Why Do Children Take Their Fathers' Last Name?
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Do you think kids should be given their dad's last name?
In the case of the thumbnail, yes, Jones is a more interesting name, so that's all good. My dad's last name is Smith, so I wanna marry someone to get my last name changed so I'm not just straight-up ditching my family because Smith is a boring name. In my mind: more interesting names get priority if you don't live in a place where that's stigmatized :)
yes
Yes. Why not?
That's how it's always been since time immemorial.
@arnulfo267 that's a pretty white centered perspective on the whole topic but ok
@@gollossalkittydoesn’t Japan also do it the same way and I don’t think the Japanese are white
I once had this conversation with a lady and her boyfriend who both had quite feminist views and she actually said that if they ever had a child, it should have her partner's surname as how else would anyone know it was his? They would know the child was her's as she was actually pregnant, but the father could be anyone and she would want everyone to know it was his by therefore it should have his surname.
and what after the 9 months of her being pregnant? people can still be step mothers … i’m a bit confused on this perspective
I like the Spanish and Portuguese naming customs, where one family name is inherited from each parent.
@@indigomizumi Yes this is how I was named. Mother's last name and fathers after. It can make for some long ass names though lmao.
@@angelazsz Because the fact that a child has been born and is now three, four, five, ten, fifteen years old doesn't change the fact that his or her mother carried him or her for nine months all those years ago, and doesn't change the fact that his or her father did not.
As for stepmothers, nobody is going to allege that a stepmother is a real mother when she isn't, and nobody is going to wonder who a child's real mother is whether he or she has a stepmother or not.
@@Y2KikiiI think when the parents already have more than one surname they should be able to choose which to pass on. For example, Maria Lopez Almeida has a child with José Rodrigues Faria. The mom wants to pass her mother’s surname (Lopez) but the law doesn’t let her, she either has to pass her fathers surname of both. If this happens to both parents their child will be for example André Lopez Almeida Rodrigues Faria. If they had let the parents choose the surname they want to pass it would have been André Lopez Rodrigues. Simple.
As a Brazilian, we take the names from both parents
1st last name comes from mother's last last name (that comes from her father)
2nd last name comes from the father's last last name.
Example
Mary Jones Smith marries John Ford Peterson
Mary takes the last from the husband, becoming Mary Jones Smith Peterson.
Kids get their mom's last names, becoming
Joseph Smith Peterson
It works this way in Denmark as well!
Ummm... It's not standardized at ALL in Brazil. There are many ways people give their children a last name here, the one you listed is just one a of many.
That is not how it works here in Minas Gerais tho...
Same for Spanish; 'twas their way to differentiate between two Juan Pérez, Juan Pérez (Galleguillos) & Juan Pérez (Sánchez), and later the second name.
Mary was an ungrateful Daughter
Generally in Islamic culture women don’t take their husbands last name but children do.
true
And that the parents' nickname is only after their MALE firstborn (Mainly among Arabs, but not only).
What are you talking about women in Islam take their husband’s last names all the time
My mom did it and so do most
@@madnessarcade7447 my mother didnt
@@madnessarcade7447what effects you doesn't mean most people. Am not aware of any muslim culture where the wife takes the husbands name. In somali we have "abtiris" meaning father counting. A person's full name is name, fathers name, grandfather's name. If they're famous enough or meet certain criteria they take the clan's name (like my grandfather who was a famous sheikh). The woman never takes the husbands name as she's not descendants of his family. Idk how it is in your culture or where you live but what I know is names passed on paternally.
Both myself and my brother have our mom’s last name as our middle name, and our dad’s as our last name. I’m definitely glad they did it that way rather than double barreling, as in that case it would be ridiculously long. I’ve never met anyone else who’s parents did this, at least that I’m aware of. I think it’s a great solution to the issue of passing down names, though!
Quite common historically - lots of instances in my family tree.
I have some friends who have this. I think it's even common practice in the Philippines to name your child that way.
