MALE GAZE VS. FEMALE GAZE OUTFITS! WHICH ARE BETTER FOR YOU?

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  • čas přidán 23. 01. 2024
  • #malegaze #femalegaze #dressingforthemalegaze #dressingforthefemalegaze #malegazeoutfits #femalegazeoutfit
    A B O U T T H E V I D E O
    heyyyy! continuing our conversation about the male gaze vs the female gaze, i wanted to elaborate on the outfits that the two entail.
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Komentáře • 78

  • @Camila-sc7wf
    @Camila-sc7wf Před 4 měsíci +365

    I thought your female gaze outfit in the last video was so cool, idc what people say😤

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  Před 4 měsíci +31

      aww thanks so much ✨🤍

    • @kaisumi2678
      @kaisumi2678 Před 4 měsíci +16

      same like????

    • @Camila-sc7wf
      @Camila-sc7wf Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@cocochinelo You're welcome🤍

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a Před 4 měsíci +11

      It was it ateeeeee

    • @Tevs91
      @Tevs91 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I liked it! I rock fits like that too

  • @Ginza92
    @Ginza92 Před 4 měsíci +206

    Straight male here. I don't know if there's a word to describe someone that's attracted to both male and female gaze outfits, but you look gorgeous in any outfit.

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  Před 4 měsíci +74

      you are just a lover of all styles, and that’s great :)

  • @emilydenny5276
    @emilydenny5276 Před 3 měsíci +48

    I'm 40 seconds in and girl whAAAAT, your "female gaze" outfit in your first video was TOP TIER (and exactly as you mentioned might have been the case, I might have been too in awe and intimidated by how cool you looked to compliment you directly)

  • @gsanchez5116
    @gsanchez5116 Před 3 měsíci +14

    “Maturing as a woman is realizing not everything has to be bodycon” FACTS 💯💯💯 I was around 17 when body con/insta models were just coming up and I did the whole go to gym, only glute and leg workouts, only tight very showy clothes in my closet. I’m now 23, I’ve accepted im still skinny and not curvy and that’s how I was made, and I now wear clothes that are baggy/cover up most of my body

  • @Kamiivlogzz
    @Kamiivlogzz Před 4 měsíci +140

    U should make this a series I really enjoy these type of videos!

  • @jadethegemme
    @jadethegemme Před 4 měsíci +78

    no cause your social experiment video acc inspired me to make a video analyzing my own outfits for the male/female gaze a few weeks ago similar to this one!! :) so glad to see you continuing this dialogue

  • @kaisumi2678
    @kaisumi2678 Před 4 měsíci +21

    the last outfit was too cute. im going to try and recreate

  • @AyeshaNoelle
    @AyeshaNoelle Před 4 měsíci +41

    Love that you made another video! Crossing my fingers this is becoming a series 😍 I agree that the female gaze is about what you as a woman feel good about without worrying what others might say or think. I feel more comfortable in fitting clothes, with a boho touch, so love layering on top of body con clothes. Weirdly enough the streetwear baggy clothes feel more like I’m one with the boys, which makes me feel awkward.

  • @thisislenard
    @thisislenard Před 4 měsíci +27

    your streetwear style is fkn amazing, love the baggy silhouettes! very creative

  • @alainasmalling1347
    @alainasmalling1347 Před 4 měsíci +23

    i’m trying to be in my fashion era sm and ur saving me 🥹

  • @bekaht3076
    @bekaht3076 Před 4 měsíci +10

    OBSESSSSEDDDD with the female gaze fits esp with the second fit, the way it's body con but would kinda likeee throw men off with the baggy short and tall boot is DELICIOUS. the male gaze fits seem to appeal only to sexuality and female gaze fits seem to appeal to SO much more, maybe including sexuality but absolutely not limited to it

  • @gracelotoaso
    @gracelotoaso Před 4 měsíci +14

    Personally…I LOVED YOUR FEMALE GAZE OUTFIT IN NOT JUST THIS VIDEO BUT YOUR FIRST MALE VS FEMALE GAZE VIDEO!!!! It actually inspired me to wear something similar not long after watching it coz I loooove baggy everything too!! If you think like your last video fLoPpEd then let me tell you girl IT DID NOT! Go offfffff!!!!!

