for being kind in the comments. Bless you
Sending healing prayers Darling Tiffany
WE GOT THIS 🙏❤️🥰
He’s going to do another biopsy but the issue with that is a tumor can grow 1 millimeter away from the area he biopsies. The scans show a more complete picture. They need to get it out ASAP, waiting shouldn’t be an issue. Why do patients have to wait so long in England? I’ll never understand. I’m a dual citizen with family there and they’ve had to wait months to be seen for suspicious pains. Praying for you sweet girl - please stand up for yourself. 💙we got this💙
I thought you were supposed to be seen in two weeks; and, if not, back to the GP.
@@daffodil9075 you’re right; when I lived there for 8 years and had something pop up, there was a two week ‘rule’ that you’d get in to see a specialist. I’d imagine with cancer surgery it would/should be the same.
Sending so much love and positive energy your way Tiffany. You've got this! 💕
Tiffany you are such a beautiful person, and I hate you have to go through this. Thank God for Matt and your family. Bless you!
You are amazing and your way of dealing with your hardships is inspirational. I know this must be extremely difficult to share but I hope you never stop. I don’t have cancer but 2022 has been the hardest year of my life. I lost a baby, found out my son might have autism and lost my grandfather. Although my struggles are different watching you overcome your battles has left me feeling like I can do the same. I just bought a “We got this’ sweater so I can wear it to all my future hospital/doctors visits with my son.
I know the surprising news of the wait and see approach left you feeling like you might be cancer free. And getting this news even though could be expected at some point was extra shocking. I know you got this ♥️ You can do hard things!
So much love from the East Coast of Canada 🇨🇦 ❤
Darling sweet Tiffany, THANK YOU for updating us… I know how scared and overwhelmed you are but I felt such positivity as I was watching 🙏🏻I just felt this was the best news, no spread, and finally getting it out ( of course with long life changing surgeries/recovery) but the cancer gone, the constant worry and threat gone… you can do this Tiffany, you have an incredible family, your faith and all of us behind you … YOU’VE GOT THiS ✅ ✅✅ ps…. And a Christmas gonk that won’t sit up!!!🤣
Well said 😃
Ah Tiff, I am sorry to hear this news. Have to say I am a bit annoyed with your doctors... they put you through that second attempt of biopsy when they could have seen from scans tumour had grown and waited for your surgeon. I remember them saying from day 1 that chemo/radiotherapy alone wouldn't be curative. I feel as though they got your hopes up. Let's now get this cancer out so you can live your best life, albeit with a few new challenges. Your strength and positivity is admirable. We got this! 💙💙💙
Hi Tiff, I am reading all of these amazing uplifting comments! I cant believe how much you have come into our lives! We love you! What a geat love that you have built through video and internet! How crazy!! You have been able to touch our hearts and make us your friends no matter where or who we are. What an angel you are! A true messanger of love! You will get 'through this' surgery and move on to a fulfilling life! We know it!!! You will!!! Enjoy these next two months like crazy so that you have lots of memories and joy to think about as you heal. Love love love
Tiffany, I can't tell how happy I am for you to have such an amazing support system, you have a great family. 💙 I am praying for your recovery, we've got this!! 💙
I am confident that you are going to get through this , eat up , drink up and know that all of us are on this journey with you ❤
I am so happy to see you so very positive I love seeing you like this how good it was to have your sister this time 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Hi Tiffany. Wow, my hat goes off to you, as you still take the time to share the update with your wonderful Tiffany Thinks family, thank you. We appreciate that so much, you are inspiring and we are all with you through it all😘. So pleased you have your preferred surgeon, it is such a blessing to be backed by a great medical team that you feel comfortable with. This is another hurdle, which you can get over, time and time again, you have showed your amazing strength. keep your positive thoughts and take time for yourself. Don't push yourself, we will all be here when you are ready to edit and upload. You got this, we got this.💜💙 Sending huge hugs and lots of love your way and of course to Amma, Matt and Elodie. PS love your Christmas gnome door stop "alot alot" 😉he is too cute