It would be so much fun, though, like if Roseanne Barr and Russell Crowe got married, their kids last name could be Crowe-Barr.
@@TrainsFerriesFeet
Okay this is too good. Can I use this for a character? I love it.
@@-alovelygaycat- It's a good party game - think of funny hyphenated names and silly drag names.
You can always use the mother’s name as a maiden name which was done a lot throughout history. This can also give the child connection to both sides of the family.
Funny scenario: both you and your GF have both the fathers and mothers names and then have to decide what to pick
Do you mean as a middle name? I've seen that a lot in genealogical research.
@@frankhooper7871 Yeah, I've seen a lot of maiden names used as middle names.
That's exactly how it works in Portugal and Brazil
If that were true, the whole world would know that my mother's family is Sicilian. But since most of us look like blond Anglo-Saxons due to Celtic and Germanic admixture, I use my very English middle name as my surname in my nom de plume as a writer of fiction.
I have my dad's last name, while my maternal half-brothers have our mother's last name. My mom even told me that my dad said it didn't matter what my given name was as long as I had his last name and I don't mind it, meanwhile my one of my half brothers was glad to have our mother's last name since not only did he hate his father's last name but also because his father barely did anything for him growing up.
Yeah, I regret giving my kids their bio father's name bc he's never been present in their lives, but my kids identify with the name so it'll stay that way.
And I was just feeling bad how I don’t have my dads last name but you help me open my eyes cause he’s never been in my life
Someone I know had a boat load of girls because the dad wanted a son to pass his name on. When I mentioned to a common friend between the two that "Girls can keep their names and pass them on just like boys" I got the deer in the headlights look.
boom! absolutely
They can but generally don’t
They legally can, but are statistically very unlikely to do so.
LOL. If it were very important to me to pass my last name on to future generations, there's no way I would sit back and rely on any daughter to do it, as they would be very unlikely to do so. @@angelazsz
i hate being a girl
“Tradition is just peer pressure from dead people.” Now I need that on a t-shirt!
Traditions are the answers to questions and problems we're not suffering because the dead people came with the solution.
Yeah.
I would buy it.
In Quebec, parents can choose either of their family names for their child, as well as create a compound one by merging their family names with an hyphen betwen them (ex: Smith & Cook = Smith-Cook or Cook-Smith). If the parents already have compound family names themselves, they can only select a single part. This prevent getting more than two merged together.
One other peculiar thing to note also for Quebec: Since 1981 spouses are actually *forbidden* to take on the other's family name after marriage (applies for both husband and wife, gender doesn't matter). You can do it "unofficially" in your day-to-day life, but for any Civil/Legal matters (signing contracts, governmental forms, etc) you *must* use the surname you were given at birth
In my Indian state of Meghalaya, we, the Khasi, Garo and Jaiñtia communities take our mothers' names.
For heterosexual relationships (in the western world) I think another reason for a woman taking the man’s last name and/or giving children the man’s last name could be to ensure paternity. Obviously, mothers do most of the work in creating a life, and most of the time it’s unquestionably her child. Whereas a man wouldn’t be 100% sure unless there was a DNA test. Before a DNA test, people relied on both partners respecting the sanctity of marriage. Naming the child with the husband’s last name would “ensure” it’s his child.
As our culture shifts secularly, marriage isn’t as binding as it used to be, so blended families and single parent families are more common, making traditional naming conventions confusing at times.
Personally, I don’t care what people do and it’s exciting to be seeing a shift in naming conventions in real time!
Kind of. The reality is it didn't convey explicit legal protection against being disowned and conversely it was entirely possible, especially if one was not a noble, to just name some random person their heir, in fact adult adoption used to (and in some countries still is) a practice for precisely that reason. The reality is that a lot of societies even now value patrilineal ancestry over matrilineal ancestry due to a mix of cultural norms and inheritance laws. A lot of cultures even traditionally used a naming scheme along the lines of "X son/daughter of Y" prior to the introduction of surnames, particularly across Eurasia and Northern Europe.