  • @user-pz2vk3pf7c
    @user-pz2vk3pf7c Před 4 měsíci +2

    Bruh that last female gaze outfit was so freaking good I didn’t even expect that I would hear you say people didn’t like it

  • @shrutivedasarkar4504
    @shrutivedasarkar4504 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Girl, I love your hopps😭

  • @AmakaIntellectualFactory
    @AmakaIntellectualFactory Před 4 měsíci +14

    I absolutely LOOOVE you are revisiting this topic! For me, attraction goes beyond looks, although looks also play a crucial role. I have found that when I admire women, it is more of the feminine woman types. However, when a stud female exhibits a nurturing side to her, then that gets my attention. PLEASE CONTINUE TO REVISIT THIS TOPIC. I LOVE IT! YOU ROCK!😍❤

  • @Partygetsmew3tterrr
    @Partygetsmew3tterrr Před 4 měsíci +6

    I love all of the outfits u put on in these video and other’s videos in this series. You really inspire me to dress how i want to dress no matter what others think(lol this sounds corny but im so frr😭)

  • @silvanamanea7237
    @silvanamanea7237 Před 2 měsíci +1

    girl u are soo pretty coco jones's twin frrr

  • @alinesaes2573
    @alinesaes2573 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Love that Chinelo means literally Flipflops here in Brasil 😂 also, loved the experiment and the video ❤

  • @soleyaastra7099
    @soleyaastra7099 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Female gaze outfit n°2 was GORGEOUS and definitely inspiring ❤

  • @user-cp5iy8gn1q
    @user-cp5iy8gn1q Před 2 měsíci

    MAKE THIS A SERIES I LOVE ITTT

  • @rainniebee
    @rainniebee Před 4 měsíci +3

    i love love love the last outfit in this video, it’s so fun and definitely something i would wear

  • @celiajose2846
    @celiajose2846 Před 3 měsíci

    You go girl….. I aspire to be comfortable in my own style like that..

  • @DunDunDun45
    @DunDunDun45 Před 4 měsíci

    Your outfits are nothing but inspiring. I really do aspire to dress like you

  • @quessiabuhinja
    @quessiabuhinja Před 4 měsíci +2

    You look amazing as always!!😍😍😍😍

  • @aysiareynolds9662
    @aysiareynolds9662 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Second one, heyyy gurl 🥰

  • @marle102
    @marle102 Před dnem

    Hannah Montana was referencing Bjork’s swan dress at the 2001 Oscars

  • @End-ve4du
    @End-ve4du Před 4 měsíci +3

    Yayyy❤ earlyy

  • @honeyywheat
    @honeyywheat Před 4 měsíci +3

    So where are those earrings from?! 😅 They fit every outfit

  • @chyennetatum3541
    @chyennetatum3541 Před 3 měsíci

    12:55 oooh why do we have the same life experiences 😂😭😭

  • @BleahBleah-uk8yq
    @BleahBleah-uk8yq Před 4 měsíci +2

    If ur going to wear those outfits, csn u make analysis on ppl’s reaction to them, like in ur other video. I’m interested in what new insights u discover

  • @Amagaisie
    @Amagaisie Před 4 měsíci +1

    Female gaze #2 😍

  • @user-rb1ww1uu8t
    @user-rb1ww1uu8t Před 3 měsíci +3

    Baggy baggy jeans - NCT U

  • @serenacoke6929
    @serenacoke6929 Před 4 měsíci +12

    I guess I’m a male then

  • @jessicaEgo
    @jessicaEgo Před 3 měsíci

    I need that hair tutorial

  • @MK-tm8oj
    @MK-tm8oj Před 4 měsíci +1

    Where’s the orange top from?

  • @annamarie2496
    @annamarie2496 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The outfit of the white strapless dress and black long Bermuda shorts with the high boots was honestly iconic. I loved how honest and raw you were about how it was personal to you and it reminded you of your childhood. The 2000s Disney fashion! I felt that deep! You rocked it 1000000% better than all of them! You’re right fashion is for you for us to express ourselves! I just found you and I love you. I heard you when you said you wanted to come to Miami. I am in not even 2 hours away, let’s be friends!