It's all fun and games until everything reverts to amazonian tribal tier because no one wants to invest in other men's children. By the way, it's not "heterosexual relationsihps", it's called "normal couples", and before you cry, I'm gay.
A friend of mine took his wife's last name as he had no emotional connection to his birth last name. He doesn't talk to his father. His wife also doesn't have any brothers so he wanted that name line to continue rather than his birth last name.
My kids have my wife’s name. It causes confusion. People think my wife is my girlfriend or that I have my wife’s name. I didn’t want my kids to have my name because my bio father left me as an infant so fuck that name.
You might want to consider changing your own last name to that of your wife.
@@alidaweber1023why?to be a disgrace to his name?
Nice to know that ur children took their mother's name
I like the idea of people taking the name of their occupation. "Hello, my name is Jeremy Hedge-Fund-Manager" or "Hi, I'm Lucy Histologist". Patrick Vlogger?
In Dutch a lot of last names also came from the town they were from. Like "Hi I'm Clarice from Houten", or "Hi I'm Vincent from Gogh".
Occupations are also a common origin:
Jan de Boer means John the Farmer
Norwegian here and it's quite common here to take on both parents' last names, but as a parent you have to choose which of your parent's last name you want to live on and which you want to keep once you marry someone as then it's typical to keep one of your previous last names and one from your partner. The last name you kept used to be your father's last name or which name was more famous, but I think people choose more what they want now.
As you become an adult you might only choose to have one of your last names on profiles and at work, but you will still have two last names on your passport. Of course many people still only have one last name at a time.
Wait, doesn't Norwegian law only let you have 1 surname (Or two if they're hyphenated together), But as many middle names as you want, Which can only be the same things as surnames?
As per usual, Scandinavia is among the top-tier options.
It’s good for the family to have one last name. It makes the family a more obvious and clear unit.
Agreed. And it should be the mother's name
@@SiSi-ju1xk You're doing the same thing, it should be up to the family themselves which name they want.
It shouldn't always be the dad's name or the mother's name, it should be what they want or what they feel best suits them.
I think the logical thing to do is to give to the child the family name that is the least common among those of their parents. There are many family names that are becoming extinct due to some families having only female children. This process is inevitable and can only worsen through time. If we don't do something eventually people will end up having all the same family name.
Because human societies tend to be patriarchal?
Fair enough
This ^^^
neolithic revolution..
No need to fix what's not broken.
I'm Brazilian and I have both my mom's and my dad's last name. It's pretty common here to get both and most people have two or even three last names. I didn't know this wasn't the rule in most parts of the world
It's really bad when the parents aren't even married and people expect the kid to have the father's name. I've heard mothers ask what to do in that situation.
My partner and I had our baby in 2022. (I'm her mom) We gave her a hyphenated last name with both of our last names. I come from a really unique cultural and linguistic background with detailed naming traditions and she is my only child at 39 years old. I am the only child with my fathers last name as his only biological child. Our daughter is the only grandchild on my side of the family. I didn't want my last name to dissappear.
I have both my mother’s and father’s last names, which is common in Latino culture, but when I have children, I plan on passing on my mom’s last name, as well as my future partner’s last name
My partner and I decided that we weren't going to get married unless it was going to be easier than writing a will. (You can get married for less than £200 and you don't need a ring, or vows, or any of that nonsense). But if we were to get married, no one's name would change.
If we had a child, they'd take hers. My name is Johnson and hers is Marshall. Marshall is cooler.
Marshall does sound cooler
While I think the formal Spanish naming convention is more fair to both parents, Spanish culture is definitely less feminist than the English.
I definitely agree
Which is really saying something considering...ALL of English history...
Wow how rare, an anglo making baseless assumptions and comparisons to make himself feel better about a culture his not a part of, So humble and knowledgeable.
@@BN.ja05 My grandfather was Mexican, and I grew up in East San Jose. You are making unfounded assumptions. So Mexican immigrants, or Chicanos place women in a better status than Irish, or Germans? Anglo in California usage is describing a disparate group.
You being mexican-american or having mexican descent does not give you permission to make such loose generalizations about a group as diverse as hispanics, your family anecdote is not true for anybody else. PS the Irish and germans are not anglos, the Irish are not even germanic unlike their British neighbours, but they do share a lot culturally with spaniards as they are both traditionally catholic countries.
I absolutely love how often you post. Always great content
In Chinese culture, women don’t typically take their husbands last name, but their children do. In Hispanic cultures, women don’t typically change their name as well, but they inherit both their mom and dad’s last names as well as the children
Also in Chinese culture, women changing their last name was typically seen as a bad thing since it indicated a bad relationship with their father
In Mexican culture women do take the man’s last name. I don’t know about Asians that’s your peoples thing don’t suppose my culture puto!
@@gilbertflores6218Their name is Paulina and you think they are ASIAN? Are you fucking dense pendejo??
@@paulinaruiz928I don’t have any Chinese friends that practice what you just wrote… oh well 😅
In my family sons take Dads name, daughters take Moms name. Not as sexist as the traditional system
A child should get both the parent's last names...or it can be like the girl child gets the father's and the boy child gets the mother's...girls should also carry on their legacy...and i have met many men who question the traditional system..god bless them beacuse most men don't!
My son’s last name is my wife’s last name. So far we haven’t had a problem, however people do find it strange.
Update: Pediatrician thought my wife and I were not married because of the last name of the baby. Looking forward to the next awkward situation because of the last name.
French musical duo Les Rita Mitsouko (Catherine Ringer and Fred Chichin) never married and had three children. The daughters were given their mother's surname (Ringer) and their son was given the father's surname (Chichin).
“Tradition is just peer pressure from dead people" oh my gosh I love this; filing that one away for sure.
Thank you for making this video..and raising this question...we need more such videos!
When I get married, I am planning on my partner and I giving ourselves a new last name. Not mine. Not theirs. A unified new name.
I will probably get married to a guy, and we’d be straight-passing couple, but still.
I’d make a whole new name, a mixed name (like ‘ship’ names), or hyphenated (their name - my name). But I like a whole new name the most.
So, it’s obvious. The baby would have the same last name as both of us. A new name.
I always found it weird, since in Venezuela, the wife keeps her last name but adds her husbands’ with a “de” (which means of.. kinda possessive but at least they keep both)
And the children has both last names
Name - Dad’s last name - Mom’s last name
We should follow the sims 4. The babies there always get their mothers name as default. I don't get how mothers get to carry the baby for 9 months, experience many limitations and hardships because of that pregnancy and traditionally used to take care of the baby but somehow the fathers got to keep all the credits for the baby
Also there is no doubt wether or not its the mom's kid!
Just makes sense.
I’m from a country, where last names are treated more as a nickname rather then family names, and yeah I think it’s safe to say, I was surprised when I found out a lot people in the same family have the same last name
My grandparents started a tradition in my family of adopting the wife's maiden name as a middle name. So in the example they would become Mary Smith Jones and Robert Smith Jones. Then their son would be Benjamin Smith Jones.
Similar to double barrelled names except it doesn't result in exponentially longer names over time.
When my parents got married, My dad only agreed to let my mom take his last name if he could take hers as well, And they then passed both on to me and my brothers too. Well technically they gave us our mother's name as a second middle name rather than a surname, Presumably just because it was less bureaucracy or something, But I would like to change it so they're both my legal surnames if possible.
In Brazil we take both parents surname,but still patriarchal since it’s always the grandfathers surname
I never thought about this because it just isn't true for my environment. The majority of people I know have their mothers name
"Tradition is not the worship of ashes but the preservation of fire" -Gustav Mahler
My great-great granddad's father was unknown so he took his mother's surname and that's still my family name today.