  • @leilanamiq07
    @leilanamiq07 Před 3 měsíci

    What about the original shop of the jumper dress 😭 pls

  • @Mariajose-ry8pt
    @Mariajose-ry8pt Před 4 měsíci +5

    First one yaayyy

  • @LovelyLittleLillies
    @LovelyLittleLillies Před měsícem +1

    You might personally enjoy baggy clothes, but I wouldn't consider it female gaze to be frank. It's give more butch gaze, and only butch women or insecure women who also hide in baggy clothes would admire. Look #2 tgat you had for male gaze is what I personally (as a more girly girl) would typically imagine as a female gaze. Women still like and enjoy feminity in other women and doll-like aoperances (for example: admiring hair that's done and makeup). Female gaze is more like cute dresses like that one that have interesting and fun shapes. Thought it was short and thought it was a little hugging, I'd see it more as a female gaze dress bc of it's fun and fashionable style. Female gaze is typically girly-derived things like pink and glittery dresses, pretty miniskirts, ribbons in your hair, cherry, lips, and other fun fruits like strawberries motifs. Take Lana Del Rey for example and how she was big on those things, like red-heart-shaped sunglasses glasses. If you take note of Harley Quinn in birds of Prey, as it was noted, it's full on female gaze. That's why her hair is in cute pigtails and died pink at the ends. It's her fashionable cute outfits, including outfits that look fun. You can notice when a movie is centered on the female gaze, because fashion is more trendy and maybe to an extent "experimntsl" in the sense that male-gaze centered outfits are very bland: ou don't need much details in the cut of the dress, just do a badic strappy slip dress cut short, with cleave ge in one plain color and it's honestly enough. It's that simple.
    In your previous video you were getting complements on your male centered outfit bc the fur hat looked so cute and was definitely a female gaze piece, plus the combo of a form fitting jumpsuit with the fur hat looked really cute. But if you took off the hat it would be a standard male gaze outfit. Tho I'd still give you a compliment bc your body looked so good!
    Maybe the young generation is enjoying baggy silliouhettes of the current fashion trends, but the areay of mini skirts you had with the y2k trend is a better representation of female gaze. I think fashions and movies pre this decade did better job of portraying and revealing what the female gaze is.

    • @lucid_3938
      @lucid_3938 Před 9 hodinami

      Female gaze is personal, I feel like you missed the point

  • @kittyp121
    @kittyp121 Před 3 měsíci

    How can I dress for the male gaze when I'm fat? The only thing I like to show is cleavage or shoulders. I have my own style that I really love, I'm more a dark romantik type, always wear long skirts and dresses, velvet, lace, ruffles, accessoiries, hats. But I don't like that I always seem to be invisible for men. I don't want to die alone.

  • @leilanamiq07
    @leilanamiq07 Před 3 měsíci +1

    BRO WHAT!!! The female gaze outfit was so fliping beautiful omggg the baggy trousers with the white boots and the jacket over the shirt ugh is was amazing! They just have rlly bad taste and no sense of fashion

  • @marvin2678
    @marvin2678 Před 3 měsíci

    So youre saying most women dress for men ?

  • @crisvis8905
    @crisvis8905 Před 17 dny

    The term "male gaze" isn't about a man looking at you. And there is no such thing about male or female gaze outfits. I really shouldn't have to mansplain this to a woman 💀

  • @ChrissyFraser
    @ChrissyFraser Před 4 měsíci +2

    I’m so glad that you knew that second female gaze outfit was trash. I love you and I’m not saying that you can’t pair dress with pants but just don’t go out in that outfit that you put on. There’s a way to do it just not that cause as a woman I wouldn’t even approach you because I’d be like what the heck does she have on versus the other the other female gaze outfit I would definitely wear those or even approach you to ask you where you got them from but that second outfit I would avoid you like the black plague

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  Před 4 měsíci +14

      life is not about being approached. it’s about doing what makes you happy regardless of people’s opinions. will be wearing that outfit out today, but thank you for your feedback ✨🤍

    • @maryamasomewhathuman.7870
      @maryamasomewhathuman.7870 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@cocochineloyou're literally the sweetest girl

    • @lw5820
      @lw5820 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I mean who said she wants to be approached tho😭

    • @tfg-oq2sc
      @tfg-oq2sc Před 4 měsíci

      You didn't need to use that many words to say u don't like it... just move on, no need to be rude. I like the outfit, I would wear it without a hat

    • @ChrissyFraser
      @ChrissyFraser Před 4 měsíci

      @@tfg-oq2sc so then you wouldn’t wear that outfit if you feel like you need to alter it in order to make it fit you and if I wanted to write a page essay I can y’all be saying anything cute just cause. Some things are ugly and that’s fine