My big sister often jokingly refers to her household with the portmanteau 'Raveboss' from her and her husband's last name.
Meanwhile my little sister went for the "revive an old surname" option for her (heterosexual) marriage.
Meanwhile:
The Akan who gave their children surnames named after relatives and close friends to signify their close ties: 🗿
8:42 it's Morbin' time
I know that kid is purely theoretical, but I still pity them
Name Explain saying “do names even matter?” was not on my 2023 bingo card
In Brazil we usually take the last names from both. More specifically, we take both of our grandfather's last names.
I've always wondered this, thought it was a weird rule as a kid. I still do.
In the Filipino naming convention, when I was a kid, it didn't make sense to me that me and my mother adapted my father's surname but my father didn't adapt my mother's surname
I was born to an alcoholic druggie abusive woman who had 10 kids and didnt know who the father of any of them was and she kept getting her kids taken out if her custody before they turned 4 months old cuz she kept trying to kill all of us cuz she didnt want us so all of us had to keep her last name cuz she didnt know which giy was the father nof any of her kids cuz she was only with a guy fir less then a few months and move on when she couldn't get any drinks or drugs s*x from them anymore so sye would move on to the next giy who would give her what she wanted. she didnt care about any of her kids, she neglected us starved us beat us burned us broke our bones and just didnt want us. Why she kept getting pregnant and carrying to full term and birthing all 10 kids and not even wanting to take care of us i have no idea why. Who the hell does that, has that many kids, physically grows them for 9 months, go thu labor amd child birth but not give a single dn about us or even want us.....if you honestly didnt want kids then why keep getting pregnant and birthing them.
It just pisses me off so much that she would treat us the way she did. And it's something that i dont lnow how to move past, im almost 30 years old now and i still cant wrap my head around why she would do what she did and it angers me beyond belief.
I prefer my mum's last name over my dad's. If it weren't such a pain to change it legally, I would absolutely switch.
My sister-in-law has two kids with who she allowed to take on her husband's uncle's last name because of how much of a father figure he was to her husband.
My only critique is your view on tradition. To quote a famous saying: "Tradition isn't the worship of ashes. But rather the keeping of fire."
Maybe we should like many of the natives and name the child after they are born so we can know their personalities and which name fits the best
Here in Germany I would say its more common that the baby has the mothers name as long as they are not married. When I was born I had my moms last name, when they got married then we all took my dads name.
I only know 1 person that named their child by the fathers last name, the rest take their mothers name🤷🏼♀️
There is a crucial matter regarding in surnames: sucession and inheritance. It is a basic topic in Civil Law.
One example of when the mother's last name is used, by the way, is if the kid is born out of wedlock.
As a Mexican, having both your parents name it's not just common, it's a law. It was orinally stablished by Spaniards to all the Spanish empire in the 19th century, and then we kept it even after independization.
The practice of the woman taking her husband's last name after marriage always felt... wrong to me, like you are making SOMEONE else, your property. And the thought of just getting one last name maked no sense to me; in Mexico names normally are made up from 3 to 5 words, so it's a bit difficult to met someone with an exactly identical name as your's, therefore, leading to less confusions, but with just one name, and one last name, it's really easy to get confuse (at least in my viewpoint)
Sorry for the bad english
My wife did not take on my name when we got married, but our kid has my name. It was never discussed or questioned.
It just came to me, that the English name Eustace and the German name Justus are pronounced very similar (nearly identical) despite both come from other greek words. Eustace means "the stable", while Justus means "the just".
I suggest you speak about that.
@halfeye9382 That is a trick I started using in genealogy long time ago. Same thing as you; it just hit me one day.
In my culture, nobody takes names. Parents and siblings each have their own unique names. So I find people arguing about name taking odd. Its not like we are no longer a family even if our name are all completely different. Dad is still dad, mom is still mom and so does my bro and sis. I dont get it.
I saw the thumbnail, I thought you'd talk about incest.
The heckmin
I have both. But use my dad's out of convenience. Some countries I know to give child the mother's last name if the couple is not married.
I was born with my father‘s last name, but have officially changed it to my mother’s last name. If I had wanted children, I would have given them my name, no question about it 😂
Your a disgrace
Bro your Children would had your Husband's last name not your's kid 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Firstly, I'm not your bro.
Secondly, in Switzerland wives can keep their maiden name and give it to their children 🙄
Well, now I have new books on my Wishlist.
I have both last names of my mother’s and Father’s last name, because I have the Spanish tradition of having two last names.
my parents just gave me a double barreled name... the easy solution to have both family names...
We think about lines of sovereigns via the fathers name, hence we say Queen Anne was the last of the Stuarts because we ignored the fact that George I was the great grandson of James I but via the daughter of James I and then the grand daughter of James I. So we ignore the fact that he acceded to the throne because he "was" a Stuarts but via the female line.
I believe that most people should rebel against that tradition
Hah never my forefathers fought with Honor to keep my last name safe and visible for others now you want my children to get last name of a whore? And that whores last name was his father's last name so no that can't be
Some societies historically formed as patrilineal and patrilocal and some as matrilineal and matrilocal.
Brazil, Portugal, and other Portuguese-colonized countries also give children both parents' last names.
My great-great grandpa's last name was originally his mother's, Walker. She got that last name from her mother. His dad's last name was Moses. The two families were in a feud, and my great-great grandpa's parents got into a dispute over his paternity, so his dad (Moses) ran away to Texas and got a girl pregnant with twin girls. When the girls were born, he abandoned them and came back to Tennessee and gave my great-great grandpa his last name, Moses. There were many other messed-up details, but that's basically why my last name is Moses and not Walker. 😃
@CarolineMosesComedy As a genealogist, I'm betting your tree is pretty amazing. The place I've seen similar situations the most is post Civil War Ohio. Guys with 2 or 3 families that don't know about the others. Women who had up to 4 husbands because she'd get a new one, and then he'd die. Wild stuff.
@grayhatjen5924 Thanks. I'm an amateur genealogist and started getting into it a few years ago at age 15. While my family tree has some pretty wild stories, all family trees are interesting in different ways. It's really cool to learn!
@@CarolineMosesComedy My last name would've been walker as well but my grandma insisted on my dad having her last name when he was born
In Portugal the "tradition" of giving a surname at birth (or at baptism) is rather recent: 1911. Until then, when children were baptised, they were only assigned "given" (or "baptismal") name(s), no surname was added. They would remain surname-less until adulthood/marriage, and only at that point would they adopt a surname (or more), which could be from the father, from the mother, from both (the order being free), from a grandparent...
Siblings might adopt different surnames, for whatever reason: e.g. if a Pedro, son of Maria Cruz and João Silva, had an older cousin also named Pedro that was known as Pedro Silva, the younger Pedro could adopt Cruz (Pedro Cruz), to avoid ambiguity.
Nowadays, most people have both maternal and paternal surname(s).
In Finland, children get their mother's name before they are officially named. In the past, the "Christian tradition" has been that after baptism the child takes the father's last name, but nowadays this name rule has been liberalized, which leaves more room for choice and the child can keep the mother's surname. This has also reduced the situation where divorced mothers hate their children because they have their ex's last name.
I filled for divorce from my abusive husband while I was pregnant. My baby boy has my name.
when my dad married my mom, he made her change her last name, because her last name was actually still her ex's name
My brother and me have mom's last name instead of dad's
Some last names with on ending dropped it like Williamson to Williams.
I think it's strange that kids don't have both the parents last name or just the mother's instead. My reason is that you know who the mother is 100 percent. The same can't be said for the father.
Hyphenated last names have been common recently, too, so as to give the baby’s mom’s last name and the dads; basically the best of both worlds! My mom has both her dad’s last name and her new name from her husband, and I might do that too, if I ever get married. Also hyphenated last names are common bc some families have two very different religions/cultures, and they want to keep both of the differences of cultures names alive, which I love too! ☺️(my mom did this, too; kept her dad’s Italian last name, and added her new Polish last name from her husband)
In my country, Uruguay, until very recently, a baby would get their dad's last name, and that was law. However, women retain their last name after marriage, again, by law (this is common in most Spanish speaking countries). Since the legalisation of gay marriage, however, parents can choose which partner's last name the baby will have.
¿No se usan apellidos en Uruguay? ¿Sólo el apellido paterno?
My mom was a single parent and when I was born and I was given her last name. My son however has my husband's last name but since he is our only child, I was cool with that so his name can be passed on.
This further proves my theory that traditions are not laws unless you’re royalty.
Read one sci-fi book series when I was young where it seemed that the primary alien culture we see had a parent be given a surname that was their parent's given name, they had a completely new given name, and their own kid would inherit that with their own fresh name. No idea on what happened with parents with multiple children or if there were ever multiple parents involved; didn't get further than book 3 or 4. Tho I do recall they also had a peculiar convention of taking in their eggs at a specific period, and re-assign them, so that your odds of raising your own genetic offspring were minuscule, on a basis of you'll instinctively want to protect ALL children as any one of them could be "yours".
Here’s the solution to this problem: both parents keep their last name, sons get the dad’s last name and daughters get the mom’s last name
Tradition shouldn't impede human progress.
Maybe last names will become obsolete altogether in the future.
It's very important to know history. Many of these traditions are in fact not even hundreds of years old.
8:42 was that morbin reference intentional?
If kids are consistently given both their parent's names, then in a few generations the names will be ridiculously long.
Combining it into one sounds better.
No you can just keep giving one name from each parent.
love the inexplicably tiny pacific ocean at 0:35
i’m congolese - i have my dads last name but it’s quite common for people to have a last name made or two names. for example, my sisters last name is composed of her grandmother’s name and her father’s name.
Same with me
So if the babies are given both parents last name what happens when that baby grows up and has a baby? Then that baby has a baby? That's a lot of names to be put in one last name. In three generations this is going to be common "Hi I'm Paul Irwin-Adams Franklin-Kerr Smith-Freeman".
my nana had her mothers maiden name as her middle name
My parents already strayed away from the tradition, because my dad is a Latino, and I desire to stick to that tradition too.
I assume you're from the USA.
Well, I'm from the prosperous West, but not exactly the Gringos.
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If you're from the USA, you're an American. You being "Latino" is irrelevant. A gringo is an unwanted foreigner. If you're from the USA, you're a gringo.
Not applicalble in Portuguese speaking countries as well, so mark Brazil and Portugal in red as well.
My FIL has his mother's maiden name, though in his case it was because he predated his parents marriage. That must've been a bit of a scandal in 1951.
My children have a hyphenated name, emphasis on mine, not my husband's. DH wanted to give them just mine (his has an unfortunate rhyme) Fortunately, they had us (me) fill out the kids' birth certificates. Saves a lot of trouble that way. (DH is too visually impaired to fill out actual papers; he does the virtual ones)
Rebellion against this tradition would support feminism, too.
What about the child taking the last name of the parent who is the same gender as them, so that sons take their father's last name and daughters take their mother's last name?
There is another important consideration to make with regard to carrying the father's last name, which is namely genealogy. With DNA becoming such a popular component of genealogical research, having a consistent naming structure is more than helpful with regard to searching for ancestors and validating them via DNA. Indeed, many a "brick wall" has been created by ancestors who had arbitrarily changed their last names or changes in spelling, which happened for various reasons, not the least of which was rampant illiteracy. The system of taking the father's last name has proven to be essential for tracing family lineage since the time of the Norman Invasion.
Something that is never uncertain is who the mother is why not have the mother's last name.
A lot of traditions are awesome